I go to a school in Canada. Throughout my four years, I’ve noticed that the woman here are reluctant to engage in conversations. I wouldn’t consider myself ugly but I’ve always seen them huddling up in their social groups and very rarely approach men or stir up conversation. To put it in another form, they’re boring as fuck / shy

I work at an office at one of the big 4 auditing companies. During one of our corporate events just a little while ago, I had this Colombian colleague approach a couple of us guys to stir up conversation during lunch. Very bubbly personality and she was really open and excited to talk.

It’s hard to describe but I’ve never actually experienced a conversation like I did with this particular woman. Not in any way where they put this much effort into a conversation and actually seem engaged? Has anybody else had this experienced? I’ve felt this before with international woman, I’m not sure to describe it but the vibe with them really nice and it feels good to talk to a girl for once and not have her treat you like a creep and actually engage? By vibe I mean The facial expressions, their tone, the mood, the openness and willingness to engage in fun dialogue.