Been friends with benefits with this girl for approx 9 months now but the problem is she's asking me to do more and more stuff like going out drinking, weekend trips etc that I'm not keen on. I have no other "plates" at the minute and was on the road to oneitis until I realised my situation and am now worrying it's gone too far.

She has told her mother that were dating and she's texting and ringing me quite often(gets tedious) and am wondering how I should proceed ( next or not)

Thanks