Hi,

This post is mainly directed towards those of you who have a LTR or are married i.e. anything long term, and if kids are involved, so the better.

Lets say I want to build a family and have kids in the future, preferably when I'll be between 30 and 35 years old.
Girls my age, that is 22, will also be 30 or 35 when I'll start a family. Therefore I will logically look for younger ones, with all the benefits associated (lower N count for instance).

Thing is, girls which are my age seem to be more interesting than older or younger ones, even compared to those who slightly are.
It may be because of different maturity levels, or generational "culture" or maybe because I'm 22 and the only younger girls I'll meet for now will be between 18 and 22 years old.

How do the men who are for instance 10 years older deal with such a generational and mental gap, especially in a LTR/Family ?

What is easier and what is harder in regards to having a girl/woman that is of the same age ?
What then are the pros and cons ?

Thank you