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Law firms are too old school. Get out if you want this
/r/RedPillWorkplace01/10/21 12:24 PM
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STEM is the only investment worth the debt incurred to obtain higher education. Most other fields are setting yourself back a few decades financially for no benefit. The entire system is broken. The colleges keep the price of education high, the loans are ridiculous and the jobs require at bare minimum 4 year degree but since that’s saturated it’s bumping up to a master’s degree as well. Those same employers wish to keep the commercial real estate industry afloat and justify the millions of doll…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:51 AM
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40% material 60% go out and practice
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:45 AM
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Hahahh
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:42 AM
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Go where the rich frat and sorority kids go.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:41 AM
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Well, women are always going to be taken care of. Whether by simps or the government. I don’t pay mind to beta male thirst. My standards are higher than that. So over 30 is a no go for me.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:40 AM
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‘Childless loser’ - you’re projecting your values to other people. Lotta losers out there with children. Regarding your point, it is not wise under US family court laws. You are a man, but the government will pillage your past, present and future financial resources should you decide to get married in the West and fuck around. Or simply if your wife wakes up one day and she ‘feels’ different. TradCon ideas are nice, but let’s take them into context of the modern landscape.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:19 AM
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It’s only going to get worse
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:23 AM
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This is common with Indian and Asian families. General Rule: never take advice from someone if their life is NOT something you want. These people are looking for validation that they made the right decisions in life. It’s 2021. Committing and settling down should be an exception, not the rule. All you need to do is not take their comments seriously and feed them the bullshit they want to hear, and change subjects. “Yup, it’s a beautiful thing. When the time is right and with the right one, or co…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:21 AM
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They’ll cook, clean and defer to your authority. But that means you have to hold your part as a man. You’re going to pay for everything. She’s not going to work.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:21 PM
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The truth is help
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:19 PM
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you should go through your hoe phase before settling into a LTR. They’re all like that
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:57 PM
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You are what they call.. a Fail Son. Every rich guy who worked his ass off has lazy spoiled entitled kids. Maybe not all, but there’s always one
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:48 AM
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So you’re getting addicted to a chubby girl’s sex? That’s what it sounds like. Most guys would hit this once and leave it at that. Since you don’t have other bitches or can’t get something better, you’re getting in your feelings.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:42 AM
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Why all the time apart
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:23 AM
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Move to cities where people are fit
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:21 AM
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Sidebar!
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:55 PM
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Imagine having a RP convo with a BP. There’s no point
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:23 AM
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Gay dudes are drama queens and act like women, even if they’re not outwardly flamboyant. I would chat up his female friends if you meet them, but don’t come off as the ‘single straight friend who can’t meet a girl on his own’ Make new social circles too
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:21 AM
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This reads like a blink 182 song that 13 year olds relate to
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:18 AM
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The ‘ruining society’ thing comes from TradCons. They’re jerking off about the 1950’s and it’s never coming back. In the modern landscape, there’s nothing immoral about exploiting the morally bankrupt environment that only continues to promote degeneracy. If it’s not your dick, it’ll be the next guys. Don’t let people with shitty sex lives moralize to you.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:17 AM
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Red pill is about making yourself the best product. PUA is marketing and selling the product.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:12 AM
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‘I’m a sapiosexual, so probably that audiobook I listens to last week’
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:10 AM
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When’s the last time you got a blowjob
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:08 AM
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How do you think people get what they want from Donald Trump? He’s a huge narcissist and had power to things others wanted. The biggest weakness of that mentality is -> you stroke their ego. If you compliment, respect and show admiration - they become like putty in your hands. From there you can influence them to get what you need.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:05 AM
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Dark triad personalities are either in jail, C-suites, or C-suites soon to be in jail. It’s not even a status thing. Women are drawn to these traits because it exemplifies a strong frame. They don’t understand it because they’re purely emotional. So a guy can be a thug or a cutthroat business man, the underlying traits are what attracts. In a sense, it’s a signal of male dominance. For better or for worse.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:01 AM
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Lol. He’s one more ‘ruined nut’ away from a sexual assault charge. It’s really dumb to act that way when it can be handled better. A woman who is upset and angry after sex… if she’s crazy enough she can press charges after the fact. It’s called regret rape. So your home boy is a liability because he thinks he’s a cool tough guy. It would probably be better for him to find his own girl, and you to find your own. I would avoid a 2 set with him for a while.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:58 AM
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1) is the interaction Man to Woman? 2) are you comfortable with silence? sexual tension is built in those moments where you’re looking at her sexually and she feels the need to break the tension. you don’t have to keep blabbing to keep the silence filled 3) Are you providing good emotions? Don’t complain about your life problems. Stay positive. 4) Tease her a bunch 5) Move her to another venue, change up the vibe when the energy starts to die down a bit 6) Kino. Use it.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:52 AM
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Insecurity. Ignore it. Laugh at them like it’s your 5 year old cousin trying to puff up his chest
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:49 AM
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This is universal. People are frightened by uncertainty of the future. I am guessing you’re on the younger side, haven’t changed jobs that often and/or new to your career. Instead of being anxious that you will look stupid or fail aka the Imposter Syndrome… You should have a mindset of ‘Hey this is a great new opportunity to grow my skillset and understand the business’ Each new person, project or whatever should be met with a welcome embrace rather than fear. You can fake it until you make it, …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:42 AM
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For sure dude, best of luck. New chapter, new women.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:31 AM
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Closure is the bullshit idea that you have a ‘talk’ after a breakup to say anything that needs to be said to clear the air and finish it off being on the same page. It’s a female thing, moreso for longer term or if the breakup was shitty and confusing as to why it happened. However, as men, we know they’re just sucking some new dick and it’s a waste of our time. We don’t need that touchy feel crap wasting further time. So avoid it.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:29 AM
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No problem with this. Some girls feel more comfortable at their place the first time or two. She doesn’t know if you have a knife or will tie her up (non consensually) and be a psychopath. That being said, what is your place like? Is it a shitty apartment that is not the right environment for sex, or is it decent? The best part about going to a girls place to hookup is - you get to leave. It’s a gift. Getting them to leave is a pain sometimes. That being said - I’ve always pulled girls to my pla…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:26 AM
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Don’t fuck her. She broke up with you. You’re going to drag out your oneitus by seeking her validation and whatever feelings you have for her need to be cut off for good. Text her to get your shit ready and go pick it up. If you’re in a vulnerable state of mind, have a buddy come for the ride so he makes sure you don’t do something stupid. If she asks to talk aka the bullshit idea of ‘closure’ (you don’t need it, she already fucked someone by now) simply say ‘Hey I gotta go, my friends in the ca…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:20 AM
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I highly doubt these are 9’s and 8’s. Maybe these girls are hotter than what you’re used to, but in a big city they’re probably average at best. Knowing that, you need to take them down off the pedestal. Ignore their beauty and act as if she was already your girlfriend or the chubby 5 who keeps hitting you up. Now, the framework is the same with all women. You don’t ask them when they’re free and then give your entire week open to them like you have nothing going on. Get a busy social life or pr…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:18 AM
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Depends on the club. Some of them, if you find out the DJ; say you’re here for them. Other clubs, roll up to the door solo or preferably with a hot girl or two. Guy going in solo has a better chance than a dude with his collared shirt sausage party. Look the part, dress well. Be confident when he asks you how can he help you. ‘Hey it’s just me tonight’ If you don’t get in, find girls on the street and get back on that line. Go in together.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:57 AM
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He was probably butthurt about something else. Or felt like your attempt at friendly conversation was actually an attempt at domination. Also, elevators suck. I hate being stuck in them with people. Brooding guitarist, I guess nobody will ever understand him. Maybe he cut himself later that night /s
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:53 AM
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Well done
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:50 AM
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Did you know that hostage negotiators purposely avoid the word ‘Why’ Why puts people in a defensive mode. The RP advice here is never Defend Excuse Explain or Rationalize (DEER). Learn the art of influence and how language shapes people’s thoughts and behaviors. A girl asking you why you chose something should be met with a brief response like ‘It’s what’s best for me’ or ‘I have my reasons, don’t worry your pretty little head’ The logic behind this is -> a woman doesn’t give a shit about the de…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:43 AM
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Are you kind and nice because you want people to like you? This doesn’t warrant respect. It’s all about respect. That’s a problem in the real world. At work, your managers will abuse you. You’ll say yes to everything and do everyone else’s work. In social settings, people will use you for your kindness and take your actions for granted. The one day you’re tired or fed up, they’ll be baffled why you reacted negatively. In dating, you will be placed on Tier 3 of a girls phonebook. However, if you …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:36 AM
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Instagram and Tinder are not at the night club. It’s all about engaging these women on an emotional level. Lots of guys only think it’s a rational thing (I have to have a six pack) but you will be surprised with the types of dudes these girls fuck. If you give them good emotions and know which emotional buttons to hit in order to trigger attraction - you are going to take home Chad’s girl. Given the ADD generation, those guys she’s talking to in her DM’s will be forgotten about because you’re th…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:32 AM
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Night game is a battlefield. Based on the little I know about what you’re doing, I’m going to make a few suggestions that I give to all newbies. Are you taking value of providing value? If you’re there and staring at the girls, only approaching and socializing with the women there, and trying to join in on THEIR party.. you are a value leech. Not gonna work. If you are there and first and foremost having fun, either running solo game and talking to other guys & girls there OR with your wingman s…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:28 AM
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You think you’re the first guy to think of this? Lmao
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:24 AM
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You fell for her trap and went autistic. When it comes to these situations, like a woman being stuck at a cash register, you don’t want to double and triple down on sexual innuendo. You showed way too strong interest and it killed the vibe. What you should have done after the tattoo thing was, shift topics and mention you are planning to check out X bar on Y day, and she should come along. Then casually drop your digits (if she’s at work, slide your card) and tell her to shoot you a text. And th…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:19 AM
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Learn how to project your voice with proper breathing.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:13 AM
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As you move up in the world, you need to continue making new friends who are closer in mentality, lifestyle and priorities. The best thing to do is go make friends with guys who are better than you in business, women, fitness. You will learn quickly from them and move up even quicker.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:13 AM
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Lots of people have narcissistic and abusive parents. The first step is cutting them out as much as possible. The next step is finally living the life you want for yourself without looking for parental approval, you’re old enough now. See him as a helpless child angry with his spot in the world. Failed dreams, lack of control over his own life = he’s taking it out on his loved ones. Bad energy. Let go of the past and work on your self esteem
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:11 AM
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14
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:09 AM
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Look up Common Law Marraige
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:07 AM
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Crying lasts maybe about 1-2 days. Then she will be fucking a new man because it’s easy for women and gives them validation after being dumped. Maybe it’s your friend. Maybe it’s some loser at a bar. Knowing that she’ll hop on a new dick within 48 hours helps not to feel bad and be impacted by the temporary emotional state they end up in during a breakup.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:04 AM
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Your boyfriend is going to be super pleased after you put these Reddit comments to action! Good luck
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:02 AM
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This is.. really try hard. How about you go date 2 other women, and when you hear back from her - you respond like a man with options and not a dork who spent weeks crafting the most cringe response.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:00 AM
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Work out 5x a week, eat a paleo diet, take vitamins and sleep 8 hours a night Check back in 3 months
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:59 AM
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Are you a male Karen? Life on easy mode and suddenly someone tells you No? Get over yourself. Life as a man is about engaging with the world, shooting your shot, getting denied/failing over and over again while learning from each experience until you rock that shit like a pro. Your ego is the source of this emotional turmoil. Work on that.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:56 AM
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You’re not funny dude. You sound like a cheesy dad from a 1980’s movie. How about instead of giving them attention, you make them chase your validation
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:53 AM
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I don’t deal with 5’s and 6’s. 7’s know better around me. 8’s and 9’s are pretty good for the most part. The lower tier women have the biggest egos because all of the losers feel comfortable hitting them up. The hotter ones, sure they get plenty of attention especially online, but most guys are too scared to approach them. Usually they’re insecure too, because they’re not as hot as the other upper tier women. Find yourself a hot girl that is somewhat down to earth.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:51 AM
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Your brain is wired to continuously seek stimulus. Smartphone, computer, television, etc Meditation is about cutting off that stimulus seeking pattern. Sitting in the silence and calming down the dopamine addicted monkey brain that likes lights and sounds. In this space is where you do reflection about your life and the place you have in the world. Meditation actually is proven to help boost willpower and prefrontal cortex activity. If you want to be in control of your life, practice meditation …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:48 AM
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They’re going to fuck the doctors and surgeons. Be ready for that
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:46 AM
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I haven’t experienced this. The ‘modern women’ I date make 70% of the effort of the relationship. Why? Because I have high SMV. Fix that about yourself and your relationships will improve.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:46 AM
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Lol she hit your ego because you hit hers in the past. Shit sucks right? Bitches do that. You already told her you’re not sure about helping her move. Why bother texting her? I’d ghost her until she hits you up. If she asks about the move, tell her something came up and you’re not available. Then stay radio silent for a while
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:45 AM
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Don’t be an autistic PUA robot
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:40 AM
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Is your friend Jamie Kennedy
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:40 AM
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Control your booze. If you can’t, then stay home
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:37 AM
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Comfortable is not that great. Comfortable means she’s gonna get lazy and not try hard to keep you. Comfortable means she knows she is your best option and she will wear the pants in the relationship. A woman being comfortable with you should be: she’s not afraid you’ll harm her, she can be herself around with (her best self). That’s it.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:54 AM
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He learned it from someone else. Or just has options and a weak minded girl who is easy to push around and dominate. At the same time, if you aren’t the dominant one in the relationship, the woman will try and take that role.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:52 AM
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Yes, because when you achieve those things you’ll feel empty and at times depressed. Then you look for a bigger picture life meaning
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:48 AM
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Lol I’ve experienced this. It’s always an old loser who looks down on younger people. Here’s what you do. You don’t react, you don’t get upset and you don’t give him the satisfaction of getting what he wants. old fat boomer barks at you about being on your phone or talking while on the bitch leg extension machine You finish your conversation while ignoring him a bit. Then you slowly turn to him, look him up and down (makes people insecure) and then in a controlled manner say ‘Yeah this machine w…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:42 AM
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Meetup.com Then branch out Go out in groups, meet other groups Take initiatives, plan parties and plan outings. Invite people. Become the social connector. It’s a fun game
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:38 AM
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Lol what the fuck is this
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:37 AM
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Make new friends. They won’t make you the butt of the joke like this group. It’s important to continue improving and working on your self confidence and social skills. When you meet new people, they don’t see the insecure loser you used to be. You’re the new version of you. See it as an empowering thing. Not something scary. Good luck 👍
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:35 AM
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I have dinner plans already - if that night doesn’t work for you we can rain check. And then go silent.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:33 AM
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You’re an energy vampire. You are a pessimistic chronic complainer, not a ‘very vocal person’. Energy vampires dump their emotional bullshit on people around them. I wouldn’t be friends with a guy like you. It’s feminine to bitch and moan about issues you could just solve.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:31 AM
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It’s fine. She’s just setting her friends up.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:29 AM
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You sound like a typical messy slobby guy. How about instead of being concerned about this female bullshit, you take ownership and clean up the space after you’re done cooking/eating. Lead by example
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:28 AM
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The workplace is a different beast. It’s full of sociopaths, manipulators and endless amounts of bullshit. Working hard is good. But they’ll take advantage of it and you won’t be getting anything more than a 2% raise year over year. Work smart, not hard. Don’t spend more than 2 years at any company. Take the skills and projects you learned, throw it on your resume and go get a real raise at your next company. Rinse and repeat. However, the corporate world also has a time limit. As you get older,…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:25 AM
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Congratulations you’ve discovered something that is noted on the red pill side bar. It’s called pre-selection
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:20 AM
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It’s uncomfortable because it poorly reflects on you. This is a temporary phase in both of your lives. You’re both incredibly young. There’s still time for his downfall and your rise, or more positively, you both rise together and support each other in life. Remember, this is just a story your telling yourself. The more you focus on it and indulge in feeling jealous and miserable - the more real it will be. Take some time away from him and work on your shit dude
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:14 AM
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Does she make more money than you? Are you making average to low income? This is exposing a weakness in your SMV. Females will always be drawn by their hypergamy. You know what to do. And it’s not going to be easy but you will gain power and control over your dating life. Dump her. Get in the best shape of your life. Get your income in the six figure range. Spin plates that are young and hot. Don’t look back. The alternative is being cucked and disrespected your entire life. Which one seems more…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:58 AM
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You keep saying ‘I’m an introvert and have no friends’ That’s why they are picking on you. You exude weakness. Lean into this and work on this aspect of your life. To survive and thrive in the working world, socially, with women -> you’re going to need to upgrade your social presence and social skills
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:54 AM
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Not true at all
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:43 AM
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31 is too old. 24 year old is doing what every chick age 19-26.5 does
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:43 AM
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You think settling down with one average girl is going to be life on easy mode? It’s not. You’ve gotta learn to strengthen your mentality when it comes to dating and long term relationships because your sweet little girlfriend who seems nice and easy could very well be taking dick on the side because you let yourself go. LTR’s are easy to come by. They are also the red pill on hard mode. If you aren’t successful and happy as a single man, why would settling down with one woman be any better? Oft…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:42 AM
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Why would you cut him off? This is a lesson for you to start developing your masculinity and go for it. You’re obviously not comfortable with yourself or women. You’re angry at him because it reflects poorly on you. Take that anger and drive it to improve yourself and meet new women. She’s the workplace slut, not your special snowflake princess. Always remember, ‘he who hesitates, masturbates’ Now go lift, approach women, get on dates and pull home to bang until it becomes second nature.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:39 AM
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NYC is great for single guys. NJ is trash
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:57 PM
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Definitely not LA. Definitely not NJ. So he’s left with the cows in PA. It’s America, there’s no quality here
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:23 PM
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Move out. Don’t live together. Meet new women, get her competition anxiety going. Living together kills attraction
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:22 PM
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Well, yes. Look up Wall Street playboys write up on office politics
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:21 PM
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Copium
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:20 PM
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You got fat kid mentality catching up to being in shape. It’ll take time
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:04 AM
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Women are retarded. Try again
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:03 AM
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I’m gonna call bullshit
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:02 AM
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That lasts 3 months tops
/r/askTRP03/06/21 05:01 AM
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It’s not magic and it’s supply and demand and value speculation in markets
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:08 AM
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You need to lift more and project a shit ton of confidence. When you’re super confident and your body language is strong, guys aren’t going to do this as often
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:36 PM
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I’m well aware but you’re inflating your ego over high N count in a delusional way.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:36 PM
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yup
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:20 AM
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Welcome to being a man. At least for us, by age 30 our phones start ringing more and women have less and less inbound interest. Be happy about that
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:08 AM
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Why are you entering female frame by spending time with females?
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:05 AM
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Trust your gut. Her age isn’t helping either. Probably looking for her next victim that will marry her ASAP
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:02 AM
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This is the path to enlightenment. Crush your ego. Rebuild. Crush it again. Each rebuild you will have confidence that you can handle whatever life throws at you
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:55 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:53 AM
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Get some quality sleep and fix your nutrition.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:52 AM
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You’re probably the 10th guy who nutted in her that day.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:48 AM
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Sounds like oneitus
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:47 AM
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Why are you confronting him like that? You’ve got the police to call.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:47 AM
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There will always be leeches. Don’t be friends with thirsty betas.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:45 AM
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realize every time you meet with a woman, even if you used to bang, you’re dealing with a reset of emotions back to 0. this is normal - meet her out and escalate then pull.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:43 AM
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This sounds like you’re too thirsty and probably not calibrated. We would need more context on what behaviors resulted in this feedback. Work on your game bro
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:42 AM
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Get back in the groove of being a social creature and enjoy the sex
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:41 AM
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It depends on which ‘bros’ Most dudes are beta chumps and will try to leech off you, whether your social value or women. Befriend high value guys that have enough bitches where they respect the lines and if shit happens - nobody gets butthurt because there are plenty of other women to get. Most ‘bros’ are not worth it
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:38 AM
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I feel this in every LTR I have. Women are not the same as us. You know what helps? Not living with a woman. Live with other ambitious and successful men if you want to share a living space. That’s the crew that will help push you through competition to keep leveling up. Don’t look to women to add to that motivation. They’re fine with watching Netflix all day because life is easy for them (until they hit the wall).
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:36 AM
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Idiot
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:33 AM
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enjoy your trip and don’t text her too much. she’s getting too comfortable with you, prob spending too much time with her. also - see this as an indicator of whether or not you want to keep this ‘LTR’ going. what will happen in 3 more months? 6? Moving in together? If she’s already fussing about blowjobs it’s only going to get worse. She’s that type of girl so leave her for some other guy who is okay with getting it once a year on his birthday.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:23 AM
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This is like feeling the dopamine highs of your crypto portfolio over the past few months and then suddenly this past week people are getting suicidal. In your case, you’re too dependent on external validation. Realize it’s always temporary and if you put too much power into getting validation from women - you’re going to be crushed when things change. Gotta work on not being attached to the ups and downs in life and keeping your ego from getting fed too much by other people and what they decide…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:20 AM
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You should work on status game instead of cold approach. That means you need to be the leader in some type of social group that has men and women. Whether that’s being a bar manager, sports group leader, etc - leverage that social dynamic my man. Good luck
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:18 AM
1

Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do. Unless you’re a .01% roided up meathead - which none of us are - stick to your training plan
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:15 AM
1

The effect you’re describing can be handled by social media. If you have an Instagram and post stories of you doing cool shit with your friends - there’s the effect of staying top of mind. Now the availability is moreso on direct communication with the girl and not always being at her beck and call.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:12 AM
0

You’re not better if you’re paying for the used half eaten sandwich that nobody else wanted lmao
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:09 AM
1

Assume it. If she wants your commitment, ask her to delete her Instagram and see how she reacts
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:07 AM
1

Prostitution is bad for the soul.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:06 AM
1

Women have no passion and thrive on emotions. So having a passion and speaking about it emphatically is good. However - your passions aren’t really anything practical that can be displayed. It’s not a hobby or sport or business. It’s social science. I would find something that’s a bit more.. actionable, rather than purely academic.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:05 AM
1

The solution is - don’t hang out with girls when you need to recharge. The date can wait after your dark cloud passes.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:03 AM
1

It’s normal to meet each other’s social circles. Do it with confidence. However - don’t become close with her friends or let her become close with your core group. When the inevitable break up happens, you want your core social circle to remain intact. Her friends are not really going to be on your side either.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:02 AM
2

Hell no. Dating women over 28 means you’re signing up for lots of bullshit and pressure to commit, get married and have kids. Stick to a few years under that and it will be way better for you as a man. If you end up meeting a 25 year old and have a great LTR - you have some years of youth and beauty along with less initial pressure due to the age. Bonus points for younger
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:59 AM
2

Women are emotional not logical. If you can make them feel something, they don’t care about the other stuff dudes obsess here over all the time.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:57 AM
1

This is a good example for all the black pill doomers who think height, race, and facial aesthetics are the only way to get laid. You’ve got lots of dudes like OP who are still in need of learning game, having the right mindset and most importantly - realizing their value. Most of the game is mental and behavioral, physique is only the entrance fee.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:55 AM
1

Comply or goodbye. If she’s not going with your plan then don’t even bother meeting up.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:50 AM
1

Even chads get shit results on Tinder. It used to be really good years ago but over time most of the dating apps became shitty money grabs.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:49 AM
2

Too much time reading doomer stuff online.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:46 AM
2

Go lift heavy weights before the date. That will expend the extra energy which manifests to anxiety.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:44 AM
1

You’re too available. And predictable. Disappear for a while and don’t text her for a few weeks. Do you have the willpower to do that? If you do, then she may text you once she realizes you’re moving on. Or not. Either way, go find some new girls. They’re all ready for hot girl summer ;)
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:42 AM
2

Lol Islam is a red pill religion
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:41 AM
0

She’s using your for validation until she gets Chad’s attention and that’s when she’ll stop responding to your texts
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:40 AM
2

You’re looking externally for proof of your value and it’s not there. That means you should dedicate almost all of your time to improving your physique, mental frame, education and income. The bitches will come.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:40 AM
4

Yeah betas are for the used goods. Keep doing your thing and leave your scraps. This shouldn’t be a problem if you don’t want to marry them in the first place. Go find some new plates
/r/askTRP24/05/21 04:38 AM
1

1) don’t live together 2) raise your SMV every day and never show weakness That’s why it’s hard mode. LTR is inherently setting up for familiarity and contempt.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:19 AM
1

Dump.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:14 AM
1

It’s impossible to know everything. Spend more time reading and less time on Reddit is a good start
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:12 AM
2

This is some bullshit questions game that was posted in NYTimes and blogs. It’s like how to emotionally connect with someone through 50 questions. She’s running game on you, that’s cute
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:11 AM
1

Who cares what other people think? Women always spin the breakup to make themselves look good. The problem is you care too much about what the social circle thinks. Best thing to do is make new friends. This is why I never mix my social circle with an LTR. Her friends become enemies, mine are my team.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:18 AM
1

This is obviously the beginning of the end. Your ‘gf’ is going to side with them and leave you. You need to remove all of them from your life. Work on your SMV. Find new girls.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:12 AM
1

You open them and talk.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:11 AM
3

This^ Be patient, give lots of time between texts (1 week minimum) and let her wonder why you’re not up her ass like 80% of the betas in her inbox. You should have multiple plates you’re working on so you at least can have sex on a regular basis and that will help you even more.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:11 AM
1

You probably project low confidence
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:32 PM
1

Provision, stability, someone to provide tons of attention. Gets boring quick
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:32 PM
1

Most men can’t get a date on the apps, so no.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:29 PM
1

You’re probably speaking too logically and don’t know how to flirt or physically escalate
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:29 PM
1

Assuming you spent your 20’s building your body, career, wealth and social skills In your 30’s you’re a much higher value man
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:27 PM
1

I don’t see it this way. Still banging hotties on the regular with no social media
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:23 PM
24

It validates their life choices. Meanwhile look at their life and it probably is terrible.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 12:20 PM
1

Cool man, good luck. Not trying to scare you but this is how it is in the work environment in 2021. Lots of dudes getting thrown down in flames because they can’t keep it professional. Dudes gotta find sex outside of the office where there are thousands of available women.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:17 AM
1

Since you’re already over analyzing this, let’s just accept that a sexual relationship is not happening here. Now, you treat her as a colleague/friend zone her. Don’t act weird, just be respectful and definitely do not text, email or call her about anything related to your interest in her or sex. That is all evidence that can be weaponized against you, especially when the other beta managers side against you because they think it’ll win them favor from the girl. How would you treat an ugly femal…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:13 AM
1

Anyone who claims that story is likely selling you some bullshit courses online. Incels already believe they’re doomed genetically and don’t want to try at all. So let’s not assume that for anyone here because everyone’s seeking self improvement and incels are lazy and defeatist. Have their been come up stories? Yes. Many. I would urge you to look into your own future and imagine what kind of person you’d like to be in 5 - 10 years. That should be your inspiration, not a bunch of lying retards o…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:00 AM
1

Walk away otherwise you’re going to jail. Then you remove her from your life entirely. I don’t care who it is.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:58 AM
3

Get yourself a therapist while you work on the core RP tenets
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:57 AM
1

‘That’s how you were born but I’m different bro’
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:54 AM
1

I don’t need my woman to do anything for me. Most of what she can do can easily be outsourced through an app. I’ll still let her do things for me, but it’s my gift of receiving it that makes her feel somewhat useful. ‘Submissive, cleans for me, etc’ is what many guys on this subreddit brag about but everyone knows this is the bare minimum of what to expect from a woman because they really can’t offer a man with his shit together much besides sex. Keep this in mind next time your LTR steps out of…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:52 AM
1

Women are primarily operating in their emotions. Realize what they say only represents how they feel in the moment they say it. It doesn’t hold any truth, it’s not a principle, it’s not even an idea they have thought through logically and have evidence to support it. Once you know the creature you’re dealing with, you won’t view it in the lens of a man to man interaction. This awareness of female nature will help you out. This feeling of ‘always being lied to’ sounds like you’re in the anger pha…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:49 AM
1

All of these apps are trash. High value guys are too busy to swipe and post and scroll for 7 hours a day.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:46 AM
1

Why did you feel the need to write a beta male story? This is 80% of the posts in here. Don’t need examples.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:46 AM
2

She’s trying to force your hand in this game of poker. What would a red piller do? You call her bluff, be fine if she ends up ghosting you for a few weeks, and then bone her again when she doesn’t get commitment from the other simp she’s fucking right now.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:44 AM
1

This is normal for 21 year olds who are still in the honeymoon phase. You’re young and full of hormones and naive. This is a good sign. Just know, it’s temporary. Enjoy the time with her but don’t get hung up on her words. Soul mate can easily turn into ‘I see you more as a brother’ in 12 months time. See what I mean?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:42 AM
2

You have a big ego but nothing to back it up. Come back when you accomplish something.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:40 AM
1

There is no tradwife out there. The best you’ll get is a reformed slut that’s playing pretend so you can finance her fat ass sitting at home while you work 80 hours a week. Good luck.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:39 AM
1

Don’t sweat the small stuff OP. This is a college relationship and it probably won’t last forever. Let her go enjoy the festival and figure out a backup plan. You need some other girls in your roster because LTR’s are pretty finicky these days.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:35 AM
1

Don’t mess around with coworkers. She’s probably a 6 in real life but an 8 in the office for all you thirsty betas. Do yourself a favor and ignore the ‘number’. She’ll probably just use you anyways and then can always claim sexual harassment when you send an autistic sext. Best thing to do here is read over the sidebar, work on your body/mind/finances and get some fucking confidence in yourself. All the while, meeting the billions of women that are not in your office.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:34 AM
0

‘When he came back to my life’ You sound like a woman. This entire post is super feminine because you’re reacting hard to some scrub. You could have easily blocked this guy on social but you love the drama apparently
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:31 AM
1

You have OCD bro. Most people would forget about this shit after a year, you’re still angry about it? You need to get busy with your grind. Sounds like you have too much time to ruminate.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:30 AM
1

Write it off to the game. Not every battle is worth it. Continue grinding and making more value of yourself and collecting money. It’ll be chump change soon enough.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:29 AM
1

You fucked up by actually taking social media and online dating stats seriously. In reality, it’s all about charisma and energy. A bitch will think you’re 7ft tall if you have swag.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:26 AM
1

If you really cared about the people your age with professional jobs - you would have been serious back when you were 18. You want the rewards without putting the work in. Anyways. You’re not even 30 bro. Pick a field in demand, get your shit together and network for jobs. By the time you are mid-30’s you’re going to thank yourself for the decision you made.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:22 AM
1

You fucked up by making your colleague a LTR. The boss sounds petty, jealous and on a power trip. That’s why he’s giving your only source of pussy a difficult time. I thought Europe had social safety nets. Can she quit too and collect money from the state?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:21 AM
1

It’s not productive because you probably spend hours on the computer doing nothing anyways. Going out will teach you social skills. Social skills are useful in the job market. That will get you paid and confident. These are life skills. Stop living in VR.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:18 AM
1

