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What you're describing is a man but with a minus sign lol Women that act and feel like you're describing exist and are the product of modern western culture. It's their whole thing actually, becoming more like men. But this is not the rule. Women aren't men. Don't buy into that.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/21 07:51 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn ​ And now it's over. Lift heavy shit, block her on every social media, dive deep in your work/study/hobbies, maybe fuck someone else no strings attached if you can, and that's it. You'll get over it
/r/askTRP27/05/21 11:13 PM
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Hit on him
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:09 PM
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It's really enlightening to have these kind of no strings attached conversations with women, they tell you a lot of shit you wouldn't even imagine and being able to see inside their minds is life changing But don't take it at face value I'm 100% sure throwing a hissy fit because of the car's middle seat is NOT what separates "real men" from "little boys". Instead, these crumbs and this tiny brown thing that seems like poop... seems like the work of a Hamster™️ Little boys are the men who aren't …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:53 PM
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Thank you for the compliment, noble sir How you feel/think about the behavior of your LTR (or anyone, for that matter) is indeed a subjective view But past behavior is statistically a good chunk of data to analyze and with it foresee future behavior. That's not subjective Sleeping around damages the female's ability to pair bond, and when in a marriage, it statistically increases the chance of cheating, divorce and unhappiness. That's not subjective It doesn't mean that if a girl slept around, s…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:20 PM
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Tell him If he turns against you, then that's proof that he's weak minded, a bad friend and too deeply drowned in the blue pill dream, and you shouldn't bother being friends with him anyway And if you really care about him, you would want to tell him even if you knew that he would hate you for it
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:22 AM
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I'd disagree with the past behavior thing. Past behavior is, indeed, an indicative of future behavior: who do you think that has a higher chance of cheating on you, the girl who never cheated or the one who cheated on every single boyfriend she had since she was 16? Besides, its very common to "change" because the past behavior isn't beneficial anymore, which is not the same as never doing said bad past behavior and have it ingrained in your head. The girl who is viscerally and instantaneously d…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:16 AM
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Ok, but Are you fucking? Or even better Are you fucking consistently ? If not, you know the answer
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:58 PM
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There's this thing called RMV: Relationship Market Value, that we don't discuss as often. Higher your RMV, higher the chances that women will want to be in a relationship with you Sexual Market Value is, primarily, sexual. Its your position in the "good genes" ladder. Being successful and confident also boosts your SMV, because it may also be a display of good genes, but your appearance and your body is, by far, the main source of your SMV. The money and comfort you can offer to a woman account …
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:37 PM
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I diagnose you with oneitis Block this girl, forget her, get away GFTOW
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:29 PM
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Bang by RooshV
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:47 AM
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Married Red Pill Go now
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:20 PM
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A good dermatologist will require blood tests before and during treatment, and they will start you on a smaller dose for the first few weeks to see if there's any reaction. This way, it is perfectly safe for the vast majority. And it fucking solves the problem like nothing else
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:10 PM
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I tried most antibiotics and soaps and different strategies, not a single one did a decent, consistent job of diminishing my acne. Then I went on Accutane And it kills. 1-2 months in, and your skin won't be the same anymore. 2-3 months, maybe less, and you won't have any acne at all. Then you should keep taking it for a few more months to guarantee that it won't come back For more than 90% of people (me included), the results are permanent and the only real downside is a dry mouth, that you can …
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:35 PM
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She starts acting bitchy, and instead of dread gaming her to oblivion you go and... buy her flowers? Sidebar please, now. You have a lot to learn
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:20 AM
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HAHAHA you're funny How can it be done then?
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:00 AM
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Cute Won't happen tho Enjoy the decline
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:17 PM
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Who fucking cares? Ladies make-up is definitely not even close to the most problematic thing for the environment we make and use And no, they don't realize this, and even if they did, they wouldn't care, it's called rationalization, hamster, or even doublethinking Worry more about fishing nets in the ocean and China's industries polluting the skies and less about fucking lipstick Also go wash some hoe's make up from her face with your cum
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:41 PM
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I'd say if she's with you when wearing this, it would be less of a red flag then if she was wearing it without you. But chances are that if she does with you, she'll do without you too The limit is up to you. You define how much is tolerable for your LTR to show, and how much is too much. Set boundaries
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:35 PM
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Read Sex God Method If your PE problems are indeed physical and not psychological, go to an urologist
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:02 PM
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Isn't it obvious? Start talking about the gym, exercises, that kind of stuff
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:43 AM
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TRP is amoral. Standard response would be: if that's what you want to do (and it doesn't break any laws), then do it But I understand if you don't want to hurt her. In this case, if she says she's okay with it, then do it. If she isn't okay with it, she has to say it, you're not her father to commit on doing what it's best for her or smth. You want to fuck her and nothing more, she says she's okay with it, then just do it and don't think about it too much. Eventually she won't want this anymore,…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:44 PM
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I know everything you said. I've known it for some time already But knowing it rationally is something, impressing this knowledge on your subconscious emotional self is harder I know my self esteem shouldn't be built upon women's opinion. I've been saying it to myself for some time. But it is . I cannot just look at my self esteem and say "don't be shaked by women" and boom, it instantly isn't . How to absorb this knowledge into my subconscious and build a high, well based, non-dependent on wome…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:07 PM
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Nurses are also frequently in touch with high value men, doctors and sometimes patients too ​ Also, one that I forgot to mention: bartenders: if you ever meet a female bartender that isn't a slut, warn me, let's throw a party for her
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:54 AM
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I'd say professions in which women have to use/show their bodies a lot and also professions in which they are frequently in touch with hot men ​ So, besides hookers (for obvious reasons): strippers, dancers, personal trainers, maybe waitresses, low-tier actresses, models, etc.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:49 AM
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A few months ago I started plating a friend of a (female) old friend of mine. One month into that and my friends were all pressuring me to "make it serious" and admit it that I was on love with her and to officialize the relationship (we're all early 20s) All I could think about was: WTF is wrong with kids nowadays? Officialize a "Long Term" Relationship with a girl after 1 month??? How many times have you hanged out with her in that time, like 4? How many times have you fucked her? 2, 3, 4 time…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 02:26 PM
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Do you really believe each person is somehow "special" and there is a One promised girl for you, the one and only that could make you live happily ever after? Why the way TRP "has been practiced" should be challenged? Because it isn't working for you? Each man perceives and acts on RP truths differently. Maybe you took an approach that isn't working for you now. But it doesn't make RP less truthful. What, are you gonna cave in to blue pill conditioning and go crawling back to her, begging for he…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:54 AM
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You shouldn't cave to what your stupid friends say if you don't feel like it, especially if it's something that will harm you (and weed will, indeed, cause more harm than good) Don't do it
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:11 AM
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Ok, this might not be news to you, but it needs to be said: you have oneitis You somehow think this girl is better than the others, that she's the best you could get, that she'll be "the one that got away" What the fuck are you, a woman? Man the fuck up. Women are fucking boring once you know them, because they are all deep down the same. She isn't special. Doesn't matter how hot and sweet and loyal and funny you might think she is, you're idealizing and in real life there's a billion girls just…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:09 AM
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Been there, done that. 2 dates with a 18yo, super strict family, never even kissed anyone. It was boring as hell, she was into me but was kinda childish, we only made out in the second date and, just like with you, I could barely escalate (also she didn't know how to kiss) I realized it would take a lot of effort to fuck her, and as per usual, it wasn't worth it. We didn't even had a third date. That's what you probably should do too
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:38 PM
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My main plate was a virgin when we met, we had sex in the 4th or 5th date I believe, but in the third we were already getting close to that (bj, fingering, that kind of stuff) If the girl is a virgin, its normal that she'll take longer to give in, you decide if it's worth the wait or not. But if you've already had three dates and you feel you haven't progressed in getting sex from her, I'd say she's probably stringing you along/not so attracted to you, so you should just leave
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:22 AM
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Married Red Pill
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:08 AM
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"We want to relax. We want to be open and honest. We want to have a safe haven in which struggle has no place, where we gain strength and rest instead of having it pulled from us. We want to stop being on guard all the time, and have a chance to simply be with someone who can understand our basic humanity without begrudging it. To stop fighting, to stop playing the game, just for a while. We want to, so badly. If we do, we soon are no longer able to" "Of Love and War", Rollo Tomassi
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:54 PM
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There is different ways to break oneitis, each person is different. But I can tell you one sure way of NOT breaking oneitis: keep fucking and talking to the object girl and keeping her as your only supply of pussy You want an alternative? Go monk mode. But don't keep her as your only girl, your oneitis will only get worse "The worst possible number of women to have is 1"
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:18 PM
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You know the answer, you said it yourself. There's no other magical way, you can't just take a pill and instantly cure your oneitis Get some distance from her, download Tinder or whatever and go fuck some new girls. It won't take much of your precious time. Stop looking for alternative magical solutions to a simple problem that you already know how to solve
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:09 PM
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Well, you won't have this problem if you're high SMV. So start becoming high SMV. NOW
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:02 PM
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Is the man's name Joseph Joestar?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:37 PM
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If your SMV is high enough, you can have the best of both worlds: a LTR that's open for you and not for her. There are some men here in this sub that have this kind of relationship, so yes, it is possible But as far as I can tell, it is probably redpill on nightmare mode, so yeah, your game and SMV must both be sky high so you can pull that out with a hot girl. But the maxim is still true: women prefer to share a high value man than settle down with a low value one
/r/askTRP24/07/19 02:12 PM
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Fuck you No, but, for real, that should be a place in where a lot of men first know and then are frequently reminded of a very harsh truth, a very bitter pill. The anger phase is usually the longest and hardest to escape for a reason. I'd say is normal that many people here are kinda pissed Also it's a place for men to learn how to be men, so a place where we don't need to be polite. It's relaxing to have somewhere where, if someone is talking shit, you just come to them and say fuck you, withou…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:15 PM
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I understand your opinion, but disagree. The fact that the lack of sex has affected him doesn't mean that he doesn't have a "real commitment" - it's perfectly understandable to him to question if his physical needs are not being met for a long time. When you get in a LTR, the bare minimum any redpill man should accept is a constant, guaranteed supply of pussy Besides, being less commited to her than she is to him is a good thing: you know what happens in the long run if the man is too much inves…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:20 AM
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The percentage of men who are actually redpill is almost insignificant. There will always be a ton of men willing to fuck a hot girl even if she has a boyfriend/husband. You don't need to be redpilled for that. And as long as western culture as it is now permeate society, women will always see relationships as constraints and cheating as "independent woohoo you go girl" attitude TRP doesn't change society, its impact is minimal. It just teaches us how to navigate it to get what we want in life
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:48 AM
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1st of all: men and women are different. If most men do not compare their SO to their past flings (and I'm not even saying that's truth) doesn't mean women don't do it 2nd: "Oh if she's with you and not with them is because you're better in her eyes" ehh, nope. Just because she fucked some guy in the past, doesn't mean he would commit to her, no matter how hard she wanted and how well she behaved. Or she just didn't want to commit because she had a huge line of hot guys to fuck and didn't want t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 03:53 PM
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They are jealous. Own it. Brag to them about how hot was the girl you banged last night and how you just bluntly commanded her to get the fuck out of your home immediately after. Use amused mastery. Make them feel bad everytime they talk about this shit, make them feel inferior, while you appear to be enjoying the memories and the bragging. They will soon stop
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:48 PM
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She wants to have her cake and eat it too. And as per usual, because of that she'll end up losing everything
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 04:34 PM
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Worst case scenario, she just won't talk to you anymore. And you, as a red pill man, should be prepared, or even better, should not care about it. The first thing you should think should be "well, her loss". And proceed gaming and banging other chicks Best case scenario, she will find a way to come to you and give you the best fuck of your life, through mud and barbed wire if she needs to Not bad, huh?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:22 PM
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You should have made clear (preferably through actions than through direct words) that you two were going on a date. It's obvious she shouldn't bring her brother in a date Go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:29 PM
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Wisdom
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:34 PM
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Why The Fuck Do you care?
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:53 AM
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If your LTR cheats on you or a plate blatantly lies about something important, you should leave with extreme prejudice: ghost and disappear and leave her wondering in desperation But if you're just breaking because you're not interested anymore or you're starting an LTR with someone else, I see no reason to be mean or rude: it has the possibility to bring unnecessary drama to you, and you have nothing to lose by breaking amicably I'm not saying you should become her tampon or something, but just…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:12 PM
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If you don't want to date her again, why the fuck do you care about her motives and intentions? Instead of wasting your time talking to her, use it to talk to other girls
/r/askTRP07/07/19 05:11 PM
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Ah, schadenfreude... delightful Thank you for that, Mr, made my day a little bit happier
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/19 03:02 PM
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Truth sometimes hurt. Especially if it hits head first on some core beliefs that we had implanted on us since we were little kids But it's still truth. And it's not hard to see: look around you. Look at how the cool kids at school treat the girls, and how the nerds treat them, and who they prefer. Look at older couples you know. Look at the media. It's everywhere. Once you put these red glasses, you start seeing it, and it's every fucking where. And for me, seeing that it is indeed truth is all …
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:53 PM
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Yes You'll realize that sex isn't such a big deal - if the girl isn't that hot or don't know what she's doing, sometimes even jacking off feels better But tbh, unless you're severely problematic, I don't think is necessary. I had these same thoughts in the past, but with a little bit of effort I managed to score some 5s and 6s, even though I was far away from what I strived for in terms of looks and game. Sex is not that hard to get. But if you just want to get rid of the weight quickly, pay for…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:42 PM
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It depends. OP's stance comes from a place of very high abundance: you lay your boundaries, if she steps out of them, she's automatically out and replaced. When you say this girl is "quite high quality" you're implicitly saying that women like her aren't abundant, at least not for you, maybe not at all. It shortens your abundance (maybe you have oneitis, idk) But that approach is not inherently bad. Training your girl is actually a very good idea, if you know how and when to do it But beware: th…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 12:05 PM
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It happens. She felt like you were cute and she could give you chance, than the next minute, she didn't felt that anymore, God only knows why. Don't dwell on it. Shrug and move on to the next girl
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:31 PM
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Dostoevsky
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:24 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want. It's your hair, it's your life, do as you wish But know that dying your hair gray won't make you look wiser or more mature. You're 18 years old. You'll only look like, well, a kid that dyed his hair
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:14 AM
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LDR Eh... Nope
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:37 AM
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It's not easy to get rid of 13 years of companionship, I know. But if you're cool with the kids and think you won't have problems with them in case you divorce, for God's sake, wtf man, just get out That disgust for the idea of someone else having sex with your wife is perfectly understandable if you consider that she's the only source of sex you ever had, EVER, and that she had your babies and you've been exclusive with her for so long. But, in all honesty, do you really think that the prospect…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:48 AM
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She's older than you, she has a significantly lower SMV, she fucked 15 guys before the age of 21 (that's a hoe, if y'all couldn't tell already), while you're approaching your apex in life and in SMV, getting IOI's from much hotter girls and itching to fuck some of them and up that n-count... ​ For fuck's sake, why are you still in that marriage? Do you have kids? How old are they? This is the only reason to stay in this spot, but I'd honestly say that maybe even with that, you should consider ge…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 01:53 AM
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"No, absolutely not mad When you wanna hang out, text me" And don't contact her anymore. If she actually wants you, she'll come
/r/askTRP19/06/19 02:07 AM
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Nice post
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:58 AM
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So... Why the fuck are you trying to make a housewife out of a hoe?
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:41 AM
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Reading is always better than not reading, also better than spending your time on facebook or watching braindead series I personally find novels much more enthralling and fun to read than most non-fiction, so yeah, read some of it, it's nice. Just try to read some decent, denser novels instead of the pathetic ones Dostoevsky, not Harry Potter Jane Austen, not Nicholas Sparks Victor Hugo, not any other bullshit teens are reading nowadays Good readings
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:46 PM
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Do it anonymously
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:38 PM
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And what would be the point of that? Women are deep down all the same, no matter what state they come from
/r/askTRP03/06/19 08:52 AM
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Brazilian guy here Was a virgin until 22yo. Game and TRP changed my life Thinking all of Brazil is like the slums of Rio and that every guy has it easy like a soccer star, a funk singer or an American rich guy is foolish and pathetic. Like thinking that all of USA is like Las Vegas You don't know what the fuck you're talking about m8
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 03:20 PM
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Not banging enough chicks Go spin a bunch of plates and I guarantee you won't catch feels for girls who don't fuck you
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:22 PM
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Passing through the anger phase is hard, and needed Venting through words is helpful, and sometimes better than venting through actions (which can be dangerous) And we call women bitches, but we also openly say that most men are bitches too lol. It's a bitch world Besides, we're in a amoral place to shelter from societal programming and discuss sexual strategy and self-improvement, where everyone is anonymous. Why the fuck should we strive to be polite? Fuck that and fuck you, Mr.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:33 PM
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I am/was withdrawing attention from her, and it works. But I could feel it going downhill as every time I had to do it more, every time I had to tighten up my game and act more disinterested in order for her to treat me well and actually fuck me In comparison, my other plate is a "fuck yeah" kind of girl. She's always down to whatever I want to do, and she's always treating me like a king And yeah, I love that post (eunuchs of trp), it probably was the one that opened my eyes the most. I current…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:34 AM
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I was thinking about that But it wasn't just what she was saying: each time I saw her, she was treating me more coldly and I had to do more effort in order to have sex. Each time we hung out, I felt worst than the last time, I didn't want to be there. It was feeling like she was losing attraction, and I would not let myself be betafy-ed into having to ask a plate for sex and be treated like shit That's why I took the initiative to talk to her openly about it, and if things kept going this way, I…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:12 AM
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wtf Who the fuck cares?
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:22 AM
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Of course she still fucks you and treats you well, she doesn't want to lose the branch she's in rn without having a firm grasp on the one she's actually interested If she fails to secure him (which it doesn't mean she'll fail to fuck him), she might even fuck/treat you better than normally, mostly because of guilt Come on kid, it doesn't get any clearer than this. Ghost her ass
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:57 AM
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God, why complicating so much something so simple? Just text her about anything you've talked in the past dates. Preferably in a playful way, or add some banter after she answers Come on, it's just small talk. How hard can that be?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:09 PM
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Fapping is normal and ok-ish, if you don't overdo it Porn is terrible though, it easily becomes an actual addiction and it fucks you up for real No fapping is good for some people, not so much for others. Do it if you think is good. But pornography is disgusting and it fucks your mind, if you haven't stopped it, I'd strongly recommend you to try
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:30 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes Quite literally, this time
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:49 AM
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THIS ABSOLUTELY THIS Just go see a dermatologist, and say that you want Accutane. It's a fucking bomb, but most likely will give you no sides besides dry mouth, and it just works. It solves the problem, completely No reason to not do it
/r/askTRP27/04/19 11:27 PM
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Read The Book of Pook, and most specifically, the chapter/SoSuave post "The Secret of the Jerk" Spoiler: Masculinity
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:41 PM
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Probably the most common and most easy to spot is the curling of hair while looking at you. Girls can behave differently from each other when attracted, but somethings are usually a common factor, such as the hair thing, strong eye contact, turning her body directly towards you, being receptive to kino (sometimes even shaking a bit when you touch them) and maybe even iniciating kino themselves, smiling a lot and laughing of all your jokes, etc.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 02:36 AM
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This ​ Agree and amplify, amused mastery, and you're good to go
/r/askTRP27/04/19 01:57 AM
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So fucking go to the sidebar, like now Tattoo that shit if needed, get it in your head And get the fuck away from this crazy hoe, ASAP
/r/askTRP26/04/19 10:00 AM
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Some stories sometimes seem just too much like a fake, not because of how the girl acted, but because of how the guy responded (in this case, the girl said that fuckery and OP didn't immediately ghost the bitch and run, which is what a sane man would do) I, for one, admit I frequently underestimate how much of a pushover guys can be, especially guys who already are on this sub and therefore have access to all this knowledge It's just mind boggling
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:58 AM
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That actually made me giggle Thank you, sir (still truthful though)
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:55 AM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. -- Main sub's subtitle There may be space here for a bit of politics, but it's complementary. There isn't a "stance of this sub" on these types of shit. If you're after self improvement and discussing sexual strategy, you're welcome, and no one fucking cares about your ideology or if you think Jews are in control of the world or whatever
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:15 AM
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I've just said in that comment that there are different ways of being forged as an alpha or not, be it upbringing, be it this place, be it anything else He may have had help from his genes. He may have had good friends along the way. He may have had the willpower to try things by himself and learn with his experiences There are also guys with good genes and good upbringing who end up being huge chumps. It happens. My whole goal was to prove that it isn't deterministic
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:10 AM
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‘we didn’t even kiss, we just fucked, kissing is intimate, prostitutes don’t kiss’. really m8? really? “I once gave someone a blowjob for a dare’. really? I don’t want to be a misogynistic person or for this kind of thing to bother me ... ​ ok fuck off troll ghost this bitch, eat sidebar until not a complete retard, stop with the bullshit posts
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:27 AM
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The trolls are on fire today, wth is happening
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:25 AM
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I disagree ​ If this is a troll, it's a fucking good one
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:53 AM
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Some people are just inferior, and they can't do anything to change it. Your thinking is just completely and absolutely deterministic, and that's something that I can't change, but you can't put it to me as if it was the obvious and proved truth, because it isn't Knowledge and intelligence are two very different things, guy. I know. But I also don't think intelligence is completely immutable, although not nearly as changeable as the amount of knowledge you have or how attractive you are to the o…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:50 AM
