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You need to find a mission and a purpose. A couple of hobbies to boot, and you'll be good to go. You are in a position in life that many men would kill for. Now, you just need to find a goal to work towards. Give back to your community, family, and people who have helped you along the way. Continue to maintain a proper physique. You're free from the rat race. You have no strings. Question is-- what will you do now?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 01:14 PM
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Keyword: Consisting mainly of men. He never said family would not be part of the equation. I've found some of the best company to keep are those that aren't my blood, but are still my family. loving children and a wife Children? Sure. Wife? Only loving until you prove you aren't the man you are or a better option comes up.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 01:07 PM
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I've seen it firsthand. Not a pretty sight but it is an eye opener seeing him bring them home
/r/TheRedPill14/05/23 02:02 AM
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Predictions: Porn companies will pay legitimate scientists to find out the most toxic, numb-minding, addicting combination possible so that they can min-max their shitty porn ads. There will be no second thought put into it; after all the porn industry has a stake of billions of dollars. They couldn't possibly pass up the opportunity. It is saddening to see the current state of men. Cancel culture and false rape accusations in full effect. Young boys shamed to be masculine. Generations of young …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/23 01:09 AM
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People shitting on the post when you took the time to amass this post is hilarious. Post is solid and will help the autists learn basic subtle ways that a girl is attracted to them. There's no fluff and just gets straight to the point.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 03:40 AM
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I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with it. Sure it doesn't appeal to everybody, but fuck em.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 07:00 AM
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God forbid GLO posts in his usual verbose, albeit sometimes pedantic way. Sorry it's not cut into a nice little tiktok 10s reel for you to digest.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 04:27 AM
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Give her the dong, tell her so long, and thank her for all of her insane antics that helped make you so strong. A nice little wordplay to help the attention impaired learn basic trp
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 03:52 AM
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Girls just want to have fun. Hence why they're at the club in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 03:26 AM
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Great analysis of masculine nature. There's a good reason why girls constantly want to go out to Disneyland and Vegas-- they just want an escape from their own mundane lives. They want their feels to be off the charts. Plus it's another way for them to gauge the market so to speak. They're able to get plenty of validation from any betas that feed that fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 07:16 PM
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I can guarantee if you are willing and motivated to improve your physique-- you would make the time to do so. I see the average Joe working laborious jobs like construction, trade jobs and what not and they still make the time to make the gym.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 04:38 PM
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After taking an unfortunate deep dive into OPs wonderful post history-- I can safely conclude that he only derives satisfaction in troll posts with the hope of people biting and eating his posts up. Frequents 4chan, conspiracy theories and even " daddit" with his "daughter" (where he shows borderline softcore CP). Either this guy is legitimately deranged out of his mind or trolling because he has nothing else going on in his life. Either way, it is a bit concerning.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 06:35 AM
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In light of the influx of posts reeking of insecurity and asking why they can't get laid... Very first sentence of the post. Reading comprehension is gone too it seems
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 10:56 PM
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Scientists hate him for this one infinite pussy hack! /s If that was your takeaway, than by all means you're right. It's not like the girls reciprocated his interests in any way or even entertained the idea of smoking with such a fine specimen of a human being in the first place. I've seen too many guys who excell in every regard that this particular individual is severely lacking in, who get too caught up in their heads about women.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 02:14 PM
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This guy is a character in his own right. The sad part is that he is perfectly content with where he is. Otherwise he would've taken action by now. He barely has to pay rent, doesn't have to pay car payments, and from what I've heard doesn't even really pay for any of his kids. All of his baby mamas know he is a loser.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 10:25 AM
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The more I'm out and about, the more I see guys without their balls. I'm just here to enjoy the decline
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 03:02 AM
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Never even specified their race or height. It's just another metric/label that doesn't serve you in the end.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 02:47 AM
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I don't think fulfilling one's sexual needs makes him a psychopathic narc. Being outcome independent is just acceptance of what is; that male and female nature is inherently just that. I think you're thinking of it too black and white when there's so much nuances that go into it. Yes there will be people that do gratify themselves with the body count. However, that wasn't the point of the post regardless. I'm advocating for people to get out of their comfort zones and do what is inherently mascu…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 02:45 AM
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Sounds like you've accepted a life of being a cuck
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 07:08 PM
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Still live with parents. No income. Self esteem issues. Bare minimum efforts result in bare minimum results. Come back and report after you fix the above. I'm sure that will help.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 10:02 PM
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Do what's good for you. But don't excert yourself too much for women. I've learned that mistake a long time ago. It is the reason why TRP has both enlightened and saved my life (and I mean that in every sense); while also casting an everlasting gloom of cynicism. All I can really do is enjoy the simple things in life and do what I can within my means. when you can, do something for your fellow men, it makes society better I've been trying to drop tid bits of trp here and there to my fellow men b…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 07:08 AM
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I was going to make a write up in support of your message that you're trying to get across, but I'm starting to feel it's just an uphill battle now. Narratives like "not conforming to non-binary roles" and "there are no differences between gender" only seek to harm our youth. I see this as a way to separate a man's own immediate tribe-- his family. Even Elon Musk, one of the most powerful men on earth, has been affected by this. His son (now "daughter") has come out trans and wishes to not be re…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 08:52 PM
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Block, pretend like he isn't a person, and move on. That's life.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 07:22 AM
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Lots of platitudes and information that's readily available in the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 02:20 AM
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Guarantee it's a nuclear option or a counting time-bomb to happen. Anything relating to red pill or the manosphere already labels you as a misogynist. Women and betas that subscribe woke/Cancel culture are akin to the junior spies in George Orwells 1984. What better way to deplatform a person than to have his own family members turn against him. His very tribe. Don't make the mistake
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 08:57 AM
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I was about to say I swear I've read this post somewhere in a book or post before practically line for line. Oh wait it's woujo. Still refreshing to read and material still holds true. However, if you cannot properly establish and hold the frame, especially if you're not a high-value man, all of it will crumble. You may be filed as a maybe or someone with potential, but you may not be the one that she will want to fuck. at least yet
/r/TheRedPill19/07/22 08:47 AM
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I did write a response to your blue pill fantasy-induced mania by red pill, but figured anything I would say would be retorted by a deflection or excuse. Ethnicity, society, rat race-- all of the excuses can all be surmounted by you. And it seems to me that's where you need to start.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 11:52 AM
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Just because you spend time in isolation, doesn't mean you lose all social skills. Sure it won't be to the caliber at your "peak", but just like muscle memory you will always retain that ability. It's just like any practice. If you don't actively do the action, you will lose some ability.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/22 09:46 AM
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staying isolated is the easiest way to some high quality depression, take it from me Some of the greatest men, albeit not all of them good, spend quality time in isolation.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 10:43 AM
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Just putting him on block has saved my mental from whenever I decide to stroll on TRP every once in a while. Glad to hear that he was permad
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 10:35 AM
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Excellent analysis. To add on-- the avoidance of one's self is a coping mechanism for the ego. If your ego cannot handle the facts at face value, your frame is shit and fragile.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 08:33 AM
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I haven't noticed any of the benefits in life that it's supposed to have Likely you are not doing enough work and don't want it enough. You have a covert contract with the the gym that if I "go to the gym and lift weights, it will give me x". The gym does give you such benefits, but it's your mindset that needs to change. when I knew I needed to work on squats and deadlifts You don't have to do these workouts. They definitely help you streamline your gains, but at the end of the day they can tec…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 02:06 PM
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whisper made a guide on frame for those that want a thorough explanation
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 03:10 AM
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Tl;dr You don't dare and instead deer. Honeymoon phase over -> sex starts to slowly decline and is instead now duty sex. Your relationship is over because you are a beta and she knows it. She has more agency and it clearly shows in your post. (Ctrl+f, keywords:she). Grow some balls
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 03:25 AM
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What am I now A guy that realizes how high the bar can be set and is scrambling to be there for FOMO. I believe you are trying to improve too many things all at once as opposed to gradually making changes, starting with things that are your top priority and within your means. there is only a joyless existence. I’ve lost my humanity. Nobody said it was going to be easy. If you don't work with the end in mind, you're likely going to keep running in circles. You lost your "humanity" as you vaguely …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 06:35 AM
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What a lot of guys fail to realize that having a strong, fit body often compliments and enforces the mind. However, just like working out a muscle, one needs to exercise the mind in gaining an abundance mentality. Practice flirting with girls everywhere in your daily lives-- even if it doesn't lead to anything. Eventually you will start to drop these self-inposed inhibitions that many have. Going to the gym will naturally correct your posture. Often the way you hold yourself correlates to how yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 05:59 PM
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He didn't, but you missed the part where you got skipped like your boy Kanye /u/kanye_is_a_genius
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 05:03 AM
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Boys will lie, project, blame-shift, deny, gaslight, portray themselves as victims, even do nothing- you name it, all in the name of avoiding ownership of themselves and their choices. Which is the failure of a proper upbringing and a masculine figure in the household to guide them through it. Often these are learned behaviors that were never corrected, and instead need to be unlearned. However, this requires the person in question to have that self awareness and drive to correct it themselves. …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 04:46 AM
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then he guy gets dumped and wants to hang with the fellas again. Have a friend that was notorious for doing this. Pussy-whipped men tell no tales. (Except for their girlfriend of course. They'll immediately let you know that they are dating, especially if they catch their girl staring at you a little too long )
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 04:15 AM
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Pussywhipped is my favorite way to express the fallen that start to dedicate their lives purpose to appeasing their girls. I've seen too many good guys who were on top of their game only to fall down from grace in the name of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/22 05:13 PM
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Yknow I thought they were going to be my ride or dies but it appears it'll be a solo ride after all
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 06:41 PM
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It's gotten to the point where my friends are jealous of my progress/success with women that they keep trying to bring up past shit and bring me down. They're walking a fine line between staying as a friend and being cut from my life. The only reason why they're still around is because they were there for me when times were rough
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 02:49 PM
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100% agree. All Netflix released shows cater as such and knows what sells. They don't care about any effects that could impact people in their day to day lives. Why bother coming up with a complex, intriguing storyboard when you can just show empowered POC and women in leadership positions all while showing them as omnipotent, powerful characters that can never do no evil. Meanwhile you will have the obese, bumbling bluepill beta showering them with love and affection and cracking low-tier dad j…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 10:33 PM
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Be the ultimate judge of yourself and derive value from the actions that you demonstrate. When you are able to command the attention of the room without saying a word, or holding the respect from other high value men-- it gives you the satisfaction of what you've worked so hard to achieve. You start to realize along the way that as your value increases, so does your lack of need to validate your actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 08:57 PM
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Your 1st approach is your fucking room mate. Fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 05:51 PM
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Friends are people. They happen to be their own person and thus capable to think on their own; anything you deem otherwise is likely a projection of your ideals.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 05:24 AM
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When you start to become a person of value as opposed to the clown/donkey, people will start to shit test the fuck out of you. You are no longer that person that they believe you to be. When you start to challenge the perception they have of you and that you are no longer neatly filed in a cabinet in their head-- they will challenge you at every given moment. If they sense any weakness in your frame, they will think that you still remain the same person.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 10:22 PM
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Men are equipped to handle that naturally I agree. However, keep in mind with the living conditions and circumstances that the younger generations, which is the majority demographic most likely on this subreddit, have been living in unusual conditions. At least relative to our ancestors. There was no supermarket. No instant gratification through technology. The majority of men have become soft. Too much change, unless backed with drastic measures or rock solid willpower, will likely crumble in t…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 01:03 AM
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Great read and advice. However, I would advise people to not go into the military if they are ill equipped for it. Most of the guys that end up going usually become crippling depressed without any outlets aside from booze and prostitutes. Unless you have the chops-- don't bother. There are plenty of other jobs that can give you a decent exposure to being a better man. I plan on making a write up soon to detail one of the industries I have worked in.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 11:03 PM
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Lots of lessons and hardship to be learned here, but ultimately we must be that rock. Even as harsh as things may get, you must try to get some perspective in your life that brings you happiness. My personal recommendation-- get some more sun. It does wonders for you. To those that don't get that much sun, I do pity you.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 06:12 AM
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The basic premise of this post can be summed up to valuing your time and not playing games. Be abundantly clear that you value your time and that you have options. If you have options-- she will be able to tell. Easiest example is if you guys are on a date and girls are proactively trying to get your attention or flirting in front of her. You are therefore preselected to be a high-value male. You can also demonstrate being a high value male by improving your own physique, personality, and creati…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 12:29 AM
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Tl;dr he needs to hit the gym or join a sport
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 01:31 AM
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Once TRP is swallowed, you cannot unswallow it. It's ingrained into your soul. There is no implication.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 03:29 AM
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The thing is-- your post isn't too far off. I was just being a bit particular with the nuances. Then again, we all won't have a universal experience with women. Quite frankly, I work with tons of beautiful women in my industry and know how to speak the elusive woman-ese to them. I think it's odd you think otherwise as you've never seen me interact with a women. All the same, I'm just here for my journey and to exchange notes to a place that has given me so much. I'll eventually make a post and y…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:31 AM
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Great reads on both threads. Too bad many don't make it past this post and instead feel the need to fling a bunch of word vomit
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:22 AM
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-A woman's dad. I've dated plenty of women who were very happy with me I was nothing like their dads. I dated women who didn't have dads and didn't have daddy issues. Again, no logic in attraction or emotions my Keyword: Usually. That being said you defied logic and are an outlier. Good on you. You, just like another poster above, are over-analyzing the information and using extreme examples to throw the baby out with the bath water. Nah. They're very much real, authentic examples. Can't say I a…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:17 AM
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I'm a self proclaimed xyz on the internet and should definitely trust you by default. Oh I work with food too so it's my business to make sure to comment on what you are eating. Speaking of-- maybe you shouldn't finish those bags of chips next to you. Just my professional opinion :p 🍴
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:08 AM
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[[Sample (insert race) text] comment] In order to get good at strawman fallacies, you need to get into that ring a couple of times. Comment from random while inserting pseudo bullshit (gone wild) -this is a very deep comment- while offering nothing of value. Sometimes you don't even gotta try and the words just speak for themselves yknow?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 09:06 PM
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I don't think its your business regardless if it's true or not
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 08:35 PM
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attraction is something that goes beyond logic, and so therefore it must be rooted in mysticism. No. Attraction is not something that goes beyond logic. Attraction is something innate that is usually formed in the early stages of childhood-- a women's dad. Sure there may be universal traits of Attraction (e.g clean teeth, vascularity), but at the end of the day if you don't control the interaction as a man, the fruits of your labor will bare no fruit. it operates within the realm of emotions Fal…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 08:27 PM
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Usually the best posts are ones that receive a lot of controversy. Pay attention guys
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 06:47 AM
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This post is a daily reminder to unplug your friends from the Matrix, I've lost too many. You see you fault yourself in a responsibility that you aren't even responsible for. You decided in your mind that it would have some agency in your life to make you feel like that. But that is definitely not the case. You can never really truly be unplugged by yourself unless you had that strong paternal figure in your life. Once you are plugged in, even if you "choose" to be ignorant of TRP-- it will alwa…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 06:46 AM
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Guys will unironically do this without realizing how much time they are wasting. Sure you might be able to attract a women 1/1000 times, but it is likely you are not attracted to her in the first place. It's a great thing that my magnet is big and therefore I attract big amounts of women
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 05:45 PM
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Yes exactly. Women want a strong, masculine man that can lead them and allow them to be just that-- women. They are enabled to express their femininity and beauty. No woman wants to be portrayed otherwise; it's a death sentence for them. The ones that fail and cope resort to being "fur-moms" or feminists.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 05:10 AM
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If you solve the government problem you solve the woman problem. These are not correlated at all. Government behavior is very much so more finite and established whereas women behavior can be more erratic. Even when things are good, women crave to feel. They will purposely create drama to feel a roller-coaster of emotions. An easy example of this is the bored housewife with nothing to do; especially so if they have no hobbies
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 12:25 AM
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Short, simple and sweet. Thank you for your continued guidance and gift of time. You cannot outrun your mouth. Also, proper dental care is important. A lot of health problems originate from poor oral hygiene. Key points here. Get a good quality toothbrush and toothpaste and you can easily improve your SMV. Be open to alternative medicine I'm a big advocate for using what works for you and disposing of what doesn't work for you. Experiment yourself and find the results you want. also enjoy art, b…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 01:02 AM
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Solid post. Avoid the unlucky and misfortunate. They only serve to bring you down to their level; crab in the bucket mentality in other words. Being in a toxic relationship, whether that be one with familial ties or one with a girl-- you should always prioritize yourself. Failure to do so will be detrimental to yourself and any of your relationships. If you cannot be somebody that you would commend yourself, what makes you think that others will do the same to you. Be someone of value so you can…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 12:48 AM
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Cancel culture is being replaced by erasure culture Recently reread 1984 and it's crazy how far ahead George Orwell was for his time. There are elements in that book that are getting scary close to reality; unless of course it already is. Next on the chopping block? Women. They are being replaced by anyone that just says they are a women. Their sports records? Toast. Their femininity? Obsolete. Their community? Invaded and repurposed. Thats a real red pill truth there. Destroy women's standards …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 11:43 AM
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100%. I meant this post for be a broader audience, but for the self-improving man who is one step above the rest will always command the respect of not only women, but men. You can instantly tell by the way a person carries themself. I would say I pity the average man, but the world doesn't pity people.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 11:19 AM
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I was in a religious cult up until the time I was 31 so that kinda explains that. Cope. You can be in a cult and get laid. You are just unfuckable. You can be a leader/lead of a cult and get laid simply for the reason that you are alpha. my ex cult status 95 percent of my social circle is gone. Bet it's not the only reason. I have had many offers over the years but I decided not to go through with it because of my faith Pussied out in the name of religion, a filter for your cope. I have a good j…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 10:57 PM
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Social Media would destroy people's memory and ability to think even more. Not only that. They will destroy the ability for people to have genuine human interactions. It is becoming more acceptable to meet up with people and have their faces glued to their phone. They don't even do anything of substantial value. Hell, I've seen the younger generations sit down for a meal amongst themselves or with family and not utter a single word throughout the meal.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 04:36 PM
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Yet we see cancel culture getting people in trouble from years back. Even during their adolescent days. Group thinking gets stronger as more women and men being put through the feminine-centric narrative that public schools and social media alike continue to empower people to do so.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 04:26 PM
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More VR products that push the narrative of virtual reality over reality. In addition to sex robots being produced and seen as a viable market-- vr porn is also becoming a thing. I believe that they intend to capitalize on producing the most endorphin-inducing gratification for men and women alike. This is to appease the betas that are seeing and getting angry at the disparity and gap that they see relative to masculine men. Greater wealth division. Media will inflate a new non issue further pol…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 08:37 AM
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Life will get harder for the modern man with every passing year. Men will continue to be scrutinized for their very being and doing things that are inherently male-dominant (e.g sports, lifting, wanting sex). The feminine imperative will in turn come out with stronger shit tests. 80-20 rule in terms of dating will become even more strict. I would say it's closer to 90-10, where the top 10% of men will get 90% of women. Politics will continue to get harsher for men. Cancel culture, akin to the li…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/21 09:58 PM
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Projection is a curious thing isn't it
/r/TheRedPill28/12/21 02:05 AM
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While I do firmly believe that people need to work for their own happiness, it isn't completely their fault. With 3rd wave modern feminism continuing to emasculate men and shame them for their very being. They (3rd wave feminism) are stripping away basic needs for an adolescent to properly grow starting with dividing his own tribe-- his own family. More family household heads are deciding that raising their own flesh and blood in a 2-parent household is no longer a necessity, but rather somethin…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 11:43 PM
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No. I never reduced everything to pickup. Regardless, the red pill has ties with the manosphere- including pick up/pua- or whatever label you want for that matter. The point I was trying to make was that OP refuses to acknowledge that and dismisses it completely as so. Unless you grew up as a natural (e.g. through a strong masculine father figure), it is unlikely that someone who has frequented TRP hasn't learned a thing or two from pick up. Beyond the basic red pill principles and getting past …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 09:02 PM
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Whatever mental hoops he wants to tell himself at the end of the day, but it doesn't change the fact that once you swallow the pill-- it will be in your actions consciously or unconsciously.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 05:11 PM
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Tl;dr: How to meet women in an ethical way that definitely does not use any principles of TRP or game; all while claiming that they don't like the PUA label.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 05:00 AM
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But sometimes a man has to nut up, shut up and do the right thing. The most despicable, destructive racist thing anyone can imagine is undoubtedly blackface. Therefore logically speaking the most anti-racist thing is to the exact opposite: whiteface. Nothing like waking up from a nap and reading a post from GLO. A true visionary, scholar, and abstract thinker who wants nothing more, but to increase the number of alpha super blasters. While the beta death grip, niche-category hub enjoyers continu…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 01:41 AM
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Great post. To add on-- when a girl says "no" it can actually mean not now. That could be because of fear of being scrutinized from showing PDA, family or friends nearby, or the environment isn't suitable to escalate. Of course you still need to have some semblance of social awareness and being able to read people in order to figure out if a girl actually means yes. If you remain afraid to escalate or approach-- keep in mind that there are other guys who will do it and with flying colors. Eventu…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 05:07 PM
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Nothing wrong with your post. Excuse the autists that can't even look people in the eye, much less apply any of the principles here. People that are looking to become HVM will know that they should religiously apply these principles until it is as natural and easy as breathing. Sure the first couple of sentences were melodramatic and perhaps OP was projecting, but the content still remains solid regardless.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 05:40 PM
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Alluding to weebs and nerds with the ideal of min/maxing and explicitly saying "irl humor" is some funny shit. Thanks for the laugh
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 08:22 PM
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Great post. In the grand scheme of things-- your diet and exercise is going to drastically be more impactful than worrying about the water you drink. It certainly helps to watch what you drink, but if you have a shit diet or don't exercise regularly (as you should)-- than none of the other stuff matters.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 04:25 PM
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Surprisingly a great field report. Good stuff. This is sidebar 101 stuff but to add on-- no girl wants a guy that no girl wants. They would rather share a high value man than to be with someone who is just average.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 11:21 PM
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Thanks for addressing this post. I was debating to but figured it wasn't worth my time to do so. For every point/niche OP stated, I can easily name one person for each category that broke through. One thing they all had in common?-- They actually took the time to put in the fucking work and built the confidence and game to do so. If ever any of stated person(s) stopped putting in the work-- their mind gravitated towards falling into the victim mentality and instead looked to blame something else…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 11:04 PM
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tri-weekly posts from certain redditors This is one of my biggest gripes with the state of this subreddit right now. I no longer frequent reddit as much, albeit I do have more to do on my plate
/r/TheRedPill18/10/21 06:01 AM
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A refreshing post that has both good theoretical and practical advice that you can both use and understand. Great job
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 10:07 AM
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Luckily, the officers are diverse and include a woman of color so the crowd is willing to listen. I laughed at this more than I care to admit
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 10:15 PM
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I've come a long way from where I was before. My progress is mine and mine alone-- that being said, I am content with the serious progress that I've achieved. I don't need a random to quantify my achievements, much less decides the need to necro a thread to shame another's progress. My numbers weren't a way to brag-- but rather to show that I wasn't a complete bumbling idiot that stumbled on his first exposure to a masculine male. Plus I don't take the advice of somebody on the internet that has…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 02:25 AM
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It goes over a lot of the theory of why women and men behave with such drastic differences and how that has enabled the human race to continue in its endeavors. For each chapter and subject-- it entails the rationale and practicality of what you should know and do in response to their biological mechanisms formed by years of evolution. There isn't anything groundbreaking about the book-- it goes in-depth about stuff listed in the sidebar. If you want to further cement your knowledge, it isn't a …
/r/askMRP12/09/21 12:24 AM
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Both men and women crave sex; both like food as well-- but, the key difference is that they both have different levels to it. On a biological level, men produce (iirc) 12 times as much testorone as women; testorone is the key hormone in sex drive. So basically this post is sperg vomit
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 09:42 PM
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Quite literally the most retarded fitness post I've seen on this subreddit so far. If you don't have the chops to lift consistently for 5 years naturally, then do you really want to build yourself? A lot of the beginner - intermediate level of lifting can be done easily through the natural route. I'm not even going to quantify how much you should be doing for compounds-- practically any compound can be technically subbed with varying exercises that work out the same muscles, albeit, not as much …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 12:11 AM
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Keep it simple. The most important thing to do is to make going to the gym and fixing your diet consistent and a habit. Look at that word again. consistent You can have all the knowledge in the world about lifting and dieting, but if you neither apply yourself or be consistent-- you will forever be at square one. What are your fitness goals? Why do you want to lose weight? How does changing my diet and consistently exercising help me? Answer these questions and find out why you want to take cont…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/21 09:03 AM
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You won't lose muscle. You don't lose "xyz days worth of progress either" within a given time frame. Unless you are doing some significant amount of cardio or activity that makes you lose muscle, you cannot quantify how much muscle you are actually losing.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 08:35 PM
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Gotta love self diagnosed bro science with the study being your own anecdotal support without actually looking at studies with empirical evidence. Taking a break from the gym should be thought of as part of your training regime. Rest is part of any program and should be seen as time given to give your body to recover. Not working out =/= not having the conviction or self restraint to eat like a pig. Dirty bulking is a thing, but there has been a study that found that the amount of lean muscle ma…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 06:12 PM
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No this is retarded sperg shit. Any man with a job, hell even credit, can buy a woman anything but cannot negotiate attraction. Attraction is non-negotiable, and is something that is innate in them. Any betabux Billy can buy the girl a fancy dinner, but will give excuses as to why she cannot sleep with him or go home with him. If you frame yourself as a masculine man, that is confident despite any setbacks that he knows he has, but chooses to embrace it for what it is or become comfortable in hi…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 11:58 PM
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Sure that's like 80% or so of the posts but the ones that do give value or even the occasional shit post despite the sea of spergs is always nice to have.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 04:41 AM
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Newsflash-- subreddits can and are echo chambers. That's why there are niche subreddits where people congregate to talk on. It just so happens TRP is the manosphere pertaining to the empowerment of masculine men and sexual dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 11:17 PM
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You talking about reddit or starcraft? Because probably need to do both
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 09:36 PM
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Unironically a better post than what most of the spergs have been posting. Thanks for the laugh
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 08:40 PM
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It's not complicated at all. She has seen you as a beta, child-man for many years and has struggled between having to fulfill the masculine and feminine roles in your marriage while raising 2 more children. You were content with playing video games instead of being the man that you need to be in your relationship. Plenty of sidebar material and books that can explain in better depth about the causes and why this is so. For every year of f*ggotry that you've been in your life, should equal to rou…
/r/askMRP21/07/21 01:57 PM
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No. If he is frequenting subreddits and decides in his mind that posting this to the main subreddit is a good thing-- he is sorely mistaken.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 02:25 AM
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Are you the original poster? No? Yes that's what I thought. You didn't have the foresight to acknowledge that and instead decide to push out larp drivel onto one of the last bastions of masculinity. So perhaps it is you that has the capability of a goldfish.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 10:34 PM
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Anybody that takes this larp seriously is hilarious. A quick look into OP entails video games, 4chan, and anime women. Basement dweller that has a twisted perceptions of red pill. Any man that actually puts in the work and knows what they must do, will come out a better person in the end. Unfortunately AskTRP is gone and we now have an influx of larps and shitposts on the main subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 10:09 PM
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I would argue that it's more so the destruction of feminism that has emasculated men to the point that they become androgynous blobs; a problem stemming from single parent households, with the mom having to attempt to emulate the masculine role in the household but with the logic and mind of a women. Those very same boys grow up and become frustrated by the disparity of masculine men and themselves that they either fall into depravity and mediocrity or try to become pseudoalphas.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 10:06 PM
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Consider the fact that the majority of consumers are just that-- women. I would even argue that most men would not choose to watch Netflix unless they had an ulterior motive (e.g Netflix and chill, trying to watch a show that their crush watches). Mass media has found the easy cookie cutter drivel that they can easily push out without much backlash as those that could critique it fear the consequences. Admittedly this is a lot of speculation, but that's my personal take on why they would do this…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 02:24 AM
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How does a low effort post like this get updated while OP still uses weed and plays video games in his free time? This reads like a person still stuck in the anger phase of TRP and has a strong disdain for women. Do not hate women for their nature. Love women for being women, and you will get a lot further in life than finding the downsides of everything. TRP encompasses sexual dynamics and the manosphere, so yes, no shit Sherlock there is going to be a lot of talk about women on a subreddit ded…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 10:51 PM
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It's funny because all you do is parade on both the manosphere and womansphere, whom are both seen as "extremes" depending on which perspective you appeal to-- in your case, you appeal to neither (based on your post history) and instead conform to being an androgynous blob that can neither be described as feminine or masculine. Instead of formulating an opinion for yourself, you instead resort to superficial takes on the matter while providing no substantial value.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 02:44 AM
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Quality post as always. Thanks for the insight, reminded me to stick on my mission and remember the bigger goal
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 04:48 AM
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Nowhere did he state anything about hit views aside fromm an anecdote that he, himself, has experienced in relation to your viewpoint. It's pitiful that because somebody doesn't conform to your blackpilled viewpoint on marriage that you lash out against someone that may have hit the wrong nail with you.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 04:34 AM
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Yes he could. He can also live the life that he wants, knowing full well of any of repercussions that come with marrying someone
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 09:00 PM
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Since you live in a rural area, I assume you have some semblance of property and a backyard. Let the kids be kids and explore nature around them (that is unless there are actual threats to them). Kids nowadays are obsessed with instant gratification and constant need for validation and attention. Let them be kids and give them sports or a bike to play with
/r/askMRP08/07/21 10:43 PM
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Alright thank you for the detailed response. I'll internalize this as much as I can.
/r/askTRP23/06/21 12:38 AM
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Can you elaborate or correct me? I've read many interpretations of frame and that was my takeaway-- feel free to correct me. Edit: Upon taking the time to actually re-read the sidebar on frame, I found your guide on frame. We talk a lot about "Frame Control", but many people misunderstand the term. I have noticed more and more people using the term generally, to mean something like "standing up for yourself", and more and more people asking about it on askTRP, because the overgeneralized use of …
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:34 PM
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TRP is the empowerment of males and response to feminism that continues to emasculates men. TRP encompasses the manosphere and sexual dynamics; thus why there is so much talk of women. A question for you-- why do you not want women?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:57 PM
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Unnecessary baggage. Work will take priority every time over a women that can leave you at any time.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:43 PM
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Not sure if your parents are divorced but it could be a classic case of projection. She herself wants to be saved, but to no avail to the high self esteem, high value men (well what few there are left). That or the feminine imperative has "normalized" such behavior that they think they are owed that. Little do they realize the bitter harpies are the crabs in the bucket that do not want others to be happy.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:30 PM
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a vasectomy A vasectomy at the age of 18?? Yes to condoms, but that's still something you should give yourself time to consider.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:19 PM
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Considering the vast majority of people have eyebrows-- it's definitely the latter. You are going against societal norms, so yes you will get looks.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:50 PM
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A brief walk through Walmart saddens you for both the state of men and women in America.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:06 PM
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Focus on HITT exercises, your diet, drinking enough water (keep in mind of water weight), and changing up your exercises overall. If you're trying to get strong fast-- bulking is the way. If you're trying to get as much lean muscle mass-- cutting to a low body fat and then bulking is the way. It all depends on your fitness goals and needs. There is an upside of cutting first and then bulking-- you naturally will have more testorone and build lean muscle mass a lot more efficiently relative to so…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:49 PM
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You're taking yourself too seriously. Everybody sucked at first (at least relative to when they first started). Allow yourself to be OK with the level of your skill or anything in life for that matter and take it at face level. Learn to just laugh it off and enjoy the process
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:00 PM
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Clean bulk. Eat more protein-- if you can 1g of protein/ lb of your weight. Protein shakes, seasoning your food if you need.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 04:22 PM
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Head off to married redpill and they'll get you into shape-- most importantly you have to put in the work and effort. Look at the OYS threads.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 04:20 PM
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She tried to give you a chance. 8 times in fact. You failed every single one and you've been demoted from a potential partner to a friend. Move on
/r/askTRP14/06/21 05:43 PM
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Start with a basic workout plan probably 5x5 stronglifts. If you have a friend that knows how to do compounds-- fantastic learn from them. Otherwise just have a standard push/pull/leg cycle. Push- triceps, shoulders, chest Pull- biceps, back Legs- quads, hamstrings, calves. Since you are a beginner, your body will likely respond to any workout you throw at it. Eventually you will plateau so the sooner you get an actual regime and compounds in, the better. Otherwise while you are still learning, …
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:18 PM
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So there's no need to become a high value men overall? To create an exciting life, with friends, interesting activities, and a proper career? Agree with this point. I've seen guys with decent bods but still terrible with women. Authorities all over the world are telling people to exercise more. Who is being hostile to lifters? I'm willing to give OP the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps he is trying to highlight the "body-positivity and acceptance" trend of people encouraging obesity and saying it's…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 05:56 PM
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I left him at age 25 when I could no longer be guilted into helping him at his failing business and went out to get a job on my own. This reads like textbook narc behavior all over. Likely guilt tripped you and said something along the lines of, "I've worked so hard to raise you, the least you can do is ____". Fuck that noise. Your parents conceived you into this world. They did the bare minimum raising you and took out their anger out on you because they feel inadequate. The moment you start to…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:55 PM
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This is way too fucking funny dude. Thanks for the laugh. On the real you sperged out and should've cut your losses. You're not as high value as you think you are
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:48 PM
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HAHAHHA ripped this guy a new one. Fairly solid analysis. Guy is sperging out and asking what went wrong when the poor girl was just trying to work
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:46 PM
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She's interested enough to let you know that she will be in town and wants to meet up. Likely your last chance so don't fuck it up
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:43 PM
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It is her job. Don't think anything of it.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:51 PM
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Not sure if you risk injury but generally try to: Do negatives Light weight with lots of reps (possibly into drop set) Supersets Eat enough protein
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:10 PM
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Just had a night out, I'm disgusted at human kind. People won't even look me in the eye, and I'm getting too old for anyone to give a shit. Who the fuck cares? You're too outcomes dependent and need to be more comfortable in your skin. Embrace your masculinity and what you've been given and you will perform that much better. Not everybody is going to like you and nobody said it was easy. I never had a chance when I was younger, I have even less f a chance now Its easy to get caught up in the pas…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:23 PM
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In 2019, the suicide rates were higher among adults ages 45 to 54 years (19.60 per 100,000) and 55 to 64 years (19.41 per 100,000), with the rate highest among adults ages 85 years or older (20.12 per 100,000), the only age group with a rate increase from 19.07 in 2018 to 20.12 in 2019. Younger groups have had consistently lower suicide rates than middle-aged and older adults. In 2019, adolescents and young adults aged 15 to 24 had a suicide rate of 13.95
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:01 PM
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In 2019, the suicide rates were higher among adults ages 45 to 54 years (19.60 per 100,000) and 55 to 64 years (19.41 per 100,000), with the rate highest among adults ages 85 years or older (20.12 per 100,000), the only age group with a rate increase from 19.07 in 2018 to 20.12 in 2019. Younger groups have had consistently lower suicide rates than middle-aged and older adults. In 2019, adolescents and young adults aged 15 to 24 had a suicide rate of 13.95
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:00 PM
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Definitely no contact. Top posts on this thread are all spot on. Ignore crazy or crazy will rain hellcon you
/r/askTRP11/06/21 03:49 PM
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The above logic still applies.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:41 PM
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Low self esteem women. Most likely was abused or did not have a father figure while growing up. That or grew up in a nuclear family and the only way to cope through it all was to be a complete apologist. Avoid as a LTR, as a plate I would think twice about it.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:21 PM
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I don’t want these men to miss out on great relationships whether it’s romantic or sexual or platonic just because they’re so angry That's the thing though. Beyond all the anger, there comes a point where everything clicks. You can hate men or women all you want, but ultimately we do need each other in order to continue the human race. Humans do have the innate need to reproduce. Humans do crave the genuine interactions; although it doesn't necessarily have to be with lovers. The empowerment of …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 06:14 AM
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My best advice? Just out your foot down or tell them firmly no. If they can't take a hint or continue to take advantage of your gratuity, then take money out of the question and pay for your own things.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:55 AM
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The blog literally states that the terms researchers, studies, and conducting x amount of women answering a questionnaire within the first couple of paragraphs. We can argue all we want about the dichotomy of the alpha/beta dynamics, but ultimately women and men will want the best-- at least that is until their biological prerogative to reproduce warrants them otherwise. I could always be wrong but I think the reason you consider the sidebar to be evidence and not OP is because it fits in better…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 05:36 AM
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there is like 1 TRP post that treats women with respect. very few that acknowledge women as human beings and not personal fleshlights that know how to clean. Keep in mind, a lot of these men are borderline blackpilled or still stuck in the anger phase of TRP. By default, TRP is amoral. We are quarantined because our views are radical in the eyes of reddit, society, and men-- the very people that have continued to be emasculated. I don't speak for us all, but I do try to preach to not be stuck in…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 05:28 AM
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In the study you've included, it is more or less a study made by asking the opinions of women by ascribing a man in 2 particular choices in great verbose. Granted I didn't bother reading beyond the 1st claim, it all seemed superficial to me as well if that's the quantitative measure we are using. The alpha/beta dichotomy is used to illustrate general qualities that are attractive to women. The study you've linked is by the same measure an oversimplification of what you claim. Yes his opinion may…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 02:45 AM
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TRP sidebar material encompasses all the knowledge that many men have lived in their lives. It is all anecdotal experience which originally was a forum to exchange notes on sexual dynamics between men and women. So yes, it obviously isn't all based on scientific studies with empirical evidence, but anecdotal experience is evidence. At the very least it is to the men that have experienced it first hand. OPs "arguments" were all shallow and superficial. I think you are overly downplaying how much …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:48 AM
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I don't have the time to refute every counterpoint posted on here, but this reply is particularly obnoxious That's OK! I only took the time to reply to yours because you made a particularly obnoxious post. The "platitudes" you speak of are common talking points I've seen posted repeatedly in this sub and pushed by many "red-pilled" influencers By all means, link a single endorsed contributor and I guarantee they are against spergs regurgitating platitudes. Anybody can quote the words of another …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:18 AM
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All crabs in a bucket. People are resistant to change and especially so when you are no longer the vision of the person they have in their head of you. They want everybody in their head to be filed neatly in a cabinet in their head and when something is out of place-- they will say something. Carry on with your self improving hobby and ignore the neigh sayers.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:09 AM
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OP just has a shallow understanding of TRP. All I see are platitudes that spergs continue to regurgitate, but have no idea of the actual concepts and fundamentals behind it. On top of making up platitudes that OP had conveniently made on the fly to fit their narrative that TRP is bad, women are good. TRP by default is amoral. Women by default will be women; do not hate their nature, but learn to accept it and love women for being women. Not necessarily excuse their actions, but knowledge of why …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:00 AM
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All I see here are cherry picked platitudes with practically no discussion. Sure, you can moralize and claim that we are looking like the "toxic side of the other coin", but remember that TRP is the response to modern day feminism. Tons of kids that have gone through the blue pilled, feminist-centric narrative have become emasculated to the point where they are ashamed of their sexuality and are content with quick dopamine hits of porn, video games, and drugs. Have the lines been blurred along t…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 12:42 AM
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Start with the very basics before you venture out too much. It's good to have big dreams but you need to take care of what you can within your means first. Get a job if you don't have one already and get your own place of living if you can. Depending on where you live, you should be able to find rooms for rent. On top of food experience, a lot of places are hiring because people are trying to milk out unemployment until its gone. So there's a lot of places that are trying to get work and even pa…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 06:58 PM
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The village taketh and giveth. You leaned on them and they leaned on you during your troubles. Fuck off and call it square
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:29 PM
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The part where you go hope she gets it too! Comes across as vengeful. Perhaps not your intent but the ! Changes the sentence when read through text. Either way, if she is a hb 9 as you say, she won't have problems finding a beta provider
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:24 PM
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Tl;dr you have oneitus and she still remembers you as beta. Let this be a lesson instead of continuing to shame yourself
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:21 PM
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Wrote previous comment while in a rush so grammar may be off, but let me elaborate. Being intimidating usually means having a better frame and being a much more masculine man compared to most men (which is a pretty low bar to begin with nowadays). This in turn filters out girls that may be on the fence with you. Either they're really into you or they're not; which may not be as black and white as you may think. You have become the prize. Girls will want to be with you and guys will want to be yo…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:28 PM
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Embrace it. Intimidating usually just means how easy it is for a person to approach you. That's a good thing.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:53 PM
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It's only weird because society and older women will criticize you for doing so. These older women know they are getting closer to the wall and it is a matter of time. Women depreciate in value and men appreciate in value.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:01 PM
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Unless things go nuclear between them you should be in the clear. Just keep things hush hush and act normally
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:56 PM
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You've learned the theory but need to start practicing it. Otherwise you're left with only the knowledge and theoreticals of TRP and none of the practically of it due to your own doing.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:53 PM
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Don't bother reporting. HR will always be on the side of the company. Unfortunate circumstances yes, but hopefully this doesn't hinder your finances.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:51 PM
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The sidebar is realistically all you need. If you need more? Look through EC, top 200 posts on asktrp, main trp, and married red pill. That should encompass like 99% of stuff you should know.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:24 AM
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Continue lifting. If you can, find somebody to mentor you on deadlifts and squats. Otherwise there are plenty of resources for both compounds to teach you. I learned a lot from friends that enjoyed lifting as well, but supplemented it with extra videos that explain in depth what you should do. Make sure you go on a proper lifting schedule of push/pull/legs with rest says to recover. If you are trying to build muscle, you must be on a surplus. The fastest way to gain lean muscle mass is to cut do…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:22 AM
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As I say, the fundamentals of what I’ve learnt from TRP are not amoral. That's the problem. To you and me, TRP may not be immoral. In fact, it's hard truths that men, especially today, need to hear. Unfortunately through the perception of others that have been continually doctrined by the feminine imperative and the blue pill, they think otherwise. How’s it working for you? It's doing great. I'm happy in practically every aspect in my life and I owe it largely to red pill. I don’t need to forfei…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:12 AM
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Rule Zero: Stay On Topic Posts & Comments TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them. We are not interested in debating or defending our experiences to those who disagree with the red pill, nor do we want to clog up our threads defending the morality of our choices. Do not crosspost from other subs. It will result in a ve…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:53 PM
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Yes you could argue that this is immoral, but TRP by default is amoral. He is free to decide what choices he wants to take and doesn't have to conform to societal norms. No need to moralize and project your views on others when he is free to live the life that he wants. Oh and for the record, I've seen my fair share of girls that have gone their rounds with their ex's friend group with all the guys. The same can just as easily be said for the girl, but in modern society it is being less stigmati…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:30 PM
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Sidebar. You desperately need it.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:07 AM
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Generally your friends habits (e.g smoking, watching anime) are all just filters to avoid rejection. By choosing to lean towards general entertainment like anime, they are choosing to avoid socializing and having to make an impression on others. By smoking weed and drinking, they are taking the happiness from tomorrow in the form of gratification in the now. Anime, comics, shows appeal to people because they are usually fantasies that they want for themselves. They want to be the main protagonis…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:23 AM
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Only one way to find out. Better to have gone and done it then regret not doing it at all. Of course if you have better things to do then get some ass for a couple hours worth of driving then go pursue that
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:14 AM
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She hasn't quite hit the wall yet, but it's coming 35 year old single mom It looks like she's already 35 and has hit the wall!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 07:59 PM
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Yes. I firmly believe that we should adhere to our own beliefs and morals with conviction. TRP offers the theory and guidelines, but it is ultimately up to the individual to take what they want from it and apply it to their lives. However, I don't want men to be afraid of their own sexuality and biological need to have sex. Embrace it for what it is and don't listen to others that would shame you otherwise; usually from a standpoint of jealousy and spite.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:19 PM
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Game acknowledges game. It's crazy seeing past acquitances, friends, and classmates getting married, hitting the wall, having kids, but ultimately you will (usually) be ahead of them in terms of potential for your own growth.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:42 AM
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What would you do here? Nothing. If he is content with his life, albeit a blue-pilled one, then so be it. However if the fallout ever does happen, I would still be there for him and advise him where I can. Especially depending on how old you guys are, ultimately humans are meant to procreate. I would personally never raise a kid that's not my own, but raising a kid of my own would be there. Just not until I've finished things on my terms.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:36 AM
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Men will spend their time making money and their money to buy them time. Unfortunately you can never buy back that time and youth. What you can do however is make the most of the years you have left in your life on your terms. Live like you're young if you really want to. You are still in the prime years of your life and there's more to life than booze, girls, and parties.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:29 AM
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TRP is amoral. Do what you want to do and unapologetically. You're not even mutually exclusive and just seeing each other. Think of it as exploring your options, which for the record, women do as well.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:23 AM
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I'll be blunt. I don't know many Asian girls that are into black guys. But the ones that are are super into them. Some of them may secretly want a black guy, but are too afraid of the social repercussions and reputation for doing so. I wouldn't see your preference for asian women as a problem. I love latina women and fully embrace that. It is only a problem if you make it a problem. In a lot of Asian cultures, there is a big negative connotation with being black or even dating one. Unfortunately…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:07 AM
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Why do you care? If you and an ex have called it quits, don't dig through the trash. Either way, do what you want to do and unapologetically.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 10:23 PM
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She was likely in the mood at that particular time or found another option. Either way, don't think about it too much and the balls in her court. Show that you are a high value male that has other options.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:44 AM
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Automod removed it but search push/pull on main trp reddit and the 1st result is pretty good. Recommend looking it over and seeing that field report
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:13 PM
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Leading you on and keeping you there as her teddy bear. Make yourself scarce and do some push and pull. In the interactions you do have with her, you need to learn to escalate and polarize interactions with her (e.g not agreeing with every single thing she says, being different from other guys, knowing to set your boundaries).
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:31 PM
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Usually the courtesy nowadays is if whoever asked who out first on a date will usually pay for the date. It should be you that dictates how expenses go and if she makes a big deal out of it, you likely can drop things there and then.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:29 PM
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Anger phase. This too shall pass. Until then focus on your mission, lift heavy, and be verocious in reading TRP.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:25 PM
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I've improved my life massively by going from obese to fit and an extremely socially anxious recluse to someone who can talk to most people Good job. I mean that and at least you took the steps to get there. it doesn't get rid of the panic attacks, nightmares, fight or flight responses etc from the ptsd Still in the process of reading it but try this other book that tries to understand trauma called, "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk. I didn't get to finish the book admittedly, b…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:19 AM
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So how can someone actually move on without closure? Is there advice for that you can give? Already answered that. Counseling or self help books. I'm getting constant anxiety and that fight or flight panic response because of it and can't sleep. A sign you should do the above. It pisses me off because I gave closure to people who bullied me yet I get no closure whatsoever from others? People are all different. You expect things from people that you do for others. You would like to think differen…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:36 AM
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Nobody is owed any closure, especially one where they were wronged by a grievance from a close friend. You could make the argument that you want closure in order to sate your own decisions, but you must now bare that sin that you have done to your friend. They have likely seen the message. The inverse could just as easily be said as well. But ultimately, that does not matter in the grand scheme of things. He clearly wants 0 contact with you and has made it clear to his family to do the same. It'…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:54 PM
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There will always be resistance in woman in some shape or form. Whether that be religious, political, social-economical, or even personal reasons-- each peg of resistance will affect all of your relationships with women, short term or long term. If any of the stated reasons are deal breakers for you, you need to vet your women better. I'm glad that you did not dwell on breaking up with her and calling it quits. Focus up on your mission again and lift heavy. Re-read the sidebar if you must (somet…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 03:48 AM
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I have a 5'4" Mexican friend that consistently pulls. He's thirsty and knows how to escalate. He knows how to talk game and to be confident. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:26 AM
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If a woman relies on you to survive, as in third world countries, would you say there is an increased risk or decreased risk of her cheating compared to say a socialist nordic country? Cultural and environmental factors do play a part in a woman. I wasn't able to find anything with concrete evidence, so it's likely that the more modern, 1st world countries that encourage women to be independent and veer away from societal norms are more likely to cheat relative to their 3rd world country counter…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:25 PM
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No. Even Chad thundercock has gotten cheated on. It's of women's nature and how they feel emotionally at that "moment". The most you can do is keep an abundance mentality and be the best you.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:24 AM
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To the sidebar you go
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:36 PM
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No need to reinvent the wheel. Sidebar, top 200 or so posts of all time, top posts of EC, and top trp books should encompass everything you would need. If you really want to go above and beyond, comment threads usually have the best of the discussions
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:37 PM
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Whiskey dick =/= frame. It happens to a lot of people, but how you carry yourself during and after the interaction is what separates you from being a chump or getting laid
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:43 PM
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I haven't delved into it myself admittedly, but perhaps calisthenics are more your style. I'm trying to get a more classic physique akin to Arnold. Not sure how your physique currently looks, but you most likely need to go on a clean bulk just so that you can actually build that muscle until you can lean down and show it. You do need to be in a surplus to build muscle though. Try checking out the calisthenics or leangains subreddits that can perhaps give you more info.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:37 AM
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Yes these are good. I do these myself but couldn't be fucked listing it lol. Negatives will recruit more muscle fibers and will actually increase muscle gain by (iirc) ~25%
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:30 AM
1

