Advice for managing plates

frognads · 2019-11-04T04:13:20+00:00

Depending on your SMV you are about to become popular or a villian. As for how to tell her to fuck off at the bar, observe: https://youtu.be/bcNGYRKBfHA

Lickdatitty1997 · 2019-11-04T05:38:35+00:00

They are probably following and talking to you. Cause you are extremely open and talkative when they talk to you.

If I see any of my plates in public. I say a quick hello and then literally go do my own thing. I don’t give her a chance to chit chat or to follow me. They should know better. Usually I’ll throw in a “I’ll text you this week. Bye”.

Andorli · 2019-11-04T06:07:48+00:00

Two of my plates know eachother pretty well. They are apparently friends just not close or anything. Not sure if they know yet, but I'm sure a time will come.

Threesome.

gdobssor · 2019-11-04T08:33:03+00:00

I used to work in childcare, and as we’d tell the children, “Use your words.” “Oh, hello Linda, how are you? It’s so lovely to see you! I hope you had a good week. Listen, I’d love to catch up with you properly some other time soon, and I’ll text you tomorrow, but I’m with a couple of guy friends now, so I’ll talk to you later. Ok? Bye!” If she asks if she can join, say, “Maybe another time, we’re talking about something personal, I’d still love to catch up with you one on one later in the week. Have a great night!”

As for your plates knowing about each other: from the perspective of a woman who once was one, you need to be honest and tell them that they are plates and you don’t want an actual sexual relationship. If two of your plates are friends, or you’re thinking about adding a plate that’s a friend of another plate, you should probably be honest about it, so it gives your plates and potential plates a fair choice about whether they’re ok with being put in that situation, and if not, there’s the door. Some women are absolutely chill as long as you’re honest, but not so chill if you hide it from them.

MattyAnon · 2019-11-04T13:52:26+00:00

Usually if I'm at bars at my college plates tend to find me and follow me around the whole night. Sometimes I just wanna talk to my friends/ other people. How do I deal with this?

Tricky, and unique to college.

Meet your friends elsewhere.

Two of my plates know eachother pretty well. They are apparently friends just not close or anything. Not sure if they know yet, but I'm sure a time will come. Any advice on this situation would also be appreciated.

Tell them both up front.

Weather the storm (shit tests), then enjoy smooth sailing.

Even if they say "I can't do this", that's fine. They'll do it. They won't want the other girl to win.

Title	Advice for managing plates
Author	fapstronot118
Upvotes	13
Comments	5
Date	November 4, 2019 3:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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