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Came here to say exactly the same as u/grabthecactus ​ Even though you were still vetting her for LTR,you clearly subconsciously invested too much on this girl and got carried away by what she *said* ​ OP, this plate is a lost cause, and trying to keep her will probably let you angrier and more hurt, or even worse: she will try to beta-fy you and to make you think she regret it and that she loves you, and if you're not careful enough, she may succeed ​ Ghost her, work on your SMV and your frame,…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:31 AM
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I disagree with "most of what they will ever be they are born to" I'd agree if you said that the limits of what a man may be, be it physically or intellectually, are determined by genetics, yes. There's a hard cap somewhere, for sure But most, and I mean almost all men don't ever come even close to be everything they can, again, physically and intellectually. Even a man with a bad gene pool (except for actually disabled people) can be in the top 10% or maybe top 5% of all men if he puts the need…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:13 AM
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I got braces at 18, took them out 2 years later One of the best things I've ever done in my life Didn't bother much, didn't take too long, and improved my looks and confidence a fucking lot. Do it already
/r/askTRP26/04/19 12:42 AM
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You speak as if men, be it alpha or beta, were born Men aren't born Women are born, men are created. They are forged, sculpted in marble I absolutely agree that genes take a part in this, as they do in every aspect of a human person, but men's behavior and way of life are almost purely forged during their lifes, and don't come from birth Some men are created by great parents, have a strong father figure and nurturing mother, good brothers, they are raised in the best way possible, they learn to …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 12:37 AM
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Go to the redpillbooks sub Search for the all time top post, something about "ultimate rp book compilation" or some shit Download it ​ There's like 15 books about sex there. Usually the most recommended is Sex God Method, by Daniel Rose. Also read the other books, there's good stuff there
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:32 PM
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SIDEBAR ------> Also main sub's sidebar
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:27 AM
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This post just doesn't make sense ​ You answered it yourself: the scale just rates physical attractiveness. "Oh the top girls should actually be" - the most physically attractive, because that's what the fucking scale is measuring. If you think a 6 that treats you really well is better than a 8 who is just your regular hoe, ok, that's nice, I don't care. Create a fucking scale of how warm and fuzzy your belly feels when this gurl talks to you and put your next door 7s at the top. ​ But don't buz…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:52 PM
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Why don't you give her your balls in a silver platter instead? Same effect
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:35 PM
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Guess you're right, and I sense she's gonna come with "the talk" to me soon, and probably we'll just break apart since I won't LTR her. So yeah, I guess I should just forget it ​ Thx for the input
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:09 AM
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That's a bit strange, cause her roommate is indeed kind of a slut (as far as I can tell, at least). But it is a very plausible possibility
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:06 AM
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I understand. But still don't think it would be catastrophic or a plain waste of time. Being OP well versed in TRP, he would know that her increasing bitchiness would be a result of him getting softer. But whatever, OP seems to be in a good position, considering he is getting new girls every week. He'll be fine
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:30 AM
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I don't think so. I understand taking her back might give this "regret vibes" but he insta nuked her as soon as she shit-tested him, with impeccable frame. I doubt she'll be bitchier or in a power position after they come back, differently from most returns in relationships. She sees that he's not kidding, and will leave her at the drop of a hat if she goes out of the line. But I do agree that if he's with her mainly because he wants to have kids in the future and she would be a good mother, kno…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:15 AM
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What you said about women is absolutely true, but would you consider them redpilled for it? I mean yeah, they do mostly 'just get it' and have some game abilities, but at least to me, the red pill is about knowledge, and generally they have no goddamn clue about what they're doing They don't know why they feel like they do and why do they act like they do based on that. They manipulate men but don't actually understand them (as you said). They don't know the risks and consequences of the things …
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:21 PM
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I've seen worst faces with bodys probably much better than hers Almost a full soccer team worth of people passed through her vagina. Imagine that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 04:05 AM
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Women being less or more promiscuous (having more sexual partners and being more sexually "liberal") at the beginning depends on how they are created, if they have a present and strong father, how religious they are, how society rewards or not this behavior, etc. Once they are indeed promiscuous and have lots of sexual partners, the capacity to pair bond degrades. They have several rides on the male human equivalents of Ferraris and Lamborghinis, melting in the dopamine rushes of novelty and att…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:14 PM
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I'd say the opposite In terms of enabling social and technological development in big societies, monogamy is far more advanced (effective) then humans' natural state, that being, in general, polygyny. A few top tier men dating all of the women generates a shit ton of comprehensively angry bottom tier men. That leads to chaos. But in fact, we are the ones that aren't fully prepared to monogamy. We can't overthrow our instincts. Without the social restrictions and guidance of well structured famil…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:20 AM
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Besides that which the other guys said, there's also this thing called morals. Don't get me wrong, morals and honor are (or were) good, and women always had a higher biological value than men, but that proportion has been distorted. Today, a man that dies for a woman, no matter how much of a filthy whore she is, is worth more in society's eyes than a man that dies for 10 other men or a soldier that is killed for his whole country. Today's ethics are like: women above men, always, in all situatio…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:00 PM
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Don't show bitterness What you should ideally do is just toss it in the trash like you would do with a piece of useless plastic or whatever, no sadness but no resentment, like it's nothing. Or if you think it has any market value, sell it, but again, without any revenge innuendo
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:12 PM
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DEER - Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize This is the acronym for the things you SHOULDN'T do to women, especially exes. Don't explain. Ignore
/r/askTRP28/05/18 11:17 PM
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Again, think of lions. Their biology is similar to ours in that point. Why does a lion has 10 females and can't withstand another male trying to get one of them, but each of the females are ok with sharing him? What's the goal of the reproductive instinct? To generate as many healthy offspring as possible. In specific creatures, that doesn't mean an altruistic will to ensure the survival of the species, but more like wanting to spread their own genes, to have as much children as possible, and en…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:52 PM
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The thing is, the "natural" state of humans is polygyny, which means females (usually more than one) are exclusive to a male, and this male sustains all the females he can handle. Think lions or gorillas The point is, men are naturally possessive of their women, much more than women are of their men. It makes sense if you think of reproduction, since one man can impregnate 1000 women, but every female has only one kid every 9 months from one male only. For most men, the mere thought of a girl yo…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:19 AM
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The most important is to get good pictures. It helps a fucking lot if you're in a nice shape, so go lift. Get pictures in third person, wearing nice clothes, in different situations: at a park, a club, the beach (if your body is good), with friends (especially hot girls) Then get your matches and just don't be an average idiot, be witty and somewhat direct. Also, search for tinder in TRP, there are various guides there
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:02 PM
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It is possible. But you shouldn't directly desire it. If you're improving with the focus of getting one girl, you're doing it wrong. Do it to have multiple girls and to not care about the ones who dismissed you. Have abundance
/r/askTRP26/05/18 09:00 PM
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Why do you care about people that don't exist reading your stuff?
/r/askTRP26/05/18 05:00 PM
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Two options: or you just meet her normally and end up like you were completely oblivious and indifferent ("I don't think we'll work together, have a good life, bye") and then proceed to next Or Just cover yourself with your whitest sheets and go full ghost. Block her from social media, don't answer her calls, just pretend that she doesn't exist and it's already over. I personally prefer that second option. Good stuff you're already kinda indifferent. You know it's over. Start moving on immediate…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:56 PM
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It's just a pet theory from a guy that has no advanced knowledge of psychology, but ok: Thinking in an almost strictly biological sense, and as said in Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman, we can basically say that the human brain has two systems of thought. One is fast, usually reactive, "instinctive and emotional" (his own words) and the other is slower, usually active and deliberative, more methodical and calculated, rational. We know that instincts and emotions are part of the same sys…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 03:57 AM
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How big is your college? And we both agree HB6 isn't so bad, so maybe people knowing that you scored one of them isn't so bad for your rep.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:28 AM
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Show them that you exist then, goddamn If you aren't extremely physically attractive, girls will put never even acknowledge you if you just stay there. Talk to a lot of people and a lot of girls, make friends, go to parties, ask cuties out. If you just stay in the background, guess what, they'll just see you as part of it
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:15 AM
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Pick up an HB6 on Tinder or so Nobody has to know, and TBH 6 isn't so bad after all, especially in the beginning
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:12 AM
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What do you call being "invisible" to women? I was deep in the bottom tier a few months ago, now I believe I'm coming to average or even slightly above, but you know what? I could still say I'm invisible, and I'm not getting any results, you know why? Simply because for other reasons I'm not yet putting myself out there. If you are lifting and have knowledge and at least minimum capacity of applying what you see here in the red pill, you're already able to get at least some underaverage girls. J…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:42 AM
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If you are skinny like I am, go to r/gainit Lots of good stuff there
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:17 AM
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Not exactly in the terms we're thinking. In the wild nature (and it was like that with humans too in primal times) the female will look after the best male to procreate, and this male also will have to protect and provide for her. This male normally have multiple females, but as long as he can keep her, he'll do it and impregnate her (think lions or maybe gorillas). And being him strong and skilled, he'll be the best doing so. And the thing is, male animals can of course easily identify if a you…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:57 PM
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What's the point in not doing it? What will you lose by DMing her? Maybe a few minutes? For a chance of actually getting a nice convo and maybe, just maybe sliding into her panties, seems very reasonable. Also, if you don't get her, at least you'll get some experience from it. Do it man
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:47 PM
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I, personally, talk to myself a lot. Call me crazy if you want, but it helps me organize my thoughts and even vent. Also, distracting a bit when you're really frustrated actually helps. One day or two later you'll think back at what left you that way in a much more calm and rational manner, and most likely see it wasn't worth the sweat. And of course, LIFT. Channel your anger and frustration through the iron. It's a great fuel and you'll feel much better after training
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:44 PM
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That's an interesting theory. In my opinion though, this want/need to get more and more girls, be you a kissless virgin or Chad, doesn't come only from societal pressures, even though those matter a lot. As the "human animals" we are, our biological imperative is to impregnate AS MANY WOMEN AS WE CAN. So even if you already have 5 hot as fuck plates and you can barely manage them, if an HB8 suddenly appears giving you IOIs, a significant part of you will want to invest and hook her, not only bec…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 12:48 PM
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This "activity" you're speaking of. Is it fucking? If it isn't, then just ignore
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:05 AM
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At the expense once again of the bottom 80% (or at least 50%) of men Have you seen the studies about the relation of polygamic societies (polygynic actually, men with multiple wives) and political instability and civil war? The logic is simple: polygamy gives women the option to completely abdicate from these low value men. Men without sex and affection get angry. Dozens of millions of very angry men in a country generates instability and crime, a lot of it. And boom. I'm not sure if we actually…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 03:07 PM
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There are a few men that prefer chubby women, and I don't mean slightly overweight attractive girls, I mean actually fat. As well as men who like older women, but not hot milfs, but really elder women But these guys are rare. Really rare. I believe that there must be women out there like this too, women that indeed prefer fat men or emasculated men. But these girls are rare too, and if you hear someone talking they are like that, there's a nice chance it's bullshit
/r/askTRP19/05/18 01:12 AM
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Not 100% accurate tho There's always the possibility of her boyfriend being an excessively needy beta with a gun and emotional problems... or maybe someone involved with crime, drug dealers or whatever Besides, there's the flagrant factor. If a guy stumbles across you making out or fucking his girl, if he's bigger than you or has a gun/knife, 99% of chance that he'll try to kick your ass or even kill you if he's crazy enough. I'm not against hooking up with these cheating whores, but 2 rules: 1-…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 09:08 PM
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A girl grabbed my hand, guided me to the bathroom, locked the door, ripped my pants off and started sucking my dick. What could that mean? 🤔
/r/askTRP14/05/18 07:39 AM
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You gotta remember though that humans are heavily influenced by their environment, especially the weak minded ones (and women usually are here). If she's frequently on a heavily sexualized environment, drinking something, getting hit on by attractive men and seeing her friends and other women making out with these men and cheating on their respective boyfriends, the chances that she does the same are significantly bigger than if she was your average stay-at-home girl
/r/askTRP12/05/18 02:07 PM
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I asked this question here a few days ago, the average response was along the lines of "if you do the rest right, the opening doesn't matter, so go for something a little bit smoother too avoid too much initial resistance and work from there" Not sure about that though. Is direct better?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:37 AM
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This is the second sexual revolution
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 09:47 PM
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If there's a third person, then it isn't a date They know the rules, so she obviously understands that. She's testing you, or she's genuinely a little bit afraid (which you can solve by meeting her in a more public place or whatever). Just say to her that it's supposed to be one on one.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:22 AM
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And still the looks are failing, even with all that investment, Slowly. Decaying. Slowly. Degrading. One less man would pay attention and fuck her each day that passes. Imagine having no value but from one thing, and that thing is slowly getting eroded by Chronos. Imagine realizing that you're past your prime and you didn't do shit from it apart from having a few good times. That must be terrifying. The schadenfreude is real bois
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/18 08:48 PM
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This is so textbook crazy entitled XXI century girl that it's almost unbelievable. Someone please print this and put on a mold
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/18 08:38 PM
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If she accepted being an escort, it means she's already broken. Even if she's just starting, not as much as the veterans, but still broken. It means that she values the money she gets more than her pussy, more than the intimacy of sex, more than chastity. Not that you would want a chaste girl either way, but you get my point. It means a mental point of origin completely opposed to what a good wife should have, not necessarily a prude wife, but one that values the intimate sex she has with her ma…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:32 PM
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We men are expected to just put up with the fact that they lose their shit for one week a month like it's no big deal. As usual, we are expected to be the rock that protects them against the external world and against themselves too. Romantic, indeed. I don't really know what or even if they think. Women tend to double down on failure. Fuck, the hamster is such a powerful little being, it's amazing how it can blind them. Looking from this point of view, it almost gets me sad. They're like little…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/18 02:19 AM
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One of the best things I have done in my life until now was fixing my teeth. Stop overthinking, go put some braces on, and after you're done with them, do a good cleaning and start taking good care of them. No secret at all
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:46 AM
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They don't feel attractive any more, and they're scared for the future. Well, an early pregnancy can be a real punch in the face of someone who's used to have all the attention and favors because of looks and with that stupid thinking that it'll last forever The implication is that you're not a true man unless you're willing to care for a woman who has shat out kids that aren't yours. Hah, that's already a classic in shaming tactics. What I can't process is what they expect to get with that. I m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/18 01:44 AM
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and they will not do that willingly unless and until circumstances force them to. And as usual, their entitlement and short-sight will make them hold too much. When they finally become willing to manouver to stop the bleeding of this system, it'll be too late. The second sexual revolution comes, and it won't be pretty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/18 01:34 AM
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Ok, I truly have no fucking clue of why pregnant woman get on dating apps trying to find those so called "decent men". I mean for god's sake you're going to have a child, you're unattractive to most men in that period, and still you're on tinder, wtf man, that doesn't make any sense. Is it the desperation of having a kid without a present father?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/18 01:10 AM
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I like to think that tattoos are like printed red flags. The more and bigger tattoos, more and bigger red flags. Small tats? Like a small printed flag, so no biggie.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:14 PM
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Just get huge. A nice beard is a good optional, but the key here is: get big as fuck and your bald head will increase how masculine other people see you. Like the other gentleman said, Jason Statham. Or go even further, The Rock. If you do it and in a few years still feel like shit, than do an implant
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:07 PM
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It's not fucking worth it. If you really care about the guy, tell him. Not just tell him since her word is stronger than yours to him, but show him prints, audios or whatever, maybe even tease her a bit so she goes further and you have more proof. If you don't care that much, just dismiss. But don't go for her, srsly, this shit will end bad
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:07 PM
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Why would people listen to TRP advice if they could just be themselves and get laid anyway? Do you think everyone can just "be themselves" and get laid? Go tell that to the guys that are virgin at 28 and come here for help. Besides, getting laid is not the only problem. Guys marrying used up whores and getting cheated on and fucked over by law is a problem. Guys being controlled by pussy and living sad and pathetic lifes is a problem. Young men suffering and some even developing depression and s…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:52 AM
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"...to give you a good time? Yeah, sure ;)" "No. Bring your guns" "Yeah, but can I trust you? The last girl that came around stole my dog and the left foot of my favorite pair of socks :("
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:58 PM
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How old are you now? Considering you are at least 40 years away from being 80, and a shit ton of thing will change until then, it may not be that bad. No, you just won't be the chick-magnet Chad, who works hard to make millions and goes out to party until 5am and end up in some wet 20yo hottie's bed. But until then I believe that with the improvements of technology/medicine you can be reasonably healthy and available at 80. If you have some success, you can use your money to live somewhere else …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:35 AM
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Didn't even read half of it. Bro. Let's be real. It's over. In fact, it shouldn't have even started. LDRs are utter SHIT. Don't do those, never. She gets validation, a safety warranty and gifts from you and you get nothing but lovey dovey promises. I won't even start with the facts converging to "she probably cheated on you already". You know it's true, and that it would be easy for her if she wanted to. You do not need this. It's bringing you down, and it will even more from now on. I know it's…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:00 PM
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As a 20yo (and living in a shitty country), this is the sort of simple, realistic, motivating comment that helps me in my journey and that I'd like to see everyday. Thank you mr. Sometimes is hard to see the pot of gold in the end of the rainbow.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 07:04 PM
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Ok, this is by far the best thing I've seen today. Thank you, mr. OP. We all know how the pathetic excuses of "advice" she got won't help her improve or get him out of her mind, we all know how she'll touch herself thinking of him and cry after, and in the end surrender to her emotions and try to win him back (and fail, and cry a little bit more) The levels of schadenfreude are off the charts right now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/18 06:58 PM
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Solid post dude. I'd just like to say a thing about the "never betray your senses" stuff. Trust your gut is generally a great advice, but you gotta be careful tho. If you're a noob, still a little beta in a dry spell whos just starting to understand and apply game, your guts will probably tell you to grab and glue onto the first reasonably attractive girl that gives you a chance. To be possessive of her. Your fear of losing her will make you want to please her in every way. You gotta be careful …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:49 PM
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This. As said in The Book of Pook, "Friendship: ABANDON ALL HOPE YE WHO ENTER" Maybe in a few months without contact, when you've improved, you can try again and have success, OP. But not now
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:34 PM
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/r/ihavesex
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:25 PM
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Saved. Pure knowledge condensed in just a few short phrases. Thanks for that, mr.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:44 PM
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Well, she isn't the popular type and as far as I know has few to none girl friends (red flag, I know, but whatever), so I can't use her as leverage to get other chicks. And yeah, my sensors aren't well calibrated, so a bit of mixed signals but I can see some IOIs I understand that it can get weird, but rationally thinking I don't think I'll be labeled a creep, especially because I intend on doing it clean, not insisting much or trying to negotiate attraction Do you think it would be best if I so…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:34 AM
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That was actually really motivating, thank you mr.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:29 AM
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As long as the deal is still shitty to men (women get the kids, get the house, get alimony and all that shit), as long as marriage is seen by society as a disposable contract and not a life long commitment and as long as women have the emotions in control, making them susceptible to sudden changes of mind (and they'll always be like this), no, marriage would still be shitty. But don't spend too much time thinking about this, in the end, it's not productive, go use your brain power in something t…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:14 PM
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Could you please explain a little bit more about active escalation vs bubble gum? Because especially in more sobre environments like college or street day game or whatever, you have to start somewhere, not just going in for the kiss or picking the girl up as soon as you meet her. What are good escalation tips on these kinds of environments?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:26 AM
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The true MVP. The fiancee did his job too by not saying absolutely anything about him/her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/18 11:07 PM
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Just shrug it off, maybe if a close friend is actually mad/worried talk to him and explain you don't want to lose time orbiting that girl and she's mad because of it With time people forget it, and in fact having that kinda "asshole/arrogant" reputation can be beneficial to you socially and get you some girls. Don't go full blown out jerk tho, it might backfire
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:37 PM
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What she SAYS: She's a good girl, likes to have fun but isn't promiscuous, never did ONSs, only ever slept with a handful of men, etc. What she DOES/DID: party a lot, divorced at early 20s, fucked you on first date, is/was on Tinder, had no father growing up, among with another ton of red flags What do we say here all the time? Yeah, trust not in what they say, but instead watch their actions... Maybe she isn't a full blown slut, but I doubt my ass off that she is that good girl she's trying to …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:19 PM
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Don't give them the attention they crave, or at least, not in the way they expect. Don't like or reply to their photoshopped bikini pic at the beach, but maybe leave a like if she miraculously post a picture of a good book she's reading. Stop chasing them and trying to make them notice you, do the opposite, make them want your attention more than they want the others', withdraw and make your attention high value If you manage to have a girl fight and beg for your attention, you're 90% on your wa…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:15 PM
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Say something like "yeah, you reaaaally hurt my feelings there, you'll have to make up for it" and then suggest a day. These types of ironies give a slight impression of disattachment and DGAF, while already rescheduling. No big deal tho, just do what you think that could work best with this girl
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:02 PM
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Well, than it's just a regular flake. Just say "it's ok" and reschedule, no biggie. If she flakes again, up to you to try a 3rd time or not. If she flakes 3rd time, she's out
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:41 PM
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"Let's go eat it then at (day)" "Come to my place at (day) and I'll make it just for you" wink
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:36 PM
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What The Actual Fucking Fuck my man, older than you, single mom, cheated on past boyfriends and 5 man gangbang? Well, first I have to congratulate you for your behavior, because a woman telling you that kind of shit when you're LTRing her means that you've been treating her textbook RP right and giving her the confidence to open up about her sexual past. She probably has more nasty shit she didn't told you tho, but still. Now, 4 reals lol, call me too prude if you want but I probably couldn't ev…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:16 PM
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Wait a minute, you just assumed that she agreed with the meeting when she didn't answer? She maybe didn't even see it bro, wtf Either way, set up another date, if she misses again, it's up to you letting go or trying the 3rd strike
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:00 PM
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I was surprised tho by the redpilling at the comments of that post, where some guys actually said what it meant to be a nice guy, guys that were lied to, didn't have a functional healthy male to look up to when young, bitter and resentful from these lies and rejection. I would say that we could put these guys in a "bitterness spectrum", where the least bitter is the ones who are nice independently and just wonder why they fail in getting girls, and the other end is the ones that are complete jer…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/18 10:37 AM
1

