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1

You're welcome. Therapy is always good man.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:28 PM
2

You were doing alright but jumped the gun too eaely
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:48 PM
6

Next
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:37 PM
3

You really need to start fucking women that at least have a semblance of intellect lol
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:31 PM
54

The fuck you mean you had an honest marriage lol it's not honest if you're the only one being honest
/r/askTRP16/08/16 12:39 AM
-2

Hey man. It's really dumb to self diagnose. If you think you have an issue, go see a therapist.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:07 AM
9

To be real, I don't really see a reason why you should take her back. She's already fucked. It can only get worse
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:06 AM
2

Lol, why the fuck would you say that mid sex? You already got in and you shot yourself in the foot. For no reason
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:22 AM
6

TRP is becoming increasingly racist
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 01:46 AM
1

The only cure is exactly that; To have this woman take him for everything he has. And I bet you even after that nothing changes.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:21 PM
2

And the horse can choose to die
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:19 PM
2

It's not gonna do shit. This man is hopeless while he is still involved with that woman. The sooner you come to terms with it, the sooner you can shift the effort you're putting into this.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:19 PM
3

Lol
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:02 PM
4

Yes
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:02 PM
4

I agree with you. It's indoctrination.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:01 PM
3

I understand that you want to help your friend. It's a noble sentiment, but I'll repeat it again; Your friend is hopeless (while he's still associated with that woman). Only those that feel there's a problem and look for help are able to improve. Just like everyone else on here. Nothing you do or say will change him because he's so immersed in her illusion that he takes it as reality. Nothing you do or say that doesn't conform to this reality will be considered because it's inconvenient and caus…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:00 PM
41

Your friend is hopeless. Only those that want to be helped can be. Don't go down with his ship.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:18 AM
3

Hahaha.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 07:57 AM
0

True. But not in front of people and not in a corporate setting. That's just his friend trying to make him look like a bitch.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 07:55 AM
2

Breaking it down to the most basic concept for you right here; Its because you let them. And so people got used to it.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:08 AM
11

Depends. My experience has been very attractive girls tend to be boring as shit. Makes sense, nobody ever tells these girls that they're bad in bed because most dudes are happy to be sleeping with them at all. The less attractive a girl is, the harder she usually tries in bed.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:21 AM
1

Sorta. Be more assertive. Make plans.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:22 PM
2

Best of luck dude. Would be a real shit situation to be in.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:57 AM
3

The advice still holds. Keep doing it until you're not uncomfortable anymore.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:38 AM
1

Because they can't do the same and to soften their inadequacy not only to themselves but the people around them, they are trying to make you feel as if you were doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:35 AM
1

And my question to you would be, did you know this going in? If you did then shit man, what were you doing in there in the first place?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:32 AM
2

Yeah, you're developing a one-itis
/r/askTRP27/09/15 09:22 PM
1

Save the messages and fucking abort dude. Abort. Seriously, there are too many girls out there for you to be dealing with this bullshit. Whatever you do, don't let her drag your ass any further.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 09:19 PM
1

Hey uh... I don't think glitches like that exist.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 08:44 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP15/08/15 04:39 AM
6

A lot of this stuff is very try hard. Laugh it off. You thought it was funny, you heard his/her opinion but it's not going to change yours. So just laugh and ignore it. If anything, laugh toward their general direction. Shit, point at them while you do it if you want.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 05:50 AM
1

An accidental threesome... Seriously? Lol.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:51 AM
1

Make sure she's 18
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:49 AM
0

Because 9/10, being attractive and having a pussy is enough for most guys.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:32 AM
8

What the fuck? Why would you even consider any option besides 3?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:30 AM
1

?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:26 AM
5

Laugh harder.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 04:14 AM
5

The fuck? Dude. If you're unhappy, leave lol. It's not very complicated. Fuck what everyone else tells you. Do not let anyone shame you, they're simply trying to make you compliant and to make being unhappy acceptable. They will try to put you down but in reality, yeah. You didn't talk to her because of anything else besides the fact that you wanted to fuck her.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:17 AM
1

Not saying that she is fucking him rn, but he is most likely "on the radar" or perhaps she was afraid of being "mean" (or that's her rationalization for it anywaus)
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:50 AM
4

Trolling?
/r/askTRP03/08/15 05:00 AM
1

Next
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:45 AM
3

Why in the fuck would he feed her ego like that? lol
/r/askTRP12/07/15 09:55 PM
1

That's a life of mediocrity and not one that anybody should have the intent of living.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:33 AM
3

This one is easy: You don't.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 10:00 PM
2

I don't think your head is in a position to pursue such a tactic. Why is your smv lower than hers?
/r/askTRP06/06/15 10:31 AM
2

Watch as she does, not as she says.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 09:24 AM
1

You're getting gamed. Don't be, yet another chump, on her list.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 09:17 AM
1

Next.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 03:10 PM
3

Weekday coffee date usually works best for first dates in my experience.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 03:48 PM
-1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:41 PM
2

I feel like this response would make you look pretty bad. Unless the girl is dorky, in which case it might work.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:40 PM
0

