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1

Totally normal bro. Soldier on.
/r/seduction27/02/16 09:53 PM
3

This is not about "gasp commit to a gf* or ONS or bullshit like that. This is about not letting your cock lead you around.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 01:21 PM
2

Have you ever made a joke but nobody laughs? However that joke is so funny that you yourself cannot stop yourself laughing. So as everyone looks at your stoically you laugh even more. That's self-amusement. You say something and you experience it yourself. Same with pushes and pulls. You don't drop one and then pull out a notepad and write down your observations. You throw one, laugh or not and move on to the other. Obviously you need to catch their reaction at all, but that's like 5%. There's a…
/r/seduction01/02/16 11:52 AM
3

It's like meditation. The more you resist a thought, the more it comes up. Just be like meh
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:47 AM
1

The texts seem very unrealistic to me. Also how does such a well accomplished alpha preach about morality, laws of God and whatever in the end?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:51 PM
1

Say sure and tell her to bring her girlfriends. Their boyfriends too and now that you have a large following behind you at the bar, get the bartender to give you like 9 shot glasses of water. Tell them it's a special new drink and then watch them down the water after thanking you. You might have to bribe the bartender like a buck or so, totally worth it.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:28 AM
1

Online game and real game are vastly different. In real life you can talk your ugly face away, but online no matter how amazing your text game is, if your profile pics are horrible, you're fucked. Jeffy's THE PROGRAM highlights all the differences and how to exploit them.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:06 PM
-1

Back when I got started, escalation was a big problem for me. I'd go into set, open with no problem, hold conversation pretty well and soon enough I'd find myself getting bored. This girl is not interesting. I don't care about her trip to Venice and her manicure. If you get bored in set, it's an indicator you're not pushing yourself. Your brain is sly as fuck. Instead of telling you Dude, you're scared shitless of escalating, let's get the fuck out of here. it convinces you that she's boring, bu…
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:03 PM
9

Fake it till you make it mate.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 11:06 PM
1

Girls ping off of you.
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:15 AM
2

If you guys had not agreed to be exclusive when she had the ONS you have no grounds whatsoever to get upset. Either suck it up or end it with her. If you guys had agreed to be exclusive that is another ball park.* *My own personal approach advocates non-possessiveness. I will not tie up a girl in an exclusive relationship because I myself do not want to be tied down. She can fuck whoever, and I'll do the same. This does not mean my approach is better. If you want to be exclusive with the girl an…
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:07 PM
1

This is a different question then. Your post was about when you two are not even exclusive but you feel bad when you hear about her exes.
/r/seduction18/01/16 12:07 PM
13

No one is boring. How true is that statement? Doesn't matter. However if you approach this problem with the mindset that some people are boring and you just have to struggle to make it work, you'll fast be discouraged. A better viewpoint is No one is boring. They just need to open up. What are the practical steps for making any conversation interesting? * Listen. If you're just waiting for your turn to speak, you might as well be talking to the wall. Really listen what the other person says. It …
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:43 PM
25

Feeling like that is normal. Does not justify it as a good thing though. It stems from insecurity. It's about oh is my dick as big as her ex's? Is she really screaming or faking it? Is this date idea all taht good? Maybe she's seen better. Your ego wants to protect your sense of self and sometimes can be pretty subtle. You don't even think those thoughts, and yet you're angry but you don't know why. Let me put it to you that if you were Drake and the girl you were fucking had been with a few oth…
/r/seduction17/01/16 06:33 PM
2

You ought to have greater problems than this.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:25 PM
3

I don't understand possessiveness at all. Now certainly some women took me up on the "You fuck whoever, I fuck whoever, I don't mind." but ironically a lot stayed very faithful. That's it. You plant that seed in their brains and watch them go crazy. Now yes I was going out every weekend, but to these girls they thought I was getting pussy 24/7. There's lots of crying, drama(depending on the girl), but in the end they got so hooked. Make of that what you will.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:19 PM
0

I'd go for it.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:09 PM
2

Do you have approach anxiety?
/r/seduction16/01/16 02:15 PM
3

I'd stick with English is pretty universal. If you do want to dabble in German that's okay too. I once had a girl curse out in Portuguese. No idea what she said but it was hot! It's not about the content, it's about the energy and emotions you convey.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:14 PM
1

You gotta go to Amsterdam
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:25 AM
7

Those language exchange groups are pretty easy. It's pretty much warm approach, since you're supposed to walk around and talk to people. Also babysteps mate, don't set yourself huge goals. You're not going to fuck anyone anytime soon. Enjoy the small victories, like 1 min convo with a stranger, 2 min etc. Getting a wing helps.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:22 AM
1

Just talk about crazy stuff. Be polarizing. If she asks you how you are, tell her you're pissed or something.
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:20 AM
1

Lots of eye contact and physicality. Repeat same words, no problem. Enjoy the challenge
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:20 AM
5

Smile Did the same mistake as you in the beginning. Okay, no more nice guy. "Hey you! Fuck you!" If you're standing there with a mean expression on your face, you're just being hostile. Instead after every "polarizing" thing you say, smile, so they you're joking. And you are.
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:17 AM
0

Why are you trying to game your best friends?
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:12 AM
-1

Mate I saw you got lots of advice here about game and it's not rocket science. You can learn it. However if you're truly upset, I'd consider taking a bootcamp. Yeah the good ones(not all, most are bullshit, you have to select carefully) are expensive as fuck, going up to $2,000 or something, but you have the money. It won't be a magic pill. You won't change over night, but it will cut through the bullshit and kick you in the right way.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:10 AM
2

This is bullshit. People assume a lot of things before going into the game. If you were approaching with some regularity, you'd know that your hobbies are not holding you back. You just need to put yourself out there and interact with people.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:13 PM
2

If you're going to do it, at the very least do it for other than "I tried Tinder for 2 days with 0 success."
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:09 PM
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They love it
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:08 PM
1

Yeah been there multiple times. You can't help him. I've tried that and people tend to get defensive and often they start to resent you. You've accomplished nothing and now he hates you. Just do your thing. Keep going out and having fun. If he is intrigued enough and asks to come with you, take him, but if he hasn't said anything, leave him be.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:47 PM
12

Her place Dark street
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:44 PM
4

Why is the sex not awesome?
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:05 PM
8

This.
/r/seduction04/01/16 03:01 PM
1

Afterparty; I'm just going to drop something at my place.; I want to show you a video, movie etc. You're right that they know that the offer is ultimately for sex, but you not coming out and saying it shows you're not socially retarded.
/r/seduction03/01/16 10:50 AM
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The whole IOIs or signs thing is bullshit in my opinion. The feminine by its very nature is not one to take initiative and put itself out there, sometimes not even subtly. Also the feminine is so flimsy. One moment they like you, one moment they don't, so waiting for "the signs" is counter-productive. A better strategy is to assume attraction and go for it, hook and vibe. Won't work 100% of the times, but you won't be left with your dick in your hands waiting for IOIs.
/r/seduction03/01/16 10:48 AM
2

You're overthinking this. Being direct is better though.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:09 PM
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I don't think getting the mother wet is what his little badass intended
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 08:04 PM
4

Well of course she was going to say she wasn't going to fuck you. That's shit test 101 for you. Read the sidebar or watch some videos mate. However, it's a learning experience.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:58 PM
7

Don't take the things that chicks throw at you so seriously. Whatever "deep observation" they make about you is bound to be bullshit. Haha cool, so what do you say for Friday?
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:57 PM
1

Go out without the intention to game. People are people. If you join a group and genuinely don't want anything from them and simply want to share a good time, they'll be receptive to it. Even if it doesn't work, who cares. You're only visiting, you'll be out of there soon enough.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:55 PM
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Some of the most "emotional connection"-y sex that I've had it's been one night stands. Just because you don't know the other person really well, doesn't mean you can't really really fucking connect with them physically. Actually that's even more possible since you'll probably never see them again and you can really let yourself go. And no you're not the only guy 'like this'. I used to think this too in the beginning. "Oh unlike those fucking players, I will fuck the girl with my heart." That un…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:53 PM
2

Whenever things are awkward/creepy, make them funny. This is creepy af : stalking you and messaging you on FB but the number you gave me was wrong. If that was on purpose, do let me know and I'll cancel my plans to come and stare through your bedroom window tonight. :)
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:48 PM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:44 PM
8

The thing with texting is : it's flimsy and uncertain as fuck. Don't look at it as a spear to try and catch that one fish, look at it like a net. It doesn't matter if she never initiates conversation or takes hours to respond. I've met up and hooked up with girls whose texting was far worse, also I haven't. You don't know. Just keep texting her, but have like 20 other girls that you're also texting.
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:42 PM
1

Good on you to have realistic expectations. Send her the red heart emoji and leave it at that.
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:39 PM
1

I mean you can sport it for shits and giggles, but since it's such an easy fix, why leave it there?
/r/seduction02/01/16 06:51 PM
1

Yeah definitely overthinking. And the whole "clingy" and "don't want to mess it up" do not help a lot either. To be perfectly honest with you, most likely you will mess it up. I've messed it up when I was in your shoes and that's completely fine. Learning experience. You'll dust yourself off and do it better next time. However maybe you do succeed. After all not all our parents were PUAs. People get laid.
/r/seduction02/01/16 02:48 PM
0

Haha yeah totally agree. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:44 PM
2

It's business. They would that taken this into account before going into it. There must be a provision in the contract with regards to accidental pregnancies and so on. Also their administering of the pill is probably closely monitored. Idk man, a porn subreddit might be more helpful.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 02:41 PM
1

Female porn actors get paid around 4 times more than the male ones. The guys who agree to do gay porn can match their salaries, otherwise no.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 02:37 PM
1

Question : you use condoms every time, right?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:36 PM
8

Why not tell her? I know this sounds very /r/relationship-sy but seriously tell her. Sometimes your brain will not rest until it knows that at the very least you tried. Don't even try too hard to 'make it work', simply walk up to her and ask her out.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 02:33 PM
1

Get rid of her quick. I'm not saying it will be easy, but the more time you spend together, the more 'memories' she'll have of you and her together to justify her clinginess.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 02:31 PM
1

The furthest thing from a natural. Quite a bit of difficulty. I didn't read any of the famous books(The Game and so on), rather I learned through videos. Simple Pickup introduced me to it and then I continued with RSD.
/r/seduction02/01/16 09:56 AM
1

You need to learn the definition of LTR mate. You don't go on an "LTR" after having been with the person for several months prior. 2 months?! That's a hook up.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 09:42 AM
3

If it's one night stands, always wrap it up and you don't even have to ask. If it starts getting serious with a girl then...actually I don't see the point in asking. I don't think anyone will admit to having HI-fucking-V, that is if they know in the first place(which the vast majority have no clue). Ask them to get tested and show you, you do the same for the sake of fairness and then you can start talking about going on the pill.
/r/seduction02/01/16 09:39 AM
1

Chasing state is one of the things that you learn not to do after you've spent some time in the game. State is so flimsy, it comes and goes and sometimes it doesn't come for whatever fucking reason and then you use it as an excuse I'm not in state bro or get frustrated I'm not in state bro!!! Instead of state, focus on the process. If you feel great, keep on approaching, having fun and push things to the edge a little bit(that's how you improve). If you feel like shit, don't not move. You're not…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 09:37 AM
1

Well after some point when you start getting laid with regularity, if pussy was the sole motivator for you it's only logical you'd then give it up. So the chase is a factor, but there are a couple of other things as well. Learning self-amusement changes your life. It makes game so much fucking fun, there is no way you can give it up. In a week where you've slept with a few different girls you feel true happiness. Something about our evolutionary brains being happy for us to have "spread our seed…
/r/seduction02/01/16 09:33 AM
0

How important is dick sucking to you? Personally I'm not too fussed over it. One of my wings though will evaluate a girl's mouth over her tits, body, whatever. If it was him he'd pull up his pants and kindly ask her to leave. I'd expect her to get mad at him, call him a pig and so on and so forth just to see if his frame breaks or not and then 9 times out of 10 she'll get on her knees "begrudgingly" and give him the best blowjob of his life.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:11 PM
0

Just get out of the house.
/r/seduction30/12/15 10:01 PM
1

When you don't know how to respond to something, you actually do. It's your brain freezing afraid of saying the wrong thing.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:19 PM
-8

I wonder why you think the post was not true.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 09:17 PM
1

It is...if she's not down. It's not if she is.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:52 PM
2

Meditating is the shit, but it won't make you a natural per se. Going out more and more will.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:45 AM
12

Yes tried it. Helps A LOT. You do need to be patient though and ironically not focus on results, instead focus on your breathing :) However I've also known people who can't stand it. Usually athletes. They use their respective sports as meditative techniques. So both are possible.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:44 AM
1

Troll?
/r/seduction30/12/15 08:43 AM
2

I'd recommend to focus less on IOI's and more on doing your thing. If you see girl you like, approach, talk, have fun, try to pull and so on. Waiting to see for IOIs will leave you eternally scanning people like Sherlock Holmes and like he you'll remain a virgin :P
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:42 AM
1

Trying to see if she likes you back in order for you not to get shamed when you put yourself out there...doesn't work, unless you can read her mind. Put yourself out there, let her know and then watch what happens. If it's not a positive reaction it's a HUGE learning experience.
/r/seduction30/12/15 08:40 AM
4

Why?
/r/seduction30/12/15 08:39 AM
0

Never draw the line. If the problem is her giving you shit, never give up. You'll be thrown shit all your life and every shit test you pass or fail is a huge learning experience. These extremely bitchy types of girls are like a God send. They'll shatter your frame to pieces, you wanting to 'draw the line' is your frame breaking, but you going back for more is what builds that shit-test-passing muscle. Now, also use your brain. If you're on a date or if she's just spending time with you, by all m…
/r/seduction29/12/15 08:10 PM
2

I find unicorns daily. Haha...no but seriously, everyone is a unicorn. This is what my ex could not get when I asked her to not become exclusive. Oh but how do I know that those other girls are not better than me? Who kisses the best? Me or them? and so on and so on. You can't compare girls. Or at least I can't. I view every girl as a unique path and if you decide to invest time with her, the journey will be unique too. A girl is a slut who's had 200+ dicks inside of her? Well she has this reall…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 08:05 PM
1

I don't know if there's anything else I have left to say on this hah. For now I'd say don't focus so much on not screwing it up with Ms. MRS. This may all be for the better - without the long break I may have pursued a destructive course with her I'd think that's your oneitis shining through, but oneitis or not surely you logically know you can't know if someone is marriage material off one long ass conversation. Years need to pass. With Ms. MRS do continue, but do so as if you don't care whethe…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:56 PM
1

Like with anything good for us that we don't want to do...you force yourself to do it!
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:32 PM
1

I don't have any advice for you. The other commenters seem to be doing a good job, I'd just say you're just 18 and not to obsesses too much over it. As you grow older it's bound to go away on its own.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:29 PM
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Your first ever approach was A GROUP? Well done mate
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:15 PM
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Well first of all I don't think the reason for the craving of emotional connection is due to some bullshit we-are-made-of-stars-and-love nonsense. It comes from the need of variety. Have you read The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose? He gives some pretty good fucking advice(ha) and there's something about 2(actually 3, but I can't remember the 3rd) different frames you can have while fucking. (1) You can be the dominant alpha, no kissing, just pure fucking, slapping, throwing her around the bedroom…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:12 PM
2

Oh wow FIRST GOLD! Thanks mate! Hope it turns out well!
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:35 AM
2

I've had instances of both (1) putting up with the bullshit and her get angrier and (2) not putting up with it and getting happier. We were talking on the phone. Quite late at night. I had shit to do the next day, she didn't. So I'm like "I need to go soon." and she starts saying some shit about how I don't love her and so on and so forth and crying etc. Four hours later, she's crying more, I'm tired, tomorrow I'll be sleepless and pissed. New girl. Learned my lessons. Whenever I didn't want to …
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:29 AM
1

Dude plenty of time. Unless you're pretty hardcase(you don't seem to be) it will take about a year or so for the ball to get rolling. You got AT LEAST 15 good years to slay it. I've also heard of 40-50 year old dudes screwing 20 years olds endlessly. You're cool.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:13 AM
2

The easiest way to have more value than another person is to have more fun than him. Now careful there, don't make it a competition. Doing it just to "show him" will make it seem forced and wah wah wah there you go. Simple formula for that : talk to everyone! Anyone. Not just girls. Anyone. And really listen what they say don't just wait for your turn to speak, but when that comes go forth and just be your usual charismatic self. You seem like you can pull it off. If there's any confrontation, b…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:11 AM
3

I'm too shy anyway is better
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:06 AM
7

Yeah I've been there. You're probably waiting for those movie moments where the girl is ready for you to kiss her and you somehow know...that's bullshit. Or maybe you're waiting for her to respond encouragingly to you escalating, like her nodding her head vigorously as you run your hands over her body. You're the man. You initiate. Start slow, brush hands, hold hands and so on, kiss, fuck, done.
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:05 AM
3

There was something about how in the beginning(a noobie) will crave pussy, simple as. As he gets more advanced in game then pussy holds little value to him. What he craves now is emotional connection. There's nothing special about Ms. MRS, you simply spend some time with her and happened to match emotionally and given all the vapid chicks that surround your brain initiates ONEITIS for fear of losing Ms. MRS. How to get out of it? Expectations. You can't get bored with your other girls. You simpl…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:01 AM
1

No
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:43 AM
4

She feels she screwed up as well. Escalate more on the next date, don't expect her to react positively, just watch out she doesn't give you hard no's. Take her for a walk.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 10:31 PM
8

You're not special mate. We were all told that, that's why we're here.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:54 PM
1

Oh no no. I meant do you get aroused by porn. Do you masturbate so frequently that if you were having sex instead there'd be nothing wrong with your sex drive?
/r/askTRP18/12/15 07:35 PM
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I've tried cold approaches multiple times with pretty much 0 success. Oh no, you tried a couple of approaches and no one sucked your dick yet?! Motherfucker stop focusing on the results. The desperation will ensure you don't get nothing as a result. Focus on the process and be prepared to go the long haul. How? Well for me I admitted that I sucked balls and on my own nothing was going to happen so I dedicated myself entirely to cold approach for a long ass fucking time. I have wings who've gone …
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:18 PM
2

The fact that she was forward and practically asking for a meetup is a Godsend, that doesn't happen often online. From then on it's up to you not to mess it up and you kind of did. Whenever girls are being forward, you brush it off or don't even acknowledge it. She's putting a lot on the line by coming forward like that, you mentioning it more makes her more uncomfortable and also subconciously shows her you don't get that a lot otherwise you'd have handled it with more finesse. What's done is d…
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:03 PM
1

Do you masturbate?
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:53 PM
2

I personally hate movie date ideas especially as a first date for the following reasons : (1) you only have like a quarter of her attention (2) your own attention is divided if the movie is decent (3) you're bored as fuck if the movie is boring (4) escalating can be doubly awkward and cowardly (read : the ancient move). (5) You can build rapport, vibe and escalate much much easier in a dingy bar than then fucking movies. So I'd dissuade you from the idea, but there are people who certainly make …
/r/askTRP18/12/15 12:01 AM
1

Hahaha reminds me of a buddy of mine. He was daygaming and managed to get 3 insta-dates and took all 3 of them to the same Starbucks place, ordering the same drinks and so on. I think the bartender said something like "Oh another one?" and he just laughed it off and that was the end of it. He ended up pulling the last 2 girls at his place. I'd say go for it.
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:58 PM
1

All the nice things about her and all the nice things that she does about you...forget about them. It'd be the same as if a girl stayed with a guy because he buys her so many things. Are you a prostitute? Also after you go through the shitstorm of trying to break up with her, you'll come to resent all of that anyway as emotional manipulation to make you stay. Look at them for what they were and cherish them but they shouldn't play a factor in your break up. I'd have said wait until college to br…
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:55 PM
7

www.rsdnation.com get on that shit
/r/seduction16/12/15 10:59 PM
4

Girls remember the most recent thing you did. Meet her again and that will be the most recent thing you will do and don't be needy.
/r/seduction11/12/15 04:52 AM
2

Get a wing
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:48 AM
1

I'd recommend to go through Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazi first. Amazing book when it comes to networking, mentoring and the like.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:47 AM
3

Babystep it! Whatever you're trying to do, hug, kiss, whatever, start small. Touch arms, play with her hands whatever, get her used to you touching her and then move from there. Practice. When the moment comes to go for the kiss/make the move etc. there will be hesitation and most likely you won't do it. Don't beat yourself up about it and try again either with her or on another date with another girl.
/r/seduction10/12/15 02:05 AM
1