Accutane. There are lots of other treatments, some of them may improve a bit, if you're lucky they'll improve a lot, but none of them will solve it and your acne will comeback if you stop the treatment with most. Accutane (isotretinoin) is kinda agressive, but it's the one that actually solves it. It's like 6 months of treatment and the acne completely disappears and never comes back in 90% of the cases. Don't be afraid. Go to a dermatologist and ask for it.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:51 PM
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This book's title couldn't be more accurate: it's exactly what we see and laugh of here, it's exactly what we all know from all women, just with a few "christian", "prayers", and "church" words carefully inserted. You cannot override biology m8s, remember that. Even the strongest minded monks, with a whole life of training, still have problems dealing with emotions and impulses, imagine your regular "go to the church on Sundays" Stacy? They're all the same, doesn't matter if they are christian, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 04:49 PM
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Well, why the hell don't you act like ladies anymore? Y'all wanna be treated like princesses and have men kneeling and bending over to you, but no girls want to actually hold the crown and act like royalty. Sorry, if you act like the entitled whore you are, that's how you gonna be treated. Deal with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/17 06:02 PM
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Yep. If she's moderately hot she for sure can attract dozens of guys of all kinds without doing jack shit. The question should be "why don't I feel attracted to these nice guys?" Their tunnel vision is astounding
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/17 04:13 PM
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"Society" in this context can only do you harm if you let. If you get insecure, angry, and feel pressured when someone asks "why you're not married?" it's an internal problem that you have to solve for yourself, or bend in and let the blue pill come in and fuck your life because you're spineless and are marrying because you don't want your fat aunties to look down on you. You just gotta realize that the Matrix we talk about is this. People are blue pilled and will try to drag you down to it, in …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:50 AM
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Just a question tho: if she's an attractive woman, open up to your advances and isn't totally crazy or full of STDs, why not stick your dick into her? That being said, what's the deal on not trying to fuck her? Just go and have fun! Ironically, the only concern I think you should have is she wanting the D and expecting it and then feeling bad/unattractive or thinking that you are a pussy if you don't go for it, which can kinda ruin the relations between you two. But the mindset you gotta have is…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:15 AM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy, it's quintessential for a situation like yours. I (and probably most of this sub) would recommend you to bail out of this relationship if it is this bad. It's not all black and white tho, figure yourself out first, increase your SMV, disattach from her while doing it, and then decide if you should leave or not. Pro tip: you should. The rest is what the other guy said, it's actually a good thing being called an asshole in this case, because it means that she is feeling …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:06 AM
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Good stuff here, seconded. Listen to this man OP
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:01 AM
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Sell on low, buy on high, classic
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/17 10:04 PM
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Not from a conservative islamist country, but still live with parents in a shit hole third world country, can confirm is a deal breaker.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:04 PM
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Being a single mother is okay for plating or whatever, but pregnant? I mean I can't imagine myself going on a date with a girl pregnant from another man, and absolutely can't think of having sex with a preggo, even if it is anal or just BJ. It's just a natural repellent for me (thanks mother nature). Am I the only one like this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/17 07:59 PM
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I only access Reddit through mobile app. Go to the sub (TRP or askTRP), click on the 3 dots on the top right corner and go to "community info". There's your sidebar Also fuck you.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:23 PM
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I truly don't understand why there are pregnant women in dating apps. There are actually men out there crazy/desperate enough to relate to a pregnant 19yo little whore? Like, seriously? How desperate could you be to fuck an already pregnant woman? And they are there like actually waiting for "Mr. Right", and more than that, they act totally entitled to him. That's just insane
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/17 01:51 PM
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There's happn, that isn't exactly how you're describing, but it shows the women that you've crossed with that also have the app
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:45 PM
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Who the fuck cares? Just wrap it up and go for it bro, have fun
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:16 AM
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You've been with her for 6 years man, being her beta and suddenly you just start u-turning the relationship, applying dread, demanding regular and passionate sex, withdrawing attention and all of it. It's normal and expected for her to get scared/confused/sad about it. You have 3 options here: take it slower, keep doing what you're doing, showing her that you're a man now and it's a definite change (and deal with the consequences) or you could just GTFO. For what you've said, I'd keep with the 3…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:16 AM
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Men build, invent and manage everything on the planet because they are men. Read that text again. It seems like a text from a man, a masculine male who builds, invents and manages and has power and control? We cannot "set the standard" of female attraction. They are attracted to what they are (which is masculinity, even if they say otherwise) and we can only acknowledge and use it or stay in the dark and send pathetic needy girly texts like this dude that OP's sister ghosted.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:55 AM
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Hey, I'm a broke ass 20 year old living at home and I don't think all women post-23 have low-no value. Stop the stereotypes and the bullying! #metoo /s
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:51 AM
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I'm pretty sure she just got the seed of a good, christian, faithful man 2 months ago, accidentally lost contact with him and now is desperately trying to find him again. Just like she did 2y ago with her first kid. So pure and faithful to her beliefs. PRAISE THE LORD, WOOHOO!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/17 08:09 PM
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American Beauty. Watch the movie and then look for the review Paul Elam did of it on his YouTube channel An Ear For Men. Really an amazing, multilayered job, with lots of red pills hidden in the dark corners.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:25 PM
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Why r u so mad, old lady of 44?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:16 PM
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Exactly. The problem here is him, caught oneitis and started dating a no-boundaries cum dumpster. I wouldn't say that he should demote her, I'd say that he should drop her for good and start fucking other women, or else he won't get rid of this attachment and will keep suffering for a worthless hag
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:53 AM
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Will the furniture disappear in thin air if you line it tho?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/17 10:47 AM
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There's a lot of guys here on this sub at their 40s still scoring 20yo college hotties. And no, they aren't millionaires or models. Yes, you still can do it, learn game, take more care of your appearance, lift like there's no tomorrow and start going out and approaching girls
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:41 PM
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You aren't failing because you broke your diet by eating McDonalds or because you missed one day at the gym 'cause "lazy". You are failing because you are doing that and then quitting. Change, real change takes time. Lots of time with lots of effort, body changes and mind changes as well. Test you testosterone levels. Pick your goals, then pick a sport, a diet, a preferred day to go out, all of that shit, and STICK TO IT. And if you fail, get up again on the next day and KEEP DOING IT. And for G…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:46 PM
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Why the heck are you dating a partey girl? And why the hell you keep trying to "solve" the difference between you. Don't change for her and don't try to change her for you, accept her how she is or bail. That being said dating a party girl is stupid. Oh, and congrats on stop drinking. You can drink "socially" if you want, it's normal and not that big of a deal, but if you feel you haven't got the control to drink just a bit or that the booze isn't bringing anything valuable to the table, than do…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:29 PM
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People here don't recommend dinner not because men usually pay, but because it's usually boring, common, boring, low physicality, have I mentioned boring? Invite her to go bowling, dancing, or at least to catch some drinks
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:05 AM
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I'd ignore/treat her as a child. What she says has (or at least should have) no importance at all, so when she acts bitchy just dismiss and pretend she isn't even there. If she gets mad at it and goes too far just reprehend her as you would do with a kid.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:02 AM
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Soreness for me just went completely away with time and consistency. The first two weeks I went to the gym I only managed to go twice a week, because I was destroyed. Today, 5 months later, I go 5 times a week, train hard and almost never get really sore. If you're injuring yourself for real tho you are doing shit wrong. Lighten the weights and/or pay attention to the form, ask someone more experienced to help you with it if you're in doubt or see some videos on YouTube.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 10:33 PM
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So, what exactly do you want from her? FWB? Just friends? Wingwoman? Your methods should go accordingly with your objective
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:57 PM
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Sweet, sweet schadenfreude
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/17 04:31 PM
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Not your problem. If you want her to be more invested in you, try it, use dread, maybe even overt conversation as a desperate last resource, and if it doesn't work, next
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:02 PM
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Interesting to notice that a lot of the "evil, gaslighting, manipulative things" that this guy did that "traumatized" the poor woman are things that lots and lots of women do daily to men in their relationships, like emotional blackmail and overt dread game. But this man doesn't seem redpilled, he's just manipulative, narcissistic, maybe borderline. I'd bet 10 bucks that he has some kind of cluster B disorder.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 02:49 PM
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Sidebar has a lot of stuff relative to how to break this restraints, how to be sexual, how to DGAF, all of that shit. Start reading it.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:58 PM
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Besides everything other guys already said here (approach women, go to bars, read the sidebar, post questions on askTRP, etc.), I'd also recommend you to download Tinder and maybe others dating apps too. It doesn't take time or money, and if you actually are attractive and know how to hold a conversation, it can be a fine source of quick and easy lays.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:53 PM
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That's a really interesting video, thank you for that. And yeah, you're cool, just don't put the weight back on and you'll be fine
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:59 PM
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I never said it is shit to me, but it is shit to men in general (which obviously doesn't mean all men that ever existed)
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 01:11 PM
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I just had a lot of relatives in front of whom I had to pretend. And I got so good at pretending I almost lost my mind. So, you may have never been a strict christian, but to them you were. Your family views it exactly as I told you in my first comment. So again, it's normal for them to react aggressively and to try to control your life. They did it your whole life, nobody wants to lose control. Don't let them, but there's no need to act defensive or butthurt about it. I mean my lack of sexual e…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 12:26 PM
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You're on defensive. Chill. You're a 30yo virgin that was a strict christian and now is suddenly changing mindset and trying to get a fuck buddy. It's normal and expected for the BPs around you to at least question it. Be cool about it, hold frame, joke, or even try to make these guys as soft wingmen like the other guy said here. Just be careful of one of your cousins eventually trying to set you up with a fat blob or something. Oh, and a tip, keep your sexual numbers hidden from most around you…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:42 AM
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So you mean that it isn't shitty only for the men that are top tier and don't believe anymore in those Disney fantasies. Basically, redpilled men. A small, small minority. The "lower tier" or "Disney princess believers" is like 95% of men, unfortunately. If hypergamy is shit to them, wouldn't you say it's shit to men overall?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:29 AM
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Of course you have something to offer her. The tingles. The fun. The anger and sadness and frustration and anxiety when you're not around/with other girls/dumping her. The emotional rollercoaster. That's all you need to fuck a girl, not money (albeit that can help)
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:26 AM
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Lol dude, I'm as cool as I can be, I'm just stating the fact that hypergamy is pretty shitty to men overall. I've accepted it and thus am ready to work upon it instead of being destroyed by it. Are you?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 01:33 AM
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I said it's not good to us men. Good and bad is a matter of perspective. Hypergamy can be good to women (not always tho), can be efficient evolutively speaking (not always tho²) and it can be good for a few blessed men that understand it and use it at their favor. But to the majority of men, hypergamy is shit. To the 80% that have to suffer a lot just to get the affection of your average plain Jane, to most of the 20% men too, that live in constant fear of getting tricked into losing their money…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 12:01 AM
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she could very very well be the one. THERE IS NO ""ONE"". STICK THAT INTO YOUR GODDAMN HEADS Y'ALL. THERE IS NO "THE ONE FOR ME". But otherwise I never thought I could be this happy together with a chick. It's getting pretty obvious that you're getting oneitis. For this and for this only I think you should drop it permanently. You're setting yourself up for failure. She said to you that her N-count is 30+, wise men of this sub would probably add a bit onto it and say 40+ or even 50+, because gir…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:44 PM
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Just because something is natural doesn't mean it can't be bad, and I say that because the difference between a kid choosing a shiny toy and a woman goin full hypergamy/AF-BB mode is that the former doesn't do anything to the men related, the latter does. Hypergamy is women's sexual strategy, and it sometimes can go directly against our sexual strategy. It can be harmful for men, especially the men that are unaware of it, aka the blue pilled masses. That being said, it's indeed irrational to cri…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:03 PM
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Marriage is a business, whether y'all like it or not Yep, it's a business and a terrible one (for the guy). It's one of the worst investments a man can do and it has a great chance of ruining at least a decade of the man's life. This girl knows her stuff!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/17 08:50 PM
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That what you said is a good theory, but I'd say it's also because they want to draw the boy's attention and don't know a better way to do it other than that. It's a kid thing, and boys do it a lot too, especially at a later age. Go into a class full of 10yo and you'll see the boys picking on the girls all the time, mainly to get their attention (I know because I did that, and my friends did it too at that young age)
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:49 PM
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to not only maintain, but increase, attraction? Don't know if it is possible. But the standard advice is to keep being her rock, being stoic. Just keep strong while with her, then drop her at her place and go to yours to get alone, or go to a (male) good friend, and let it go. Cry your ass off if you feel like it, but keep yourself in check when near her. If you need psychological help in this cases, you're already losing hard in that department.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:34 PM
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That's pretty awesome. I get where you're coming from, and yes I'm afraid that I'll eventually be too hard at myself and let my low self-esteem consume me. Will work against that too. But the point is, I've been on Tinder. For a few months last year, and I was clueless at that point. If my game and personality improved a lot at this last few months of TRP, my body hasn't gone that much better though. And of course, the pictures, hasn't got any really good ones, and they matter a whole fucking lo…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:29 PM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy, then The Rational Male and then Models by Mark Manson. That's the best sequence in my opinion
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:50 PM
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Not all of them are this cruel, but every single one of them will lose attraction at these signs of weakness. For men that are married for years and have severe breakdowns like that, some wives would just divorce and quit like that one, some would just become bitches and turn your life into hell until you are the one wanting divorce, some will cheat, few will still stay by your side. But none of them, none would get more attracted to you after seeing you get destroyed like this.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:47 PM
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Ok, I may have not explained it correctly, I'm not in college yet. I was last year, shit ensued, had to quit and am restarting next year. Also, at least on the first year I'll be still living with my parents, so no dorm partners for me. That being said, thanks, that's really good advice. Made me remember of law 6 of The 48, "Court attention at all costs". I have to internalize that mindset and start talking to more people and being more relaxed in social environments. Will try, thanks again
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:01 PM
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the core of it is "asking them to put a lot of effort, even if you're also putting a lot of effort" Got it. Will try to be effortless and work on that abundance mentality to not be clingy. God help me (he won't) Are you handsome man? Tinder is a hell of a starter, mainly if you dislike the club environment. I have a reasonably nice face and I know a lot of shit about text game, but all the odds are against me right now. Acne (not so bad, but not good. Will start Accutane before the end of the ye…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:54 PM
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If you give too much fucks you'll be too loaded and they want light things. Could you explain that a little bit more? Did you mean too much fucks to what they're thinking, to the fact that they drink, or both? I get that being too loaded is bad, but do you have any tips on to how let go without feeling necessarily forced or creepy, specially if the people around me know I'm not drunk? but that doesn't require alcohol, just balls and a present oriented mindset. I get it. The balls needed are inve…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 04:20 PM
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Don't use this as a strawmen I'm not, just stating the pattern of actions and thoughts I come from. Am actually trying to be more open and extrovert, but it is easier said than done They consider you boring cos of your actions Yes, I understand. My thoughts were that the not drinking factor would already come as a first "red flag" for fun. And probably the alcohol would make this letting go/DGAF process come in easier and faster, as it does to almost everyone out there. But yes, I get it that my…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 04:09 PM
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Did you seriously just played the "don't want a kid? Don't fuck!" card? Here? At TRP? No, your advice is shitty to any normal man. Double shitty for redpilled ones. "Oh but is a foolproof method" chopping your dick off also is. Would you recommend that too? Sex to most women is nothing more than a pastime and/or a power game. So it's fairly easy for you to advocate abdication. Sex to men is a fucking biological need. And this is a fucking sexual strategy community. Completely withdrawing sex for…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:41 AM
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1st - Yeah, judging by the way you talk and your name on Reddit I could say you definitely spend too much time on the internet. Cut it 2nd - You stated a lot of your problems here, why aren't you working on them? Why aren't you lifting harder? Changing your wardrobe and getting some nice-looking, nice-fitting clothes? Changing your haircut/beard so you can appear more facially attractive? Why aren't you getting out and trying to socialize? DEW IT! 3rd - I'm from Brazil. Do you really think US is…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:36 PM
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I'm basically at the same boat as you. Also 20, also improving, also with severe but not out of the charts/monstrous acne, and also used a few soaps, topics and antibiotics for it, but without the desired results. The antibiotics actually help and dry the acne a little bit, but still, very very far from what I'm desiring. In two weeks I'm going to the dermatologist and I'm jumping on the accutrain, tchoo tchoo motherfckers Life is too short for us to spend basically all of our late teens and ear…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 03:57 AM
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I'm just purely fucking angry and annoyed at myself because I cannot do anything. Good, gooood. Evil laugh Now, Palatine feelings aside, that's actually good. Anger is far better than sadness or boredom because it actually compels you to do something about it. Use your anger, Anakin. There's no secret formula or something, you just need a change of mindset. Start meditating for more emotional control. Lift like your life depended on it. And get ANGRY, motherfcker. Every time you're failing on yo…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:41 PM
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Well, Miatas have that "hairdresser's car" fame, but everyone says they're a lot of fun. Nothing wrong in being a hairdresser also. Tell her to fuck herself then. Cars b4 hoes, bro
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:25 PM
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One of the main hormones (actually, The main) responsible for the libido is testosterone. A healthy adult male has, on average, 7-8 times more testosterone than a healthy adult woman, and since the consumption in men is bigger, he produces around 20 times more of it per day than her. Men want and like sex WAY more than you can possibly experience. Just ask female weightlifters what happens to their libido when they take testosterone for muscle increase. If you really have a high sex drive (which…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:03 PM
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This isn't even paying for something other guy got for free. Is paying for something lots of other guys GOT PAID TO HAVE. Besides, of course, the millions of dudes who already jerked off to her videos getting gangbanged. This is totally on another level. ALL MEN SHOULD BOW TO THE POWER OF THE HAMSTER!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/17 03:54 PM
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34? You sure that it isn't a typo? 43 would be way more accurate Oh, and "smokes: socially" LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/17 01:42 PM
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I understand. And I agree with that lone wolf part, and even though I always flirted with the idea, I now feel like I'm being pulled towards it without having much of a choice. I don't strive to be famous, popular, or a fucking politician. I like being alone. But even lone wolfs have one or two good friends as I can see, and I don't, and sometimes it feels bad. It's a constant hit to my yet-to-be confidence and abundance mentality. How can I have abundance of plates if I can barely make friends?…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:52 AM
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But it is! It went cold for at least a year after HS, but now we're hanging out a whole lot, but still, as I said, as a group, and I don't feel much connected to them one-on-one. Last week we all hung out at one of the girls' place, and next week some of us (me + 1 guy and 2 girls, all single) are going to a college party. BTW, we live somewhat apart from each other, not that big of a deal, but for a bunch of reasons I have no car until at least March 2018, so it's not that super easy neighbour-…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:41 AM
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Yes, I understand that vulnerability is an important factor. However, it seems that when I try to open up and have more meaningful conversations, they end getting even farther away. Again, I try to talk about important things with people I like and try to get close to, but they don't reciprocate. As to this group of friends, as I said, we were from high school, we know each other for almost 6 years and we just get along well. Pretty diverse group, if you ask me, but is easy to find things in com…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:58 AM
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Maybe, yes. My two biggest problems as I perceive are insecurity and overthinking. When the opportunity arrives I can act, no freezing or running, but I do think a lot about everything. I'm an architect, an tactician, and if this helped me in some situations and is a vital part of my identity, it also harmed me in other occasions. And that overthinking includes maybe comparing myself to others, including these friends of mine. Not that I make it obvious though. But what is your point?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:27 AM
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Since you seem to have everything going well and on the correct place except for that escalation/sexualization part, I'd say that you should go to someone to do exactly that: an escort. Do it once, someone that you don't have to game, don't have to worry about LMR or anything basically, and just go and fuck. Maybe this will break that weird anti-sexual mindset ingrown in your head. Oh, and stop fapping. It's way harder to run from a HB8 giving you the fuck me eyes when you've been blue balled fo…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:12 AM
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Not actually. This insecurity I talk about makes me maybe too competitive, which makes me "the efficient" guy, but not necessarily the one they want to connect with because of it. We are a pretty normal, mixed group, we don't play a lot of games, we don't do sports together or anything, so no, we aren't actually competing a lot.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:31 AM
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Nobody said you need to commit. But if you want to, would it be wiser to commit to a more reliable, feminine, conservative low n-count or to a CC-captain loose-pussy crazy girl? All human relations are an exchange, even if you're only offering something as subjective as body language or low-value like a dick to get something like a high-valued pussy of a HB9. You always pay something and receive something. Giving commitment for pussy is indeed a shitty deal, and that's what most relationships ar…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:03 AM
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"The man should be chasing the woman!" He's showing her how the game is played, probably better than she ever could with whatever men she had in her life. Locked the "beta" with the commitment proposal and is just keeping her as a backup plan while he bangs other women (4 visits in 2 years? LOL)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/17 11:26 PM
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Glad that everyone rushed here to tell you the truth. Yeah, she's probably BPD or something similar. If you stay with her, she'll use this suicidal thing and much more dirty tactics to keep you unhappy and locked down on her draining embrace. Don't do it to yourself. It's not fucking worth it. Also, look for "An Ear For Men" on YT and see Paul Elam's videos about BPDs. Maybe you'll relate. TIME TO ABANDON SHIP
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:39 PM
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Dude, if you're actually interested and invested in TRP, the Iron Rules of Tomassi are like the god damn Ten Commandments. The basic logic is that when you move in with a woman, you abdicate of most of the power to instill dread, and also you'll spend much more time with her and in every occasion, making it much much easier for her to detect the piercings in your armor. Moving in is 100% a comfort-based action. And comfort leads to boringness which leads to contempt. This is an amazing way to ki…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:18 PM
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DEW IT! Srsly tho, I'd do it. If you lived together and she was your all-in oneitis, she probably had full control over you, and that's why this change in your behavior and you moving are unexpected and threatening to her. If you move, or she bails out for good and you are on the hunt again, killing this poisonous oneitis and gaming new girls, or she'll weaken and try harder and harder to get you back, giving back all the power in the relationship to you. Seems win/win to me.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:06 PM
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What? Fuck dude, that's a terrible idea
/r/askTRP26/11/17 01:41 PM
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Anyways, so why would you invest in a committed relationship with someone that is an expert in giving uncommitted sex? If you want comfort and security, would you buy a racecar instead of a luxury sedan? Nobody is against plating high N-count, but yeah, LTRing them is a shitty deal. And everyone pays for commitment, one way or another
/r/askTRP24/11/17 07:58 PM
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E> Golf
/r/askTRP24/11/17 02:42 AM
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Nicely done. Now stay strong and no contact. Full ghost mode
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:05 PM
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And besides the body development, what's exactly the difference between a 28 yo Carol and your average teen girl? lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/17 03:57 PM
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Dread. Keep working out and getting more attractive, and keep that attitude of not being that interested and amused in fucking her. Women will start to give you more attention and IOIs, and you should reciprocate. She'll notice. Competition anxiety and blablabla, you know the deal. If she's still not doing her shit to keep you interested when you're applying dread, maybe it'll be time for overt communication. But try covert first, it usually works best.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:38 AM
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Personally, I like to challenge myself to never break eye contact first, with anyone, but specially with women on my age bracket. Once it's locked, I'll always keep looking until the other person breaks (unless if it's a really creepy guy or something like that lol). Do it, treat it as a game, and soon you mostly won't be intimidated by eye contact with hot women. As to what to do, standard advice: if she looks at you and make eye contact twice or more, if she smiles while looking/right after br…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:28 PM
