Hello, this question might be geared for older Red Pillers, though younger ones are obviously welcome to chime in.

I'm in my late 30's and have been late to the game (the past five years, with LOTS of growth the past 1-2 years) seeing the Red Pill. I feel like I've turned my life around 180 degrees from being a beta in my 20's to being much more primal in my 30's. I have a 29-year old young-looking plate/semi-GF from out of town that I totally primally dominate verbally and sexually in person. Note that she's primal as well, in that she loves seeing my animal side in every way (words, actions). We have an open relationship and it turns her on when I rob a girl of her innocence.

Now, I value my time more than anything, so when I approach women I do like to have a curiosity about them first, then go up and talk to them about whatever I'm curious about. It's that simple. Right now I feel like I can freely talk to at least 75% of women I'm curious about, no matter how hot or attractive.

But this advice request is about approaching girls that - are legally aged - but look too young/innocent.

Last night, I was having coffee with a friend when he noticed an attractive tall brunette. Now the biggest change in me is I hold frame even when a hottie comes in. I don't get distracted anymore, I continue the conversation (because fuck it, my time is important) and at some point I'll look at the girl and if I'm curious, I'll approach. I'm :the most important person in my world, this is my party, and women are lucky to join in" right? That's my mental attitude.

My friend got distracted, he stopped talking and I admit that that threw me off a bit as well. So this girl is sitting by herself in the coffeeshop and seems to peek our way a few times (my friend and I were talking about travel, and some quite interesting topics). She didn't have her laptop or phone on, and she was writing on a piece of paper. So I was curious what she was writing on her paper, so I came up to refill my tea and was next to her. I looked, ready to say something, then I saw her face and it screamed "too young!" now, her body was tall, I'm sure she wasn't in high school anymore, but in a split second instead of talking to her, I stopped. This happened to a party I went to as well with some older college students.

Anyone have a piece of advice?

Note/background: Note that a couple of years ago, at age 36, I dated a 24 year old (though I thought she was 27 when we first met), so I have no problems being with much younger women. I valued that girl's conversational ability - she was what you can say "an old soul." As someone that doesn't want to waste his time, I value an attractive woman that can hold a conversation. In addition, I feel like with my growth as a man the past year or so, I feel like when I see an innocent-looking girl, I feel like I can overtake them with my manliness (if that makes sense), and maybe it's me not being fully comfortable with that primal animal desire being expressed IF the girl looks like she could be too innocent. I'm not sure honestly. At my age now, I think most girls under the age of 22 look like 16 year olds in my eyes. Anyone have experienced this, and can help? I feel like what I want to do to get rid of this is to automatically approach any girl that looks "too young" for me (as long as they are legally aged, of course!). Maybe I'm underestimating their capability to have a conversation. Maybe I'll think they won't be good in bed. I'm not sure. But I don't want to miss out on someone just because I think she's too young, without knowing more about her. Thanks, TRP men!