So where's the question?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:26 AM
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8-12 reps, or you can do them till failure. Depending on your fitness goals, you should still have a gym routine but with a plan. Me I usually do push, pull, and legs with compounds every other day. There's plenty of guides out there that can explain it in more detail. I don't really have one set person/content creator that I can pinpoint you to the right direction as I've taken fitness advice and went through trial and error to see what felt good to me. I cannot stress the importance of compoun…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:24 AM
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You've got to try to look at the bright side of things and realize that you still have the ability to hear. One of my cousin's bf is deaf in one ear but he doesn't make it apparent that it bothers him. He just apologizes and asks if you could repeat it for him in his good ear. My cousin is fairly attractive and has managed his relationship for this long. He is naturally red pilled and tries to make his life interesting. He loves golf, fixing up cars, cooking, etc. He's learned to be charismatic …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:03 AM
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Start with some self help books and meditating. Unfortunately not everybody has access to a therapist or the means to. Start with simple things like making sure you're consistent with your hygiene and living space; it is often reflective of the mind. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is a pretty good start. You should focus on resolving any emotional and mental trauma along with lifting. Learn to become comfortable with yourself and you'll go far.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:57 AM
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Plenty of customer service jobs that allow you to work from home. Just be firm with what you want and tell them that you want to work over the summer so you can have pocket money to spend on what you need without asking them. You just have to learn how to persuade and bargain to get what you want. Otherwise, if they're that adamant--consider trying to move out. Or even look through scholarships and see of there's anything that is applicable to you.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:50 AM
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No. There is no reason to unless they actively want to hear it. Forcibly unplugging somebody that's been influenced by the feminine imperative is an uphill battle that will likely have more negatives then positives for you. With my sisters, the most I will ever do is encourage fitness and stressing the importance of their health. Otherwise, there is no reason to cause tensions and strife within the family and having any of my familial ties met with a social suicide. Tl;dr No.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:48 AM
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You're right to be nervous, but if you're really concerned about pregnancy scares-- look to have a girl track their menstrual cycles with an app. Avoid having sex with a girl ovulating and you're solid. Period sex is also a thing, albeit it can get messy and does smell. Granted, that's usually when you can have a relatively clear conscious. Always use a condom and good to see that you use plan B. It is always better to spend the money for pregnancy prevention than ever paying for child support.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:17 PM
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How can I stop thinking about her and her actions? Don't even bother with it in the first place. Acceptance of a woman being a woman instead of judging them for their actions will get you a lot further down the line. Listen to the actions of a women, not their words. You are upset, and understandably so. Obviously if this is a deal breaker to you, you can just demote her back to a plate. I don't know what trust she breached or what action she did, but I wouldn't completely drop things unless it …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:12 PM
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My numbers are weak af as I'm still skinny Have been holding off on squat as my legs are overdeveloped Don't make excuses. If you're looking skinny, and have been lifting for 3 months; you need to eat more.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:39 PM
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ranged from 196-259 These are pretty heavy weights, especially if they're shorter. Unless she's like 5'10"+ and packing some muscle (doubt), that's way too much man. We broke up several times but I always got her to take me back. Why dig through the trash again? Once it's over, it's over. She was my best friend, virtually my whole social life, and I got whatever I wanted in bed. I just couldn’t let go. Don't be capt save a ho. I can count the number of genuine, female friends I have on only one …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:50 PM
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Need to see your numbers to better gauge you. If you've been lifting heavy for a couple of months and consistently, your results should show and be decent unless you are skinny and have a fast metabolism; in that case, you just need to eat more and be on a surplus. If your body fat % is still too high, I recommend going on a cut and then bulking from there-- especially since summer is right around the corner.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:35 PM
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You're getting downvoted by others, but you are correct. The idea is gone over in the Rational Male by Rolle. Do not hate women for being women. There are no unicorns and shaming a women with a high sex drive is what makes them more reserved; especially if it is you in pursuit.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:16 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:10 PM
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You take roids without any semblance of a base and you easily shave 20 years off your life for little gain. Build a solid foundation first and be comfortable with trusting the process. If you can't handle lifting for at least a couple of years, then there's no point.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:03 AM
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lift hard What do your numbers look like? There are plenty of men in the world that have a combination of these factors but can still be successful with women. Albeit, not a combination of them all, but still. As far as the looks department goes, do you groom yourself often (ergo, able to grow a beard, nice complexion, skin, etc). Are you just a kissless virgin or are you a virgin completely still? If it's the latter, honestly just get a hooker by now man. Women can smell when a guy is not comfo…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:43 AM
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Genuine attraction cannot be negotiated. You are likely her 2nd or 3rd option.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:24 AM
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If you're genuinely worried about this-- I think you need to revisit the sidebar. Your lack of an abundance mentality, her dread level, and your oneitus is obvious.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:21 PM
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Do hack squat instead. Crazy pump in your quads instead of your ass
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:42 PM
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Nobody said it would be easy to swallow TRP. It goes against every ideal that's been preached to you since the day you were born. Internalize TRP and apply it to your practical life and you're already ahead of the race. Be thankful you learned this lesson early and not when you were tied down to a marriage and children.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:13 PM
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You don't. You can sprinkle nuggets of knowledge here and there but a broken man will seek trp if they want it. If you've been indoctrinated by the feminine imperative your entire life, expect to meet lots of resistance. There's a reason why you don't talk about fight club. The same goes for TRP.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:10 PM
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His main points for the most part are to do things on your accord and unapologetically. If people get upset that you want to be selfish-- fuck em. I could probably live without them in my lives anyways. However, with close friends and family, I don't mind helping them at all. If I offer help, I don't expect anything in return. I get fulfillment from helping others. That being said, don't be a complete rug for people to walk all over you. You should be able to be firm on your boundaries. When it …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:08 PM
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It's clearly gone on for too long and you have a fucking kid coming along too. So yes, you're fucked- at least when it comes to child support. If you truly digested trp, you would've dropped all of this prior to having a kid. Otherwise, there have been plenty of people that have broken up, but have been able to raise a kid. Do what you want to do and unapologetically. If you want to call it quits, then so be it.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:36 AM
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Acknowledge that you're rewarding your brain with endorphins and subtly rewiring your brain to normalize it as okay behavior. Fapping is a filter for yourself to prevent feeling rejection. The best way to get past this is to consciously know that it subconsciously gives you the feeling of satisfaction and in turn lowers your sex drive. Good news is that there is no testorone difference between those who have fapped prior to the gym. In fact, your sex drive is at its highest within the 1st hour o…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:52 AM
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As much as I agree that modern man has been emasculated to the point that most men don't have backbones to even speak up; we should try to at least support our claims with some evidence as opposed to speculation.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:05 PM
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People have yes. If you want to add further proof to bluepill vs redpill, and don't care about breaking the plate-- post the field report on main TRP. Numerous people have done it. If you want to reaffirm your own beliefs, shoot for the stars.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:42 PM
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Globally testosterone levels have been decreasing significantly since the mid 20th century IMO estrogenics in the environment are the prime cause. I don't doubt these claims, but do you have any sources for these claims?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:29 PM
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Wrong subreddit perhaps. Try the pegging subreddit, I'm sure you'll have a great time there
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:52 AM
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Closure is nothing but an ego boost to the women. It's there so that they can regurgitate an excuse to "let them (you) down easily". Suck it up and move on. Noone is owed any closure. It's just a way to ease their conscience as they allow the door to still remain open.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:43 AM
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Read the subtle art of not giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:39 AM
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Forge yourself to be a man from Iron, not a man from liquor. The choice is yours.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:37 AM
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The only way you can pull yourself out of a dark place is by taking care of yourself. Depression is a sickness in the mind, it's the bodies way to tell you that something is wrong. It doesn't help that alcohol is a depressant. Alcohol will steal the happiness from tomorrow in lieu of numbing the pain. None of that ever works in the end-- in fact it will make it worst. The best things you can do is take things slowly. Clean up your environment. Clean up yourself. Build yourself up through cardio …
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:40 PM
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Time and practice. Various apps and YouTube videos to help you.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:32 PM
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she definitely liked him she felt like she wasn’t emotionally ready for the relationship Let me translate: She liked to fuck him and has finished her use with him. Now she's ready to go fuck some more. why did she change her mind about her ex? Depends on her age; if she's hitting the wall, she wants a provider. Maybe she knows he's a good provider. Maybe she craves the depravity and toxicity of the relationship. You can never pinpoint a reason.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:25 PM
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If there's a will, there's a way. Girl was freaky and kept tabs on both of her parents work and daily schedules to the dot that she would find the time. Depending on where you live, if you're feeling bold you can fuck under the cover of night. Church/empty parking lots, trails, forest, park, etc. You do run the risk of getting caught of course. Getting your own car definitely helps. Im telling you these girls are wild. They will make the time and effort if they're that willing
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:55 PM
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The only person that will love you 100% and unconditionally is you, yourself. Become comfortable being alone (in the sense that you don't need to derive validation from women or others for that matter), lifting for yourself, and staying on your mission. Your mission doesn't necessarily have to be from point a to point b. In fact, it will have many sub missions that compliment that mission. It's something that will ebb and flow, but ultimately knowing what you want for yourself and your very bein…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:40 PM
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At 8.5% body fat, you won't have much muscle unless you were building muscle prior. Otherwise, it's a lot easier to build lean muscle mass at lower body fat than at a higher one. Realistically, it all depends on your fitness goals. If your goal is to look shredded, you need to be at a calorie surplus in order to build muscle first and then cut once you build that baseline of muscle. There's no way around that. You don't need to have any extreme diet. If you don't want to think about it, just eat…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:18 PM
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Ultimately those are just excuses. If you have a high enough SMV, and can pull-- these girls will make the time and circumstances to happen. Ex: I've had girls drive over to my place, I'd escalate, and bang. Didn't have a car at the time, but a girl straight up gives me her number and we hit it off from there.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:13 PM
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Text logistics. Clearly she wants to get dicked down-- give it to her already man
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:09 PM
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Everyone's got problems of course. No question about that. I'd love to hear the long version too, either in this thread or when you (can and decide) to make a post. I enjoy reading the struggles of other fellow men knowing I can take solace that I'm not alone in my struggles, albeit not the same or in its severity.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 06:27 AM
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Genuinely curious about your story. Would love to hear about it if you're okay with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 04:04 AM
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Although both red pill and seddit pertain to the manosphere and its endeavors of men dating-- red pill is the ideology of becoming a man you and others deem worthy; women of course becoming a byproduct of it. Greatness is attractive. Whereas seddit is the art of solely trying to persuade and lay with women. Yes, red pill may imploy similar behavior, but they're vastly different in their end goals.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:08 AM
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Mate guarding, and lack of abundance mentality. Read up on the sidebar because you absolutely need it and haven't read it.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 06:17 PM
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So why are people like this? People are like this because they're lazy and it's easier to blame others. People's actions aren't reflective of you-- they're reflective of the environment they were raised in. In terms of your family, I recommend practicing extreme ownership and trying to apply the principles to everybody. Why do they only have short term memory? People tend to remember the bad more so then the good. It's just human nature I'm afraid. Why do they only remember the one time u didn’t…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:30 PM
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Someone mentioned that it could be a shit test. Which, yes, it can be-- especially if she's latina. That's what I'd like to say until I actually went through the conversation and it seemed like you were playing 21 questions with her. You're killing all attraction and it seems like you're interrogating her. You've developed oneitis for this girl and it shows. You're suffering from a lack of abundance mentality and it shows. If this girl truly enjoyed any time with you, she would actively try to e…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:27 PM
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Hit it and quit it. No exchange of any contacts is a pretty big sign of a ONS. If she wants something more, she will reach out or hit you up again through the friend.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:20 PM
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Read up No More Mr. Nice Guy. The book is meant for people like you and (iirc) go into detail about religion and sexuality too.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:55 AM
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Currently I am 24 year old male, who has no college degree, who has worked in entrepreneurship for the past 5 years; working to start companies; working as an advisor to startups, with little to no job prospects, as it seems none wants to hire an entrepreneur. They don't want to hire a wannabe. You are merely a self proclaimed, delusional 24 yr old that needs to start an actual career if you want to delve into being self sufficient. Unless you are driven and brilliant, which newsflash, you aren'…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:21 AM
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Book of pook Sex God method Models by Mark Manson Extreme ownership The subtle art of not giving a fuck These books I felt like gave me the most perspective or biggest impact in my life. Currently reading: Practical Female Psychology Edit: Also just try searching your question in the search function and guarantee you'll find more books relating to TRP.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:20 AM
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Late but best things: Read all books relating to life, TRP, growing your money, and becoming a better person. Volunteer/Networking. You'll gain perspective and social skills. Learn a skill. Language, coding, music Taking time to go outside with no technology and simply letting things just be. Experience everything at face value and notice the little details in life.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:16 AM
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If you have friends with quick witted humor and who love to banter, you'll naturally practice it
/r/askTRP08/05/21 07:09 AM
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At some point you will realize that friends will come and go. People's interests and priorities will vastly change over time relative to you-- and that's okay. If you do have any friends that have been there for you through thick and thin, I wouldn't completely cut things off. They're likely going through the blue pill phase of their lives and if they're worth anything to you, you'll want to be there for them. Obviously don't full on introduce red pill ideology, but sprinkle in some wisdom here …
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:46 AM
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If this is at your place-- this is the classic case of the "sexless" innkeeper. She will forever continue to hold sex as carrot on a stick over you. Otherwise if it's at hers, she's likely using you as an emotional tampon and just enjoys the attention. If you know what game she's playing, the best way to play is to not play. Make yourself scarce and focus on your mission instead of a bunch of what ifs.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:56 PM
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Socialization is a skill you learn by doing. You will learn this on a day to day basis just by interactions with people. If you can't have conversations with other everyday people, what makes you think you'll be able to socialize with girls?
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:47 PM
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She is crazy in love with me and I care about her well-being because I am human but she's gots to go. Yeah you have to dehumanize her in your eyes. She's not even a person. Honestly the quora post isn't the worst advice I've seen. It can also make her crazier if anything since she knows she can now control you. It can go either way but the best thing I can think of is going MIA on her.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 09:42 PM
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The books main takeaway should be that eventually the pursuit of women will be the inevitable destruction of you. Unless you are actively self improving and working on your mission, the women that you fool will be nothing more then one night stands. If you try to lock a women down, the facade will come crumbling down and they will see you for what you are. Yes game can help you, but only as a crutch; it is not to be confused with something you can actively rely on like a limb. It is an interesti…
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:35 PM
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The girl is making time out of her schedule to see you at your place. You failed to escalate and need to become more assertive about what you want. I guarantee she will respect that energy a lot more.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:55 PM
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Continue on the path of self improvement. It sounds like you have a lot of trouble being comfortable with being alone. I recommend finding your mission and working towards it-- until then you will continue to derive meaning and validation from external sources, including women. Until then, work towards being comfortable with being alone and internalizing what you have to do next.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:49 PM
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Well aware. I'm not particularly keen on LTRs. There's more fulfillment on working on myself. Its been harder to find more traditional thinking girls nowadays since they all listen to the feminist-centric narrative. I'd rather not have another headache in my life in other words.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:36 AM
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I've met my fair share of girls in the double digits as well-- granted I'm grossly turned off by that. Don't get me wrong, 3 guys isn't necessarily bad, but for around that age- especially since OP sees her as LTR material, it's a no go for me. That being said, I do prefer girls with experience. Not a big fan of babying them.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:30 AM
0

