Hi all

I had been spinning this plate. In doing so, I managed to break my 2 other plates. I didn't mind, I was pretty open to an LTR with her.

I got back from a 2 week vacation, and we got dinner. She had to leave a bit early to help her friend with some shit I don't remember. We kissed and she left (we also split the bill). No further contact. I was a bit annoyed, but didn't show it.

The next day, I saw her at work (she works in my building about once a week). As usual I said hello, but she just said hi and walked away. Made another effort to talk to her that, she was just as cold. I decided to soft next her, easy.

This happened again, about a week later. I opened a conversation, she shut it down. I will not be disrespected.

Another week later, I see her at work. We make no effort to speak to each other. We have had no contact other than what I wrote here. I had totally moved on, and began seeing a new girl.

The next day, today, she texts me "hey are we okay?" And I think, to myself, are we? Because really, I had thought we were over.

I had planned on hard nexting her because (I had thought) she kept disrespecting me. But looking back, I'm doubting my decision.

Was it disrespect, or am I overreacting? I never broke frame with her because she's only ever shit tested me a couple times. I was never needy or clingy. Clearly she still thinks we're seeing each other. Thoughts? Should I continue to see her or move the fuck on?

Thanks in advance