I understand that as men we should be sociable but at the same time be welcome to periods where we are alone and without our tribes

Personally I have an issue where I just NEED to have to be able to hang out with friends and I feel its very clingy and validation seeking behaviour

I enjoy solitude too as I am very productive and have time to explore topics I want however is there any readings that explore how to adapt to a mindset where you are fine to stand against the world alone? For I do wish to become a self sufficient man