Am I applying dread correctly?

Triadis3 · Fri Apr 6 13:47:04 2018 UTC

NONONONONO.

Fully in her frame.

1 - not your job to placate or try to figure out her emotions/whats bothering her.

2 - Silent treatment just means she's gotten under your skin to the point where you'e acting like a butthurt baby.

3 - The answer is to continue on with your life, acting like it doesn't bother you in the least. Because it shouldn't. You're encouraging bad behaviour because you're getting pulled into her drama.

4 - You really don't understand dread.Dread is about turning around a long term relationship in which you are unhappy, but for whatever reason you don't want to just end the relationship..ie marriage/kids,etc. The lower 5 levels are simply a guide to become a man worthy of looking yourself in the mirror every morning, because how can she see you as a worthy man if you don't believe it yourself?

I bet you haven't even read the source material.

Dread

mallardcove · 2018-04-06T13:52:59+00:00

Dread isn't a lack of communication or going cold shoulder.

Dread is when you make it clear you have other options and can and will exercise those other options at any time. In order to execute dread there has to be another woman in the picture, whether it just be some stranger you talk to or another woman she knows you talk to regularly.

Dread = Interactions with other women and the perceived threat those women pose

Title	Am I applying dread correctly?
Author	Quimsby
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	April 6, 2018 1:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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