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The question about n-count isn't the amount of times a woman had sex, but the amount of partners she has had. There's even conclusive research about how the amount of sexual partners is inversely proportional to pair bonding capacity on women. A girl that fucks her boyfriend 10x a month is far, far less damaged than a girl that fucks 10 different guys per month once each. N-count isn't all about "oh she's stretched". It's much more like "oh, not only she's stretched but she's a senseless bitch i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/17 09:59 AM
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Hamster.exe stopped working
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/17 09:23 AM
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"We don't actually need you" We just want really bad your money and provider skills to help us grow the sperm of the asshole that fucked us when we were 17 and then bailed :D "Single moms know who they are are used, stretched, wasted all the hotness and disposition of their best years getting knocked on and then raising a kid, and now want to settle down with a nice guy beta provider" "Single moms are sexy and great in bed" Streeeeeeeeeched. And out of shape. And starfish silent sex with a kid s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/17 09:44 AM
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"Occupation: Goddess" Ok I LOL'ed Very high self esteem for a post wall, single, no kids woman in a dating site, I'd like to see how far that would go
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/17 05:10 PM
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College is not everything. You only have one life, one body and one mind, keep it safe and you'll have other options to become financially successful. You won't have other life for when you are dying at 35, even if you are rich as fuck.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:25 PM
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Holy shit, I just checked and I was banned too lol Well, I couldn't give two fucks tho. And if I need anything from that sub (which I doubt), always have that throwback, just in case
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:21 PM
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The first, biggest, most significant stage of unplugging is called "anger phase" for a reason. A lot of guys try to overcompensate at this point. Or they are simply and genuinely angry with the way things are, with how women and relationships truly work and how society got molded around this. Besides that, in our current society everything that is not 100% pro-women can and will be labeled as misogyny, "hate speech" or blablabla patriarchy blablabla rape culture. So to someone that has just that…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:22 AM
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If it actually happened that way, the guy is a class act. Told her the raw truth, no deceiving, no fucking her out of pity/to break a dry spell and then ghost, nothing. Cool guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/17 06:41 PM
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Genetic engineering is a whole world away from just plain desiring the weak to die. It's the difference between a scientist working to improve our species and goddamn uncle Adolph. That I can understand, agree and accept that it is the next step in our evolution. Yes, we can and will in some decades design and create better, stronger, smarter humans, but again, that doesn't mean plain executing the weak. And I'm pretty sure that with high level genetic engineering and a few generations in betwee…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:00 PM
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I'm suggesting that the ones who don't actually understand or believe what we say here, and will come here just to troll, to try to "convert" us to their point of view, or generally won't give anything valuable to this sub, shouldn't be here
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:58 PM
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I agree with you, as a man that really likes to study biology, psychology, evolution, etc. But no, I don't feel that way myself. Of course occasionally the "unfairness" gets to me, but I've come to understand it. Who said the world was fair, after all? I understand your point of view of natural selection, but that eugenics you're advocating is seriously disturbing. If our species went so far to the point that even the weak ones can survive and have a chance to disseminate their genes, so far to …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:54 PM
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I understand your point. But basically everyone that built and came to TRP were incels, or at least beta dudes that were cheated on or divorce raped. Our base is basically the same as yours. The difference is that in here we advocate for self-improvement, knowledge, dominance, and essentially getting better to get what you want in life. What I saw at incels was the exact opposite: defeatism, rage against every fucking one, acceptance of failure, and a powerful echo chamber on distorted half trut…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:18 PM
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No. Incels was actually populated by, well, incels. They made the posts and moderation, but the sub was just way too much watched by outsiders that didn't agree with anything they said, and just stood there for the lulz and/or for getting proof of how "evil" they were.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:42 PM
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There are two types of incels, the ones that are just sad about it and still have a spark of hope, and the ones that are just in too deep to see anything besides their suffering and the injustice they've seen. The first ones are welcome here, and they probably can use this sub content to improve. The second ones are just outright toxic. For them I think the sub shouldn't be banned, because at least there they were easily seen and controlled. Among this group are the ones that are potentially dan…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:39 PM
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People outside of this sub are making the link and turning their heads and censor weapons towards here, just like you did. That's why I brought the connection here. What TRP represents isn't how normal people should act. So normal people shouldn't act confident, rationally and focus on self improvement? The normality today is the opposite of that, I understand. But normality is, by definition, mediocre. And most of the people here don't want to be mediocre and are actually doing something about …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:35 PM
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That's exactly what I thought. This thought these BP guys have about that place being a pressure pan cooking hatred that could explode at any time is dead wrong. Incels are by nature isolated, and if you nuke the (most likely) only place they have to rant and make friends in similar situations, you isolate them even more. There's nothing more dangerous that a man that has nothing to lose AND is isolated. The true "pressure pan cooking hatred" is their heads, and if you block the "rant valve", ex…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:25 PM
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Well GLO, don't you think that AWALT, the feminine imperative, the SMP, the basics of evo psych and all that are actually kinda simple to understand? IMHO these are easy concepts, and even a chimp could understand 'em and believe them by seeing it happen all around. The main problem though is breaking through the conditioning, the indoctrination that basically all men in Western societies have. This is something that not everyone can do, but it also depends on the guy's experience as much or eve…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 01:41 PM
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How often do you find healthy apples in boxes full of long time rotten ones?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:21 AM
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Money gets the legs open but it doesn't get the pussy wet. Holy shit, this is like what I always thought of but couldn't verbalize. Awesome statement, and really truthful
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:53 AM
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Red Pill Interviews. Also Paul Elam's An Ear For Men has some pretty good RP insights
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:07 PM
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I agree, but I expressed myself bad. The point I wanted to make is that it won't bring any outer value to you. Is not like other girls will get attracted by your honesty or the guy will become your best friend because you saved him from the ho (if he actually drops her after that, you know, cucks everywhere). But I understand that feeling, and I'd probably do it too. Damn morals, I can't get rid of them like that
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:17 PM
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Does that feeling of revenge over all women feel better for you than the sex you're getting from that chick? If so, then do it. It's understandable. But keep in mind that this probably won't change her, nor her boyfriend, and definitely not women as a group. It'll only make you feel a little bit better, but will ruin your chances with the girl.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:49 AM
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"I want to lose fat, but I don't want to do anything related to fat-losing" "I want to build muscle, but I don't want to do the by far most efficient way to build it" As MattyAnon said, you know the answers, you just don't like them. Gym membership is cheap as fuck and you can find a gym everywhere these days. Get your skinnyfat ass off your chair and GO LIFT, god damn. Build some discipline and stop behaving like a bitch. Do you want to improve? The path to improving isn't easy or nice, but it …
/r/askTRP28/10/17 11:07 PM
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Making her comfortable with your touch as well as putting yourself as a physical (and consequently sexual) being. Starting with high 5s and other normal friend touches, going into hugs, hand on back, on thighs, touching face/neck, into kissing, grabbing and fucking. There is a proper escalation guide/ladder somewhere here but I don't have it, hopefully someone will bring it in this thread
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:42 AM
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I'm having kinda the same problem, but my parents are cool with me moving out to college (M20 here I could still go to college but keep living with them), but they said they'd prefer me staying a little bit longer. I don't know man, as I feel kinda suffocated here, but going out would push the financial boundaries a little bit and also could harm my grades and gym focus. Any input on both of our situations from a more experienced guy would be appreciated
/r/askTRP27/10/17 09:53 PM
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I don't think it's necessary. If you feel you're still addicted, I'd recommend you quitting it totally for a few months, until you feel free, like you don't actually need it and only may do it if you're bored or so. If that's not the case anymore, you don't need to completely drop it, you just need to build the discipline to not let it consume time you should be using to improve yourself. Gaming is a good occasional relaxation method, and you shouldn't make it more than that. Do it, but still li…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 09:41 PM
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So, what are you expecting? That we all give up on everything we've learnt here and admit we're wrong about women? Or praise you as a legitimate unicorn? Some marriage proposals? Or that we just act as the cynical men we are and dismiss your anedoctal evidence? That's not exactly the place to ask for life guidance either, as we'll all say do what you want, cause we don't know you enough to say anything else, and even if we did, probably shouldn't. No, we aren't going to send you to the kitchen o…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:21 PM
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You're right to an extent, but understanding that women will slut is easy, but accepting it and genuinely viewing it in a rational way, without contempt, or disgust is some hard stuff, and maybe shouldn't be done. There is very few men who got to this stage, and I believe some men could never get there. That doesn't mean men can't or shouldn't do the non judgmental environment thing, but at their core most will despise slutty women for all of their lives. And objectively speaking slutty women ar…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:06 PM
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That thread got me at the guy saying some RP truths and then saying I'm a human not a red piller lol
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:35 PM
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This is a man that not only has a lot of strengths, but also one that is aware of his weaknesses. Few man would acknowledge that and follow through the "hard path" to not cave in. Props to the guy, he's good
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/17 06:51 AM
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Dude, even if she is now reformed (which she isn't), even if she would never cheat on you (which she would and will), just the prospect of her cheating is terrifying you and leaving you angry and that's why you should leave. I can relate to that. It means you aren't ready for a LTR, specially a LTR with a ex(lol)-slut. I wouldn't recommend demote either, because emotional attachment. Just ghost her and work on yourself, fuck some random women, up your value and absorve AWALT so you can be less d…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:19 PM
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It's simple, do you want to fuck her brains out? Then just go and fuck her brains out, god damnit. Are you seriously considering not going just to look busy? Just do it man
/r/askTRP24/10/17 03:15 AM
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Men simply CANNOT have truthful, no second intentions friendships with women they find at least minimally attractive.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:52 PM
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Every time I hear a friend trying to demoralize me because of my progress I feel great, because I know that this means that my improvement is becoming noticeable. But if they are too mean about it, they probably are assholes. Either way, you should ration your time with them and get better friends. As to what they say, I understand that sometimes just ignoring won't do the trick (but that should be your standard mentality). For those situations, specially if guys try to mess with you too hard, i…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 03:12 PM
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The rugby party stuff was already a red flag, but this? This is huge, colossal, USSR-level. Talk to her parents or stuff, and leave. Leave quick and hard.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 01:12 AM
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Assuming that you don't, the standard advice is agree and amplify, but some context would be good "Actually I'm muslim, I let my 4 wives back at Qatar" "Yeah, one for each day of the weak, but Wednesday bailed out. So now you'll be my Wednesday girl" "Yeah, 3 girlfriends, 2 boyfriends and a dog, I'm such a hoe"
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:38 PM
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I'm also like that. I've always been extremely competitive and since I wasn't able to compete in childhood/teens due to my body, I've recurred to games. I've also always been more of an "act" over "watch" when trying to entertain myself (aka games over movies or series, practicing a sport over watching a game, etc.) And I do understand your feeling, and I'm sure that for you, just like for me and pretty much anyone, games are way more exciting than something boring like studying or working, even…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:55 AM
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Dude, you don't have to say shit. If you want to break up, just say "I don't think this is going to work, I wish you all the best, bye" and proceed to block her in every social media. And stop worrying about "leading her on", you're breaking up because you are unsatisfied, and that's perfectly fine. And even if you were only saying that to keep fucking her without actually intending to marry her, morality is my ass, be amoral
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:02 PM
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It's your profile, not hers. Your profile pic should have you, and only you.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:30 PM
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A fish know how fish in general work. Still, would you ask it for fishing advice? Women don't even know consciously what they like, they are driven by emotions and "in the moment", if you ask one to rationalize the traits she likes in a man she'll basically say things that make her feel good (like him giving her validation), but not necessarily things that make her attracted to her. In fact, most of the things she says will make her lose attraction, specially in the long run. Besides that, femal…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:38 PM
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An Ear For Men
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:24 PM
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Knowing that she's 41, it's hard for her to get preggo, but not impossible. I don't know if you have something to do about it, only if she's stupid enough to admit what she did via Whatsapp or something. And even if she does, if she gets pregnant, you're still royally fucked. But the chances are really small, specially in an odd situation like she trying to get the sperm from the used condom instead of you directly coming inside of her. I'd just ghost and, of course, NEVER stuck your dick in her…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:55 PM
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That's it. Send him back to his house with (hidden) equip to record this abuse, and as soon as he gets it, he should leave, go no contact with her, and immediately lawyer up.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:50 AM
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Dude, every time you post about this relationship here, everyone will say: leave. Doesn't matter if she has leukemia, if you adopted a dog together or if she miraculously reversed 10 years in time and now is 28. And we say that because is the right thing to do, but your oneitis doesn't let you. And either way, if you haven't followed this sub's advice after like 5 different posts in 3 months, then well, this is pointless. Do what the hell you want
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:49 PM
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If you had no feelz for her, the standard recommendation would be to plate. But you made it obvious that she's your unicorn, you still got at least a little amount of feelings for her (which will escalate quickly in the first "make up for the lost time" weeks of the relationship) and you'll have no frame to keep her as plate like that. So, no exit. Ghost her, go live your life, go fuck some other women. It seems like no biggie for you
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:48 AM
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???? I mean what the hell? Is this troll? Yeah, you are blind, you are a beta bitch, and you ruined your life by having 3 kids with a cheating whore. But that is obvious. What's the point of this post? For God's sake grow a pair and leave
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:42 PM
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Bro, cuck has become basically a meme. Originally yeah, cuckolds are the ones who like and accept seeing their girl with another man, but the term has somewhat evolved for anyone who gets cheated on. Either way, if she gives no signs that she's cheating and you're still worried, then that's your insecurity speaking. It's always good to keep an eye out, but if even without signs on her part this thoughts still consume and annoy you, you should work on yourself. Game other girls just for the sake …
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:42 PM
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Don't go. Fuck her and her problems, they are, well... her problems, not yours. Erase her from your life.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:09 AM
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Dude Fuck that shit. FUCK THAT SHIT a thousand times. She cheated on you. Why are you even talking to her still? Ghost her, hard. Go fuck ten other women. This woman cheated on you, she waited 4 months to give you sex AND she has a STD??? If she was a hardcore party girl and grew up without a father figure then she would be the complete package of red flags. Full set, no DLCs. And now she wants to use a therapist to evade the blame of cheating, to feel better and to try to pull you back. I'll sa…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:58 AM
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I disagree, but even if it actually did, it still matters. And is obviously much easier to improve your physique than to change your face or height. Physique + style (clothes, haircut) are the easiest, cheapest, fastest way to improve one's SMV. And they doesn't do miracles, but they do help. A lot.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:02 PM
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The left guy is easily top 0,5% looks wise. It's obviously an unfair comparison, and that doesn't mean the guy on the right would absolutely get no women at all because the left guy exists. And the right guy would be much worse if he was a skinny fuck or a fat blob. So yeah, lifting helps, even if you're not going to become a fucking 4%bf bodybuilder
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:52 PM
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Sidebar, my bro. Read it all.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:47 PM
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COVERT COMMUNICATION, period.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 03:58 PM
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Soft dread (start talking with other women too) and most importantly, CARE LESS. You care too much, you're afraid to lose her and you show that to her. And she can be smart and loyal and honest and love you, but she's still a woman, her hypergamous instincts are still there and that attitude of yours will push her away. There are no unicorns here in the real world. The point is not pretending to care less, is actually don't minding. If she cheats of is too flicky, "oh well, her lost", and get ou…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:20 AM
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As said, keep it simple. Adjust light and color, some blur at the background, correct any weird stuff at your face or clothes, that kind of thing. Unfortunately I have no guides to what I'm talking about, but download an editing app and explore its functions. Edit a few pics of yours and send to a friend for feedback if you think you need. Nothing big or hard tho.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:41 AM
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For the photos: Third person (max one selfie, ask for friends or even family to take pics of you when you're at a nice place) Pics doing interesting/fun stuff like sports, playing an instrument or so Nice places like a park, a cool club or the beach. Postcard places like the Eiffel Tower or the Coliseum or stuff are always extra nice. No bathroom mirror pics. (If you have a nice body, put one or two shirtless pics at the beach or at a pool). Well and appropriately dressed, ALWAYS. Attention to h…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 02:06 AM
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Again, that's all a conflict between the definition of slut. If to you the girl that has a FWB is as slutty as the one with 5 + ONSs at the same time, ok, but to me that's thinking in extremes again. Quantity matters. It's not all black on white, or she's a perfect unicorn or she's a full slut because she fucked once without requiring a long life commitment first. Other important stuff, sometimes (most of the times) girls give sex and ask for commitment LATER, even because almost no high value m…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:45 PM
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If there's actually stuff of hers at your house, like clothes or some shit, give em back. If she wants to get back the gifts she gave to you, then yes, ignore her and if she comes to your house tell her to go fuck herself.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:37 PM
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Yup, but lots of guys on here seem to have the opinion that they will, which I think comes out of being jaded more than anything. Those guys are wrong. Is as simple as that. Some of them are at the anger phase, some of them just have a wrong idea of women and relationships and hypergamy in general. Like the guy in this thread who said (and he says it in every post) that if you LTR you're not even redpilled. It's someone that just thinks in extremes. And if that can be useful sometimes, other tim…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:23 PM
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AWALT means that all women have that same biological programming, the same hypergamous instincts, the same appreciation for validation, the same solipsistic nature. But that does not mean that all women will act the same over the same circumstances And as another guy said, most terms here are said in absolutes for the sake of time and efficiency on our advises. The cute, low n count, submissive and respectful girl and the hot slut who fucks a different man every 3 days and have once made amateur…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:52 PM
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blackdragon
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:41 PM
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Calculate your TDEE, eat 300-500 more than that. 2000 is obviously too low for a 6ft tall man that lifts 5x per week. If you eat less/equal what you consume, you'll never put on weight, doesn't matter what you eat or what's your training routine.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:48 PM
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War Brides by The Rational Male. Google it. I'd personally not let her got the closure she desired. As soon as she started talking that she met another guy or so I'd just say "cool, bye then" and leave unphased and proceed to block her from social media and whatsapp. Hamstering surely would ensue.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 12:25 AM
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They don't know what they want
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:59 PM
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and I can't let this bitch go. WHY? You CAN and you SHOULD drop her, NOW. It's not hard to foresee her "accidentally" getting pregnant and fucking you for the rest of your miserable life. You came here asking (again) for advice, right? So here it is: LEAVE. Every fucking one in this sub will say the same. You don't want to follow it? Want to give a happy family to your oneitis? Then why are you here? And good look with the old hag.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 06:11 PM
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Dude, you posted this here more than once in the past. What the fuck are you waiting to end things with this bitch? Last time you said she was eating at the palm of your hand for you to come back and you would try to make her give you gifts and easy sex. What happened, the sex got up your mind and you are now willing to stay with her again? She's a used up, cheating, post-wall hoe. Grow a fucking pair and play tryhard Casper on her. GHOST. Go lift, read the sidebar and fuck some 20yo cuties. You…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:58 PM
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Next time look at your fingers, start counting silently, smile there and then like it was a good fuck. Count to ~30+ stop. Look her in the eyes and say 2. (From another red piller) That's good stuff. Another option: start counting on your fingers until 4, do an unsure voice/face at five, then look directly at her eyes with a serious look and say 5... thousands (and smirk).
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:50 PM
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Never heard by itself, but definitely heard it in the movies. The first Transformers trilogy were the movies of my late childhood/early teen years, and I loved (and still do) the special effects and the soundtrack. Long time no see though, gonna check out on youtube, thanks for the suggestion
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:55 PM
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Hans Zimmer is a goddamn monster. Everything he touches is gold. Interstellar, The Dark Knight, Pirates of the Caribbean, Crysis, all his, all amazing. I'm not a big fan of orchestral, but with this I totally agree.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 10:23 PM
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I don't want to break up with her because I have oneitis for her Dude, that's exactly why you should break up with her. And yeah, you totally lost frame and even gave her an opportunity to put you as a "jerk" and allow her hamster to spin away a betrayal on her part. You want to marry, ok, I would advise not doing it, but if you do, you have like at least 2 damn decades to meet new girls and decide with who to settle. You'll be a much wiser, more experienced man and will have the opportunity to …
/r/askTRP04/10/17 10:18 PM
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It's like a snowball. Our civilization started this declining phase about 50 years ago, it's too advanced now. And even if it could be saved, is it worth the effort and sacrifice? I'm truly not sure.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:49 PM
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When you develop oneitis about a girl, PART of that is consistently attributed to scarcity mentality. What that means is basically your unconscious brain don't think you can get more/higher quality women, and then it bends your thoughts and your will to that one "special" pussy. Conscious and unconscious are not the same but absolutely aren't completely apart. Almost all conscious decisions have strong unconscious influence, and you can consciouly force a habit or something along those lines unt…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:42 PM
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Our conscient brain knows that, but the unconscious doesn't. When we feel attracted to a woman, when we feel aroused by her, when we cum in sex, it's all with the unconscious objective of procreating.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:56 PM
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This may seem like an integral part of you, but trust me, it isn't. This sense of morals is not natural of yours, your body was created by mother nature with the sole purpose of impregnating as many healthy human females as possible. Polygamy is our default. Don't get me wrong, that doesn't mean that you should devote your whole life to getting women, and doesn't mean that you shouldn't have standards. But this deep relationship ethic that you impose over yourself is due to years of conditioning…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:30 AM
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Holy fucking shit. Ok 1 - SIDE O' FCKN BAR ---> 2 - Ghost this chick. Drop this oneitis. It's not worth it. 99% of the time, "Time to discover myself" for a woman means "time to hop onto dozens of unknown cocks". You are (and always were) her plan B. Or better, plan C. Her A was the boyfriend and B is the CC, and you, last place. Is this what you have always dreamt of? 3 - Your report seems like a diary page from a 14 yo girl. Stop being so emotive. Be more stoic, be more rational. Emotions are …
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:27 PM
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That's my point. I don't want to save our civilization. Fuck that shit. Let it take its course, I'm not gonna ruin my life trying to save something that is probably unsavable, and even if it is saveable, I'm not gonna be here to reap the fruits of that effort. Instead, I'm gonna put my effort in my life and my happiness, and that passes far, far away from the current marriage path. And besides, as yourself said, civilizations fell and rose countless times in our existance. And still, here we are…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:23 PM
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Yeah, I know that. But I'll reinforce, that is an attraction killer in the long run. You can easily ONS, plate or even LTR some girl that's richer or more successful than you, no biggie. But a life-long commitment becomes progressively harder the more discrepant your finances are (by her side, I mean). As has been said in this sub other times, you cannot hold that strong, masculine, "alpha" frame with an iron fist forever. There has to be at least a little bit of comfort and provisioning in ever…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:17 PM
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Not giving up. Adapting. That's the whole purpose of the red pill. Recognizing the society and the relationship world for what it really is, understanding it and using your knowledge to live the best life you can, specially in relationship matters (this is a sexual strategy sub, after all). "And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free". The "gived up" subs are Incels and MGTOW to some extent. Not here. The thing is that after a lot of reflexion, I've decided that I won't live …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 07:00 PM
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And? So we should put ourselves into an obvious trap, that will ruin our sex life and probably our financial and emotional lives too just for the sake of "not surrendering to the leftists!"??? If you want to play Capitain-Save-The-World through restraining your freedom and ability to maneuver, you're free to do it, but don't try to drag others into that pit. Marriage is slavery for men these days. Or, resuming: Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 05:43 PM
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"The money of the wife is hers, the money of the husband is the money of the family." That's how this shit works to the female hamster. Besides that, hypergamy. She doing more money than you (specially if she actually has to pay stuff) kills attraction in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 05:38 PM
8