I pushed him then as the snowball started rolling no pushing anymore.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 12:28 PM
1

Oh okay...forget what I said then
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:28 AM
0

Like Approach Anxiety?! That's normal mate. My wing struggled with it his entire life, finally decided to make decision to go out and approach. For an entire month, every day, he went out and approached exactly 0 sets! Walking for hours every day trying to work up the courage to do until he finally broke down and started crying in the middle of the fucking town. Look up stuff on overcoming approach anxiety. Best advice I can give you is to find a wingman.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:25 AM
1

A guy who is in abundance, who goes out regularly and meets a ton of women does not really like a girl without even knowing her properly. That's called oneitis.
/r/seduction09/12/15 02:10 AM
0

Vague
/r/seduction09/12/15 01:56 AM
1

Elaborate. Do you go out every weekend? How many interactions do you have with women in a week? Not in a friendly manner, in a man-to-woman frame.
/r/seduction09/12/15 01:50 AM
1

You could just plow through and do it again. Pretend it didn't happen and so on. If she says no, refer to the awkwardness head on in a funny way and ask again. If no, then next!
/r/seduction09/12/15 01:46 AM
2

You're in scarcity mate and as a result the first female who's close to you, who your brain thinks it has a chance with...she'll receive Goddess status immediately. Go out, approach other women and don't fuck with your best friend's sister.
/r/seduction09/12/15 01:44 AM
5

Yeah okay...not a real shit test though. More like "less than ideally polite communication with a random coworker and I shouldn't be worrying too much about this" type of thing.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 01:43 AM
3

What the first commenter said and I'd also add boundaries. If she says something or does something that you do not appreciate, you call her out on it. Now since she's been testing the waters and finding out she can get away with stuff, your first warnings will be ignored. She'll trample on your boundaries just to see if you mean it. Mean it.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 01:41 AM
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Looking for a discussion, eh?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 01:38 AM
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So much detail on the situation... /s
/r/askTRP09/12/15 01:31 AM
1

This was simply a masterpiece! Thank you for taking the time to write it. I hope to GOD it doesn't ever happen to me and if anything it shows how important is to ALWAYS put on condoms.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:34 PM
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That might actually be an advantage. Best form of social proof, however it also might bite you in the ass. Approach as a normal dude, do what you'd do normally. If she refers to your past, just brush it off, don't brag about it or get defensive.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:10 AM
1

What do you mean "local guy"? You find the RSD Group for your city. Every guy in that group is "local". Some of these groups are closed and you need to be invited in(I know it's a hassle) so might not be so easy to find it. If you do find it, though just post there that you're a complete newbie and looking to go out. RSD Inner Circle is just one of these types of groups. Google "[name of your city] wingman" or "[city] pickup" and you can probably find other groups, join those. Or maybe post on /…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:09 AM
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Do you know what cold approach is? Basically walking up to a complete stranger, strike up convo, pull to your place and fuck. Simple Example Do that! Doing it alone is possible, but daunting. Best way is to get a wing. If you live in a big city there ought to be an RSD Inner Circle Facebook group. RSD(Real Social Dynamics) is company that offers advice on cold approach pickup, there are Facebook Groups for each big city with their students there and you can go out with them as a wing. Also if th…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:58 AM
0

You don't give much detail. Also we don't know if he's bullshitting you or not. However there are few good concepts in play here. Familiarity over time --> If two human beings spend time with each other, no matter if they hate each other or whatever, eventually they will grow closer and more familiar. That's why a girl won't usually fuck you until you've spent about 1 or 2 hours with her or even more. Balls = Past Success --> back when I had huge problems with escalation I used to wonder "What i…
/r/askTRP07/12/15 12:52 AM
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Not a definite guide per se, but my 2 cents on dating. 1-4 are stuff you shouldn't do and 5-6 are what to do : No money! A 5-star dinner with creme brule at the end is the worst thing you can possibly do. First of all it sets this "courting" vibe in which the girl knows to give you a peck on the cheek after the 17th candlelit dinner. Secondly if you're going on multiple dates(as any good aspiring PUA should), you'll go broke. Don't be a cheap-ass! Some guys take the the first point to heart and …
/r/askTRP07/12/15 12:28 AM
1

The more you wonder whether this girl will reciprocate your affection, the more time you're losing. Take her out and escalate physically. You're probably going to fuck it up, no worries, you got the experience move on. It might even work though, you don't need to be an expert at this to get laid.
/r/seduction05/12/15 01:51 AM
2

Not for you then man. Don't worry though.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 02:46 AM
1

I think you can phrase things a bit better. Put "improvising" instead of "lying"...much better.
/r/seduction30/11/15 02:43 AM
1

If you're going to tell him, you're not doing it for him. You're doing it for yourself. If you cared so much, you wouldn't have done that to him in the first place. Now why go ahead and hurt him? You said it right that you have no future with either of them. Distance yourself from her and from your "best friend" and let it be.
/r/seduction30/11/15 02:36 AM
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I like the "X doesn't work for me" > "X is work". I guess you could go even further with "X doesn't work for me now", but it doesn't mean you won't have to use it in the future. Several books emphasize how successful people integrate the concept of doublethink into their lives so much and given the context they either apply A or B but are not attached to either.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:24 AM
3

Slooooooooooow Whenever making a move on her and you're not sure what her reaction will be, you do it slow! Lean in for a kiss, but do it so slow that she can see it coming and have time to turn her cheek. Idk about sexual harassment, but fast, jerky movements will freak her out.
/r/seduction30/11/15 02:20 AM
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No worries man, also no offense on what I'm about to say, just trying to understand. Do you have fun? I mean like mindless fun. You know when you're being very logical and whatever you're doing/saying has value. Like a deep discussion or work or studies. It's valuable to your life, to the world and it's not time wasted, right? However, how do you let loose? You have certainly been to clubs and seen some of the most intelligent people, like high performing students(nerds) or clever young female p…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 02:17 AM
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I'm tempted to go ahead and give you view on it, but the truth is I haven't experienced that myself. However there are some good ideas on vulnerability here.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 02:07 AM
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I would be lying if I said I can relate to what you're saying... Like do you bob your head up and down when you listen to a particularly amazing song? I suppose dancing is like that but multiplied by 10. Your whole body wants to move as a result. So maybe start with the head bobbing and try to expand it throughout the entire body. If you don't bob your head, then maybe dancing is not for you man. Idk
/r/askTRP30/11/15 02:01 AM
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Yeah you did well. Just bear in mind don't be a dick for the sake of being a dick. If she's being reasonable and you have the time, willingness to engage with her, do it.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:52 AM
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Go through this and you'll know what I mean by scaling and automating. I don't think there's any better advice I can give you with regards to online dating apart from that program.
/r/seduction30/11/15 01:46 AM
1

Thing is bullshit like this happens all the time when interacting with girls, the biggest example being flaking. It is "immoral and illogical" and everything else, but it happens. Being angry at it, won't change anything. Best understand I say, but a wing of mine has a strict moral code and so on and he doesn't tolerate and works for him. Do you man.
/r/seduction30/11/15 01:40 AM
1

No age doesn't make a difference.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 12:59 AM
1

Some people simply have the attention span of a goldfish, get distracted and text you days later. That's just their style. You won't change it. Why are you focusing on texting though?! You won't sleep with her via text will you? How did you dates go? Did you escalate? What can you do better?
/r/seduction30/11/15 12:47 AM
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How do you Bethoven's 9th symphony flawlessly? There is no book, no technique to help you here bro. You know why you do it, you know the negative effects that come with the "nice guy" frame. That's enough. Now you go and practice. Best way to implement changes in your social behavior is to interact with tons of people. Regularly go out. You'll notice that you'll do the "nice guy" thing almost involuntarily, it's kind of like a defense mechanism(you're nice, so people will be nice to you). Catch …
/r/seduction30/11/15 12:45 AM
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You attract what you are not what you want. (the great RSD Tyler) Whatever "tips & tricks" you can use to get a girl's number or get her on a date, will not work when she is introduced to your life and see how devoid of coolness it is. However let's be pragmatic. You can't build a social circle from scratch now, nor do you have to. Online dating is cool, but quite intricate and can be somewhat frustrating unless you scale up and automate the process(RSD Jeffy's THE PROGRAM is the Bible for onlin…
/r/seduction30/11/15 12:17 AM
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Well you're looking at this like a guy would. Logically it makes sense that you would spend time with someone that you invite to come and see you. Girls however react much more to emotions and that's how they view situations. If another guy is more emotionally stimulating, you'll obviously hover around him. Also it could be a shit test and shit tests are not necessarily bad, otherwise girls would be spreading their legs for anyone, you have to earn it.
/r/seduction30/11/15 12:11 AM
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I don't think it reflects your value, it reflects your entitlement. I've seen attractive guys make out with old, fat women and I've seen short "unattractive" guys pull 10s. Thing with entitlement is that it changes. Spending 1 whole month gaming in expensive, exclusive clubs with model-type women only will quickly raise your entitlement assuming you're approaching instead of moping around.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 12:08 AM
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You can definitely do stuff to change it : improv classes, comedy classes, simply going out and interacting with a ton of people. However don't consider it to be the plague either. This one friend of mine is very very chilled, boring dare I say, but he doesn't care. People think he's super chilled, grounded, no bullshit-type guy(you have to bullshit a little to be funny). Being comfortable in yourself is super important making good deep connections with people.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:55 PM
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Stuff like this happens. Don't bother analyzing what's going on, what you end up doing is more important. Be social and fun even when she leaves you. This girl I had met from a club(closed her) and we were meeting up to go out just for fun. Her friends were joining us, but also a random guy she had met on Tinder lol. I don't know if it was a shit test(to see whether you can survive without her in a social gathering) or not, since she liked to get people together and go out. So in the beginning s…
/r/seduction29/11/15 11:52 PM
2

Usually you persist a bit. Two minutes, two minutes I just want to get to know you. and keep talking. Persist a couple more times then let it go.
/r/seduction29/11/15 11:43 PM
1

Meditate --> download Headspace or whatever
/r/askTRP29/11/15 11:38 PM
0

How dare that bitch lie to you??!! Who the fuck does she think she is! Next her bro! She's trouble. Actually even better, go fuck her sister then NEXT her! /s
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:19 AM
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You don't LTR previous plates mate. You're simply in scarcity or you enjoy when she chased you. I know it feels so validating when they chase and chase and you're like Nah and when they suddenly stop chasing, the validation is gone and now you become the bitch. By all means call her up. You don't have anything to lose. It might seem weak, who gives a fuck?! However stop talking about LTRs and unicorns. Keep going out and create abundance.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:17 AM
2

What do you mean? Are you in China? They love foreigners there! I never had to pay club covers or for drinks, foreigners get in for free. Also it's widely known that Asia is one of the easiest places for white foreigners to get laid.
/r/seduction25/11/15 11:10 AM
1

Widen*
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:15 AM
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Your sample size of a maximum of 4 is simply not representative of the try population. More efforts are required to whiten the sample.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:14 AM
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Hahaha okay I've been here. Couple of things to bear in mind : If you're trying to escalate and she's resisting and resisting and resisting, the problem cannot be solved with more game! It's not about you. It's about her. She's nervous. She's never done this before, she's afraid she'll look bad, not please you, it will hurt and so on. So keep that in mind. If she's down to lose it and that's crucial then keep in mind that it will not be fun for you. The first session is purely just to open her u…
/r/seduction21/11/15 09:12 PM
1

What kind of dates are you taking these girls to? I usually just go for walks, or shopping(window shopping) or the most is a bar where I pay for her beer tops. Keep it simple, forget the 5 star restaurant and so on.
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:53 PM
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Not bad. Couple of things to bear in mind : Don't expect her to lead anything. You're the man, you need to take charge. If there's kino and she's not reciprocating, that is good. As long as she doesn't say no outright, she's fine with it, she wants to see you lead her. Don't be a Permission Boy asking for kisses and so on. Just go for it. If it doesn't work, change topic simple as. Take her out as soon as possible. Why wait 2 days?
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:50 PM
3

Are you a pretty flower?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 01:37 PM
2

DOUBLETHINK
/r/askTRP17/11/15 08:23 AM
2

Most of which I would presume to lead to sex.
/r/seduction17/11/15 08:21 AM
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She's not going to do shit. That's the mantra you ought to live by when it comes to dates, hell everything. When it comes to escalating past the pleasant friendly chit-chat, YOU need to do that. Yes you will get dates where the girl is giving you the "Fuck me!" eyes and touching your arm lightly and playing with her hair as she bites her lip. That happens in movies(also in real life but like once a year). Most girls will be shy, seem uninterested, prude and so on. You execute the program nonethe…
/r/seduction17/11/15 08:20 AM
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Don't respond. Don't you have other stuff to do? Is texting this girl the centre of your universe?
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:52 AM
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One of the biggest revelations when it comes to texting : You don't have to respond to everything. When the girl affirms something like mhm! or Yea New York was amazing! you don't have to reply. Just leave it. Secondly, you guys don't have to text every day. You're not Romeo and Juliet. If you're trying to keep a number warm, text her once every 4 days or so and you're good. Send her some value-giving text like Woke up at *Woke up at 8:36 this morning. I can tick that off my bucket list. Needs n…
/r/seduction16/11/15 01:12 AM
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Questions like that make it seem like you've got all your eggs in this one basket. Despite how down or hot this girl is, it's best to hitting up other girls. Just send her some funny text now and then(like once a week) and save it for when you actually meet her bro.
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:22 PM
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Just be friendly(FRIENDly) and professional. If she hints at anything change topic or just ignore it.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:17 PM
1

I just wonder if you guys find yourself in that kind of situation sometimes and how do you feel, how do you react, how do you manage to keep your confidence no matter what. Yeah I've seen my wings pull within the first 10 minutes of entering, or simply just kill it when I can't even have a 2 min conversation. How I deal with it? Turn around so you can't see them and keep approaching and have infallible trust that if you keep at it, eventually it will work out. Where does this trust come from? We…
/r/seduction15/11/15 08:56 AM
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Well it's true that in the regions you mentioned : South America, Asia, and a lot of Eastern Europe being white and/or having a Green Card will make them flock like pigeons. That simply doesn't happen in Western Europe. So it's not that it's hard, it's just normal.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:50 AM
1

The Hot Girl Blaze?! Don't tell me you don't know what it is? Here's how you overcome it face-to-face. With texting, it's for logistics only. Ask her out, if she declines 3 times or so NEEEEXT
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:56 PM
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WTF?! Screw confidence, focus on having fun. You have nothing to lose. Just go in the date with the mindset of having fun. If you're being a little insecure bitch, mention it and make fun of it.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:51 PM
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It's practice. Improv classes help or just approaching a lot. However it doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it. Willie Beck is the most boring PUA out there, but he gets results as his inner game is tight.
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:51 PM
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Me neither
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:49 PM
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I got this girl's number while on a rampage and followed up 10 days later. I didn't remember who she was or what she looked like. Neither did she, it was like a blind date. Just address the fact of how "awkward" it is and just talk, talk and talk about stuff you like. If she's not cool, get up and leave.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:48 PM
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It seems like you've set up a pretty good system to get over her what with the workout, busy schedule and regularly going out. Be proud, only like 1% of the 'hurt ones' do that, most stay in their bedrooms and masturbate. Are you going out solo or with a wing? It's always better if it's with a wing. Are you having fun when you go out? In the beginning is easy to view this as a job I have 34 more sets to approach. instead of just mindless fun. While in set, say the most outrageous things, say wha…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 12:43 PM
1

Dude it's all in the vibe that you put out there. You can never say those words, but your shoulders are hunched, your voice is choppy and you're sweating just by staring at her skin...now that's a permission boy. However if you're in the fucking zone, your body language shows you're relaxed, open to anything, your eye contact is steady and relaxed...you can asking her permission 100 times in a minute and it won't come off badly.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 11:45 PM
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Most of the stuff advocated here is not targeted at one specific girl. It's self-development to attract a great woman or women in your life. It's not magic, you can't have anyone you choose. Having said that, you can improve your chances. My advice would be to simply go ahead and make a move. Be chilled about it and see where this girl stands. Living in limbo and analyzing her facebook post songs(which means nothing btw) is painful as fuck.
/r/seduction08/11/15 12:18 PM
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Let me guess...you're completely new to /r/seduction
/r/seduction08/11/15 11:21 AM
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Dude this is nothing. Keep up the good work tho
/r/seduction08/11/15 11:18 AM
1

I totally agree in terms that you should lift. You look better, also it's healthier, but you do it for you! If you want to radically change the way people look at you, go out.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:45 AM
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Cold Approaching. Spinning is not in my control, you need to find plates first. However approaching is in your control so you can do it whenever. Secondly, getting the good reactions(validation) will convince you that you have so much potential when it comes to girls and thus set your mind at ease, fill the gap that is left after she is gone. Note : Validation is a terrible way to game, but it does the trick when it comes to oneitis.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 09:17 PM
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Didn't practice this in front of any mirror, but you can totally try, might be better. I simply went out for like 2 weeks and my only goal was eye contact in every single set. No number, no nothing. I don't know about analogies or anything like. Simply be relaxed, unflinching as you stare into their eyes and have a knowing smirk playing on your lips. Julien had a good video on this. Just escalate verbally and physically. Don't overthink it so much. You'll screw up and come off as uncalibrated, t…
/r/seduction05/11/15 05:01 PM
1

Mhmm
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:31 PM
4

Find a better addiction i.e. cold approach pickup
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:28 PM
1

Netflix
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:27 PM
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I had the same problem myself. Initially I thought I had to eliminate all the fucking around, be James-Bond-like, serious and mysterious and they'd be attracted. Problem is, that's not me and that's boring. You can be funny and get attraction at the same time. Just remember : laser eye, piercing eye contact - radically changes things. At first it will be uncomfortable, but force yourself to do it and works like magic, they subconsciously know that you're there to fuck them not to paint their toe…
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:27 PM
0

Have you considered roleplay? You and her assume a role and play it out for the rest of the night. Some simple roles could include : boss/secretary, client/prostitute, daddy/daughter. Choose one or let me make the choice and instruct her what to wear. When she comes over, grab her and pin her against the wall. Shush her and tell her about the scene. She's your secretary and she's come over at your house to discuss a contract or her monthly performance review, or she's a prostitute that you've ca…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:17 PM
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I care so much about pleasing her Nothing to do with masturbation or NoFap. You're a young man(persumably), you're supposed to get it up several times in a day. It's Performance Anxiety. Cure is simple : don't give a fuck about pleasing her. Let go of your massive ego and the person that you've built. When you're comfortable standing in front of her with a flaccid cock when she's so horny she could break you in half...that's when you'll start to feel blood rush down there.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:22 PM
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2.63
/r/askTRP01/11/15 03:50 PM
2

So you make approaching even much of a big deal in the mind of noobie. Bravo
/r/seduction29/10/15 10:16 AM
1

Cool vid thanks for that. :)
/r/askTRP29/10/15 10:14 AM
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Have you never approached someone who was alone and not doing much? Before the words leave your mouth they turn at you with wide eyes and a wide smile, like you came to save them or something. Have you never had that? MENTALITY : I'm like a shining ball of awesomeness. That poor girl's life would be less rich unless I go and talk to her. Let's go talk to her. Now that's the mentality when you're in state. You've been in state before haven't you? People don't go around in state, it's pretty rare.…
/r/seduction29/10/15 09:27 AM
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You know I was going to start giving you advice, areas you can work on and so on, but you're not going to do shit. People who take action go a little bit like My life sucks, this sucks, this has gone to shit, HOWEVER I tried to do this and this but didn't work. What can I change? THANK YOU GUYS! So fuck off bitch!
/r/askTRP29/10/15 09:20 AM
1

That's not game. That's what everyone does. It definitely is not cold approach.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 08:57 AM
1

Doesn't matter where you do it. What was your first experience like?
/r/askTRP28/10/15 11:02 PM
1

Sets as in cold approaching.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:59 PM
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We look at this and judge it like guys. What would a guy have to do to get 90 women by the age of 22? Obviously exert a lot of effort. Women however, are offered sex all the time. If by the age of 22, you've been propositioned 2000 times and you've taken 90 of those propositions, that's rather conservative. Now to qualify : that might not be the case through and through, but it's something to consider.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:52 PM
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It's pretty common for guys to wifey up the first hot girl they get their hands on. That obviously ends in tears and they're back in the game.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:45 PM
2

Approach 5 sets every day.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:05 PM
3

