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I mean I know him in person, not just online. It's just online at the moment because of a) my work contract and b) our stupid government shutting the borders so tight they're not even letting most citizens in.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 12:12 PM
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Good questions. He has dated mostly women his own age I think. When I first raised the idea of a relationship, he asked, 'Are you sure?' I think his marriage ended mostly due to cultural differences. His first wife was from a very different non Western culture and it's an amazing country for Westerners to visit, but it can be a tough country for a Westerner to live in. Not always, but it can be.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/21 03:51 PM
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I don't really understand why feminists made such a big deal out of that. In Saudi Arabia, China, Iran, parts of Africa, etc, most women keep and always have kept their maiden names. Some women do change their names but it's not traditional there. These places are not hotbeds of feminism. Heck, women only got driver licenses in Saudi three years ago. If you marry a woman from one of these cultures, there's a high chance she won't be taking your name for cultural reasons. Nothing to do with femin…
/r/MensRights01/10/21 09:12 AM
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I wouldn't personally have a problem with it as long as he doesn't get the name and it's not of a sexual nature.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 07:16 AM
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Are you getting back together? If not, why do you care? If y'all are broken up, might be better to move on. If you are... Then what kind of Aaliyah tattoo is he getting? Is it her name? If it is, then it's super weird that he wants to tattoo the name of a former FWB on his body, especially when he knows you'll have to see it a lot. I get it's about the singer, not the FWB, but you would still have to look at it every day and he would have to know what you would think. I honestly don't see a seco…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 07:05 AM
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I think you have different values and different things you want in life. I'd end it.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 10:32 PM
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Does she work as well as you? If she does... how much housework and childcare are you doing compared to her? Cos if the answer is not as much when y'all are both working, there's your problem. She's probably too tired to spend time with you. If she stays home with the kid and you work, she might be depressed or have lost confidence as a partner now that she's a mom. She might need to go to therapy or counseling to work on her confidence and possibly get a diagnosis for depression, and maybe get …
/r/MensRights20/09/21 03:35 PM
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Do you not understand Indian culture and emotional blackmail or...
/r/MensRights20/09/21 01:38 AM
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Anything involving strip clubs or massage parlours or sex workers. Large amounts of alcohol. Extreme BDSM or Swinging or poly. Porn or onlyfans or camgirls. Hunting for sport or for skins/body parts (for food only would be fine as long as the animals were not endangered, the animals were respected and the meat was not wasted.) Hours and hours of video games every day. A couple hours would be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 04:33 AM
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Yes. My friend is Indian and from Singapore. His parents were married via arranged marriage. Neither of them liked each other as more than friends nor wanted to marry. They were emotionally blackmailed into marrying and told love would come later. It never did. Their kids suffered for it. They are still married but the love that everyone said would come later never did.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 04:26 AM
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Text your parents or whatsapp/Facebook message or email, whichever you think they'll read sooner. Don't call or say it in person as it'll give them the opportunity to hook you into an argument, and also if they threaten you or say nasty things to you over the phone or in person there's no evidence, if it's in writing there is. Tell them in the message that you're not going to have kids because they said to you that you weren't wanted, that you were an accident, that you ruined your mother's care…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 05:12 AM
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Women are drafted in Israel, China, and North Korea. They have been for a long time. Anyway, I don't think women or men should be drafted for war. When your government is forcing you to go and kill people or die or go to jail, they done fucked up. I do think both women and men should be drafted for urgent civil service jobs such as running quarantine facilities. The able bodied unemployed should be first. Extreme male prejudice could turn into transmisogyny depending on the group. Some might see…
/r/MensRights17/09/21 02:52 AM
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Well, organize a strike and see what happens.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 05:12 PM
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When I think about the Pike River Mine disaster in New Zealand, and all of the men that died, and the public outcry over the needless deaths of those men, I think that just occasionally, men's rights get some attention. Plenty of people wanted that scumbag Peter Whittall prosecuted over what he did to all those men, and more regulations and inspectors to make sure more accidents didn't happen, not just the ones that died but the ones that didn't that still worked in shit illegal conditions every…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 04:34 PM
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The redpill sub is still there, just quarantined. So is MRP, AskTRP, Redpillwomen and Redpillwives. Whisper I believe did a deal with Reddit admin, at least for now, to stop them being taken down, by taking away the worst of the content. He also doesn't mod Redpillwives, just Redpillwomen. I doubt those subs will go, but I could be wrong.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 05:12 AM
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Why do you care about offmychest? They banned me for participating in redpillwomen. They suck anyway.
/r/MensRights13/09/21 02:24 PM
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Not sure, they're sure as heck trying to raise awareness for it though, and depending on the type of autism it is a disability. It's always worth a try.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 12:38 PM
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Could you put down LGBTQI even if it's not strictly true? Or very low income? Or do you or did you in the past have a condition such as autism or child cancer that people are trying to raise awareness for? Were you a victim of child abuse? Do you have a mental illness - especially one pekople are trying to raise awareness for? Do you have some kind of Indigenous family heritage, even if it is very small?
/r/MensRights12/09/21 10:14 AM
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A digital or handwritten signed paper or an advance video statement giving consent would be worthless as she could claim you forced her to sign it, and also legally you can withdraw consent during sex even if you voluntarily consent in advance. Now, if she signed the consent paper and did the video statement after the act and wrote down the date and time, and signed stating the act had already taken place and everything was completely voluntary, you might be ok, and it could at least be presente…
/r/MensRights11/09/21 03:28 AM
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Dude. Read my other comment on here. I dated a man that was addicted to P. He lied to me about his addiction, or I would never have dated him. He assaulted me. The cops took his side. One was female. Anyone with half a brain, looking at me that night, could have clearly seen that I was traumatised. They still victim shamed me. I hate the NZ pigs with a passion after that. Any time I see a white ribbon poster or something saying 'It's not ok to hit a woman', It's all BS, because the pigs don't ca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 03:30 AM
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I'm a woman who grew up in New Zealand and my ex who was addicted to P and lied about it was violent towards me among others. I can tell you right now that in my experience, based on how I was treated by the police, their 'It's not ok to hit women' campaign is lip service only. My experience of NZ domestic violence 'justice' was under John Key, not Jacinda, but John Key was no better than Jacinda, he was just a different brand. They have women's refuge, it's underfunded. So is Rape Crisis. So is…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/21 06:01 PM
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Yep. I hate Jacinda Ardern and Grant Robertson with a passion. Hated John Key and Bill English too. If I meet any of them, I would spit in their face as hard as I could and tell them exactly what I think of them for what they have done to our beautiful country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/21 05:56 PM
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No it doesn't. It ignores female victims too. Basically, if you are convenient enough for them to help, they will help you. If not, they don't give a shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/21 05:54 PM
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I'm going to assume that you have no interest in anything beyond stopping abortion because if that weren't the case, you wouldn't be on an MRA subreddit angrily defending your position. And yes, you are a hypocrite. Very much so. If your pea brained self wants to force women to birth babies that were unplanned and unwanted, then you should be campaigning for your tax dollars to go towards taking care of these babies that will now be born and whose mothers WILL struggle. There is zero link to gen…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 06:09 PM
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I didn't want to put up details of his previous marriage because I am worried about respecting his privacy, especially if he browses on here or TRP and I just don't know it. He absolutely has been married before. His first wife was from a different culture. I have been to her country, although of course have never met her, and think it is very beautiful, but the lifestyle and traditions there are very different from the West and can be extremely hard on a foreigner, even if you marry into the cu…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 03:07 PM
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I agree with Mercury. You're not truly pro life. If you were, there are a million issues such as universal healthcare, universal daycare, and universal school lunches for a start that need fixing. You'd be on those.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 02:05 PM
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If she's out of status (overstayed), she can apply for restoration of her status if her visa has recently expired and she has not yet received a notice of deportation.(depending on the visa, the grace period is 90－180 days.) I did this myself when I overstayed my own work visa, I applied for restoration of status to a tourist visa to stop them from deporting me while I figured out what to do. I still couldn't work, I still had to figure out what to do after my tourist visa expired as that only g…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 08:51 AM
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I know he respects me. It's a big reason why I am drawn to him. He constantly compliments me and says I am intelligent and beautiful. Even when I don't believe it myself. He says he believes I am an excellent teacher. He has never observed one of my classes. I think I am good, but certainly have my flaws, and I don't think I am as good as he is 😂 He also asks for my opinion on his work. It's a bit out of my depth because I haven't been teaching as long as he has but he still asks and I still giv…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 08:30 AM
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Got a girl on a student visa pregnant: Whoops! First: Paternity test! No financial support unless and until it is positive! Do lab, not store bought. If it is negative, test again to make sure. It may be expensive, but still cheaper than child support. If it is positive, test again to make sure. If courts will not accept a test you did as evidence, tell them you will not acknowledge any paternity unless they do a paternity test and accept it as evidence. Get it in writing it will be accepted bef…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 08:05 AM
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Dude, no. I'm from New Zealand. I go on Facebook every day to connect with home, and I have only seen articles about two of the men that were killed. I didn't even realize any of them were women until seeing this post just now. The two men I saw articles for were Kareem, whose mother rightfully lashed out at Biden. And another man who was only 23 when he died, but was the last man killed in action in Afghanistan. I understand men have issues, but this ain't one of em.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 01:56 AM