Birds of a feather flock together. Your ‘girl’ is just like her thotianna’s, except she fooled you into thinking she’s not and you’re too attached to see it differently. A music festival girls trip in and of itself isn’t the end of the world. It sounds like you have a gut feeling this is disrespecting you, and you’re probably right. Did she invite you? Did she not even bother to? Then yeah it’s a concern. Most LTR’s would invite their boyfriend along to some event. If she made plans on their own…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:16 AM
2

Nothing good comes easy. Yes it will be humiliating and uncomfortable for your first X approaches. Over time you won’t be phased at all because you’ll realize there are many hot girls out there in the world. That’s when your vibe will improve and your success will trickle in. All this is assuming you’re continuing to raise your SMV, day in and day out. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:13 AM
2

That is cringe. You’re trying to send photos of your ‘wealth’ to get a woman attracted? Leading by your wallet will have them continue to siphon free food and stuff off you and you won’t be having sex right away. You want to do this in an indirect way, as part of your lifestyle. You don’t say the quiet parts loud, my autistic frend.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:10 AM
1

If you’re offering beta bucks steady LTR vibe? Yes. If you’re offering fuckboy careless vibe? Yes. If you’re front loading the attraction of the latter and dangling the carrot of the former without effort? well now you’ve got their attention and if they’re invested they’ll try to flip you into committing. fun game.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:08 AM
1

Sign up for a martial art and you won’t sweat the small stuff
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:06 AM
1

you’re going to have to learn how to casually date a few women at a time. otherwise, you’re being a serial monogamist and lying to yourself.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:05 AM
1

I dropped that group quick. Drop your LTR too if you want to maximize your time
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:07 AM
1

You’re not an entrepreneur. This is how unemployed people on LinkedIn market themselves. Find a trade, skill or career path and do the work.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:49 AM
1

Stop.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:30 AM
1

Channel it towards something productive
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:25 AM
4

Good luck finding a Virgin to simp over. Most of us have to be okay with the fact that human beings have sex. Accept it and stop getting lost in your possessive feels. If it continues then don’t LTR girls with high notch count.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:21 AM
1

Have fun and enjoy your own vibe. Don’t care about the rest
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:22 AM
1

It looks non-masculine for most. Better to have some length and neatly groomed rather than full on surfer/metal head mop
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:21 AM
67

Because 90% of dudes are fat
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:18 AM
2

No.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:17 AM
2

Realize these are all external things and you’re giving them too much power. The moment you get injured, lose a job, or experience a breakup.. you’re going to be pretty damn depressed. The good and bad must be experienced with the same level headed perspective. Meditate. Practice gratitude. Realize nothing is permanent and don’t get too attached to the external.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:16 AM
3

Some can be basic and slightly boring. The 7’s usually make up for decent looks (but not smoke show) by being more interesting... sometimes. It largely varies. A hot but boring girl is going to get old quick. Get that nut in and bounce
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:05 PM
1

Girl using sex as a negotiation is a red flag. These types have been doing it for a while and are pretty disconnected from their bodies. They’re essentially behaving like prostitutes. Find yourself a new woman who enjoys sex for the sake of sex.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:22 AM
3

So you allow the environment to dictate your emotions? Like a woman? Gotta dictate your emotions yourself and cut through the bullshit of crowded bars and clubs. What will help is going out more and more, several nights a week. After a while, it’ll feel as comfortable as your living room.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:17 AM
2

Your sample size is probably also small. You need to meet tons of new women on a regular basis and develop game.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:12 AM
1

Get your bloodwork done. Could be vitamin D or thyroid deficiency which is resulting in mild depression.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:10 AM
3

You need less bitch boy friends
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:03 AM
8

Are you a retarded Youtuber that worships billionaires? What the fuck is wrong with you.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:00 AM
3

Women only want one thing: More
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:59 AM
2

Just say some bullshit. Nobody cares about those ‘new hire’ icebreakers.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:59 AM
15

Lol Gates and Bezos are not alpha. They’re betas with money. That’s why they got married and divorce raped.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:58 AM
14

This. They’re all the same
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:57 AM
18

What do you mean by expects a lot? If you’re playing the boyfriend/provider game, then sure. If you’re going for game/charisma/attraction - I’d rather spend my time with a 9 than a 6.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:57 AM
1

There’s a time and place for confrontation and every man should be capable if not comfortable with it. It’s good to expose oneself to confrontation in various forms to become adept. That includes social relationships, business, negotiation, etc.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:54 AM
1

Pretty much. Desire naturally changes over a long term relationship. The honeymoon period is the best and that’s why some dudes simply spin plates and chase that period. It’s not a bad path.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:52 AM
3

You should’ve done this when you first met. Trying for it now isn’t going to work.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:15 AM
1

Having money and not being fat is basically the barrier to entry. You need to put yourself out there, take rejections on the chin and develop game if you want sex.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:13 AM
3

1) women’s sex drives as a fraction of men’s drive. 2) not every woman is sexually liberated and/or high sex drive 3) this is what happens in LTR’s. after some time passes, the excitement is pretty much gone and it takes effort to make things a bit more novel and fun. You asking her to be more enthusiastic isn’t going to work.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:11 AM
2

There’s a fine balance. You don’t need to get defensive and butthurt every time someone throws a slight at you. There are way too many insecure social autists who think every battle is worth it. They come off as super reactive and weak. There’s more power in silence with an intense stare than bitching like a woman.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:09 AM
2

Because they’re poor and rely on a man to provide. Here in the West, we have women with economic power and the laws around marriage/divorce are setup to benefit the woman. It’s the nature of the system we’re in. All you can do is make the best decisions for yourself. If I wanted to have a family, I would already have one. It’s my choice to stay free.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:06 AM
12

All women are the same
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:50 PM
34

Just don’t get married and work towards financial independence. 99% of women are not going to live on a strict budget so you can invest and retire early.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:25 PM
2

Nah. You do that with your male friends.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:56 PM
1

So you’re giving up your freedom lol
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:26 PM
1

You confronting either of them at this point is rather a waste of time. Find a new girl. Or two, or three. Then it won’t be a problem.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:04 PM
1

Lol nk
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:04 PM
1

Look up the reviews and see which clubs have the most hate. Generally those have a strong door policy. Network with promoters. Go in solo. Be comfortable with paying high cover charges. That’s how this works
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:03 PM
1

‘Steady supply of pussy’ This is the biggest lie and misconception of living with a woman. The sex dries up.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:01 PM
1

Get your hormones checked
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:00 PM
1

Demonstrate do not explicate. You don’t verbally have to ‘enforce’ Instead, you stop giving her your time and attention. Respond less, see her less, meet new girls If she doesn’t correct herself, it was a lost cause anyways
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:20 AM
1

They don’t handle it well
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:19 AM
1

It’s manipulation
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:19 AM
1

Post wall. There’s your answer
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:18 AM
1

Downgrade to plate, meet new girls, exit
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:18 AM
1

Work for yourself
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:17 AM
1

Read 48 laws of power
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:17 AM
1

Move to a city where there are people who are in their 30’s and single. NYC, Miami, etc
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:16 AM
1

Who cares
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:15 AM
1

Next her
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:15 AM
2

Who cares?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:14 AM
1

Yep. So position yourself in that higher echelon. The effort of getting there > effort of dealing with a trash LTR
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:10 PM
28

It doesn’t sound like an ego problem. It sounds like you’re seeking validation from others and that’s why you feel the need to overcompensate. Deep down, the fat poor kid inside of you is still looking for approval from others. Full integration means you do what you do, and don’t give a shit if someone else praises you or trashes you.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:07 PM
6

This isn’t helpful for you, but for the readers Always break up right after her period, assuming no further sexual contact. These are the risks and games we play when you don’t wrap it up
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:06 PM
1

AWALT
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:05 PM
5

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:05 PM
8

Yeah man, it’s not your project
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:37 PM
8

The trauma really fucks things up. It sucks.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:06 PM
2

There’s lots of material on this. Check out Rollo or Rich Cooper’s YouTube channels. Search for red flags LTR and that’ll cover most of it.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:21 PM
5

‘I think about a relationship in a beautiful way’ You have an ideal in mind. My comment is suggesting to still vet potential LTR women properly and don’t let them slide on red flags. Lots of guys have an ideal, and choose a woman who is just okay or low quality. They will only see the good in her and ignore the red flags because they really want a relationship.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:19 PM
1

Of course, good luck.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:06 PM
1

I got you. I think lots of couples have gone through the same thing during the past year. Many are now rethinking if they want to continue relationships or be single and enjoy new excitement. It’s up to you if you want to carve out time to make it more exciting. Try it and if it’s still no spark, might be time to cut your losses.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:03 PM
13

She has psychological problems. Probably was abused or possibly raped and orgasm means she’s giving away power and trust to a man. Don’t stay in this for too long, she won’t properly bond with you if she’s not orgasming.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:59 PM
7

This is the nature of plates and women in general. Don’t bother trying to analyze it. Find new plates.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:58 PM
3

Do you think the relationship can get better in the future or are you simply trying to keep your comfort zone? LTR’s become routine and people are routine oriented creatures. If you’re not truly certain about it in the long run, then why waste your time and her time? It’s not easy to breakup because you have this sunk cost fallacy in your head. Realize women are not an investment, they are leases. It’s an expense for marginal utility and you’re only as good as your last payment. With this mindse…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:57 PM
1

Time passing quickly is something I view positively. Do you know why? Because I have goals and every few months I look back and see that I got shit done. The time will pass whether you take action or not. It’s up to you to use the time wisely for your future outcome.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:54 PM
4

You have an ideal in your head and it doesn’t match reality. Don’t project it on to the wrong women, this is very important.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:53 PM
5

everyone has different goals and motivations. the hustle culture is glamorized too much. are you planning on becoming a lawyer?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:43 AM
20

she’s trash dude get a girl with a decent job
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:41 AM
1

To get over an ex, you’re going to have to bang 3 - 5 new women. One of them will be better and you’ll forget quickly.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:27 AM
16

A 4 is still a 4. If 1,000 guys want her or 2, she is still low quality.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:26 AM
1

It is validation. Don’t do it
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:24 AM
1

You need to find something new instead.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:24 AM
2

So even in your specific exceptional example - the woman emotionally cheated and participated in validation exchange with the guy for a while. They might have hooked up in secret and you would have no idea because you’re just some dude observing and gossiping. You’re trying to fight an uphill battle and it’s not worth it. Long distance relationships don’t work.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:23 AM
1

Based on what you’ve described, you probably have a gut feeling that she is not the one for you long term. She’s looking for a dutiful beta to pay for everything and she will most likely still be unhappy, still look around for some excitement and still cheat. My question to you is -> what value does she bring to the table besides her vagina? Are you ready to be a slave for the next several decades until you die? It’s not going to be easy to rip the bandaid off and end the relationship. It never …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:18 PM
1

It’s probably bullshit like most of these scam artists are
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:15 PM
1

That’s a wise decision. In the meantime I would find local bar/clubs with young folks nearby. Hang around the college towns.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:15 PM
1

Diversify your thotportfolio You are not in love. You are simply addicted to the one vagina you have access to currently.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:14 PM
1

It’s lonely at the top. You only need 2 or 3 good friends who are also on top of their shit. Find something else to fulfill the void.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:13 PM
1

This is a stupid idea
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:12 PM
1

They’re all full of shit. Red pill and dating advice is free. It’s all been said by people 10-20 years ago. Like any self help space, there’s always new assholes who come in and rely on 95% marketing and 5% content. Don’t pay them a dime.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:11 PM
2

There are no more queens in 2021
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:09 PM
1

She can have a very low level job. It’s better for me to be her boss, than some asshole at a corporation who she will get attracted to and start to fuck.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:09 PM
1

2
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:08 PM
1

Epiphany phase sucks. They’re already changing their behavior and pretending to be more virtuous than they are. Do you really want some woman at 29 who is frigid and vanilla in bed with you? When she was 22 she was having adventurous sex and was fine with it. Epiphany phase also comes with pressure on their end for commitment. Don’t be surprised if they make you wait 4 dates for sexual contact. My view is go for the younger girls because they are more fun and if it works out for the long term - …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:06 PM
1

First thing is first - you need to be okay with the relationship ending. Today. Next, you need to open your options so you have other women to be with when she is no longer keeping her end of the bargain. She lied to you and broke your trust. You can sit down with her and let her know that. She will probably continue to lie, shift responsibility and deny. Don’t even listen to it. Just tell her she broke your trust and that’s a big deal to you. From there, you need to withdraw your attention and …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:03 PM
1

She might be attempting to show her ‘exclusivity’ to you in a pretty crappy way, or just a dumb person who thinks jealousy will further secure commitment from a man. Obviously your response should not take it seriously and most importantly - do not be emotionally affected. ‘Good for you’ will not give her the satisfaction she’s looking for. Use that
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:58 PM
1

Yes. I have high empathy naturally and it has bit me in the ass too many times in the past. You have to learn to use your empathy in a useful way, like reading people while socializing. While also mitigating the negative aspects - like putting other people’s needs and feelings above yours.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:56 PM
1

This is her rational mind catching up to what happened during sex, which is purely emotional. In BDSM circles, there’s something called ‘after care’. Check it out and use some of the useful ideas in your relationship to manage her feeling guilty after sex.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:54 PM
1

You’re essentially seeking validation and in a competing frame. Instead of trying to prove you’re the shit, own it. In socializing, it’s better to let other people shine a bit and add something valuable to the conversation. People who need to one up all the time come off as autistic and insecure.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:53 PM
1

There’s no one way to generalize this. I’ve had more experience with the opposites attract thing.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:52 PM
3

It’s the same with the job market and stock market. Irrationality, fear of losing out, competition anxiety AND social proof helps save them time when assessing value.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:50 PM
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They’re taking ideas that are not theirs and repeating it over and over again. The biggest tell is how they rely on bringing dumb thots on the show every night for some bullshit conversation. At the end of the day, they are simply looking to make money on YouTube. There’s nothing profound or new about what they’re saying.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:49 PM
2

You’re boring
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:47 PM
3

It’s just an emotion from good sex. Don’t take her seriously. She could also be BPD and lovebombing you by stroking your ego. Once you get hooked by that validation, you’ll commit (if that’s her plan)
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:47 PM
1

Social media
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:46 PM
5

Move to a city full of young people
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:46 PM
1

‘Your creating a hostile work environment and this is considered workplace harassment’ Use the legal language
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:46 PM
23

‘That’s your business, just be safe about it’
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:45 PM
0

So privilege? There are still tons of self made people that didn’t come from wealth
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:36 AM
1

You gotta stop listening to Jordan Peterson man
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:34 AM
1

It doesn’t mean they’re damaged. At least they are honest with themselves. Many damaged women want kids because they need a purpose for their lives. Doesn’t mean they’re going to be good partners or mothers. It’s just another way to fill the void.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:34 AM
3

Yeah dude. Work on yourself to the point where you’re proud of your accomplishments. Work on your self esteem and feel worthy of hotter women.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:29 AM
2

It is normal to be indifferent. After 1.5 years of fucking the same vagina - we naturally lose interest. And guess what? They do too. She’s out for new dick now. Such is the nature of humanity
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:17 AM
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It is not worth shaking up with a low SMV woman. Why? Because they’re all the same. The hot ones and the ugly ones are still the same creature. It’s true they’re only as loyal as their options, but their self esteem and self perception plays in big on that. They’re not going to be easier to control unless they’re dependent on you for something. Even then, you live in the West. So they’ll still have freedom to do and fuck what they please and be supported. Set your goals higher man. Don’t dig in …
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:16 AM
1

From the way you described it, yes. It’s not worth sticking with a woman who doesn’t view you in the same light. Uphill battle with little reward. Get your nut and bounce
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:52 PM
1

