I fought with my gf for a couple of months because she was a spoilt brat. She admitted it herself and she called herself "independent."

She used to live off daddy's money and go out eating and buying random shit. She also used to eat on plastic coated paper plates (causes all other health problems). I argued with her to make her a better person and she resented me for it. I wanted her to become independent by telling her she's not independent etc and saying that she really needs to look after her health.

She wanted big things like a mansion, maid, nanny and a tennis court. Now she is doing another degree and will graduate in 2020. Lots of shit tests like "Will you protect me", just said "I don't believe in violence, stand your own ground"

I dodged a bullet but would like to learn from Day 9 of the Power Law: Win through your actions, never through argument.

Where did I go wrong and where can I improve. Thanks to TRP I've developed a IDGAF attitude now.