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Dude. You should listen to yourself. You cannot be truly prolife and claim to be a protector of the unborn's or children's 'right to life' the way most so called republicans and 'christians' campaign for the 'rights of the unborn'. Do these people campaign for universally funded free of charge hospital care? No. Do they campaign for universally subsidized prescriptions, so that basic medications like insulin and epipens aren't costing 200－500 USD PER DOSE? Medications that are frequently used by…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 06:26 PM
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Yes, and also, prisoners generally are paid LESS than minimum wage for jail jobs. It's not necessarily a problem if they're actually learning marketable skills, like light industry or welding or hairdressing or even call centre work, but this is doing nothing but giving them PTSD, and it's completely ignoring the problem, which is low wages and horrible conditions. The state and employers are allowed to profit, while giving prisoners PTSD and adding to their already bad mental health, giving the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/21 02:41 PM
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Hmmmm... from someone who has autism, could it be possible that you have it? Even just a mild version? I do, and forming relationships can be hard. Could you see a doctor to get a diagnosis? Could you check out the autism, aspergers, aspergirls and aspergersdating subreddits if you think you might have it? Or the Wrongplanet website/discussion forum? You could form some online friendships and/or relationships and eventually meet in person. You go to college, could you join a group or club? Like …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 02:58 AM
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Mgtow2, pre covid, was a good sub and had mods with good intentions. However, from the observations of myself and the other members of the MGTOWBan sub both over the Lockdown period and after, it was infiltrated by many members of the incel crowd, perhaps looking for somewhere new after incelswithouthate got banned and the original MGTOW sub got quarantined, I don't know. But whatever it was, either the Mgtow2 mods became overwhelmed by all of the incels moving in and could no longer handle it, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 01:24 PM
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So first of all I'm sorry that happened to you. Second of all, I went through a similar relationship with my friend (we are both women.) Third of all, here's what I did when I was homeless for six months and there was nobody to help me: I was in a foreign country, with an expired work visa and very limited help from friends and family and former employers. www.workaway.info r/workaway This website and subreddit are your friend if you are male and homeless. Similar organizations are WWOOF (WorldW…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:41 PM
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Repost. But that being said, I'd contact Maury, he'd have a field day with this one.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 03:30 AM
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Answering for my mom. My mom was a high school teacher and HR manager before being a SAHM. She got made redundant, and dad asked her not to get another job. Me, yes up to age ten. My mom: yes up to about age seven, however she would say seeing a mom as a good strong role model is also important, and if that means having a working mom, she would say that is ok too. My mom used to: cook, clean, garden, walk dog, grocery shop, do sewing, go to bank, take cat/dog to vet, go to drycleaners and post o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/21 03:28 AM
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The thing is, you said in a comment that he won't go to therapy, and is reluctant to talk about the future. You are also twenty five and you don't want to wait another five years to have children. Before he has children, he needs to address his issues from the divorce, which he doesn't seem to want to do. He also seems to not want to provide for you, yet not do much housework, which is a concern if you have children. I worry that if you have children, they will be brought into a dynamic where yo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 03:03 AM
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There was actually a video on Youtube of a short and small in stature woman acting like a Karen, similar to this guy, I think it was because she didn't want to wear a mask and the store asked her to leave, and she didn't want to do that either, so she threw a tantrum. There seem to be a lot of those going around lately. Anyway, the store manager who was a bigger guy had asked her nicely to leave several times, she was becoming more and more aggressive, he said he would move her out of the store,…
/r/MensRights14/06/21 02:55 AM
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Agreed. Short guy was acting like a Karen. My ex was short, a tad shorter than me even, and he never behaved like that.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 02:50 AM
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My advice: Do NOT move out once the thirty days are up. She legally cannot just kick him out once it is up, she needs to then issue him another notice varying in length between three and fourteen days, if he refuses that one, then she has to set a court/tenancy tribunal date at which point they will ask him why he's not moving out. Install cameras that are hard to spot and hard to remove (not in the toilet/bathroom/her bedroom), the kind you get for nannies to make sure they're doing their job r…
/r/MensRights05/06/21 09:16 AM
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Is it? Well, this lady is up there on TED talk giving one hell of a speech and... you're not. If you think she's stupid, or her clients are stupid, when it's blindingly obvious you haven't even watched the video, and you're a bigger expert, why don't you nominate yourself for TED talk and talk about why you went MGTOW and why that's an idea worth spreading?
/r/MensRights07/08/20 02:10 PM
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Ummmmm... ok? I feel pretty sorry for the dude tbh, imagine not being able to walk outside even fully clothed without random people trying to get any picture they could of your private parts.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 03:12 PM
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What the actual fuck. Reported.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 04:13 AM
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What about returned service men?
/r/MGTOW24/03/20 06:07 AM
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My ex’s advice was to leave each child, any step kids included, $100 and no more, and leave the rest to a charity you like. He said don’t leave them nothing because if you do that, they’ll try the old trick of contesting the will and saying you “forgot them”. Even if the judge sees through it, it’ll take months. Leave them $100 each and the message is loud and clear that you just don’t want them getting your shit.
/r/MGTOW24/03/20 02:23 AM
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From what I can see it appears to be an FDS invented term for a naive, desperate woman/girl who runs after in their eyes low value, unavailable men or getting clingy and desperate when a man doesn’t want her for whatever reason. I also think they define it as a woman who willingly sticks up for men since I got permbanned from FDS for defending my dad when they said that all men were good for was money.
/r/MGTOW20/03/20 03:26 AM
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Stop saying you’re a 4.5 and he’s a 9. That just says you’re way overvaluing him and way devaluing yourself. No guy finds that attractive. None. Want a guy? Get some confidence and lose the baggage ie him. If all he actually wanted you for was fwb, he sounds like not necessarily a bad person per se but definitely not someone that can add any value whatsoever to your life. If you can’t see past him, you need to get out more. Either that or nun mode and therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 10:54 AM
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Oh my god, I really really hope this is fake. A male college friend of mine has chron’s disease and this would have been absolutely humiliating for him. Nobody regardless of gender should have to go through that.
/r/MGTOW29/02/20 06:49 PM
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Do you have a return address? Send them back with an explanation note and break up with him. That way he can’t hold them over your head. If you don’t have one, ask him for one, and if he refuses, hey, at least you tried and tell him that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 07:52 PM
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Why don’t you visit him for a week at the three month mark if you can? Regardless: The six months will be like eating an elephant: eat a little every day. The first day, start nibbling at its toes, then a little of the ears, then slowly work your way through. Come the end of the six months, you’ll be picking bits off the carcass and wondering what you were worried about!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 04:05 PM
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Wouldn’t even do that. I’d give him nine months max.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 02:33 AM
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The problem with Mgtow isn’t choosing a path that doesn’t involve women or any other gender. It’s that they’re choosing a path that generally involves toxicity towards women and seeing them as inferior and incompetent in every way, and only good for a wet hole at best, or seeing them as all being manipulative narcissists who solely use men for money and are out to get men through false rape accusations en masses at worst. That’s what’s so bad about it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 02:31 AM
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Oh my goodness, this is so sad. I just want to cry. My mother was a high school English teacher thirty five years ago and I know if she was still alive she would be so sad to see books being burned too. She always said books are your friends.
/r/MGTOW05/02/20 05:41 AM
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r/femaledatingstrategy isn’t red pill. r/redpillwomen is the female version of red pill and it’s completely different and FDS tactics aren’t welcome there in the slightest.
/r/MGTOW203/02/20 02:13 PM
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Wife could still make a case that they’re paying a mortgage if she’s also making payments or the house was bought during the marriage and then it’d be the judge’s call as to whether they were paying rent or a mortgage. Not siding with her, just saying don’t assume that in this day and age, putting something in someone else’s name will definitely work, especially when judges love siding with women.
/r/MGTOW203/02/20 12:18 PM
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It’d be up to the judge, but a few things to consider: will you need a mortgage? If yes, will the bank require your name to be on the deed? Is wife’s name also on the mortgage or is she making payments to the mortgage (even if her name isn’t on there)? If yes to either of those, the judge would probably want to hear about why you guys have a mortgage in your name for a house your parents own, or even if the bank lets you have a mortgage in your parents’ name, why you’re making payments towards a…
/r/MGTOW202/02/20 11:03 AM
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I got permbanned from FDS for defending my father when they said that all men were good for was their money, and refusing to join their circlejerk. He cared for my mom when she had terminal cancer before she died. I wouldn’t oppose a quarantine. But: one of the top posts on r/Mgtow2 currently states that they are happy to have finally found a sub that’s about the positive side of Mgtow. I agree with them. I think r/Mgtow2 is a great sub. I’ve also learned a lot from this sub and at times this su…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 07:54 AM
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They don’t really need it anymore to be honest, because unless they are super wealthy or farming families where they need a lot of extra hands, mainland China families don’t have the wages to afford more than two children anymore, even without the policy and even if both parents work.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 05:00 AM
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They unfortunately have to. Most mainland China people will say the same. Before the policy was brought in, they had overpopulation and traditional families all having huge numbers of children, and they didn’t have the infrastructure to handle it. Even now they have some of the hugest and most polluted cities, and they could have been looking at a population of 40 million each just for Beijing and Shanghai had they done nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 02:04 AM
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Go through with pregnancy, ruin her body and then be forced to give away her own child? That’s just as bad.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 01:57 AM
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Two child rule now, they have a dearth of young people (especially girls) and surplus of elderly so they upped it to two in cities and three in rural.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/20 01:53 AM