Hahaha, not advisable though.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:37 PM
1

Not advisable.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:37 PM
2

Realistically, no.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:36 PM
1

Just as has been often repeated here, agree and amplify. It's not about being fakely witty or coming up with cool lines. It's about letting her know that her saying stupid shit like that is funny to you in a covert enough way and being of strong enough character that it doesn't shake you in the slightest. I mean. Did you not laugh when she said that?
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:28 PM
1

This sounds desperate.
/r/seduction24/12/14 05:17 AM
1

"I guess you'll find out."
/r/askTRP06/12/14 05:14 AM
1

Bruh. Why you white knighting though?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:32 AM
1

Delete them?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 01:10 PM
1

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA XD
/r/TRPOffTopic28/07/14 07:21 AM
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You can't help her and please stop being a retarded chump. Why are you giving into this bullshit? Why are you seeing this as something YOU need to help her cope with? Why is this even something you'd consider putting up with? You have no reason to apologize for your past with other girls. Neither do you have to suffer on the basis of it because of some external entity. HOW the FUCK does that have anything to do with her? How does you putting your dick into somebody else, long before you ever met…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:45 AM
1

to be fair, never get married
/r/TRPOffTopic09/06/14 02:35 AM
1

I'm teaching math in Beijing Think about your situational bias.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:02 AM
1

Wonder why that is?
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:33 PM
1

Yeah, yeah. Wanted to tell you the diff is all.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:30 AM
1

Mannn. I get you. I am patient, but the thing is. I don't think they will be XD lol.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:29 AM
1

Trust that I do. I like giving it rough. Very much so. I'm a little sadistic. I've tried both ways. (Being medium or being gentle VS ape man mode) Which one do you think it is they enjoy most? lol To be quite honest, it's usually out of sheer laziness. After I get my nut. I'm just like, yep. I'm good. But it makes sense. It's weird. I don't usually feel performance anxiety, but doing no fap makes me worry about not lasting. Ergo I'm shooting myself in the foot.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:28 AM
1

Has this technique worked for you? Will def give these books a read. Most of the stuff I read I sorta laughed at. Not because of the technique but just they way they explained it, felt like I was reading hippie manuscripts with a bunch of nonsensical BS.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:23 AM
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I really hope not.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:01 AM
2

Aweee. Thank you, you're so nice. :] Here's an upvote.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:00 AM
3

DING DING DING DING We have a winner. Achievement unlocked: "never be a chump bitch again"
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:42 AM
2

Seriously, lol. I'm facepalming hard as I read a lot of these comments.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:41 AM
1

You know, I'm not sure. That's the only snippet I over heard. I suppose is Ms. Shamoo was saying that to him, he was probably an asshole? The shit eating grin he had seemed to confident for him to be on the latter side of your question.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:38 AM
1

You're using it in the wrong context, that's why you're being downvoted to hell. What you're saying only works in the following manner: Don't ever take dating advice from girls Don't ever give a girl what she wants easily, even if she's constantly asking for it. Don't be constantly doing shit for her/buying her shit Etc. Honestly, just read number one. That's mostly it in a nutshell. The post was just a hilarious example as to how girls don't even know why the fuck they are attracted to the thin…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:32 AM
1

Hooray! Someone who gets the point.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:30 AM
2

I would allow all of you to publicly castrate me if I ever wore a fedora or stopped giving a shit about my appearance to the extent that I would allow for myself to grow a neckbeard. Fedoras. Neck beards. shivers No. Just. No. 2awesome. 2goodlooking.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:29 AM
2

Lol, what? I don't really care how this whale of a girl or random dude perceived me. If some random girl (who I have no interest in) and some random dude (who I don't know at all) perceive me as a psychopath... So what? Company is big enough that I'll probably never see them again, lol. I laughed and did a spit take because I found it funny and wanted to laugh. No shit were given. Do you constantly think about how people perceive you? Dat low social freedom. Lol. Domo arigato. Know when and how …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:28 AM
4

I'm getting soaked in the river you're crying ovah here ovah here. My dude. This is something I overheard which I found fucking hilarious. When a girl publicly asks themselves, Why is it I like assholes over nice guys? And there's someone there who knows why, that person find it funny. It perfectly illustrates a red pill principle. The format is not relevant. Plus; IS MY INTERWEBZ, I DO WHAT I WANT.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:23 AM
1

I agree, but you see... You can only last 3 minutes on them for so many times before they stop answering your calls/text messages. No matter how awesome my personality is, no matter how confident I am, no matter what my skillset or value is. If I can't fuck em' good. They are not coming back.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 02:06 PM
2

Where's my pleasure? I don't really get that much out of foreplay. Foreplay is more for her, I don't need it. lol.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:34 PM
3

^ What he said. Trust me, I know how bad nofap is. Jesus christ... might as well be a bluepill sect but you know. For a lot of people it's a good start towards eventually discovering TRP.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:33 PM
4

No. That would be the end of her "in heat" period. "In heat" would be when she's ovulating. Source: I a med student. I have to know this shit. I don't feel like I could "fuck the living shit" out of somebody in three minutes.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:32 PM
1

