I'm not redpill yet but I'm slowly gravitating towards it, so please give me constructive criticism but cut me some slack as a 22 year old dumb kid

So I went traveling to Russia in August as part of a voluntary group, that's where I met this chick who was from turkey, we had a very intense month and she kinda treated me better than my ex of 14 months, we hooked up and were intimate that month and came back and continued to talk for months, she always initiated and dropped the L bomb on my birthday and I didn't reciprocate to that, but I was in love. She was more invested and said shit like she can still hear my voice and blah blah but obviously both of us agreed we can't date since we live in different continents and I can't see either of moving.

So now we haven't spoken for a month and she's in the Netherlands for her Erasmus project, and this is where I got hella mad. She sent a message on a group we are together saying she met a dude on tinder who was coughing a lot and recently came back from Italy so she ran away, now obviously I don't expect her to be a nun and she's not doing anything wrong but the massive disrespect to write that on a group I am in, while she used to get pissed at me forwarding her screenshots of a girl hitting on me ( I was shit testing her)

So obviously I knew we don't have a future but at the back of my mind I wondered maybe one day 5-6 years down the line, and I was gonna go visit her with a couple of other friends from our project in 4 months from now, but right now I feel I should just next her and forget about her, coz if I do go to visit her for 10 days I for sure will fall deeply In love, I'm a hopeless romantic which is what I'm looking to change now, or I'll keep getting burned.

I have unfollwed her on Instagram and told my best friend not talk about her to me ( he's friends with her too) coz she's always be on my mind if I keep discussing her with my mates. Is this the best thing to do? Am I right in feeling disrespected or am I overreacting? And please note I'm Indian so I was kinda raised blue pill culturally I guess. What do I need to do guys?