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Also, as an aside, prenups can be used to exploit men too. I remember one r/amitheasshole thread from a man who was getting married whose fiancée’s family wanted to “gift” them a house living close to them. They lived rural, in the middle of buttfuck nowhere. Not a problem for the woman, she worked from home. But the guy worked in the city and would have been forced to give up his career if he’d moved out there because the commute was three hours each way. Then, they wanted him to sign a pre nup…
/r/MGTOW231/01/20 08:24 PM
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Have her do both! Martial arts are awesome. If she’s good at singing, maybe put her in a church choir or after school program where she can further develop. Also guitar or piano so she can accompany herself.
/r/MGTOW230/01/20 01:34 AM
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Calling a forty year old woman a senior citizen is acting like an immature insecure fifteen year old girl.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 09:41 PM
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I’m pretty sure that if this story is true, this woman’s about to get done for fraud. If you act as POA, you can do stuff like open and close bank accounts and move money out etc but IF and only IF it benefits or is in the best interests of the person you’re POA for. Otherwise there would be a lot more moocher kids becoming POA for their elderly parents, stealing their money and not even leaving them enough to pay for a decent care home. Also, my neighbor and my parents’ friend got divorced in 1…
/r/MGTOW20/01/20 04:17 PM
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Treating work like high school is reeeeeaaallllyyyy FDS and not RPW at all.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 03:34 PM
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Why are you here? This place is to attract a guy that’s available, not chase after someone who’s obviously not. If he’s happy in his relationship, leave him and go do something else that makes you happy. Take up a new hobby. Find a new job. If he’s not happy in his relationship, give him honest advice, but don’t influence him or spend too much time around him while he figures out what to do, or you’ll just be seen as the slutty girl who interferes in relationships. I know because I tried to warn…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 04:46 AM
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Ask him why he feels this way. Point out to him all of the things you’ve done to try and make him feel valued and loved, but that if it’s not working, you’re not a mind reader and if he wants something different, he needs to make it clear what he needs.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/20 03:46 PM
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Then better planning is required. It’s no good to say you’re religious and you can’t practice regular birth control, then say NFP doesn’t work either, then wonder why you end up with unplanned pregnancies. If your religious position is that birth control is wrong, plan for it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 12:20 PM
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You ok???
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 09:09 AM
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Old Pink song.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 09:09 AM
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Yes, this. If your cycle is very difficult to track, NFP or pull out probably aren’t for you. You might want to look at over the counter methods. Unless of course, you’re Catholic or something, but still, even so, it’s not really a surprise if you’re not using the natural methods properly, and it will happen again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 05:27 PM
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Dunno why you’re getting so heavily downvoted, this sounds like a pretty solid plan to me, validating his feelings without making him feel like he’s necessarily in the wrong for having them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 05:16 PM
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Um, because he has a kid with her now and even if she has enough money for him not to have to pay child support and alimony, she could easily hold access over his head. So at this point, whether or not he wants to go to Canada, he doesn’t have much choice.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:50 PM
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I’d find a new job on the sly. When you get one, leave and don’t give her any notice. Just quit.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 01:51 AM
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It’s interesting that you had that experience. I did my fine option for my traffic tickets at a men’s homeless shelter where like your one they let women and children come eat, and they were VERY strict with them. They were made to say Grace. They didn’t have to speak out loud or bow their heads, but they did have to stand and be quiet and God help you if you weren’t. Volunteers and workers too. Like you they weren’t allowed seconds and they weren’t allowed extra food. If they’d dumped it in the…
/r/MGTOW14/01/20 09:21 AM
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If he’s part of a religious sect that actively avoids honouring birthdays because they’re seen as a form of blasphemy (for example Jehovah’s Witnesses) in which case I would respect his religious right not to celebrate them and not pressure him, or if he’s from a country such as Somalia where they don’t really track them very well or celebrate them and they only have a rough idea of when people’s birthdays are and how old they are (in which case I’d be patient and understanding and talk with him…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 06:00 AM
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A man who deems a potential wife worthless or damaged goods solely based on whether or not she’s a virgin is absolutely an asshole and not worth knowing. It’s an outdated and dangerous idea that’s still used in developing countries and fundamentalist communities to hurt and disempower women. Now, if the man is religious himself and also wants to remain a virgin until engagement/marriage and wants a virgin wife too, that’s different. In that case he’s holding himself to the same standard.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/20 03:00 PM
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Because he’s an asshole. Find someone who does. If this is a more in general question... the only type of man who has the right to demand a virgin wife is one who leads by example and stays a virgin himself until marriage, which yes is difficult. A man isn’t worth marrying if he doesn’t value you unless you’re a virgin. Many things can make a person imperfect and each person shoulders some imperfections. Unwillingness to accept this in a partner means that you’re a bad husband and a bad leader.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 05:01 PM
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Well... you’re gonna like this... there was a woman who was about 70 who was somehow allowed to testify in the original Mark Lundy trial who said under oath that she had a photographic memory and psychic powers and that at around the original time of death (7.30pm on a Summer night so broad daylight) she was driving to her seniors choir practice, when she stopped at a stop sign near Mark Lundy’s house, and saw him running. Here’s an archived article, it’ll make you shoot yourself. http://tvnz.co…
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 02:22 PM
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Aha! NOW we’re getting somewhere. I thought you were asking about spinning male plates or friends with benefits. For that, r/femaledatingstrategy is a better sub. Yes, this is a problem, admittedly. I don’t think that there’s anything wrong with what you are wanting if you genuinely want to be a housewife. A housewife with a good healthy sex drive can even be a good thing. Just look at what u/misscleanex said because she also gave some really good advice too. Also: your goals should align up wit…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 09:13 AM
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Genuine Question. There’s a guy in New Zealand called Mark Lundy. In 2002, he was cheating on his wife with hookers. One night, he was away on a business trip in a town two hours away. While he was there, his wife and seven year old daughter were both brutally murdered. The first trial he was given was a show trial, basically claiming that the time of death was 7.30pm and he could have driven a trip that took two hours driving at 100kph and at the time he was driving was rush hour traffic with c…
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 08:33 AM
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I agree with the no slut shaming mentality. I don’t think women should be called out for liking sex. But how does this fit in with RPW? There’s a psychologist called Dr Bob Grant who specializes in relationships who explained it really well: he said, “A woman shouldn’t have sex unless she gets the guarantee of a relationship. Now, I’m absolutely not slut shaming women, AND IF you’re absolutely okay with the man you are sleeping with not committing to you right now, and POSSIBLY NEVER COMMITTING …
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 06:18 AM
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Yeah, I’m seconding this. He wouldn’t hold a grudge the next morning if it was just about the porn.... UNLESS he was projecting his OWN guilt, insecurities or shortcomings onto her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 05:26 AM
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Pride and prejudice Sense and sensibility Jane Eyre Agnes Grey Little women
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 08:36 AM
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Yeah, next time, don’t even do that. Without a firm commitment, that’s too far tbh. If the guy throws a tantrum then walk away. Still send the screenshots as proof to the gf.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 01:32 AM
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Don’t think about block him. DO IT. BLOCK HIM, without an explanation but not before you take pictures of and save screenshots of all your conversations together, AND find his girlfriend’s Facebook or Instagram profile to message them to her. She has a right to know what a scumbag this guy is so she doesn’t waste another minute on him without at least knowing what he’s really like. If she stays, well, you tried, but she has a right to know. Also: you didn’t define how far you went with hooking u…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 02:20 PM
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Don’t set a timeline on having kids. Kids need their father around. They don’t need a house full of luxuries and a workaholic sometimes weekend dad who’s always tired and focused on work. Resolve your issues you have here and get your husband around more often before trying for kids.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 02:05 AM
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I very much doubt this. Mgtow and redpill would have you believe this, but look at the wedding industry. People go INTO debt every DAY just to make a statement about their marriage (and yes, I think this is completely ridiculous). But without men who want marriage outside local churches, there would be practically no wedding industry.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 03:29 AM
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That’s because you don’t follow through. You let him say ok we will get married, but you don’t demand results. Tell him that if he truly wants you to stay, he needs to plan a proposal, get a real engagement ring and set a wedding date, or it’s over. Only do this if you mean it. Any hint of him going back to his original stance of no marriage after engagement, give him one chance, then that’s it. Done for good. You don’t want to marry someone who’s constantly flip flopping. By the way, this can w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 03:23 AM
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But if you have lived together continuously for more than two years, you will be considered a de facto marriage whether or not you’re legally married and be forced to split shared property in the event of a break up anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 03:20 AM
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Sandyreflection explained it the best. I would never slut shame someone, but unless you’re absolutely ok with just being friends with benefits, being a plate/a guy’s option, a pump and dump or something casual, don’t have sex if you’re not married/engaged/100% exclusive. And if you’re ok with fwb/etc, that’s absolutely fine, I won’t judge you. But the vast majority of men who want families won’t particularly want to have one with a relationship that started out as something casual. There would h…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 12:46 PM
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Errrrr no sweetie you’re not. If I come up and demand money from you without doing anything special or having any redeeming qualities, technically I’m looking after my own needs, so by your logic I’m high value. But in reality and the way society would see it I’d be begging, low value. Sex is no different. Also, I remember watching a video of a bunch of guys at a spaghetti eating competition in the 90s, chucking back bowl after bowl of the stuff for some prize. The winner got the prize... then h…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/20 12:24 PM