I have tried this approach. Didn't do anything for me, it's the sensitivity I have a problem with when doing Nofap.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:31 PM
1

Takes me a while to be "ready" again after the first time. And it's just not as good for me tbh. Quality of the stiffy is lacking.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:30 PM
2

I'm giving a real life example of a Red Pill concept, relevant. Don't see what you're getting at lol.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:29 PM
7

When you (whosyourdaddynow) have no rational arguments, it's better just to shut up. JS
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:28 PM
3

"Don't shit where you eat" Day 1 stuffs!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:26 PM
14

In break room Overhears conversation between two people Girl complains about always liking assholes over "nice" guys and asking why that is Red Pill confirmed, will never doubt again.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:14 AM
13

Ahhhh. Dam, didn't even realize I was getting trolled. XD That's a good one. Sly. Nahhhh. This girl is easily twice my size. Snu snu is not in the cards for me. I don't want to be smothered by a fattie. Hey! Maybe when you're done polishing your white armor you can give me tips on how to pick up teh danzels and I can teach you a little bit about how to better spend your time? Let me know!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:11 AM
8

This was a conversation I overheard. I had no direct interaction with either of them.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:11 AM
2

What they did to this man was cruel. Cruel but no surprising. "Emotional distress..." "I didn't do anything wrong! It was all him!" Look at that emotional manipulation. They use crying as a weapon. As leverage.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:48 AM
5

"Now you've got the cover." Hahaha. Genius.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:45 AM
2

I laughed my ass off at the top comment because I couldn't believe it was real. Seriously? 0.0 Why is that?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:42 AM
3

I think it's hilarious how the rest of Reddit says we're sociopaths/evil/blahdyblah. And yet... Would any of you think like that? If you follow the pill, probably not. We know that if we want something, we must put forth the effort and cunning to achieve. That nothing is given to us and the we ourselves are responsible for our live and the joy within them and that we are the only people who we owe that to. Only a sociopathic/narcissist would believe the world owes them something simply for exist…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:24 AM
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I don't really care. I don't see how it affects me or anybody who isn't gay. If you wanna fuck dude. Fuck dudes. If you like something; You like something.
/r/TRPOffTopic04/06/14 07:01 AM
1

Or just...You know. Not "date" a girl?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:53 AM
2

Atta boy. Ease em in.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 12:22 AM
1

Even if you wanted to, I don't think there's anything you could do to save him. It's too late at this point.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:31 AM
1

I tried it for a month and a half or so. I stopped because I didn't like the fact I lasted less than 5 minutes before splodin when about 20 was my baseline at "full power". Expected it to change. It didn't. Didn't enjoy sex as much because of it.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:09 AM
1

In me there was a tiny amount of hope that perhaps you'd be reasonable. It's dead now, and since I can't achieve that. I'm out like a boyscout.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 11:58 AM
1

I'm not seeing what your end goal is and again, these are all just your opinions which don't carry any weight here. At this point I'm thinking it's because you're getting off on the attention. A small percentage of the total sum does not negate the majority. Again, making it painfully obvious that you're unable to be rational. Surprise. Even if you want to argue that TRP is an opinion... Allright. I don't care what your opinion is or what you believe in. And it's pretty obvious that it is the sa…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 11:36 AM
1

Not sure I'd want to honestly... I suppose if we want to stay away from people like each other, then all is well.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 11:04 AM
1

No, not usually. Tone has a lot to do with it.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 04:43 PM
4

Speak for yourself broseph. I've never gotten good head, to the point where I'm sort of dissuaded of even trying anymore. I can't come from it and eventually it just gets to the point where I'm bored. Just rather plow.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 09:15 PM
1

Idk dude. I think if I was to ever hear that story from someone, I'd laugh my ass off and high five them. It's hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 09:12 PM
1

Meh. If you have enough women around you, letting one go isn't the big of a deal. Obviously I would not tell her to "Hey, get the fuck out.". That's too direct and we all know most of them can't handle that. I don't really care if she doesn't actually want to leave. Operating from this premise doesn't make sense to me. It's wasted effort to keep her there neither do I give enough of a shit to try. If you REALLY want her poon so bad, they I got news for you son. You're probably not getting laid v…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 08:59 PM
2

Rational arguments: 0
/r/askTRP18/05/14 12:28 PM
1

>Bitches about state of earth, humanity, and earth's capacity and uses it as justification for argument. >Still okay enough to keep existing. Iotas of coherence: 0
/r/askTRP18/05/14 12:25 PM
1

Nope. Not only are you making yourself sound ignorant, but yet again, for the nth time, you are unable to think outside yourself and are taking something, twisting it, and then stating it as fact. Our reasons for fucking are probably the same as yours: Your biology and your "animal" brain tell your conscious one that you find certain things attractive in the opposite sex (or whatever it is you're attracted to) which causes arousal; Mostly, thought it's because you want to and because it feels da…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 12:18 PM
1

