The deeper one goes into the science of attraction, the more obvious is this main component that's needed: respect.

So we all want respect from our women.

The question is how you gain it. Because there are 2 kinds of people we respect.

The calm and strong man, who doesn't let his emotions control him. But he (somehow) has (some sort of) power.

And the guy who is the loudest, is not afraid of showing his anger, maybe shouts if necessary.

I guess the first one is the better one to aim at. But how would a man like that react in an extreme situation, but still hold his frame to be a respected person?

How about the gf has a bad day and shouts a "fuck you!" at him? Or what if he would cought her lying or even cheating on him?

How to maintain the calm and strong persona, if people and maybe even the woman would expect you to explode and get angry?

How to get this deep respect in contrast to that fearful respect anyway?

Tips? Resources? Anything?