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You’ve been with two people before your fiancé. It’s life. Unless you’re part of a religious community, most people don’t wait until marriage anymore. Being with two people (a very low number in comparison to most) before marriage very likely won’t take away from your bond with your fiancé unless you allow it to. My suggestion is that if something bad happened in a past relationship or if you’re having worries, troubles or anxieties over your previous relationships or the potential of them howev…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 06:08 PM
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You’ve obviously never met any artsy leftist guys. This kind of stereotyping annoys me. My cousin’s husband is a world class potter who has done residences in China and the Netherlands and had his artwork displayed in the most important galleries in our country. A marriage with a man like him wouldn’t work if OP wanted to be a SAHM, but to say he’s lazy and unemployed is patently false. I was once a nanny for a guy who worked on the set as a graphic designer for Lord of the Rings and the Hobbit.…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:45 AM
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Pull out prince ahhhhhhahahaha I needed a laugh thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 05:19 PM
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Ways to do this?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 01:57 PM
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The thing is, I am already very well aware that many men won’t be attracted to me. You’ve said it sucks to be OP or in her position, but what’s something that could actually help make it better?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 07:23 AM
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I have a genuine question and I’d appreciate an answer. I’m interpreting your comment as you saying that because I’m very similar to OP in that I’m 27, high n count and a rape victim, I’m essentially damaged goods and it will be very difficult to next to impossible to find a LTR with a high value man, because high value men don’t want women like me. So then is RPW a waste of time if I’m only ever going to be seen as a plate?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 07:14 AM
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Mhk... I’m in the same boat as OP, 27, rape victim and I get your point about trying to lock down a neurotic guy that frets over n count probably being a lost cause. Where would you find a guy like the one above that actually would want to commit?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 04:22 AM
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Eeeeeewwwwww. Trial?! What is this, a probation period for a job?! Are you a partner or an employee?! He’s literally treating you the same way my old boss treated me when I was about to be fired. Yyyyyyuck. Ain’t no one need that feeling from their spouse. And believe me, a guy that really really REALLY liked you would NEVER want a TRIAL, he’d sign right up before letting another guy take you off him. If you really loved a car you test drove, would you want a trial before you committed to buying…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 04:58 PM
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It’s possible, definitely, my parents managed it. My dad also was a full time student with no income except student loans and savings at the time, when my mom was a SAHM. They didn’t get new stuff for the house. They lived with old, tired, worn out carpet because it wasn’t absolutely necessary to replace and they couldn’t afford it. Ditto the TV, it was a 20 year old TV with three channels and no remote. They didn’t eat out very often. My mom mostly cooked at home. They only had one car. It was …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 04:52 PM
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My ex does body piercing and tattooing. I wouldn’t begrudge him that amount for a decent tattoo that was actually done well. You have to rent a commercial space. You have to pay for specialized equipment including needles, ink and an autoclave (proper sterilizing machine that’s up to code). In my home country, they don’t generally get paid while doing an apprenticeship/internship or even if they do, it’s a very small amount and not at all a living wage. You don’t have constant foot traffic like …
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 04:35 PM
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I wish my great aunt was still alive to ask. She was an extremely devout Catholic and also a hospital matron with a doctor husband, so she’d give a very good viewpoint on this. But she died in 2005 and my mom was close to her but would have given a very biased view against the Catholic Church. I wonder if I could ask my aunt.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 10:52 AM
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No wonder people don’t like the Catholic Church. And no wonder OP is terrified of sex with her husband. Every practical suggestion is rejected except for NFP which is still risky for her situation. Understandably, she doesn’t want to use contraception, but still not allowed to use oral sex and forced to have her husband complete inside her when she’s not physically ready for it? It’s as if the church only care about wearing women out with baby after baby, or at least that’s how it looks to me!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 12:51 AM
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Mother Teresa was a Catholic, she instructed Indian women on how to use NFP so they wouldn’t be burdened with kids they couldn’t afford. Say what you want about her, some people don’t like her and that’s a valid viewpoint, but she’s recognized by the Catholic church as a leader, and if she taught that NFP was ok, then I would take that from a general point of view, the Catholic Church accepts that NFP is ok.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 04:53 PM
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It’s debatable. I don’t think it is, but there was a story in the bible about a man who refused to have a baby with his dead brother’s wife and spilled the seed on the bed, ie, withdrew, because the child wouldn’t be recognized as his, so God killed him, therefore it’s a mortal sin :eyeroll: it’s really stupid in my opinion especially when the real reason God killed him was because he was trying to avoid honouring his dead brother. It’s also Old Testament.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 04:43 PM
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Hmmm... so drunky mc drunk drunk had a little too much fun over Christmas huh? On a more serious note: it’s a red flag for sure, maybe not break up stage just yet. I was 21 and my ex was 39. In a very similar situation. You’re very very young to be in this position. The best and most CRUCIAL advice I can offer the two of you is to go to AA: Alcoholics Anonymous for your man, and Al Anon For Families for you. IF he doesn’t want to, you absolutely should still go to Al Anon For Families and try at…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 03:50 PM
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http://catholicsexy.blogspot.com/2013/08/can-catholics-have-oral-sex.html?m=1 Googled it, found this. This perspective says it’s ok as long as it’s within marriage and not a PERMANENT replacement for full sex.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 03:35 PM
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What’s wrong with oral sex? Massages? Hand jobs? They don’t require contraception do they? Why can’t they do those until she’s healed up? Why should she be expected to put herself in danger especially after a third degree tear by having unprotected sex too early?????
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 02:10 PM
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I didn’t downvote you, but pull out isn’t 100% effective. It’s very good, but you really really need to watch. My ex and I used it and he’s extremely experienced, much older than me and very restrained and tried his best, and even he made a mistake one day and got me the morning after pill. That’s not an option for this couple.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 01:50 PM
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I absolutely don’t think you’re a bad wife for being afraid to have sex with him and being afraid of getting pregnant. I’d be afraid to have sex with someone who was so uncompromising on their beliefs to the point that they were willing to do something that put my health in physical danger just to avoid neglecting their spiritual duty. And yes, risking you getting pregnant this soon is putting you in physical danger. I’d be very, very blunt with him. Tell him exactly why you don’t want sex with …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 01:33 PM
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If I became a mom, I’d personally want to work at least part time as a singing/piano teacher or relief teacher at least one day a week so that in the event my husband lost his job or was forced to take a pay cut and I got forced back to work, I wouldn’t be turned away by every man and his dog looking to hire because of a six plus year gap in my resume.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 01:46 PM
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Absolute nonsense to wait that long if you want kids that badly. I’m sorry, but it is. Having kids at 35, even 37, yes. But much past that, you’ve left it a bit late. Now, I can’t talk, because my mom was 39 when I was born and almost 40, but from what my dad told me recently, she knew that time was running out, and she certainly didn’t try for any more kids after me. Dad said he sometimes regretted that, and said had they started two or three years earlier, things might have been different. In …
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 01:36 PM
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When I went for my first aid courses, they told us about cases of people who got sued for providing assistance or performing CPR, mostly because of cracked ribs. This is bullshit, because to do CPR properly, you have to break ribs. They said, if the person is conscious, ALWAYS ASK FOR CONSENT. If the person is unconscious, there is the concept of implied consent, but if they wake up, you must ask. Additionally, my friend from university is a Jehovah’s Witness and rides motorcycles, he also has a…
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 07:40 AM
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I know a guy who had an affair. He’s a family friend. Affair was short lived, wife still doesn’t know. When we asked him why he did it, he said he had the affair because despite his efforts at reconnecting with his wife, she wasn’t particularly interested in sex and also wasn’t especially interested in doing her share around the house, despite working fewer hours and despite the fact that the kids were older. He said he didn’t go out of his way to have one and he probably wouldn’t have one again…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:48 AM
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I know 2-3 older guys in their 40s or 50s that are red pilled, but that I enjoy spending time with, because their personalities are very engaging. They’re honestly lovely guys, they can lead naturally and they have good life experience. The younger unmarried guys... not so much. I don’t particularly enjoy being told that if I have a higher n count from a few years ago, I’m damaged goods and rendered permanently unable to pair bond by someone who’s never even met me or taken time to get to know m…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 02:47 PM
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Oh, dear... Sweetie, you sound extremely young and naive. So, I will answer your questions very plainly. The reason why he asked for sex and nudes from you is that for him, it’s just another way to get him off. He would probably have sex with a vacuum cleaner if there was no other option, it doesn’t mean he would want to hang out with said vacuum cleaner for funsies. Please don’t flatter yourself by thinking a guy asking for sex, or nudes is a compliment. It really isn’t. Those other girls you s…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 12:51 PM
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I’m in China but buy most of my clothes at H and M because while they’re expensive by Chinese standards, they’re cheap to mid range by American standards. I’ve gone from having mostly jeans and fleeces to having blouses, slacks, dresses and pantyhose. Also, if you wear black leggings, you can wear a nice blouse or dress with it and it’ll look much better than a simple t shirt or polar fleece. My office lets us wear leggings but not jeans for this reason, as long as we wear a blouse or dress with…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/19 04:52 AM
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This is China. You can tell because Weibo is a chinese website. Corporal punishment is illegal, but if you’re a local teacher, it’s very common there. When I taught primary public school, you could hear the Chinese teachers, every day, screaming at the students. You could hear it down the hallway from the school office, and these women were not big women either - they were tiny. Every day, at break time or after school, kids came into the office to have a ‘talk’ about being late for school, home…
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 11:56 AM
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I have been a nanny and I never EVER did that to any child in my care and would fire a nanny or babysitter who pulled a stunt like that. It’s abuse. At the same time, I did get picky eaters and got them eating plenty of stuff. Just give them a healthy size portion of food, and tell them they can eat it, or not, but there’s nothing else to eat until the next meal. If they’re that hungry they’ll eat.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 03:32 PM