Are you sure it's affecting your game? Or is it all in your head? Have you gone out on a date and see the girl flip the bird at you after excusing herself to the bathroom? Julien's name was slandered all globally, he's the most hated man in the world(google it) and he hasn't had a single girl point that out to him.
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:30 AM
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What kind of guy do you want? Girl : I want someone who's NICE, ROMANTIC bla bla bla. Well that's obviously a lie, since time and time again they go for the douchebag. That's not a lie! They do want a guy who's romantic, but the guy they're thinking about is Leo DiCaprio. He's already high-value so if he writes a poem and buys her roses, he will do it because he wants to, not because he doesn't have any options. So personally I think when you're starting out, don't be romantic. You hold little t…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 11:39 AM
1

It's interesting how you mention the people who post on this sub snippets from female blogs who don't offer any value, but your post doesn't either.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 10:35 AM
2

Important point to remember.
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:03 PM
2

Never force yourself. Small chunk it. Tell yourself you only want to get in, get on treadmill for 3 minutes, just 3 minutes and that's it. After those 3 minutes, if you want to stay longer, stay. If not go home. Next day, aim for 4 and so on.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:01 PM
3

Sex God Method by Daniel Rose is something might want to look at. Or this summary
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:39 PM
5

First of all : why the fuck would you want to cum inside her? Second of all, it's because he gave her the tingles and you don't. Nothing to be mad about, just keep it mind. Maybe this girl's not for you, find one who gets the tingles from you.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:22 AM
2

So how many approaches are you doing every day?
/r/seduction15/10/15 11:34 PM
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Don't take yourself so seriously. Laugh about it and it will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:51 PM
4

What should you do when a girl says she's busy and doesn't suggest another date? Hit her up in a week. If says no, delete number.
/r/seduction12/10/15 08:48 PM
1

Haha you love reading don't you? I mostly only follow RSD and they all their stuff is on video format, so no books. Go through those videos. If you like what you see subscribe to their channels and watch past videos as well. Warning : It's very easy to start watching the videos like entertainment, many are funny, epic and so on so it makes for "good TV" but always relate back to your own game. e.g. if you're struggling with hooking, don't look at beating LMR, focus on hooking and think how it ap…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 11:32 PM
2

Oh so you've only read those two books. RSD approach is bit different. There are no routines, numbers are last resort, you aim for the pull almost always and less emphasis on fashion and stuff like that. And RSD stands for Real Social Dynamics, it's a group of instructors(PUAs) that teach pickup all over the world. Now they have a shitton of videos out there so it might be confusing to know where to start. Julien's Manifesto is good to get you started. Todd's Intent Manifesto is gold too. Good l…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:49 PM
1

Fair enough. Well best of luck to you mate
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:39 PM
1

This guy hit the nail on the head. If you want to get into it though, recommend Jeffy's THE PROGRAM.
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:16 PM
1

Hahahaha that's quite creative. Never thought of that. If you do it, share with us how it is ;)
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:14 PM
1

I can talk to the hot girls, just cant close them and fuck them. Elaborate. Where do you get stuck? Open? (you said you talk to them, so I assume opening's not a problem. Hook? Vibe? Pulling? - is same as pulling 7s so no problem here too LMR? You know or RSD right?
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:13 PM
1

Well done bro!
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:08 PM
3

You've talked with 300 women and you're depressed?! How??? That's an amazing adventure, you've gotten to know 300 different personalities! Stop focusing on the outcome(to fuck your 9s and 10s) and have fun! When my wings are I go out, we're not scanning the club for the hotties. We're laughing our assess off and dancing like retarded children. Every single interaction is fun, we're not holding ourselves back, we let it all out it's just so fucking...good! Lower your standards. Laugh at everythin…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:07 PM
1

If you're a noobie, you want to fail. Stop thinking about getting numbers, about coming off calibrated and all that shit. That's in the future. For now : approach, approach & approach some more. That's your only criteria for success.
/r/seduction11/10/15 09:44 PM
1

Are you alive? Her : Omg haha of course x time y place let's hangout
/r/askTRP06/10/15 12:04 PM
1

Weekends you should be going out. Weekdays are recommended.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 11:08 AM
1

Hahaha man that's fucking funny! Props to you for going through with it though! Next time try do this a little bit more start. Approaching is like learning the guitar, you'll be uncalibrated and awkward in the beginning no matter what. So practice with strangers. Approach girls in a city square or sth like that. Fail fast, fail often and fail safe.
/r/seduction06/10/15 09:41 AM
1

Never expect girls to take initiative or lead things. This chick contacted you herself, you have just witnessed a miracle. Drop the bullshit and re-initiate.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 09:30 AM
9

/u/abdada 's point is valid. You should only bang and sleep in your apartment. However why not just stay? You can't have girls over? Says who? Will it upset your ex? So what? Can't use the living room? Why? You afraid she sees you? Awkward encounters with her everyday? I asked this girl from a class out, we made out but I didn't lay her. For some reason she stopped returning my calls. Okay, well I was going to see her in class next week. Awkward. Fuck no! It's only on awkward if you make it. Kee…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:32 AM
1

Tingles mate
/r/askTRP01/10/15 01:26 AM
2

PIMP by Julien RSD
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:16 AM
1

I didn't know strip clubs are open that early Uncalibrated. Best bet is to apologize and take the pressure off. If she responds, try again. If not, take the lesson, delete number and approach again.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:44 PM
1

Online.
/r/seduction29/09/15 11:23 PM
2

Okay that might be the case. I mean you don't care what she thinks. She doesn't care that you have ED, she wants to see if you care. Be completely non-apologetic.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:21 PM
1

You have way too much on your plate. Forget about pulling or scoring. Start slow : approach anxiety, fear of escalation and so on.
/r/seduction29/09/15 11:13 PM
2

She doesn't have to. RSD Tyler had a good vid about this. Girls will produce as much lust as they need to. If you're a high value guy with tons of options, in his path & purpose, tons of fun, massive value...you'd think she wouldn't get on her knees?? If you're a fucking rockstar you think she wouldn't rip the pants off of you???? So it's a value issue.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:10 PM
2

You didn't handle it right the first time. You got ED? Meh, makes you more attainable. For now, keep up the alpha stuff, if the ED comes up or is hinted at agree and amplify and change topic. Thirdly with regards to ED. The 3 month thing from /r/NoFap is not bad, but a swifter solution is to not give a fuck what she thinks if you stay soft, remove all the pressure and watch him grow.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:05 PM
1

I went through a similar thing recently. For some time I was in a position where I couldn't game and my oneitis skyrocketed. I'm back now, just going out gaming for a few hours. Really going at it, not half-assing the sets and the abundance mindset is reset. Go approach.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 10:58 PM
2

Get a wing.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:52 PM
1

Nice one troll.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 10:44 PM
2

Who the fuck cares what her intentions are? What are yours? Do you have any?
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:42 PM
5

Well this is pretty normal. If you're getting started, the first few girls you'll hook up with...you'll get a bit of oneitis. Mindfuck yourself into believing how amazing they are, they can be your wife and so on. She sniffed that is holding her distance. Or maybe she met another guy from the grocery store and he pulled her. Who knows? Who cares? Go out and cold approach again. P.S. Send her this.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 10:40 PM
6

Is it genuine? I met my current gf while daygaming. And the one before that. Is it 'try-hard'? (1) According to who? Society? In that case I should only be getting laid if I'm 6'4, white and jacked. (2) Who cares? Does it produce results? I've gotten laid more from daygame than pulling from clubs. There are only 52 weekends in a year but 365 days.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:33 PM
1

I see. Thank you for your replies. Definitely trying out the live-FR-writing next time I daygame.
/r/seduction28/09/15 11:55 PM
1

So for club game since you can't take notes live. Do you write FR afterwards? Even if you don't lay? It would be interesting to see the format of that. Thank you
/r/seduction28/09/15 11:35 PM
2

If they result in lays? If not, then you don't write a FR?
/r/seduction28/09/15 11:21 PM
2

Taking notes live as you do the approaches? Now that's something I haven't encountered before. Do you find it stalls your momentum a bit(albeit the notes are pretty brief)? Do you do it for club game too? Dates? Thanks in advance!
/r/seduction28/09/15 11:00 PM
3

Look up "pulling". RSD has good material on this. Here's one.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 10:02 AM
2

Call her out on it. I love when you try so hard to make me jealous.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 09:57 AM
1

I try not to lie about fucking a girl when I haven't, however whenever you tell your wings about a pull there's a tendency to make it a bit more epic than it is. Maybe the girl wasn't a 7, but an 8. I suppose it's human nature. Try to minimize it yourself and with regards to others, take what they say with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:42 AM
1

Do you mean it? If you look at your ass in the mirror and go Damn look at that. It's gorgeous. then it's fine. If you're bullshitting and it is try-hard then your girl knows and better knock it off.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:37 AM
2

Girls are the best at doing this aren't they? This is all moving a bit too fast for me. / I don't know what I want in my life. / I simply don't want to get hurt again. It's all bullshit, but it lets you down easily...kind of. Is it the best way? Idk, but works for them.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:35 AM
2

When you realize you can get laid as a fat guy too, that's the worst. There's basically no motivation to go to the gym. However if you do, you know you're doing it for yourself, health benefits and so on.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:08 PM
57

Very interesting post. Let me see if I got this right : Tasks we're trying to implement we assign huge importance. Due to importance we hesitate. Emotional mind takes hesitation as failure to follow through. This prompts self-hatred. Then we deny self-hatred and denial leads to failure to follow through. Have I got this right? And the solution is to take the tasks as face value and not overblow them in our minds. So Well meditating everyday will not give me super powers, it's just sitting down a…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 07:37 PM
2

I would disagree, was about to say Well your argument assumes that white guys possess higher value than asian guys and then I realized that's what the social narrative is so you're not wrong. Same with height, tall guys are coveted more than short guys. Would you say though that the solution for an asian guy is to say Fuck you to that social narrative and just carry himself like a fucking boss.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 07:13 PM
1

What does that even mean?
/r/seduction21/09/15 07:08 PM
7

I'd tell them to stop being an excuse-making sobbing little bitch, put on their big boy pants and start taking action.
/r/seduction19/09/15 10:41 AM
2

I know exactly what you mean. I had this for a while too, for it was the opposite, I wanted to go away from her. If you need her to leave because you have to concentrate on your work, or simply to regain that peace of mind. A little time away is needed, then don't be apologetic about it. Don't be a dick like GET THE FUCK OUT HOE!, be gentle but firm. Okay baby, I have to work now. Get your stuff ready to go. She will be upset, she'll guilt trip you whatever. That doesn't concern you. Imagine if …
/r/askTRP19/09/15 08:58 AM
1

There's no set number that makes it good or bad.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:59 PM
1

You're doing dates wrong if the financial cost is holding you back going to them. At most you buy her a drink in a cozy bar, at the least you could just walk around a busy square or just sit in a park. If you can get dates from all the numbers and that's a big if, then by all means go.
/r/seduction18/09/15 10:08 PM
1

You're doing dates wrong if the financial cost is holding you back going to them. At most you buy her a drink in a cozy bar, at the least you could just walk around a busy square or just sit in a park. If you can get dates from all the numbers and that's a big if, then by all means go.
/r/seduction18/09/15 10:08 PM
2

Charlie sounds like he's not converted yet. If you have gone out yourself you know that's a completely different target audience from the average 'gamer'. People who have gone out or continue to do so seek ways to improve their techniques, sort out their sticking points, really nail down their openers, escalation, pulling etc. To Charlie those words don't even make sense. He can't even fathom that you go out and actively meet girls. He believes he will meet his 'soulmate' at some point, meanwhil…
/r/seduction18/09/15 10:40 AM
3

That's how I lost my virginity, and got my first fuckbuddy, and my second one, and my third one, and my girlfriend...
/r/seduction17/09/15 07:35 AM
1

I don't know about female psychology per se, but I recently saw a video with RSD Tyler and Todd and they were talking about how it all relates to evolution,caveman times. Todd is big on psychology so he mentioned how evolutionary psychology basically dictated all of his game. The books they mentioned on the topic were : Sperm Wars, The Red Queen, The Selfish Gene, Sex at Dawn
/r/seduction17/09/15 07:24 AM
1

Do you watch RSD?
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:06 PM
1

Look up 'dirty talking' and 'roleplaying'. You nail those down...you don't need video, just audio.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:23 PM
1

she was not prone to escalation That statement means nothing. Escalation is your responsibility. Handling her objections is your responsibility. So whenever shit doesn't go down, it's a failure to escalate properly. Don't beat yourself up about it. It's a learning experience, but just bear it in mind and read up on LMR(last minute resistance) and how to break through it. The gist of it is to get her so horny that she will be asking for it.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:21 PM
2

Yeah yeah okay. So I'm free this Friday for x. I'll pick you up at y. Just ignore what she says and go for another meeting. If she presses you on it, brush it off, agree to the whole 'let's be friends' thing she'll propose. When you meet, go for it again.
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:18 PM
6

You sound desperate to be picked up.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 09:04 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 08:52 PM
1

Solo is good, but with a wingman is better. Aim for that, but don't obsess over it.
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:57 PM
3

I BELIVE, with huge certainity, that I could pull most bad/decent/ok looking girls very easily Okay so I consider myself a gamer. I go out and approach consistently. You know when my game is best? When I'm not going out. We are evolutionary designed to choose the path of least resistance, do less work so your mind plays tricks on you. Yes that girl is hot and yes you can talk to her, but you know what? You're better than that. You can get that girl no problem. Why bother? Just go home masturbate…
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:52 PM
2

Oh I thought you deleted her stuff. Just organize a meeting. She'll repeat over and over again how you two are friends only. Say yeah yeah yeah and get her to meet you. From then on escalate as usual.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 07:27 PM
3

A girl saying you are friends means shit. Girls are ruled by their emotions. A friend of mine would go for girls with boyfriends. He'd get their number saying he just wanted to be friends. Then ask them to hangout as friends. He spiked their emotions just the right way, escalate properly and boom...fucked the "friend" up the ass. So you could have still made that work. Don't worry too much though.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 07:19 PM
1

If you haven't read David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man...drop everything and read that!
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:10 PM
9

I'm beyond dealing with AA, but it's nice to see someone taking action and conquering it! Well done mate!
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:09 PM
2

Online game can be pretty frustrating. There's tons of material out there on daygame, clubgame...cold approaching basically, but not so much about online game(except Jeffy's THE PROGRAM which is like the bible for online). Go out and cold approach. Fastest way to create abundance. You won't be fucking anyone any time soon, but you'll get good reactions, numbers and so on and that will fuel your abundance mindset, which will lead you to get some actual success.
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:06 PM
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It makes perfect sense to greet her with a kiss huh? It's logical. Wrong Girls are dictated by their emotions and emotions change. In that party she was having fun, dancing, yay, kiss! When she meets you, she's in a different emotional state. I always greet them with a hug even if we've made out before. Then I escalate from scratch, but much faster since there's a bit of familiarity between us.
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:03 PM
3

Here
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:00 PM
3

Haha you have a good self-image, but it seems you're also full of bullshit. The post is a mess, but what I get is that despite not having done any of this before your standards are pretty high. You're above clubbing and cold approaching, yet again you wonder why these girls aren't pursuing you. Nothing is going to fall on your lap man. You want to sexually dominate these girls, you need to take action. The first step is conquering Approach Anxiety.
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:57 PM
3

Reading is good. Do 30 minutes everyday and it will work wonders on you. Non-fiction books though. Meditation is cool too.
/r/seduction10/09/15 08:20 PM
1

Part of it is the success. You could be the most romantic guy ever, letting them stay over, cuddling, naming your future children and so on, but if you're living under a bridge, she can't see a future with you so there's no clinginess. However part of it is your behavior. Define their expectations from the beginning. Things like not letting them sleep over, talk with other girls or about other girls can send the message that you're not marriage material.
/r/seduction10/09/15 08:09 PM
3

I'm in a similar boat. I have a gf and game at the same time. She knows about it so it's not cheating. Also I told her from the beginning "This is what I do, I like it and I'm not going to stop. If you want to come along for the ride, I'd love to have you. If not, I'm sorry to lose you.".
/r/seduction10/09/15 02:24 PM
1

Indian Race Troll
/r/seduction10/09/15 07:55 AM
1

Text game is a whole different ballgame in and of itself. A comment on TRP won't even scratch the surface.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 04:46 PM
0

Idk, dude above... "Idk"? The cornerstone of taking on anything is desire and it seems you don't even give a fuck about this. Yeah better do nothing.
/r/seduction09/09/15 04:45 PM
2

Don't ask for feedback. That's gay. Don't expect the girls to reciprocate or to do anything. You're the man, you lead things. Best case scenario : they don't shoot down your escalation. Don't give up. Ask her to hang out again, escalate more heavily, to the point where she will either sleep with you or leave.
/r/seduction09/09/15 04:32 PM
2

If they don't bring it up, then they don't care. I know it strokes your ego to think they all want a relationship with you and you're the bad player letting them down...but some genuinely don't care. Girls want to have fun too. If they do bring it up, then you start worrying and shit.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:13 AM
1

Thing is if she agrees to go on a date with you...she already is into you. Doesn't mean it's a done deal, but most of it is you leading things towards sex. If nothing happens(not even kiss or makeout) she has seen behind the curtain, the fact that you don't have the balls for it. You don't give her the tingles anymore so the friendzone is what's next. It's hard to turn that around. I've only done it once and it wasn't because of my skills I suppose, rather she was bored and agreed to go out agai…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:07 AM
1

Asian Race Troll
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:36 AM
1

The problem isn't so much her coming to cry to you. The problem is why aren't you taking action to sort out your dating life. Why is this girl important enough to deserve her own post? If you post ran something like I've gone out cold approaching for the last 2 weeks. I still have issues with AA. I've done this and this, what do you guys think? Oh btw there's this girl I used to... then we have something to work with.
/r/seduction06/09/15 10:18 AM
1

This. Although if you're going for it nonetheless, remember that older women require less bullshit to be pulled. So the "let's go back to my place to watch a video" becomes redundant. You can be more direct.
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:21 PM
8

This is one of those rare cases where your problem can actually be solved by watching a video. This and oneitis. Go to Youtube and search for "RSD Tyler menvy". If it doesn't sink in with the first time, watch a second and a third time. Lastly, I've never read Models by Manson or The Game even. RSD introduced me to this and I've stuck with it. However one of my good friends and wings has read pretty much anything out there and he told me it was holding him back. If I'm not mistaken Models advoca…
/r/seduction03/09/15 05:12 PM
1

What I'm saying is that poor physique is not an excuse to hold off gaming. If it's a priority for you, go ahead, if not you may wait. Up to you. I suppose we can agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:40 PM
0

You need months to get into shape. Those are months you're masturbating instead of fucking.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:23 AM
1

I see. Thank you. Will look into it more
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:21 PM
0

Why are you shutting your mouth again?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:45 PM
1

/r/leangains is about getting lean(losing fat) and gaining muscle at the same time? You tried it out for a month? Or did it take you 1 month to do your research?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:37 PM
0

I was fat when I started gaming. According to my BMI I was obese, had a gut and everything...no muscle whatsoever, girls had thicker arms than me. I was still approaching at least 10 sets everyday, going out every Friday, Saturday and sometimes Wednesdays as well. I got numbers, makeouts, lays, girlfriends, plates and so on. Months later I decided to hit the gym...not to get the girls though, but for myself. You can game without being in shape.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:35 PM
2

I was fat when I started gaming. According to my BMI I was obese, had a gut and everything...no muscle whatsoever, girls had thicker arms than me. I was still approaching at least 10 sets everyday, going out every Friday, Saturday and sometimes Wednesdays as well. I got numbers, makeouts, lays, girlfriends, plates and so on. Months later I decided to hit the gym...not to get the girls though, but for myself. You can game without being in shape.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:35 PM
1

Haha of course it won't come naturally to you. You suck with girls. In order to get better you need to kill your old identity and reinvent yourself. Change is never easy. So you force yourself. So your problem at the moment is approach anxiety. Look up some videos on that and afterwards...go out. Either during day or night, doesn't matter. Pick a high-traffic area and promise yourself that you can't go back home until you approach 1 girl and tell her she's cute. At some point boredom/the heat/th…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:29 PM
1

Whenever you escalate more than the girl is comfortable with...you need to calibrate. e.g. you go for a hug and she's pulls back saying "whoa where did that come from?" This is where you calibrate. Try not to get too affected by it and pull back, give her space to feel comfortable and change topic.
/r/seduction31/08/15 07:24 PM
1

The failure to pull the trigger is a pretty common problem, but not the only one though. Sometimes you can too confident, you forget about calibration and fuck up the set.
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:39 PM
4

A comedy show sounds awful. Do something where your attention is mostly on each other...rather than on a third party(movie watching, comedy show etc.)
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:38 PM
0

