Anger Phase

RedPilkington · 2014-05-13T14:11:45+00:00

The anger comes from getting fucked over and or realizing how you got fucked over. Its when you find out that indeed everything that girl said to you was a cleverly crafted lie and you never stood a chance.

You don't need to be angry, and certainly it helps your game to be aloof, but the anger phase is important. Its the radical push most guys need to break out of their stupid habits. If you find yourself doing a lot of stupid beta shit, it might be of service to knock yourself over the head and get a bit angry.

SadFace959 · 2014-05-13T15:11:55+00:00

The anger phase is most likely proportional to how much of a "nice guy" you were before the red pill. If you weren't a "nice guy" and now you see that all you need to do is refine some behaviors to be more successful, why would you be angry?

RedBigMan · 2014-05-13T16:42:44+00:00

Anger Phase is only necessary when women have screwed you over.

If you're a young buck like a teenager just starting to get interested in girls the fact you learn this shit before you get screwed over means you do not necessarily have to go through an Anger phase.

Anger phase IMHO comes when you have already learned established blue pill ways and you need to unlearn those ways to make room for red pill behavior. Knowing the right way to approach things from the start is a huge advantage to younger TRP members.

Walktillyoucrawl · 2014-05-13T15:10:43+00:00

Short answer, yes you should have an angry phase (TRP style). I would say you either are too young (sexually) and don't have enough experiences to reflect on, or you have yet to grasp the full TRP mindset of seeing through the hamster.

raceAround126 · 2014-05-13T21:02:51+00:00

I have an anger phase I think. I don't feel abusive towards anyone, but I kinda feel more like I want to get what I want and I'm less considerate of peoples' feelings on the whole. I do pick myself up on it sometimes.

I guess it's trying to find the balance between maintaining frame and letting the fact that you feel betrayed and used affect your judgement.

I have two plates at the moment. One is wild in the bedroom. She's a 26 year old teacher. I dare say I have grudge fucked her a few times. I think she represents the wild and hot sex that everyone was having when I was 20 when girls friendzoned me left and right. Now I'm somebody, suddenly someone wants me. She's good with it though. She's said before she sees me for sex and nothing further. I'm happy with that. I really want nothing more than that from her either (she bores me)

I have another girl aswell and she's in no way as experienced as the teacher. She's younger but she's really sweet. I find myself not having to be that strict with her because she hasn't really honed her hamster I guess? She's an excellent conversationalist, does things for me outside the bedroom and when it's sexytime, is enthusiastic and takes instruction well (she's in training I guess hahaha). Weirdly, she reminds me of me when I was her age and it's like the world hasn't fucked her head up so much yet. She's independent, listens to metal music like me and not only has cool interests, takes an interest in mine. I'm taking her racing in a couple of weeks, she's teaching me some archery this weekend.

So for me, a complete ying and yang thing going on.

MrEiffel · 2014-05-14T11:34:25+00:00

If you haven't gotten divorced in the US and lost your children and your finances and/or have deep mental wounds from an abusive beta relationship, an anger phase is not needed.

I got married at 21, wife left me at 29 because she just didn't love me anymore (aka I lost my job & got fat). I discovered the redpill by chance and everything I learned here has allowed to understand my marriage and what went wrong.

My life is a lot better now that I'm single so I wish my ex who just went past the wall all the luck while I enjoy spinning plates.

Zackcid · 2014-05-15T07:29:42+00:00

Anger phase has a purpose.

Unless you're a millionaire basking in pussy and are self-actualized, you haven't escaped the anger phase. It's still lurking in your near future, I promise you that.

phaseonx11 · 2014-05-15T18:29:35+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tmbtb/why_is_this_working/ce9d6m7

Title	Anger Phase
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	May 13, 2014 1:55 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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