Hey TRP,

Long time reader here and I have made great progress from my older BP days.

I still have a few questions, as I exist Monk Mode and try to get some girls.

  1. How honest can you be with girls? I have started being very honest with girls but there are a few things I still think about. Let's say that you are texting a girl, and she takes a lot of time purposely, and you know she has her phone on her all the time, would it be considered a good move saying, "Hey, listen, you're purposely taking time to reply back and that's not something I am willing to put up with, if you don't want to connect, just let me know so I don't waste my time."

  2. How do you go for the kiss? Yes, yes I am a kissless virgin, due to my religious upbringing as well as my BPness I have never kissed a girl. Now a girl that I like, who likes me back too (due to the IoIs I get from here), also has had that religious upbringing past (is what I believe, could be wrong). But to approach the relationship with her, I will be doing something along the lines of..

    seclude her from the rest of the people tell her that I like her tell her that I like her and not love her, so she shouldnt get any crazy ideas tell her that I am not looking to marry her and just fool around, and if she wants to do the same, its awesome, we will both slowly progress the intimacy (since we're both beginners) What do you guys think of that?

  3. Some girls, I don't like them but they're hot and I feel chemistry with them, to these girls, should I just be straight up that hey, I find you sexy and want to get with you to solely fool around?

These are the questions that have been plaguing my mind.. pls help