Post-nut clarity usually does that
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:09 AM
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1) While I know their value is depreciating do they start looking for beta bucks this early? Depends on your definition of early. Men age like fine wine, women age and sour like milk. If they are at your age, 25, then expect them to either have hit the wall or starting. Girls will look for beta bucks based on their circumstances and needs. Some are more independent than others. Some are more dependent and needy-- they require their hands held. 2) If every girl seems to want a relationship, how d…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:31 AM
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Short answer? No. she's only 18 only the third guy I'm assuming you're in the states and hope you weren't with a minor. 3 guys by the age of 18 is fairly steep and should set off red flags. Don't bother with this one and realize she is another girl with tons of baggage. Definitely not ltr material. she is super dependant on outside validation particularly entertains guys that wanna fuck her . . . she wants an open relationship one day Red flags. Ding ding ding, next!
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:26 AM
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Kill the bluepill inside of you. Trust your gut and know when it's come to an end. Your soon to be ex knows all too well the beta current you. Read the sidebar and start lifting heavy.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:13 AM
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Blowing up my phone because I haven't texted back, getting angry with me Stop being so readily available and falling into the trap of immediately responding to her every whim. Let her have her tirade and stfu or just drop her. I would consider myself almost in the Chad territory as far as looks and personality go Don't delude yourself. If you were practically "Chad territory", you wouldn't be making this post in the first place. She would do everything in her power to keep you. The real issue ca…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:57 PM
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My parents started accusing me of being too obsessed with the gym Who cares what anybody says about your work ethic concerning the gym, or anything for that matter. Work for yourself and unapologetically. When people see you improving yourselves, they hate it. Crab in the bucket mentality.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:06 PM
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Then you haven't seen crazy.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:54 PM
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When this happens, feminism kicks in because women don't want to be housewives to betas. Not entirely true. Feminism is a narrative thinly masked by women as equality, when in reality it is the contrary-- inequality and hate for their male counterparts. Women turn towards feminism when they realize they didn't capitalize on their youth and beauty, and instead wasted those years; they grow to become old and bitter. Its easier to blame others than to face the harsh reality that they are used goods…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 05:29 PM
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I'm a 21 yo male that is looking to transform my current non-romantic relationship with a 17 yo girl Don't.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:44 PM
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We all struggle with our demons, but take it from me and stop the drinking and chain smoking. It doesn't help. Plenty of self help/care books out there, I advise taking a look at some of them. Most prominent one that comes to mind is The Book of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Essentially you should acknowledge the "now" and embrace it for what it is. Good or bad. As far as your drinking and smoking problems go, don't go cold turkey all together. Just start by cutting down your intake. If you smoke 2 pack…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:17 AM
1