What do you care? You're not going to cum into her anyway. Do what you will and finish in her mouth and remember spitters are quitters.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:36 PM
0

Like the ordering thing. Might try it out at some point.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:35 PM
1

RSD Todd breaks attraction pretty well. He says it's a combination of value and comfort. 99.999999999% of guys out there have value issues i.e. they do not convey enough value to spark attraction, so that's what most of the PUA community discusses, how to bring the party, how to be charismatic, self-amusement and so on. Now say you have value covered, you're like a mini-celebrity for example. In that case you need comfort. The girl needs to know you're relatable. Say Leo DiCaprio walked into a c…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:32 PM
3

I think oneitis is like AA. You never really get rid of it and from time to time it rears its ugly head. For me it usually happens when I'm being lazy, not taking action while out and gaming, choosing to cuddle with a girl rather than go out and so on. The solution(at least for me) is pretty simple. One night out of massive action taking, opening all the sets type of shit. No matter the results, in the end oneitis is gone!
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:24 PM
2

If you go it will be a more valuable life experience than if you don't. So go and remember agree and amplify is your friend.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:30 AM
2

Now this is a territory I haven't explored.
/r/seduction31/08/15 04:32 AM
13

Simple Pickup is about entertainment. If you want in-depth actual pickup knowledge RSD(Real Social Dynamics) is the place to look. Tons more videos and real insight.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 06:06 PM
3

That's why my relationships are always open.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 06:04 PM
1

This subreddit and game in general is about getting girls not one girl in specific.
/r/seduction30/08/15 06:03 PM
-1

Do you even cold approach?
/r/seduction30/08/15 02:13 PM
1

You're read and seen enough. Time to go in the field and test it. Then you'll start to see where your problems lie and all those videos you watched will start to make sense. Go out and approach, just approach, approach anxiety is the first step.
/r/seduction30/08/15 02:12 PM
2

should I make new friends? Wings mate. You need dedicated wings who would go out every Friday/Saturday as if their lives depended on it.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:26 AM
4

My ability to pick up girls at a bar is not very good. My ability to ride a bike for the first time wasn't very good either.
/r/seduction30/08/15 04:23 AM
2

Me. Whenever I let myself get too comfortable with a girl, skipping on a Friday night out for a night of cuddling...I find myself getting needy, clingy, overall a fucking leech. Good thing is, I'm not exclusive with any of my girls and they know it. As soon as I get back on the game, it's like my ass is kicked back into gear, abundance mentality restored and all's right with the universe once more. I've tried to reach this abundance mentality without having to go out and game, but so far failed.
/r/seduction29/08/15 05:31 PM
42

Her : Your lips are feminine. You : Only my lips?
/r/seduction29/08/15 04:15 PM
31

Agree & Amplify
/r/seduction29/08/15 04:09 PM
2

Of course it makes a difference because it would be easier and just as quick for me to go home to do those things. Oh well I assumed your place was a bit farther since you mentioned in the OP her place worked best as a pulling location so you aimed for that. Could work generally but wouldn't have worked on this occasion because when she told me where she lived I told her I hadn't been out there in years I must say I'm surprised. You were very thorough in your FR, very analytical, you also gave m…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:57 PM
5

Makes no difference. The scrapped knee and the dirty jeans still work in this case. You could make the phone one work as well. But here is a tailored excuse for you : You live at X right? I'm actually meeting my friend in that direction but I'll drop you off first. Once at her place, pull out the bathroom one and Bob's your uncle.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:40 PM
11

So this is you writing your FR There was this pretty cute brunette that I was intending on approaching, but as soon as she saw me she scowled. It really fucked me up. For the rest of the night I stayed in a corner praying to become invisible. Then I went home and masturbated. Really? Really?
/r/seduction29/08/15 03:14 PM
1

WTF? Oh right, forgot you were drunk...
/r/askTRP29/08/15 03:10 PM
24

You do mention the FUCK UP of the day being the moment where you failed to neutralize her LMR, namely : Me: Well it's up to you But no. Instead it's this : <grins> yeah of course. I want to see where you live. Never Ever Ever suggest you're going to her/your place to fuck. It's like you're poking her ASD to come out and show its ugly head. Unless she's begging you to come to her place and practically ripping your jeans off and clawing at your dick...you always have an excuse. Oh, no I'll just wa…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:08 PM
2

Your pictures. Lots of stuff goes into that, angles and shit. Well that's up to you.
/r/seduction28/08/15 01:09 PM
3

(1) your profile (2) your pictures RSD Jeffy's THE PROGRAM is the fucking Bible when it comes to online dating, so be sure to check it out.
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:59 PM
2

You and your friend game?
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:49 PM
15

Hahahaha if you're not even holding a convo with these girls, the fact they matched with you means nothing. Maybe they were feeling bored and decided to swipe right with everyone, maybe she was drunk...whatever. RSD Jeffy's THE PROGRAM is the fucking Bible when it comes to online dating, so be sure to check it out.
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:44 PM
8

Do your matches respond? Have you taken them out to any date?
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:34 PM
7

I think what's going on is that, they see I'm a friendly or a nice person and not a threat. If I'm not a threat, then they have less competition with my girlfriend because I'm so nice. Or maybe they're subconciously trying to win my girlfriend over. Yeah this is it. Grow a beard like the Duck Dynasty guys, get jacked and start packing some heat and ain't nobody gonna stare at your gf again. /s
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:33 PM
15

Well first of all understand you're not special. There are other guys who feel like you so don't think you're a freak or something. For example one my of my wings HATES to see couples making out. Especially if we've had a bad night, he just can't stand it. Now it's not like it fucks with him(it used to), nowadays he mostly tries to laugh it off or uses it as inspiration. Expose yourself to what you hate and you'll find it's not so bad. He sometimes used to go and embrace the kissing couple and a…
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:30 PM
3

It's hard to say. Even if I experienced what you did instead of getting a short text version of events, it's still hard to say. Maybe you're right and he got distant after sex. Maybe he's embarrassed for not lasting long enough. Maybe he's just a busy guy, I mean his phone was ringing the entire time. I suggest you stop overthinking this. Your nervousness if detected by him is so unattractive. Just continue to be purely positive and that's it.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:22 PM
4

I suppose this is a classic 'conversations that go nowhere' scenario. Even if the girl is dying to get with you, she will not lead the situation towards sex. YOU have to do that. That means at some point there should be more than just conversation. I mean there so many ways you could have screwed this up, but I can see a few major errors : Failure to lead her A good tactic is to lead her around the club. Hey let's go get a drink(you can just grab water). or Let's go the smoking area, to the stai…
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:17 PM
5

/r/RedPillWomen Also I don't really see what your question is here.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:08 PM
1

If her hymen is broken. Why the need for towel?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 01:31 AM
1

How was the sex? I know it's not good, especially the first time. Any tips to get through that with as little pain as possible(not talking about her side only)?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:05 PM
1

Up to you of course, but I've found reading articles or watching videos about pickup, frame etc. really fucks you over. Sometimes can be really uplifting, sometimes can put you in your head, sometimes it produces no effect. Personally I just like to go in relaxed. If you're actively gaming the girl or actively holding on to your frame, a part of you will constantly think about that and thus you won't be fully present, quick-witted and so on. Instead, I try to watch stand up comedy or literally a…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:47 PM
4

Why the FUCK are you pursuing a single mom of 3?? How desperate are you? Do you even cold approach dude?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:42 PM
2

Okay I've no idea, but I always mention Albuquerque to my American friends because of Breaking Bad and they all say that the show is cool, but the place is a shithole. So...Idk.
/r/seduction25/08/15 05:35 PM
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Of course you didn't miss the fucking bus. I have a pretty kickass social circle, but I couldn't really tell you how I cultivated it. I simply started to go out. Literally reduce the time you're spending at home to (1) eating (2) sleeping (3)using the bathroom. Preferably even studying is best done somewhere with other people around you(library). The beginning is the hardest part, but just go for walks. Approach people on street and ask for directions, cold approach girls, go to bars/clubs alone…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:34 PM
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Never read any of those books so I couldn't possibly answer your question. Personally RSD's hundreds of thousands of videos online have literally saved my life. Each instructor has different approaches and they go really fucking deep into each of them.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:30 PM
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Hahaha one of the rare cases I wish I had more than one upvote for you
/r/seduction25/08/15 05:15 PM
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Work on your sack skills. Read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. If you're lazy, here. Learn how to make them squirt. Again proper research needs to be done but if you're lazy here's a 10 second guide Finger them with the come hither motion on the top wall of their pussy. They get wetter and wetter and then the top of their pussy swells up like a balloon. I know all I have to do is to keep going and they are going to squirt Careful though, used properly, especially the 2nd one can make girls re…
/r/seduction25/08/15 05:13 PM
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Approach like a motherfucker. Check out RSD and approach anxiety When you're getting insta-dates, pulls, 2nd days regularly look up concepts like escalation, polarity and so on Check out RSD again. Oh...actually do you have a few days? EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:06 PM
1

You aware of cold approaching?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:03 PM
1

Will do and look forward to it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:58 PM
3

It's certainly something to look at. I've tagged you as "leadership and bonding TRPer" so will keep an eye out for your stuff. If there's any other piece of wisdom that you wouldn't mind sharing, I'd be grateful to receive it. Otherwise thank you for the productive discussion and the knowledge you provided. If I can return the favor in any way, don't hesitate.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:53 PM
2

This is glorious! Thank you so so much! I'll use this for sure! How old are you? You give off the vibe like a late 30s man.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:47 PM
2

You aware of cold approaching? If not...then become aware. RSD are the Gods when it comes to that, I'd suggest checking them out. Best of luck
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:42 PM
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Aaaaah I see. The bedtime stories method seems pretty cool. Any particular suggestions? Stories-wise I mean. And I totally know what you mean. Intimacy is so powerful. Like telling her to look at you as you're both orgasming...a friend warned me about using this. They fall in love with you! and it's totally true. I've withheld my own orgasms before kegels FTW
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:36 PM
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Good job on the ballroom dancing. Dancing sex with clothes on. A powerful tool under your Pickup Utility Belt(WTF?). Use it well. Second, READING HER SIGNALS/SIGNS Bullshit. I mean you can do whatever you want, but to me this sounds horrible. It conditions you to approach only when she's giving you the signals. or to wait for the freaking signals. I myself am horrible with timing. I need to look at a girl for a good 2-3 seconds before approaching. Sometimes she sees me looking as she passes past…
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:33 PM
2

What's the reward? Unless it's a secret.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:27 PM
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The escalate and back off method is something that is mentioned by everyone...RSD and so on. Not going to say it's the method, but it definitely works, however I'm an open minded guy. Like anything though it needs to be field tested. So let me get this straight : the basic gist is that you make the girl chase instead of you doing the chasing consists of showing intent early on through eye contact(I guess) and light physical escalation(the hip/hair touching) and teasing(not kissing them) also qua…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:21 PM
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However in the realistic case where escalation can't happen too quick and talking is mandatory, don't let yourself get bored. (1) talk about things you like to talk and don't give an eff about what she thinks, she'll see your passion and admire it (2) call her out on it. That's so boring as fuck! adds tension to your interaction and that is always good.
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:12 PM
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I feel you man. I've left this gorgeous girl back home and will meet her soon. I'm not marrying her or anything, but we have a good connection. Travelling at the moment and from time to time I find myself thinking of her. Bear in mind the entire time I'm gaming and intend to do so even when I return. Omg, I love Ludmilla so fucking much. Fuck these other girls, she's the one for me. Can't wait to go back and kiss those sweet lips. meanwhile staring at her picture like I'm in love and shit, shedd…
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:10 PM
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I like sex with women who show extreme desire. Interesting. I also don't escalate for sex. 3 dates? 5? All the same to me. You're a patient man. she passes my red flag tests Very interesting. What kind of red flags are you looking for? Also you do this bcs you're not interesting in an ONS and potentially plan to meet them several times afterwards. So why would a woman LMR over a kiss? Because she's broken or she's not interested enough. So she rejects my first attempt, but gives in on the 3rd? S…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:01 PM
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I like sex with women who show extreme desire. Interesting. I also don't escalate for sex. 3 dates? 5? All the same to me. You're a patient man. she passes my red flag tests Very interesting. What kind of red flags are you looking for? Also you do this bcs you're not interesting in an ONS and potentially plan to meet them several times afterwards. So why would a woman LMR over a kiss? Because she's broken or she's not interested enough. So she rejects my first attempt, but gives in on the 3rd? S…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:01 PM
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Basically your only hope is escalation. Since you know she's down, that ought to be relatively straightforward. Whenever you feel like shooting your brains out as she goes on about American Idol or some shit, just lean in and shut her up with your lips. She won't be able to talk much either if she's orgasming. However in the realistic case where escalation can't happen too quick and talking is mandatory, don't let yourself get bored. (1) talk about things you like to talk and don't give an eff a…
/r/seduction25/08/15 03:44 PM
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That's an interesting point, the nexting after the no. Do you just get up and leave? What happens? Do they chase you back? What do you do if they do?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:41 PM
2

How did you become instagram famous?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:34 PM
2

There are so many ways you can play groups. I doubt one comment will cover all of them. You can do your own research if you want. RSD has some goods vids on the topic, you'd have to do some digging though. The gist of it is however : Engage her Engage the group Try to isolate from group Escalate
/r/seduction25/08/15 03:17 PM
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Here's my bible when it comes to escalating(physical escalation that is) : First and foremost, escalate with intent. Don't kiss her or hold her hand because that's what you've heard you're supposed to do. Do it because you want to. She will respond more positively when she feels you have an actual boner pressing against her leg(i.e. you genuinely want her) rather than you escalating to check off a list. So the part about desire I suppose is true. Now... If faced with rejection or a No, first eva…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:14 PM
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Don't be fooled. If they could fuck them, they would. I used to pull this shit all the time when I first learned about pickup. I'd go out with my non game friends and just open girls. Talk, make them laugh, hi5, hug and they'd think I was God. Not really. Anyone can do that, pulling a girl....now that's different. But even then...menvy is the worst thing. Check out Tyler's vid on that.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 02:13 PM
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Are they fucking them?
/r/askTRP22/08/15 12:21 PM
1

saw her every day, hit it off every day with her. Every day? Like aren't you busy at all? I put my hand on her knee, she put both hands on top of mine. I had her absolute attention. Mhmm...so how many times did you guys do it? After half an hour or more two cabs came to take us WTF? That's it? You just placed your hand on her knee. Lean in and whisper in her ear. Get up and go upstairs. In 2 minutes I'll join you. bite her earlobe and squeeze her thigh and send her upstairs. Instead I remembered…
/r/seduction22/08/15 12:19 PM
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From my experience the prudes(e.g. Christian girls) are (1) the horniest (2) the freakiest girls. I'd say game is similar with other girls with a few exceptions : You have to take care to isolate them. They won't do anything in front of friends or people they know...or just people in general. You gotta be more patient. Sets might usually be longer. You know how clothes are flying off when you're in the bedroom...with these types of girls, her lifting her shirt an inch is a huge fucking victory. …
/r/askTRP22/08/15 11:59 AM
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Yep, I'm aware of kegels, but my friend told me they do anything for him so he didn't include them in the guide. HOWEVER I've been experimenting myself with kegels and the results are impressive. You basically steamroll through the PONR and you simply don't cum, while orgasming at the same time. Nonetheless, it's far more tiring and draining than this method. Thanks for the suggestion though, looked up kegels on /r/sex and found an amazing post!
/r/seduction21/08/15 05:06 AM
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My experience has not included blue balls.
/r/seduction20/08/15 07:13 PM
3

Yep that's a cool method but you have to reach out and grab the base of your dick. It's okay when your slapping the monkey, but it looks a bit odd during sex.
/r/seduction20/08/15 07:12 PM
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Do you have any sex tips? Or like the best sessions you've ever had...what stuck out to you about them? Thank you in advance /u/nebulous_slut
/r/seduction20/08/15 07:06 PM
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You know I'm a big proponent of Never take advice from a fish... and so on but apart from the bullshit about judging my bookshelf, it all seemed legit. The place hand on small of back is something I didn't know. Cheers for that!
/r/seduction20/08/15 07:04 PM
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For some reason I'm not too comfortable talking about my dick in public so I'll send you a PM
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:37 PM
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Tried them and reaped the benefits(kind of). I wouldn't worry too much about the exercises you're doing or how you're doing them. As long as you're squeezing and releasing your PC muscles and doing it consistently, you'll be fine. About the "training harder" question. I honestly don't know. I guess if they're hurting too much, give them a break. I'll attach my workout routine in the bottom so take a look at that. I did 3 sets of kegel exercises every day. One morning, one afternoon and one eveni…
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:39 AM
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Your wingman is supposed to be a player. You are too. You're blessed to have an wingman more advanced than yourself. Don't be butthurt over it. Always be positive and always be approaching. One year from now you'll either have risen to your wingman's level or surpassed him or you will have left him or him dumped you and you continue to dwell in mediocrity.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:06 PM
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You're new to this so you suck. Don't expect to be pulling from your first night, most likely you won't so don't worry about leaving in a few days. Instead focus on getting the experience. If its your first night, your focus should be...talk with as many people as possible in the bar. Not just girls. Go and initiate conversation.
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:18 PM
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Possible Idk if better or not, it works fine. Anything else?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:17 PM
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This is not ONLY about text game. If you had a 10 second conversation with a girl who wasn't even paying attention, but somehow you got her number, even Jesus's text game couldn't get a date out of her. It's all about investment. Have you made out with the girl? Have you fingered her? Lacking all that did she invest in the conversation? Did she chase? RSD has some good videos on all those topics, I suggest you check them out. Just remember there's going to be flaking almost all the time. You can…
/r/seduction16/08/15 04:41 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA props for the creativity
/r/seduction16/08/15 04:32 PM
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Sick method. I think I have a better one though. Whenever I'm asked to buy them a drink, I'm completely astonished at how rude I'm being and immediately offer to remedy my fault. Yes, I'll get you a drink straight away. I say enthusiastically and take their hand leading them to the bar. Unbeknownst to me, the girls entire group of girlfriends and guys as well, follows after me. She doesn't even need to ask me to buy a drink for her friends too, immediately I start counting how many people would …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 12:51 PM
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SE Asia? You'll be drowning in pussy. Don't go raw though....
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 03:10 AM
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谢谢！ ：） You can practice for a day or two of course. Just don't get too worried about this girl. 对我来说，you're a beginner at this and now your seduction skills suck. Very likely that you're going to mess this up, so don't expect too much. However certainly go for it and even if you do mess up, don't give up and approach 别的女孩儿。
/r/seduction15/08/15 03:02 AM
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Dude let me tell you right now that these thoughts that you have in your head will intensify and intensify and you WILL want to break up with her. Whether you do or you do not it's up to you, but : 1) You do break up with her...you'll have to deal with all the fucking drama in a foreign country, with dubious living conditions, searching for an apartment, her and her family will be impacted heavily that you sprung this shit up in the middle of the semester, affecting her and your studies. 2) You …
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:22 PM
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你好！ 我很高兴认识一个北京人。我觉得北京华最好。:) Any advice how do I strike a conversation with them without being weird? Are there any cool guys in your school? Have you seen how they are comfortable with talking to anyone? Or at least a lot of people? Or how about the 外国人? 你知道为什么大家在中国爱外国人吗？因为they don't act like the Chinese. They are not shy and they don't follow the social rules of not talking to anyone. Just like you approached her the first time and asked what she was doing on her computer...you can do that agai…
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:17 PM
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ONEITIS
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:04 PM
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Be completely unpossessive. There's no way you're going to lock this girl down, most likely she got tons of dick in her life where she can choose from. You can set yourself apart though. When everyone wants to lock her down and make her wifey, you don't give a fuck as to what she does when you're there. It'll get her chasing a bit and thus ensuring she stays on your dick for the foreseeable future. Always use protection though and be wary about going down there.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:30 AM
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Well my crushes(two of them) were quite hot, I imagine they still are so your question to me sounds "If given the chance would you get with two hot girls?" so of course "Yes" Would I feel any different just because they were my crushes. I'd say no, perhaps some sort of ego boost afterwards but that's it.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 05:07 AM
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Well my crushes(two of them) were quite hot, I imagine they still are so your question to me sounds "If given the chance would you get with two hot girls?" so of course "Yes" Would I feel any different just because they were my crushes. I'd say no, perhaps some sort of ego boost afterwards but that's it.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 05:06 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 03:36 AM
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Well fucking done mate!
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:35 AM
1

Shrooms are the shit. If you're wondering how she will react to you doing what you want, pondering on how to frame it to her for fear or losing her, this relationship has an expiration date mate.
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:33 AM
1

