Went out to the bar on monday. I'm 25, talked to a 30+ year old with a 9 body (in clothes). We (in my mind) clicked well enough. Escalated to makout and ass grabbing. Didn't take her home since I was tipsy and let off the gas to easy when she said she had to go to bed. Great eye contact and banter with this one though, felt good about it.

Here's the deal though: She would pull away most of the times we kissed (faster than I could time). Also she had at least two beta orbiters at the bar who were trying to get her attention. One went as far as to call her and tell her he was leaving and she reassured him that they would meet up soon and she would buy him a shot.

I waited two days and called her. Tried to leave a message but her voicemail was fucked. She responds with a text: "dark_dragoon10 did you just call me? ;)" I don't respond since I'm not trying to enter her frame. After 30 mins or so she sends another text: "i'm going to be in your neighborhood tonight. Say hi -hername"

Don't respond, set an alert to call her again in a week, and went out with my "wingman" to the club instead.

Am I right in my logic that this girl isn't that into me (since she didn't return my call) and is just using me as validation and trying to add another orbiter to her herd? I mean a single hot girl in her 30's has so much manipulation experience to where she could be just gaming me for fun and trying to rape my time. It's like I was playing a chess game and didn't realize it till the next day.

I'm going to try being persistent on my own terms once or twice and if she doesn't bite then its NEXT ville. I feel like this could be a good learning experience if she does bite though which is why I don't just next her now.

Just trying to see if my logic needs adjustments and if so where. Thanks guys.