Advice on a marriage proposal...

GreenPiller · 2017-09-21T00:56:32+00:00

Marriage

Sometimes I wonder how people find TRP, read the sidebar and then somehow have the audacity to ask us about marriage.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-09-20T22:24:45+00:00

3 years minimum.

You haven't seen her at her worst yet, nowhere near. You're still in the honeymoon phase. You need to see how she deals with serious hardship.

Never stop testing her. Never stop getting her to qualify herself.

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-20T23:08:04+00:00

Well, me and 99,9% of the guys here wouldn't recommend you marrying, but if your gonna rip you own leg, at least do it in a safe, clean, least painful way, instead of just letting a lion bite it and eat it off.

8 months is a ridiculously low amount of time. Still honeymoon. As the other guy said, wait, wait a lot, and keep testing and vetting her. I would risk saying that you have a little bit (maybe a lot) of oneitis. KILL IT. KILL IT NOW.

And btw this is standard RP advice: marry ONLY if you want children, do a really, really good vetting of your woman and of course, PRENUP, don't even think about "discussing" this with her or anything, if you're going to marry, it's prenup or no marriage.

And really, think really well about it. If you don't really want children/isn't sure, don't do it.

Zweihander747 · 2017-09-20T23:09:14+00:00

Yh as other guy said, you are still in honeymoon phase, so would def not be proposing any time soon. You need to be with a girl at least a couple years before you should even think about proposing if you ever do

Also, her age makes me think marriage likely wont work out, bc when girls get married too young they always have that "FOMO" (fear of missing out) lingering in back of their mind, esp. when they compare their married life to their friends who are still single and having fun in their 20s

If you're gonna get married, really think it needs to be with a girl older, like 28 + who's pre-wall and had her chance to ride the CC but turned it down

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-21T02:23:48+00:00

Why not buy a gun and put in your mouth instead? Both paths end the same way. Why are you getting married? Explain it to me with logic and facts. Tell me why you are OBLIGATED to involve the law into your relationship and risk a violent divorce rape where she cleans you for all that hard earned medical money? Explain to me how you're not a simp right now?

specialCupcake · 2017-09-21T00:01:54+00:00

Don't propose because it will ruin everything.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zN7tF8W1B2E

Are you retarded coming to trp for marriage proposal advice?

Il128 · 2017-09-20T23:28:02+00:00

Kill yourself.

Title	Advice on a marriage proposal...
Author	Coach2436
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	September 20, 2017 9:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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