bring a hotter girl who is a friend or a plate. Let that Hampster self destruct while you end up combusting on her face. Holy shit, that would be really, really fun to watch. If OP could do it, he should just for the lolz. Bring a hotter girl and give all attention to her, while the other one just stays there like an orbiter, without understanding shit.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:30 PM
1

You probably passed to her a "friend/orbiter" (aka beta) feeling to her, instead of that "lover/fucker" alpha impression. She sees you as a possible orbiter, and she doesn't see this meeting of you as a date, and doesn't want anyone else to see this too. I'd probably just next and try again with the next girl. Be more incisive and sexual the next time. Or, if you can, do what the other guy said about bringing a hotter girl and let her hamster blue screened.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:28 PM
1

I did intermittent fasting right when I started dieting and lifting, and for me it was all cool. My diet wasn't really good since I wasn't hitting those micros, but my macros were on point and I successfully gained muscle while losing a little bit of fat. If you wanna try, do it, it's easy and works. And yeah, I worked out at the end of my fasting window. And yeah, you need to cut, but eating 1700 cals per day it's ridiculous, unless you're a 5'2 100lb little girl. Calculate your TDEE and subtra…
/r/askTRP01/10/17 09:31 PM
11

Basically, deep down I'm a narcissistic, egocentric competitive motherfcker, and that's why I keep going. I want to be at least really good at everything that I do. I want to fuck bitches and make them love me while I don't care. I want to drive the fastest cars, have a comfortable and easy life, I want to be strong and ripped, to visit various countries and monuments, to learn a lot about everything, and I want to step on the fucking Moon. That's about it. That's my mission, that's what would m…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:34 PM
5

You're trying to prove you're the big man. Which means you're not. Exactly. The big man doesn't need to show he's the big man. He knows it, and everyone else knows it too. Trying to prove it just proves you're not there yet, or at least unsure of where you are right now
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:08 PM
6

1st. Don't pay for anything his. ANYTHING. If your crew go out and in the end he asks for you guys to pay his part, say explicitly that you won't do it. Fuck that shit. 2nd. Take him to a coffee or something, just the two of you, and talk that to him, seriously. Say that you care about him, that you're worried, that he's becoming unpleasant and if he continues to go down his way you'll have to drop him off because he's pulling you down. 3rd. After #2, if he brushes it off, laughs/ignores, if he …
/r/askTRP29/09/17 01:03 PM
2

I follow just the basics, being them fitness and specially leangains. When it comes to lifting and these stuff, I found really hard to find a real solid place, since the advice can be really diverse and sometimes contradictory, and it can be hard for a noob to know better. The one I trust the most right now between subs/popular websites is leangains. Not nearly as solid as TRP in the dating advice though, for example, but still, good stuff mostly.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:16 AM
1

I'm really into cars too, and since I'm out of facebook now, I might follow a few car info subs as well. BTW, having trouble finding good car subs, what ones do you follow?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:11 AM
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There's a pretty big difference between a cute girl hitting you playfully/answering to your teases and fucking Ronda Rousey trying to break your ribs with a Muay Thai Roundhouse Kick I'd run in #2 too
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 02:34 AM
4

That's why I follow nothing besides TRP and lifting subs on this site. This shit can be cancerous bro
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:07 AM
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No difference, except for the health, and the strength, and the discipline required, and the status (fake boobs have some serious weight in the slut indicator). But yeah, a lot of skinny guys start lifting because they are insecure. And putting fake boobs is yes, a yet bigger proof of insecurity, and of course, attention seeking, and that you can't deny. Or did she put those on just for the well being of her perfect yet-to-come prince mounted in the white horse?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:02 PM
6

Dude, she got her tits done? Lol, talk about insecurity and attention seeking. That by itself is a big, flaming red flag
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:48 PM
46

That + she doesn't want to see you improve because she wants to see your real self. Those guys at the gym, they weren't ripped since they were fucking 6 months old, they were skinny or fat and then worked their way up there, so they are fake. Their genes aren't that good. And you aren't fake, are you, honey?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:41 PM
2

They are different kinds of exercise, with different purposes and results. Lifting is for building and maintaining muscle, and for a man it's always useful and efficient if done correctly, doesn't matter where the man is currently nor where he wants to get. Losing weight, gaining muscle mass or acquiring endurance, if you're currently skinny, normal or fat, lifting is always there. Cardio is kinda all over the place too, but it's main focus is resistance, explosion and cardiovascular health (duh…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:24 PM
1

You should lift either way, specially because I doubt your physical job will work ALL of your body in the right way, through all extension and in the correct proportion. But of course you, in a job that is physically demanding and stressing, should work out a little less than one that works in an office, for example. If your job stresses too much of your legs and not so much of upper body, in your gym you should do the opposite, etc. It's a pretty simple logic. Just be careful with that overtrai…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:14 PM
1

Both HIIT and Cardio focus on losing fat and gaining stamina. Doing any of them is better than doing nothing, of course, specially if you are fat, but NOTHING replaces lifting. Doing only HIIT or Cardio will never build muscle the same way and in the same amount that lifting can. If he is skinny like myself, would you really recommend him doing HIIT? Lol man. Don't listen to him, OP. If you have weight to lose or just wanna gain stamina, yeah, these stuff can be good, but doing them or not, LIFT…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:31 PM
1

You can buy one Olympic Barbell, a bench and a few weight plates and boom, you can do StrongLifts 5x5 in your home without having to spend 500 bucks. Or, as said, you can collect some cans or ask your dad for those monthly $20, who cares, just do it, it's cheap. And it's hella worth doing it
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:26 PM
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IRON RULE OF TOMASSI #7: It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Dude, just stop. There is plenty of good women out there, better, smarter and hotter than her, and women which …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:59 AM
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LOL Yeah I know, save me the sarcasm. Yeah, I'll admit that being skeleton-skinny but with a silly flaccid belly my whole life made me a little bit insecure about that. No biggie tho, just trying to know my shit so I can plan ahead properly
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:02 AM
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http://imgur.com/6vj9nnJ It's a pretty shitty pic for making my point, but it's the only one I have and I can't take others right now. I guess one can notice though that my chest and even upper abs have low to no subcutaneous fat at all, but it is there in the lower abs. If I strengthen/pull back the abs as much as I can, it doesn't look bad, but if I don't, it appears. It seems flaccid if I start running or jumping, for example. And of course, when I sit down it becomes really noticeable and we…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:19 AM
5

Run. Run 4 your life (and for the sake of your dick). Just run.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:17 PM
2

The best I can do for you is recommend a few books: No More Mr. Nice Guy, The 48 Laws Of Power, The Rational Male, Models by Mark Manson, et coetera. They are a good start. Oh, and of course, LIFTLIFTLIFT. No excuses. Get in shape. Now.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 03:43 PM
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That's something I've been thinking about a lot. Men start from the bottom, below women, men are the disposable sex, but what we have that women don't, never did and never will, is potential. The bottom of the world is 99% men, and the top of the world is also 99% men. We're all or nothing. They're condemned to mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 10:22 PM
5

There are two very different prospects in this "you are good enough" statement. A) It increases confidence, that which is per se attractive and useful, certainly what the guy of the other post tried to invoke at the readers and B) It may well cut your motivation to improve, and that's where the danger lives. This good enough mentality (restricted only to that, its evolution - "you don't have to change, there's someone for everyone, blabla" - is pure bullshit) can be somewhat fulfilling and usefu…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 10:19 PM
4

Are you her father or something? She does what the hell she wants and you do what the fuck you want. Why is this even a question? Tell her to do whatever floats her boat, and if you feel like you don't want to see her, don't go yourself, but if you're over her (or thinks this experience could help you get over her faster), then go
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:39 PM
3

Of course he NEEDED to talk to her PERSONALLY... about video-games. For like 5 minutes. Probably inside of his dark windowed car... That isn't a certainty of a cheating, but she hid the encounter from you, and now she's hiding what they really did/talk about in this meeting. Besides, you broke frame a little bit, showed that you're a little insecure of cheating/losing her, and prompted her to be more sneaky next time, as the other guy well said. That is a red flag to me, and a big one. Don't kno…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:08 PM
1

Expand your vocabulary and improve your articulation/argumentation skills. As everyone said, just read more in general, read complicated, theoretical books about politics and argumentation and this type of thing, and keep practicing with yourself. That's a habit that I always had, since my childhood, I often catch myself thinking about something complicated, as if I was explaining it to someone else or so. It's stupid, I know, and it can lead to a little bit of overthinking sometimes, but it hel…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:29 PM
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So, you were her best girlfriend that went shopping with her, and worked out with her while she was getting horny by the testosterone fueled other men in your gym and were her confident, all while your best friend was fucking her hard until he got sick of it and broke it off, and now you're "in love with your best friend"? Yes, it is pretty BP by it's own. Go fuck ten other women and cut that fantasy before you get full oneitis and get destroyed - both emotionally by the girl, that a) won't want…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:32 AM
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Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty". Should be a nice start. And start lifting and focusing more on yourself and on what you want instead of focusing on other's desires and well-being
/r/askTRP24/09/17 05:22 PM
2

