I constantly don't feel like approaching, any ideas?

penguin_says_slide · 2015-04-10T00:57:40+00:00

It IS because of fear.

Hear me out here. So I would open sets, start a nice conversation and then quickly get bored. It was just talk and talk and talk. It got to the point where I didn't want to go out with my wings anymore. What was the point? I just got really bored in my sets.

Then one of my friends broke it down for me. Why did I get bored? He never had that problem. I said, they just kept talking and talking. He asked "What about escalation?"

I was so afraid of escalation that I didn't even think about it.
I rationalized the fear I had into Oh these girls are so boring.

[deleted] · 2015-04-13T20:25:53+00:00

Maybe you just are tired of approaching? Do anything enough times and it becomes old hat.

Or perhaps you're not clear what it is you're trying to achieve? If you're not interested in women why are you approaching? Or if you are interested in women what are you looking for?

Title	I constantly don't feel like approaching, any ideas?
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Date	April 10, 2015 12:36 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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