We're talking about you here buddy, lol. Are you? (This is a joke, but if I'm actually correct. Spare me the details. )
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:55 AM
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I got to agree with him on this one. Why would you fight to keep a girl who's wants to leave? Fuck it. Let her leave. Sure, have your laughs before she leaves but anything more than that is pleading. How badly do you want this specific girl? If you only intent was hooking up with her and stops you mid blowjob only to tell you she thinks she should go, why would you want her there? I agree with her. She should most def gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:50 AM
21

Dear god, yes. Why not? This shit is hilarious and if a girl pulls that mid blow, who gives a fuck what the consequences are? It's amusing as hell.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:39 AM
-1

"I'm the guy you're going to pretend to be fucking for the rest of your life." Funny, but true. We are a rarity.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:37 AM
1

Consistency is key. You start seeing that change, you cut line ASAP. Do not put yourself in a position to be shit on.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:27 AM
6

Yeah. She sees you're moving up and probably feels this is a threat to her ability to secure your commitment. She's preparing up for the fact that you're going to be in a position in which she will not the best you can attain and most importantly, to blind you this leverage.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:25 AM
9

Haha XD def. However I don't think you'd odds of finding out are high. None of her friends would tell you. They were probably cheering her on as it happened.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:16 AM
10

If you're just out looking for a shag, absolutely. Don't forget to mention wedding which I would say make it ostensibly easier. Holy crap do girls go crazy at weddings...
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:14 AM
3

I'm not sure, but considering society celebrates them simply for existing. They probably feel it's a lot more than 3.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:10 AM
1

Did not know about this site, spent 30 mins reading. Will set as startup browser tab. Gold.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:06 AM
1

This shit brought a metaphorical tear of pride to my eye.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:02 AM
1

"YOU DONT WANT THE TRUTH SUCKA, YOU CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH" - Mr. T, arguably one of the most memorable RP characters of the day.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:01 AM
2

Let me cut to the chase and tell you exactly what you need to do: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's pathetic and you're not doing yourself any justice by behaving this way. Doing your best to accept your fate? Seriously dude? Do you realize how stupid and naive that sounds? There is no fate. There is only you, your drive and your decisions and consequences of those decisions. You are deciding to be unhappy. You are deciding not to learn game. You are deciding to not be the man you want to be…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 10:52 AM
1

That analogy is gold.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 10:25 AM
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DONT. Holy shit I'm glad I saved you from this one. You can't directly talk to 99.99% of dudes about redpill. It's too much of a system schock and the cognitive dissonance they feel will only make them Infinitely resent you no matter how much the facts are in your favor. Subtle, palatable, situational explanations will help you achieve the same goal without shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 10:21 AM
2

On your comments about my previous post and addressing your misconceptions: We're dealing with a subjective issue here and what I said does not specifically have to do with women. Bias. You're taking something I said and extrapolating a flawed conclusion from it. It is moreso general purpose advice to deal with the situation of fucking up. Don't matter who or what they are. On our difference in views and why and how they are different: Valuable in what way? Think about that critically for a seco…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 09:28 AM
1

You sound like the type of girl that I'd probably fuck once and then never call again, if it hasn't already happened to you. Give it time, if you are who you say you are I guarantee you it will. You can fuck crazy, but you don't date crazy. Describing yourself as insane probably puts you a step above crazy. Not being honest with yourself in terms of what you're attracted to, and once again, you're showing a poignant inability to think outside of yourself or your own little "bubble". The other po…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 06:22 AM
3

!Wall of informational text separated by what each section addresses! Who you are referring to and why they feel the way they do, on the "slut" and "bitch" labels, on the attempts to alter what is attractive behavior and what is not: Straw red piller's or people who haven't gotten over the "anger phase" yet when they've realized society has pretty much indoctrinated us with this delusional Disney like paradigm of how things work. Everyone here has been through it. Nobody who's been here for more…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 06:16 AM
2

Actually, given our interactions I find you respectable. It's a lot more than a can say for many others that come here for "answers and understanding". Just continue behaving the way you are now and keep an open mind. All will be good.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 05:42 AM
1

No it doesn't make you a whore. And of course you haven't. It makes you someone who is incapable of debate without vomiting their bias all over the discussion which is arguably worse. At least whores have something to offer. As hard as you may want it to, your anecdotal evidence doesn't negate the trend. And if that were true, then darling, in any case; You make yourself sound like exactly the type these "rules" would apply to. So I'm guessing it's a coincidence that I've seen an almost exact du…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 05:40 AM
1

Enjoy your stay. So long as you're civil and don't troll, lol.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 04:03 AM
2

The idea is to establish an identity level change for the better so that you can mold yourself into the highest quality individual possible. Don't confuse this with PUA bullshit. Not to be the ultimate alpha, but simply not to be a fucking pussy. To always have self respect, to better yourself and take everything you do to the next level, to not put up with bullshit, to never operate from a scarcity mentality, to be fearless and confident, to always put yourself and your goals above those of eve…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 04:00 AM
2