I went from a big amount of carbs per day (don't know how much exactly) to almost none (less than 30g) and didn't felt anything bad besides some constant hunger at the first days. If you're not feeling well, then don't be stupid, stop with it and go to a doctor/nutritionist to see what went wrong
/r/askTRP24/09/17 06:15 AM
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It's simple: do what makes you happy I'm not saying that in some hippie "don't worry, be happy" weed smoking way, I'm saying that because, what is the purpose of life for you? Well, I'm not religious, so to me is to just enjoy as much as you can, and maybe do something valuable to the world (but I wouldn't abandon my personal life and happiness for that value though). I agree with all that stuff you said. Western society sucks. Having to change principles and paradigms because the world doesn't …
/r/askTRP24/09/17 06:12 AM
1

If I had videogames, gym, cars, and money to buy some nice stuff/travel/pay for sex if I needed to sometimes, I'd be juuuust fine
/r/askTRP24/09/17 12:25 AM
1

Well, at least your dad kinda knows what he's doing. When I read title I thought he had just swallowed it as a good beta provider. Good for him that he at least holds some self respect. And I wouldn't do shit if I was you, just whatever. Except if your father weakens and accept this woman again. Than I would call him a weak little bitch
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:17 PM
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Go to a nutritionist, define your plan (probably "gain lean mass" at this point), and build a diet. Then FOLLOW IT. Rigorously. With discipline comes habit, and with habit it becomes easy to eat right, at the right times and if you skip a meal or something you'll feel that you did something wrong, cause you broke that habit. Also, you can talk to this nutritionist about this appetite problems you have, he/she is absolutely much more qualified to explain and help you with this shit than me or mos…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:44 AM
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Sorry Newton, you just got refuted. That hamster right there, that little powerful creature just made it's wheel overcome light speed. The singularity it has created is just warping space-time around it. It's just so wonderful to watch!
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:08 PM
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As I said, you might have oneitis. And again I repeat, K.I.L.L. I.T. Before it kills you. BTW, if she indeed start making more money than you, specially if she's still pre-wall, you might get in trouble. Hypergamy doesn't care, remember that. But if you want to, then go for it. But for god's sake WAIT AND VET, and PREfuckingNUP all the way
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:41 AM
1

Most of them (probably all actually lol) married before knowing TRP, and a good amount of them haven't divorced yet only for financial reasons
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:39 AM
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"Don't shit where you eat"
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:10 PM
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Well, me and 99,9% of the guys here wouldn't recommend you marrying, but if your gonna rip you own leg, at least do it in a safe, clean, least painful way, instead of just letting a lion bite it and eat it off. 8 months is a ridiculously low amount of time. Still honeymoon. As the other guy said, wait, wait a lot, and keep testing and vetting her. I would risk saying that you have a little bit (maybe a lot) of oneitis. KILL IT. KILL IT NOW. And btw this is standard RP advice: marry ONLY if you w…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:08 PM
1

Indeed that seems ridiculously high at first, but trust me, it isn't. Doesn't mean a 40 n-count girl is totally LTR material, of course not, but it definitely isn't "over the charts" high. It's common TRP sense that you should always pay attention to the actions and not the words of a woman, but in relation to n-count, dude, never, and I mean NEVER EVER trust what a girl says about herself. Always take that number that she says for granted and imagine that it can and probably is much bigger.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:59 PM
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Your caveman brain doesn't want to kick out all of your pussy supply m8, specially if it isn't certain if you really can get more/better women. Mentally prepare yourself, don't let your emotions take over, be rational and start gaming and having a different approach at girls even before you break up. If you manage to put into your lizard brain that you can get and should be getting much better pussy and just isn't doing it now because of her, what limits you now can actually be transformed into …
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:53 PM
1

Holy shit, finally some people that agree with me that nudes are shit (well, not shit, but "meh"). If I wanted to see a nude girl through a screen, I'd find in 15 seconds a 10/10 doing a sexy video, instead of asking or gaming that 7/10 you matched on Tinder to send you some shitty quality pics of herself in the bathroom mirror. Won't complain if I receive, but won't ask, won't make a big deal out of it and absolutely won't send nude pics of myself. If a girl wants to see me naked, she better co…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 08:37 PM
2

Well, one thing is certain, keeping your life like this won't be good for you and neither for your daughter. Find a job, and as soon as you can, leave and divorce. Even if you have to go sleep in your mom's couch for a few weeks, I'd do it without a single doubt. You have to reconstruct your life, and for that you first need to burn the wreckage that's blocking you right now. And try to keep your bond with your daughter, before the bitch makes her completely hate you. Show her that you love her,…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:43 PM
1

Read The Black Dragon's articles on soft next. You determine the amount of time you do the soft next, usually about 2-7 days, according to the gravity of the situation, and then you resume relationship like nothing ever happened. But seriously, stop being a moron and getting mad at people here for telling you the harsh truths. And also, you're dating a 16yo for gods sake. But don't think that this means that she won't cheat on you or manipulate you if you act weak. AWALT, remember?
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:44 PM
1

I would say that both for men and women, sex and desire by the opposite gender gets in esteem and belonging, but farther than that, I'd say that for women sex comes into safety, but for men it comes into physiological. That represents why men are so more dependant and so more desiring of sex, and also represents why men like women and sex for themselves, while women like men and sex in an utilitarian way.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:39 PM
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Read The Rational Male's "War Brides". Women are hardwired to get over the loss of a sexual/emotional partner in a much faster and cleaner way than we men can. Think about it, how many depressive, alcoholic, potentially suicidal men do you see over the world that have got to that situation because of a betrayal/loss of a lover? How many men actually suicide because of that? And how many women do you see in that position? How many girls do you see in the media suiciding because of men? Yeah, she'…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:06 PM
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Dude, stop trying to rationalize it. "Why can't she do that", " why does him affect so much her work", "why she refused to stop being a slut to be my little precious unicorn" She's a slut, not worth of your commitment and NOTHING ELSE MATTERS. You clearly aren't familiar with TRP, so start by reading the damn sidebar and dropping her immediately if you want to have a relationship where you're actually desired and respected by a girl, and not kicked around and despised by a damaged goods whore. I…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:24 PM
5

I've had that "something is wrong" feeling about relationships and women and all this stuff since I was a teen, like 14 or so, but I only got deep in it and found TRP a few months ago, at 20
/r/askTRP16/09/17 09:17 PM
2

Holy shit, now that you mentioned I recognized it. I have seen it in my mother language a long time ago, didn't connect the dots on the translation. Even if, like me, you're not religious, indubitably the Bible is absolutely filled with knowledge and wisdom. Even in the relationship/women sphere
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:57 PM
2

Where is this quote from? Sounds interesting
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:20 PM
2

Dude, I can smell your insecurity from my cellphone screen probably like 10k miles away from you. There's something you have to understand: women CRAVE for men's attention. Some of them are more explicit and more needy of it, some are more contained, but ALL of them want attention, the more they get the best, and this doesn't matter if she's in a relationship or not. You're just dreaming if you think you'll find a girl that will despise all male attention in her life just because she's in a rela…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 01:02 PM
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You're oneitis-ing hard. Stop thinking about having a chance or not with her. Cut interaction with her in social media, or better, cut ALL interaction with her that isn't absolutely necessary for the continuity of your business, and when doing it, do it in a strictly professional manner. Don't treat her like a friend and much less like a potential partner, treat her like a professional colleague and that's it. Distance yourself as much as you can without ruining your project, if she asks just sa…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 03:01 AM
4

Think as you like, but behave like others
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:38 PM
4

You're right, but even if you're full confident, taking your sheep to the house of wolves doesn't seem a very good idea.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:46 PM
4

So yeah, be a sad cucked non-hypocrite man, that's definitely the best option. Srsly bro? Grow some fucking balls and dump her
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:03 PM
4

I'd say yes. pole dancing is an efficient way for women to increase their SMV, and probably the one that most open doors for sluttyness and so on. And you know what happens if you don't climb that SMV ladder with (and ahead) of her, right? Her wanting to do/doing this classes doesn't mean necessarily that she's a slut/stripper or is looking to become one. But as she progresses with it, she'll become more elastic, hotter, way sexier and will suffer the influence of her slutty pole friends and of …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:34 PM
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Just a mortal reminder, after seeing your other posts: She wants your kids bro. I guaran-fucking-tee you if you have sex with her again and put on a condom she will (aggressively or not) try to convince you to take it off. You can try to use her for sex and resources (I'm not the best to counsel you in that aspect), but if you do, and even knowing that she is far from her top fertility, BE CAREFUL And go after other women before the beta in you make you commit to her again. Exclusivity is my ass
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:30 PM
2

Tell me, if she was a 5/10 would you even consider doing anything towards that toxic, manipulative, closer-to-the-wall woman besides just straight out ghosting? Who the hell cares if her sister is famous? It will only make her more entitled by comparing and associating herself with sis. Quoting Admiral Ackbar, "It's a trap!". She hasn't changed. Go full ghost 👻
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:52 AM
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I would say you're pretty lucky. You found out that AWALT and about dread and all Red Pill just on the very beginning of your marriage, a lot of guys here took much longer to found that out and they suffered for years and decades before finally​ divorcing, and then losing financially much more than you would do if annulated or even divorced right now. On the other hand, she very early in the relationship showed that she isn't available/willing to satisfy one of your most elementary and present n…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 11:39 PM
2

It's over. Your relationship will NEVER be the same again, you'll NEVER be able to look at her and don't think about her swallowing that other guy's cock. Trying to repair that relationship will only damage you more, will label you as a cuck and a codependent wuss, and will never bring you peace or happiness. I know it hurts, but just block her everywhere and do not even talk to her anymore, ever. You deserve much better than this bitch. It's by far the best thing to do, is best for you emotiona…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:23 PM
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You came here asking "should I get married?" and after everybody screaming "NO!" all your answers are rationalizing and trying to overcome it, because "I believe asian girls are different", and "society won't accept me" and blah blah blah. Everyone is telling you that because is true: marriage today IS NOT GOOD FOR THE MAN. But as it seems you want to do it anyway, so just fucking do it then. I just hope that the society acceptance is enough for you to ignore the sexual and emotional frustration…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:19 PM
1

You're too insecure to be in a relationship with a somewhat high SMV girl, and she of course isn't a unicorn and is with you but still keeping her options open. I'd break up, focus on self improvement and plate some girls. After a few years, if you still want to, and with higher SMV, you can think about getting in a LTR.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:14 PM
2

DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH A GIRL THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO, EVEN IF JUST A LITTLE BIT (except for FWB, obviously). Do you want to fuck her? Try to. Try to hang out with her as "more than friends". She didn't accept it? NEXT.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:10 PM
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How could someone who said they love me and share so much with me be so disloyal? ACTIONS OVER WORDS. ALWAYS. Women change according to what they feel. She did love you, on her terms. But you acted like a beta provider, you accepted a long distance relationship (NEVER do that) and you killed the love and respect she had for you, because you killed how you made her feel in the beginning. You said yourself, they only love how you make they feel, not you by yourself. Female solipsism at full thrott…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:40 PM
2

You know, The Matrix analogy we input here is pretty on point to a certain degree. The pain and resistance in unplugging, the plugged in defending the system, the system itself reacting to us, and even the power we receive from unplugging (knowledge is power, ya know?) But, this decline part is where reality departs from fiction. The decline is not only associated with relationships and hypergamy and feminism and all these stuff, is the decline of the whole western culture. Is the fall of a fuck…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:56 AM
4

As a guy who just got out of that age bracket (m20), I say don't fool yourself, most of the young guys aren't these handsome, cool-looking, extroverted dudes that get all the 17yo hotties. Most of the 17-19 guys aren't even getting pussy. Maybe one or two once in a while, a relationship with a not so good looking/good personality girl, and stuff. A good amount of them are virgins, and most of them are betas running to a typical AFC life. This ones you speak of are like the top 20% or so. The one…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:22 PM
2

The feminine imperative teaches men that having sex just for sex is bad, it'll make you a jerk, and you don't want to be a jerk (even tho they are the ones that fuck the girls you like), right? Men in that conditioning, even if they aren't religious, but is worse if they are, think sex per se is bad, meaningless, futile, and that it should have a "deep emotional connection" to actually be good. They also believe women actually want this emotional connection before sex, even if the proof is writt…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:51 PM
2

I'm on that group. I'm currently doing shit besides gym and home studying, and I have a stoopid fucking vision problem that's killing my eye contact and my recently acquired confidence. I'm actually at an ophthalmologist clinic right now trying to figure it out, I may have to do a surgery. This kind of post reminds me that I have to stop being a wuss and a procrastinator and solve this as soon as possible to start the practical stuff. Right now I'm only reading stuff. Damn Thank you for the remi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 05:43 PM
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Dude, read what you just wrote. Read it again and again. You know what has to be done, just need to gather the courage to do it. This relationship is totally ABUSIVE. You deserve and you can do better. Live for yourself, don't be a slave for a narcissistic bitch with mental health issues (the depression doesn't justify all of the abuse she puts onto you). It's gonna be hard, there will be crying, there will be threats to hurt herself, you know the deal. Just be mentally prepared. And move the fu…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:21 PM
5

PLATE PLATE PLATE, only. Do not fall into oneitis, go fuck some other women to clear your mind, and go do your thing.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:27 PM
14

Smile, nod, agree with what they say and do whatever you were going to do anyway. Treat them like you do with everyone else, be polite, and don't be phased not for a single second
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:02 AM
7

TV is mostly shit. The good part of YouTube is that there's a fuck ton of good content and you can watch what you want, when you want. The bad part of YouTube is that there's a fuck ton of good content and you can watch what you want, when you want. Just try to use it with moderation (for gaming it's the same). If you feel that you're really addicted, than cut all of it for a few months, if not, just reduce it to a portion where it doesn't hold you back from doing other stuff, hobbies, work, soc…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 10:26 PM
8

Oh fucking yeah, never skip leg day my bro. Good luck and keep strong, mentally and physically
/r/askTRP10/09/17 07:21 PM
1

Good call. Be strong, after 4 years it won't be easy to resist to her crying, begging for you to take her back. It also won't be easy hearing about the threesomes she made in her "crazy phase" after the end. But that cliche about "the darkest hour is right before dawn" is indeed truthful for most situations. You can do it, and it'll be better for you in the long run. And go lift, lift the hell out of your gym until your body totally wants to wreck you. It can do wonders
/r/askTRP10/09/17 07:19 PM
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This. That girl showed in just a weekend a big amount of lack of interest, lack of respect and lack of dignity to not even say to you prior to that that she was planning to see her friends, or even invite you to join in (you're her boyfriend for 4 years for christ's sake). And I'll not even mention the 5 weeks away, considering she isn't already that much interested in you, OP... Follow this advice, soft-next, pull back from the relationship, and start making an escape plan, you might need it so…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 02:09 PM
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Going after a girl just for sex isn't being shallow and being a dick. If you verbally promise her commitment but just pump and dump, that's a jerk move. If you make her pregnant and than run away, that's a super jerk move. But wanting sex and not a relationship is normal, healthy, and recommended. If you actually want to be successful with women, you don't need to be a total dick, but you'll have to let your strong morals aside a little bit. Now, I'm guessing you feel like she really wants a rel…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 12:43 AM
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I also don't want our friendship to become strained if I ask her. Wait, wait. If I understood it right: do you want to make this girl your LTR but you aren't even fucking or at least of the least making out with her? You don't even know if she actually has a boyfriend or so? Dude, 1st, you don't need to "retribute" in any way for the fact that she helped you when you were down. This feeling of retribution and excessive thankfulness will only make you seem more beta. So if your objective with her…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 02:29 PM
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1st of all, read the good n' old Bar O' Side (paraphrasing another commenter of this sub) 2nd, I understand you. As the other guy said, stop with this lovey shit, and start escalating and being more of a sexual being. Being sexual is natural and it isn't anything to be afraid of or trying to hide. Being sexual even can display a little bit of courage too, and it will make you even more attractive to them girls. This girl in specific is already attracted to you, be a little more bold and she'll d…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:21 AM
1