Read up on non-possessiveness.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 09:01 AM
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Overcoming LMR, I feel there's not that much great material on this topic out there, however this is what I know : The basic gist of LMR is get the girl so horny that she forgets about her excuses and begging you to enter her or more likely...not saying 'HELL NO' when you go for it The first rule is strip yourself first! You focus so much on getting the girl naked, forgetting you yourself are wearing a 9 layers of clothing. By stripping yourself first (1) she can't stop you (2) sets the frame th…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:30 AM
1

Yeah game is fluid like that. Can't blame you if most of the advice about game is sometimes vague or at least doesn't read like a F-35 manual. Do you know about RSD Todd? This guy is very technical and breaks things down pretty well. Very boring if you ask me(and everyone) but might work for you, he uses very technical language.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 05:00 AM
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I'm not interested. I know that the game manual tells you you're supposed to persist(watch their jaws drop), but don't. A girl pulled this on me once.
/r/seduction08/08/15 04:56 AM
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Yeah I know one. He's one of my wings...not in Virginia though. Its like I feel that the second I meet someone who ethnically looks like me and see him having success and getting hot girls, the whole thing will eliminate this game issue I am having. Game issue? What game issue? You're not in the game mate. Someone who goes out on a regular basis and approaches like a motherfucker or at least tries to IS in the game. That's not you. Most of the slayers and studs I read about online are all tall w…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:48 AM
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Great read! Thanks mate! A bit surprised you settled for taking them on 3-4 dates b4 sex, but I guess to each his own.
/r/seduction07/08/15 06:44 PM
2

Also don't waste too much time on stupid topics like these, entertain them for a bit then move on.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 06:31 PM
1

Sorry can't remember the title.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 06:30 PM
2

Well fucking done mate! Text em. Don't overthink. Keep approaching.
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:54 AM
1

I mean you can't overhaul your psyche in one day. Intense focus is a habit that needs to be learned. Start small. Force yourself to do 30 min for the first week or so and up it slowly. There's a great about energy and how to best utilize it. There's something about 2 hours being the optimal amount of time you can stay focused...after that you need a break, otherwise your efficency drops like a stone. Read up on it.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 07:18 AM
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I know you feel like going back to her after she hung up on you. Basic human instinct we chase what eludes us, but stand your fucking ground. Let her come to you. Also don't waste too much time on stupid topics like these, entertain them for a bit then move on.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 06:22 AM
0

Why are you here motherfucker? You don't want people to be honest. You want people to echo the story you've mindfucked yourself into believing. Little babies stare at me all the time. Yeah no wonder...babies stare at whatever stares back at them and if you're creepily eyeballing babies to "receive honest and thorough feedback on your aesthetics" then you're fucking retarded! Old people stare at you too? What could that possibly mean? I could tell you that I have friends who don't even come close…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:58 PM
2

Okay we don't really say this because we don't want the newbies to get discouraged(I was in heaven when I got my first number!)...but A NUMBER AIN'T SHIT SON! So if you're sitting around wondering Why isn't she texting back? She gave me her number, so she must like me. Read that huge black thing above again! Girls will give away their number faster than an unwanted child. Why? Sometimes to get rid of you, girls hate awkward situations, so they'll be polite and let you think you got them! Most of…
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:47 PM
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Well I'm quite the opposite. Talkative, funny and so on...and let me tell you that's not ideal either. Game is fluid, so there's no one answer, however one of my wings is like you. He fully owns it however. His verbal game is not that great...sick...his eye contact could pierce through beams of reinforced steel and concrete. He can't escalate verbally if his life depended on it...he'll do flawless physical escalation or he'll use his voice tonality to make girls orgasm listening to his story abo…
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:29 PM
2

You're pretty much fucked using photos that aren't yours...but there is like 0.1% chance of salvaging this. Be upfront and honest with her. I used fake photos. I'm not sure why, I was being an idiot. Here's my actual pic. If it seems like she's still up for it, go for it.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:15 PM
3

If you find it, I'd be interested too.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:12 PM
2

Why should I believe the contrary? I don't know you. If you're claim to have certain skills to an audience that could possibly be your clients, you need proof to back your claims up. Also try to welcome and respond to criticism, rather than outright denying it.
/r/seduction02/08/15 03:38 PM
2

17? You beat me motherfucker! lol Well fucking done mate!
/r/seduction02/08/15 02:47 AM
2

Clearly the guy has never heard of an instant date when daygaming...or insta-pulls. I won't say his method is wack...there are cases when the pull goes much more smoothly if you take the pressure off the girl and let her chase...but in other cases you need to hustle and persist like a motherfucker. Also it was all words. Do the Irish girls exist? And even if they do...what? They didn't fuck him or whatever? Any infield video?
/r/seduction01/08/15 05:05 PM
4

Sweeping generalization here and if you haven't come in contact with some pretty kickass females and been able to befriend them...well then your social circle is seriously lacking.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:42 PM
1

If it's affecting your game at all I'd tell you to get rid of them. I had a pretty decent chick when I started, around 7 or so. So I'd go out with my wings, sometimes I'd pull and it was great, but I found myself pulling less and less. Why? I didn't push myself hard enough. Why? I knew that after the night, I'd go back to a warm bed with a naked cute 7 on it...rather my wings could just go home and slap the sausage crying in the corner. Those fuckers hustled like their lives depended on it and i…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 04:38 PM
4

Ah the logistics question...Julien has settled it for life according to my opinion. He often mentions his shitty logistics in his videos, but in one he broke it down quite well. So he lived in Lousane, Switzerland....actually not even, a small village next to Lousane with 650 people. So in order to pull a girl he'd have to : Walk a girl from the club, across town at the late hours of the night, towards the train station. The streets they'd go through at those hours were sketchy as fuck, lined up…
/r/seduction01/08/15 04:29 PM
2

Props to your friend for directing you here. Nonetheless your problems won't be solved by a few comments on your very first post. This is a journey you're embarking on, you've already taken the first step and that's fucking amazing. Attracting women or having a vibrant social life is a skill set that can be learned, just like anything else, however you need to invest time and effort into it. Apart from the sidebar, I'd greatly recommend you check out RSD on Youtube, especially RSD Tyler and Juli…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 09:43 AM
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The cool guys never hold any animosity towards anyone on the group. That doesn't mean they like everyone on the group. They will simply ignore or subtly distance themselves from such individuals. So what you're doing is okay, just make sure it doesn't come out as if you actively dislike him.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 06:46 AM
1

RSD Tyler was going on about how he doesn't daygame much in L.A. He echoed what you said that NYC's streets are filled with hotties, but in L.A. you have to walk for hours to find one, so instead he goes to clubs. It's one of few places where hot girls are to be found.
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:42 AM
1

That sounds pretty good. Would it be too much to ask to see a sample breakdown? :)
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:39 AM
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Congratufuckinglations for approaching man! However don't get too hung up on one girl. The cornerstone of cold approaching is having multiple leads. So approach, approach and approach some more.
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:38 AM
1

I do that, however my format changes from FR to FR. What is the format that you use mate?
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:12 AM
4

Well being honest ought to work. Well first of all congratulations for approaching me, kicked approach anxiety in the balls right there. You seem like a cool guy however I do have a boyfriend. I do know that now you're supposed to ignore that or persist more haha, but sadly it won't work. Keep going though :)
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:10 AM
6

I'd subscribe to your Youtube channel.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:16 PM
8

Have you fucked her already?
/r/seduction27/07/15 03:56 AM
1

I've been exactly where you are right now. Moved to a new city, knew exactly two people and I constantly felt afraid. Sometimes despite breathing normally I'd feel out of breath. So I decided I'd had enough. I would not spend lonely nights in my home, I decided to go out and just walk. I'd ask people for directions even though I didn't need them, then I discovered cold approaching. I used that to create a small social circle. After that it all changed. I didn't feel alone anymore. The city I was…
/r/seduction27/07/15 03:55 AM
1

Yeah that's where I can't help you.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:27 AM
2

Yeah that's where I can't help you.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:26 AM
1

Don't get it.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:15 AM
2

I do not have a lot of experience with throwing parties but a friend of mine used to do it all the time back in the day. He always used to say The golden rule of a kickass party is...more girls than boys.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:14 AM
2

The guys told you you're taking this too seriously. slow and steady wins the race; what could the fingers mean You won't listen. So you'll fuck this up and end in the friendzone and learn the hard way instead.
/r/seduction26/07/15 12:57 PM
1

You try to isolate. Sometimes you could just act as if the group isn't there and go ahead...they will not want to see you guys flirting so naturally you'll see their backs turning or moving away subtly.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 02:20 AM
1

Flakes are always going to be there no matter what. However if you're getting flakes all the time, then the problem is with your game. You're not getting them to invest enough, and you do that primarily when you approach them. Demonstrate value, get her chasing and the likelihood that it's a flake decreases a lot.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 07:22 PM
0

I don't leave it on the fence. I escalate so much or make intentions so clear that she is forced to either say Yes or No. If it's a No...then she does the avoiding part.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 07:20 PM
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Wrong subreddit mate, you're looking for /r/friendzone instead. ... Okay man seriously wtf! I don't know what she's gone through, but let's say that's been the reason you guys haven't had sex...but you haven't even kissed her man! WTF?! You're waiting for her to make the move? This is How to Get Friendzoned 101 shit. She says she appreciates how you 'respected' her wishes and didn't do anything while she WAS ON A BED with you? Well I guess You don't have the balls to go for what you want. is a b…
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:58 PM
1

It's the golden rule of physical escalation. Not every time you go to for the kiss, they accept it. Sometimes they'll say no. If it's a hard no(look up hard and soft no's), then you need to show you're COMPLETELY UNAFFECTED by it. Smile, say "I'm too shy anyway"and then quickly change topic. "So what do you do?" and you'll see that they go along and change the topic like nothing happened(nobody wants to dwell on awkward moments). Vibe for a bit more then try again. Seriously dude, this is Game 1…
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:45 PM
1

Here
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:34 PM
1

I think you got some pretty good advice. Most however revolved around what to do when approached and that's cool and all, but in case you want to take this more into your hands, you might want to look into approaching first. If there's some anxiety about it, then look up material on approach anxiety. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:29 PM
1

Detail required
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:22 PM
1

Jeffy RSD has a mindblowingly good program on this. Idk how much it costs, but it's worth it. Although there are other tutorials there I imagine.
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:21 PM
1

Do you even cold approach? Getting laid from social circle is fucking awesome, especially since you're a student, but you simply can't ignore cold approach. Daygaming, Club game? You know of this, right? Of course your game is shit now, you're just starting out. You can't practice in your social circle though. You'll fuck up, you need to fuck up a lot and you only have so many female friends, while strangers...there are tons. Cold approach is where you practice. Start(get some wingmen - highly r…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 06:18 PM
1

Cold approach.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 06:09 PM
0

Game. Youtube. Search bar. RSD. Watch and take notes for a good weekend...then stop. Cold approach. If you're approach anxiety is off the chart then start simple...ask people(men & women) for directions, then move on to hold a 1 min convo and so on until you can approach women.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 06:05 PM
2

"I ain't the girl to fuck with someone who I barely know" You're surprised. What did you expect? "Oh of course you can fuck me in the ass after we're done with the drinks?" That's slut defense 101(read up on it if confused). I did not want to push her into anything Yeah this is where you fucked up. You should have looked her straight in the eyes, smirk "Yeah? Ok." and change topic. Vibe, escalate, move slowly towards pulling location, escalate some more, when faced with no's pull back, vibe some…
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:02 PM
2

If you have the night free, then you go out. Simple as. Google the most popular bars and clubs around. You can game solo, right? If not then look into that. Otherwise find wingmen to motivate you to go out. RSDNation has forums for most the major cities, it's a pain in the ass to make an account, but could be worth it.
/r/seduction25/07/15 05:58 PM
1

Tinder is not a bad idea. If you take care to make a pretty kickass profile, then you'll weed out the shy dames of your dead town and fuck them...if you play it right.
/r/seduction25/07/15 05:56 PM
1

You got some pretty good ideas on the comments, but I'll add this one too. GAME The amount of people with shit game is astounding. Even the popular guys, they don't do cold approach. So when you step in the club and you make a beeline for the hottest girl in the club and just talk. In all probability it won't lead to anything, you're just having a boring convo. But to your mates you're a fucking God. They will shower you compliments, this and that, always be modest, DO NOT try to teach them 'how…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:53 PM
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Ahaaaa...I know the answer to this one. I had this 'problem' for a while too. Then a friend watched some of my sets and goes. You didn't touch her at all. No man, it's not about that. She was so boring. They all are. I just wanted to eject the set. Yeah yeah okay, but you didn't even touch her. This was when I was shit at physical escalation. I would simply not do it. We'd be stuck in conversation forever and of course that's boring. Well try to hold her hand or go in for a kiss and see how live…
/r/seduction25/07/15 05:43 PM
4

A red flag is too serious. That has probably been her experience so far. Kindly tell her you won't put up with that bullshit and in most cases they agree to split the bill. If she persists, treat it as a shit test. Go the 'sandwich' route that another commenter mentioned and so on.
/r/seduction25/07/15 05:40 PM
1

If you take game seriously you'll stick your dick in crazy for sure. This girl told you beforehand, in most cases you won't know until afterwards. Take steps to minimize any potential nuisance or harm she might cause(don't tell her where your house is etc.), other than that...go ahead. She's an adult, it certainly is legal.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:38 PM
2

I don't see the point of this question.
/r/seduction25/07/15 05:35 PM
1

If only it was that easy man. This question is about game, one principle that words in Situation A will completely fuck Situation B, game is fluid. Same in this case. Some girls will fall in fucking love with you if you ignore them. Even in that case though it's not easy, you need to demonstrate value. Julien RSD has some good videos on this. Some others will not respond to that. You just have to stay in set, you have to put up with their bullshit and so on...but in the end you lay them. So...it…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:34 PM
0

Whatever you do, just keep in mind that you'll fuck up. You'll say something that is outright awkward, you'll make a stupid remark, you'll creep someone out or make them laugh...you'll fuck up. There is a learning curve to everything, including social dynamics. Take it easy, don't be harsh on yourself and have fun.
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:20 AM
7

Simple and sweet. There are plenty of concepts that are not explored, like insta-dates and so on but for a beginner this is pretty good.
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:12 AM
2

My comment will be drowned out by hundreds other but you claimed you read all the thousand PMs they sent you, so maybe you read this too. First off, I'm so glad you have discovered TRP and are approaching it with an open mind. Whatever happens in the future is largely irrelevant...once you've seen behind the curtain there's no going back so I trust your life will improve massively. Secondly, apart from the resources on the sidebar and others, I'd highly highly highly suggest you check out : REAL…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 10:43 AM
1

Start a youtube channel.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:35 AM
2

MEEEEEEEENVY
/r/askTRP23/06/15 09:17 AM
6

4 minutes and 23 seconds...any more and she'll get bored, any less and she's not invested enough. So as soon as the timer goes off, grab her number in less than 31 seconds eject the set. /s The answer is when you hook her. Check out RSD Todd he has some insanely good videos on this.
/r/seduction23/06/15 08:38 AM
0

Cat(her) and string(you) situation She contacted you first and you gave her a push. Now you could wait a few days and see if she'll text you again or you could send her a "So what's up with you?". Now you're putting that string in front of her again, watch her leap and tug it back a bit. You don't have to keep this up forever. Most of you interaction could be neutral(normal convo), with these push pulls peppered throughout.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 08:27 AM
2

Back when I had trouble escalating I'd ask myself this question all the time. I was new at escalating but I did force myself to do it. Hold their hand, hi5, hugs even going for the kiss. And I got rejected every single time. OMG! Is this girl friendzoning me? I mean I tried to hold her hand and she refused! Or when we hugged she was eager to leave! She's friendzoning me! Fuck her! I'm leaving her ASAP! Well if you go to hold her hand and yours is sweaty, trembling and the whole thing is painfull…
/r/seduction23/06/15 08:15 AM
1

It's interesting how first you say you're bad at picking up IOI's and now you get shit loads of IOI's (hair flicking, up and down checking, I had a girl throw herself into a Pizza Hut window not long ago right in front of me, slid down it Looney Tunes style) Also... Instead of telling me what a girl did to you ONCE, months ago you should have told me how OFTEN do you cold approach. Every week? Every day? Do you? Because if you did and got girls giving you these "IOI"s on a regular basis then why…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:55 PM
1

The ol' scarcity v.s. abudance mentality. To reach an abundance mentality you need two things : Watch this this. Go out and cold approach. Monk mode is cool and all but when it comes to game the 6-pack is overrated.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 10:27 AM
1

A lot of Game is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you're mortally scared of being blown out, as a result you're stifled, nervous and then 2 feet away from the girl you put on a fake smile and approach...that's disingenuous and some girls will pick up on it...hence the rejection. Become outcome-independent. You don't care what the girl will say. Actually play a little game called let's go get rejected.Try that out and see how it works out.
/r/seduction21/06/15 10:24 AM
1

Cold approaching. Go out in a busy area of your city and make it a goal to talk to girls there. Start small...one girl in the first day, then two then three and so on.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 10:19 AM
3

RSD stuff is pretty solid I have found. If you want less flashy stuff and more grounded game, Willie Beck is the guy for that. Take a look at all and choose what best resonates with you.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 10:15 AM
1

What's the practical side of this? How much does she earn? As much as you? More? Can you afford to forego that income?
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:33 PM
1

PM'ed
/r/seduction11/06/15 01:14 AM
1

That was a major fuck up...BUT it's a reference experience. Send her a text to apologize and that's it...cut ties completely and start gaming. I just actually read what you sent. Dude that's fucked up. Don't contact her ever again...still tho start gaming.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 09:25 PM
4

This isn't about being pussy-whipped or not being manly or whatever. It's business and you need to be professional. I was not told about this surcharge of £44 and I certainly don't appreciate it when it is sprung on me like that. See what they say. You could insist that the agreed price was £330 and as much as you would want to pay the extra £44 you haven't budgeted for it. If they seem to be wavering, keep at it and the girl might foot the bill. If not, consider backing down if you really want …
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:59 PM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 02:55 PM
25

Steak It's simple and sexy as fuck.
/r/seduction26/05/15 02:09 PM
16

Well fucking done mate!
/r/seduction23/05/15 11:46 AM
1

In your case then you need to start with small steps. If you can't even sit in a crowded cafeteria for 2 minutes then forget about getting numbers, makeouts or pulling. You need to get comfortable with people. Ask for direction, for the time...try to hold a one minute convo, stuff like that. And congratulations for having figured out that you can't lean game drunk!
/r/seduction23/05/15 11:44 AM
11

It's not a big deal mate...but of course that's not going to help. I used to feel like you b4 I checked in my v-card. Since your financials look so good, get a hooker.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 12:33 AM
2

Haha you've giving this quite a bit of thought...which is good, but I'm not the person with the answers mate. There are SO many ways this could go. I've seen guys who were unemployed, broke, completely supported by their partner and not only didn't they get so much as a whiff about not working, but they(the gfs) saw them as THE MAN. But for what those guys had was unbreakable frame, a crystal clear purpose in life(even if the purpose was to chillax and smoke weed) and thus passed shit tests with…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:11 PM
1

Then that's fine, I would say.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:54 PM
1

Something that defuses her argument. Is there a way for you to get back into your old job if need be? I don't know. You have to figure it out.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:52 PM
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raises hand Me. I felt exactly the same. Also in case you're wondering what happens after you DO approach, pure endorphin flows through your body...you have this massive fucking grin on your face despite being rejected(of course, you're a beginner). You're the shit! What I would tell you is : Set specific targets. "I am going to do one approach today." Stop walking! Occupy one spot(with lots of traffic) and stay there. And the most important step... Raise the stakes! Right now if you don't appro…
/r/seduction22/05/15 09:48 PM
1

At some point I moved in with a girl so I left my room and my roommate. I had the option to sublet my room, but I chose not to. There was plenty of conflict and in the heat of the moment she asked me to leave her room. I mostly ignored it and kept on, however one time I took her up on her 'offer'. She saw I was willing to do it, started packing my bag and all that jazz and immediately caved in. There was no more talk about me leaving her place. I don't know the answer to your question. Maybe she…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 09:37 PM
3

It's not.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:25 AM
2

No, hi5 like this.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:20 AM
2

Yes, I hi5 the shit out of them.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:07 AM
1

How do you become good at anything? Do you read a maths book and then immediately go take the test? Do you learn pickup and then immediately go to fuck Paris Hilton? No. You PRACTICE. So practice. Approach girls and challenge yourself to hi5 them in the first 2 minutes. Repeat 10 times. Then challenge yourself to hug them, move on to holding their hand. Small steps are not glorious or anything, they are monotonous and repetitive but they guarantee success.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 12:31 AM
10