You and I are different then. This my approach to the situation of fucking up. Is it dishonest? Somewhat. It all depends on how you truly feel about the situation. Are you TRULY sorry? If you are it doesn't really matter how you express it. So long as you do something about it. Focus on the zero sum here and attempt to separate yourself from the idealized (politically correct) version of what an apology should be like. That is entirely neutral, without taking any responsibility onto himself at a…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 03:50 AM
1

Good idea.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 02:32 AM
2

Living in the real means using rational and factual factors to determine your conclusions or paths of actions. Knowing how to remove yourself emotionally from a situation and look at as objectively as possible. Never listening to what people say but always paying attention to what they do. Basically, living life with your feet firmly planted in the ground.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 08:51 PM
1

No you're not. That's the complete opposite of what you're trying to do. Lol.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 07:53 PM
1

To her? Meh. I wouldn't expect a GW posting addict to accept any of the premises above. They are, after all, the exact behavioral trope we talk about. As I said, she doesn't like reality. There isn't much anybody can do about that.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 07:03 PM
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Have had that happen to me as well. It the most childish thing. Oh... So... you're going to try to keep me as a hostage? In your own house? Legal/Ass saving Protip: If something similar happens with anybody else in the future, take out your phone and start filming. Ask them: "please move out of the way because you are blocking the exit to the building and I wish to vacate and am being held against your my own will. If they start screaming at you, or doing anything else besides letting you out, a…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 09:18 AM
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Yeah, that's exactly it.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 07:34 AM
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It's very obvious that you don't care about the rationale behind any of this, much less understanding it or why it makes sense to anybody. You aren't using any rational explanations of your opinions and are asking a ton of questions that deny that fact that WE ARE ANIMALS in the end. Let's begin dissecting your argument: You're extrapolating some kind of reality based on your subjective truths, and then you go on to question things based on those notions and use a crap ton of flawed logic to for…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:26 AM
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Oh FFS. Probably better than I. My kneejerk response would be to simply tell at her to get out the fuck out of my house or I'll call the police. Unless you lived with her. Which would be fucked.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:24 AM
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Addendum: He spoke about it briefly, but I cannot stress the importance of knowing that your LARGEST "weapon" is the ability to walk away. Have some self-respect, if she did something or said something that is a deal breaker in your book, make it apparent that you will walk. Most importantly, say what you say you're going to do. If she does it again, WALK. If you stay she'll see you a pushover she can just shit all over. Nothing justifies putting up with that sort of shit. Never lower yourself t…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:15 AM
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It def sounds fucked up, but it reminds me of boning someone very very roughly. To the point where you leave marks and shit, the way they squirm. It def has to do with the feeling of taking power. It's slightly sadistic in both cases.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:09 AM
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DING DING DING DING
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:06 AM
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Ah. So this is what happened. Better response would have been to say "I wasn't listening to you.". If she feels like repeating herself, she will. If not, then it probably wasn't that important to begin with. It would be to your benefit to train yourself out of these behaviors. Any girls that you are seeing cannot have the image of you as someone who can snap so easily, someone who is emotionally/mentally unstable. They will run and fast. Congruent thinking, congruent actions. If you are truly an…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:06 AM
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You're contradicting yourself here. He did admit he was wrong and I don't believe there is anything wrong with that statement. Think what you wanted was a paragraph of self-depreciation. Or perhaps something more heartfelt, I suppose. However, this statement goes to the crux of any situation. Mistakes WERE made. You apologize and you move on, exactly as you said a "True Alpha" TM does.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 06:00 AM
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We need more details to give you advice that is specific to your situation. There is a lot more at play here than you think. Genuine question: How's your self esteem? Are you doing this because you still feel insecure around/about women so you feel the need to denigrate them without reason? Asking because long ago, I used to do the same.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:50 AM
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i.e. you liked a picture on facebook(I nearly lost my shit when that happened). Get the fuck out dude. Has this seriously happened to you? 0.0
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:47 AM
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Women's sense of guilt comes from an emotional, rather than a logical analysis of the situation, it's much closer to that of a child. If you show her that you're humbly backing off sometimes, she won't take this as a mark of reason and restraint the way a man would, she'll simply understand you're a pushover and she just needs to be more hysterical to get her way. So you have to show that you're always right, even when you're wrong you are right because you can firmly and calmly state that you w…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:38 AM
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Lol, why are you here?
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:35 AM
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Use this: "Mistakes were made and learned from." That's it. Works everytime. This is my trademark line. You don't look like a weakling, you're not supplicating and you're not lying. You made a mistake and you learned from it. PS: Never apologize for something you're not ACTUALLY sorry for. If you're not sorry, don't say you are. Let the person kick and scream while you laugh it off. If you TRULY truly and RATIONALLY came to the conclusion that the other person holds the blame entirely then do no…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:27 AM
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I don't see much honesty on red pill, but this gives me hope. Elaborate.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:23 AM
1