What do you want to do? Travel? Book a flight and tell your family you’ll be back next week. You’ll need to learn how to manage your family and your own desires/expectations. Don’t be afraid to draw some boundaries with them. You’re a 22 year old man who is providing them financial support. Respectfully, express your desires and take action.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:54 AM
2

At the end of the day, the only constant is yourself. Learn to become best friends with yourself and people will come and go. Do you have some buddies you can hang out with to shoot the shit? That’s a nice option to blow off steam
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:48 AM
1

Do something worth having confidence about.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:47 AM
1

Your conditioning is the root of this thinking
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:46 AM
3

Nice neg bro
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:45 AM
1

The only time to compliment is when they’re naked in your bedroom
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:45 AM
2

How to train your dog
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:45 AM
1

Tell her it sounds like she needs to work on her self esteem. Don’t capitulate to such transparent fishing for compliments.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:44 AM
1

She’s damaged. Cut off communication before you’re stuck with a rape charge.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:43 AM
1

Two legs and a vagina
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:41 AM
1

This is gay.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:40 AM
5

Honestly, fuck her once or twice and then stop. It’s not worth the headache. Find someone who isn’t fresh out of a breakup instead.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:39 AM
1

Yeah dude. Solo night game is how I cut my teeth when even my fellow PUA buddies didn’t feel like going out. I learned a great deal on how to keep myself in a good mood, socialize with strangers and eventually it became a super fun adventure. The initial ramp up period is going to be uncomfortable. But keep pushing and take down some notes on what you can do better next time. The next interaction is like a New File for a video game. You’re good to go starting from scratch. I can’t wait for thing…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:34 AM
2

This is a very shallow view of the social matrix. The loud guy who is trying hard to get attention is such a textbook ‘is this alpha?’ example. It’s going to be the guy who has the most influence over the social group. You’ve got your quieter mob boss types, and your douche bag beer guzzling frat boys. Live in your own frame and stop caring about whether or not you’re ‘alpha’. For cold approach: See the social matrix and identify who is the shot caller that people listen to. Now walk over and in…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:25 AM
2

Plates? Hell no. They’re a dime a dozen. Longer term plates? Sure it might suck after two years from the shared experiences, but I’ve been through it enough times where I ended up with someone younger and hotter after that it doesn’t really have the same sting as in my early 20’s. If anything, I’m happy if a girl is getting ready to leave. That means I get to fuck new women and go back to enjoying single life. For that reason (among others, of course) I can’t get rid of them. I typically have to…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:17 AM
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Yeah dude. That’s how I got good at networking, presenting in front of executives and wider global meetings. It’s literally a muscle and if you keep practicing by leaning into the discomfort and taking action, your brain will start to accept that things will go well for you. The more evidence your brain gets that some big alpha ape didn’t come and smash your head in with a rock for being loud, talkative or hitting on that 10, the more internalized confidence you will build. It’s also momentum ba…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:13 AM
2

This is trashy hood mentality. No pussy is worth a fight. Block them both and avoid.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:11 AM
1

This happens when females sense weakness or stagnation in you. Time to hit the gym 5x a week and work on some financial advancement. Then dump her ass for a younger broad.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:10 AM
1

So break up with her.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:09 AM
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It’s only Machiavellian if you are gaining something. I guess you’re a cuck so it’s going to turn you on sexually, we can call that a win. Up top dude!!
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:08 AM
1

Switch jobs man. You fucked to dating a coworker.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:07 AM
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I asked a girl to a hotel directly and she came. She said it took balls to be that direct. Use the excuse of ‘man these places all close so early. I just want to rent a hotel room and bring a bottle of champagne and chill’
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:06 AM
2

Learn to embrace the discomfort. This is just like hitting the bars and socializing/meeting women. Have a few ice breakers in your mind ready to go so you know how to get people talking (opening). From there, introduce them to others around that you’ve already talked to. Be the social connector. This anxiety can actually turn into confidence and fuel for moving around and getting interactions going. It just takes practice. This is a bullshit corporate event to recruit fresh meat for underpaid gr…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:03 AM
1

Enjoy taking out a line of credit for your sex life. I get it for free and with enthusiasm.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:46 AM
3

So you’re easy to influence? Lol Say this next time ‘Perhaps, I’ll consider it’
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:28 PM
5

Read No More Mr Nice Guy. Practice saying No more often. Be comfortable changing the subject entirely if someone is trying to give you shit advice.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:53 PM
3

What a clusterfuck. I think you did well in the initial phase, but yeah there are the jealous betas who have been trying to get with the girls for years that will get butthurt along with the fat friends. Solution? You should have stayed for one drink and then extract the girl from the situation so you two could be alone. Then the environment is in your control. I would never stay with a girls social circle for too long, especially from cold approach. If there’s no way she’s going to leave her gr…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:50 PM
2

I mean, you should research how many people became successful in their 40’s and 50’s. It’s not so black and white. Lots of successful people had a shitty time in their 20’s and even 30’s but they didn’t give up. Nobody really has the answer for your specific circumstance. I would say finding a path away from a dead end job and into an actual career is a good start. That could mean a degree, apprenticeship or learning a trade/technical school. Since you are aware you don’t have too much time to f…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:45 PM
3

It’s not really something to overthink. I didn’t like my career at first but grew into enjoying the advancement and money aspect. I have hobbies that I want to spend more time on, but I get busy with the business side of things. I think it’s less of ‘Think for a long time about what your purpose is’ and more ‘Try actually taking action in a few things and stick to it for more than a year’ and see what you end up liking and what definitely doesn’t work.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:04 PM
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You were probably showing her that you cared about her in a way a boyfriend does for a girlfriend. It seems like you being easy to deal with and CONSISTENT killed the excitement over time. Don’t feel envy over those losers. You need to adopt what they’re doing that works well with women. That means 1) being less available 2) being unpredictable 3) keep her chasing you 4) get some more interesting hobbies that take up your time and 5) build your confidence Women can’t verbally express what turns …
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:22 PM
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The time is going to pass by. Years will fly. If you worked on a goal, you’ll keep up or rank up. If you didn’t do shit to advance your life, you are going to move down and sink. This is how it is. So it’s your choice. Do you want to look back on the years and feel proud of what you accomplished? Or are you going to be the same loser you’ve been since you were a teenager?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:19 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP25/04/21 04:43 PM
1

Those PUA tactics are training wheels. Eventually it’s time to integrate the fundamentals and express it authentically in your personality and demeanor.
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:05 AM
1

Logical conversation is not sexy. It forces them into interview mode too. You need to learn how to speak womanese. It’s irrational, emotional and conversations move from one emotion to the next. Do it in a playful and flirty way while self amusing and you’ll be fine. Practice. Next 5 approaches, you’re only allowed to ask her 1 interview type question. The rest of the convo you have to improvise, cold read, tease, and even tell a damn story.
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:03 AM
1

B*tches love operant conditioning
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:01 AM
1

He’s trying to seduce in a subtle way. It’s weird to do at work.
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:00 AM
2

Don’t seek out women to fill your void. Find other parts of life to find fulfillment and meaning. Also have multiple girls you’re dating at the same time.
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:58 AM
1

This is only helpful for screening if she’s single. It’s indirect and sneaky, and I am not sure what purpose it truly serves if your goal is sex. I don’t care if she has a boyfriend. The boyfriend can be someone she is about to break up with or forget about. I’m not going to cockblock myself. It’s better to assume attraction. Boyfriends do not matter. If you push up against a boundary and she is in a committed relationship, she’ll let you know. That’s an indication you effectively signaled a man…
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:55 AM
2

Yes, direct and logical. That’s definitely the way to go with women. Why can’t they be like us guys and deal with things that way? That was sarcastic. Giving direct validation to a woman means she doesn’t have to fuck you to gain your approval. It has to be earned. Given, taken away, given, taken away. This type of game is what will drive the woman to give you the best sex she can perform. Compliment them when they are naked in your bed, not before.
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:52 AM
2

‘Once covid is gone’ Lol
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:48 AM
2

You gotta work on your leading and closing game. My sense is you’re giving them tons of free validation and there’s nothing for them to work for or chase. So they will walk off and bone the next guy that throws them a little challenge and plays with validation.
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:47 AM
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It’s only the weird autists that ignore the men in a mixed set. If you get the ‘this guy is cool’ from the group leader, that saved you tons of time acting like a dancing monkey.
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:44 AM
3

Well the Zoomers aren’t having any sex. Isn’t that what brought most of us here?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:41 AM
1

So you’re basically adopting the same mindset every middle manager in the corporate world has. It’s just part of the bullshit rat race. At the end of the day, the people above you are doing the same shit to you.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:41 AM
3

I think this is a normal feeling. Most people are following the social programming and yet still find themselves feeling empty. You did the stuff you were supposed to do. College, steady career path, etc. But you’re left feeling ‘now what? I do this for 40 years and then die?’ It’s time to join Fight Club. Kidding of course. You need to find a purpose outside of your day job. You’re a young guy so there’s lots of time on your side. See what cool hobbies or side hustles your day job can help you …
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:38 AM
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Frame is a confusing concept for lots of new red pillers. Go look up the articles on Frame in the Rational Male blogposts. It’s not necessarily just ‘life experience’. It’s literally a wall you build around your reality. This wall is strengthened each time you don’t let someone else impact your emotions, thoughts and behavior. You’re essentially a huge fucking planet that is doing it’s thing. Other people are the tiny shitty moons and asteroids that whizz by or try to leech off you. Swat them aw…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:29 AM
3

Check out Improv. Watch stand up comedy. Listen to improv podcasts. Then do it in real life. After a while, you will have the muscle to pull gold from your asshole on the fly ;)
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:26 AM
1

Read the book ‘Six Pillars of Self Esteem’ In the meantime, confidence is built like a muscle from evidence of things going well. That means it’s time to push your comfort zone. Further and further. It’s going to be painful but you will be stronger and more confident for it.
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:25 AM
1

Escorts are for losers. Instant gratification that is completely fake.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:21 AM
1

Job interviews are like dating. What you need to do here is to pit them against each other to raise your value and take the highest offer (competition, scarcity, value). Don’t express too much interest and don’t look too much into what they say. Only pay attention to what they do. In this context, it’s about a job offer in writing. Everything else is just fluff. (AWALT). There’s a good chance all 3 will move on and hire someone else. So be mentally prepared for that and continue applying to othe…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:18 AM
2

More than a year? There are dudes here who are virgins. You are too addicted to female validation. This is unattractive. I know how it is. You’re thinking ‘well how do I stop caring if I am not getting any of it? isn’t that a paradox’ Why yes, yes it is. The cycle of abundance is fueled by momentum. You have to take care of your mental, physical, financial and social priorities. This is the portfolio that will fill the human void we all have. Women are one part of your portfolio, the risky and v…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:14 AM
2

1) Your health (physical and mental) are in top shape 2) Your wealth is being built brick by brick every day. This can be education, job, personal business and hopefully all combined. 3) Your friendships and family relationships are healthy and you receive plenty of love and good vibes. 4) Here is where women come in. Did you notice something? They’re quite low compared to the rest of those items. Well that’s how it has to be if you want to be a prize that is worth winning.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:10 AM
1

That’s the case with most women. They just want to eat up all of your time and attention. It’s simply female nature. The moment you become a fat slob with a dead end job and no other women? They’re gone faster than you can say AWALT. Think of it like an employer - employee relationship. At any moment, if something doesn’t work out or if a better opportunity came along - either party will walk without any remorse. Don’t feel bad. You did the right thing here.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:08 AM
1

This is the worst advice. You should think instead ‘what woman is hot enough for me to deal with on an ongoing basis’ If you’re going to be monogamous, it’s gotta be with a woman who gets your dick hard every day.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:06 AM
1

you’re the BB
/r/askTRP23/04/21 07:58 PM
4

Overall, traditional is going to be "better" for a long term relationship. The issue is, we don't live in a "traditional" society, so there is no truly traditional woman. These days it means, the woman will enjoy sitting at home while you're working. She will cook and clean up, but she still has the laws on her side when it comes to divorce rape and all the other fun ways the legal system can fuck us over. My view is - "tradcons" in this space are idealistic. They're not living in the 2021 reali…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:49 AM
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I believe this statement, but not specific to only women. It also goes for other relationships that have some mutual exchange. Jobs, friends, etc. This statement can also be viewed from a Buddhist perspective. Non-attachment leads to diminished suffering. The more attached we are to a specific person, employer, income level, the greater we open ourselves up to unbearable suffering. Enjoy the now, but don't put all your emotional eggs in any basket.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:46 AM
1

I don't see a difference in logic in your examples. The overall theme is to not do what the mediocre people are doing. They are following their emotions, while we are being rational.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:44 AM
1

Yep. But that’s not a dynamic you want all the time. Two people poison dripping each other. It’s unhealthy
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:06 PM
2

Alright gatekeeper of ‘end game’. Go back to your RPG’s bruh
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:06 PM
1

She gets off on the little petty power trip. A woman who isn’t fucked up is not going to put you through that.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:43 PM
1

It’s honestly the easier route to ignore but there’s a line that people will try to cross. I think it’s better to take an active role and dictate the frame instead, then it’s in your control.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:04 PM
3

I was like that when I was 17-20. You’ll have to spend a few years putting yourself in social situations to build the muscle. That means taking up classes like Toastmasters where you do public speaking to build confidence and going out and practicing approaching women/people at social events. Once you’re comfortable initiating, dictating and steering conversations in groups... you’re going to be just fine. It’s always uncomfortable for the first minute or two, but quickly people warm up to you g…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:03 PM
3

This is how women are wired. It’s simply their nature. Can’t hate them for it personally, but it is another serving of the red pill to digest. They will also always volunteer to help and want to be the ‘good’ partner for you (so when it happens to them; you do the same). However, you can simply deny those requests.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:57 AM
1

It’s just brazen disrespect. Most women would play it differently. Like they did nothing ‘wrong’
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:56 AM
2

Women, whether short term or longer term dating, are temporary icing on the cake of the great life I’ve built for myself. Probably not getting married, as I live in the US. Game plan is to continue building my success on the daily.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:56 AM
2

Closure is for women. Move on
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:42 AM
2

That’s a weird presumption to go into a date with. It’s basically fucking you up before you even get started. 1) fuck what your family thinks 2) bang a bridesmaid instead 3) bang this one like any other and stop being nervous
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:30 AM
2

Women are the oldest teenagers in the house. Treat them like children. If you want good banter and intellectually stimulating convos - you need quality guy friends. Not losers, but dudes who own their shit and have a million dollar mouthpiece. Girls are just playthings after we’re done conquering our goals
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:28 AM
1

You fucked up by moving in together. Avoid it at all costs. Also, tell her to send the fucking dog back instead it replacing you as the alpha in the house. Lastly, imagine how she’s going to act when she wants a bigger place, children, etc. She’s taking more value than she’s providing. Time to draw that Pro and Cons list and decide if you’re better off single with a few plates (spoiler: you are)
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:24 AM
3

You paying too much attention to it is showing weakness. Additionally, you are physically weak right now in your condition. Perhaps the two are related. I will say as a general rule of thumb: when you’re sick, in recovery or maimed... don’t have your woman around. Don’t let them see you in a weakened state, as much as possible. Take the time in solicitude to reflect and build back your frame. Don’t lean on women, even if they offer to serve you. It’s unfortunate, but they will always lose a bit …
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:18 AM
1

Sounds like your definition of success is solely on getting your family’s validation/acceptance, in the form that you only know how to observe: money. I give you credit for being young and ambitious. Be sure to take care of your mental and physical health because that takes priority and gets much more difficult as you age. Other than that, the sky is the limit. Make sure it’s something YOU want to do, rather than doing it for the acceptance and praise of others. I say this because that pursuit i…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:12 AM
1