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Tell him that you’re the cook, you’re the boss. End of story. He doesn’t cook, he doesn’t make the rules. Gosh, I can’t stand ‘parents’ who directly encourage overeating by forcing kids to eat everything on their plate. I would be absolutely livid if my future husband ever harmed the kids like that, and I say this as someone who has worked in childcare and someone whose own parents forced me to eat everything when I was already full. It’s extremely unhealthy and encourages eating disorders and i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 03:29 PM
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A lot of society also doesn’t get that women can be abusive to guys too. I remember asking my mom as a kid after she told me about Women’s Refuge whether there was a Men’s Refuge for fathers who were getting abused to take their kids, and she said no, not really, but she supposed the Salvation Army would help them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 12:30 PM
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If you have an alcoholic ex, an ex with a mental illness who refuses to get the help they clearly need, an ex addicted to crystal meth or similar, especially if they lie, and an ex that hits or belittles or humiliated you and refuses to change, or an ex that cheats, an ex that lets his parents/family abuse or humiliate you or undermine your authority in front of the kids and does little or nothing to stop it, then kids or no kids, there’s no hope for your relationship and the only correct course…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 12:23 PM
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Wow. I’m glad I don’t have an asshole like you as a husband.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 02:18 PM
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Look on the Mgtow subreddit. 90 percent of it is vile garbage. They have a precious few good points about ‘mothers’ who abuse their children and commit DV, and defend/stay with stepfathers who do it. The vast majority of them abuse and degrade women for ‘hitting the wall’ even when they obviously haven’t, talking about how women shouldn’t be allowed to vote etc, and how women like Emma Watson are disgusting for wanting to be independent and work on themselves and will just end up divorce raping …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/19 08:58 AM
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Thing is I have started feeling out of the loop. After that night, he didn’t come back. He also became more distant and only replied to texts of mine. We have been out once since and it was fine, but he is always traveling or always super busy when I ask him to meet lately. He seems to be working out of town on some big project. I feel a bit neglected and like he doesn’t think I’m that important.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 10:14 AM
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Sometimes, or sometimes they’re just religious fundamentalists who are dangerous people in and of themselves. For example, Joshua/Leelah Alcorn’s family. The kid was 17, at that age you’re generally old enough to decide whether you’re gay or whatever or not.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 04:03 PM
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I would actually be interested in adopting/taking on guardianship of lgbt teens whose parents have disowned them when I have the means.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 12:17 PM
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Depends. My grandmother was a SAHM and judging on what my dad told me, she wasn’t boring. She ran a church choir, she ran the League of Mother’s that played concerts at RSAs and Old people’s homes, she played piano at church, she took part in amateur theatre, she raised five boys. She may not have had a paid outside job, but she still did community work and she certainly wasn’t boring. My own mom studied and did playcentre. If I do the SAHM route, I will do something outside, even if it’s teachi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 02:31 AM
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Sigh. I don’t know. Trawl the Mgtow and MRA forums, they’re forever complaining that not enough women are willing to give the dirty, dangerous and manual labour jobs a go, but then, they want a pretty picture feminine woman too, and in the case of Mgtows, they’re supposed to be going their own way. Sometimes I genuinely can’t understand their logic.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 02:26 AM
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Entitled to want to adopt? You do realize that in the state of Georgia alone, more than 16000 kids are in state care waiting for adoptive homes. How is it entitled to want to stop a kid or multiple kids from aging out of the system?? Although if OP is the type of person that only wants to adopt a baby or toddler, then yes, THAT is entitled.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 02:20 AM
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My mom used to rent an opera from the video store and watch it, or once in awhile visit a friend or go for coffee.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 11:19 AM
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Don’t venmo charge her. That’s really petty and will just breed resentment. I think I’m repeating this too often on here, but this technique does work. 3 levels of muscle. Level one, y’all to her again. Nicely. Explain exactly why this is a problem for you and exactly what you need her to do from now on. Draw up a chore list, something she can see and remember to do every day, if you think that would help her remember. Level two: explain again, nicely, but say, look, we have already talked to yo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 11:23 AM
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You’re completely wrong. It doesn’t matter whether someone is your parent or not. If they are nice enough to let you stay with them and cook for you, you have respect for them and respect for their home. Regardless of whether you live there or are just staying there temporarily, you absolutely shouldn’t leave dirty dishes/clothes lying around and take up the washing machine like that. That’s lazy and rude to your hosts, and just bad manners, and also super unattractive if she’s hoping to get a n…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 11:08 AM
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Does he actually have to deal with the mess or is it mostly your responsibility? Tell him exactly why you want the storage boxes sorted now, he may not realize it’s a problem for you. Set a timeline. Tell him if organizing the storage in the next fortnight is going to be a problem for him, you understand but the toys will then be going in kids bedroom until he has time to sort it as a temporary measure. What I’d personally do. Just tell him. The eldest might play with toys at night time but a) l…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 09:02 AM
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Psychological abuse? Really? I suppose it could be if you just resorted to this without talking to him and defining what, when, where, how and why you want it done - ie, giving a reasonable timeline and calmly explaining why and nicely reminding him. But if he still refuses to and it’s much needed? Nah. Not being at the mercy of waiting around for a procrastinator to get their act together. Also, when my own mother was alive, she used what she called the 3 levels of muscle when doing this. She n…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 08:52 AM
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I’d move out. Who cares if your parents take it as a betrayal? Way I see it, three things could happen: they go no contact, either permanently or temporarily, in which case they’re not particularly good parents and aren’t real family if they don’t treat you like it. They could throw a major temper tantrum and threaten you with all kinds of things like being disinherited, not paying for wedding, not having your kids favoured etc, and they may or may not really mean it, sometimes people just say t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 05:18 AM
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No, don’t do either of those, that’ll just make him more defensive. I think you should nonchalantly ask to go with him, or have a friend you trust that NEITHER of them know well get coffee in the same place at another table and sneakily watch how they interact, their body language etc. Be very careful with this one though, and don’t do this constantly or it’ll skirt the line of stalking/abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/19 03:23 AM
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Wow, he sounds like a jackass toddler. If he has concerns about his budget/you spending too much, he should be an adult and discuss it with you, not make passive aggressive digs like that. Nobody’s forcing him to take you/go on this trip, why is he going if he doesn’t want to go?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 02:47 AM
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Mhk, maybe not so much then. I’m still surprised mom hasn’t told the others though, most of the traditional Asians I know are huge gossips. Y’all should talk together and make up your minds as to what you really want and if you can’t agree, walk away.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 01:28 PM
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Well, I got a job as a nanny, and I was forced to learn to cook, very quickly. You could do that. Just look for a family that want you to cook for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 08:56 AM
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Sweetie... she’s Asian, and her parents are strict, ie, traditional Asian values. In traditional Asian culture, a woman doesn’t introduce a man to her parents (and a man doesn’t introduce a woman to his parents) unless they consider the person a SERIOUS relationship prospect- ie, they really like the person, and could possibly, not necessarily, but very possibly, see themselves marrying you. If her family really is traditional Asian and really does follow traditional Asian values (ignore me if t…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:51 AM
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What was the gift? Was it knitting or something? Perhaps she just enjoys crafting for friends if so. If it wasn’t, how expensive was it? $20USD value or lower is all good. Anything above that I’d be iffy about unless she’s also a ridiculously good personal friend (in that case, maybe $50 USD value.) Anything above $50 USD I’d be seriously raising an eyebrow at especially if you have no friendship outside.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:39 AM
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I used to work in childcare, and as we’d tell the children, “Use your words.” “Oh, hello Linda, how are you? It’s so lovely to see you! I hope you had a good week. Listen, I’d love to catch up with you properly some other time soon, and I’ll text you tomorrow, but I’m with a couple of guy friends now, so I’ll talk to you later. Ok? Bye!” If she asks if she can join, say, “Maybe another time, we’re talking about something personal, I’d still love to catch up with you one on one later in the week.…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:33 AM
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I’m going to be honest with you. I think this is a good thing. So she’s supermodel hot (sure she is, until she hits the wall) and super educated in her career. And her career is supposedly better than yours. Great. Super nice personality she’s got there. Note sarcasm. A relationship starting on trash and deceit. How lovely. She’s going to make a super presentable wife for a respectable businessman with that attitude someday. Not. The guy also sounds like a plate spinner. Avoid them by refusing t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 01:56 PM
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Which is what DNA testing is for.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:47 PM
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Still no reason to be an absolute fucking retard and not use a condom. Or get a vasectomy. You nut in someone and it goes wrong, you deal with it.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:59 AM
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I wasn’t abused, neglected or dirty. It’s just that most of my clothes were either gifts or from the thrift store. When I asked my mom for a PS1, she immediately said no, because my parents couldn’t afford it. Same with a game boy or any other new technology. The TV was an old thing out of the 70s that only had three channels and no remote. I was 13 when we finally got it replaced, so about 2005. When I was really young, we only had one car and it was second hand. We never bought a brand new car…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 12:39 AM
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Could he then say, “In that case, I don’t want a job where I’m spending a lot of time away from my family. I’m happy with my current roll thanks.”? That then would put the ball in the employer’s court as to how badly they need someone?
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 02:55 PM
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In his shoes, I’d take the travel job, but not for a 3% raise. That’s pitiful. It’s your husband’s ultimate choice as he is the captain, but personally I would bargain for a much higher percentage of a raise if the new job required a high percentage of travel.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 02:53 PM
2