Except it is. You literally sustain permanent damage to your body. You can lose the ability to taste or smell. See the many anecdotal cases in the recoveringfromcovid subreddit.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:01 AM
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Except it's literally in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:07 PM
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Build a rainy day fund first and foremost. Make sure you have enough money to cover for basic utilities, rent and groceries for at least 3 months. From there you can start to look to invest in assets. Make your money work for you. The more assets you acquire, the more money you will make and let you invest your profits into more assets. Since you are young you can look to invest into funds, stocks, or bonds. Time is the most important asset in terms of investing due to compound interest. Do not …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:03 PM
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opportunity to marry This is an oxymoron. Marriage is not an opportunity but rather a soul sucking shackle that will take half your income and then some if you have kids. I've never had a long term relationship with a women so this would be my first. Marriage sounds like a great idea to kick that off with.
/r/askMRP28/06/20 08:53 AM
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To reaffirm our beliefs and help those that, like us, may be in a similar situation. TRP is the embrace of masculine ideals that a man needs, albeit society has radicalized it. The most reliable person that we can effectively rely on is nobody but ourselves.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:49 PM
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Start with the sidebar first and foremost. Judging by your post history alone, I can deduce you are quite young. Your family probably didn't realize the gravity of the situation; albeit, you weren't assertive enough and stressed the importance of it. Instead of incessantly asking for information for literally every single thing-- you need to take action for yourself and actually apply yourself. Ultimately, you shape your life and have nobody else to blame. Yes, you can blame your family, but you…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:37 AM
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Condolences to you and your dog, but I believe you are on the wrong sub for this advice. Nowhere does this pertain to TRP.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 11:43 AM
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My issue is I can't see myself marrying a single woman You don't have to marry in order to have kids. I won't trust them. You have to accept it for what it is. The best you can do is be your best self, and be the masculine figure in the household that you wish to attain. Otherwise, vet your women properly and that is realistically the best precautions you can take. I dont believe in love, as much as I would like to imagine a perfect fantasy love life I don't think it exists. Bluepilled dream is …
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:01 PM
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Once people, not only women, start to lose control of their lives, they usually seek escapes via pleasures or drugs to try and fulfill that void. However, that void will not be fulfilled if it is ignored; it must come through one's inner self to resolve this. I believe social media has further compounded this by allowing such alienation amongst ourselves, and reaffirming those who follow the same lifestyle that it is healthy. In reality, it is just an echo chamber of reaffirming validation, whic…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:53 PM
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Definitely. Trust your gut and you've already acknowledged the red flags. Drop your losses and see this as a bullet dodged.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:55 AM
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Lack of abundance mentality, idolizing her and putting her on a pedestal, and you are not content with being comfortable with yourself. You probably derived your happiness from her and you were content with conformity. Self-improvement books can only give you tools, but you have to put its teachings into practice; TRP teachings should be in there too.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 09:21 PM
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I say it's better to postpone chasing after girls until this all blows over. That is up to you though. In fact, incredibly obese guys in my area have 8s and 9s as girlfriends Using them as a fallback or for money. These guys have larger "frames" albiet, it is fat. Regardless focus on your mission rather than measuring yourself against others as a metric. 100% of girls who have made STRONG eye contact with me have not had sex with me. Probably not escalating enough or just attractive enough to be…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:17 PM
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I think you know what the answer is. Trust your guts and don't make the mistake of having the LTR go on any longer than it has to.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:53 PM
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Classic case of existential nihilism. It is essentially the belief that life has no intrinsic value. You, me and everybody have no purpose in the grand scheme of things and are insignificant compared to the universe. Nothing we do matters and even if we did exist, it would not matter relative to the perspective of the universe. We are essentially a grain of sand. Despite knowing this, what we do with our lives will matter to us. Whether that be living what others deem to be a "good", safe, stabl…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:34 PM
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You don't have her hamstering. She actually has you. You're sending paragraphs to her practically and investing too much interest. So much so that you have now put her on a pedestal by validating her with compliments. Focus on your mission and the women will be a byproduct of that.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:04 AM
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AskMRP is the way to go for you. I'm not even going to bother drilling you here because they will do that plenty over on that subreddit. Plus, they are that much more knowledgeable than me. Being married is the red pill on hard mode. Nothing will go in favor for you as the man. Lawyer up as well, do not think otherwise.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 08:01 PM
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The important thing to note is to choose you battles wisely. The feminist-centric narrative are at all-time highs and will do anything in their means to belittle, or slander your name, just because your views do not align with theirs. What you can do is stick firm in your own beliefs and values of what is right and wrong and ignore the drivel that comes out. Another note-- HR is there for the company's ass, not yours. Keep that in mind and try to keep a paper trial for things or people you belie…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 08:41 AM
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My condolences to you and your family. In my eyes, you did dodge a bullet from a deranged, unsympathetic ex. In times of trouble and grief, you will see who truly cares for you and who are actually there for you.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 08:35 AM
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Sidebar is realistically the cream of the crop as far as practical and theoretical lessons go. Aside from that, look at the top posts from all the TRP subreddits. Keep in mind that TRP should be a guideline for how you should live your life.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:38 AM
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Best response? Not engaging them and saving yourself from wasting your breath and the headache. If they are at your school or work? Tough luck. You will be labeled a misogynist and disliked, simply the reason being that you don't align with their views. The only way that they can change said views is if they are able to rationally think for themselves and see the evidence that is so blatantly there in their faces. As opposed to just regurgitating what their friends or social media tell them and …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:33 AM
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I wouldn't worry about debating if it is or isn't "alpha" or not. What is important is acknowledging that men getting raped IS an issue that has a negative stigma on it. The lack of support centers for men that do struggle with this mentally unfortunately do not have it as readily available to their counterparts- women. Feigning ignorance towards such a matter is terrible in itself and is a slap in the face for their fellow man. You can join the feminist-centric narrative of downplaying such a m…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:34 AM
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Seize what you want in this world and unapologetically. Perhaps the reason you are feeling this way could be attributed towards your upbringing. Whether that be through the use of mass media shoving disney blue-pilled drivel down your throat or love songs of heartache, you must surmise past through all the bull shit and see through the smoke and mirrors. Based on your post, I can tell that you haven't either fully internalize the sidebar or haven't read it at all. Regardless, I recommend you bru…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:15 AM
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Has it affected me? It definitely has. Has it changed me for the better? It definitely has. What I recommend is to try and incorporate ideals and beliefs that you believe right from an individual that is living life to the fullest. Instead of basing yourself on vague metrics that may come from past baggage or society's expectations from right or wrong, you should apply metrics to fulfill yourself as an individual. If need be, set your metrics one step at a time. Emulate said individual if you ha…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:09 AM
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I wouldn't say big right now, but it is definitely growing. The internet is highly attributed towards such a matter, just because it is innately available and widespread. There is a difference between acknowledging the red pill and actually applying it to your lives on a practical basis. I would be more interested on percentage of those who are aware relative to the population. If there is a larger sample size, there will obviously be more people being aware of it. Words such as simp have taken …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:02 AM
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To answer your question yes. Either match the level of effort to your dreams or your dreams to your efforts.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:17 AM
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I agree with the previous poster that mentioned you are depressed. I believe you tried to use women as a metric for your success in life and ideals that you projected onto your relationships, until either you realized that she isn't the one or she picks up on that type of energy coming from you. The fact that you are counting the volume of sex you've had speaks enough for itself. Self-help books are either there to try and sell something to you or to actually help. The thing is though that self-…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:43 PM
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Do what you want to do. Don't measure yourself to the metric of society's expectations of what is deemed as a "good" life. That is subjective; only you can determine what makes you happy and what you derive satisfaction from. If you are comfortable in your own skin and don't feel the need to necessitate about any type of relationship or material need, it is a good sign. If you do fine any genuine people, I do say hold on to them as that is a commodity in itself; in a world that is becoming more …
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:32 PM
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Read sidebar. For your diet-- it is what it is, but just do the most you can with it until you are able to get a job. Focus on the things you can improve that are within your means.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:01 PM
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hot girl She has the same autonomy as any other female. She is objectively seen as more beautiful than others. End of story, next. I had oneitis like a MF but still mentally I saw all the red flags Now you know the red flags when you see them. Hindsight is 20/20. Don't make the same mistake again. You clearly put her on a pedestal and worshipped her. No questions about that at all. Don't bother reaching out to an ex; it's like digging through the dumpster. Use this time to re-read sidebar and ap…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 11:57 AM
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Liberal women tend to have all the red flags of a women: Dyed hair, tattoos, familial/dad issues, overly opinionated, etc. They have practically no concept of a father figure in their life, and instead derive attention through other means-- simps and thirsty men. They will throw a bone to the poor chap; only to be met wanting more despite receiving nothing. These usually don't even know what they want from themselves. Hence, why they usually commit to nothing and try everything. Some of them are…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 11:39 AM
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An ideal is not dead until the last person dies with it. Even then, a person lives on in their ideals through other people or transcribe their life onto paper. Sure there is an influx of information out there, but that does not stop one from seeing through the smoke and mirrors. One should be capable of formulating their own ideas and being able to hold onto their personal beliefs and convictions. We shouldn't be swayed by popular opinion, but instead freely think for ourselves and hold firm to …
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:47 AM
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Less is more. Unless you guys live together, just stop visiting as often. Go pick up a hobby or read a book. Hell, do something else aside from drinking booze and just fucking. Been there done that. Now learn from my mistake and actually apply it to yourself
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:31 AM
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Why would you ever get in an LTR Because we are literally borne to procreate and pass on our genes. That doesn't mean we should just throw caution into the wind. Vet your plates properly and they will be LESS likely to cheat; this does not mean they will not cheat though.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:25 PM
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They're all the same. Plus points to you if you are white just because in lots of asian culture, being light skinned is valued; this can be tied down to the idea that those with tan skin were working out in the fields while those with light skin are usually of royalty and/or not needing to work.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:19 PM
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She loves you because she likes to use you as an emotional tampon and for validation. You care too much and put too much thought over some girl disrespecting you. Next.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:25 PM
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It fucking sucks, but it was the best TRP practical lesson that I experienced and it will definitely be the last. I was a lurker on TRP and questioned some of its principles, but never truly delved in reading the sidebar. I had my suspicions and my gut was telling me to drop her, but beta me did not have the balls to do it. You'll pick up on the resentment. Perhaps her futile attempts to project that you are the one that is cheating; when in reality she is the one actually cheating. You'll pick …
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:19 PM
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Just don't.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:12 PM
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evolutionary means Sorry bro she's about to peg you hard.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:47 PM
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If she truly respected you, she wouldn't give these guys a single minute. Time to reread up on sidebar and hitting gym hard again. I personally don't like going back through the trash so its up to you if you still want to plate her. She is playing dumb and essentially shit testing you. I don't have the time or patience for this petty shit.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:45 PM
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Seen my fair share of girls from my college and high school transition from attractive women looking to shop around to eventually finding an ATM beta bux they can use to try and keep the show-- going through a myriad of beauty products and fitness. Once they hit the wall do they realize they need somebody to finance and keep afloat either their current lives or to settle. Although I don't have any concrete evidence, I believe that because social media has influenced women to "live their best liv…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:40 PM
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Depends on the girl of course. Take judgement for yourself and plan accordingly. Otherwise an exclamation that I could offer pertains to pheromones. In one 2005 study, gay men given anonymous samples of sweat preferred the scent of gay men, and heterosexual men fancied the scent of women. One’s nose can also help identify a genetically compatible mate. Researchers asked women to rate the odors of T-shirts worn by different men. Women preferred men whose DNA was different enough from their own th…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:31 PM
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Clearly using you for validation. She will occasionally put a carrot in front of you like a donkey. Don't be the donkey.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:36 AM
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Great satirical post. Too many bluepilled betas completely missing the point of post. I almost skipped the post and wall of text until I went through the comments.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 01:37 AM
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I've seen my fair share of people that decided to get a nose job and those that did get one usually regretted it. It really boils down to insecurities and working with what you got.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:56 PM
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I'm in a rock and a hard place. You're not. You are still a kid stumbling through life without any rhyme or reason for the world. You're occupied with smoking. Nothing less, nothing more. You live in their house, and therefore their rules. Suck it up and stick with it for another year. If by the end of the year you still don't want anything to do with them or how they tell you to live your life, get a job and move out. From there you are able to smoke to your hearts content. Right now just focus…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:39 AM
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Can't relate but perhaps you need some soul searching to do. Highly recommend the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle if you haven't read it already. Fantastic self-help book that might give you a different perspective or outlook on life that you can find in yourself. Otherwise my sincerest condolences. Good luck to you brother.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:34 AM
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Mundane, small talk.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:29 AM
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To be fair, what the actual fuck are half the questions being asked? -- Problems that are easily solved by the sidebar or taking initiative of their own lives without asking for permission from us.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:28 AM
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She has other options and just as many guys chasing after her. Who cares? I'm not invested in them and I'm not looking to get tied down. If they hit me up, cool; if they don't, cool. Either way I'm busy on my mission and what I want for myself.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:26 AM
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Step 1: Go to mormon church Step 2: Meet mormon girl Step 3: ??? Step 4: Profit. Did the math for you. Go get em champ
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:32 AM
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I'd be understanding if you were my homie and trying to get laid, but generally I'll stick with my homies. I can always get pussy but I can't always spend time with the homies. Just do what you want, but don't forget the people that are actually there for you.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:24 AM
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I definitely think its a generational thing and usually older people by that age have their heads out of their ass after living for that long. Usually their ego are in check and more humble
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:20 AM
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Cold showers have plenty of benefits. If it helps you personally, keep at it. Otherwise some benefits include: *Stronger immune system *Combats depression *Trains the muscle in your brain that helps you get out of your comfort zone
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:07 PM
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Excellent reads. Thanks for the links
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:47 AM
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You do you brother. Bigger girls need some loving and it seems that there's a growing demand for them wanting attention (as obesity rates keep going up) and a low supply (most guys don't like fat chicks). Just do what you want to do and unapologetically. I think the problem is that you perceive it as a problem in the first place and care too much of what others think of you. Personally I find them revolting (with the occasional exception cute chubby girl) and do not fuck with them at all. P.S I'…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:19 AM
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Sidebar readings address this part. The feminist-centric norm has been pushing women to become independent, working women instead of being the feminine figure in the household. More now than ever we see women advocating to sleep freely as they please and pushing women to jobs they don't even want to do. Much less the work that needs to be put in. Take for example any STEM related field. If you were to walk into a CS or engineering class, you would find that the majority of those in it are men. D…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:27 AM
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I'm a 280 lbs 5'7 nerd, and I don't have any close friends. 5'7 280 lbs is morbidly obese. A lot of work that needs to be done. Go lift and read the sidebar if you haven't already. And all of my "friends" are just as lame, if not lamer, than me. Sounds like they're just acquaintances at that point because you choose to stick with these "lame friends", but in reality you're too insecure to live on your own and much too lazy to put in the work that needs to be done. My self esteem is extremely low…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:59 AM
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Monk mode should be done if you want to improve just yourself to build something more tangible instead of spending so much resources for girls. You should be able to turn it off and on like a switch according to your own needs that you want for your own future. Own up to the work you need to put in if you want to fulfill the vision you have in mind for yourself. Despite being a fat ass... You have trouble living in your own skin and need to work on being accepting of yourself and of what is. Und…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:42 AM
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The best way in my opinion is to just keep on the path of self improvement and fulfillment. Disregard the opinions and actions of others, unless it is beneficial for your sake. I've been a lot better filtering out the people that either want to waste my time or put on a fake front that they miss me or try to insult me. I've found that people start to get bitter when they see you bettering yourself and they hate it - why you may ask? It's because they see something in you that makes them consciou…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:34 AM
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As much as I love to advocate for self introspection and looking at your own life from a critical point of view, I fail to see how books don't help. They can certainly help point you in the right direction and give you some perspective that you otherwise wouldn't have. For example, NMMNG teaches the fact that you should do things of your own accord and unapologetically. Seize what you want in your life and be upfront with your own emotions as opposed to bottling it up and defaulting yourself to …
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:23 AM
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So does that mean we should stoop to their level and act like a bunch of cutthroat harpies? On the contrary, we can become the levelheaded man we need to be to improve every aspect of our lives and be firm in our own convictions.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 06:07 AM
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Great post bro. Your story hit a note too close to home. Thankfully I have a family that I can lean on and spend time with. I will allow myself this brief hiatus to enjoy this time with my family and let loose just a bit. I know the work that needs to be done and it's high time for me to kick it into high gear. This post has helped remind me what needs to be done and what can be achieved with that work. Merry christmas to you brother and to any reading this. Life does get better, but only for wh…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:13 AM
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Don't you have some anime and league of legends to get back to? LOL.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:00 AM
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You're a character. Lmfao
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:58 AM
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This was a throwaway account that I have now devoted to TRP. I have no use for the rest of reddit as it doesn't serve what I need and want in my life. Nice try though.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:57 AM
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Strawman fallacy. That is nowhere close to anything that I said. Get to lifting instead of bitching on the internet. You need it. Badly.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:55 AM
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Would you say any of this shit irl? Well no. Just like fight club, you do not talk about the red pill with people. You have the minority opinion vs a majority opinion; it would alienate yourself from other people. That being said, that doesn't stop me from shitting on my friends or family for behavior that I perceive as beta. It will be in the form of banter. Me and my friends banter all the time to keep us in check and for shits and giggles-- something you desperately need. All of you are actua…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:52 AM
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The problem I have with people on red pill forums is they think that being "redpilled" is freedom to act like complete assholes. Time to find a new sub then if you can't stand criticism you so desperately need. There's zero reason to insult someone looking for advice. The funny part is that nowhere in my post did I insult you, you perceived my advice as an insult and took it wrong. Maybe it's because its advice you know you need to do. The reason I asked this question on this forum in particular…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:40 AM
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Keep it casual and do not upgrade past a plate.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:29 AM
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So, I'm 30 years old but the way my face and body looks people often think I look 18. So you have been an adult for 12 years and have done nothing to amend this? You can start by lifting and getting your t-levels checked. I have a full beard Shave it if it looks scraggly. Some guys can rock beards, others just have pubes growing out of their neck. I am overweight right now Go lift. When I get my appearance right, the right haircut and shirt, I can look "hot" but it takes so much effort and I can…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:28 AM
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Cold showers. So many benefits including fighting against depression. Gym and lifting. Nothing beats getting a crazy pump, improving myself and my confidence, and lifting obscene amounts of weight. Reading. I love to read. A book I recommend to those doing soul-searching is reading the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Fantastic book that has changed my perspective in life.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:28 AM
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I say go for a bulk (and especially since it is bulking season anyways) and get as strong as you can get. At your current BF %, you should still look great. A picture would help us greatly to know what we are working with though. Afterwards, go for a cut using IF and Keto.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:12 AM
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Shrugs + farmer walks do wonders for my traps. Usually do them on my pull day.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:56 AM
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Depends on your needs. It seems you are going more so for aesthetics than strength. Otherwise just go with a lean, clean bulk if you want to get bigger.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:47 AM
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Who cares? Stop worrying about your insecurities and worry about improving what is within your means.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:45 AM
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Diet is a big part of the health of your skin and hair. Also taking cold showers too; in addition to so many benefits that it provides.
/r/askMRP17/12/19 03:16 PM
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The training doesn't necessarily mean he's going to win against all of them. Just means that he is able to hold his ground and defend himself. My friend that has competed on a national level and a black belt in karate once told me the best self defense is the ability to run away the fastest. The whole point of self defense is your ability to protect yourself.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:19 AM
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I feel it should’ve been a different outcome. I could’ve fucked her more often. That's your first problem. Being too outcome dependent over one girl. She could’ve opened it immediately because she really enjoyed me. If she truly enjoyed you, she would be all over you. Alas, aren't we here. I gotta figure out what it is You don't.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:50 AM
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It’s been 6 hours which is abnormal, I think she ghosted me? You're worrying about one girl why? Carry on with your life. On top of not opening my snap she’s still posting on her story clearly on Snapchat. Who cares? Stop displaying needy ass behavior over one girl. In fact, go reread the sidebar because you haven't internalized it enough.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:43 AM
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Forgiveness only goes so far. I am more willing to forgive those that have actually been there for my life and family members. Otherwise if I ever get dropped or drop somebody else, they are forever dropped with very few exceptions.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:37 AM
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8-10 guys is a lost fight from the start unless you're very well trained in self-defense. What's more important, your ego or being badly hurt to prove how macho you are to a bunch of thugs? Choose your battles wisely.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:35 AM
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Pursue my love for music. I would learn to be tutored by people who know what the hell they are doing. Basically find things that would make you an interesting person. I would read vigorously and try to become acquainted with as much knowledge as I can that I find relatively interesting.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:00 AM
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Hit the gym and read the sidebar. If you don't put in the work, you have nobody to blame but yourself.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:00 AM
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If she truly wants to do anything further, she will reach out. You are a busy man and have much more better things to worry about than some girl.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:52 AM
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If she is committed to you, she would know the proper steps to block all communication. It's bad to mate guard, but you should've already set boundaries that she should know.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:51 AM
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Judge a girl by her actions, not her words. You didn't escalate enough and definitely could've F-closed. Think of religion as just one giant shit test. What should I do next time we meet. ? Fuck her. " I will never forgive you for doing this " Just tell her that, "Jesus is already inside you. Why can't I be inside you"?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:47 AM
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This too shall pass. For now live in the moment and grow from it. Turn that anger and angst to continue your journey and lift.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:52 AM
1

