Backstory
Been trying to swallow TRP for a couple months now. The progress has been slow but steady.
Trying to set up a date with a girl I fell out of contact with, asking to catch up over drinks. She recommends a swing dance class cause it's drop in and cheap and generally a good time.
Having no experience in dance and it being something I want to learn I say sure. Class starts at 8:30 she will be there around 10~
I spend the first while learning how to dance and get progressively more confident, by the time she shows up she is completely wired on caffeine and said she's had a shit day. I take her to the floor to try and bring up her mood. The our conversation quickly turns into small talk and she seems bored. After the song ends I go and find another partner to keep my mood up and after that dance she motions for me to come sit with her and a guy friend. After pulling up a chair she briefly introduces me to him and immediately puts her back to me. I realize that I have lower value and make a little small talk to be polite. She talks about how she's going for a world record. Guy says he's tired and is gonna head out in the next 20 minutes. Me and her dance once more, talking about what record she's going for, turns out to be most female orgasms in an hour cause she is hyper-sensitive or some shit. My first obvious mistake was not trying to agree and amplify. Opportunity seems to be lost for that.
She leaves with him after not being there for more than 30 minutes, tell her to have a good night. In which she replies "Oh I will."
And that was that.
Today she sent me a text saying "Sorry I was so out of it yesterday! What days do you have off?? Let's catch up over not drinks!"
My current plan is to just ignore it and next her. Cause at best we were/are acquaintances and she obviously isn't into me. Is it even worth it to pursue this at all? Did I miss my opportunity? It's obvious my game is currently weak and it is a work in progress.
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