Men don't "take a break". That's women stuff, and as the other guy said, she probably has rode one (or maybe a few) other cock(s) to replace yours. You're clearly needy, clearly your relationship is established on your girl's frame, and clearly you lack the discipline to improve yourself significantly and long-term wise. You probably shitted on your LTR. I would recommend ending it, not because of the possibility of her getting with other dudes, but because you need to work on that neediness and…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 01:07 AM
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Dude, you said you've read all sidebar but "thought you were supposed to give loads of attentions to ur gf"??? You read it wrong, read it again lul. Read The Rational Male and No More Mr. Nice Guy. And for god's sake start putting yourself first and grow a pair. Oh, and the other dude was actually pretty soft with you, if you think that's harsh, you haven't seen a thing on this sub, you needy motherfucker
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:11 PM
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Nuclear Warhead successfully dodged. Why the fuck were you messing with this kind of stuff after all? Thirty fucking eight years old? Holy shit, good for you that you bailed out, or else you would be 101% fucked. Now go hit the gym and start hitting on those 19yo cuties, ma boii
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:57 PM
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So there's no much more to rationalize about. She is a ho and she knows it. It's not like you're deceiving a young, pretty and pure virgin that will be damaged for all eternity. You aren't being mean, you're just using your strategy to get her best (sex) without giving your best (commitment, which she has proven not be worthy of by her hoe snaps and stuff). And she'll get over it. Quickly. If she really got feelz for you, and again, if you treat it 100% correctly, maybe you could even turn her i…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:40 AM
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DO IT, FAG Srsly tho, I'd do it. She has probably been pumped and dumped by a lot of other guys around there, and she has probably emotionally wrecked another whole bunch of beta dudes. She can even be mad and cry or all these stuff, but remember that women are emotive, and emotions are fluid. You can probably bang her another half a dozen times if you manage it well enough, and when you dump her, she'll be mad for like a week, get pumped by some random Chads and then she'll just keep going with…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:32 AM
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THIS, 1000 TIMES THIS A good TL;DR for this would be that classic power law: Think as you like, but behave like others
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:05 PM
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Your feminine face is easily fixed by a nice beard. You're just 17, so chances are your body can't grow a proper one just yet, but once you can, it can easily overcome that "femininity" in your face, specially with a deep voice. As for the body, nothing much you can do except the lifting you're already doing. I'd recommend doing fighting classes, BJJ, Muay Thai or Boxing, as it changes your posture, gives you more confidence and all that stuff. The rest is all attitude and game
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:04 PM
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BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK all forms of communication. If she does approach you personally, keep it cool, chit chat, nod, smile, agree, and then go away and don't look back. Cut her off of your life, she doesn't deserve your precious time and attention, go find someone who does
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:11 PM
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Keep plating her, no commitment, go find other plates and don't give a fuck for what she's up to. Just enjoy her and don't worry, if she goes there's plenty more fine girls to hook up with
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:08 PM
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I, personally, wouldn't be able to handle seeing a close friend get torn apart by a ho like this. If you can, good for you, probably is the best thing to do. If I were in your position I would a)give him small hints all over the place, making the actual man that's hidden under all that crust of pussyness and slavery of him try to react, or b)go all in, throw at his face that he's her slave, he'll never be happy about it and she'll never be actually thankful for it and will most likely cheat on h…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:51 PM
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Is this troll? I bet it is
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:16 PM
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To this guy, the one and only responsible for making the sex cheap is the pill. And he doesn't even mentions the absurd levels of divorce, nor the even more absurd levels of shit that are given to men in these divorces, a.k.a. divorce rape. Pretty pathetic and superficial analysis, I'd say
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 08:12 PM
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WTF is wrong with this girl? The cheating with Chad than saying it was actually rape is an option. Either way, I'd run as fast as I can, holy shit
/r/askTRP03/09/17 06:37 PM
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I'm gonna play devil's advocate here. She didn't know your mom was at the hospital again, and I'm assuming you don't usually ignore her for so long like this, so that for her was unusual and worrying. Faking a break up to make the guy run after her is a standard bitchy protocol, bad sign indeed, but for me it isn't that bad, not worth the hard next. When you said that your mom was back at the hospital and that's why you weren't open to contact, she saw that she did shit and tried to recover. I t…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 02:28 AM
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Dude, she sounds like batshit crazy. Yeah you could fuck her hard and do all kinds of kinky stuff, but that will make her cling to you even more, and of course, you always have the paternity trap and the STD trap, so, honestly, if it was me I'd just slam the front door right into her nose when she tries to enter your house, ghost her ass and never talk to her again If you want do do kinks, do with a pro, hire a prostitute, don't do it with crazy possibly pregnant possibly STD carrier women that …
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:42 AM
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THIS Holy shit stop with this alpha obsession and just fuck her in the god damn pussy
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:07 PM
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I've always been the observer kind of guy. I was a huge failure with women, I just didn't know what to talk, how to talk and how to escalate with them. And besides that, of course the the blue pill method of being the nice guy had been killed in my mind long ago, since I've seen Chads being preferred to Nice Guys a million times, so I knew something was wrong. Searching through the internet, trying to discover what to do with girls and why they acted the way they acted, eventually I stumble upon…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:34 PM
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DO IT, FAG Masturbation itself has its benefits and malices, but porn doesn't bring anything good to you. It's pure shit. I've already quitted it and am aiming to quit fapping too, at least getting some good streaks to see what changes. But independently if you want to quit fapping or not, porn is bad, just stop with it
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:41 AM
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I'm 20, and personally, while kids always seemed to love me for some reason, I've never really wanted to have them in the future. Thinking about having a son and teaching him manly stuff, doing fun stuff like sports or gaming, all of that seems to be pretty cool, but meh, I can live without it. And the odds of having a child, specially considering the world we're living in these days, and considering everything I've found out about women and about myself since I found the red pill... No, I don't…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:31 AM
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I'm a 20 yo and my dad is 57 His diet is normal, it isn't really great but it isn't bad, he doesn't like eating shit. He never lifted, but he plays at least 2 full-length soccer matches every weekend since he was 15. He's not in shape, but he's healthy only by that. Besides a few orthopedic problems due to heavy work he did when he was young, he is perfectly healthy. BTW, as I said he's not in shape and isn't rich but he's a charming man and his work requires a lot of talking with younger women,…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:44 PM
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You will always be a bench warmer if you sit back, observe, and then throw your hands up because you don't like what you see. Damn, that hit home hard. Listen to this man OP, he speaks the truth, I can confirm it
/r/askTRP30/08/17 05:35 PM
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Cons: (maybe) an increased risk of STDs, sometimes some kind of annoying or even dangerous addiction (cigarettes, alcohol, or maybe heavier drugs), the remote possibility of someone finding out about her and shaming you for being "dating a hoe" or anything. Pros: She'll probably take more care of her body, skin and general health than your average civilian slut, she won't be sexually restrained to you (aka have any fetishes? Ask her, she'll most likely do it, something that not all normal girls …
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:38 AM
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First, you implicitly stated that you misunderstood TRP. One of the most said things in this sub is: Women SHOULD NOT be your main concern. You can and should improve to score some chicks, but "putting a magnet in your dick" shouldn't be the goal of no respectable man. Second, you can still do significant stuff like art, music, science, or even small stuff like being more compassionate and see deeper without necessarily being a celibatarian 200 IQ scientist priest. You can be physically strong a…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:58 PM
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You're overthinking HARD and went over to the pathetic idea of a "superior" man, that overcomes his biological limitations and doesn't bent to his needs. I've been there too. Let me tell you something: sex is a need for us men just as eating or drinking water. Is a NEED. We NEED it to live a healthy life. And let me tell you other thing: You can try to "overcome" this instinct, but you'll never be happy doing it. Just as the Strong, Independent Woman™ never can be truly happy and fulfilled, the …
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:38 PM
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Gather intel. Try to get to your girl's phone again, print the stuff and send it to yourself through email or whatever. Call him for a beer, be serious about it and try to calm him down. Guide him to the right direction, and FUCKING GUARANTEE he doesn't reveal that you're the one that told him that, or else probably shit will hit the fan and your relationship with N and even with your friend will be endangered. If you can make the miracle of convincing him to just ghost the bitch, RP style, cong…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:27 PM
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Yes, it exists. You can easily find it in the imagination of the nearest female. And he'll be mounted on a pink tailed unicorn On the real world? lol nop
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:18 PM
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What the actual fuck? No. You're focusing on her because you want to stick your dick somewhere and she's good enough for the day, not because you think she's Special™ or anything like that. How the fuck do you expect to get laid if you can't even focus for 15 minutes in the girl you're looking to get without going away talking to everyone?
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:11 AM
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As to your search for love, the guys are right. You're still stuck onto that Disney view of finding a SO, and living happily ever after with unconditional love and attention. Read the rational male. Unconditional love DOES NOT EXIST, and women aren't capable of loving us like us love then. I know it feels terrible to think like that at first, but it is what it is, and knowing it will make things much easier to you on the long run. And no, I never got over that first one. As to my specific case, …
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:07 AM
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Keep in your mind: she's not yours, never been and never will be. It's just your turn. Enjoy while it lasts. Just live your life with her like always, enjoy her. If she come with this talk again, just make clear to her that you wouldn't accept a LDR (like the other guy commented, in a subjective and almost apologetic way) and let her make the decision. It's her life. Don't be angry or sad, just set your boundaries and accept what happens next
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:23 AM
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Psychiatric help, meditation and good friends/family to back you up
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:06 AM
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I guess this is normal. I came to this sub less than 2 months ago, but it didn't impact me like it did on you cause I was long time thinking that something about that blue pill thinking and strategies were wrong, but I didn't know exactly what. Through a friend I read a book from a guy from my country (I don't think it has any english translation) that wasn't all good, but it was fairly redpilled, and after a few weeks I've bumped into this sub. I felt something more of an enlightening than this…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:19 PM
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It's over dude. Remember, she was never yours, it was only your turn, and it's over now. Move on and get new bitches. She absolutely has already done that, and if she comes back for you, it will be to turn you into full BB cuck mode. Don't let it happen
/r/askTRP28/08/17 04:03 AM
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Excuse, but where did you get that information that "the ability to deconstruct and recombine abstract ideas requires an IQ of at least 120 or so"? Asking for the sake of that's what the post is talking about, and 'cause if there really are studies talking about this, I'd love to read them
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:01 PM
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I'd actually disagree 'cause biology. You and most of the guys could consciouly think a woman that has one small spot or a slightly crooked finger is "hideous", but your body would still look at her for what she are, a healthy and attractive beautiful woman, and you'd still have that crazy drive to fuck her hard.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:34 PM
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Dude, this really sucks. But at least you discovered the cheating and was enough of a man to leave. Never, and I mean NEVER EVER get back to someone who cheated on you. It'll quickly turn into a much much worse situation than before. You deserve something better. And it's not your fault for what she did. Even if you did wrong shit, a good woman would voice that, she would try to fix things with the man she is committed to, and if it failed, she would have ended the relationship, and not cheated.…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:18 PM
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You're not that bad. Hit the gym hard and improve your game and mentality and soon you'll be really good. And she's pretty, but not that much. I'd say she's a 7, maybe an 8 in a really good day. She's too skinny, eyes a little bit too much separated, and kinda weird chin, too much space under the mouth
/r/askTRP26/08/17 12:31 AM
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No, she's not that much better looking than you, but she is. And dude, your dates will definitely fail sooner than later if you keep that mentality. You're thinking your way to get definitely beneath her, and girls only get attracted by guys better than they. As I said, you're not that bad, and with the right mentality you could easily strike her. But like this you'll lose her and any other similar girl that you bump into, and you'll lose em fast
/r/askTRP26/08/17 12:07 AM
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I've seen uglier guys get with prettier girls, and I've also seen more handsome guys fail to get with uglier girls. IT. DEPENDS. If you did everything right you could easily pull her or even more beautiful women. If you shit on everything even her ugliest friend would deny you. And your lack of vision and obsession with looks already prove that you're much closer to the second option than to the first. Again, go sidebar and go learn how to pick up chicks instead of only relying on looks
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:55 PM
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Dude, your "league" is defined like 80% by your attitude and mentality and 20% by your looks (if you're not deformed or so, of course) It's clear that you have no clue about it. Go sidebar
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:43 PM
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not as ready as something romantic as she had thought Oh my fucking god dude. For god's sake, I'm starting to agree with the other guy that thinks we may be getting trolled here. You are the one that ruined it all. If you had done it right, she would most likely have fucked you the night you met. And you wouldn't be travelling 1200km for a fucking shitty blowjob. Oh, and romantism is pure blue bullshit. Sidebar, lots of sidebar for you
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 09:56 PM
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Next that ho and find another good plate so you don't fall into oneitis to this other girl
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:36 PM
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This. Sidebar motherfucker. Do you read it? Then do it. If you already did, do it again for god's sake She's putting you on her orbit and putting you for good. She's not special. Unicorns don't exist out of our dreams. Let her go and start improving yourself to get that hot chicks from the club
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:24 AM
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Actually I would say that they like being hit by low value man. Not as much as being hit by an alpha Chad, of course, but if you're simply a man with a lower value than her and not a creepy, strange, stinky weird dude, she'll be glad to be hit by you and twice as glad to shut you down when you do it. It's free validation. You don't hit girls who you don't think are at least a little bit hot/attractive, right? She likes to think that. She likes the idea of as much men as possible finding her hot …
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:20 AM
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I used to think just like you. Then, while browsing into top TRP posts, I came into this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6arw5f/the_sadness_phase/ And I think it actually changed my mind about "shy" girls or stuff like that. In the end they're all the same. There's no special unicorn. We're all looking for a better life for ourselves in a somewhat selfish fashion, and giving what we have to try getting what we want. But yeah, the fact that the pretty, shy, sad girl "somewhat freque…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:15 AM
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Dude. She lives half a fucking country away from you, she is troubled (in a way or another. Or she's fucking with your head or she's really fucking depressed and with relationship problems. I'd guess she has daddy issues too), and you completely lost frame to her. You haven't fucked her in 6 months after 2 1000km travels, you dropped the L nuke, is just everything wrong. I strongly suggest you to completely drop her and forget her. Go lift and go on fucking Tinder to fucc some hoes. Just leave b…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:09 PM
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I don't believe that she fucked that Mike dude, but she was actively trying to, definitely. She desired him, not you. I'd say that she got rejected or maybe pumped and dumped by Mike, and the bad feelings of being rejected + damage control for she knowing that you're sensing her shit and her potential branch swing failed = clingyness and lots of sex. Almost the equivalent of fucking a lot of random dudes after being dumped by an alpha boyfriend or something like that, but you're the random dudes…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:50 PM
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Call her fat, gg
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:19 PM
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This Feminists/egalitarian activists can whine all they want, but the fact that remains is: BIOLOGY IS RELENTLESS. It doesn't care. And you don't change a million years of biological programming in one generation. You couldn't significantly change it not even in a hundred. And the biological imperative is the thing that is making women unhappy now. Hypergamy has turned against them, and is doing a wonderful job at making women unsatisfied with the quality of men (which they themselves put and ke…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:18 PM
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I understand your point, and Tesla really had an important but sad life and death, but feminism, female infinite freedom and all that stuff are one of the biggest guns that society is pointing at it's own head. It will be and already is one of the heralds of the destruction of western society as we know. Today, we that understand and agree with Tesla are too few and too powerless to stop this snowball. If somehow more people and more powerful ones could have the same thought and view as Tesla at…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:03 PM
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The other guy explained, alpha widow is a girl that dated an alpha (or basically any man that was really above her level and the general level of man she attracted before) and after the break up she never was and never will be capable of actually moving on, and no relationship and no man will come near what that experience was for her. As I told, if you date one, she'll put you through fucking hell. You deal with them fucking like you would fuck any other hot girl but never ever considering to L…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:29 AM
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1.5 weeks ex-gf btw. I mean, if they had broke up like 1 year ago or something like this, ok, but 1.5 weeks, srsly bro?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:22 AM
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Classic alpha widow. You can fuck her all you want, but for God's sake don't LTR her. If you do you'll walk through fucking hell. And of course, if her ex turn back to her again she will insta-delete you of her mind and go fuck him.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:04 AM
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Oh dude. So innocent. So needy. You need a HUGE dose of sidebar, right fucking now. She did a wonderful job in latching you in those first months, and now she's turning back to what she actually is. Her mistake was changing behavior too abruptly, that's why you're so surprised and came here. She's not special. Go read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP23/08/17 11:59 PM
1

Just a simple question: I don't drink and I won't change my mind about that for any girl. What do you think should be my preference about where to go on a date? I mean, isn't it really weird going to a bar with a girl and just drink coke? lol I don't have that much of a problem with her drinking or not, it's just that I won't do it
/r/askTRP23/08/17 11:10 PM
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If you're using the cellphone app, click the three dots on top right and go to "community info" If on PC, ---->
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:33 PM
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OBJECTIVENESS is one of the masculine characteristics. If you are or pretend to be a masculine man, you're supposed to be objective and concise, and not to be blabbering around with nonsense and about futile stuff. You're supposed to be objective, concise, precise and focused. It's your job as a man. And it's valued not only by woman. And being objective means: speak less and do more
/r/askTRP23/08/17 12:03 PM
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TRP acknowledges women for what they actually are - human beings, selfish, flawed, insecure and weak, just like men - and not that made up bullshit that media and feminists and everybody throw onto us. They're not special, they're not better than us. But TRP isn't /r/seduction, it focus on trying to become a better man overall, not just on getting - and for fucks sake, not on discriminating - women. Do you want to become a better man and get closer to live the life that you actually want, OP's f…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 11:55 AM
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This sadness and pity-inducing behavior is the biggest weapon she has against you, to make you give in to her frame. Don't fall for it. And don't "give a break", but break up definitely with her. Doesn't need to be now, but you know what you should do. It's hard at first, but as soon as you realize that she isn't really different from all the others, this guilt will start to vanish
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:29 AM
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Friend of a redpiller, indeed The post is actually one of the most upvoted of the sub, you can find it easily on the top posts of all time
/r/askTRP22/08/17 02:12 PM
1

"Of course, I cheat all of my GFS smirk "
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:43 PM
1

So you prefer to LTR someone who's secretly a fucking hoe just so you don't "feel like a hypocrite"? I wouldn't date a girl without knowing a bit of her past, and there's nothing wrong with that, even if you have to tell a lie or two to guarantee she isn't the one lying
/r/askTRP18/08/17 03:44 PM
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What you did wasn't attractive or "bold", it was straight out creepy. If you aren't like 10/10 handsome and physically strong and she accepted I would be truly surprised and would recommend you to actually get away from her, cause it would be totally abnormal. You were on Facebook not on Tinder for god's sake
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:45 PM
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There are better subs for this question, indeed. But either way, there's no secret, exercise, eat less simple (fast) carbohydrates, specially sugar, lots of water, veggies and all that stuff, and keep him doing routine check-ups every few months to guarantee it's all ok
/r/askTRP12/08/17 05:11 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy and you'll get the answer² "If you have a broken person in a relationship, you have two. No exceptions."
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:25 PM
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It's over bro. At least you seem like a reasonable man that isn't so love-blinded, so you should let reason guide you. What value does she bring to your life? She's full of red flags, probably has been cheating on you (or if she hasn't, she will in near future) and simply doesn't care that much about you anymore, as you yourself admitted. It's time to let go. Your daughter will grow happier knowing that her father is a decided man that went to live a healthy and happy life with other person than…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:36 AM
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Dude: WHO THE FUCK CARES???? Are you legally married with her so you need proof of cheating to not be divorce raped? No. You DON'T NEED, and SHOULDN'T try to prove that she's acting wrong and that she gave you reason to dump her or try to fix it. If you do it, you'll just suffer more and you'll lose worth in her eyes, as the "controlling and jealousy guy" that's not worth her time and effort. She's a woman, she knows that she's doing wrong and she is rationalizing it, she doesn't need you to pro…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:13 PM
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Dude, look around yourself, doesn't even matter if he is fucking your gf or not, she's into him, she wants his D and maybe a branch swing, and if it isn't with Mike, it will be with another guy that she will meet. Open your eyes, you're in a sinking ship. Get the fuck out before you drown
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:08 PM
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Ignorance is bliss bro. I've got head on into the red pill just a few weeks ago, and I'm constantly feeling the same as you. I don't know if this is all worth it. I know that it is really beta to say this, but sex without actual love and caring seems just kinda dirty and maybe even boring after some time. And tbh, I see very low value on women outside of that sexual/emotional attachment sphere. Men are much more fun to hangout with and talk to if you exclude the sexual part of it. At least to me…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:22 AM
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Caralho mano, eu sou br tbm e não imaginava que já tinha chegado a esse ponto. Ao menos do pessoal que conheço, ninguém chegou assim tão longe, embora seja inegável a quantidade de merda dessa geração, seja olhando pra minha própria família ou pra gente de fora De que parte do br vc é?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:03 PM
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Tell him the truth. She involved you in it without asking and the guy is asking you the truth, why cover up that whorish behavior of a slut? Just so you can get a few more dates with her huge red flagish sister? If the guy has any balls whatsoever, he may drop her and even try to be friends with you. And I'd prefer a good friend than a hoe, anyday
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:05 PM
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Dude, listen to yourself. It will be MUCH worse for your kids to live with parents that don't like each other, a fucking cheating bitch as mom and a cuck as dad. GET THE FUCK OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE. Do what the other dudes are saying, contact your lawyer under the table, get as much proof as humanly possible, and you can an will get 50/50 custody or even more than that. Nail your fucking balls into the middle of your legs again and GTFO of this shithole. Once your kids can understand the impact of…
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:32 PM
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The author was really political and diplomatic, which was the correct thing to do after all, since he is walking on eggshells right there. Besides that, he managed to actually say some needed truths right there. I don't know if it will change anything in Google and I don't really care, but I have enough proof that this kind of speech doesn't work in the open world, and not at all at the echo chambers in universities. It may help to prevent people from getting into there, but it won't take them o…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:50 AM
1

Yeah, I haven't studied that subject enough to agree or disagree with all that classifications, but I'd just thought that maybe you could identify with that sigma stuff. I don't think that all this classes and shit should be taken so seriously, but they are indeed useful for defining, analyzing and changing behavior patterns in ourselves. Just be masculine and be happy with what you are
/r/askTRP05/08/17 01:05 AM
2

Some people define it as the sigma male, somewhat of an introverted alpha, that still has the masculinity, strength and confidence, but doesn't feel the need and doesn't like to be all that sociable, even though the could if he wanted to
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:42 AM
5

I understand you man, and I understand that this paradigm shift is harsh and hard to accept. The pill doesn't go down your throat softly: it is rough, bitter and you may want to throw up. I'm on the same boat, being myself someone that took it just a few weeks ago. Now, what I think you need is goals. And most specifically, a mission. One of my biggest goals and a big part of the mission that I've had before taking the pill was to get that unicorn, that pretty, loving, caring young girl that wou…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 10:24 PM
1

The only thought that you should have in your mind in these situations is something that RSD instructors (RSDMax most specifically) say of cold approaches: "The moment I said hi, I've already won"
/r/seduction03/08/17 03:22 AM
3

Bro, PMS and leaving job aren't actually that much of a deal. She should be used to this stuff and should be a little bit more resilient emotionally. She's a woman after all. Actually, she probably isn't suffering that much, she's just using it as an excuse to not fuck you. If alpha Chad were pulling her by her hair into the bedroom to give her some hard dick, working or not, pmsing, menstruated or ovulating, she would be all wet and excited for it, you bet. As the other guy said, daddy issues a…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 12:33 AM
2

Some guys here are harsh and others aren't that much, but they all say the same thing, and they're all right There's NO WAY for you to have a healthy relationship with this woman. She was her ex's SLUT, and if she could, she would come back crawling to him. I bet that she rode his cock at least once after he came back to her city. Now, if you marry her, she will use you as a pass to first world Canada, will make you miserable with bad behavior, lack of sex and affection, and by letting pretty cl…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:11 PM
1