You're right. I wasn't paying attention too much when I made that post
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:44 AM
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Would love to see a pic of what your physique looks like before I say anything. Also what do your compounds look like too? You need to focus on building your confidence, just like any other muscle.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:27 AM
1

He just misses the readily available sex and growing complacent with a girl is all.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:02 AM
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So are you going to waste your time making sure she's better and putting in effort to try and fix her problems?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:00 AM
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Men are almost always the ones leaving. I've seen plenty of anecdotal evidence myself that the reverse was true. Unless you can site evidence otherwise, I wouldn't even say "almost always"; that implies an overwhelming majority of men are the cause of these divorces. So it's unfair to blame women for being single moms when the REASON they are single moms is because the men disappear. Never said they were the sole reason. Merely pointing out cited evidence that they are the majority of the ones t…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 11:56 PM
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Don't take anything seriously on there and say whatever you want. Have some fun with it
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:04 AM
1

"I know".
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:02 AM
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I'm looking for clarification and explanation on the "best practices" of long term commitment. Never have a long term relationship? It is possible to attain an LTR, but you must vet your women well. Marriage is another matter all together. I fear might get married (for many valid reasons) & then have a ~55% chance of losing half my assets (which I think I'll grow up over 10-40 years). Bluepilled part of you that is still thinking, but also the RP part of you knowing the risks. Detrimental to you…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:45 AM
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I wouldn't say almost never. The men that had the child did not want to be locked down, although he had a part in the child's conception, but what makes it any different than when women do it? I'm confused on the part where you are more so stressing the part of men leaving more than women leaving. I would be more interested in learning the demographics, particularly based on economic standing to decipher any trends on this matter.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 04:31 AM
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Eckhart tolle
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:35 AM
1

This problem of just 'what if' and past failures and the feeling that I NEVER DID ANYTHING RIGHT just crushed me down The book will cover this issue for you. Like I said, you're too caught up in the past and the failures associated with it. If you let the past dictate the present, you will be on the road to a self-fulfilling prophecy for the present to be your future. I'm afraid someday im going to do something bad like killing myself eventually. If it ever gets to that point, do not be afraid t…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:58 AM
3

Found the problem. Easy cop out for you to say. I've seen my fair share of guys that started out as sticks and were skinny all their lives to lifting heavy and being in the best shape of their lives.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:51 AM
1

Well now you know where to start. TRP is a great place. Sidebar and lift.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:48 AM
1

Thought this would be some simp write up about someone that lost seeing their kids but instead it's just an angsty, weed-smoking kid talking about hating on their family. Do what you got to do little bro.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:46 AM
4

Unless I see stats or a picture of your bod, your opinion is worth jack shit to me.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:44 AM
1

Then give them a million other reasons why they should be attracted to you.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:40 AM
1

That's for you to decide.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:40 AM
5

Alright I actually read through that behemoth mess of an emotional throw up, but here is what I have deduced from you-- you're insecure and come from a dysfunctional family and never had that paternal guidance to show you what it means to be a man. Thankfully, you discovered TRP in lieu of that and have come across this knowledge. Only for that to be detrimental to yourself once again, because you refuse to simply accept yourself for who you are. You're too busy on what ifs and being too outcome…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:38 AM
0

How do I make sure I don't lose her? You don't. You simply accept what is. You could also could keep building this house of cards, but eventually it will all come crashing down.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:26 AM
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Tl;dr. Keep living in the past and blaming others or do something to fix it. To the Sidebar and lifting you go.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:21 AM
1

