Hello. I've already learned so much from taking the redpill two years ago after a relationship which only lasted 1 month but which was enough for me to learn a lot. My point of view has drastically shifted both figuratively and literally in these two years. - I'd say that relationship was so stressing that it changed in, both in a good and bad way. You learn what you need to change in yourself but also become sad with how disillusioned you were. Anyways, right now I'm not sure how I should feel about that ingenuity I know I still have, of wanting to fall in love. The feeling of falling in love, where your mind goes crazy for someone, fast-paced thoughts and idealizing how great you and this person are together. Very silly delusional thinking but which momentarily feels so great and is easy to give in to.

I mean, at this same time it makes you do stupid things it helps to establish an initial connection with someone and make my game better. Problem is I'm afraid if I accept this I might fall too much in love and forget the game altogether.

I'd like to know. Do you allow yourself to feel this infatuation? do you allow it to grow towards love? Have you learned not to feel it altogether? is it beneficial?

It seems one of the points theredpill seems to talk about is that men and women love differently. How do y'all deal with this way we can love?