You don't have to. And before you ask, you can eat pizza tonight, it won't affect your pickup skills.
/r/seduction20/05/15 07:52 PM
1

Watch the beginning of this
/r/seduction18/05/15 08:46 PM
1

I see. Good luck then mate! :)
/r/askTRP17/05/15 10:21 PM
2

A year ago I was in your place(an even worse one to be honest, you motherfucker have had a kiss already). You got a hard and amazing journey in front of you, mate! Glad you're here though! So let's get started : Watch this. It starts at 3:59, you need to watch up until 10:00. And just to hammer the point home, watch this too. The whole thing. How bad are your social skills? If terribly bad(I doubt it) then start approaching random people ask for the time, directions etc. Otherwise, start approac…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 10:20 PM
2

I know exactly how you feel. You pretty much know what to do, have devoured all the theory and yet you're stuck in square one because you can't take action on your own. What worked for me was a bootcamp. If case you don't know, a bootcamp is a program where you hangout with a PUA(professional pickup artist) for 2 days where he acts as your personal wingman. You go out on Friday night, then daygame on Saturday afternoon and go out again on Saturday. It is specific, as in you learn how to approach…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 10:05 PM
11

Overthinking will get you killed. Cute is not too upfront.
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:58 PM
2

I think it should be fine. As long as you guys don't start preaching on each other and trying to convert each other and as long as you perform your religious/non-reliious rituals separately and the other person respects that...then it should be fine. It's like a woman loving fashion. She can watch her fashion shows and hang her fashion posters and she doesn't try to involve you in it, nor do you disrespect her preference.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 03:57 PM
0

WTF are you doing with married women?
/r/askTRP17/05/15 03:54 PM
1

I just saw my friends argue over pizza crusts. I hope your week has been as action-packed as mine. I'm by far no expert, but I'm sure text game is a self-fulfilling prophecy...the more nervous you are that you'll fuck it up, the more likely it is that you will. Chill and have fun.
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:52 PM
1

Either you were drunk when you wrote this...or you're a spiteful evil shit. Either way watch this.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 03:40 PM
16

You aware of slutshaming; slut defence?
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:34 PM
9

No that's perfect. Go ahead and do it.
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:33 PM
2

Is it really worth wondering about?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 03:31 PM
1

You might have come on a bit strong. And your reply there 'I went ahead and made other plans' sounded a bit butthurt and passive aggressive, not a lot, just a bit. You should always be fun and lighthearted when it comes to flaking. e.g. OMG! How are you going to make it up to me? P.S I accept bribes. What to do now? Well she did say she has exams. I assume in two weeks or so the exam will be over. Leave her alone for that time and then text her one more time. If she flakes...next!
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:29 PM
7

Also is there anyway I can know if she was a good girl or not ? Read that out loud. How fucked up is that? How 'beta' is that? Is there a way to know if she was a good girl or not? Does waiting on her to come back make me a beta? She kissed another guy last time and it made me feel like shit! Educate yourself.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:21 PM
2

Haha I feel you mate. I'd say don't spend more time than necessary with her. However even when you do spend time, it doesn't have to be boring. You can make it fun. Self-amuse, tease her, create drama and get away with it.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:04 PM
18

Her being able to affect your mood is not oneitis. That's weak frame. Actually 'weak frame' makes it sound really bad. It's not that bad, just keep it mind and work on it. As soon as you feel that she is affecting your state(annoying, angering you etc.) close your eyes and take a deep breath. Don't panic! OMG she's affecting my state, I'm a pussy! Like when you meditate, you don't freak out when your mind isn't empty. Instead... recognize what is happening I'm getting angry because of her breath…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 11:58 AM
2

The boys said it all pretty much. I just wanted to correct something : NOT the worst night ever, rather THE MOST HILARIOUS night ever! In pickup, there's no good or bad, there's only good or hilarious. You approach a girl, nice convo, vibing, makeout, pull from venue, your/her place, sex == good! You approach a girl, she rejects you... You : Is it because I'm black(I'm white)? ...it's hilarious! Everything which you consider negative, blowouts, flaking, bad nights, bitches...one year from now wh…
/r/seduction17/05/15 11:52 AM
1

Why so focused on texting? Do you not approach? Go out?
/r/seduction17/05/15 11:38 AM
3

Uhm...you do know that /r/seduction is not a dating forum right?
/r/seduction17/05/15 11:37 AM
0

Go ask people for directions. See if they're disgusted.
/r/seduction17/05/15 11:35 AM
1

Irrelevant. If it isn't needed, then you have no excuse for poor social skills. If it is needed and you didn't have it, you still have no excuse. Don't let that belief limit you.
/r/seduction16/05/15 11:33 PM
6

What's the context?
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:32 PM
1

hehehe RSD Julien : She wants the fairytale.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 08:30 PM
1

Do you want to drown in attention? Run away from them and they'll chase.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 01:11 PM
1

Jesse from simplepickup
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:30 PM
0

How about- Ah forget it
/r/askTRP14/05/15 03:30 AM
9

Why is atheism so taboo amongst religious groups?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 03:27 AM
2

If I tell you "RonPaul, don't think of the color red!". What color are you thinking? (Red) If she wants to cheat, she'll do it and there's nothing you can do about it. She has tons of other options. And you being a possessive & controlling little bitch dictating who she can speak and not speak to, makes her want to do it even more. My very first 'serious' relationship was in the first year of uni with this post-grad chick. She was pretty, already had made a start in her career, hung out with imp…
/r/askTRP13/05/15 02:09 PM
0

There you go
/r/askTRP13/05/15 01:19 PM
2

You don't want to bore me do you?
/r/askTRP13/05/15 12:59 PM
6

I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 12:55 PM
24

Take the number of instagram likes, divide it by the length of your and your friend's penis. Whichever number is greater is the guy she likes.
/r/seduction23/04/15 09:09 PM
1

Say please.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 03:45 PM
1

Uhm...yeah worked for me, definitely.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 08:37 PM
1

If what was said in the video, didn't convince you. I don't know what to say.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 07:43 PM
1

Do you daygame/street game?
/r/seduction21/04/15 05:44 PM
3

Here. Second customer today.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:43 PM
0

Have you ever had a girlfriend?
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:42 PM
17

I have a micropenis! BOW TO ME! You've tried everything. You've tried telling them beforehand so it's not a shock to them. You've become an expert in oral(kudos to you for that) to please them in other ways. What you haven't tried is to brag about your micropenis. What you can't fix, you feature. Have you ever pulled your pants down and looked the girl straight in the eyes with a big motherfucking grin on your face? Yeah girl this is what's up. I have a small penis. Suck on the little worm!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:39 PM
2

What you need is an AMAZING VIDEOBLOG OF GLORY
/r/askTRP20/04/15 06:19 PM
5

If life gives you lemons, make life take the lemons back.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 06:10 PM
1

Hahahaha brilliant!!
/r/seduction20/04/15 11:31 AM
6

Hmm...interesting question. Thing is, I believe that everyone has an emotional side. One can't be cool, stoic, collected and dignified 24/7! It's impossible. The question then is do they choose to show that emotional side to you? That comes down to not judging them. They know that they can tell you anything, show you anything about them and you won't judge them.
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:27 AM
1

Force yourself to go out sober!
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:23 AM
1

If she's that shy, perhaps you want to keep it somewhere public. A hike is a cool idea, but maybe she won't feel too comfortable being alone in the wild with a male. Just saying, perhaps she agrees to it. Other than that, try and tone it down a bit. If she's not very expressive and you're one of those funny, loud frat guys, she simply can't relate to you. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:21 AM
3

Haha, I'm proud of you mate! This is the single most important step, the very first one. I've done this as well. At first I was just asking for directions. Excuse me. I'm kind of lost. Do you by any chance know where Bullshit Street is?(I lived in Bullshit Street) They'd know or not and that was it in the beginning. Then I tried to extend the conversation. Oh okay, thank you. By the way that scarf is so bla bla. Baby steps bro. P.S. There are no "failures". If someone ignores you or is impolite,…
/r/seduction20/04/15 12:17 AM
1

You watch this video up until the end and if you're not thinking I'm the fucking shit! then know that nothing can save you.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:40 AM
2

It is true that you're taking this way too seriously. The guys that have this handled, it's not a big deal for them. As the first commenter said Agree and Amplify work for 95%. However you might want to get a thicker skin. Try and put yourself in situations where there's constant conflict. Not saying you go to prison or something, instead...Idk, get an xBox and play Call of Duty and see if you can win a war of words against 14 year olds. Get creative!
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:24 PM
-4

A lot of people here are going to tell you. STFU and LIFT!!! and looking at the other comments, I wasn't disappointed. :) OBVIOUSLY a guy who is ripped, has a fucking 6 pack will attract more girls than a skinny or an obese one. However skinny or guys with a belly with better then will take turns making out with the girlfriend of the ripped 6 ft guy. One of my first wings really bought into the whole SMV concept. He was telling me how he was saving to get this $2,000 watch, he had this diet and …
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:09 AM
0

Love it! Well fucking done mate!
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:48 AM
1

I don't know what to say. It's just not how I do things. I mean how often do you go out? Do you cold approach? Can you?(how big is your city?) What's the way I do things? Well if I'm a fisherman, I just cast this net and capture a lot of fish(I daygame and go to bars/clubs a lot and thus meet tons of women). You're right that most of the fish are too small(most women are not that high quality, or at least girlfriend material) but some are. While you would be the fisherman with a spear! You're lo…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:43 AM
0

This is basic stuff dude. Can't believe you had discovered TRP earlier and you still handled the situation like this. I've been friendzoned a lot and I kind of am an expert in it. You executed all the steps on how to get friendzoned. I'm surprised you're not officially in it, yet again you haven't slept with her yet have you? Your post is lathered with blue pill examples, but I'm going to lay some down for you : You waited a month and a half to ask if she is seeing anyone. That's wrong on so man…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:36 AM
1

dat bot indeed What about appearance? Would you go for a career focused, well educated, low CC count 5?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:22 AM
3

Hmm...there's tons. Of the top of my head can't think of any, but just youtubing it, gives you this. You can't really go wrong with RSD. There isn't any complicated science to it, honestly. It's just physical contact. Holding hands, high fives, hugs, spins, touch hair, touch face, kiss...that's it. Just keep practicing...a lot! Approach anxiety cannot be an issue. I used to tell myself, I'll go out today and out of all my approaches I just want to try one thing...get her to high five, hug her, h…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:20 AM
1

Define quality! Sex freaks? Career focused? Well educated? Rich?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 12:58 AM
9

It IS because of fear. Hear me out here. So I would open sets, start a nice conversation and then quickly get bored. It was just talk and talk and talk. It got to the point where I didn't want to go out with my wings anymore. What was the point? I just got really bored in my sets. Then one of my friends broke it down for me. Why did I get bored? He never had that problem. I said, they just kept talking and talking. He asked "What about escalation?" I was so afraid of escalation that I didn't eve…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 12:57 AM
1

20 years from now people might be frustrated that your grasp on Chinese is not tip top.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 05:26 PM
-6

Do you know how to make them squirt? You could be horrible in bed, but even if you're not it's the number one way of assuring they'll keep chasing after you...aggressively ;). There's a very good video on it, I can track it down for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:40 PM
1

I personally wouldn't.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:29 AM
15

First of all, I want to say I have mad respect for you mate. 18 years old and having that kind of income, that kind of career path...it's just impressive. You could always be an internet troll, but in case you're not...mad respect. Now to answer your question. I do get the impression that you're very...external It seems to me that you tie your self worth with external stuff : I make good money selling cars. About $5500 a month I drive a 2013 Scion FRS (manual) got laser eye surgery bought my own…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 05:06 PM
21

Getting rid of AA huh? I'll tell you how I started doing it, maybe it helps. I struggled a lot with AA. I would go out and see a girl walking alone(easy set), and I would try and brainwash myself("I'm the shit! I'm amazing! Approaching is nothing!") which wasn't genuine, it was fake. So I tried to go genuine...using logic. "If you approach, you won't die. Nothing bad will happen, you'll live. So approach." and guess what? I still wouldn't do it. So I decided to force myself to approach. I will g…
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:43 PM
1

Messaging the mods instead of posting might help.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 01:14 AM
-5

Don't lose your shit. You shouldn't lose your shit because of a girl(ever), but when that happens, accept it and channel that energy into witty texts. The Guiness World Book just called...they think you just broke the record for the most-engaged-texter-ever. The ceremony is tomorrow evening at my place.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:12 AM
6

Clubs are extremely overwhelming so kudos to you for approaching 4. Seriously! Well done! If you're a newbie at club game, likely you're approaching half-assedly and you can't do that at the dance floor. Girls are hyped up, having fun...they won't even notice you unless you're having as much fun as they are! Half-assedly will not work for dance floor. Approaching at the quieter areas like the bar, the couches or the smoking area is easier. As I said four approaches is great, but you have to be a…
/r/seduction02/04/15 01:02 AM
1

I don't want to be like those pretentious girls that say Oh my gaaaad! and facepalm themselves, but you leave me no choice. facepalm This is your pinky. You're saying you don't need game, you don't want to do it, but if you did, you'd nail it down in little time bcs you're so good and so on and so on. That's horseshit! Until you try it, you don't know. I know your naturally massive ego will make you scoff at what I'm saying, but in the end, I'm just a stranger in the internet. Whether you listen…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:42 AM
1

Answering a question with a question. Touche If your purpose is to meet other girls and expanding your reach, you can simply go out and cold approach, or hit the clubs/bars and so on. I don't see why you'd want to game the social circle of a specific girl(hence the question). That's like grabbing your left ear with your right hand...you could, but why not use the left one?
/r/seduction02/04/15 12:29 AM
2

what pitfalls should I be most aware of in my situation? Sailing always looks easy to people on the shore. Advice : don't be afraid to get your pinky wet.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:21 AM
9

Now we awkwardly stare at each other until someone has found something socially acceptable and seemingly interesting to share. (smile a lot)
/r/seduction02/04/15 12:16 AM
4

Don't be a dick. Just because you're cooking a meal doesn't mean she'll come home and gift you a wrapped vacuum cleaner and christen you the bitch who does the house chores. You have time and desire to cook. You cook. I knew a guy who'd seduce women by cooking. The guy could make you orgasm with his steaks. Any girl he got in a long(a month or so) relationship with, he'd always be the cook and I haven't meet a more red pill guy than he was.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:06 AM
1

The question is why?
/r/seduction02/04/15 12:00 AM
10

Very interesting. Probably the first time in my life I wished I spoke french.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:57 PM
1

I'm your opposite. Want to switch places?
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:22 PM
-1

Interesting view on marriage. It's pretty far away for me but the more you know...
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 10:39 AM
1

Interesting view on marriage.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 10:37 AM
1

Interesting view on marriage.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 10:37 AM
2

baby, I found the place. It's right there, well go at this time, there's no way of getting caught because of this. I need more time/I'm not sure. I made the effort of finding a safe place for us. Do you want to come or not? It's not so... (The answer is not yes or no so you turn around and walk away. Nothing makes a girl chase you like the willingness to walk away. You have to walk away tho.)
/r/seduction31/03/15 09:33 PM
1

Here!
/r/seduction31/03/15 09:06 PM
1

She's shit testing mate. Don't take it too seriously. However you still do have a problem...no place to fool around AND it's your job to find one. I read your previous post. Isn't there a friend apartment you could go? What about the nature? A hike and somewhere deep in the woods? Find such a place, go up to her all smiley like nothing happened. babe I found the place. Come!
/r/seduction31/03/15 09:02 PM
2

Well fucking done mate! I'm so proud that you're taking action. Just remember motivation is like showering, you need to have it on a daily basis. Some days it won't be there. Don't worry, keep persisting.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:37 PM
2

Well done! And you're welcome mate!
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:19 PM
1

Today she hasn't talked to me. One bit. I sent 3 texts over the course of the day. I also sent a Snapchat that showed she opened it. But she hasn't viewed my story. Did I fuck up? What did I do? What should I do? Please help!!!! Casey!!! How did you find me here?! Oh...sorry. For a moment, I thought it was my paranoid, clingy, needy ex. Whew! So...uhm, back to your question...
/r/seduction30/03/15 01:15 AM
1

If you think you need permission from Seddit on which stories to tell or not on a date, then you have a bigger problem.
/r/seduction30/03/15 12:26 AM
14

Stop thinking about her! After breaking up, there are certain things that us "hurt people" like to do. Stuff like, rereading through our cute texts and smile to otherselves as we cry softly, or just lying in bed and thinking how cute she was or seeing her favorite color and thinking of her. Cut that shit out! You know the noFap people? As soon as you think about masturbatingher, take a cold shower. This will pass, you know it will pass, the whole point is to make it pass faster. Thinking about "…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:47 PM
2

Unlike other areas of pickup, approaching is one area that's not affected by inner game.(personal opinion) I have struggled a lot with AA. I would go out and see a girl walking alone(easy set), and I would try and brainwash myself("I'm the shit! I'm amazing! Approaching is nothing!") which wasn't genuine, it was fake. So I tried to go genuine...using logic. "If you approach, you won't die. Nothing bad will happen, you'll live. So approach." and guess what? I still wouldn't do it. So if inner gam…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:24 PM
2

She clearly got to you with that shit test...otherwise you wouldn't be here asking this question. However, on the other hand, perhaps it's a good question to ask. I'd suggest oral. If you're too grossed out by that, then become a master of fingering. Do you know how to make her squirt? Do that and she'll beg to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:11 PM
-1

Do you have any stats for that? ...and stats that you pull out of your ass don't count.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 11:08 PM
1

How's your approach anxiety?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:07 PM
1

That's her texting you again...after that it's up to you not to fuck it up again, but even if you will...you're freaking 16 mate, plenty of time to fuck up and learn from it!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:06 PM
1

Oh excuse me your highness. This simple peasant didn't understand he was intruding upon your highly busy schedule. Feel free to punish him...hard ;)...when you meet him next weekend!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:04 PM
1

Okay, so until she contacts you first...you don't contact her. But what if she doesn't text me? She will. If you go radio silence on her, she will. It's a basic human instinct, even thought being clingy and needy is off putting as fuck it's also flattering and we kind of like it. So after some time, she'll think Why hasn't he bothered me with pointless texts?(subconsciously of course) and send you a text to poke you, just to see if you'll take the bait and start nagging again.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:55 PM
1

Second insecure guy for tonight...here you go mate! And NO! Don't give me that "...but my question was about NYC." New York is a huge metropolitan city, you can find white people, black, brown...every fucking color, it's not some backwards Southern village filled with racists. If the person in front of you isn't racist(majority aren't in NYC), then you can talk to them, show them how fucking cool you are. Best of luck!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:48 PM
1

The escalation guide really caught my interest. First Hank Moody, then Don Draper and so on. The video was very impressive too. Are there anymore clips like that...Don laying the law?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:40 PM
1

Haha good luck mate! You might want to start searching in the outskirts of Kyrgyzstan...there are the untitled ones.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:32 PM
1

Don't complain. Learn how the system works and take advantage of it.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:25 PM
10

Own it! I mean, there's nothing else you can do. If you were a chick, you could probably say you got raped lol(that's not funny doe) But seriously, own it! Most of the people who're giving you shit about it are doing it to get a reaction out of you. Do a B.Rabbit on them...whatever they got to say about you, you've said it already. Yeah I fucked her...all fucking night! I didn't even use a fucking condom, but it's fine the exterminators are coming on Thursday, they're going to spray me with that…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 10:23 PM
1

Your looks are not an excuse!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 09:19 PM
38

Hmm...interesting question(we don't get many of them these days). My personal approach has been stoic and treat them like a child and the results are pretty good, however I can see how sprinkling in some anger can yield some very interesting results. If there's one thing I would say about using anger : Use it sparingly! Someone who is usually stoic and reserved, when and if he screams, peoples' eyes widen. They're thinking Oh shit, he never screams and he's screaming...he's really pissed off!. I…
/r/askTRP29/03/15 09:13 PM
1

Until you can say "My AA is taken care of, with lone girls, with groups, with girls with boyfriends with everyone." I wouldn't progress unto other stuff. First make yourself able to approach anyone then work on how to make your approaches more effective.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 03:41 PM
5

Seconded
/r/askTRP29/03/15 02:53 PM
2

Haven taken care of your AA(approach anxiety)?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:05 PM
1

A motherfucking asshole killed 150 people.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:19 AM
8