Great job projecting there buddy. I did give you the advice and now here you are deflecting, defending, and explaining your actions. Do what you need to do to keep defending your precious ego.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:19 AM
0

Unfortunately as a man in this society, you have nobody to rely on other than yourself. Either own up to that fact or drown in a life of mediocrity. You know what you have to do and you have the resources on this subreddit to help you. Either match your dreams to your actions or your actions to your dreams.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:17 AM
-1

Sorry, I assumed you were having one of those "online relationships" because of how much of a beta bitch you are. I meant to say, why are you lying to yourself you beta retard?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:13 AM
1

A woe is me. I was born with brittle bones and paper skin.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:11 AM
1

How is it "getting serious" when you haven't even met face to face. Either shut this shit down or own up to the fact that you're a beta ass liar trying to perpetuate a false caricature of your own self.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:09 AM
2

Why bother? If a girl asks you if you can be friends, just reply, "Sorry, I already have friends". Girls make terrible friends anyways. Very cutthroat and two faced (Exhibit A: Sororities).
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:04 AM
2

I think the better question to ask is why are there so many single dads? Women initiate the divorce 70% of the time. Ask women why. Why are dads not sticking to their moms and kids? Again, first point. Where are they going? Why are they so flakey? To work their asses off and living on a barely livable wage. That or they just off themselves.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 02:02 AM
1

Sounds like you're coming from a place of insecurity and lack of attention. Get comfortable to live and breathe in your own skin before you start worrying about others. Much less, projecting that you don't need them, but in actuality you are too dependent on others validation.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:57 AM
4

Read the Power of Now. Fantastic book that has changed my perspective and recommend to people that are need of some soul searching.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:49 AM
24

He got in for free because he is friends with the bouncer. Not sure if he knew this would happen or if he even bought any drinks there (which I personally wouldn't even bother).
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 01:47 AM
-1

Hate to be that guy but do you have any sources by any chance? Genuinely curious on why you have come to this conclusion about this or if it is speculation.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 01:42 AM
3

Abundance mentality and lifting. You clearly need to start trusting your own gut and having the self respect to put the breaks on a relationship when it is long overdue. You let this girl (and your ex) walk over you like a goddamn welcome mat. You don't get out of this "fucked up thinking", you simply accept what is and make the most out of it; it's only your turn, just enjoy it while you can. Meanwhile you need to stop being a pussy and start doing things of your own accord.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:37 AM
3

You must put yourself in uncomfortable situations to become comfortable with being uncomfortable. There is no saving grace that can save you aside from your willingness to do so. Lift and read sidebar. Lifting will provide you with confidence you so desperately need and subsequently raise your SMV to a respectable level. You're probably the timid, passive guy that stands awkwardly in any setting; too afraid to look anybody in the eye, much less say anything.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:34 AM
2

Who the fuck cares
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:54 PM
1

Even better-- Wear a rubber always. It is the only form of a sexual contraception for men outside of vasectomy and abstinence.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 06:53 PM
1

You're still young. Do not be afraid to make mistakes and don't come to us to dictate your every move. Take this relationship as nothing but puppy love. Most relationships out of high school do not last (and rightfully so). Just learn and apply what you can from TRP. Once you come from a place of failure will you truly embrace TRP and its knowledge.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:40 AM
108

The United States tops the world when it comes to raising children in single parent households. No surprise there. A result of the feminist-centric norm that's being pushed and a lack of masculine figure to guide the household. While there’s been great economic growth the US has an epidemic with parents not staying together and raising their kids. While many kids are born out of wedlock over 70% of divorces in America are initiated by the wife. Hypergamy. Once she has secured a beta that is will…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 09:35 AM
2

Don't give her any satisfaction, which is seems like you gave her none. The best act of revenge is being successful and living your best life.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:54 AM
0

That's a relative question. Depending on who you ask, if you ask a beta how many girls hes been with it's probably none or he can only count them with one hand. If you ask an alpha, he has lost count by now. No way to really put a qualitative number on this question.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:50 AM
2

Just man up and do what you want to do. Are you going to ask us next if you should bang her?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:45 AM
2

It is quarantined but you can still access the information. You can even use the sidebar on asktrp for this
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:46 PM
7

You care too much and your SMV probably wasn't high enough for her to care to leave your ass. You reap what you sow. Get over this girl and realize she's 1 in 3.5 billion.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:43 PM
2

For mobile, go on the TRP subreddit. Click on the 3 bullets that should be on the top right corner. --> Consume all the information there like your life depends on it.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:33 PM
7

Look needy You are needy. You lack a mission that isn't this one girl.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:26 PM
2

Lack of interest. Read sidebar to learn how to escalate and recognize shit tests; you'll learn to pass the shit tests too.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:24 PM
1

Pursue what you want and do so without our permission. Also who the fuck cares if she has a boyfriend. She clearly doesn't respect him. Listen to a girls actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:22 PM
2

Yes to everything except going in raw. Use a condom. Too little reward for too much risk.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:20 PM
0

Soft next. I personally don't have time to waste in the life that I have. I would not default myself to an emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:13 PM
1

I believe the book will help answer this question for you. It's helped changed my perspective in thinking and I'm sure you will find your answer too.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:23 PM
2

I agree. I first discovered TRP while in a LTR of 1+ year. I was aware of some of the concepts, but not to the extent that I know now. It was not until I hit rock bottom after what she did to me did I really embrace TRP. I'm glad for what happened because I have become so much more wiser and in the best shape of my life. I consumed and embraced TRP when I saw how much it reaffirmed any suspicions and behaviors she had. Only in failure will a person truly be able to grow. Only in failure will the…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:19 PM
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Is she also holding you by your balls or did you not have any in the first place? Have some fucking respect for yourself and drop that shit. Hard next. Now go lift and read sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:12 PM
1

To answer your question, I believe it stems from seeing these blue-pilled guys that we see as a reflection of our past self. Some of these guys come from disparaged households and were raised by their mothers with no masculine figure to guide them. Instead of seeing our fellow men fall into depravity and wallowing in their misery (this can be our own friends, brothers, relatives), we choose to look at the bigger picture of bettering a Man in hopes for a better society; not just in masculinity fo…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:48 AM
1

Focus on yourself first and foremost. No use continuing to grind in a profession you know you will not like. Fix and improve what you can in your life. Don't dwell in the past and work in the present. If you let the past dictate the present, you will be on a self fulfilling prophecy to make the present your future. Recommend reading The Power of Now. Great insightful read that should help you.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:21 AM
1

Who cares. Improve what is within your means and build confidence.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:11 AM
3

Just get it over with so you don't have to be picky and seem so desperate. If you've been lifting for 7 years like you said you did in the comments, this should be easy. Especially since you are on the leaner side.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:09 AM
1

Read sidebar, No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Rational Male, and The Book of Pook. Then you can comeback and make a tangible post. Otherwise gtfo with this bluepill shit.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:58 AM
3

Watch and read lifting and nutrition videos Otherwise expanding my knowledge on TRP or books that help me as a person.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:54 AM
2

Glad to hear it. You can only go up from here bro.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:46 PM
1

Well at least you admit you're a beta bitch. There is nothing tangible to be gained from this post. Well, at least for you. I think you got an ASMR video to go back to. They'll comfort you and keep whispering sweet nothings.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:48 PM
1

All I'm hearing is a bunch of mental gymnastics explaining your past habits. You're trying to ask "alphas" if they have done this in the past to protect your ego. What you're asking is a rhetorical question in itself. Here let me rephrase what you're really asking: "Hey TRP, has anybody else listened to women whisper sweet nothings into my ear?" No. In fact we don't. They're whispering to me in real life to fuck them. Maybe you should think twice about posting some dumb shit like this on TRP.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:31 PM
4

I did in fact read your post. You having to ask if it's alpha or not or in line with TRP principles is a joke in itself.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:16 PM
1

Lift. If guys in wheelchairs can get fucking ripped, you can too. Your condition is only as strong as your will.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:06 PM
1

Just talk to fucking chicks dude. Why are you even on that shit
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:03 PM
1

Instead of being busy looking for signs, I think you need to reevaluate what you want from this girl. The breach of trust has already been established and that will only further eat at the relationship. Whether you are serious or not, you are doing both you and the girl a favor by being clear on your intentions. I advise you just next her.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:04 PM
2

Well aware. I was just laughing my ass off on that great image.
/r/askMRP12/12/19 03:32 PM
4

So what if you are selfish? Do so and unapologetically. Women do it all the time. Men don't do it as often as they should. A lot will default to being providers and settling for duty sex or perceived fulfillment in life without actually living their lives. You only get one life and what you do in that time is what matters. In the end, you are your own person and you get to draw the line as far as where your ethics stand.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:28 AM
1

You going out and doing your own thing. Spend less time with her. Give less affection. Hanging out with your buddies. Essentially as long as you are demonstrating higher value and that you are able to just as easily get another girl or lay (this can be without you even trying), dread game will ensue. Women will hit the wall a lot more sooner than guys will. The closer she is to the wall, the more likely she is trying to settle down. Continue with improving your own SMV value and just hitting the…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:23 AM
1

Her hunt has ended. She no longer needs to try hard. You are her trophy. She has settled because she knows the status of the relationship. She no longer has to prove herself and has grown to be complacent.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:02 AM
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She makes new accounts to send you videos of her getting dicked down. That is something else. Run and far away. Be glad that you didn't stick your dick in crazy. Not exactly sure what you can so as far as the legalities of what she is doing, but it is harassment of some form. Regardless be careful of yourself OP. Crazy ass chick
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:56 AM
3

Just say what's on your mind. Some girls get off on that degradation shit and loved to be abused like that.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:52 AM
6

Overthinking. I would be willing to give the benefit of the doubt, but if this is repeat behavior, not worth my time. If she cancelled on you last minute, that would be a different story. Say sure and just text logistics. The ball is in her court. Have a backup plan in the event that she repeats said behavior.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:48 AM
2

Honeymoon phase is well gone and she has grown to be complacent with what she has. Dread accordingly, and don't reward her cold behavior. Edited to please OP.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:43 AM
1

Nothing against you in particular. I definitely agree that it isn't exactly a top quality post, especially for TRP. Don't get me wrong, I'm not exactly encouraging or exempting this type of behavior, but it is a change of pace instead of seeing the plethora of newbies coming onto TRP asking the same questions without reading the sidebar. Regardless, I will still try to help guys where I can reaffirm my TRP knowledge that has been instrumental in my own life.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:40 AM
2

You don't necessarily have to go complete monk mode if they are practically throwing themselves on you. An easy lay is an easy lay. Just because you are making yourself the prime focus does not mean you have to live a life of celibacy. Although in your situation, I recommend getting all the shit you need to find out and get resolved before even thinking about doing anything with girls. It is better to be over prepared than underprepared. Leave no room for surprises.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:32 AM
2

We all face our own demons, some more so than others, but we need to learn to conquer those demons and remain in control of our own lives. I'm glad to hear you have adjusted your diet and started hitting the gym. Keep that shit up. Nobody can ever take that shit away from you and you will learn to love the iron temple. As far as managing your own demons, what has helped me personally is cutting out alcohol, fixing my diet, lifting, eating healthy and plenty (enough to grow but not gain more fat …
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:28 AM
3

You're still projecting your mistakes on somebody else. Just own up to the fact that you are in a hard spot because of your own accord. You were too busy thinking with the other head instead of the one that would keep you in the country. Stop saying you "can't" do something until you have actually tried your best. We are all dealt with different hands in life, and what we do with those cards are what determines ourselves as a person. This will pass and you will get through it. If you continue to…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:35 AM
7

Kudos to that image.
/r/askMRP12/12/19 12:21 AM
2

Your first problem was mentioning to your father TRP. Play it cool and do what you can to improve yourself. Meanwhile you are living under your dad's house meaning you have to abide by his rules. Direct your anger towards another outlet, like the gym.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:18 AM
1

Well looks like in the end you smashed so good on you, but yes just some improvement to get past LMR.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:11 AM
2

Do you ever just verbally scream at something so cringey? Yeah I did that.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 09:29 PM
1

Just be nonchalant about it and laugh it off.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:20 PM
1

Hard next. Carry on with your mission and drop the emotional and financial baggage. Stop wasting time, your most valuable asset, and learn to let go.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:18 PM
1

I'm not saying that you are butt hurt. The problem is that she perceives you as butt hurt. If she knows you are high value and knows that you have better things to do or other lays, it will not come across like that.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:10 PM
3

Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:14 PM
2

Newsflash: This is a redpill perspective and you definitely aren't dealing with it alright by asking us what to do against the "betas". Man the fuck up and confront them or dismiss them altogether. I would choose the latter just because I have better things to do with my time and could care less about what others think of me.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:45 AM
4

Sadly I've read worst on this sub, but at least he made it entertaining and was honest with himself instead of doing a bunch of mental gymnastics to validate himself.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:41 AM
3

Why don't you try it for yourself before you ask questions here? Seems to me that me that you are low value and insecure about what these guys think about you in the first place.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:36 AM
2

Not necessarily sure what the question is or if you just wanted to get your story off your chest but good for you. Definitely could've condensed a lot of this and spared us the details of the cringeworthy high school relationship stuff. If I'm going to be honest I just stopped reading once I read the part about you and your ex nonchalantly telling your friends in the group chat that you wanted to bang essentially. Anyways good on you for discovering TRP sooner rather than later. Focus on your mi…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:30 AM
1

It could be a variety of things-- mirroring your actions, validating herself to you, coincidentally loves all the things you do, or is just batshit insane. Regardless, do what you want to do. Although I advise against putting your dick into crazy.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:23 AM
3

In my experience, cuddling usually just leads to sex for me. But to each their own man. If you love to cuddle, cuddle away. Seems like you necessitate towards a physical aspect of human need outside of sex and that's more than okay. Do what you want and unapologetically. Otherwise, I'm sure you can find some girl that would like to reciprocate said cuddling. As far as maintenance that is beyond me, but probably find some emo or goth chick with abandonment issues and they'll probably love that sh…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:17 AM
1

Sounds like you are too outcome dependent on how your interactions with others go and worry too much about messing up. Go with the flow and just live your life. Who cares if you make a mistake? Just learn from it and laugh it off. Sounds like you have some self esteem problems that you need to resolve as well.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:03 AM
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Who cares? Do what you want and unapologetically. I personally love to banter with my friends all the time and chicks love it because we are having a good time instead of qualifying ourselves to them.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:01 AM
22

Advice varies from person to person. TRP serves as a guideline that you can apply to your own life. Doesn't necessarily mean that we will all have the same opinions on different things.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:58 AM
1

Who cares? Just say it was a one night stand or that a man does not kiss and tell.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:56 AM
14

You held your convictions and held frame. A lot better than most people can admit. One thing you could've done is try to act uninterested in her and let her work for your attention back instead of full out leaving.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:27 AM
3

You are most definitely plated and I'm surprised she hasn't amazon positioned you yet.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:04 AM
1

To save face from the family. Probably getting pressured by her family for not having a boyfriend yet. You just happen to have a high enough SMV for her to flaunt you like a puppy. Unless you are getting anything out of this LTR, I would hard next. I have better things to do with my own time and on my terms.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:41 PM
1

Sounds like you need to work on yourself mentally and emotionally before anything else. You need to find what gives you satisfaction in life (which it seems you are lacking in the social aspect). You need to learn to grow comfortable in your own skin and start doing the things you need to do for your sake.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:36 PM
1

Takes 2 to tengo last time I checked as far as LTRs go. You still agreed to this and didn't vet her well enough. Either a girl is down for me or not. She seems to be in the edge of the fence as far as this relationship goes. Judge by her actions, not her words. Her actions speaks volumes to me that she doesn't want to commit.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:32 PM
2

You didn't fail too badly but you did fuck up. Learn to better stfu and do things of your own accord. She is insecure as hell and you failed to pass her shit test. Her seeing that you have other options is good for you. Shows that you are high value (therefore she knows she has to work harder).
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:24 PM
2

Who cares? Dick her down and carry on with your mission in life. She just happened to be there for the ride. Whether that just be ONS (which is most likely unless you go full autismo), a plate, or LTR, she was just a subsequent result of applying TRP to your life.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:18 PM
1

Why are you trying to make her into a LTR in the first place? Sounds like she has problems committing (or shocker, you just don't have a high enough SMV). Case is, you're probably just one of her beta orbiters that she likes to hold onto for attention and validation. If a woman wants to commit, she will do so.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:12 PM
5

Try looking at your own eyes in the mirror and see if you can maintain eye contact. Go one more step and try looking at people in the eye on the internet on videos and images. After that go look at people passing by in the streets too. And so on and so on. On a deeper level to all this, it boils down to the fact that you are insecure about yourself and where you stand. Eye contact is confidence in yourself and your worth. Start here and than you can go on the practical level I mentioned. There a…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:37 AM
10

You obviously care about this girl and you making this post shows that you are insecure about what happens. It's just your turn, and you enjoyed it already. You have oneitis for this girl. It shows by you asking us on a post alone. Your buddy is hitting up an old plate that you already disregarded, so why should it affect you? The question you're asking us boils down to a personal level and what you expect from your own friends; again, you obviously have feelings for this girl and that is why th…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:31 AM
2

Sounds like you are doing a bunch of mental gymnastics on why you aren't this and why you aren't that. You can start by being certain that you are mentally ill and need to get that shit sorted out. Second, be certain with your own words and stop with this "kinda" bullshit. Just own up to it or not. To be frank, I'm not even sure what your question is. This was hard to read, but if you are asking us if you should or shouldn't go monk mode (and if you think you do, this is a rhetorical question), …
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:25 AM
3

What you need to do is start focusing on yourself. As much as you love your family, toxicity is toxicity. Just because you are family doesn't dismiss that fact at all. Aspire for your dreams and chase them like no tomorrow. You can either bear with university and champ through it or take a break to focus on your finances and get your mental and emotional state fixed. There is no point in you trying to stick around your family when you can't even help yourself. As much as we hate to see it, our f…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:18 AM
12

I think the beta here is you buddy. Get a hold of yourself and quit using weed. Your dad still permits you to live under his house, and therefore his rules. If you don't respect that than gtfo and get a job and move. Then you can smoke to your hearts content. Otherwise grow up and own to the fact that you are just a young guy nagging on your parents for -god forbid- nagging on their son for smoking weed. Not everybody has a Dad like that to be there for them and buy the toilet paper that you wip…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:54 AM
1