So then what is a beta? Simply someone who lets others control him, whether from ignorance, fear, or brainwashing. An alpha uses his own *factual reasoning,rationality and living in "The Real" to determine what is best. You don't really need answers to your question, you need someone to bounce thoughts off of. That's best done in person, in my experience.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:20 AM
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Whoa. Calibrate a little bit there. It's a fine FINE balance. It's fun and effective to tease or jokingly be an asshole, but probably not to the extent that you'd make someone cry for no reason. Unless you enjoy that type of sadistic shit. Then go you. However, if you make someone cry and it was justified i.e they did something consciously, regardless of what bullshit excuses they are giving you at the moment, I would not feel the smallest iota of remorse for causing them to cry. Editorial conte…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 05:18 AM
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Funny enough, I don't get that often. When I mess around like that, they tend to laugh or say "Staaaaaaap, why are you so mean?" To which I sometimes reply things like: "Don't pretend like you don't like it." "Good to hear." "Lady gaga told me I was born this way." "Are you always this sensitive?" <- tone is important. Or simply just ignore it. If you tell me to stop/call me an asshole/mean/any other stupid insults with a big ass smile, it's impossible for me to take you seriously. I get "You're…
/r/askTRP17/05/14 03:54 AM
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Comfort and validation are two different things. You do well to not give validation when they express their insecurities. If they really gave that much of a shit, they'd do something to improve on their insecurities as I'm sure many of us have. I used to be 30 pounds overweight and had a shitty physical self image, but one day I just decided. "You know, I'm tired of being unhappy. So I'm going to do something about it. I can't blame anybody for my issues or the way I feel about them and neither …
/r/askTRP17/05/14 03:46 AM
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Noted. Forgot that's how I usually get away with saying shit like that, lol. "I'm not joking. I'm actually an asshole. You only THINK I'm joking."
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:22 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tmbtb/why_is_this_working/ce9d6m7
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:29 PM
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This is simple. There is no "good" response except not to give a fuck. She's probably tired of her dude and she's attempting to branch swing but she saw that wasn't going to happen. I warn you, if you respond to this (ask what's wrong, try and talk to her, etc.), you will be fucked. She wants you to chase at this point, but fuck that. Don't. Lol. You rejected her so she got butthurt or realized that she was wasting her time and that she wasn't going to be able to secure your commitment. The upsi…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:21 PM
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She's either catching feelings or testing your limits, either way you won. myniggah.jpg
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:19 PM
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"Acknowledging her insecurities on minor shit like that just means you are elevating her and putting her on the pedestal."
/r/askTRP15/05/14 05:59 PM
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Cool beans. Safe to say I passed this one. Actually, the way it played out in my head was this: "I don't know if you're being genuine or not, but either way, I'm just being who I am. If you feel stupid, that's your problem."
/r/askTRP15/05/14 08:21 AM
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No. I never thought anyone worth marrying, but now I KNOW nobody is worth marrying. I've always felt that it's stupid to think you could be with someone for more than a few years without both of you changing into completely different people. Think of yourself two years ago, lol. Therefore, the "point" of marriage (and,imo, all monogamy by extension except for those who specifically want to raise a child) is moot. Why be with someone for so long when you can constantly be getting to know girls an…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:40 AM
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Good man. Not being needy is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:14 AM
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Trying is not enough my friend. To win, you have to play. Your shooting yourself in the foot. Group date? Why? A group date won't get you anywhere at your current level. You'd have to isolate her to even kiss her or talk to Flirt with her in a somewhat sexual way. And to do that you're going to have to learn how to handle a date on your own and get results from that first.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:13 AM
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A guide and analyzation of the concepts illustrated within this video: Saturday June 2nd: A pathetic attempt to make him jealous. And cool. Congratulations on being a cunt. June 5th: PFTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT. "The one". Pls. "I hate you, you'll never see me again. Don't talk to me." "I feel kinda sorry for you". Me too... for being such a psychopath. June 8th: Yall know, usually when a girl says she hates you... lol. June 10th: The BP ninja gets his. He knows this scenario because he's probably …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:01 AM
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How would you respond to something like this? You say you cannot pass with aloofness, so then. How do you pass? By not being a pussy and escalating?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:24 AM
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Tempted, but have you?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:22 AM
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Too overt of an expression of interest for my taste. I would never let a girl know that I I am interested in her to the extent that I would ask her for a second date/explicitly express interest in a second date right after the first one. It's needy and it inflates her ego. You are lowering your value in comparison to hers. You don't make yourself seem like the prize , but rather you want to see her so badly that right before she goes home you're asking already asking her out again. It sounds a b…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 06:59 PM
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Infinite strength is remaining calm and in control during those moments where everyone is panicking. Good man.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 06:50 PM
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An actual relationship is an equal partnership between two people. You must be new here.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:46 AM
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Juxtapose negative emotion with positive?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:45 AM
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Don't you trust me? I would answer "Trust has nothing to do with it. My problems are mine and for me to deal with." If you really loved me you would tell me how you feel Just straight up laugh in her face and tell her that using love as a bargaining tool is stupid. Or I'd flip shit. Ex: if you really love me, you'd let me fuck you in the pooper How would yall reply to the above questions?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:41 AM
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Yep yep. I don't think there's anything like brotherhood.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:38 AM
