Changing up details to remain anonymous.

I’m in my first serious relationship, first girlfriend ever, I’m 21 w/ experience, not a virgin, good looking + decent build + gym goer.

She’s 18, we’re both in school (same college), but I’m graduating in the Spring (April-May). We live far from each other when not at school (6-8hr ride). I think she’s attractive, but I think she is recovering (or has) an eating disorder — she gained weight since HS but looks good, would be 9/10 if she lost a few pounds. She’s super smart (smarter than I), at least academically. She has another 3 years of schooling.

We met on a dating/hookup app in August, and hooked up the 2nd time we met, got to third base, finally fucked after 4/5 chill seshes, she was a virgin prior. Went exclusive (or “dating” rather) after about 3 weeks of hooking up/fucking.

I’m met her family last week, and now she invited me to meet up with her and her mom with me + my mom.

I’m happy, I think the relationship is O K. She’s clingy, doesn’t really do much hobby-wise, and she’s super quiet so I don’t know if I will run into any issues in the future or not. I know the usual stuff — AWALT.

I don’t really know what to do when I graduate. I’m doing more schooling elsewhere + planning to be working full time in 2020. Everything is moving so fast, I just need some advice as to how I can know whether or not I should be happy with my choices.

My buddy is a womanizer and the advice he gave me was pretty much is that I’m happy, then go with it. My siblings said i’m moving too fast (moms meeting), it’s been 4 months and I’m out of day-to-day contact with her in 6 months.

I’m beating myself up as to whether or not I want to let myself catch feelings for this girl — I never think about her, or to put it in this way: I’m not some cuck who insta replies to texts/snaps and shit. She’s typically the one who texts first, I take a bit to reply especially if it’s a filler emoji conversation or something very bland — she is just so nice! It’s not even fake, it’s just genuine compliments, not even banter. We don’t converse over text, I barely ever call, I’ll FaceTime, which I’ve only done maybe once a week.

I haven’t even used TRP or browsed for a while — really once they added the quarantine BS which makes it not work on the Apollo client that I use. Either way, I haven’t been thinking about this extensively. I’m writing up this post after the input from my siblings. What do you think?