So today i discussed with my LTR which gender can easier get a one night stand a night out. obviously i said "a girl can walk to a man and say 'fuck me'", done - her response "noo! it's not that easy for a woman. if a man wants a one night stand he can get it whenever he wants - it's just about if he wants to or not."

When she said that i was like 'wtf' i had to try hard to get 4-5 ONS in the last 2 years (same count for my whole friend circle) even if we wanted it much more often.

Now I'm not sure if she was just overexaggerating or I have to question myself - what the fuck did I do wrong when i went out every friday/saturday evening the last years. i thought of myself as a fuckboy but after i heard this i felt like im a virgin lol. Should it really be that easy for a man?

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Any inputs welcome

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