Good Cheap First Dates?

Rise80 · 2015-01-28T23:41:11+00:00

My go to first date for years has been coffee first if it's during the day, or a drink at night. If the conversation is going well, take her for a walk. Maybe lunch or dinner. I keep it cheap but not McDonald's cheap. Let her do most of the talking. Agree and amplify, and throw in some teasing as well. Try to keep escalating like the recommendations say. Have fun and see when she is free for a second date.

Cryocasm · 2015-01-28T22:08:59+00:00

A)

Lets assume you have been running the correct type of game here: the long term game. Assuming you have established this in a more solid long term frame, we can proceed:

B)

Depending on your investment level and the speed you want to go at, go for coffee or a movie maybe even dinner if you're close enough. Don't advance in full 110% force or she won't invest accordingly and will fuck you & leave. IF you want a relationship that certainly isn't the way to do it, have her invest in you.

C)

Talk about her, then connect. My favourite tactic is the "me too!" tactic, as it builds connections between you two quickly. Do not hint at "us" or whatever, just let it happen. Do not over-invest. Also don't own the conversation, keep it 60/40 with her talking more. Talk about music or whatever, google the top 100 musicians of the past 50 years and you should have a good enough knowledge base to keep the conversation lively.

Cheap?

Well. I guess you could go to the fucking hotdog stand and buy $1 foodpoisoning.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-01-28T23:25:40+00:00

1. DO NOT TAKE HER TO A FUCKING MOVIE!

Toy store.
Take a walk that "happens" to go by a toy store.
You : Ooh a toy store, let's check it out.
Don't have to buy anything, just browse, talk about your toys when you were growing up and he can talk about his...so childhood in general, it's a pretty pleasant topic.

Title	Good Cheap First Dates?
Author	Annihilate_This
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	January 28, 2015 9:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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1. DO NOT TAKE HER TO A FUCKING MOVIE!