A woman can still absolutely get pregnant on her period, it’s very possible! Please, never do that again! Also, never just take a woman’s word that she’s taken plan B. Go with her and pay for it yourself and watch her take it.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:40 PM
14

I have yet to meet an Asian guy that doesn’t except for the people that attended the Lord’s Recovery church I went to first year in college, which is banned in China. I guess they would order coke, or they’d order one beer and nurse it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 07:27 PM
5

Option number one, I personally wouldn’t do because a) child support amount in Vietnam would be far less, he could literally just send 2-300 a month and be done with it. If he did do option one, personally go with her and make sure she gets it done, there have been women who take money meant for an abortion and then ‘change their mind’ and don’t say anything until it’s too late.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:16 PM
11

Teach English. Dude, there are tons of schools that hire native English speakers, even if you don’t have your degree yet. Ask around.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:06 PM
2

You have a pension at 27? I assume that’s a military pension? In that case, do the right thing and pay child support. You could bounce, but that would make you a loser and a coward. Also, the cost of living and value of currency in Vietnam are much, much lower than the USA, so to be honest, I don’t buy your excuse that you can’t afford it. You could literally send $300 a month and that would take care of the rent and probably a lot of the groceries too. I know this because I live in Asia, if you…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:04 PM
17

I work at an adult training centre where by Western standards we’re worked very hard, on paper we put in eight hour days but in reality it’s more like 9.5-11 hour days, depending on how much planning and paperwork you have to do. People back home think me and my coworkers are being worked hard. Hearing this makes me think otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:38 PM
9

What’s it like being married to a chinese guy? What issues have you come across?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:25 PM
30

Yyyyyeah... also I don’t particularly want a husband that uses hookers. I apologized but I’ll keep it in the back of my mind. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:22 PM
44

Ok I sent him a WeChat message apologizing and explaining that I’m from a different culture and I was wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:11 PM
24

Ok. Understood. May I ask, what would you do if it was your husband who was always doing this?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:03 PM
44

Sigh... so even if his boss calls him up at 3am and tells him to go, he has to? I guess if that’s the case, I’ll apologize.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:00 PM
5

“We don’t think that men are only good for their money.” Oh, so that would completely explain my permban then. My mistake. Saw a thread on there titled, “The only thing a man is ever good for is money, change my mind,” saw a ton of women agreeing so I disagreed and used my own dad as an example. Got accused of lying and banned because apparently men never look after terminally ill wives.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 08:09 PM
4

Fuck no.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 12:13 PM
-3

The person actually has a point on this one. After fucking a guy for longer than fifteen minutes, I sometimes start to hurt. It’s not always easy to speak up. It’d be great to have a guy ask, “Hey, been awhile, you still ok down there?” It’d probably boost morale too and make me wanna keep going for longer. Consent violation, no. Selfish, a little bit.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 11:49 AM
2

Nurse Ratchet found Twitter.
/r/MGTOW28/10/19 12:59 AM
2

Oh good grief. Reported for rule zero and spreading probably worse advice than I’ve ever seen on r/mgtow and r/femaledatingstrategy combined. Hope you’re banned!
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/19 01:08 PM
1

I agree. They claim to be men going their own way, but still allow women so much rental space in their heads. I get women can be abusive. My ex best friend was incredibly abusive. But to be obsessed with abusive women that you have to tear down everything about women, including labeling female teachers as ‘fake work’ and saying ‘teachers have it easy because they get three months off a year’? My mom was a teacher and no they fucking don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 04:17 PM
5

I think that for some women who really don’t want a marriage or kids, striving after traditionally masculine goals works and can leave them fulfilled. Look on subs like r/childfree. Thing with fds is that they claim to be feminists and want to be equal and have equal rights with men, but still expect men to take on all of the traditional male responsibilities, for example constantly paying for expensive dates and taking on the bulk of the household expenses. You can’t have it both ways. Either y…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 03:40 PM
13

Ugh. I’m a woman and I got perm banned from there, first time for using the word slut to quote someone else who used it. I messaged the mods and they lifted it, then second time, I got perm banned because they thought I was a man. I’m a woman, unless somehow I got magically changed into a guy without me noticing. Reason I got accused? I a) refused to agree with their all men are idiots circlejerk and used my own father as an example. My dad, who went back to school, took out student loans and go…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 02:54 PM
3

Making excuses for him gives him power. It’s what he wants. Some people will always think you are the problem and it’s never the man. Avoid them. It’s not your job to argue with or convince them. There are other people in the world who will stay on your side. He told you he didn’t want to be intimate anymore because he was scared of being accused of something because he knew what he did. A reasonable and good man would have talked it out and listened. This man immediately went to invalidation. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 02:36 AM
3

facepalm he knew what it meant. Trust me. And IF he didn’t, he SHOULD have ASKED. He could SEE you were in pain, he should NOT have kept going without ASKING when you said to STOP! YES, he’s a rapist!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 10:20 PM
1

I disagree with trying to get a baby through adoption as young as possible. There are many valuable, beautiful older children who would love to have a family too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 05:16 PM
5

You obviously haven’t met many feminists. My mom was a second wave feminist and would have been horrified at the part about finding a strong captain capable of leading and letting him be head of the household. She’d probably have blown a gasket. Especially hearing her daughter talking about it. Also, many (not all) feminists don’t support the whole SAHM thing (although my mom did it). I guess an example of being into RPW too much would be taking a 1950s relationship to an extreme.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 03:48 PM
7

Personally, I think a woman who wants a fulfilling, real relationship, a strong, faithful on both sides marriage for life and a strong captain capable of leading. And who is willing to put the work in to earn and cultivate it. Personally I wouldn’t want to give a man like you describe above the time of day.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 03:25 PM
4

I wouldn’t. ‘Men’ like that do this deliberately and don’t give a shit about the pain they inflict. In fact, they delight in the knowledge of the trauma it causes their victims. Either block him or go to the police. Or both. If you have shitty police in your area, I wouldn’t trust them either.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 03:18 PM
4

Rape. He’s a rapist with a capital R. No ifs, buts or maybes. Fuckhead belongs in jail, right along with the cuntsmear who did it to me. Probably won’t with the fucked ‘justice’ system we have. Hope he burns in hell, it’s what they all deserve.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 03:11 PM
1

Hi! I’m a good nanny! I also know many good nanny friends and met many good nannies in nanny college! You probably aren’t looking in the right places. Ask at churches, nanny colleges and teachers/kindergarten training colleges to see if anyone wants to earn extra money. Those places usually have people of better character.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 03:04 AM
1

Honestly, when I’m married, I want to hire a cleaner. Having worked as a nanny and cleaner, I would do housework, but would also give up designer boots to hire one.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 03:02 AM
2

I had a nanny and was a nanny. I was three years old and I remember my nanny smacking me for minor things like not sitting in my car seat properly. I certainly don’t remember her the way you did. A different nanny was Filipino and my mom’s friend. She still keeps in contact with us. I also have been a nanny, for three years. I’ve always tried to do my best for my kids. But nannies are expensive, especially if you’re hiring one full time. For example, I would charge 2600 USD a month for full time…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 03:00 AM
12

Be very careful about side pieces. You have already had one birth control failure, you do NOT need a second, especially from an affair. A sex doll will look bad in court, but a side piece if you’re found out, especially with another accident, will look ten times worse. You could get baby trapped too (lied to about BC or sabotaged). I’d even be careful about your wife doing that tbh. Don’t trust anyone and get the nastiest lawyer you can find. Get second and third opinions too.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 02:50 AM
4

By being a SAHM, you are literally saving the family money on daycare fees and also you’re saving your kids’ mental health. Daycare fees unless they’re heavily subsidized usually cost as much as or more than the mortgage. A SAHD is also acceptable but it doesn’t sound like this guy wants that. My suggestion would be to stay home for the first year, then go back to work 1-2 days a week. Do literally anything related to your career even if it doesn’t pay that much. Reason being, you don’t want a f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 03:23 PM
1

Try to keep the courts out of this and just have the lawyers act as mediators. I agree that if your wife makes more than you, especially 15k more than you, paying alimony is stupid and paying CS is too if you have 50/50 or kids mostly living with you. Make an appointment for you, her, and both your lawyers to meet and draw up a formal written agreement and finalize everything ASAP. Take a personal day off work and tell her to as well - so there are no distractions. Don’t agree to anything until …
/r/MensRights14/10/19 05:01 AM
-1

Same here, except for the fact that literally 90-95% of the people I studied and the people in my textbooks from tenth grade right through to third year university history were men. We didn’t really study women. Same with philosophy, classics, etc. So that is literally gendering history. You can’t say you don’t want gendered history and that it’s wrong for women to have their own month recognizing their achievements when people don’t learn about them in class. So as my ex would say, you want som…
/r/MensRights10/10/19 05:52 AM
-1

OP, if you really think this is a big deal, my suggestion is to fix it yourself and create your own men’s history month.
/r/MensRights10/10/19 02:53 AM
-1

No, they weren’t. I think I would have noticed if they were. You saying that there should be a men’s history month just because there’s a women’s history month or that this is unequal treatment is like saying it’s oppressive and discriminating against English speakers in New Zealand to have a Maori language week, but not an English language week... when 90% of the population speak English as their first fucking language. If you really think it’s that unfair, do something about it and create your…
/r/MensRights10/10/19 12:15 AM
-1

They do. 90 percent of what we covered in my high school and university history classes were men’s achievements. Not sure why that needs pointing out but ok.
/r/MensRights09/10/19 07:30 AM
1