The red pill is now full of grifters, like any space
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:04 AM
2

Do you see yourself as alpha? If you’re having to question it and research it, then probably not. It’s simply a reaction to the confidence and energy you project. Some will dig it and make it obvious, others will be passive and just hang around so you can initiate, and the rest have other things going on.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:02 AM
1

It would never happen. People want comfort. This path isn’t comfortable.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:00 AM
3

She’s keeping you around like all fat girls do. Giving head and doing dirty shit the hot girls might fuss over. She got you whipped my man
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:00 AM
1

It’s much easier to get a different plate. You don’t want to train the fatty to lose weight because it’s not possible unless they want to. She already knows her situation and compensates like all big girls do: give good head. If she doesn’t have the desire to get healthy, or the lifestyle habits that take several months to stick.. well she’s not ever going to change. I think you are basically falling for this fatty because it’s the only sex you’re getting and at this point she’s obviously your g…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:58 AM
3

It’s a balance. Being super indifferent is a tactic to use when they’re clearly trying to get a rise out of you. With experience, you can sniff this game out before it even starts. Alternatively, you can make a huge joke about it instead of being butthurt or alpha LARPINg autist yelling at her about your ‘boundaries’ that you barely even follow through with. I would say the joke (amused mastery) route shows you know what she’s doing, you don’t approve of it, but you’ve fucked tons of women and h…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:55 AM
1

It’s rude and manipulative. The fact that she told you is... wow. If you did the same behavior she would probably leave and never call you again.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:52 AM
2

No contact. If you’re already giving all your power away by having ‘oneitus’ with someone who doesn’t think about you at all... Well engaging further isn’t going to help now is it? Cut the ties and try better to not be a pussy with the next one.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:51 AM
7

Because these guys are emotionally/mentally stunted. They’re acting like boys. These boys have an emotional attachment to a Maternal figure, typically from their childhood experience. They’re seeking out a Mommy from the 5 they matched on Tinder. Part of maturing as a man is growing out of this maternal attachment to females. You have to become the Daddy and the women shift to the same level as dumb children.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:48 AM
2

You should do the same. With your guy friends. Also it’s about to be end of lockdown summer of poon. Are you sure you want to be in a shitty LTR for it?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:45 AM
1

You’re a passive person. It’s time to change that
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:41 AM
1

You’re sorta being reactive and that will confirm to your girlfriend that you think he’s higher value than you. I suggest you take control of the situation since you already had previous rapport with him. Dominate the social interaction / frame. Don’t let him dictate the interactions, at all. When he comes by, initiate, shoot the shit and give strong eye contact. Don’t be afraid of him. Bullshit a bit and then get back to work.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:38 AM
3

You’re trying to George Costanza it. ‘Oh yeah? Well the jerk store called and they’re running out of you!’ A week later
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:35 AM
1

Your entitlement to hot girls doesn’t exist. You still get nervous and behave differently because you feel intimidated. It’s time to cultivate the same vibe you have with the 3’s your boning drunk and do it with the 8/9’s sober. Practice makes perfect
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:34 AM
1

They’re not happy
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:17 AM
2

No. Just emotion. That’s it.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:15 AM
0

No
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:14 AM
62

“LTR of one week” Lol these kids
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:14 AM
2

Absolutely not. Your effort and time is better spent with a new woman.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:11 AM
1

this will be a band aid but not solve the main problem. you already lost frame
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:21 AM
1

What are you? Peter Theil? Time to find a blood boy
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:18 AM
1

Too much sex talk before meet = you gave her all the validation for free. Don’t do that anymore. Keep it a mystery instead of blowing your wad via phone
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:13 AM
1

You tap on him the chest and say ‘Play nice ;)’ and walk off and crack some jokes. Don’t be affected, but show them you’re aware.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:09 AM
2

He will learn, in time.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:00 PM
1

Time for a girl who isn’t damaged goods. This doesn’t get better with time
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:26 AM
1

Yeah. Sometimes I plan a date just to flake. ;)
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:25 AM
1

She’s addicted to this cycle. Maybe her parents were wackos, or she had some relationships like this, or she’s Latina. Save yourself the mental and physical toll this will take and find a girl who isn’t addicted to this type of drama.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:24 AM
1

No chick is going to give a shit whether you fucked 25 girls or whatever. It’s seeking approval behavior.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:23 AM
2

I’m not a fan of those poly chicks. They’re mostly ugly and/or damaged
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:18 AM
1

It’s your first time dating a girl this hot. That’s why you’re so scared of losing her. Like everyone else mentioned, if you had a few other women who looked as hot or hotter.... you would not be the nervous freak you are today. I get it, you’re a relationship guy. Simply put, this mentality cannot be integrated until your brain has proof you can fuck other women on a semi-regular basis. Chill out. She’s not yours it’s just your turn.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:17 AM
1

You should sign up for BJJ or another combat martial art. That will teach you various lessons around fighting. In general, it’s not worth getting your ass beat by a bunch of thugs over a woman. Especially if she’s not in physical danger.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:15 AM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:12 AM
2

Be smart about it in 2021. Too many regret rape lawsuits these days. So while you may finagle a woman in your bedroom, you should at the very least practice explicit consent before you fuck. Bonus points for texts the next morning / day about having a fun night.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:10 AM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:09 AM
1

It’s pretty gay
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:08 AM
1

It’s mostly internet autism trying to show off. Everytime a guy says ‘HB8’ I think of an average 6.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:07 AM
1

Bumble is fucking stupid. Girls don’t do well when the ball is in their court. The guy is supposed to initiate.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:06 AM
2

They’re all saying the same thing that has been said. There are new ones sniping the old ones and everyone’s a grifter. I’ve never paid a dime to any pickup coaches or red pill speakers, and never will. The advice is all there. You just have to put it in action.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:04 AM
2

Well you just learned your first lesson in dread game. Like others have commented, you don’t just tell a girl ‘hey I fucked someone’ They can fuck much much more easily than we can. You bruised her ego and now she wants to feel better and hurt you back. It worked. Proper dread: you let her imagination do the work. You can be sitting on your ass playing call of duty but if she thinks you’re with another woman, that’s all you need.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:03 AM
1

When females are validating you = don’t take it seriously or let it boost your ego. When females ghost you = don’t take it seriously or let it hurt your ego. Gotta control both ends if you want mastery over this, which will also help in your dating.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:01 AM
2

They used to be kind of cool but now every nerd who starts lifting has full sleeve tattoos and a beard because they think girls will like it. So it’s basically a cookie cutter archetype. That said having some dope ink is a commitment so take some time to really think if it’s something you want.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:00 AM
1

It’s easy. You create your own fun. Women will be attracted to the guys who are having a blast and easy to open. Don’t be a value leech. The guys who stand on the side clutching beers to their chest while leering don’t get any pussy. Offer value = be fun Take value = go home with a dry dick
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:58 AM
1

Single life is really great. All your time and energy should be invested in advancing your wallet, fitness and social circles. Meet lots of different people not only for dating, but jobs and business opportunities. If you keep a busy schedule, you will thrive.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:56 AM
2

You’re not committed and she’s your girlfriend? You can’t have it both ways. If there’s no official understanding, you can’t really be mad when she jumps on another dick
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:55 AM
1

It has to be subtle and not try hard.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:54 AM
1

Personally, even when women offer to ‘support’ me I never take their offer. If you have balls, you won’t accept being supported by a woman. It only results in the pussy drying up. Dump her, take some loans (assuming you’re entering a field that will actually result in a job) and bang some college broads.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:53 AM
1

Realize your own worth.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:51 AM
12

Being the loudest girl in the bar to get noticed
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:51 AM
1

This is every woman. It’s best if you avoid LTR’s until you’re an old man.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:50 AM
1

No shit Sherlock
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:50 AM
2

Oh no, you’ve been brainwashed by feminist propaganda and bad dating advice on being ‘vulnerable’ It all goes into how you say it. You can tell a woman you appreciate her efforts and notice how good of a job she’s doing into making the relationship better and she’s a good person. Admire? Ugh. I don’t like that word. It’s conceding too much power.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:48 AM
3

Lol dumb American
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:45 AM
3

I would take a step back and assess where this relationship is heading. This is not easy because you’re obviously super in the ‘feels’ and your judgement is clouded. I think you’re doing her a favor by dating her long term. She’s older than you, and you already are providing more than she does to the relationship. My long term advice would be - consider ending this relationship and continue to build your own career, investments, etc. In the meantime, you will cut down on expenses by being single…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:44 AM
2

You are too available and that’s why she pegged you as backup plan. If a girl texted me a week later with that, I would make her work for it. Not agree to a date right away. At least push back a bit to show you have standards and are not gonna let some pretty girl toy with you. On the date proceed as normal but after you bang I would shift the burden on her to carry the relationship. You’re too eager and barely know this girl.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:39 AM
1

This is correct. Snapchat guy is her plan A because he is not easy to get.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:34 AM
2

She has unresolved ‘feelings’ for this guy? This gesture is to lock you in as her solid plan B. It will backfire if you guys fight, take a break, or if she ‘needs some space’ And guess who she will call? Any woman who is still emotionally invested to another guy is not worthy of your commitment. Your instincts are correct here that it’s weird. I’m assuming you didn’t ask her to do this. It’s the hamster in her brain trying to reconcile the guy who wouldn’t commit to her and the guy who is availa…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:33 AM
1

Lil Dickie found his niche
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:28 AM
1

That’s nice. Gifts get thrown in my closet with all the other crap. Eventually in the dumpster after the woman is no longer around. She’s butthurt because she put some thought into it. Next time, just show your appreciation in a genuine manner and move on.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:27 AM
3

Well you conceded on your own guidelines. Women are the most mature teenagers in the house. Your role is the Parent. Why would a child listen if the parent is going to cave in? Same goes for dog training.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:24 AM
3

You need to learn the Art of the Reframe. Also known as a pressure flip. Some call it amused mastery as well. This video is a good start: https://youtu.be/vHv7OApcSAM
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:19 AM
3

Gotcha. Well I hope my advice serves you well and provides some clarity.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:16 AM
2

Is she wet enough? Maybe she has medical problems. Also every woman says their ex was abusive so whatever
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:15 AM
5

Okay. Well I think you’re a bit too obsessed with this woman who you have been dating for whatever amount of time. Realize as soon as she steps outside, there are a thousand hot dogs slapping her in the face. When she opens her smartphone, there are tens of thousands of hot dogs sliding into her DM’s Are you going to kill yourself or her over that? No. You can express your discomfort about the situation with tact and then leave her to make the decision. Your power is how much time and attention …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:09 AM
2

You are reacting to the de-validation. The vacuum. She pulls away and now your ego is hurt and needs to be puffed up again. The good thing is, we’re not women. They literally can’t exist without validation. Take control of this power dynamic. When a woman is sucking you dry - it’s no big deal. It doesn’t mean you’re the fucking champ. It’s just a moment in time. When she dumps you or ghosts - no big deal. It doesn’t touch your self worth or how you see yourself. You have to address both sides of…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:03 AM
27

College = hoe phase These same girls at 29 are going to pretend it never happened. Read up on the rational male
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:00 AM
2

Take an inventory of where you spend your time. Most likely it’s internet/gaming and other dopamine hits that are so easy this day and age. Give up the easy dopamine for longer term goals that actually benefit your life. It will feel better once you reach the finish line and can look back on how you spent your hours. COVID was a great opportunity for this mindset. While others are getting fatter by the week and watching everything on Netflix, the real grinders have been getting ahead.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:59 AM
1

There are millions of women out there. Love is not real, it’s a temporary drug fueled by oxytocin. Get through the drug withdrawal and meet a few more girls. Hang out with your male friends you’ve neglected during the relationship and don’t bail on them once the next piece of ass gives you attention. This is a normal stage to go through after a first breakup or second. Once you internalize you can have good relationships with LOTS of women, you won’t care. If anything I look forward to breaking …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:57 AM
2

I mean, you would think she’d opt for a female massage therapist. You’re thinking about it too much because of all the porn you consume. Nothing is going to happen. You should also go out and get a message.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:54 AM
4

The rift already exists with social conditioning in the West. Women are victims and men are evil. I don’t think anyone except white nationalists want a population boom. They are concerned the west is being overtaken by darkies who do pop out kids. That’s why the conservatives take action on banning birth control ;) Anyways. This is going to serve the 40+ career women who are not in the right health to have a kid. It’s going to serve the rich. Just as most fertility technology tools do.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:52 AM
6

If she’s not reciprocating your sexting AND not voluntarily sending you nudes AND you know she sent her ex nudes?? She’s not the one for you bro. Find a girl who will volunteer this, not resist it. The attraction she has is not sufficiently high enough. Assuming she wasn’t raped or had some insane trauma.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:49 AM
1

I mean he’s a loser gamer. What else is he going to do? Like you said, unless he really decides to man up and take control of his life and burn the boats... he will end up just crawling back. You can’t really dispel red pill truths to the sheep. They have to learn the hard way, just as many of us did.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:47 AM
3

It is suspect for sure. It could be a Freudian slip of what is in her subconscious or a cold calculated female manipulation poison drip to give you a little bit of terror while you’re supposed to be enjoying time with family. I would say stay away from this woman long term but the majority do this because they crave attention so badly. All you can do is: don’t overanalyze. Don’t let it ruin your trip. Enjoy your limited time with family which is obviously more important than some mediocre relati…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:45 AM
2

Reward good behavior slowly and punish bad behavior quickly. The focus should not be ‘how can I get her to do / not do what I want’ That’s a desperate attempt to control. Not effective. The mindset instead is, how do I inspire her to behave correctly and believe it’s what she wants to do. The boundaries are case by case. If you are master of your frame, she can either get with the program or you’re happy to show her the door after sex. The right dynamic is, a woman knows not to fuck around and d…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:41 AM
2

This is all from your early childhood trauma. You should find a good therapist and work on building your self esteem and confidence. I highly recommend Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Research it!
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:36 AM
2

Don’t let it be your kryptonite. Men far more successful than us have let it become their downfall, time and time again. Enjoy it for what it is but practice some Buddhist principles of non-attachment. That juicy steak and glass of bourbon looks mighty fine and I want it. But if I don’t get it today I don’t care too much. I’ll get it next time. These are all momentary transient experiences. Nothing is permanent. Especially when it comes to love, dating and relationships. The only constant is you…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:35 AM
2

Better than being inexperienced and looking to the girl to lead. Everyone's gotta start somewhere.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:09 PM
3

Good for you. Many guys are too thirsty to make the difficult short-term decision of cutting off a woman that is being blatant like that. They'd rather crash and burn and then be sad in the long-term over some mediocre pussy. We're all adults. People date around. That's fine but rubbing it others' faces you're casually dating is a bad look.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:26 PM
1

This is a very common story. Ultimately you need to build your independence and spend way way way less time with her. It's not a libido problem. It's a 5 year LTR and cohabitation problem. This happens with most couples. You become Brother and Sister instead of Lovers. Ignore the other subreddits, they're retarded. What drives a woman's attraction? It's fear of competition/dread. That means you need to spend less time with her and more time on yourself. Build your SMV. Get in the best shape of y…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:23 PM
1

Don't react. Tease her "you should go over there and bring him a cup of sugar ;)" "Did you write about him in your diary yet? Let me know when you're done and I'll throw it over to his rooftop" "Haha you're so obsessed. Are you always like this?"
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:19 PM
5

In a new social circle, you spend the initial time assessing who is the "alpha" or guy/girl that people listen to and respect. Get a sense of the dynamics. Socialize with everyone, be chill and non-needy. You'll interact with him and put a good positive foot forward without being a suck up. Interact and be chill. Once he approves of you, the sheep will follow suit. Pickup 101
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:17 PM
4

