Am i being unreasonable?

EntitledChadJThunder · 2016-11-21T06:02:33+00:00

I said something along the lines of i dont have any expectations of you and she got mad at me.

You gave her an open invitation to cheat on you?

Every time you ask myself if you're being unreasonable, you're breaking frame and accomidating to the other person. Don't do that unless you're a little bitch.

marone76 · 2016-11-21T06:02:57+00:00

More pathetic than unreasonable.

Your post reads like you are a girl, having a fight with your bff over a skirt.

She wants you to chase her. She wants to know how hooked you are.

"I said something along the lines of i dont have any expectations of you and she got mad at me."

Not as hooked as she thought.

Have you read anything? Do you know what a shit test is at least?

killer15356 · 2016-11-21T06:47:25+00:00

No offense bro, fuck this girl bro. If she expects you to stick with her even though she's that far away forget about her. You got things 10x better to do. And you're being a beta. But if none of that got to you here are some things you need to do: - Stop calling her. - Don't text her first. - Be very plain when she texts you. - Every once in a while ignore her text and say you were lifting. - Keep her wanting more. - By not texting her you're making yourself more valuable.

Do these things and she'll probably end up calling you.

fnordsnord · 2016-11-21T14:03:33+00:00

Ok - this is such a mess I barely know where to begin.

First - you need to be gaming other women. A long distance relationship is NOT a relationship, especially under these circumstances. ONLY consider LDR in the sort term, with a fixed return date. (I'm going on sabbatical to study chimpanzees in Antarctica. I will be back in six months, or shit like that.)

Seriously - game other women.

Second - texting is a woman's game. She has flat-out told you why she won't talk to you voice. Hearing your voice robs her of her advantage in this power game she's playing.

So - assuming you're going to ignore my advice about gaming other women, we'll go forward.

Text Game 101: Give her no more than 2/3 of what she gives you. Make sure you don't text her more than twice for each three she sends you. Send her no more than 2 pictures for every three she sends you.

And no - you don't have to open a spreadsheet and count them. Just make sure that you're leaving her wanting more.

In this case, I would go radio silent for 1 - 3 days, depending on the tone of her texts.

Then, no matter what she says, respond with "call me." That's it. Every third text you get from her: "call me"

Other than that, nothing. And in the meantime, open other women.

wallpunchist · 2016-11-21T10:01:10+00:00

Is this relationship_advice subreddit or what?

Title	Am i being unreasonable?
Author	salandra
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	November 21, 2016 5:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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