That is up to you. You live your life and unapologetically. Do what you want to do. Not what somebody on the internet tells you. Otherwise, I would personally go to go socialize.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:14 AM
1

The next time I see a post from you, I want to see progress. Now I want you to get stronger physically, mentally and emotionally. All these things will be reliant on you. The only fingers that you should be pointing at is you.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:36 AM
3

You hate to see it, but here I see you posting the very question that I already answered to you-- you have to find this shit yourself. Instead you did the opposite of what I told you to do and instead sought the easy way out and ask us to deliver answers to you on a silver platter. You most definitely did not have a strong frame. Stop saying otherwise. Do the work or don't. Be mediocre or be the best you can be. Be a pathetic alcoholic or be a man. Stop talking about your ex or be forever a blue…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:20 AM
1

How far is the gym away from you? If it is within a couple of miles, it is definitely doable to do a run to it. Otherwise there are plenty of exercises that utilize using your own body weight (i.e planks, push ups, dips). Or you can even find some cheap dumb bells that you can find at a thrift, garage sale, or online. You can make all the excuses you want but during one of the summers in high school, I would run to and from the gym that was about 4 miles away from me (8 mi going back and forth).…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:13 AM
1

Hypergamy and AWALT know no bounds. I recommend internalizing TRP through the sidebar yourself instead of me feeding information to you. Good luck to you brother
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:28 AM
1

None of us are perfect. Either we found TRP through trial and error, or we luckily discovered it before we were caught in a continuous loop. Some people like myself embraced TRP with open arms; perhaps because we had a similar experience and knew what it speaks firsthand to be true. For others, it takes time to kill the beta inside of them and understand that the disney bluepill ideal is but a mirage. Why would someone catch onitis for a chick that almost destroyed his life? Perhaps part of you …
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:42 PM
1

Ah I misread and thought it was throughout the weekend. Just don't grow dependent on them. I had an ex that took them daily and she was something else.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:26 PM
1

Sleep is essential to gains (which I'm assuming you are doing). You have to make that conscious decision of potential pussy while going on or getting a goods night rest.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:37 AM
2

Sleeping pills are horrendous to your health. You need to get off that shit bro
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:35 AM
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Cut off all contact with her period. I'm not sure about you, but if an ex ever cuts off anything with me, it is over. None of that beta ass shit of crawling back to her. I will not ever give that satisfaction. Truly internalize the sidebar and lift. You have a lack of abundance when it comes to women and definitely had her on a pedestal. She is not perfect; neither are you. Just become the best version that you can possibly be. Everybody has their lows, but what comes after is what defines us. T…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:34 AM
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First, cut off all contact with this girl. Do not give her the satisfaction of seeing you hurt. You definitely developed oneitis with this girl. No ifs or buts about that. So what if you guys had a million things in common? So do a million other girls on this planet of billions of girls. Best answer to this bullshit? Work on yourself bro and grind out. Grind out your gains. Grind out your knowledge. And grind out some girls brains. Sidebar. Lift. Stfu.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:29 AM
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Who cares? So what if you make a mistake? Say what you want and unapologetically. If she takes it the wrong way? Just next her. If she responds warmly? Escalate. Either way, it's a win. A lesson vs an opportunity.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:24 AM
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First step to stopping a problem is simply acknowledging you have a problem. We all have come from our lows and this too shall pass. Take everything you learnt with your ex as a learning lesson and apply what you want in the future. Really take the time to internalize the sidebar and lift-- often and heavy.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:21 AM
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Hey brother. I want you to take a deep breath and just slow your breathing. Now I want you to get some fluids and food in you so that you sober the fuck up a bit. You need to learn how to love yourself and take things one step at a time. You clearly have unrealistic expectations and have a lot of pressure on yourself to succeed. It seems your worst enemy right now is yourself. And you just need to screw your head back on and look at the bigger picture, but one pixel at a goddamn time. We all liv…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:16 AM
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Fuck man. That story was awfully painful to both read and digest. I didn't even make it halfway through this fucking soapbox opera scene. If you are coming here for validation or reassurance that everything will be okay and that she is wrong, than you are awfully mistaken. You have a bundle of problems (just like your ex!) that you need to resolve yourself. Start by shutting the fuck up about your ex. Delete every single shred of evidence of her out of your life and stop focusing on that. The ch…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:03 AM
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You hit on all the points that I got from this post into words. OP, these coming times will be hard for you. It is up to you on how you make these times-- for better or for worst. If you still wish to have time with your kids, I recommend lawyering up ASAP otherwise say goodbye to seeing your kids while you remain the betabux.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 05:42 AM
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The best thing you can do is just lead by example and be there for your homies when they are down. Otherwise you can always drop nuggets of TRP here and there and hope something sticks. They must seek the red pill with an open mind.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:36 AM
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You need to improve your self-esteem first and foremost. You need to learn how to love yourself before you even think about anything else. By loving yourself, you will learn to be comfortable in your own flesh and do the things that you need to do. As far as gains go, your nutrition and sleep are crucial to everything else. Depending on your bodies needs, you either are not eating enough or eating too much. If you don't have the proper in the engine, the engine will not be as efficient as it sho…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:28 AM
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Wait what? You chose to leave out this valuable information why? Fuck that dude. Long distance relationships are not worth my time and money. At that point you are an emotional tampon, and if she is using you for any financial gain too, just wasting your money. I don't know how well you vetted this girl and how much you are actually invested (which you asking us and typing this post alone speaks volume) in this girl. I would hard next.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:09 AM
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I can handle my liquor. I probably drink every 1-4 times per month on social occasions with family or friends. Otherwise, I choose not to drink just because of how much calories are in alcohol alone. That is empty calories; Unless you can afford the calories. Personally I love IPAs and can drink 4 beers and still be fine.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:08 PM
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Crab in the bucket mentality and jealousy. If the girl can't find a lay, her friend(s) can't either.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 08:48 PM
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If they're checking you out, then they're checking you out. Lifting is a means of self improvement. Through this, we are subsequently raising our SMV value. Just enjoy the newfound raise of attention and if you want, you can try to day game too.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:46 PM
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You need to get out of your comfort zone and try to interact with people. Otherwise you will just be seen as that creep that lurks at the party or social recluse. You need to be comfortable with yourself and just go with the flow of the conversation. Don't take it too seriously though and just have fun with it
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:41 PM
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Blatant shit test. She is asking you to prove her wrong otherwise. Remember, disregard her words and listen through her actions. For fucks sake she had her top off and was asking you to stay. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:37 PM
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Only text logistics. If she fails to show or respond, next. Otherwise she is just blatantly trying to gauge her SMV value and enjoying the attention.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:33 PM
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Sidebar and lift. Age =/= SMV. You can be an old guy but be fit and handsome as fuck. You can be a young guy but be a blob of flesh and ugly. What you CAN improve, you should. And what you cannot, you should just own up to it.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:31 PM
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Unfortunately if you to introduce TRP to them when they are still bluepilled, you will face some backlash. The best thing you can do is lead by example and be there for your boys when they are down. Try to sprinkle nuggets of TRP here and there; they must come to TRP on their own accord and come in with an open mindset if they want to learn.
/r/askMRP30/11/19 06:56 PM
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No shit. Im saying wear a rubber regardless
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:38 PM
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Regardless, you haven't even met this girl. Like I said, you aren't texting logistics and come off as a guy that is too readily available. Beta behavior. If you really want something from this girl, grow a pair and ask to meet up.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:24 AM
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You probably haven't been maintaining the text ratio as highlighted in the sidebar. You definitely have the case of oneitis and have a lack of abundance mentality. Unless you are texting logistics, why are you even bothering texting. You are a beta orbiter right now. If a girl wanted to make time for you, she would make the time and effort for you. Why are you even bothering with a long distance "relationship"? Next.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:14 AM
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Wear a rubber. Always.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:07 AM
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Gave you all the IOIs and you blew it. Could've easily escalated and said that you were down to kick it at her place. You gave in to the shit test and to her ASD/LMR. Take it as a learning lesson.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:07 AM
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You're overthinking things and just need to chill out and have a little fun with it. You probably have the pussy on a pedestal and that's what is stopping you from just saying what you want. Agreeing and amplifying is one of the easiest ways of teasing or shutting down shit tests. Just say shit with a shit-eating grin and you're solid.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 07:29 AM
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When you are first starting off, it is definitely hard with keeping up with the energy but you will notice that it gets better over time. Fats are actually essential for diets and are so good for you. It is a common misconception that fats are bad for you.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 01:16 AM
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Currently undergoing a cut to try and join the military. Otherwise my lifts have been surprisingly the same or better, despite the lack of carbs and the cut. Sleep is very important too. Helps regulate your cortisol levels and key aspect to better gains.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:45 AM
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Brown rice is not too bad of a replacement. With white rice, they strip all the nutrients out from white rice that brown rice has. At the end of the day, it all boils down to choices and what we want for ourselves. Personally, I had the best results cutting carbs out and focusing on eating healthier and leaner.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:43 AM
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It depends on the beans. Some beans are more healthier than others. They do have protein and fiber in then but they also have carbs in it too. Honestly if you have a diet that is mostly fats and proteins, you will feel so much more content and lighter than if you were eating carbs. I considered tracking my cals and macros but at the end I figured that I didn't really need to track it since I didn't eat too much. There will be times where you may feel even content with not eating (although I advi…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:42 AM
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It is something that you have to learn to adapt to. Some choose to retain the carbs but limit it extensively. Personally, I've had the best results cutting carbs out of my diet and saw a significant amount of weight dropped rapidly. It is a lifestyle and choice that you have to make. Do you want to be in the best shape that you can possibly be in? Well that starts with what fuel you actually put into your body. Complex carbs (starchy foods) are all turned down into simple sugars. Carbs that are …
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:33 AM
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Sounds like you are becoming outcome dependent and relying too much on validation from women. Focus on your mission, not women. They will come as a byproduct of success.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:03 AM
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Shows she has been riding the CC. If you have any ounce of respect, you wouldn't go anything past a plate with this girl. Judge by her actions and not her words.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:01 AM
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You're in her.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:58 PM
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Rhetorical question for the first one if you've read the sidebar-- awalt. For the latter, not sure how it's like in other countries, but I would assume they're awfully similar or the west pushing the norm of riding the CC and doing what they want. Regardless, this should just reaffirm your beliefs in TRP and take it as a reminder to go on with your mission.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:56 PM
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"Yeah, you're okay". Just have fun with it. Don't take it seriously and judge based on her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:52 PM
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Sounds like your friend is doing an Atkins Diet plan. Cutting out sugars and bad carbs (think rice, breads, beans) will do wonders for your body. Fruits do contain sugars, but they are good sugars that your body does need. Weight loss in general will usually boost people's moods, but especially so when they are eating healthier too. What you put into your body will translate to better gains and so many health benefits to your body, more so than you would think.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:49 PM
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Better questions-- What will you do and why do you care? Don't bother listening to the drivel and live your fucking life. The majority of men prefer younger women in their primes anyways. I know my fair share of girls that are into older guys because they are more "wiser" (which isn't inherently false, but I know there is more to it). I personally think they want more security or they want somebody that is more mature and experienced. At the end of the day, you do what you want to do. Disregard …
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:43 PM
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If you have the disposable income for a lunch date, I do not see why not. Otherwise, perhaps suggest grabbing some coffee or look into action dates like bowling, mini golf, etc.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:39 PM
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It's both. Just expect to take banter back and learn to take it in stride. Quick wit and banter will help you with talking with people in general.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:35 PM
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Read sidebar. You can focus on your mission or let chasing girls consume you. Girls will remain a byproduct of success. Learn to plate some girls first and to vet them better before committing to a LTR. The choice is yours at the end of the day. Some guys their mission is getting laid, but they'll realize later on in life that pussy will always come and go. Invest your time and money wisely and build the foundation for the vision you have for yourself. Then you can have a high quality girl in an…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:34 PM
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You can also just decline on meeting up and hard nexting. If a girl wants to stay in a commitment, she would stay without going through mental gymnastics on why she needs "space". In my books that is disrespect to me and you need to draw that line. Vet your relationships better or learn to draw said line. Either she is trying to disassociate herself with you and trying to ease the breakup or she is seeing/fucking somebody already. Hard next.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:28 PM
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In times like this where we know that the feminist-centric narrative is a toxic mess both to the feminine and masculine values, it is best that we maintain and uphold our own convictions and beliefs. I for one refuse to sugarcoat shit when I'm talking with people and I always keep it real by saying it how it is. I wholeheartedly support believing in your own beliefs when others are afraid to even disagree or go against the norm. It's like people have lost their voice of reason or even themselves…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 11:21 PM
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Sadly for your dad he is just the provider (really betabux) while your stepmom is riding on that. You can try to advice him when your stepmom isn't around and introduce TRP to him slowly, nothing too much. The only way he gets out of this is him waking up and doing things for himself (and hopefully you and your siblings). Your stepmom wants to maintain him at the current level that he is at so that she can better manage him. She knows (whether it be conscious or unconscious) that if he picks up …
/r/askMRP29/11/19 11:09 PM
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Agree and amplify or just ignore. If you turn and act on your anger, you obviously lost frame and your composure. Either suck it up and don't cause shit at your job or just get a new one if something like this is making you angry.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:33 PM
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Fantastic portrayal of some key redpill points to easier feed to those just now coming to TRP. Sadly, a majority of the posts could be cutdown if they actually read the material or went out and actually made all the theoretical stuff put into practice.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 12:01 AM
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Anything is possible if you set your mind to it. Instead of asking what ifs and seeking validation on this subreddit to reassure you that you can, you should be busy doing the things you need to do to achieve that. Luckily for you, all the tools here on TRP are here at your disposal. It is up to you to learn and practice what you learn.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:23 AM
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Considering she was just asking about class work and you refused to answer her. Sprinkle a little something extra like, "Hey, after class do you want to go grab some coffee and study"? Then, from there escalate accordingly.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:15 PM
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Boys with single mothers (and lots of female relatives) usually shove down blue pill disney drivel down the mouths of this current generation. With divorces at some of the highest it has ever been (more people are choosing not to get married in the first place, thus there are less divorces), it is no surprise that the only model that boys can go off of is based on their Mom or the feminine-centric agenda. That is, catering to every whim they request and pretty much acting like a complete doormat…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:08 PM
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Less eye contact = Not attracted. If you are texting her and not texting logistics, then gtfo. It seems to me you came across more as butthurt than alpha more than anything. You should be able to know when a girl is into you or not. If she is texting 2 days after you text her for a date, she is not interested or has other options. Continue to seek to improve your SMV and knowledge and take this as a learning lesson
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:28 PM
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More than you would imagine. Sadly the plethora of beta ass posts that come out can easily be solved by stfu and lifting
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 11:09 AM
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Dirty bulking is also a thing but having all that processed food is terrible for you and does put a toll on your body. What you put in yourself does affect not only your gains but in more ways than you can imagine
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:08 AM
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Skinnier guys will find it a lot harder to put on mass because just solely off their body type. They are inefficient with calories and thus have been able to eat with no concern. That being said, it does not mean it is impossible for you to put on mass. I have seen it time and time again of people that used to be super scrawny put on incredible amounts of weight and muscle. Anecdotally, I do have one buddy of mine that practically double in size over the summer by picking up powerlifting and mak…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:03 AM
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I have met and heard my fair share. I have also noticed the girls that have gone through this phase are a bundle of mental and emotional problems that are not worth shit. I've seen some girls humblebrag about their n counts or that they one time banged 3 different dudes on the same day. Just goes to show how the feminist-centric narrative is just a void of negative energy that eats at everybody because they couldn't get their way. Whatever. Time to continue lifting and learning; and to disregard…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:54 PM
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Sounds like you were raised by a narcissist parent (which they do have a subreddit for). Focus on yourself and disregard your insecure dad. He is likely deflecting and projecting his insecurities on you and trying to build you down. Sadly, there will be times where even your own family won't be there for you or when things are looking up, they try to drag you down. Crabs in a bucket mentality. Best plan of action? Get out of there fast. Build your wealth, knowledge, and yourself most importantly…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:50 PM
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I never really boiled it down to that but now that you mention it, it's awfully true.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:37 PM
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It's definitely the water then bro
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:35 PM
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Maybe you have the case of yellow fever. Just pure speculation though
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:32 PM
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Reading sidebar, lifting, abundance mentality. Train your body and mind and you will care less about that person.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 11:30 PM
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To all the people arguing against lifting-- lifting is a means of self improvement. Through self improvement we are improving our SMV value and that attracts women. Women are byproducts of success. Not the goal.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 11:30 PM
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Considering the fact that the obesity epidemic is getting worst not in just America, but all over the world. The availability of cheap carbs and sugars and how readily available it is just shows how we are at this point. In any case, there should be less competition and more room for you to grow. Disregard the crabs in the bucket and continue with your lifts.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 11:26 PM
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Isn't having unexpected pregnancies the worst? Didn't you know that the average cost of a kid growing up from age 1-18, excluding college, is 100k? Don't you love to have your life put on stop and shackled because you now have a kid on your conscience that you need to take care of? The only contraceptives a man can use is condoms and vasectomies. Condoms will and always will be your friend. Don't give any lee way to what ifs and just put on a rubber on man. When you are proactively using a rubbe…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 10:06 PM
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Solid tips for facial structure. As far as skin care, I would simplify it a lot more for guys who are still just starting off and keep it to: cleanser, moisturizer, and toner. These 3 will clean your pores, keep you face from looking dry, and killing any dead skin that remains on your face. Beards depend on your build and how your hair actually grows out. Some guys can rock it. Some cannot. Regardless, there will always be some type or niche that girls will enjoy. Beard or not. Best thing overal…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:56 PM
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Something that I am still learning how to do is to unapologetically being selfish and doing things for myself. I cannot depend on anybody or anything other than myself and I need to put in the effort to fulfill my own vision for myself. Solid post. Great reminder that I need to work and learn just as hard as I am now.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:43 PM
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Hey man it is what it is. Take this time to build your wealth mentally, emotionally, and financially. You're still very young and have your whole life ahead of you. Men will hit their wall at the age of 30; women will hit theirs as soon as 21. Keep building the foundation of your life and everything else will fall into place
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:49 PM
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Time to get it into gear then man. Me, you and others.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:41 PM
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Pick up the books: The book of pook, the rational male, Models by Mark Manson, The Game by neil Strauss, and The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. If you have already read these books, then to haven't been applying them in practice or your SMV isn't that high. I've noticed that when guys are desperate for sex, women are able to sense that type of desperation unless your smv is way higher than hers and relative to whoever you are competing against. Learn to get accustomed to rejection and keep a…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:12 PM
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Learning in whatever form you like to learn in shouldn't matter. Although there have been studies that show that people who read on paper have been shown to better retain their information. That being said, I personally have been reading off of my phone and finding pdfs online and using an app called ReadEra. In the end, as long as you're learning and applying the principles that you learned, its form shouldn't matter. Learn to visualize what you want for yourself and the steps you need to actua…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:01 PM
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You can still be friends with your friends and still incorporate TRP principles in your life. Sometimes you may even need to suggest some ideas (dont just nonchalantly throw TRP at them. Otherwise, you may be seen differently sadly). Sometimes they will not be accustomed to this new you that TRP can mold you into. Or they may even welcome this new, better you. Point is, you should know who are truly your friends and who are not.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:47 AM
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Didn't even bother reading the entire post. I already know you have the case of oneitis, probably didn't vet your ex well enough, and looking to seek validation through women. All the power to you if that is your mission, but women will always come and go. Find something more tangible and fulfilling. Reread sidebar, lift, and learn to be comfortable with yourself and that there are so many more better girls out there. In fact, write down as many negatives as you can about your ex and the things …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:43 AM
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Don't lose your mental over this. Focus on your mission. Better yourself. Refresh sidebar. Awalt and Hypergamy. Take this as a learning lesson. Keeping tabs with a guy she has hooked up with is a red flag in my book and definitely disrespect to me, especially if she refuses to block him. She is enjoying the attention and has him as a backup hookup.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:36 AM
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Losing a lot of fat does come with excess skin. You can either get it removed via surgery or just live with it. Otherwise as far as cutting, I recommend watching what you eat and to eat healthier-- being that you eat less bad, fatty carbs like rice, grains, and bread, and instead replace it with good fats such as nuts, fish and avocados. Fatty foods will make you feel a lot more full. All of our bodies store fat in different ways. Some store it fairly evenly. Some straight to their gut. And for …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:32 AM
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Lots of things you need to fix in order for you to find your purpose. First things first is to cut off weed. Or at least limit it and have it in moderation. I am not against it's use, and I have had my fair share, but it is a drug that just promotes mediocrity at best. It's a drug that does not enable you to overdose, but it is a drug that offers complacency and mediocrity. It personally kills my drive to do anything and even makes me want to put things off. One of the reasons why I had to cut i…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:20 AM
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Drinking in moderation (think a glass or two of red wine) has been proven to actually help in prolonging your life. I do no recommend drinking if you are depressed or in an emotional state. However, I would not blame you if you did. It does come with drawbacks though and you will at times need to find that mental fortitude to not give in. Drinking for the sake of gaming is a choice. It can help create an interest or topic of choice to just talk about with your bros or even occasionally to girls …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:08 AM
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Habits: Lifting, Reading, Focusing on my health and being the best that I can be. As far as maintaining, I think we just all have different thresholds as far as how much shit we can put up with. It is a lot of mental strength that is in play to try to be the best you can possibly be. There is the other side of the coin where you can instead take the easy way out and wallow in mediocrity and deflect problems by blaming any tangible thing that comes to your mind. However, because you are red pill …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:01 AM
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You might want to check out the ADHD subreddit, although it's mostly a lot of circlejerks about how they all relate to the same problem but really no tangible solutions. Personally I do want to get an official diagnosis and try out medication myself, but am putting it off to join the military (as they don't allow any sort of mental illness). Otherwise, things I have been doing personally is reassessing how I actually spend my time and trying to develop habits that will maximize its efficiency. I…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:53 AM
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Just get off this sub. Clearly a troll and have no idea about any of the principles of TRP. Try giving the sidebar a thorough read and come back. Otherwise gtfo and continue being a soyboy bluepilled disney boy
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:39 AM
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Girls will always remain as a byproduct of self improvement. I think you need to have a personal talk with yourself about what's actually making you feel down. Start doing little things like making sure your life is in order via small tasks (i.e laundry done, car is clean, deep cleaning room). Are you close with your friends and family? And if so do you have anybody you can talk to? Perhaps you are lacking a mission in life. Do you have a passion for anything? Do you enjoy helping people? Do you…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:24 AM
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Excellent information. Just shows that people either don't do their readings nor have they even applied half of TRP principles; especially shown by the ridiculous amount of posts that can easily be answered by reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:27 AM
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She doesn't want it on her conscience and has already been priming herself by slowly feeling indifferent about the lion. The Lion has served its practical and novelty use. Onto the next one the maiden went.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:52 AM
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Manipulation 101. She wants to be friends. The response? -- No thanks, I already have friends. If I wanted to be friends I would. Have some pride in yourself and look forward. Hard next and focus on yourself bro.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:01 PM
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As much as it seems and sounds like common sense, not enough guys seem to understand or acknowledge this
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:55 AM
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Yes I read that. I was stating my personal take on it and advice to you
/r/askTRP09/11/19 07:32 AM
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Like many of the comments here she is trying to either ease the breakup with you or trying to make it okay with you so that she can go fuck other guys most likely. Unless it is a mff and not mmf, I would just hard next. If you're down for an open relationship, all the power to you; but I do know that the other guys that have been longer here than you and me know a lot more about hidden motives behind all this jazz. Next thing you know she is going to have "the talk" and tell you that she is actu…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 08:02 AM
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Think about it. Weed is a drug that enables you so that it is literally impossible to overdose on. The catch is that it inhibits yourself as a person to do what you are actually capable of. It breeds mediocrity and allows you to be content with your life -- which can be a good, but also bad. You can be content with a shit life and use it as an escape to really face the problems that are really at hand because you allow it to dictate you. You allow it to set the tone of your day. It enables you t…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:29 AM
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Could be a case of ADHD. I would look into it. Otherwise I would envision what I want to accomplish for myself and what I need to do to achieve it. Either you need to match your efforts to your dreams or your dreams to your efforts. Edit: Typos
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:14 PM
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Nah. You were her 2nd option if another guy flaked on you. Work stress can be a valid thing but not if it's so close to the date time.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:26 AM
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That's your call. One thing I regret about my latest LTR was that I let it go on for way too long. I knew I didn't want it anymore and it was negative to my own life. You can decide to have that closure. If you do decide to go through it, I do recommend cutting off all contact period. Especially if you think you have any form of oneitis with her. Brush up on the sidebar if you haven't already. Life is too short to be lingering in the past. Of course you may have feelings of "losing" all the time…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:38 AM
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Probably the end of the honeymoon phase and she is bored. She is trying to rationalize what went wrong and why she is not feeling satisfied anymore. That or she is seeing somebody and is trying to distance herself with you by projecting that she feels distant herself. Keep frame and just focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:21 AM
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You see the difference between you and him is that he is confident in his own skin, despite anything else he wears on the outside; whereas you on the other hand struggle in your own skin and rely on women and clothes to validate your worth. TRP does say that women should never be a goal, but it rather a subset to your own betterment of yourself. Sure pussy here and there will be nice, but it all comes along the journey. Whereas your friend is seen as a potential "gold mine". Kinda how an investo…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:48 PM
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Don't full out introduce TRP to him. Insert bits and pieces here and there, but nothing too much.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:20 PM
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The phrase, "You never had her, it was just your turn", is meant to have that abundance mentality that she is just another girl. If she were to suddenly want to ride the CC, it shouldn't be a surprise to you, but rather you just next her. Of course you can get hurt, but you should never let a women have the power over you that if you were to lose her, it would hurt you more than it would hurt her. Otherwise, if it was the girl of a good homie of mine, I would decline period. I am thankful to hav…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:55 AM
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I personally struggled with weed as I would use it as a crutch to get me away from the reality that I wasn't man enough to face. In addition to video games, I was essentially just an empty shell, the days slowly just ticking off during the best times of my youth. Thankfully, I was able to pull myself out of that. I didn't want to settle for a life of mediocrity and didn't want a substance to define who I was as a person. I knew there was so much more out in the world and that it was up to me to …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:44 AM
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I have yet to meet a self proclaimed weeb that is able to demonstrate a high SMV. Also please don't be that guy that studies anime as a fucking supplement to practicing Japanese. I have a Japanese friend that literally shits on people for that. Otherwise all the power to you if that helps in your goal of yellow fever.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:32 AM
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Still something I need to work on myself, but I am not at the point where I am yet 100% satisfied with myself. I continue to go monk mode and brush up on my mental and physical gains first. All the power to you to continue day gaming, and congrats for actually having the balls to approach.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:21 AM
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The way I stay motivated is that I want to be the very best I can be. TRP has certainly helped me realize this and has been instrumental to motivating me everyday to achieve the vision that I want. There's a lot of people in the world that I want to prove wrong, but most importantly myself. I try to have a vision for myself that I want to realize. I try to internalize the steps I need to take-- from a day to day basis to a year to year. I recommend watching motivation videos from Arnold Schwarze…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:17 AM
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I have only been using reddit to brush up on my knowledge of TRP and reaffirming my comprehension of its ideals and principles. Otherwise for youtube, it is like a double-edged sword. There are plenty of educational content that you can come across, but you can also just as likely waste time as well. You will have to discipline yourself in any regard to social media if you want to use it as a tool to your advantage or a time sink.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:10 AM
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Great stuff then. Keep up your physical gains and don't forget your mental gains too.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:58 AM
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Your problem is feeling inadequate relative to your peers, but in reality it's something that you need to figure out yourself. Critically look at yourself and work on yourself, which includes your mental, physical, and emotional state of being. Cut off social media and go monk mode. Or you can go on the other side of the coin and continue to wallow in your own misery that you continue to dig yourself. You are still young and still have so much potential. Women will reach their wall so much more …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:56 AM
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Definitely look to lift before any cardio workout. There was a study I read up on that doing lifting before cardio has shown to improve fat loss. Although I don't have a source off the top of my head but I'm sure a quick google search will provide you with your answers. Otherwise, in with volleyball in conjunction with weightlifting, it will be much more harder to actually attain gains because too much cardio has been shown to reduce muscle (again, another study but off the top of my head). If y…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:49 AM
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I wouldn't even put a label on any of these. I've seen my fair share of all races (White, Black, Asian, etc.) who have a high SMV that are able to pull. Sure girls will have their preferences in Men. Likewise, it is the same for us men too. Regardless if you are able to demonstrate a high SMV and that pussy isn't the only thing on your mind, but rather a subset because you are a high value male, then you should be able to pull. Regardless of skin color.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:40 AM
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I don't think you're lifting heavy enough if your back hasn't developed too much after 5 months, but progress is relative to yourself. What do your compounds look like, if at all, right now? There are so many back muscles that you can hit. I recommend incorporating face pulls, bent over barbell rows, and of course deadlifts if you haven't had that already. There are so many back muscles that can add that much more definition. Nutrition wise you want to make sure you are eating enough protein to …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:30 AM
2

