OK, if you've read my last thread on here you'll know that I finally asked a girl I liked out who I was sure liked me. Anyway, she said yes and last Tuesday I went for a meal with her and two walks. The two walks were her idea (one before eating and one after; I was ready to go home after eating but SHE wanted to continue the date for longer but I had to go to work and I swear she checked up on me later at work to see if I were telling the truth as I work with her brother and she rang him I think). Anyway, I was "redpilling" it up all the time, I was confident, teasing and all that business. I took her hand, leaned in for a kiss and she backed off. I didn't apologise at all. She later said she was being "cautious" (without me asking her, she volunteered this information).

On the way home I told her she'd be "powerless to resist me next time" and she laughed and said "you're pretty sure there'll be a next time" to which I responded "of course". When I'd gotten home she'd added me on facebook but never messages me on there despite her being online a fair bit. I messaged her the day after to say I'd ring her the next day and last Thursday I rang her and arranged a second date. I got through to her mum which was a bit awkward and we're seeing each other again this coming Thursday (she says she works a lot and that was her only full day off). I asked for her mobile (cellphone) number because I said it was a bit awkward having to talk to her mum. She said she'd message me on facebook with it and that she'd forgotten/lost my number which I'd given to her previously when we arranged first date. Of course, naturally, she hasn't messaged me her number.

We're still on for Thursday as far as I'm aware but why doesn't she give a shit about all the other stuff. If I weren't making the effort, I swear nothing would happen (and believe me, I'm trying to be as aloof as possible, I'm not messaging her 24/7, in fact, I've only messaged her twice on FB, once then and once today just to confirm that I'll see her at hers on Thursday as I forgot to say I where I would meet her).

What's the best way forward for a novice "redpiller" like me. Is this worth the effort?

Here's a link to part 1: http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2gyfdk/advice_please/