I mean, I think we might have done Curie briefly, and I also did a project on De Beauvoir in 10th grade philosophy, but out of a class of 30 girls all doing research projects on different philosophers, I was the only one that got given a woman. All the other girls got far more well known people like Isaac Newton. So I think in this area it’s still not an MRA issue as far as recognition or disadvantage for men is concerned.
/r/MensRights09/10/19 07:22 AM
3

What happened to making the kid stand?? When I was old enough to go to school, that was what I was made to do. Fuck this parent standing for the kid nonsense.
/r/MensRights09/10/19 06:57 AM
3

You weren’t obligated, and my mother and also my high school wouldn’t actually allow us to sit down if an adult was standing unless we were really sick or something. However... if the mother wanted to just swap seats to sit next to her kid and she was still offering you a seat, not expecting you to stand up, and she wasn’t bitchy about it, I’d have done it as a matter of courtesy cos it wouldn’t cost anything.
/r/MensRights09/10/19 06:48 AM
5

No, I looked it up online. Basically, women start out with more money than men, they get $240 passing go money while guys just get the regular $200. Instead of investing in property, you invest in inventions created by women. So I guess it could be useful to play if you wanted to introduce your kids to the game and wanted to go easy on them, but then, you could just play with the original set and give them more money. There’s also monopoly millennial which instead of letting you buy property let…
/r/MensRights09/10/19 06:39 AM
1

Unpopular opinion, maybe because I’m a woman myself. I think there are a lot of areas of society like law courts, DV and rape resources and custody battles where men are often treated unfairly. This however isn’t one, I don’t think. I studied history all through high school and minored in it in university and one thing I can tell you is the bulk of people we studied - not all, but most - were men. I think the most well known woman we studied was Rosa Parks in about 10/11th grade at high school. …
/r/MensRights09/10/19 05:04 AM
35

I don’t really know the ins and outs of my parents’ marriage, but I will say one thing: when my mom got terminal cancer, my father did the bulk of her care and all the heavy lifting. He fought for her to be allowed to come home from the hospice so that she could die at home, and would have done the extra work to make sure she was locked after (he would have had help, but it still wouldn’t have been easy). He was ultimately overruled by the social worker who decided my mom neeed care from qualifi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 01:35 PM
3

Probably the case, because in all honesty, the book was aimed at women rather than men, so they could relate to it more if it was written by a woman than a man. That being said, I’m a woman and I’ve never liked it that much. I’ve been a part of the BDSM community in some form or other since I was 21, and I think this is a poor representation of true BDSM, and even promotes unsafe practices such as flogging across the stomach. Family First (New Zealand version of Focus on the Family) and the BDSM…
/r/MensRights08/10/19 11:54 AM
110

Seconded. Sources to back this up, please.
/r/MensRights08/10/19 03:01 AM
2

Fuck that guy has a gorgeous accent. Anywho... I don’t think, especially after all the media shitstorm it’s caused, the school would actually be stupid enough to put the little boy on the register. At least I really fucking hope not! I have seen some stupid shit nannying and working in ECE I never thought would happen before so who knows, really? I guess the kid could just show a a future employer the articles as proof of what happened? Would that work? Fuck this whole thing is stupid.
/r/MensRights07/10/19 03:58 PM
3

Why is this posted here?? It’s not an MRA issue. A hotel or spa or gym or whatever for women only isn’t an MRA issue. There are lots of spas, hotels, gyms etc that men can use. If you go to Iran’s cities of Tehran and Qom, you’ll even find a small taxi company that hires only female drivers and carries only women, girls and boys under 13. The reason? The Islamic religion says that women shouldn’t be alone in a room or vehicle with a strange man, and while most Iranians don’t care that much and j…
/r/MensRights06/10/19 03:11 PM
1

It’s more like this: Imagine you want to participate in a bread baking competition. You’re out of flour, so you borrow a bit from your neighbor. After you already baked the bread, you then discovered that the competition has a fee to enter, so you ask the same neighbor to help out with that cos you don’t get paid till next Tuesday. You enter and win, then get prize money. Neighbor is then pissed they weren’t even acknowledged or offered even a small share of the prize money. You then decide to c…
/r/MensRights05/10/19 05:39 PM
1

Lol. I’m actually a female MRA. I willl give you kudos for saying that a guy refusing to take responsibility for his kids is a sign of cowardice, depending on the situation - I wouldn’t put it past some women to babytrap a guy just because she could. The vasectomy argument is a fair point, except for the fact that my Dom tried for twenty years to get one from age 26-47, kept telling his doctors on no uncertain terms did he ever want kids and kept being told to fuck off and that they’d never appr…
/r/MensRights05/10/19 04:03 PM
2

Either way, if I don’t wanna waste my life raising a kid I shouldn’t have to just because someone else thinks abortion is the worst thing ever.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 02:57 PM
-3

A moronic socialist healthcare system... right... you do realize that every developed country except the USA has a universal healthcare system which means by definition it’s not socialist. Not wanting to sell your house to pay for chemotherapy if you get cancer doesn’t make you a moronic socialist. And btw, expecting people to not have sex unless they want a kid makes you a fucking retard. Do you only have sex to procreate? No? Then stfu and stop fucking moralizing about how abortion is killing …
/r/MensRights05/10/19 02:53 PM
8

The USA is a country that has: A shitty low af minimum wage The ONLY developed country in the world with no universal or single payer health system. Student loans out the ass Government debts in the trillions One of the highest maternal death rates in the developed world Few decent jobs because the industry jobs are getting sucked dry and decent jobs are hard to get and pay is shit and not what it used to be Most people in their 20s either live at home or live with roommates because housing is m…
/r/MensRights05/10/19 12:59 PM
4

Reverse the genders: we cut our daughter’s clitoris off fully knowing that it’ll reduce sensation and maybe ruin sex for her forever, I regret nothing. To each their own. People would be calling CPS. This really is no better.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 12:55 PM
5

You can just be taught to pull back the foreskin and shower or wash it. You wouldn’t cut a girl’s labia/vulva because it is easier to clean that way when you could just teach her to clean down there properly, this is the same thing. I get that you like your circumcised penis and good for you, but you should have been able to decide for yourself when you were at least old enough to understand what it was and say yes or no and have that respected, same with the way ear piercings should be (althoug…
/r/MensRights05/10/19 02:34 AM
1

Well I had a relationship for 6 months with a guy who had a vasectomy and the sex was fine and satisfying enough, afaik he never had a problem like that and never mentioned having constantly uncomfortable balls. I could ask him, but it sounds to me like your first doctor fucked up.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 02:16 AM
1

Absolutely horrifying! Didn’t your girlfriend say something?!
/r/MensRights03/10/19 04:16 PM
1

If I may ask a personal question, how did it affect your sex life? That’s steep!
/r/MensRights03/10/19 04:14 PM
2

I’m in China and I work with white South Africans, one never wants to go back because of the violence, another is going back to stay with family until she can get a visa for Australia and then she says she hopes to not go back except for short visits here and there. I also have a male coloured SA friend in NZ who said that businesses are forced to hire unqualified black people as place holders because there’s a quota, they could train them and some do, but he said many don’t even bother because …
/r/MensRights02/10/19 02:54 PM
1

It’s hilarious, I’m a WOMAN and I got perm banned from there today for leaving a single comment, literally the first comment I’d ever made there, because it had the word slut in it. It wasn’t directed at anyone or anything, it wasn’t used as an insult, it was literally used to refer to a r/niceguys post someone else made. Probably they looked at my post history and saw I post here too and that about did it. Lol. Whatever. They can have their sub. I only heard of it because of this one.
/r/MensRights02/10/19 02:43 PM
3

South African universities already give scholarships to black people, both men AND women, for doing nothing, at the expense of white people. Why give black women more scholarships on top of this? Because anyone who knows anything about SA knows those scholarships would almost exclusively be going to black women, not to white or coloured women.
/r/MensRights02/10/19 06:11 AM
1

How much did it cost to be reversed?! From what I read, reversals cost thousands. Going on the pill, no thanks.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 04:26 PM
3

Two long texts a day from someone you said yourself is a busy person doesn’t sound in and of itself first of all like someone who is disinterested. Two short texts a day, yes. Did you actually show any interest yourself or give any indication that you wanted a relationship or anything else than flirting? Doesn’t sound like you did. If you didn’t actually show any interest or tell her you’re interested, sorry mate, as my old boss would say, “my crystal ball is broken.” People can’t automatically …
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:16 AM
4

While I personally would never just believe a guy who said he had a vasectomy without seeing the doctor reports, I do think sexual assault is a valid thing to be charged with if the woman he had sex with agreed to sex with protection, he said he had a vasectomy, and then she got pregnant as a result. It should also work the other way, if a woman says she’s on birth control and lies about it, and her partner thinks he’s protected, he didn’t agree to unprotected sex. So it’s sexual assault.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 02:47 AM
-41

It sucks, but maybe there’s a small silver lining? If you can’t take the subway there and it’s really far from any social services homeless people typically need, sounds like maybe it’s not the best place in the world to have a NY homeless men’s shelter anyway, especially if there are significantly more homeless men than women. Maybe this might be a chance to find a better location for the men near the subway and near the needed services?
/r/MensRights01/10/19 02:38 AM
1

These people really aren’t ok. It sounds like the MIL has a Jocasta complex. He should post on r/justnoMIL, r/justnofamily or r/justnotalk. He might get more sympathy and actual empathy there, those people have much more experience in dealing with Jocasta and rapey/violent mother/grandmother/father’s in law.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 04:05 PM
2

Having been a nanny, I personally think EVERYBODY should be trained for these tasks. They should also teach cooking, budgeting, how to drive from age 14, gardening and growing vegetables, and basic accounting. Shit nobody knows how to do anymore.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 04:03 PM
2

