27, high functioning autistic, homeless and starting from scratch. Seeking habit advice, and general advice. Have I missed the boat?

athrowaway-9001 · 2021-06-06T18:58:01+00:00

Start with the very basics before you venture out too much. It's good to have big dreams but you need to take care of what you can within your means first.

Get a job if you don't have one already and get your own place of living if you can. Depending on where you live, you should be able to find rooms for rent.

On top of food experience, a lot of places are hiring because people are trying to milk out unemployment until its gone. So there's a lot of places that are trying to get work and even paying people bonuses.

Places that work with food generally give their employees free food or discounted food for you so take advantage of that.

If you need to, look into food stamps too. Until you are able to get on your feet.

Once your basics are covered, you can start working on your physique. Look up exercises that you can use your own bodyweight to help build a base for yourself until you can afford a gym membership.

Once things are stable for you, work on getting an education. Not sure how well the job market is for psychology, but make sure to check availability for the education that you are paying for.

BlackSeaGull99 · 2021-06-06T21:07:54+00:00

I m in sort of a similar situation although a bit different. I m 31 yo, currently unemployed and started an online coding bootcamp that should be over in 3 months. Got back in the gym last few months and already see some results. Never slept around in my 20s due to being super low value and quite beta.

So, i haven't made it, but in the process of making it, first 2 things i need to take care of is employable skill that will make me money and building a strong fit body before i start to deal with women.

So you are still young, if i was 27 now instead of 31 i would be so happy, as i m super behing my peers, its crazy.

My advice to you is to get a min wage job and find your own place, some studio apartment but live by yourself not in a homeless place.

In the meantime join a gym and either study some courses online and even part time bootcamps for coding or if coding not for you go into a trade- electrician, plumber, welder, etc, but make sure to have a proper employable skill in the next 2,3 years, so you can get out of the min wage slavery.

Then you can focus more on pussy but until then should be very limted in that sense, unless its in front of you and is easy lay. By 35 you should be a well rounded quality guy with good value.

ImpossibleFarts · 2021-06-06T22:49:03+00:00

Start off with getting rid of the first label you mentioned.

You got that idea to identify some of your behaviors and give them some explanation.

No way you are an autistic person with 10 years in a kitchen and making drinks.

danaw1992 · 2021-06-11T20:51:38+00:00

You didn't miss anything, my friend. You are still very young and that's an absolute fact, I am not just saying it to make you feel better. You are going to encounter challenges, but as long as you keep working on your goals things will be getting better

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