Get a good workout in prior, endorphins are nice. Shower, groom and put on your dope outfit and cologne. Bump some of your favorite music. Take a shot of whiskey. Then relax and enjoy your evening. No nerves. She's trying to win me over.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:15 PM
4

The slick way is "I'm running 15 - 20 minutes late so I'll see you at X" instead of "are we still on for tonight" Assume attraction
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:14 PM
14

You came out on top by being chill. The guys being respectful is a good sign. Don't take it seriously. Realize in the end, this relationship may work out or not. Bust your nut, have fun and don't get attached.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:13 PM
2

This is what happens when you spend too much time with a woman. You basically get sucked into her frame. It's a scientific fact men in LTR and marriages have lower testosterone than single men. You need space by yourself to recover your masculine identity. You should spend more time with your non-loser male friends. Do activities. Keep a schedule where you have your own interests, hobbies, social circles and girlfriends should come somewhere on the latter half of that. Yes they always beg for mo…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:10 PM
2

Even if you don't want to participate, you are always involved in a power dynamic. Yes it's lame and ideally everyone can be chill and just get along. The world we live in carries social hierarchies (mostly perceived) and you'll need to understand the code in the matrix if you want success in dating, LTR, marriage, the workplace, business, etc. I'm a believer of maximizing my tool belt when it comes to life skills. I don't get gratification having power over people because I'm not an insecure bu…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:07 PM
1

Get more experience. Bang new girls on the regular. If one falls off, no sweat. That's why they call them plates.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:05 PM
1

"I was busy" Change subject, don't react.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:04 PM
1

I am too busy to care whether I'm "happy" to wake up every day. I have shit to do. Pack your schedule and work towards a vision / goal. Reap the rewards and enjoy when they arrive. Then continue building.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:02 PM
1

Fuck 3 other women. By number 2 you won't care anymore. There are better ones out there
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:02 PM
1

Choose 2 bars near your apartment. First bar, have drinks and let her do 60% of the talking. Be fun, engaging. Push/Pull. However don't let the date go into "interview mode". Move to 2nd bar, now sit closer to each other so you can kino. Yes even same side of the table. Increase sexual tension, talk slower. Let her continue to talk. Pull home.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:01 PM
1

The time is better spent meeting new people.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:00 PM
2

Flip it back on them. "Damn bro, I'm not gay but you should download Grindr if you're into that"
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:59 PM
31

Girls and beta males can't handle the tension.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:59 PM
1

Yes. That is correct. Here's the thing... the majority of men are losers. They are not ambitious or respect themselves. They are fine with being losers.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:58 PM
7

Okay that's some more context. Well the frequency is there but I think naturally over a LTR enthusiasm goes down for everyone. The thing about "don't live with a woman until you're married" that RP preaches sort of brings up the notion that there is no point. Living separately is optimal for male sexual strategy because she will have the slight fear that you may be banging someone else. It keeps her competing while also freeing up your space to unwind and recover without her seeing you lose fram…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:10 PM
1

Get your blood work done, check for vitamin and hormonal deficiencies (thyroid). Perhaps a visit to a psychologist would be helpful too. If the endorphins from working out and sleeping are not helping you have a better mood, could be a mental imbalance.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:42 PM
1

It's not a good sign. These types of girls use sex as a bargaining chip and she's dangling the carrot. Others will front load all the dirty good sex and once you're in love, cut it down to boring shit. I would use your commitment as a bargaining chip. Not gonna do what I want to do in bed? Then what are we doing here. Let me call up another girl who is willingly going to give me what I want. That's the mentality.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:40 PM
4

50/50 split until you're married. If you're already seeing signs of a decline in relationship quality (let me guess - the sex has been infrequent and not as enthusiastic?) - this is the result of moving a woman in with you. Honestly it's only been five months. That's not much time to really know a woman, let alone live with her. I would cut your losses and ask her to split up. It's not like the relationship is going to get better from here on out, right? It's about to be post-pandemic summer fuc…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:38 PM
3

Degree won't make you lots of money. Being an owner of a successful business will make you lots of money. Otherwise you're essentially an employee and depending on the field, top out at $100k - $200k. What are you passionate about
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:36 PM
4

Pay down all debts, build 6 - 12 month emergency fund, invest in VTSAX
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:33 PM
1

You're reacting too much to the environment and other people. You should work on meditating and building a healthy non-attachment to the events and circumstances around you. If she stays or she leaves, your toes are still tappin'
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:32 PM
2

You are missing a passion in life. Explore some new hobbies/activities. When COVID restrictions cut back in your area, join some meetups and meet new people.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:31 AM
6

This is fairly normal. Some girls will not initiate. It's a plate so you shouldn't pay it any mind.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:29 AM
5

I mean you can see girls but also keep some on the side. This is the dating game in 2021. Everyone has multiple people a DM away. Having 3 backup women on call will ease your anxiety.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:28 AM
5

So do you want you want to do, and your family/friends who are plugged in will have to accept that. Don't cave to the social pressure. Your parents will bring it up every week because that's how they were raised. They're just following the societal script. See it as a meta game and don't take it seriously. If you do choose to get married the traditional way, set yourself up for success and when you're in your early 30's ask your parents to find you a younger woman who hasn't been dating around.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:20 AM
12

So you got super reactive about her revealing her fuck buddy? Almost every girl has one. It's better to be that guy than get involved with LTR's. 5 months =/= not a LTR.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:18 AM
1

First impressions are everything. The skills learned with game / pua and generally being good with people carry over to the business world. When you're used to opening a set of 5 girls like it's nothing every weekend, suddenly doing a presentation in front of the board isn't so scary.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:34 PM
2

There's often fuckery when it comes to institutions.. Add in unconscious bias. I will say, due to the Western cultural conversation around diversity and inclusion, more HR and hiring managers are making an effort to screen and hire minorities. Russian/Eastern European surname, I would imagine, shouldn't really be a big deal. Is your first name something easy for people to say? This might be an issue with your resume. If you're applying online to these roles, the AI is not picking up the keywords…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:09 PM
3

As Oscar Wilde once said, “everything in the world is about sex — except sex. Sex is about power.”
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:06 PM
1

This works for both genders. Nobody cares about something that came too easy.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:05 PM
-1

Not worried. I'm fine with whatever a woman is going to do. My commitment however, is contingent on what works for me. If they want me badly, they'll conform. Otherwise, I'll see ya when I see ya.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:04 PM
1

Women are easily influenced by the herd. Sister probably discouraged the relationship, or wants her to be single/lonely like herself. Something of that sort.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:58 PM
0

You're obviously plugged in.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:57 PM
2

You're probably not as ugly as you think. It's in your head. Bad mental health is also not attractive. 1) Stay away from the Incel subreddits/chats. It's toxic 2) Make appointments with a therapist and talk through your issues. If that one sucks, find another therapist. Don't jump to pharmaceuticals right away unless you trust their guidance. Avoid the pill pusher psychiatrists 3) Get your body into great shape. Lifting, running, sports are all providing endorphins that will naturally lift your …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:13 PM
1

This is a good point in your life to ask this question. Some guys stick with their childhood buddies for way too long and never branch out. They ultimately hold you back. If you're planning on attending university, I would look into networking with various clubs and possibly a fraternity. At least that crowd is doing something with their lives. Some of them you'll keep in touch with, usually the ones in your major/program. Others will drift away after graduation and that is fine. After college, …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:08 PM
1

Venting = Reserved for your close male friends over some stiff drinks. That's it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:54 PM
2

Bro-fist. Cut it off clean and don't look back. New chapter.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:53 PM
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Women are the most mature teenagers in the house. Do you sit down and explain tit for tat with a child every time they're wrong and you're right? You're stooping down to their position on the hierarchy. This should not give you gratification. Nothing you say to her is going to change her behavior unless she intrinsically wants to course correct. It's easier for a woman to get male validation instead of really sitting down and contemplating what they're doing wrong and what to do. They're running…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:51 PM
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Some people want to wallow in their misery. It's not your job to lift them up. Just spend your time on something positive until she comes around and realizes nobody wants to be around that type of person. Also, super cringe telling her "how good she has it with you". That's not something you say explicitly. That should be demonstrated and her level of attraction towards you is the proof. If she doesn't have high attraction for you? Time to move on to something new and better.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:43 PM
1

Anything where you are demonstrating leadership and social proof. Start a band and play some shows bud.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:41 PM
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The irony is, even the ‘good girls’ you’re trying to project on to the girls your age probably have an N Count higher than you. Don’t stress it
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:38 PM
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She was drunk and now regrets it. It’s good you did not sleep with her, because that would be rape in 2021. Meet new girls and continue the positive experience building. Nothing was really lost here and you did the right thing by shooting your shot. Good luck homie
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:36 PM
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‘It wasn’t going to work out over the long term so we broke it off amicably’ Change subject. It’s that easy. They’ll understand. Also she’s not a plate if she’s hanging out with your family. That’s more relationship territory.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:33 PM
2

I would feel constrained when women I was sleeping with wanted commitment. I realized that’s innate, it’s in our nature to want to be free.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:13 PM
1

Lol this is not an issue. As long as you’re not banging gutter trash and contracting diseases. Here’s the key takeaway: never disclose how many partners you’ve had to a woman. keep it mysterious, brush off the answer. keep her guessing. At the same time, don’t ever bother asking a woman her N Count because it will be a lie. Some things are better left unsaid.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:11 PM
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It’s time to grow up. Stop caring about what other people are doing. Focus on yourself and build your SMV.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:00 PM
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there’s a non-zero chance she’s playing you a bit and wants to throw you off your game. the more you react, she’ll know she has you. the good sex is also manipulation. It’s on you to either not give a fuck at all and avoid catching feelings. Or if you’re catching feelings break it off for some time. She’s probably loving the drama. She’s not yours it’s just your turn.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:59 PM
1

The 10 online is a 7.5 IRL Go to parties, concerts, raves
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:05 PM
2

Agenda.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:59 PM
5

Hard next. She didn’t respect your time. Inexcusable
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:59 PM
4

Get back to who you were before you started dating her.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:57 PM
1

Cool thanks for the false fact pattern
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:56 PM
2

You’re insecure and see the hot ones as higher value. There’s a deep instinct that some alpha male is going to come by and smash your head for banging the hot ones. Your level of healthy entitlement to 8, 9’s and 10’s is lacking. To answer your question - yes it gets easier with time. The more upper echelon of looks girls you sleep with, the less of a big deal it is and you won’t be nervous or behave differently. In fact you’ll start to notice more of their flaws as well. They’ve never as hot in…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:49 PM
1

She wants you to chase her. This is the girl tactic. Here’s what you do: don’t chase her. If she’s truly a plate, you’re okay with losing her. Continue fucking other girls and once she gets that you’re not going to cave in, she’ll be back. Trust me
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:46 PM
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You’re 23 and have been in a relationship for 4 years. You basically missed being single for the late high school and all of college years to be in an LTR. I think I’m on point here, yes?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:45 PM
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You’re too old to have another Mother figure. This woman is needy. She probably was cheated on by Chad before she met you. It’s not healthy and it’s not going to get better over the years. Save yourself and create an exit strategy.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:44 PM
1

Yes. Don’t lead with ‘stable nice guy who has a good job’ You will be picking her up after Chad is done fucking her. You will be asked for favors and get nothing in return. You will be used and abused and never get their true attraction. I would say keep those good traits about yourself but don’t lead with it. Instead, lead with your personality/hobbies. Be the guy who’s into XYZ and exhibit passion. Your income and stuff is your own business. This will keep the gold diggers and post wall hags a…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:42 PM
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Yes they do feel inferior and that drives attraction. Check out your average couple at the store next time. Watch how the woman leads the man around and openly mocks him in public. That’s the result of ‘equality’ or simply getting married in general.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:40 PM
1

Always new
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:39 PM
1

Health wealth and mental strength. Get that life experience this decade. Grow out of your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:39 PM
2

Shave you head. Bald is a good look for men
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:38 PM
1

Well until you’re 35, it is advised to get as much experience with different women as possible. This will help with abundance mentality and understanding what you like/dislike while avoiding the sunk cost of being tied down in a not so great relationship. How many women have you slept with? I’m assuming it’s less than 5
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:38 PM
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You’re jealous of a woman that no man wants to be with? Fix your self worth
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:36 PM
1

Lol wait until they have their period and report you to HR for sexual harassment. Fucking coworkers in 2021 corporate America - it’s asking for it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:38 AM
1

*HB6 Slow your roll
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:37 AM
1

Uh, I spent lots of time in Orange County and was surprised at how average and frumpy many of the women were at the beaches, etc. It seems like the hot ones are concentrated in LA, SD. In between it looks like Ohio bro.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:35 AM
1

Circumcision
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:34 AM
1

Fuck vulnerability. It’s a feminist shit test
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:33 AM
1

Ask your parents for an arranged marriage.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:33 AM
1

I mean, who cares? Why are we splitting hairs over this. Better to focusing your thoughts and energy on yourself. Be her alpha that ‘widows’ her. You have to believe you’re the best she can do. Also women who fuck lots of guys are going to have this issue of comparison as well. Too much baggage. Only keep women around that worship you. This is the solution. The rest can get fucked
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:32 AM
1

No it doesn’t. Men love women, women love children, children love dogs. Get used to it. We are loved conditionally based on our utility for a women’s reproductive and survival goals. They’re leeches, ultimately. That void has to be filled through other productive and healthy things in life.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:29 AM
1

Making posts on Reddit
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:28 AM
1

Capitalism. The American Dream. Racism. Class consciousness and uniting under that is the only hope but decades of red scare means Americans will have to die poor and sick instead.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:27 AM
1

There’s a bit of an epidemic of video games replacing purpose in most young men’s lives. I see it in younger siblings, and even friends my age. We all grew up with them. I personally feel guilty if I spend more than 3-4 hours a week gaming. I have all the gear but too busy with real life shit to put my time into something that doesn’t provide much back except entertainment and a false sense of accomplishment. It’s a really easy form of escapism too. Look at all the MMORPG dorks. I agree watching…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:25 AM
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Get up 6am, grind. Includes work, gym, side projects that fulfill me. Weekends I sleep in a bit more but lately pushing through. Burnout is real tho, all of quarantine I’ve been going hard. Payoff is around the corner though ;)
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:22 AM
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You need to let her bring up that question. Men’s commitment is all we have. Don’t give it freely. Make her work for it. In the meantime, go find other girls to keep on the back burner in case she doesn’t feel that way about you.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:20 AM
1

Testosterone boost. The best
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:17 AM
1

I have an Eastern European dime that cooks and cleans for me. She enjoys it. I use my time to advance my career and income while she does those things. I’m not sitting around playing video games. I’m at the gym, working or grinding away on side projects for a better future. That’s the type of dude a hot woman wants to be of service to. American girls (the brainwashed ones) are more likely to compete with you than be submissive to you. But there are some good ones out there still. Always build yo…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:15 AM
1

There are many books on leadership out there. To simplify it: talk the talk and walk the walk. Hone your persuasion skills (this is super key) and have empathy and the ability to connect with folks on a human level. The internal part is being very sure of yourself and not letting your self confidence crack under pressure. You will be tested. It’s not an ‘easy’ role, but it nets you many opportunities in life. Be comfortable in your own skin. Lead by example. Keep higher standards than everyone e…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:12 AM
1

