I've avoided sex all my life, rejecting women regularly. I've learned a lot of TRP knowledge from my own experience of trying to make myself unattractive. I guess I see myself as upper class so that's a part of it, I've always been called handsome, and I have a naturally massive ego. I am very familiar with most of the "head games" on here instinctively so perfecting them is not posing a problem (I always prided myself on not developing the ability to play them, or if learning did slip through, I would use it to sabotage myself. Never worked, especially not on my single mother, my intentions were always lost on her). I have no doubt that I can get into the game and have things moving full steam ahead within a year or two, with all of the information I'm taking in, if I just want to join the party.

BUT, I have made it this far, and I have the perfect opportunity to give a fully monogamous relationship a shot. I want a level of intimacy that only exists between exclusive couples. I've known some, and it's a whole other level to me. When it comes to personal development I think starting at the beginning is the only way to get to the end (probably not the end you're thinking of if you're currently submerged in corporate America).

I have met a young woman I would call "the one." I don't think I have oneitis but I guess a large part of me still wants to have it. I'm ready before I begin to go elsewhere if it's required. She is quite a bit younger than me and she has zero experience. She lives with her (feminist) mother.

I'm ready to go get started but my father is a pathetic man who has coasted by on his looks and class without ever developing as a person. I am looking for advice, for points to remember, for support from men in general.

The girl who's after me is extremely intelligent (so am I). She has daddy issues (so do I). She likes reading, knitting, cooking, hiking, etc. She is a reasonable person who also wants to get to "the end" of a relationship. She's younger than me so that dynamic could create a buffer for my mistakes.

I guess what I'm asking is not how do I create a perfect relationship, but what pitfalls should I be most aware of in my situation?