Hey. I'm needing some advice. I've been talking to this girl for 3 weeks. She's 21. We really vibe together well. I fucked her like a god damn animal, had her screaming. People in the dorms heard that shit and always laugh when I walk past. This girl is definitely a 8/10.

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She kept mentioning her ex the entirety of me talking with her basically. He apparently has 2 kids she didn't know about. She told me she hated him and that he was a liar. The night before last, she went to the bar with a friend. I told them I'd walk them home to make sure they were safe (I have no car but live near the bar, I'm a bouncer (it's actually how me met)).

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Anyways, she tells me while I'm walking her back to my dorm that she saw he ex and that she just ignored him. She said she though about me the whole night. When we got back she wanted some dick, but I told her I wasn't comfortable with that because I wasn't drunk myself.

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Yesterday she told me that she still had feelings for her ex even though she also said she hates him... she even said her friends thought she was a dumbass. She told me this yesterday and I told her that I respect her feelings and that if she doesn't feel the same way about me then maybe we shouldn't talk anymore.

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I texted her today because honestly I really fucking like her but I know this is such a shitty situation. I'm a rising sophomore in college, she's hot, owns her own business, and is ambitious. I just talked to her and said I'm fine with being friends (she still wants to be friends to since she said I'm a cool guy), and we are going tubing this weekend. Thing is... I still want a relationship with her. She told me she's afraid of being hurt and lied to. I just don't know what to do with this situation... I know I fucked up earlier when we first fucked by saying I was only interested in a relationship and not FWB, but honestly that's just how I feel, but maybe keeping that window open could have allowed me to sway her?

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Please give me some honest feedback. I know I probably sound like a fucking jack ass.