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You give her an emotional connection. Just not the one she is verbally asking for. Spewing your emotions and problems at a girl/ltr is pointless. It's a trap.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:36 AM
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Dude, I don't even know you and just by reading that, I respect you. Showing stoicism and strength while going through one of the most painful experiences a person could ever endure shows an acute ability to control your emotions despite your circumstances. I know most of the people in this thread will be hardasses (Anger is the only emotion a man should show/can show), but how can you not feel sadness and pain when someone who you've known, loved and been raised by passes? You are not machines,…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:17 AM
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"and I said I’d like to see you again and she said okay." No.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:08 AM
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At first when I read this I thought to myself "wtf, how does that make any sense?" and my second thought was "Ohhhhhhh...right. Fuck, lol."
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 05:04 AM
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Honestly, it depends. I once was seeing a petite girl who had a kid young. It was the tightest. Think it has to do more with her physical frame.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 03:22 AM
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I would have just looked at her eyes and smirked. By saying "Yeah?" you made her think she was being rejected/wanted to change the subject. She responded the whole kickboxing thing because she was looking for an "out". She felt awkward/rejected and steered away from it as fast as she could.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 08:44 AM
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"I don't want any labels but as corny as it sounds I just need to know that you actually care for me before I go any further." Ooooooof. That hamster though. Does she know about this other girl? Because that would make it doubly hilarious. If I were you, I'd just tell her that I know she doesn't like labels, but you're labeling her lame. And that you'll remove the label once she stops being lame and "shows you how much she cares about you" Chuckle when you say that last part.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 08:40 AM
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You know how when you first start to meet a girl there's a period of time in where you get to know her? Okay. Now diverge that onto two or more people. If she tries for a relationship that you don't want, either redirect their attention towards something else, tease them about it, or just be say you're happy this way and she is too. And if she's not, she can leave.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 08:29 AM
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Don't know of if troll or...?
/r/askTRP19/04/14 05:32 AM
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You can share your problems. It's just that girls aren't the people do it with. That's why you should have close male friends, your Bros. Shit hits the fan a good friend is someone you can depend on. Although learning to reframe problems is a better option. So you got a lower grade, don't be sad about it. Make sure that the next time you have an exam you study better. Learn from your mistakes and take real actions to correct them. Feeling bad is useless. It's like standing still when you see a c…
/r/askTRP13/04/14 12:57 AM
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Story time? Story time.
/r/askTRP12/04/14 02:33 AM
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/r/askTRP11/04/14 04:41 AM
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So long as people understand this essential fact, we should all be good.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 04:35 AM
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Studying Medicine doesn't mean auto alpha. Some of the biggest pussies I know are med students. Story time: I used to be friends with someone who was studying cardiothoracic surgery. Full ride, which even included a decent monthly stipend. He was dating a girl for about two months before he invited her on a trip to South Florida. Flight. Decent room. Food. Everything. Booked and paid for everything ahead of time. Two days before the trip, the girl tells him that she's really sorry but that she d…
/r/askTRP11/04/14 04:14 AM
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Understanding it in a practical sense is easy. If a girl can dispose of you or use you to gain someone of higher value/material goods (free dinners, financial support, free drinks, etc) ; she will. Might be off putting, but the beauty of TRP is that you learn to recognize when you're being used and how to handle it, and the mechanisms of how they evaluate value in men. Knowing the system we have an awareness of the world that the majority of men lack and are therefore able to "cheat" it.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 04:03 AM
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Dam dude. This is TRP 101. Never ever share your problems with any girl, unless it's your mother. You need to talk to someone, talk to one of your close friends. Write it down. It is okay to be vulnerable, we are human after all. You just have to be strategic about when and who you show this vulnerability to. Girls don't want to be your emotional support. They want YOU to be the anchor in the shit storm that is the female mind. If you show signs of an inability to deal with things/be strong (vul…
/r/askTRP11/04/14 03:26 AM
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And you're locked in/dating someone who won't fuck you... Not sure why you'd mention that, lol. You're not on higher ground so to speak.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 12:37 PM
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Spare us. Mr./Ms. Holier than thou, Sexual strategy is amoral. Nobody is encouraging you or anybody to do anything they don't want to. What you're saying is irrational. You're shaming tactics sound like they're straight out of a girl who's butthurt about being cheated on. We (those who you disagree with) simply play it more machevelian than you do. I put myself and my self interest over that of any girl or her emotions. Why wouldn't I? Why would I put someone over myself? My balls are the exactl…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 06:26 AM
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Don't see nothing wrong with that. Dude just didn't want to waste his time waiting. Sounds like me. To each his own. Just remember that there are no such things as unicorns.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 05:54 AM
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They shouldn't. "you gotta keep em separated". Keep a password on your phone/sign out of your FB, or whatever website you use when using your computer/put a password on your computer and never leave your computer without either looking the screen or signing out/keep your dates in order. Don't double book unless you know you can make up an excuse to flake. Never ever tell any of these girls your password to ANYTHING. When it comes up, usually it'll be in the form of "Are you talking to anyone els…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 05:00 AM