I didn’t read your post but came here to tell you never make a career or life decision that stems on a woman in your life. Your high school sweetheart is holding you back, just like they hold most people back. Let go of the comfort. If she was accepted to a university 2,000 miles away and it was going to be a good opportunity - she’d either break up with you overnight or keep it ‘long distance’ until she met new folks on campus. Make the leap, my man. You won’t regret it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:09 AM
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Who cares. Don’t let it bother you one bit. You’re clearly young and have time to develop yourself. Become a badass and get some life experience.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:07 AM
1

You’re at a Big 4 event full of Type A personalities that are networking in a business context. This is normal. I think you got a crush on the latina and now can’t stop thinking about her.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:06 AM
1

You’re in college but thinking like a high school kid. Yeah there’s going to be a campus hierarchy. Social media is pretty useless so I disagree ‘society expects’ Maybe try being a bit of a rebel and saying all that shit is stupid and get laid anyways. You’re living in an 80’s movie paradigm meanwhile you can work on your hobbies, looks, personality and go to parties. Go to all the parties. Chat up all the girls. Be interesting, be different.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:04 AM
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You entered her frame by justifying yourself a bit. Never DEER to a woman. Defend, Explain, Excuse or Rationalize.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:00 AM
2

I didn’t read your post but came here to say - long distant relationships aren’t worth it. Find girls you can see locally and don’t bother.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:55 AM
1

You need to date more girls
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:54 AM
2

‘Good luck’ and that’s it
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:54 AM
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It is a confidence problem. You might see her as an 8 but she sees herself as a 6. Girls are insecure
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:52 AM
2

Got into PUA, then the red pill took over and provided a better framework for self improvement. At the end of the day, it’s all Tony Robbins shit with some gender dynamic theory.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 02:52 AM
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There are a lot of assumptions in your response, triggered something I guess. You kinda sound like a passive aggressive bitch in your response, so maybe chill out a bit. The point I was making is it’s easier to get sex for minimal money spent and minimal time ONLY IF you’re on top of your shit and raised your SMV. Your view of game is skewed. It’s not ‘manipulating women to think I’m not a loser to have sex’ - rather - effective social skills/charisma that nets you sex on the first date. You can…
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:38 PM
1

Not a good way to proceed. Do you realize they are seeking a reaction from you? Some of them are crazy and if they get butthurt you’ve got a bigger problem. Simply do not give the reaction they want. Don’t even engage to what they’re saying. Remain unaffected and CHANGE THE SUBJECT & HOLD FRAME. This is the way.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 11:26 PM
1

Wow cool rationalization. I can afford triple that per week and wipe my ass with it. But I have dignity. Giving that to a woman like a handout will equate to her total loss of respect for you as a man. I believe in leading with charisma and game, lifestyle. Money is an afterthought. Leading with money will bring you users and gold diggers. Not my crowd. But hey do you. Maybe you’re old and boring and out of shape so cold hard cash is the only thing you can offer.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:38 PM
2

I agree. If you look at it in a very reductive sense. We’re all just a bag of molecules with DNA code telling us to survive and fuck.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:36 PM
1

I mean the dudes who get into pick up and trying to fill a void
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:13 PM
0

Just ghost or make an excuse. They’ll be on a new dick the next day.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:29 PM
1

They are value leeches. If those are your only friends to go out with, maybe consider going out solo when you’re picking up women.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:28 PM
1

B complex is a vitamin. B6, b12, etc
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:28 PM
1

This is the low level validation seeking. You’ll find many of these in RP/PUA/Manosphere. They used to be fat or nerdy, now they had a few lays and want to be the cool guy they were jealous of in high school. After you sleep with tons of women, it’s not a big deal. Keep a rockstar attitude ‘yeah me waking up next to a random hottie is just my lifestyle. Nothing to brag about’
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:27 PM
1

B complex Fish oil Turmeric C Magnesium Zinc Probiotics Eat lean meat, healthy fats and lots of leafy greens. Low carbs. Lift heavy and run.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:26 PM
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It’s needy and you’re giving up your greatest chip right away. Make them work for it. They will feel they ‘earned you’. This is the game. Just like a girl you bang on the first night, your brain will think ‘okay I got everything I needed here for no work. So I’m not interested in continuing here’ It’s the same with giving up way too many emotional signals to a woman. Don’t be an emotional slut.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:25 PM
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New friends.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:24 PM
2

Don’t engage. Ignore or deflect “That’s interesting. Why would you say that” Is corporate speak for ‘bruh check yourself’ Don’t lose yourself job over women at work
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:24 PM
2

I think lots of dudes go through this phase but after you feel disgusting a few times it’ll settle in. Spend time going after quality women & stop your validation seeking on mediocre quality.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:22 PM
2

Mothers are also AWALT. Don’t engage in emotional nonsense. Keep it respectful and love her. If she becomes toxic, don’t be afraid to walk away for some time.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:22 PM
1

Some men like a challenge. Others enjoy a big booty Texas blonde..
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:19 PM
2

It’s in your DNA to be a petty reactive little bitch? Sounds like an impulse control issue. The lion doesn’t give a fuck what the hyena does. Use your time and energy on what benefits you.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:18 AM
1

Drop ‘em Move Make new friends
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:17 AM
2

We’re playing Jeopardy? What is the answer to 99% of asktrp posts.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:15 AM
8

This is the gayest post I’ve ever seen
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:14 AM
14

Lol not worth it. Wait until her dad, uncles and brothers come after you.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:13 AM
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You’re fine. Also stop banging single moms
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:12 AM
2

Then get new marketable skills. The sky is the limit
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:09 AM
3

I don’t listen or care what other people, let alone girls, think. Do you. Keep your standards high.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:03 AM
1

I never did it. I just connected with people who wanted to go out and approach. That was cheaper and much more fun.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:47 AM
1

The apps suck now. It’s all Snapchat bots and only fans girls. Time to go back out I the real world
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:46 AM
1

If she wants to keep male friends around that’s fine. She’s not going to ever get my commitment. Raise your standards and live by them. Always be willing to walk.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:45 AM
1

Stupid decision. Decline.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:44 AM
1

It’s pretty beta. There are 40-50 year olds in good shape with money that don’t have to pay younger girls thousands of dollars for their time. Be like them. Obviously the age and success gap comes into play differently. Use your money for lifestyle/parties and play the social circle game. I would never hand over some brain dead woman thousands of dollars because of her looks. Pathetic.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:43 AM
1

Yes, go become filthy rich.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:40 AM
2

You did fine. She’s clearly not super interested. I usually don’t even bother interacting at that point. She’s dead to you. Keep the door open for the inevitable rebound but stop asking her out. Let it go cold for a few months and meet new people.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:40 AM
2

Of course. It’s pretty understandable when you realize people are scared of uncertainty and ultimately want to go with the safe bet. Lots of my peers have been getting shacked up in the pandemic, marrying or having kids. It’s the uncertainty that brings them to make emotional decisions. Keep an eye out for all the breakups and divorces that’ll arise over the next few years. Also, fuck fest incoming. Get in shape for that boys!
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:38 AM
1

In your mind you’re still the fat kid. This is very common. It takes a while for your brain to catch up with your newly improved self. You will have to go have tons of interactions with women and develop your confidence. This is the new you, embrace it. It will be uncomfortable and awkward at first, keep pushing. Keep going. Eventually your mind will catch up. Good work
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:35 AM
1

Too far ahead for ADD generation. 2-3 days out is a sweet spot to minimize flaking and not appearing overly eager.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:33 AM
1

You think they get better after 35? Lol
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:33 AM
1

You’re overthinking it. Here’s how things should be, and how you should maintain: spin multiple plates one plate is going to want to lock you down she will make an effort to show you she’s not a hoe (anymore) and be transparent, work extra hard to please you continue spinning other plates after some time, she will bring up the relationship question tell her let’s take it slow and see how it goes, let’s not put a label on it. you care about it but don’t want to rush the natural process of getting…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:30 AM
1

Suck more dick. Jaw problem fixed
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:25 AM
1

You’re too boring. Find a niche and work it for online dating.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:25 AM
0

They have a pulse
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:23 AM
1

It’s because your efforts make them uncomfortable. Crabs in bucket mentality. I would say 90% of men 18-35 are just lazy pathetic wastes of space that use video games for escapism. This group is really beneath you at this point. I can’t even open group chats of kids I grew up with. It’s fucking pathetic. These folks are also going to be energy vampires and hold you back. Keep a distant connection but you need to make new social circles. People who are ambitious and successful. You’ll feel at hom…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:22 AM
1

Cool humblebrag
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:19 AM
1

4 weeks? She’s the town bicycle and you’re acting like she’s wifey
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:18 AM
2

Dating apps are usually killing guys confidence. They’re mostly for validation anyways. Get back into IRL approaching. You’ll do better.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:13 AM
1

Time to evolve yourself. You’re going to have to break out of your comfort zone. Experiment with the more dominant side of your personality. You will encounter awkwardness. You will fumble. You will make mistakes. Keep going and learning from the experiences. Eventually you’ll be a different man. I would suggest you go on many dates and figure it out. Maybe the 10th girl you meet will be convinced you have always been like this.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:12 AM
2

Denial
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:06 AM
2

Wall of text. I stopped reading when you said you are relying on her for financial security. That’s why she doesn’t have respect for you. Women are innately not into that. You’re the comfortable ‘good for now’ guy. She’s not eager to show you off. Fix your shit dude. Stop focusing on her and get your life together. If I were you I would just break up with her first and burn the boats. You’re being lazy and stuck in the ‘nice feels’ but it’s going to fuck you over. Time to spend all of your time …
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:06 AM
2

Don’t fall into that paradigm. You’ll cheat once it gets boring (6 months). There are hot women that are also good potential for longer term dating. You just aren’t in the right pool. Go find where they are. Settling because it feels ‘safer’ is bullshit
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:03 AM
1

Time to plan what that is going to be. You’re living the loser life at the moment. Forget about the girl, where is your life headed? At 30 you shouldn’t really give a shit about what your parents expect anymore. Go become successful and come back for Sunday dinners with gifts. They’ll accept you are a man living on your own terms. Sounds like childish thinking, irregardless of Indian/Asian culture it’s 2021. Learn to say no.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:59 AM
1

NYC good for guys
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:51 AM
3

You know all those qualities you’re describing is just female manipulation now that she’s ‘over her party years’ She’s in the epiphany phase and wants to lock down a safe guy. There are lots of girls out there like this. It sort of kills the nice feels and oxytocin once you wake up and realize the cynicism. However, I wouldn’t really hold it 100% against her. Some guys here are looking for virgins to LTR and that dream is dead in 2021. As long as she is giving you validational sex and not transa…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:51 AM
2

4 months is not an LTR.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:47 AM
2

Drop these friends
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:47 AM
8

Huge disrespect. Don’t give her the benefit of the doubt. But hey, it’s about to be summer and girls are horned up after a long quarantine. Trust me dude, you want to be single for this.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:46 AM
2

She wants you to chase. Don’t. Also you shouldn’t call her your main until she drops the games and worships you. My sense is that she knows she has you but isn’t okay with the other girls. So she’s manipulating you to feel like you’re losing here (it’s working, you are being emotionally affected) which will make you drop your other girls and be only hers. Step 1) be okay with losing her Step 2) fill up your schedule with activities that continue to build your SMV, good social circles, plates And…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:45 AM
1

You’re 30. Male peak SMV isn’t until later 30’s and 40’s. That’s assuming you build healthy habits, don’t get fat, take care of your skin and build wealth. It’s great to be a guy in his 30’s, assuming you’ve been working hard in your 20’s.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:41 AM
2

I mean you’re girl is probably a 6 right? Let’s be real, this isn’t some Instagram model. The point is, all girls, even ugly ones, are being hit up by thirsty simps in the DM’s. Accept that. Now here’s what you can control. You need to 100% believe you are the best she can ever do. Even if you think ‘on paper’ that’s not the case. You have to really believe your own bullshit and see yourself as irreplaceable, while she IS replaceable. This will prevent your insecurity from fucking up the relatio…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:39 AM
8

I see lots of high SMV guys with frumpy girlfriends. The guys don’t realize their own value. Or it’s ‘easy’ to settle. Don’t be that guy.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:36 AM
1

1) work on your career and move out. then live life on your own terms. keep distance from the parents. don’t even think about marriage until you’re 32-35 2) move out and struggle for a while making ends meet while also building career moves.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:35 AM
5

Look up the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:34 AM
2

They’re dragging you down into the pig trough because they see you as higher value. It’s like when the dorks here learn what a neg is and go wild using it ineffectively.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:33 AM
3

Pro tip: don’t bother talking about politics with women or around women. Don’t even engage.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:31 AM
5

You must live somewhere that is not NYC, LA or Miami. Everywhere else in the US is landwhales
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:29 AM
1

You can either grow into liking it (not a huge chance) or simply change careers now while you’re young. It’s not worth doing a job you dread every single day just to have some cash. The thing is, you should already be exploring, researching and making a game plan of what you’d be doing instead.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:25 AM
1

Who cares. It’s not their original thought. Just programming. Move on and focus on yourself
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:04 PM
1

Most guys can’t do this properly. They’ll call her a plate but the time/emotion doesn’t change. The best way to do this is take a long break. At least 6 months no contact. Then you can re-engage, but I wouldn’t bother digging in the trash. Find new plate.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:04 PM
1

Hes
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:03 PM
1

Don’t beg for sex. Withdraw your time and attention. Even though she’s your ‘gf’ I would suggest start talking to and meeting other girls. Life is too short for women who use sex as a bargaining chip. It’s only going to get worse and worse with her over time.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:03 PM
2

Why are you looking for her approval? That’s where you fucked up
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:02 PM
1

Spend time away from her, build your SMV
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:01 PM
2

Who cares? She doesn’t. Bone and move on
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:01 PM
3

I’d say any dude under 35 shouldn’t bother with LTR
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:00 PM
6

High SMV are rare. Intimidation = pussy gets wet.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:00 PM
1

Most guys here aren’t capable. Better to dump revisit a year later.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:33 AM
1

admit it she’s not a plate anymore
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:32 AM
1

Music
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:30 AM
2

New? No. It’s all the same.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:29 AM
3

Become a DJ like all the other broke dudes with no personality looking to get laid
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:25 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:22 AM
1

If you haven’t had much contact and ask her out, that’s playing your cards right away. She didn’t earn your interest yet, so she will assume you’re like the 9,000 other guys in her DM’s just looking for sex. When it comes to asking a girl out, think about it strategically. You have X amount of coins. Everytime you ask out and the girl doesn’t respond or flakes, you used a token and have to start the game again. Keep your coin for when the time is ripe to ask her out. Practically - Post high valu…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:20 AM
1

This isn’t really the sub for that. Jerk off or something dude.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:15 AM
1

That’s such a lame move. Assume they want to see you again. I let them text me days later.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:15 AM
1

She’s using you for attention and is not gonna fuck you. Next.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:14 AM
0

Nothing they’ve both given up on life and think they have no agency. Loser mentality.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:14 AM
1

Keep politics talk with your bros. For women, keep them guessing and treat it like a child asking you your views.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:13 AM
4

Learn to code and start your own business. These jobs don’t last forever. Eventually they’ll replace you with someone happy to take half your pay for the minimal work you’re doing.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:54 AM
20

Second guessing yourself is not attractive. Being the flashy overcompensating guy is also not attractive. Be confident in your abilities. Let them find out about your accomplishments on their own.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:54 AM
1

You’re worried about being the perfect Beta bucks. Continue building your career, your peak is still a few years away. Dating now = work on your personality, game. Find a niche. Find an archetype. Money should be the last thing you’re leading with.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:52 AM
1

Pro-tip: these girls are never worth the time and resources. There is no unicorn. Your investment in them shouldn’t be viewed as a sunk cost. These are lease agreements. You never own the asset. It is a pay as you go for use situation, with a depreciating asset. Always have a healthy level of detachment, otherwise you’ll be stuck in a bad relationship because of ‘investment of time and resources’.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:53 AM
3

