Advice on past relationship

fnordsnord · 2018-03-21T14:18:19+00:00

You're right: social media was more important to her than you. Why is this something to fight over? Now you know where you stand in her life and can act accordingly.

You can't change someone else's behavior. You can only change how you respond to it.

BlackMisc · 2018-03-21T12:13:58+00:00

lol, if you get bothered over something like that your relationships wont last.

she did find it more important to get validation from other people first. or she tought that you would just c on instagram and did not want 2 post things twice.

eitherway you had zero frame with this girl if you started a fight over that.

Glowv2 · 2018-03-21T13:32:37+00:00

What a bitch right?

Travis2310 · 2018-03-21T15:13:24+00:00

a conflict I had with my ex in the past.

Why the fuck do you care about that now?

Then instead, she decided to post photos of herself on Instagram first. At that time I got pissed because it seemed social media was more important than me.

The validation of "x amount of followers" is greater than the validation of one guy.

Windforce · 2018-03-21T16:54:52+00:00

Why are you even talking to your ex? You are providing her your attention without sex as reward. It's a lose lose situation, best course of action is to straight up delete her from your life.

CongenialYi · 2018-03-22T01:22:13+00:00

You should have told her that if she did that again you would hunt her down.

Title	Advice on past relationship
Author	komaddon
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	March 21, 2018 11:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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