3rd date was brunch at my house with a movie. She came over in a tight little dress with panty hose on. We ate what I cooked for her and then started watching the movie, about 10 minutes I just said her name looked at her in the eye and we started making out and got her top off and grinding action. She then stopped me and said "What are you looking to do here?" which she just stared at me for awhile waiting for an answer to which I didn't have an immediate witty reply to then hit me with "I barely know you we aren't having sex, I'm not that type of girl". I said "I'm not that type of guy" and I tried to move my hand to her panties but she grabbed it. What should I have said in that situation because I froze up and lost frame and we ended up spooning after dry humping.