I definitely agree with you. Her and that shit don’t stink attitude reminds me of my former best friend and coworker. Beautiful, beautiful girl, but very manipulative and loved to take money off other people. That being said, if you’re going to call someone a fucking horrible person, especially a mod of what looks like a feminazi leaning sub on that sub’s thread, you might want to justify your position and explain exactly why they’re a fucking horrible person.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 03:57 PM
2

My friend’s dad is an English teacher at a high school in a rough area of New Zealand. When I asked him what it was like, he said, “20% of students ruin it for everyone.” My friend elaborated by telling me about a specific incident where he sent a girl out of class for, I believe, swearing. So she went to the headmaster’s office and accused my friend’s dad of calling her a bitch in front of the class. My friend’s dad, I firmly believe, did no such thing. I wasn’t there, but he’s a very mild mann…
/r/MensRights30/09/19 02:51 PM
2

Well, I was sleeping with a guy for 6 months and he said he had a vasectomy and we talked about doing away with the condoms because of it, but then again, occasionally you hear about a vasectomy being botched, and I thought he was telling the truth but couldn’t be completely sure. Relationship wasn’t serious enough for me to rely on it.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 02:51 AM
1

I’m in China and even there, it’s starting to change. While boys are still strongly preferred by grandparents and great grandparents, and some parents somewhat prefer boys, most parents these days, especially in large or medium size cities, actually don’t particularly mind one way or the other, and some even prefer girls because the government has been giving the people in some major cities incentives and even money to have girls. Reason being is because with the one child policy (now changed to…
/r/MensRights27/09/19 02:45 AM
1

Most places I know celebrate Children’s Day. I’ve never heard of Daughters Day or Sons and Daughters Day.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 02:42 AM
-1

Simone de Beauvoir lived a long time ago when equal pay and 69 cents on the dollar wage gaps were an issue for women. She died in 1986, so her heyday would have been 1940s-1960s.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 02:26 AM
7

She is dumb. It is exactly the same. That being said, never just assume your partner is telling the truth about being on the pill/Depo/IUD/vasectomy, unless you’re long term and you know them ridiculously well.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 04:16 PM
4

I’d like to add to something this guy says though: Maybe she’s having a hard time finding someone now. Maybe there aren’t many options for her now. But: she should remember that she had a wonderful, wonderful husband who loved her, wanted her, chose to be with her and fought to stay wher. He’s not here anymore, but he didn’t divorce her. He didn’t cheat on her. He died fighting an illness so he could stay with his family. Her husband was a good man. He worked with her to raise two beautiful sons…
/r/MensRights26/09/19 03:01 PM
1

My friend in England has a female stalker that’s a family member that has threatened them and their children multiple times, graffitied on their fence once and physically assaulted them twice, and breached the non molestation order numerous times. But because she’s a woman and because she’s sad about being excluded from that side of the family (excluded BECAUSE she does this), the cops and judge feel sorry for her and she hasn’t even had her suspended sentence enforced, just got told that she wi…
/r/MensRights20/09/19 02:58 PM
2

The date on it was yesterday.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 03:04 AM
4

There are actually some women I know of in England who really, really, SERIOUSLY need to be in prison who are still in the community because the cops and/or the judge feel sorry for them. One example: my friend has a female stalker. This stalker happens to be a family member that due to various past incidents they have a non molestation order against. This stalker has in the past physically assaulted my friend at least twice, breached the order at least five times and currently has a suspended s…
/r/MensRights19/09/19 02:52 PM
3

No probably not, my ex coworker was like that, maybe not quite that bad but she had that kind of personality.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/09/19 09:51 AM
1

I’m a woman and just imagined how I would feel and what it would have looked like if my ex who was on crystal meth had done the things in the posts above... he did actually choke me out and drag me out of his room although he didn’t hit me. Yeah, disgusting and frightening. Not funny.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/09/19 09:51 AM
3

Hell, I’m a woman and even I don’t know how to do hair that good.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 09:08 AM
1

Well, if you do even a little casual google searching on the case, the stuff the kids came up with reads more like an LSD trip gone really fucking wrong than a kid experiencing actual sexual abuse. Like I said in my OP: one kid saying Peter drove her to somewhere outside the centre to molest her away from the staff (why would he need to do that if they were also supposed to be in on it?) when he didn’t have a car, license or even know how to drive. Obviously an implanted memory. A kid saying he …
/r/MensRights05/09/19 03:49 AM
3

Just because they were let off and he wasn’t, and it was fundamentally unfair why, (he was a man and gay, they were women and straight so didn’t make as good scapegoats), doesn’t mean they had anything to do with him being locked up. Watch the video. Even if they didn’t go to jail, their lives were still somewhat fucked. The centre was closed, meaning every person right down to the cleaner that worked there lost their job and every child that attended had their routine disrupted. In addition, th…
/r/MensRights04/09/19 08:22 PM
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https://www.newstalkzb.co.nz/news/christchurch/convicted-sex-offender-peter-ellis-passes-away/?fbclid=IwAR0JcWS0igiQ8TWarQqWa5pJRrxwPpdUI-3se_GwNl_m0So8y2ml2jv1bHw#ath Here’s a link to an article about his death and a VERY good video about the history of the case and some clips from interviews with Peter and other people involved, please watch it and let me know what you think!
/r/MensRights04/09/19 08:08 AM
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You’re arguing against child support. For women. You’re an MRA. There are deadbeat mothers too who don’t pay or pay minimum amount to full custody dads. There are lazy dumb mothers who shouldn’t have full custody. I know some. The article literally said the family court tried to push the kids on the deadbeat mother who didn’t want them instead of the father who did, because the system says ALL mothers WANT full custody and NO father ever does! You obviously didn’t read the article properly if yo…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 02:55 PM
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https://goodmenproject.com/guy-talk/brand-the-problem-of-mens-rights-and-child-support/ Might wanna read this article. About a single dad trying to deal with his deadbeat ex wife.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 02:42 AM
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Well yeah, it was her choice to ask for a divorce, but not her choice whether she gets taken back. I have no idea what she’d ask for, I’ve never met the woman. She shouldn’t get support money. The children should get support money into an account for them and their needs alone. Any father worth anything would do that, for his children.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 01:53 AM
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Might not be her choice. Would you want to take back a wife that immediately filed for divorce based on what one stranger said and left you on your own? If I was him I wouldn’t feel like it.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 01:11 AM
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Which is wrong imo. There should be an equally negative outcry against male circumcision.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 03:34 PM
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No, but you’ve obviously not heard of female circumcision in African Muslim/Christian communities. Ie, cutting off or piercing the clitoral hood in its most minor form, or in more major forms, the entire clitoris and sewing up the vagina. And mostly done before puberty. Still, it does tend to get far, far more negative attention and public outcry than male circumcision.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 02:28 PM
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Films that starred some biiiiig name stars too, like Alan Rickman, Maggie Smith, Daniel Radcliffe etc. And don’t forget she Co wrote the Cursed Child. And she also wrote some other non HP novel too.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 03:04 AM
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You can’t file a defamation lawsuit, BUT you can get a lawyer and have them send a legal letter to your HR, certified mail.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 01:58 AM
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If your school’s girls really do treat men like second class citizens, you are missing out on absolutely nothing by skipping out on dating them. There will be lots of lovely, mature women at college who won’t accuse you of sexual assault and you’ll still be plenty young enough.
/r/MensRights07/08/19 01:41 AM
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The dad in this article didn’t seem like they were kids he didn’t even want first of all. And my friend was married for more than ten years and her oldest is nine, so yes, her ex should absolutely be ‘forced’ to pay his share towards the children he created. As for other cases of babytrapping etc? I don’t think it’d be fair for a guy to have to pay for a baby he was trapped into. But I think for child support to not apply, you’d need to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that it was a trap baby (a…
/r/MensRights07/08/19 12:57 AM
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Um, no it’s not? My cousin works in a high earning government job and her husband’s a potter. He has a very good reputation, but there’s still no way they could live on his income... which is why he stayed home with the kids when they were little and she went back to work as soon as they were 3 months old.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 12:52 AM
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Stop using the word feminist and say, you are either a normal person or a sexist? Sounds good to me. My college friend was MRA and he basically said it should be about fairness.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:06 AM
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So marry up. Go find someone who makes more money than you. I personally think it’s sexist towards women that women should always be the lesser earning person in the relationship.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 11:03 AM
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After seeing what my friend has gone through with her abusive ex deliberately quitting his job in order to avoid child support and the UK CS agency refusing to do anything, I think this is a great idea as a deterrent as long as a) the ‘deadbeat’ parents are given lots of warnings and plenty of opportunity to voluntarily pay first so people like this guy don’t end up in jail and b) the law is applied equally to narcissistic deadbeat moms and c) if they prove they genuinely can’t afford it, rather…
/r/MensRights31/07/19 10:32 AM
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I didn’t like P and G anyway because they test on animals. Didn’t realize they own Gillettte.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 12:11 AM
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3 years jail for triple talaq is excessive. Maybe a fine or a couple months jail. But three years?! When it’s already void?! Come on.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 11:45 PM
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You come across as a first class douche. For real. You felt entitled to touch someone who clearly said she didn't want you touching her like that?! And then go online and insult her by calling her bitch, cunt, ugly etc?! Fuck you!!! I couldn't care less if you'd bought her wine or dinner or what, it doesn't mean you're entitled to shit! I would have asked you to leave too.
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