Well, english is not my mother language, and I'm good at it for someone that never actually made a certified course, but I'm far from perfect You're right though, I'll police myself to use less "just" in my sentences, thanks for the advice
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:40 PM
1

I understand what you're saying, and you're right for the most part. But is a whole different world from not having sex until 20 because you didn't want to/didn't find the right person to not having it until 20 because you just can't seduce someone (aka build attraction and convince that you're valuable enough for them having sex with). Also, sex for men and for women have different meanings and impacts in life. And yeah, I agree that the ages are low and unbalanced, but when I'm considering the…
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:59 PM
1

I'm working on all of that atm, but as I said, I have a long way to go and since my social circle is still inexistent, my body is still far away from what I'd like to, and I live with my parents, having no car and stuff. And I'm just at the beginning of studying game too
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:28 PM
1

I got into college for just 6 months last year, had to bail out, and now am studying for the admission tests in a few months. Shouldn't be so hard
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:26 PM
2

Well, I've always seen myself as mentally strong (and also really smart, at least at an academic point of view). That's why I have no problem at exposing my weaknesses and being harsh at myself, it actually feels like a boost to improve, even tho I recognize that it isn't that great to self-esteem. I'm also kinda of a good speaker, at least I think so. The video stuff could be useful tho to help me manage my voice tone and volume during conversations. My gym offers different fighting classes. I'…
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:06 AM
5

I've downloaded that book today along with a few others, will be reading soon, thanks. I agree with you that I just push the blame to external factors too much, but it's just like I felt so powerless and helpless my whole life, is just like I was never in control and never could do anything to change it. I'm just starting it now, jumping out of my comfort zone and trying to improve. And yes, I understand that getting laid shouldn't be the #1 priority of a man, but this matter is just wrecking me…
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:37 AM
5

My father is an excellent man, but I guess he never learnt how to be a good father, since his own father was extremely severe and unstable, and somewhat abusive I was born and grew into somewhat of a bad era for my family in terms of financial structure, and my dad worked a lot to overcome that. That made me respect and trust him even more than normal, but outside of that, he never actually did that much for me • He was a semi-pro soccer player in his youth years, and he plays it till this day, …
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:33 AM
2

Read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy". Seriously, it fits your case perfectly, and if you actually read it and incorporate it in your life, it can do WONDERS for you. You can easily find the PDF online
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:05 AM
24

Analysing my childhood and my teenage years, I would say I had/have 2 major problems: • Overprotective mother/kinda absent father, that built me into a weak, unconfident "nice guy" that doesn't know how to deal with women or socializing in general • Somewhat of a delayed physical development, that made me feel even less masculine, confident and brave (basically, it's like my body was (is) always 2-3 years younger than I actually was, so I was always the tiny, weak, small dude that couldn't fight…
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:02 AM
52

The only thing I have to say is that I'm M20, virgin, and currently extremely dissatisfied with that. I'm figuring out my mistakes and problems and working on it, but still, even tho I'm young and trying to care as little as possible for what others may think, I'm still really bothered to be a virgin and 'cause I can't see me losing it in the near future (specially because I'm just studying atm and living with my parents, and will stay like this at least till the end of the year) I'm even seriou…
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:57 PM
1

You're the only one that can answer that question bro. What do you value more, the slight amount of strength that you'll lose or the definition you'll get? You don't need a full ripped body to pick up girls and stuff, but it helps If you want, you could even try other hobbies like martial arts for example, to which you don't need that extra body fat/ extra strength
/r/askTRP31/07/17 03:38 PM
1

I'd go for B. Also, is even more politically incorrect then PUA itself, so they may think it's a bit too far. C is a possibility too. PS: I actually like RSDMax, he's a cool dude and teaches some useful stuff for cold approaching and pulling off them girlz
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:32 PM
2

Dude, do you really think you'll actually convert someone into your religion like this? "Oh, this random guy on Reddit said that Christ is God and atheism is a trap, so it should be the ultimate truth and so I'll become christian for the rest of my life" You can have your faith and show it, it's totally okay, but everything has a place and a time. Trying to randomly force your faith into other unknown people that aren't even talking about it in first place isn't conversion, is just being annoyin…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:40 PM
4

Doom = being turned into a cuck BB, being trapped into this one girl that doesn't actually love you, strangling you by your feelings and making you live a shitty life
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:35 PM
-2

Yep, she's playing you. If you want her, do something like an ultimatum, like say the day, hour and place for you to hang out, and say something like "if you don't show, I'll consider that as if you don't want to talk to me anymore and will never make contact again" If not, just ghost
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:31 PM
4

Ghost her, block her, DO NOT TRY TO PLATE HER You'll never get over her this way, and may weaken and take her as GF again. And if you do so, it'll be your doom
/r/askTRP30/07/17 04:22 PM
2

the body language (seems) to tell me I should keep pressing on but because of the words I don't push it since I'm afraid of seeming like a weirdo ALWAYS go for what they do, NEVER for what they say. In this case, if her body language is telling you to keep pressing, then DO IT. If you're unsure, you can use the "1 step back then 2 steps forward" technique. And if you keep going, the worst case scenario is you be seen as a weirdo and then the girl rejects you (what she's kinda already doing, sinc…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 03:37 AM
1

Go to a psychologist, take pills if you need to, learn game and try to be more sociable, and START LIFTING. In the long run it will make miracles to your attractiveness, sociability and confidence.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 09:02 PM
0

It's not worth trying to inspire into "natural" guys. You won't get where you want by doing this, and you'll suffer a lot trying to decodify why they are so sucessful If you want to really improve, is better to just learn game. Read books, see videos, get into the PUA community or stuff like that, and approach the hell out of the girls all around
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:59 PM
4

My honored beta self says that you should just tell her boyfriend what happened and that she's a bitch, even if that costs you a nice fuck and/or friendships, is the right thing to do My egocentric alpha side says: FUCK HER, fuck her for good, GIVE HER THE D I don't know man. You could try to do both, fuck her then come with that regret look and tell your friend that she went over you and you weakened and couldn't resist, but that would ruin future fucks and maybe even ruin the hole friends grou…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:54 PM
1

It depends. For some guys it isn't a big deal, for others is stressful and angering, for others is sad. But you'll only see her once on Tinder, fast swipe left, focus on other girls and stuff, eventually you'll get over with. If you catch yourself thinking too hard, think back at her problems, the bad times and feelings she put you through and why you ended with her
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:48 PM
2

When approaching a group, ALWAYS give attention first to the possible "threats": beta friends, close female friends/sisters/cousins, or even boyfriend. Conquer their sympathy first, and kinda ignore your target for a moment. Then, after you're in the center of the group, when everyone is talking to and liking you, you start to invest in your primary target and try to isolate. This is standard PUA procedure
/r/askTRP29/07/17 06:32 PM
2

Try a few times, she might give it away to this LMR. If she doesn't, just be stone cold, get up and say you have to leave. No anger or disappointment, just get up and go. You have a good chance that, if you do that, she brings you to her bed and start striping out her clothes without you insisting anymore. If not, just leave If she doesn't fuck you, and the next time you meet she does that again (resist and then doesn't stop you from leaving), then just leave for good, you won't be getting anyth…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:38 PM
3

Block her number, her facebook, and get on Tinder
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:33 PM
1

Since I'm 20 yo and just at the beginning of my relationship/sex life, I'd take the #1, keep her for a few months, fuck her for good, use her as a trophy to improve my SMV, and all that shit. And then, when the typical shitstorm begins, next If I was like 35, 40 yo, I'd probably go to the #4, help her to get hotter via gym, diet, skin/hair treatments, etc. and settle down with her
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:29 PM
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The best of luck to you, my friend Honor your balls
/r/seduction29/07/17 02:21 PM
1

And how the hell a guy who doesn't pull pussy and actually is needy and unconfident is supposed to learn to recognize IOIs, gain confidence and improve game if not by approaching the fuck outta those random girls? Don't listen to him OP, just keep approaching and study some more game, soon you'll gonna be doing great
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:32 AM
2

Dude, the bitch is just straight up crazy. Since she is physically close to you (due to close workplaces), I'd recommend a soft next. she asked me if I had a car because she was tired of riding her exs bike Her exs cock*
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:29 AM
1

Tell me, do you really want to feel the taste of Chad's cock when kissing her? No? So you know what to do.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 01:30 AM
1

Man, you have pretty normal looks, I've seen way uglier guys with hot girls, several times. What's stopping you aren't your looks, but your lack of confidence, your excessive fear and social anxiety and your lack of attitude. You wanna know something funny? The biggest masters of seduction, the 'fathers of PUA' that are recognized for being able to seduce any woman and to have slept with hundreds of them, no one of them is actually handsome or bodybuilder-style. They're all normal looking guys, …
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:32 AM
1

Listen to this dude OP. You're not at bad as you think, in fact you're pretty normal
/r/seduction29/07/17 12:30 AM
1

Do it bro. Do it now or it will only get worse. If I understood correctly, she's back into your house, right? If so, kick her out and DON'T LOOK BACK. Start working on yourself, go to the gym, start going on dates and plating other girls, and every time you miss her, don't think about the good times, cause they are in the past. Think about the fights, the lack of sex, the lack of love and support. Don't be angry at her, but just put in your mind that she's not good enough for you, her actions ar…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 10:11 PM
1

M8, don't be stupid, just soft next this crazy bitch and fuck that other plate and others that you may get in the near future. Don't try anything more to this bitch, she has a bf, she is from your friend group, you have a tendency to get too much emocionally involved, and she is broken and crazy. Don't go for her, except if you wanna bring hell to your life
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:56 PM
1

Do it and make your girl take the pill Or just cum in her mouth, dunno man, it's up to you. But if you're right about her cycle and she takes the pill either way, you'll be just fine Ow, and living in a 3rd world country with no sex Ed is no excuse (I live in one too) when you got the fucking internet, dude. Don't know about cycles and women's reproductive system? Take a few hours these days and RESEARCH ABOUT IT. It'll help you to not mess up
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:14 PM
1

Perfect. Just do it, OP
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:09 PM
1

You would be in an amazing spot to fuck a girl, at least with most of the "not satisfied with my relationship" girls. If she is really attached to this faithfulness stuff as she says, well, you can't still try, since normally women's sexual instincts can easily override this protocols, but is not guaranteed and you might fail hard. I'd still give it a try tho There's always the possibility that she actually fucks you, but then regrets and get away from you. If she does that, bye bye. If you use …
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:30 PM
5

Alpha widow detected. Good thing that you're not that much emocionally invested As I always say, bang her hard one last time and HARD NEXT. It's the only way to save your dignity
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:06 AM
1

Well, you already fight for real and work out, which is reaaally good. You should just show this a little more, you could try to change diet and work out harder to get some abs and a more showy shape, change your clothing to reinforce that and to make you look younger and funnier (not exaggerating of course, you're not 16) And you maybe could take some other hobbies like something music related (guitar or drums are the best at this point) or another sport, like basketball for example.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:20 PM
5

As girls grow older, they tend to get fatter, less petite-looking and hot as they were, and care less about their looks, specially in casual situations. You now are bald, you work more, you have less single friends, so is normal to you to be seen as a more serious, provider-ish and LTR-material guy, which makes perfect sense to attract older and less attractive women (which are looking for comfort and settlement, as oppose to the young petites that just want fun and no compromise) I may be deadl…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:03 PM
3

Just do it. If you don't fuck up, you'll probably have won the girl by the end of the day
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:56 PM
1

I'm at the same spot bro. I'm 20, don't actually like drinking, my family has had some problems with it in the past, but is just like socially unacceptable to not drink. I'm sincerely thinking about starting to drink but just easily, just so I'll go unnoticed and to get a little more open and confident. Dunno tho. BTW I'm still trying to wash off that retrograde thinking that my super beta-self had in the past that everyone who is young and gets drunk and just loses control is a bitch/asshole. I…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:54 PM
4

Dude, to me that relationship was one of the best things that could have happened to you. And you know why? Simple. If things were as you said, than you were full bluepilled and BB. You were lucky enough to bump into a girl that was so bitchy and made you so sad that obligated you to wake up, dump her, and change your life. Imagine if you were dating a less bitchy girl, that hooked you for good and turned you into a miserable, disappointed and cheated-on BB for the rest of your life? Now, knowin…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:56 PM
3

He said "she's beautiful" and she is just like 'meh, you beta' At the end of the video she talks about the trip like "I'M SOOOOOOOO EXCITED FOR MAUI AND THE BEACH AND TO RELAX, and then we can spend some more time together" She is absolutely disgusted by him, and it's obvious, she just wants the trip
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 02:10 PM
3

After they meet, 5:20 or so, he really looks like he is about to cry. And look at her, when they meet, she turns back before actually going onto him, they do a quick hug and then separate. Notice how she is kinda far away from him, at the beginning she is even closer to the show host than to the beta from tinder. And then she stays one arm length away from him all the time, so he doesn't hug her again or pass his arm around her
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:49 PM
444

Say to her: "Tell your friend I think her friend is cute wink " 10/10 flirt
/r/seduction27/07/17 03:13 AM
1

There has been a misjudgment here, I'm not unsure and unconfident about my 'sexual potential' or about my first time with a civilian girl. I'm just feeling the social and psychological weight of virginity at such an age, specially here where everybody is a degenerate that loses it at fucking 15. It's just that weight that is bothering me, and it's becoming heavier each day due to NoFap and stuff. And I also thought that by doing that I would diminish that fear of approach, or general fear of wom…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:09 AM
2

You gotta let the hamster do the hamstering, bro 🐹
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:40 AM
1

The photographer stuff is nice shit, but I guess I'll just wait until I got a decent shape - shouldn't take long - and do it, or maybe just try to ask one of my few friends or even my cousins (we're actually kinda close, and almost same age) As I've said in another comment, I'm not from US/Western Europe, I'm actually from South America, and the currency here is well under dollar/euro in valorization. I can fuck a nice 8/10 hooker around here by something like 70 euros, and that including the ho…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:04 AM
1

It's a good alternative actually, but as I said, I've got almost no way of meeting new girls for now, except maybe Tinder, but I've tried it before and not actually succeeded (I was full beta back then tho) The hooker thing just seems easier and quicker to get this outta the way and get prepared for gaming girls I actually want to fuck.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:54 PM
1

Agreed. By all means, treat the symptom (virginity) and go get laid. But don't ignore the underlying cause (low confidence). Am already doing that, I'm just kinda impatient and thought that going for the hooker would make me more calm when starting to approach and when going to bed the first time with a 'civilian' I'm more prone to do it now. Thanks for the replies, boys
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:46 PM
1

I'm not from the US/Western Europe. Prostitution is illegal here too, but it's not that much of a deal. I know some websites.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:39 PM
1

If I was still a bluepilled beta, I'd really like to have my eyes opened before I did this life-changing horrendous decision that is to marry a bitch. Bang her once again and then warn him and run. Also warn his father if you have access to him. If he is too much of a pussy, maybe his dad will straighten him up. If he still marries her even with that, laugh directly at his face. And bang her one more time
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:24 PM
1

I would give just a single try. Go out with her and be full alpha, as if you don't know her, as if you don't know (and don't care) if she has a boyfriend, and just game her hard and try to close and fuck. If you make it, great, fuck her as hard as you can, and next day bail out. You can even call her bullshit after that if you want to. But after you fuck her, HARD NEXT. Do not commit the mistake of staying available and around. If it fails, too bad, forget her and move on, eventually with game i…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:13 PM
1

Maybe she is just confused And by confused I mean that there are another guys that are showing interest in her, or you aren't exactly doing so good at her tests, or maybe she has a boyfriend and is kinda afraid
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:50 PM
2

Being indifferent and leaving girls that don't like you is different than just quitting after every single shit test that you receive. If that first guy isn't actually good looking, fit and clean on his cold approaches, if he keep acting like this he won't get any woman except the super easy ones
/r/seduction26/07/17 01:09 PM
12

Leave. And don't even bother explaining why
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:22 PM
3

You wanna fuck her? Dread the FUCK outta her, in the prom, just leave her sometimes and go talk to another girls, just keep kinda ignoring her, making less contact with her each day, and still investing and talking and even fucking other girls and making sure that she knows it. She will eventually give way, the full BB idea that she's trying to insert on you will vanish, and she'll let you fuck her. But do this, fuck her ONCE (and for good) and then just leave and forget her. If you come back to…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:21 AM
3

Bro, shut up until you get out of negation state, or maybe until you actually swallow the red pill Stop bluepilling around with your NAWALT and "no kids? You're stupid" stuff
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:58 AM
3

I don't know if high self-esteem is the word, but at least what I see among that horribly fat hardcore feminists is actually a ridiculously low self-esteem but with something like a reactive armor on the outside, due to the lack of attractiveness to most of the guys that they have. That may make them even harder to approach than the HB8+
/r/seduction25/07/17 04:09 AM
125

Dale Carnegie all the way dude. The best way to make a conversation with you be nice to others is just let them speak
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:56 AM
7

Start small. Ask for time or directions, talk about the weather with the old ladies in the bus stop, talk to the dude that sits at your side at the bus/subway/waiting rooms, chat with guys and girls from your gym, etc. You'll see is no big deal, and confidence is something you'll build up with time and experiences. I'm probably not the best guy for saying that since I'm also shy and anxious, but I'm working on it. It seems nice
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:53 AM
3

It kinda depends of your behavior, really. Cause if you successfully use dread game onto her but then start being truly beta for the next months, she will much likely eventually lose interest in you, and gradually start all that shitstorm that precedes betrayal or breakup If you get to this point, then maybe you should try to hardcore dread game her once again (ex. actually breaking up and banging other girls, making sure that she knows that, before coming back) and change your behavior. It's a …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:29 AM
1

He failed as a Chad - or AF, fell in love hard, and S (after years of hard hamster work) managed to use his fauls against himself in a truly efficient way, and successfully turned him into a full, emasculated, unhappy and slave BB. If she hasn't done it before, she will most likely cheat on him, and not only via messages or porn like he did, since is obvious that she doesn't feel attraction at all for this poor fat 0-confidence man. Poor J
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:27 PM
2

The angery is kind of a meme from Facebook haha (which I just quitted a few days ago, btw) And about the the pain of the redpill, that may even sound a bit pretentious, but I see myself as a hardcore truth-seeker. I prefer living with the painful realities than with the soft sounding lies. And specially with women related stuff, where the lies actually drive you into much more suffering in the long run. BTW, is there a way to quote a commentary in the Reddit app and I'm stupid to miss it or it's…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 07:34 PM
6

Great post, just great. I don't know at what stage I'm currently in, I've joined TRP just a few days ago, but the ideas about women and relationship were already floating in my mind for a long time. I think I'm at depression, although I'm having some nice changes in myself and some good perspective for the future, so I'm not that bad. I just wish this world was less hard on us. Knowing that your dreams of love will never become true, it hurts dude. Just a doubt: if acceptance is not always good …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:31 AM
1

Exactly. He also stated that stuff about the women double standards, that they looks for the best genes to procriate, but accept staying with inferior guys for protection and providing, while giving them small, rationed portions of sex, caring and love, and still looking out for the best genes over there to receive a child from. AF/BB basically. As for the women dying, yeah, in current world is just too easy, and probably someone will save both the woman and the child before anyone dies, but to …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 02:23 PM
91

That's the shit bro. Let me add something important to your post: You shouldn't try to directly control your woman not only because of paranoia, but because is TOTALLY not alpha. Is a strong demonstration of insecurity and dependency. If you try to control her, your value to her will immediately fall, and that associated with that egoism and "forbidden is better" thoughts will make her much more likely to cheat on you than if you went the other way. Try to always know the shit of your girl, but …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:08 AM
9

I'm a brazilian guy. Here in Brazil we have a guy that, between 2005 and 2008 wrote a series of books about women behavior, instincts, and even some relationship advice. He is like the prophet of Red Pill around here. His true identity is unknown, but the books are under the name of Nessahan Alita. In his theory he explains the focus of this discussion really well, and what you're saying is really close to it. It goes like this: The biological function of men in reproduction is basically one: fe…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 02:37 AM
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