Well fucking done mate!
/r/seduction28/03/15 02:17 AM
1

Hmm...good point. Will keep it in mind.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 01:44 PM
5

It's unclear what you're looking for. Are you disatisfied from previous sexual experiences and are looking for improvement? Are you looking for a relationship with someone stable?
/r/seduction27/03/15 01:29 AM
12

Stop complaining. Your attitude should be : Okay so my upbringing has pretty much fucked me, but fuck that. How do I get ahead?
/r/seduction26/03/15 10:47 AM
1

There really any rocket science or any mysterious thing to it. If you want to improve, go out every weekend(at the least), do some Daygame in between and that's it. Point is : do something. Next time you come here your question should be : I went out last weekend, approached over 30 sets, opened well but failed to hook them. I think it's about escalation, how do I improve? Not I am hitting the gym hard, why aren't any chicks landing on my D?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:43 AM
1

Here
/r/askTRP25/03/15 11:39 PM
6

I used to be like you. Every time I got a flake, I wanted to read into it and draw huge lessons about how I failed and avoid it in the future. Oh she said she can't make it today as she got tons of work for tomorrow. What could that mean? Was my text game not perfect? Let's run through every line and analyze it. Chill! Flaking is very...flakey. It happens for the silliest of reasons. I didn't realize that, until a friend of mine was supposed to go on a date when minutes before the girl texted th…
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:35 PM
2

I had a similar situation. It wasn't that bad! I mean I did have some envy, but it didn't keep me awake at night or anything like that, more like a nagging thing. Solution One Realize you're being a butt hurt little bitch. Stop comparing yourself to him and if that ever happens you ought to use that as inspiration to push harder yourself. If that fails. Solution Two Distance yourself from him. Back then I didn't know about solution one, so I did number two. Worked pretty well. I built another so…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 11:27 PM
5

Make sure she looks away first!
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:22 PM
1

Dude, stop lifting! Okay, I'm joking, but seriously. Guys with fucking moobs and full blown bellies, or fucking 5'5" are pulling 8s and 9s consistently! If you lift now, you do it for health purposes, you don't do it to improve your game. Gaming will improve your game. How new are you to this? Have you done cold approach before? Are you familiar with the theory?
/r/askTRP25/03/15 11:22 PM
16

Dude if there is one thing that I've know for sure is : Never EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER listen to women when it comes to women.
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:44 PM
1

What a stupid question.
/r/seduction25/03/15 01:41 PM
2

Tyler
/r/seduction24/03/15 11:06 AM
1

There you go mate!
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:50 AM
1

You know there are other girls huh? Should I send you THE CURE?
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:14 AM
3

She's playing you like a violin. Wake up and smell the coffee and run away from her!
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:11 AM
14

Forget the rest, focus on mindset. The correct mindset is this. I know in the beginning they are talking about race, they get over to height in a bit, but if you really want this issue handled, watch the entire freaking thing.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:08 AM
3

One reason is they weren't satisfied. Yes they can fake orgasms and fake scream as well. Read Sex God Method or Tyler has a really good video on making them squirt, takes a few minutes only. Another reason is that you were too clingy with your texts and turned them off. About textgame, I'm not too much of an expert.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:03 AM
2

If "no alcohol" is your excuse for clubs and bars, then it's no excuse. Nobody will force you to drink, glasses of water are always available at the bar for free. However, I realize it's a very hectic, chaotic, overwhelming environment so I understand if you want to skip it. Don't write it off though. Not shying away from a challenge is the best habit you can form. To answer your question : Daygame!
/r/seduction23/03/15 10:31 PM
1

Here
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:37 PM
2

Hmm...there was a bit of escalation, perhaps not enough, but still. Maybe this is just an odd occurrence, 4 friendzones in a row, but in any case, don't read too much into it. Go in another date or couple of dates, doing exactly what you did and if you get friendzoned again, then you didn't escalate enough. Put your escalation into hyperdrive! She refused to kiss you after you leaned in. Lean in again!(this is actually commonplace, 90% of the time they will turn their cheek, so you try again, 2 …
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:26 PM
1

Its an internet fad that 0.00000001% works. I believe in finding girls through social groups, class, and bars, etc. I'm not your man then. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:13 PM
1

You're still counting the days since you broke up with her. That videos says "stop it!" But okay, I might have jumped the gun. So tell me, do you approach girls on the street? Daygame?
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:54 PM
1

Here
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:33 PM
2

The other guy is right. It would be cruel to let her waste her youth days with you hoping for marriage when in the end you don't intend to do that.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:23 PM
3

You don't have to. Honey, I'm not a marriage type of guy. I want to be fair to you and tell that you will not be getting a ring from me ever. I'm happy with us as we are. If that's not for you, I'm happy for you to make your own choice whatever that might be.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:14 PM
1

This isn't /r/Tinder
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:12 PM
1

Do you escalate?
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:11 PM
2

Define flirt.
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:55 PM
1

Here
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:49 PM
3

Huh? Wait, so you can : Approach with no problem Make convo with no problem Escalate physically with no problem Mate, if you're making out with them, I'm pretty sure they got the hint. No flirting required.
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:47 PM
8

For the approach : I'd read all the theory, I'd try and rationalize that approaching was OKAY and still my stupid brain would not yield. So I decided to fucking force it! 7 PM : Out of the house, head to the city square. It's fucking freezing. &gt; Okay brain, now you and me are NOT going to GO BACK home, unless we approach ONE SET! &gt; So either you get your act together and approach, or we're going to freeze here together and spend the night in a fucking park bench. Result : I spent 4 hours, …
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:44 PM
0

Because the clouds array themselves in such a way that the sunlight that falls on your forehead reads Ask this guy if he has a girlfriend. /s You're reading too much into nothing. Just ignore it or answer sarcastically and you're cool.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 06:37 PM
2

Tell her you won't.
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:35 PM
1

Hmm... You guys have texted enough. The next message you send him should go like this : You know the unspecified, completely ambiguous period of time a boy and a girl need to text each other before a meet up? I think we've reached. So on [day you're free + time you're free] pick me up from [place he can pick you up]. :* Uhm...also tell me what you're wearing, I don't want us to end up wearing dresses with matching colors. :P Short, sweet, a small little joke in the end. Yes, in an ideal world he…
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:34 PM
2

when do you know when its real and not just fake illusion? Do I know the girl or not? * Have I slept with her? * Have I lived with her? * Have I gone on a hike/picnic with her?(you can learn a lot about a girl by the way she behaves in the wild) * Have I known her for more than 6 months, preferably one year? If the answer to the questions above is No. then it's just infatuation. Not all of it is bad. It's completely fine if your face brightens up when you get a text from her, that's part of the …
/r/seduction23/03/15 12:46 PM
20

I love questions like this. This is who I am, these are my problems and this is what I'm doing. Should I change my strategy? You're taking action! Well done! My suggestions : Cut the alcohol. The only purpose alcohol has when it comes to game is to show you that it is possible to approach random people and get a good reaction out of them. It has done its job, from now on, you go forward without alcohol. It will be tough. When I started to approach without being absolutely hammered, it was a nigh…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:57 AM
2

I don't want to be the dickhead that screams ONEITIIIIIIS just for the fun of it...but look at the FACTS : You've been on two dates with her You haven't slept with her or lived together You don't know her She already "have touched my heart and now you will always be a part of it" Here's the cure. Best of luck to you mate!
/r/seduction23/03/15 11:29 AM
1

Marketing...you're doing it wrong!
/r/seduction20/03/15 07:56 PM
1

Thanks for your constructive criticism. Hard to find...but it's there!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:37 PM
12

I was like you. I'd read all the theory, I'd try and rationalize that approaching was OKAY and still my stupid brain would not yield. So I decided to fucking force it! 7 PM : Out of the house, head to the city square. It's fucking freezing. > Okay brain, now you and me are NOT going to GO BACK home, unless we approach ONE SET! > So either you get your act together and approach, or we're going to freeze here together and spend the night in a fucking park bench. Result : I spent 4 hours, walking a…
/r/seduction18/03/15 12:22 PM
20

I am sometimes a fox and sometime a lion. Napoleon Be a fox about this one. You know how you prevent someone from fucking with you? You let them know you have something on them that can fuck them up completely. He explicitly threatened you and that's huge when lawyers and courts are involved. So you can send a message that goes like this : Dear Sir, Your previous texts explicitly threatened me and I do not take kindly to that type of behavior. I want to inform you that I have contacted my lawyer…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 02:07 AM
2

You don't analyse what one girl said/did. You approach/ask out several and then see if you can find a pattern and then work on fixing any sticking points that might come out of it.
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:24 AM
37

The planets alignment is off by a bit and that's why. Translation : Idk man...give more details.
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:23 AM
1

I truly don't care about it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:22 AM
1

1. Focus If you're trying to focus on your body(gym), your game(going out and so on), your career etc. and you've recently been unplugged...of course you'll (1) be confused and (2) not excel in either of them. Focus on one. Your career. Forget about game. You can keep the gym if you want to, but it's secondary, it can't start to mess with your career. To that end, I'd highly highly suggest reading Think and Grow Rich and as a bonus The Four Hour Workweek. This will help you set a goal where you …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:52 AM
1

You must read The Four Hour Workweek! But if you can't be bothered...cool! :)
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:46 AM
3

You lose control if you make that attempt at bargaining. That line is so powerful and puts everything into perspective. Thank you for your advice! I really appreciate and will attempt to implement it. Also, if she's travelling AND she's pressuring you to give her more time, she's psychologically try to find a reason to put some blame on to you so that she can get away with something later. When it comes to her cheating on me, she can. I'm actually experimenting with non-possessiveness. You want …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:41 AM
13

Him : You're racist! Smile and walk away. DO NOT get into an argument. I went up to this stand as they had free candy...getting closer, I saw they were the Feminist Club asking people to sign a petition to Stop sexual harassment on campus! I quickly turned around to leave. One of the girls : What's wrong sir? Do you support sexual harassment? I said nothing, just smiled and walked away. That was the end of it.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:34 AM
7

Fuck the bars/clubs! Go to meetup.com and find groups that do shit you might like. Most are free and the people are cool. Daygame! Daygame like a motherfucker! If you won't fuck them(and likely you won't) at least you'll get friendzoned and that's great...you build your social circle with pretty girls. Get yourself some wings! Go online. Your city ought to have a lair. Get together with them. You have the same goals, the same vision, there's bound to be a connection there!
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:18 AM
3

not much of an active social life because I'm lacking money. Since when do you need money to get a social life?
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:45 PM
2

You're sitting upon a gold mine dude! You know how I escalate? do lots of high fives, I do lots of hugs, or kiss on the cheek and when they go Woah, woah...nope! I just apologize and say I'm like the Italians. We're very physical people. And then try again, and if they don't object I take things further(hand holding, kissing lips etc.) Tu bastardo puoi fare questo adesso!!! You don't need the excuse, you don't get the pushback. You can just do it! In buocca lupo!
/r/seduction17/03/15 11:43 PM
1

What's a running errands date?
/r/seduction17/03/15 12:26 AM
1

How about?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:19 PM
2

I was like you. I'd read all the theory, I'd try and rationalize that approaching was OKAY and still my stupid brain would not yield. So I decided to fucking force it! 7 PM : Out of the house, head to the city square. It's fucking freezing. Okay brain, now you and me are NOT going to GO BACK home, unless we approach ONE SET! So either you get your act together and approach, or we're going to freeze here together and spend the night in a fucking park bench. Result : I spent 4 hours, walking aroun…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:17 PM
12

You're the second customer today.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:05 PM
2

What?! You can't control who people are attracted to and you shouldn't. So she has a crush on you. Let her. What you can do : Don't lead her on! If you lead her on, when it all smashes into pieces she's going to cry to her girlfriends and they will blame you. If you're stoic and unresponsive to her future advances, then they can't really blame you, can they?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:22 PM
3

Here
/r/askTRP16/03/15 02:16 PM
19

Seriously? Someone made an off-hand comment to you and now you're doubting your whole world? Be more grounded man. Let bullshit like that bounce off of you.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 12:34 PM
2

Look up the law in your state country. What constitutes as rape? What evidence is needed? Can she still sue you after 2 years? Perhaps consult a lawyer if you have the financials.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 12:33 PM
6

You go now...you'll come back soon enough. Unless she utterly destroys you.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:35 AM
1

Read the ULTIMATE GUIDE TO FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY AND PASS SHIT TESTS LIKE A CHAMP Btw that book doesn't exist...but this one does.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 09:02 AM
0

She will tell you. Oh I'm sorry, I'm in a rush. Or she might stop and listen to what you have to say. Don't assume anything!
/r/seduction11/03/15 08:59 AM
2

Might not work at all for him. I set this frame from the beginning. I have no idea what happens when you try and change the frame halfway through? Will she buy it? Will she see through it? shrugs shoulders In any case, OP can always start all over with a diff girl and set his frame from the beginning.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:19 AM
6

Similar position. You know how you keep her away from other guys? You push her towards them. She : I'm going on a date, since you do it all the time. :* ;). Me : Wait! Make sure you show lots of cleavage. It's your best feature! ;) She's never been on a date with other guys. Actively tries to show me how she has renounced other men. Side effect : clingy as fuck! Conclusion : Non-possessiveness rocks!
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:07 AM
5

Bravo!!! Keep it up mate!
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:01 AM
8

Most of the "feedback" from girls is bullshit. oh you're not romantic enough!! But this one has some good tips : straightforward, carry the convo, confident etc. You should be like. oh, that's not bad advice. Cheers(kiss on cheek) and then walk away like Charlie Chaplin, thinking of plans to implement to improve on those points. You shouldnt doubt yourself and think you're doomed!
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:00 AM
18

A few months ago, this guy reaches out to me. He wants us to be wings. He's Indian and not handsome by any standard. Of course I accept. Now I was a bit further ahead than him. I could approach, that was it. He had severe AA, would walk for hours and not open a girl. Went out with me, I literally forced him to open ONE girl. He did, it was terrible, but the fucking joy on his face. After that, we were going out. He quickly reached my level, more dedicated than me, would go out solo and shit. I h…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:54 AM
3

I guess my follow up question would be is it worth making an appearance at her party? It depends. You don't want to fuck her before the semester is up, but you do want to increase attraction. Why is she attracted to you? Is it because you're older and you're that mature teacher? Stoic and authoritative? Then act accordingly. Perhaps drop by for a few minutes, give her a gift or congratulate her and then go(despite her requests to stay). Why not stay? Because you're stoic, authoritative remember?…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:00 AM
2

If you really like your job i.e. that's your focus, your purpose at the moment, then no pussy is worth it! How long is she going to be your student for? If that stops in the summer, surely you can wait for a few months. If not, then you have a bigger problem...lack of abundance with women. Are you going out? However, she might be not crazy e.g. no risk of blackmail, snitching and so on. How can you determine that? Can you even do that? shrugs shoulders
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:41 AM
1

Next Step : Get out of the Friendzone
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:37 AM
3

Assuming she has a gay friend.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:29 AM
1

Very circumstantial. I mean you have to find a gay guy first, then befriend him, then convince him about gaming and such(most people are feminist or not that kind of person) and then bring him along to clubs which are not gay(assuming that's where you're picking girls up). Rather, I've found gay guys are really fucking good when it comes to fashion advice!
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:23 AM
2

If you're fucking in convenient times...like during the day or not that late, then make a deal with the friend. Give her a warning text, so she can take a walk or something. Otherwise, if it's 3 AM in the morning or basically inconvenient...well there are thousands of places to fornicate. Dark alleys, the bathrooms of casinos(those places are classy as shit, better than most bedrooms)...it adds an adventure vibe to the whole thing that your girl will surely enjoy. Or or...try to fuck as silently…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:20 AM
1

I used to think they were mostly a waste of time given all the free content out there(RSD has hundreds of videos online), however I've spoken to friends who've gone and it condenses months worth of experince of going out alone/with wings into a weekend, literally pushes you to the next level. So I'd definitely suggest a bootcamp(research the guy who's giving it though), provided you can afford it. Otherwise, find yourself some wings and go out regularly. P.S. If you're in London, you're in luck …
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:16 AM
1

How do you feel about bootcamps?
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:05 AM
6

Indirect openers. So the I thought you were cute and wanted to say "Hi." doesn't work anymore. Instead say ask for directions(where is the cafeteria even though you know), advice(do you know how to get on the internet), have you seen the weather forecast...bullshit basically. If the girl is responsive...Oh yeah, head down to the right and the cafeteria is there. then follow up with other questions. Oh I'm Mike btw. bla bla and you're in. If the girl is not responsive or curt, then who cares? You…
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:05 AM
3

Yeah you didn't handle that right. That's a shit test. Something like : K Wear red(or whatever), you always look good in red. :) However, she's still with you. So for the future keep in mind...she's feminine energy, wild, flimsy, delicate, picture a ping pong ball in a box. The ball will bash against the box ceaselessly(shit tests) and you're the masculine, you're her rock...you the ball doesn't affect you, her shit tests bounce off of you. You stand your ground, you don't move along with it. If…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:32 AM
3

Say it with a big smile. Amused mastery. She'll come back with more shit test to crack your shield of congruence. Don't take her seriously. Whatever you say(you might even say nothing), just remember to keep cool and smile.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:17 AM
2

Go out and approach
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:56 PM
2

There.
/r/seduction09/03/15 01:44 PM
2

Go to OkCupid and make a fake profile with the pic of a relatively handsome guy(if that's you, cool!), because looks matter quite a lot when it comes to online dating. Put the time in to make a comprehensive profile and then start messaging girls. In no time you'll be chatting with 5 girls at the same time for hours every day. So keep at it for about a month, a month and a half. At first you'll struggle a bit, but then coming up with witty remarks will come to you easily and quickly.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:24 AM
1

On in that case, that's good.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:44 AM
3

Depends man. Personally, I'm a very not timid type of guy, so I have no qualms about being straightforward with them. This isn't working. We should end this. Have a good life! However, I know other people do the fade out or simply stop contact. I don't think there's a right way really, but if you want to minimize their pain...a bullet to the head is better than 7 in the chest.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:42 AM
1

I realize that "getting your Ex back" is very popular topic with the newbies, who are plagued by ONEITIS, but you're really not offering them value by feeding their oneitis. Sound business strategy though.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:29 AM
2

Perhaps you speak very fast. I had a teacher like that...he could finish a reading a paragraph in 4 seconds.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:27 AM
2

Hmm...why? I mean, you can of course do it, but if they're not up for it, they'll feel a bit uncomfortable, which will affect repeat business. If I was your boss, I'd strictly prohibit that. It's extremely hard to keep business and pleasure apart, especially when it comes to clients(coworkers are a delicate issue). However, it is possible to pull it off. You mentioned your boss is laid back, so it's possible there no repercussions. But then again, you come back to the 3 letter word. Why? There a…
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:26 AM
2

When it comes to approach, I really hate the questions : "How do I approach this one girl or this one group of girls???" It comes down to the criminally underrated question Are you doing it for the girl or for the game? What's so special about this one girl? Or those girls? Aren't there thousands or at least hundreds or thousands of other girls in your city. Literally, walk for 10 minutes and I guarantee you, you'll come across hotter women. When you game, you game for yourself, so you improve y…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:19 AM
3

Lose your virginity and then you'll realize you've been stressing over nothing...it's just a fleshy wet hole. As the other say, get a hooker, get it over with and then start pimping!
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:56 AM
1

Here It's a podcast about this guy(Willy Beck) who started lost his virginity at 22 and started gaming thereinafter and now is a fucking GOD. I think it will be helpful.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:54 AM
2

Mad respect for Russell Brand...the amount of charisma the guy has, it's off the charts!!! How he can make an audience look to him as God, be it a symposium full of students or a Parliamentary Committee. When it comes to socializing or pickup...sure follow his style. Most of the content used is bullshit anyway, so why not bullshit the right way? But when it comes to sensitive issues, like politics or economics or business, you want to be a bit more reserved...like Obama for example. You can say …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:33 AM
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She's not worried about the noise, or at least that's not her primary concern. starting a relationship and bringing your gf over we should also talk about that and have a meet and greet or something. let you know my expectations and if it's different from yours, then we need to resolve it. She's some kind of feminist that's dead set against the whole picking up girls and one night stands and notice how she's brings up meet and greet; [discussion] to resolve it. She wants to convert you, to settl…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:24 AM
1

How? Is it a .pdf file? Thanks in advance.
/r/seduction09/03/15 12:27 AM
2

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill...download it and read it!
/r/askTRP08/03/15 11:43 PM
1

Look kids...that's a troll in its natural habitat
/r/seduction08/03/15 11:42 PM
1

