I'm quite a social guy(16M),train soccer and I'm in HS and I only have a few friends who just want to talk and have fun, but the majority of people just ball bust all the time and I ball bust them back,but there are no real conversation and always just banter.I usually just say something back and not try to initiate real comversations since I know the end result already.I have this "fuck you demeanor" when I talk so maybe that's the issue? My question is basically why there are no teal convos and always just ball busting?

Thanks