I don't necessarily have firsthand experience, but I do know do you want a relationship based on your love of your mother or the love of a lover? Because most people usually go with the former and do project that upon their SO, causing an unhealthy expectation coming from both sides. I know it is easier said than done, but I would just go and tell her that you had something planned and there really shouldn't be any ifs or buts. Hell, you can just go and not even owe her an explanation. Let her w…
/r/askMRP09/10/19 06:47 AM
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Just treat it like a walking shit test
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:18 AM
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I think what you embraced is the self improving aspect of TRP, which is great. All the power to you bro. But what you say is essentially against the principles of TRP on a fundamental level. There is definitely still that hopeless romantic inside of you and you are still bluepilled. If you really think you can blend the two together, all the power to you; but I do know that this road doesn't lead to anything good. You can do all these romantic gestures and think you mean well, but later down the…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:07 AM
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Next bro. Have the balls to do it and the self respect too. You're better than this.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:42 AM
1

Great reads. Thanks for the links
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:18 AM
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Too needy, lack of abundance mentality, and probably still need to internalize sidebar more. Stop focusing on women and come to realize that they come along the way in the life you are trying to build for youself-- that is unless that is all you are trying to do then you need to work on abundance mentality either way.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 02:20 AM
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Too many stories of girls and guys that fuck their professor and either another student finds out or the professor finds out you are banging or get the hots for somebody else only for it to bite you in the ass. You just gotta weigh the risks and rewards between the two or if you truly want that little novelty under your belt, then shoot for the stars man; but you gotta be careful around that shit.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 02:16 AM
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I never really attributed it to this but my ex was awfully like this. Long history of mental/emotional abuse from her family and could never really experience orgasms too often. In fact she knew the exact number of times she has ever.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:56 PM
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Late, but thank you for assembling this wealth of knowledge. All solid posts.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:26 AM
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Trust me man, I have been there and done that. Thankfully discovering TRP has made me the best me I have ever been and it is only up from here. For me, I sat down and first talked about the things that I liked about her (Mind you, I didn't discover TRP when I did this exercise, but it's practically remains). The more I wrote down, the more I came to realize maybe there really isn't all sunshine and rainbows as I ran out of things to say about her. Eventually I started listing things that she did…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:16 AM
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Don't reply to her. Stfu and move on bro. Brush up on the sidebar because you clearly haven't internalized anything. You caught oneitis for this girl and lost frame somewhere along the way. You have to understand with any girl, relationship or not, that is is simply your turn. Girls will act on their feelings now as opposed to all the things you have ever done for her or your alleged proclaimed love for her. (Sunk cost fallacy)
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:18 AM
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I think your problem is that you are still putting your ex on a pedestal, and with a side of oneitis. You need to get your ass out of your head and stop idealizing her. Now I want you to sit down and really think about reasons why you disliked her. That could be either she was too controlling, too needy, too manipulative, asking too much of you, etc. Write that shit down and rationalize what you want in your future relationship(s) (if you get into any) and make lines that you certainly do not wa…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:11 AM
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Lol.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:06 AM
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Hobbies: Going out of your way to say yes to any of your friends and family. Through them you should be able to get out of your comfort zone and also interact with any new people if any. Hell, look into perhaps volunteering if you want more of a "fulfillment" in your life or pick up a sport. Self Improvement: Use this time to learn how to safely lift to avoid doing so in the future. Brush up on any nutrition or any lifts you want to know more of or need help with. You can also use this time to i…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:37 AM
1

Great post. Thanks for the knowledge.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 11:50 PM
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If you give in to the ultimatum, you are essentially in her frame. You live by your own means. If a plate truly wants you they will come to you on your terms. Not the other way around. Continue spinning plates and do not develop oneitis for this girl.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 11:41 AM
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Demonstrate higher value. A women should never have sex as their arsenal (and it quite usually is) over you. Initiate and if she declines, next her. Plenty of women out there.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:55 PM
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Well from your response from the previous post, you can either get an experienced barber to fix it or just shave it all off. Or like the other posters reply just own up to it and rock it. Otherwise use your better judgement.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:52 PM
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If she is giving the other guy doggy eyes, than I think you know the answer. It also seems you've developed a case of oneitis and should refresh on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:22 PM
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Actions speak louder than words. Hold frame and move on. Hell if you have any plates hit them up. Otherwise focus on the long term, lift, refresh on sidebar. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:18 PM
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Never said it was some magic thing nor did I say it will make you into an alpha. What it does do is self improvement and self fulfillment for that person. It is a place for positive masculinity without any nonsense bullshit. Being alpha may be an ideology of TRP, but it doesn't mean it is the entirety of the subreddit. Not everybody follows every principle word for word, but it rather serves as a guideline for people. If your goal is to be Alpha, so be it. Let your dreams run wild but know that …
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:37 PM
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If you want real advice listen here bud. You are WAY ahead of your competition by acknowledging the red pill and it seems that you are self aware that you need to get shit done. It seems you have done your research but you aren't applying yourself. You are young. Do not worry about your friends or anybody else and compare yourself to them. They are living their own lives, just like you should. TRP offers the cold heart truth and doesn't sugarcoat shit for you and if you truly want the best in yo…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:16 PM
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Bluepilled af
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:09 PM
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I would even argue that in some sectors of the job industry, women are paid way more. Women models are way more overpaid relative to their male counterparts. Women in the service industry that get tips are way more overpaid relative to their male counterparts. Yet we do not hear a single peep from the people parading about the "wage gap" disparity.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:59 PM
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That shit doesn't matter. Gains in yourself are priceless.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:49 PM
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Bro I am about to give you the cold heart truth that you need to hear, because I was once in a similar position but thankfully got out before it got worst or to even the scale in your case. Get the fuck out of that "relationship". She is using you plain and simple. You are serving the role of betabux and rite of passage for citizenship into the states. Stop playing around with this woman and look to your own mom who has been loving you unconditionally despite the fact that you are a full grown m…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:19 AM
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Because I was once in a similar defeatist mindset just like op. But this subreddit gave me the cold, no bullshit truth that I needed. I reevaluated my own life and realized I do not need the validation of female attention or pussy for that matter to determine my own fucking worth. Because of this subreddit it gave me the tools and set me on the path to build my own path with my own will.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:21 AM
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Look buddy, if you want to throw in the towel and say you have done EVERYTHING in your power to better yourself then do it. I can't help you if you can't even help yourself. Or you can live for better days (because believe it or not, it is possible. But in your case that is only attainable through yourself). Homework: Read The 6 Principles of Self-Esteem -- Self-explanatory, for your shit self esteem. Read the side bar. -- You'll realize why bitches aren't shit and why you're a pussy and why the…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:08 AM
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Again you are missing the point. Instead of wasting time asking for validation of your fucking sorrows why don't you turn that energy into starting on your own shit? Do you genuinely think girls are going to seek that shit? Of course not. Do you think the guy you are describing is happy with himself? Of course not. What separates a boy stuck in that mental and a man, is that a man takes ownership of his own actions and the cards that he was dealt with. He works for the body or the vision he aspi…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:57 AM
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Okay well you should take that as a fucking lesson then. Stop living in the past. Stop living in the present and thinking of literally every single thing that has been going on. Think of the future and stop with this pity party. If fucking dudes in wheelchairs can get ripped as fuck and pull, you can too. If people with literal disabilities can pull, you can too. Change your way of thinking and man up bro.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:43 AM
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Read the sidebar. Stop focusing on women and focus on yourself. The women will come and go but you cannot have that shit consume your life. Build yourself. Build your knowledge. Nobody can take that shit away from you. It seems like you have a lot of self esteem problems that you need to sort out yourself and you have to be really critical and look inside of yourself. If you can't even love yourself, what makes you expect women to love you? If a relationship isn't what you're looking for and you…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:33 AM
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Not op, but thank you for sharing this wealth of knowledge.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 02:35 AM
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