The Answer
/r/seduction08/03/15 11:41 PM
5

How do we download it? I don't have Kindle.
/r/seduction08/03/15 09:59 PM
4

26 is not old at all. Rather the perfect age. I have to lie when I'm in clubs because everyone is 23-24 or even 25. If I say I'm 19, they leave faster than if I had the Black Plague. Oh yeah, I'm totally 25. Even with young girls. They don't want a teenager. 26 is awesome...own it!
/r/seduction08/03/15 09:51 PM
2

When it comes to Oneitis, there's only one cure! As delivered by God himself...RSDJulien.
/r/seduction08/03/15 09:45 PM
4

The fact that you got bullied a lot when you were 12 is irrelevant! Almost all of us who strive to improve our lives have had a rough start. Some have been screwed over by a girl or a woman, some have gone through crippling anxiety and depression and you know what? Everyone understands you. You go to someone and you say...my social life is lacking because I was severely bullied as a kid. Everyone will understand you, it's not your fault, it's just bad luck, a shitty start in life. But you want t…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 09:44 PM
3

Leave him be.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 03:10 PM
3

This is not /r/rateme
/r/seduction08/03/15 11:17 AM
4

Do baby steps. So don't think about hugging or making out or sex...just hold her hand. Make it a goal...for the next 2 weeks, every approach I will make, I have on goal in mind...I need to take their hand in mine and hold it. Why two weeks? Because you can't fix a sticking point by just doing it once. I assume you've got AA handled, how did you do that? In a day or over a period of time? So do that. The first few times will be terribly scary, you will be awkward as fuck, rejected, nervous...what…
/r/seduction07/03/15 06:26 PM
2

Hmm...cool. I don't think I've ever seen a PUA interview a girl after sex and post it online so that's cool and all. However, there's little educational value in this. The video is mostly the girl giggling and smiling.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:52 PM
5

If you were some pickup god who can get anyone he wants and the pool from which he has to choose is not attractive enough...peeerhaps I'd believe this is a real problem. But you : * Have little experience with dating and pickup. Deduction : Your game is not that great. Which leads me to believe that this whole not attractive enough is just an excuse and all that "I grew up in Florida...I went to this uni..." is just bullshit that helps you rationalize your excuses. Perhaps, I'm wrong, but this i…
/r/seduction05/03/15 10:47 PM
10

What you did wrong? Well, I can't see much. Perhaps not keeping the conversation alive. Often times, the conversation is very one sided, until you manage to hook the girl(in this case guy). Unless you can see that he is getting bothered by you making conversation, just keep at it. However keep in mind : I did indeed say "keep talking", but there's a fine line between persistent and desperate. Remember that just like the boy is evaluating you, you're also evaluating him. If he seems boring or a h…
/r/seduction05/03/15 10:36 PM
2

No one's slicing your throat anytime soon because you stared at them for too long...
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:39 PM
9

How must it feel to be a normal man, and know deep down that without the structure of society, they are completely at the mercy of criminals, psycopaths? Hmm...what's your honest opinion on this?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:45 AM
1

Why not approach yourself?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 10:55 PM
2

Inspiration doesn't work mate, or at least didn't work for me. What works is : I'm not leaving until I make am approach. At the point where your boredom/coldness becomes greater than your fear to approach, that's when you'll do it.
/r/seduction04/03/15 10:45 PM
1

Examples of these famous ppl?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:49 PM
1

Have you ever been hurt? Like seriously gotten fucked up bcs of a girl?
/r/seduction04/03/15 01:39 AM
2

A man's purpose in life is not his woman. He pursues his purpose despite anything that his woman says or does and in the end this makes him attractive to his woman or other women. Failing to focus on yourself and your career will make your woman 'happy' in the short run, but as time goes on, he becomes less and less attractive to her. In the end you have a 30 year old living with his parents still. If she hasn't left you by then(highly unlikely) then she'll kiss you goodbye! :)
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:49 PM
1

I have a task for you : I don't know if you're in a campus far from a city, but I'm certain you can get yourself in a city square. Now I want you to go to this square and stand in the middle of it. Then I want you to promise to yourself that you will not return to your dorm unless you approach one girl and tell her she's beautiful. That's it. You don't have to get her number, you don't even need her to like you, she can tell you to fuck off, but you will tell her she's beautiful. And I mean it w…
/r/seduction01/03/15 04:55 AM
-1

Yeah mate, hold on to her. Isolate her from every other male in her life, get paranoid about her girlfriends too and see what happens :)
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:25 AM
11

I think there's a method where you can look up at the sky...and if 5 stars are aligned then she'll drop her panties.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:00 PM
13

You're basically saying. "What do I say?" Here.
/r/seduction26/02/15 10:59 PM
-2

doesn't sit well with me. Why? You're afraid of a friendzoned guy. Insecure?
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:46 PM
3

It doesn't happen often, but a couple times it's happened, I just smile a lot! Idk, it's just...I'm getting hit on, it's so flattering! Thanks mate! And move on.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:44 PM
1

Hire a lawyer, hit the gym, delete facebook.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:43 PM
6

It might seem like a huge problem from your perspective, but it's fairly simple to a 3rd party. You want to improve yourself and quality of life and have an opportunity to do that. She not only won't take that opportunity too and try and improve herself, but she wants to keep you down. Because of the pussy pass you think "Aw, but she's in love.". Now if a male friend of yours was trying to pull that shit on you, you'd be gone faster than he could pay for the drinks. LEAVE!
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:12 AM
1

Because you had bad hygiene. Am I right? Who knows? I'd have to know your entire life story to answer that question. Who knows your life story? Hint : You!
/r/askTRP25/02/15 12:01 AM
1

You want us to analyze your life?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:57 PM
4

Huh?
/r/seduction24/02/15 11:53 PM
7

What if she's the one not willing to be exclusive? Yeah, that's usually the case with women who are young and extremely hot. They have so many options, so much time, so why chain themselves to one man? It's simply illogical. What can you do? Not be possesive. Every guy who fucks her...or just touches her hand will propose to her the next day. Don't be that guy! Be the cool guy that's cool with all that. The guy that understands her. The guy that frankly doesn't care too much about her, he has en…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:51 PM
0

I really like you. I enjoy your vibe and the time we spent together and I don't want to end that. However, I also can't become exclusive right now. If you're cool with hanging out, but not being exclusive...(kiss)...cool. If not, cool.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:16 PM
1

Willie Beck - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gjAB0gFQuWQ
/r/seduction24/02/15 10:58 PM
2

Huh? She's setting up for another day. What's your problem?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 10:49 PM
3

Whenever I find myself thinking. Yeah, but what do I say? I listen to Kong.
/r/seduction24/02/15 10:46 PM
0

I have a question, OP. Would really appreciate if you could answer it. So she shit-tests you, and through Amused Mastery, you give her shit back. What if she keeps at it? AND keeps at it? So after They're only assholes after you're done with them. she doesn't stop and keeps at it. No, I'm serious, I don't. bla bla bla bla bla And it's not that you can't respond back, but you're it's the number of shit tests, literally 30 of them in 3 minutes, her being RELENTLESS. It just wears you down. You get…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 01:28 AM
2

I dont have any approach anxiety Fix this first.
/r/seduction23/02/15 09:33 PM
6

Sucking up doesn't usually work. However a lot depends on context...which you haven't provided!
/r/askTRP22/02/15 01:19 PM
1

You're so so young. The anger phase doesn't make that much sense, but then again you have plenty of time so you might as well waste some being angry, then get back to business.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 07:18 PM
2

So how old?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 06:23 PM
3

How old are you?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 06:18 PM
3

No worries broseph! Good luck!
/r/askTRP19/02/15 11:33 PM
3

Tomboy?! :/ Well, whatever floats your boat. You have to think like a marketing expert. I want a non-religious, thin, nerdy smart, tomboy girl that likes the same music I do. Where would you find this particular girl? Idk. Coffee shops? University libraries? Some particular forum online? Go there.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 11:26 PM
1

Your question is about about Approaching in College as the title so unjustly leads me think...instead it's about Approach Anxiety I ask you /u/Widly_Scuds as a rational man...how do you learn to flip an omelette? Answer : You do not flip an omelette. Seriously, you don't. You don't want to learn when you could potentially ruin your omelette, burn yourself on the oven, stick it on the ceiling etc. You learn when the stakes are low. Instead, you learn how to flip an omelette, by practicing with be…
/r/seduction19/02/15 11:21 PM
3

You know what? Go for it!
/r/seduction19/02/15 11:10 PM
18

Turtles!
/r/seduction19/02/15 11:03 PM
1

I should frame this!
/r/askTRP19/02/15 11:00 PM
3

For those 7 years she's been your crush, not your girlfriend. It would be very awkward to just out of the blue message or snapchat her. I can out of the blue message anyone that I am close to. Why can't you? However dude, you do you. Want to love her? Go for it...you missed St Valentine's however.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:58 PM
2

That's fucking amazing man. Too direct is fucking amazing. I used to know this guy that was brutally honest. He was throwing a party and he invited a girl from another class. She ended up coming, but at some point she caught up with him and was like Hey, so why did you invite me? You don't know me too well. He looks at her, shrugs his sholders and goes Because you're hot. Fucking gold man. I'm not sure if he slept with her in the end, but I wouldn't be surprised if he did.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:44 PM
12

Here mate.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:38 PM
1

I like marching music...the type of music soldiers goosestep to. I flaunt that shit whenever I can.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:34 PM
1

The answer by /u/We_Are_Legion is pretty good. Do what you want to do. In terms of your question however, I prefer to be very liberal. When they are with me, they are with me, they are mine! However, they are free to date whoever they want, since I can do the same. From my experience so far, they pout and complain that they want exclusivity, they're willing to give up their freedom so that I give up mine. I refuse to do so, but they on the other hand remain loyal. I don't know how. Something to …
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:32 PM
1

tl;dr on the post?
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:26 PM
2

I've realized it's not about witty stuff anymore. Yeah sure, I can come up with the perfect comeback or opener, but in the end if I'm not completely congruent and outcome dependent, she'll see through it. So it's all about that...get to the IDGAF mode, not caring what she might think and say whatever comes to your mind. Ultimately, that's when I create the most attraction.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:25 PM
3

Yeah send that.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 10:22 PM
18

This. Better yet buy a hidden camera or so thing and get her to say how she is going to lie.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:50 AM
2

They see you as a fucktoy and nothing more i.e. you can't really offer much in terms of personality, humor and conversation. I'm not trying to offend you. I apologize if I am, however that seems to be the case to me. Let's look at your theory : all think of me as a massive player as I make it clear that nothing is exclusive, and don't tend to text me. Untrue. If there's something women love to do is talk and this whole player thing would get them talking for hours. How do you do it? What if you …
/r/askTRP18/02/15 12:25 AM
9

Well fucking done mate!
/r/seduction17/02/15 10:40 PM
1

If she's said no twice, unlikely she'll change her mind in the third time. Next her and move on. If you do see her again however, what you can do is to be playful about it. Oh yeah, you're the girl that rejected my advances. Shame our kids would have been gorgeous. it'll help relieve the pressure a bit and might bring you guys onto comfortable terms again. However don't hold out any hope with her, simply move on...there are tons of fish out there.
/r/seduction17/02/15 10:39 PM
2

If you've done some approaches, gotten a few numbers and made out some, I'd say you've got the basics out of the way pretty much. Just keep approaching. Make it a regular thing, if not everyday, at least every weekend. After every night/day out, go back home and write down your sticking points. Okay so with that girl, I was entertaining her in the beginning, but then she left. I should learn how to escalate. Watch the relevant videos on that, go back out there and try again. RSD have a ton of in…
/r/seduction17/02/15 10:36 PM
1

Are you so awesome that she would risk her job for you? This. I'm not saying you're not. But are you?
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:13 AM
2

Do you care why?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:11 AM
1

Real Social Dynamics...watch a video or two of theirs to get a feel for what this is all about.
/r/seduction16/02/15 04:28 AM
1

Read up homie
/r/seduction16/02/15 04:26 AM
3

If this guy's obsession with blondes is so so so great...then he ought to buy a ticket to the Northern part of Eastern Europe(Sweden, Finland, Poland, Lithuania, Russia) and spend a few weeks there. More likely he'll get the blondes he craves. However, more than that I'd tell him that he's wrong about his ethnicity reducing his SMV.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:25 AM
2

It's over with her bro! Hold strong!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:19 AM
1

Not humble at all, but okay I got my answer. Thanks mate :)
/r/seduction15/02/15 11:43 PM
1

Wow Nigel!
/r/seduction15/02/15 10:38 PM
1

Dude, I have a question. You've read all these self-developmental books and clearly digested quite well. So why not chill in Thailand yourself? I'm just wondering what's the motivation for making these videos. I know they take up quite a lot of time. You want to create a Youtube channel business?
/r/seduction15/02/15 09:58 PM
-1

Hahahahaha
/r/askTRP15/02/15 09:56 PM
7

The way I think about this is : Would I do it if this was one of my mates? So in the first scenario, if a mate of mine asked me to walk him to the car(gay, I know) and he definitely knows where it is...I'd tell him no. In the second scenario, when he doesn't know where the train station is and can get lost, saying no would be me being a dick, so I'd show him where it is. So yeah...
/r/askTRP15/02/15 09:54 PM
2

Do you have a wingman?
/r/seduction13/02/15 12:22 PM
6

"Yes, I will be your Valentine."
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:39 PM
10

Very open-ended and vague... Instead of theory, presenting an FR where you managed to get a girl to ask you out would be much more beneficial. Then let us draw our lessons from it.
/r/seduction12/02/15 12:21 AM
132

I confronted him about out it later but he acted like it was nothing. I just dropped it because I don't even know if I'm angry at him. This. He dismissed it like it was nothing. If he had taken it seriously and and try and explain why he did it or apologize for being too harsh then she would know if she's angry with him or not.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 02:44 PM
1

Pinpoint something about them and talk about it. That's a veryyy nice necklace. Then they'll think "Oh this barista is not trying to make convo with me, he honestly loves my necklace. Oooh you think so? Well it was a gift from my....blablablabla
/r/seduction07/02/15 02:36 PM
8

You are putting a lot of emphasis on your kiss with her. I know it was your first kiss, but to be honest kisses are not such a valuable commodity. You don't realize this now and neither did I. Get yourself some wings(failing that, go solo) and hit the clubs. If you've never done this before, it will suck balls(that's why getting wings is so important, they will force you keep at it and going out becomes easier). When you're making out with 4 different girls a night, come back and tell me if "you…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:28 PM
1

Thanks mate
/r/seduction07/02/15 02:19 PM
5

All the other reasons are well founded, but I suppose it's this one too : Because it makes her feel you're more familiar to her than you really are. Imagine spending 7 hours with a person in a coffee shop. You can talk about the most interesting things and so on, but the next day when you think about it...there were so many words said, so the details of your conversation are fuzzy, so your brain draws from other sources, like surroundings. Oh yeah Jimmy, we talked at the coffee shop. While if yo…
/r/seduction06/02/15 09:29 PM
2

Yeah...I can see how you'd think that. However it's all about your attitude. If you're insecure, timid, always worrying about the outcome and what to say and do...then you can put yourself in the friendzone in any environment, toy store, Irish pub, even on a fucking bed. But if you're relaxed, playful, teasing Your toys were cars? Ew, are you a dude? you can definitely make it work in a toy store even.
/r/seduction04/02/15 10:00 PM
2

On a first date?! If you can do that mate...I salute you.
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:24 PM
1

Motives are to start dating and potentially hook up. That's what you learn from her having tinder. What do you expect her to tell you? She'll either dodge the question or just say she's back into the dating arena, which you already know. Instead, it'll make you look like a stalker...which you're not, but you know information about her that she hasn't shared with you, so...
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:23 PM
1

Why bring it up?
/r/seduction04/02/15 04:38 PM
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The first rule of first dates is : DO NOT TAKE HER TO A FUCKING MOVIE! It's the most unoriginal, boring, unimpressive and harmful thing you can do. Seriously! Alternatively, a toy shop is something that I particularly like. You don't say Hey, we're going to a toy shop., instead you start walking in a busy square/street and when you get to the toy shop suggest you go inside just to browse. You don'tn buy anything, it's just...fun, you are reminded of your childhood, your previous toys...it leads …
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:19 PM
1

You don't seem very stable yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/15 04:18 PM
3

Ignore that last message. Instead wait for the day to come and send her this during the day : Quick question : what color is your outfit going to be? I don't us to end up with matching dresses. She already stated that you're hot. She wants to know you're cool too. This will get her cracking up and deciding not to come would be so much harder for her.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 02:20 PM
1

50 Shades of Grey is in my list.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 02:16 AM
2

That's a nice breakdown of what humor is(at least an element of it). Okay so let me give it a try : Wow, that smells delicious! I can only imagine the taste mmmm takes a spoonful and fakes death
/r/seduction28/01/15 11:45 PM
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1. DO NOT TAKE HER TO A FUCKING MOVIE! Toy store. Take a walk that "happens" to go by a toy store. You : Ooh a toy store, let's check it out. Don't have to buy anything, just browse, talk about your toys when you were growing up and he can talk about his...so childhood in general, it's a pretty pleasant topic.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 11:25 PM
1

Love your formatting...bad answer though.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 11:03 PM
1

Huh?
/r/seduction15/01/15 07:24 PM
6

Are you aware of 'oneitis'?
/r/seduction11/01/15 11:58 PM
2

"I have no idea. I was hoping you did."
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:04 PM
1

Context!
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:59 PM
3

When people talk to each other about their love for Jesus/God, what do they usually say? What are some easy bible verses to claim are your favorite? Haha, you're thinking of keeping up the con?! I don't know man...pretending to be someone you're not(as cliche as it sounds) does not really work for me. In your position, I'd come clean. Hey, I'm not a follower of Christ. I lied because I wanted to take you out on a date. I still do. What about you? However, do what you will :)
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:56 PM
1

Are you afraid of taking advantage of them? Of them taking advantage of you?
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:50 PM
2

Hmm. You can actually take a joke. I respect you for that mate.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:17 PM
1

Well since you said you don't really give a shit...there :)
/r/seduction11/01/15 07:35 PM
1

Then you attract evil fucked up people and have an amazing time!
/r/seduction11/01/15 07:04 PM
0

You're making mountains out of molehills.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 05:52 PM
3

Seems you're taking this a bit too seriously. Take a chill pill mate :D And before you thank me... ... ... ... ...no probs! ;)
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:29 PM
20

Here
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:20 PM
2

Without splitting the bill Id need to take out a loan to afford them.
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:40 AM
1

Walks, splitting the bill.
/r/seduction11/01/15 03:36 AM
1

A trip to the sidebar would take care of that question.
/r/seduction11/01/15 02:34 AM
1

Yeah that's all good and great, but what about the frame he has set already? If he's soft spoken, rather mushy etc. if he comes out guns blazing with your line, she'll be confused. Where the hell did that come from? and recognize it as fake or him pretending.
/r/seduction11/01/15 02:20 AM
1

The move to get up and leave was brilliant. As I was reading your post , I was putting myself in your shoes and at that point, I would have probably hung around awkwardly not wanting to lose the girl. Now I see, you ought to be willing to leave when things get...ridiculous. Obviously the getting into an argument with your friend wasn't cool. Actually I don't know how close you are with the guy, but if you were close, I'd never jeopardize my relationship with ha friend for some girl. NEVER! So ok…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 02:17 AM
1

Hmm...yeah you're right. How would you phrase it differently?
/r/seduction11/01/15 02:10 AM
3

Lots of beginners do the mistake that you're doing. Not saying I'm a pro...on the contrary, however I used to do this not too long ago. You're trying to sneak into being her partner...instead of going for it. Because of fear of rejection, we think we're better off, playing it stealthy...needing a reason to ask for her phone number, asking her out bcs a band is in town and not because YOU LIKE HER. You really can't do that! Or you can...but you'll get friendzoned. She won't fall for someone who d…
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:38 AM
7

The convo is over and done with. In a couple of days, I'd send her this message : I hope you're well rested because we're having lunch together tomorrow. 12 o'clock at ...! Also tell me what are you going to wear...I don't want us to end up with matching dresses. The first sentence is asking her out...but not really...it's telling her to come out. You're taking charge and girls love that...provided you've built enough rapport. Obviously this can't be your opening message, you need to have chatte…
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:02 AM
1

Via text : "I hate* you" In person : (I have no idea)
/r/askTRP10/01/15 11:55 PM
0

太有趣了
/r/seduction10/01/15 11:46 PM
1

Interesting. Saved.
/r/seduction10/01/15 11:45 PM
1

Male/female? Troll?
/r/seduction10/01/15 08:08 PM
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