In time he will learn, or not. Women thrive and survive on validation. If you’re long distance dating, the nearest dick is going to win. He should stay single or find a girl in his own town.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:26 AM
1

There’s a high margin of error for texting like a cringey try hard uncalibrated dork. Better to stick with the game plan. Better to be too busy to think of ‘witty’ things to text.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:14 AM
7

Generally the higher, the less emotional attachment. It’s up to each guy to decide what ‘number’ that is. More importantly it’s qualitative, You want high levels of pair bonding. When things are good and when things are bad, she’s still by your side as your woman. At the end of the day, you’ll have to watch the behavior.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:12 AM
3

Does it matter? Once your numbers rack up you lose count and it doesn’t hold any importance. Anyone can fuck 1,000 girls. How many are going to be attractive high quality ones? That’s a better metric. And of those ‘high quality’, how many added to your life/life mission? Probably a smaller count. Evolve your thinking. Women are just the icing on the cake.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:10 AM
3

Long distance = don’t bother. It’s never worth it.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:08 AM
10

No. There are good looking guys who can’t carry a conversation OR more importantly elicit an emotional response/investment. The guy who hooks her, is the one that leaves a lasting impression which is going to be largely an emotional one. Looks open the door, but that’s about it. Game is more important.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:08 AM
1

So make it known, and then be willing to walk if she breaks that boundary. It’s simple.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:58 PM
3

It’s more cucked to get super obsessed, paranoid and checking her phone while she’s in the shower.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:28 PM
2

Usually a ‘You’re the 4th one today’ gets a good response
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:33 PM
1

Why you getting pissed over female drama? Just call them lonely cat ladies and move on with your day. Two cunts don’t make a right, so don’t be a cunt
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:15 PM
7

A high value man never looks through his girls phone. Not because of some respect for privacy, I’m not virtue signaling here. The reason is, you can basically assume there are male orbiters and plates in her phone giving her attention. It’s 2021. All women are doing this. Instead you need to have abundance mentality. Have other girls you’re talking to, so if your LTR/plate/whatever ends up pulling a fast one on you... that’s fine. You have other women and it’s no sweat. This is the modern game. …
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:11 PM
1

That is the classic girl move to get the guy to invest more and chase her. It’s a power play. Usually it’s that, or making you jealous with other guys. Your job? Be completely unphased. ‘Sorry you feel that way. I hope you change your mind’ and show her the door. Call her bluff. Then radio silence. Don’t text. If she hits you up, you got her in the bag.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:52 AM
2

$25 says you’ll never see her again 1) you did fail the shit test 2) she got validation from the make out and that was good enough. she didn’t need to have sex because validation was achieved while her mind was still on ‘I’m just another tinder ho he brought home’ 3) don’t text her, let her text you.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:47 AM
9

So your sample size is 2? Good reason to make a post. I’m going to write you a prescription for not listening to the words that women say and focus on your own life.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:43 AM
7

Does she ever think about you? No. She’s living her life. You need to do the same man. It’s really toxic obsessing over some chick. There are millions more. Who gives a fuck if she got married. Most marriages end within 5 years these days. You need to meet more women and after a few more lays you’re not going to give a shit anymore.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:41 AM
2

Cheating is a coping mechanism. Usually, this is happening because you settle with a woman who isn’t super hot. Or if your main girl is super hot, it just gets old. Grow some balls and either break up, or do not get into an exclusive relationship to begin with. We should all aspire to be confident telling a 10/10 that we are not interested in being exclusive and to keep things non-committal. Even if that means losing the dime and having to wait another 6 - 12 months for the next one. It’s diffic…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:36 AM
5

I read half of the title and came here to say Do not fuck girls from your job. I repeat, do not pursue girls at work for sex. You’re almost guaranteed to lose your job in 2021, even if ‘she seemed interested!’. The climate for sexual harassment is at an absurd level. You know you can just go outside and talk to the millions of other women right? Hell, get on the dating apps. Thank me later.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:32 AM
1

Look for Toastmasters meetups and Improv
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:30 AM
2

If the time spent pursuing sex is not taking away time from your goals, hurting your health and/or draining your wallet - then it’s fine.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:29 AM
3

There are no scripts. From a high level, you feel awkward so that is making her feel it too. And you’re looking to her reaction on how to feel, so now you’re feeling 2x awkward. Just chill out. You boned, had a fun night. There’s nothing ‘to do’ the next morning. The problem here is you’re looking outside to see how to behave/react. Change that to something derived from yourself. You put yourself in a good mood. Next morning, you’re just chatting like you’ve been married for 30 years. No big dea…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:24 AM
1

1) you’re on vacation, stop texting her so much 2) her bullshit worked on you. when girls want attention, they act up and stir up emotional turmoil. your phone should’ve been ignored on vacation. shit test failed 3) you need to talk to at least 2 other women. she seems like she’s gonna be pulling this shit often if she’s that insecure, maybe reconsider LTR
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:18 AM
1

It’s called momentum. A new wave of it will be rising soon. Start small, few approaches a week. Ramp it up. By late Summer you’ll be back in your vibe again like the salad days
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:16 AM
1

You fucked up by 1) being heavy on social media 2) reading anything women write on social media for attention and 3) taking anything women SAY seriously. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:15 AM
0

Choosing signals, that’s a term ‘AMS’ uses. He has some stupid takes on alpha and beta. I’m pretty sure he thinks an alpha male should never talk. Weird guy. Anyways, you’re not always going to get IOI’s (the old school PUA term for it). Some girls may give you an invitation, others do not. You approach anyways. Waiting for an opening while clutching your beer close to your chest is more beta than just walking over and starting a conversation. Also don’t ever ask if something is beta or alpha ag…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:12 AM
8

You’re overthinking it. Game thyself player. I’m self amusing and keeping myself entertained with my own bullshit the next morning. Doesn’t matter if girl has much to say or doesn’t.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:10 AM
1

Get a copy of the book “No More Mr Nice Guy” It’s pretty solid
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:07 AM
1

You’re welcome. The anger phase is necessary but please keep it short for your own mental well being. I understand disillusionment is the natural outcome but it’s good to keep it in a larger perspective and have a mindset that helps you, not hurts you. Some thoughts: Who taught us? Disney? The home mortgage lending companies? Oh wait. ‘That’s how it’s always been’ ‘That’s what people do in life’ Those are not my values. Are they yours? Society is wrong oftentimes because mass programming like th…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 11:01 AM
1

Arguing takes energy. There’s no reason to argue, most of the time. She was leveraging her pussy power over your friendship, and trying to haggle you down to pennies. Your rate is your rate, take it or leave it. The backup she had is typical Karen calling Customer Service bullshit. No thanks. Good on you for sticking to your guns. Business is business and friends should understand that. I will say that confrontation is part of life and it’s helpful to be comfortable with it. The best negotiators…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:54 AM
6

Those military chicks get drilled out, sometimes from their Sgt. I would keep my distance. Forget about an LTR.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:49 AM
1

The agenda is late capitalism. The side effect is men being emasculated by the comforts of modern life, along with the advent of women going out and earning salaries to spend on consumer goods. Women are modeling what Male behavior used to be, while social conditioning in media is encouraging men into passivity. Trickle down estrogenomics, if you will
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:45 AM
1

When guys do this in Excel, women get so mad. When girls do it in PowerPoint, it’s some empowerment according to the feminists I bet. Microsoft office aside, she is behaving like a bro because she has been conditioned by the culture that guys think it’s cool. We are repulsed by that. Hard lesson for her. Now you probably can’t stop thinking of all those 4” cocks inside her anytime she calls. She fucked up. She seems a little crazy if it’s casual and she’s crying about it. Rejection sucks but I d…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:39 AM
2

There are many guys who have the same issue. I see it in my father, occasionally in myself. It’s time to rip the umbilical cord. The desire for maternal warmth is actually really terrible for relationships with women. It’s going straight to the Beta position. The framework should be you are the Parent and she is the Child (psychologically speaking) Do you seek validation from a child? No. A masculine and self actualized male fills the human void through his own self esteem. How do you do that? W…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:28 AM
5

You’re an idiot if you think $ = sex That’s how you get used. Beta bucks. I actively play down my financial situation and instead work my personality / hobbies angle. If I can get attraction through personality, then maybe later she can find out I have a solid career.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:55 AM
2

Do any successful people watch Netflix or Sports for hours every day? No. They’re using their time to enhance their lives. Media consumption is largely an opiate for a miserable existence.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:54 AM
1

You’re only 22. Time to take your frustration and channel it into leveling up your sexual market value. Money Muscles Fashion Work on these core aspects, while still chatting up girls and getting yourself out there. Do you think Dan ever thinks about you? Is he writing Reddit posts? No. He’s doing his thing. As should you. Every man has potential to raise his SMV. Your peak isn’t even going to be until early to mid-30’s man. Dan could be fat with a beer belly and nagging bitch wife while you’re …
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:51 AM
3

Do you spend a lot of time with her? Are you two attached at the hip? That could be why she wasn’t ‘paying attention to you’ in the social setting. Also some girls never learned how to show respect for their man when they’re with friends. Perhaps no previous boyfriend was strong enough to bring it to her awareness. She’s too comfortable with you. In general this behavior needs to be nipped in the bud. The first time it happens you have to pull her aside and be firm. If it happens again, leave. I…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:38 AM
5

Here’s a fun exercise I do “Does this person pay my bills?” “No?” Then their opinions and judgements are absolutely useless to me. Create a filter for yourself. You know yourself better than anyone else and your self belief needs to be strong to show that. When someone, even your parents, say something to you. It should be filtered into that OR ‘is this of any use to me and my life’s mission’ If the answer is no, keep it moving. Humans are stupid and the bullshit they say is like they’re talking…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:28 AM
4

Also the person you’re talking about clearly doesn’t care about the values you’re espousing on her. She wants her cake and to eat it too. Lots of defunct humans doing this. Guys too. Cheat on their 9/10 with some 6/10 for nut. It happens. Humans are not inherently monogamous, it takes willpower to stay faithful to your SO. Assuming you have other people interested. But this sounds like she was out for validation so could be deeper issues (heh)
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:26 AM
4

Australian chicks are a special type of sloppy
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:23 AM
5

just watch RSD Julien’s old content instead, it’s much better
/r/seduction06/03/21 09:11 AM
13

That guy changes his name and PUA company every 6-12 months and resurfaces on YouTube. 90% of his content is bashing RSD or other PUA content. The other 10% is him speaking in monotone about things that never happened. He’s a shit stain in the NYC PUA community and I’m not surprised he continues to grift to guys looking to improve their dating lives. If I recall, he got in trouble for an alleged rape / sexual assault. Whatever his actual name is I can’t remember, but he was banned from a few PUA…
/r/seduction06/03/21 09:10 AM
1

Cocaine
/r/seduction06/03/21 09:06 AM
2

Learn about subtext. It’s not the words you use, but the emotions behind it. In terms of texting, I avoid it entirely. Texting is just for logistics. Planning dates. More than that, you’re giving free validation away. Also more room for errors trying to be the sext guy. Sexts are cringe. Anyways back to subtext. ‘Oh wow this table is so wet’ ‘Oh wow.... this table. It’s. So. Wet.’ See what I did there? You’ll have to learn how to play with double meanings because that is chick crack. It’s also k…
/r/seduction06/03/21 09:00 AM
1

It’s one of my strengths but I think I have a blind spot in terms of explaining it. I’ll give it a shot. I just have this vibe that I don’t want to take anything from the(validation, sex). It’s non-needy and not creepy. I’m content if they stay or go. A bad salesman will make you uncomfortable in their shop. You kind of want them to fuck off. They’re needy. A good salesman will make you feel like you’re just friends hanging out. They’re not pushing the sale too hard. It’s not the priority. Also …
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:48 AM
1

It’s like jumping into a pool. The opener and initial approach is always a bit uncomfortable. That’s okay. Trust the process ™️ Let the water ripples settle and in a few minutes it’ll be a warm approach. Like you’ve known each other for years ;)
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:44 AM
1

Leaving the club with two girls, and a gang of 6 to 8 typical drunk boys in their generic collared shirts following us. They tried to come in and chat them up. Tried to take one or both from me. But I was less invested and trying less than them. I knew I had it in the bag. Just kept my good mood and certainty about the situation, led them along further down the road and got into a cab. We had fun and didn’t need any randos ruining the good ‘bubble’ we created. Cold approach is a fun time.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:41 AM
1

This. You’re a drug addict. It’s okay, we all are. We want external validation that we’re cool guys who can sleep with pretty girls. This is the first stage of the journey. You’ll have really good nights and really soul crushing nights. Why? Because you didn’t get the drug feels that night. The next level is removing attachment to the external validation. This is actually a feminine trait. Women’s emotions are driven by what is in their environment. Masculine men are driven by their inner drive …
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:35 AM
1

Yeah it’s probably bullshit to sell you an ebook or course. I’ve slept with that amount and you don’t see me shilling.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:31 AM
2

You are not interacting ‘Man to Woman’ You are treating them like a coworker probably. Need to polarize the interaction better. Do you know how to create tension in a conversation? Are you comfortable with letting that tension sit for a few minutes without squirming and trying to smooth it over? I have a feeling that you’re too agreeable and more like a ‘friend’ vibe. I don’t blame you. Society and media teaches us to be this way. That’s fine for the workplace. But this is dating. You can respec…
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:28 AM
1

Always let the girl bring it up. That gives her a chance to invest.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:23 AM
1

Your view is idealistic and incorrect. Every relationship has a power dynamic. Even homosexual relationships have a dominant and sub. It’s up to you which one you want to be.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:22 AM
1

Did you hear about the global pandemic? Brush your teeth
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:20 AM
1

Cool humblebrag bro. Did you meet her boyfriend yet
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:20 AM
2

If she puts herself down, she could be fishing for a compliment. Don’t respond to it. Change the subject
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:17 AM
1

Not anymore. That might have been true 10 years ago. Now women all over the world are adopting similar mental models and values thanks to the Internet and social media. Your perfect Thai or Eastern European traditional girl doesn’t exist. If she does, she’s going to fleece you for money and citizenship. They’re pretty adept with putting on an act. Are there still some feminine girls in the US? Yes there are. If they had an alpha male as a father and were raised properly by both parents, she shou…
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:15 AM
1

You talked about children and life philosophies to someone you just ‘met’ on Tinder? Sorry man but you came off way too emotionally available. She lost interest because you came on too strong. Sure she enjoyed the easy attention, but actually coming out to meet you? You didn’t leave any mystery. She already put you in the ‘stable boring bf who would walk over glass shards for me’ category. I don’t blame you. All of the feminized publication and media tells men to ‘be open’ and ‘share your feelin…
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:10 AM
1

You invested too much up front without her earning it. Learn from it, and to talk to 5 more girls. Keep to the golden ratio, for every 2 texts she sends, you send 1. Always be slightly less invested and let her chase.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:07 AM
1

Women are the oldest teenagers in the house. Don’t get swept up in their emotional shifts of wind. Be the oak tree. Stoic and stable.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:05 AM
2

Gym game = being social with all the guys and girls. If that’s something you want run, make an effort to be the sociable guy and it will come off more natural.
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:04 AM
3

To be honest this will probably kill the relationship once the jealousy starts. You guys are already a decade into a monogamous relationship. Usually the threesome is more of a spontaneous / early relationship / casual sex thing. That’s when it works best. Doing it from your starting point is like, super difficult to pull off. I get it, he has a male sex drive and testosterone makes you want to fuck everything. He’s trying to address that and include you, because his rationale (possibly) is that…
/r/seduction06/03/21 08:01 AM
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