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You can do whatever you want, you're a free man. TRP isn't a religion. You can have female friends and they can function as a social proofing additive. I don't see the point of it though. I can't stand to be around most girls for more than a few hours. Might be cool for awhile, but eventually the conversation topic devolves into either her drama, gossip, stupid reality shows, her friends drama or some other crap I have absolutely no interest in discussing. They don't offer me much. To each his o…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 03:28 AM
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It is not a single mentality. You can be fun, and you can be aggressive. You must learn to be shades of Grey. You just have to know when. Change your attitude contextually. Be aware of what's going on in front of you. However in all situations. Don't be a pussy, have self respect, hold frame. Call her out on her shit. Stand up for yourself, etc.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 12:02 AM
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Yes it is weak. You have to be in a constant state of knowing that at any moment any girl you're with could walk off and fuck someone. You have to be strong enough and detached enough to not give a shit about this fact and quickly bounce back if it does. This is mostly why LTR's aren't a good idea. Fuck commitment lol, fuck having worry about that shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:58 PM
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/redpillwoman Scoot.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:50 PM
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Loves opportunistically and will not care how long or how many times or how much effort you have put into her in the past. Cheating lying whore who will cheat, leave you, take your money, the house, the kids and the car and turn the kids against you. Do you see how you're contradicting yourself here? Nothing is off limits, so long as she gets what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:48 PM
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True. Recognize your "gaps" and work to improve upon them. Physical or otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:48 PM
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I understand. He got good at spotting it. Your grandma's comment about having to know how men work made me cringe hard though.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:43 PM
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Yeah... Lol.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:31 PM
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Picture someone who is unconsciously a clinical narcissist with sociopathic tendencies. Bam. I have just described your opponent. Read field reports for that sort of info. Or head over to the asktrp sub for a myriad of examples, most of which you will see are reoccurring patterns. You either accept the terms of the game and play or you don't. The latter is beneficial to the rest of us, the former requires technique, a cool head and some effort. If you do it right you have no real reason to put u…
/r/askTRP09/04/14 07:28 AM
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Hope she's presenting herself as she truly is and not as she wants you to see her. I was under the impression that girls like this didn't exist. Best of luck and remember. Don't let your guard down completely.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 05:16 AM
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Why do you think she's worth it? You ever ask yourself if you're catching oneitis?
/r/askTRP09/04/14 12:02 AM
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oh lol.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 12:00 AM
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The domino effect literally fucks your brain the first time you experience it. It's surreal. You don't really understand why it happens and I suppose most people don't care but that's why TRP is interesting to me. A lot of it is based on biology and psychology.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 12:00 AM
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This is weird because I've never had to put it into words or written a "How to get laid" guide but here it goes. Drawing a little inspiration from I can remember from my last trip to my hometown a couple of days ago where I spent some time with an old ex-gf. That and I sat here for about 10 minutes thinking about the specifics of what it is I do. Will make it as general as possible though. Your mileage may vary, but I say that the process is pretty much the same most of the time. 1 You talk to h…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 11:47 PM
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No, not just in your own eyes. The latter is more correct and I will expand on it below. You're right on the money with that, but I think it has little to do with actual fucking more than it does with social value. Value is relative, and because it is relative, it is also extremely easy to manipulate others into believing you are whatever value you want to be. Of course chances are, when the shit tests come unless you know what they are and you've learned how to handle them AND you don't crack, …
/r/askTRP08/04/14 10:19 PM
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this is true, but if you're brown - people are going to expect you to be better than them anyways. Do we live on the same planet?
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:59 PM
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Could def backfire if you aren't tactful with what you say, there is another reason I like it. It's polarizing. Keeps you from getting stuck in the "grey zone". She's either interested or she's not and things like this let you see which is the case more quickly. Time is money.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:57 PM
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Lol, this is hilarious. Effective and funny. Disqualify yourself, create curiosity, flip the script (reject them instead of them rejecting you) and make THEM qualify themselves to you. http://media.giphy.com/media/xLJE238iO1Cta/giphy.gif You sir, are doing it right.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:09 PM
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It's difficult to put it into words, a lot of what I do is now just second nature. I'm confident so that makes me a bit more adventurous in what I do/say. My attitude/way of being towards people/personality has been described by a few as being akin to Robert Downey Jr., if that means anything to you. But the gist of it is that I don't really care whether I get some or not because I know that the end all be all is that sometimes I shoot and score and sometimes I miss. And that's okay. I don't fee…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:00 PM
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You don't need to use a "starting line". You literally just glance real quick, find something you can talk about with her and start the conversation. I've started conversations about the stupidest fucking things ever, lol. It's enjoyable for myself and them. If anything just be like, Hey. I only have a few minutes and I think you're cute. Then ask about what she's reading, what she's up to, where she's going, who she's meeting, are you getting the point here? It could literally be anything. Keep…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:24 PM
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What do you mean what do I do?
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:02 PM
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You're playing the "words are louder than action" fallacy. Make all your judgements based on What actually happens, not what you Perceived she Wanted to happen This.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 07:59 PM
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"I'm kind of scared to tell [voice teacher] I didn't get cast in this show, lol" No. I don't agree with anyone in this thread who says you should bother with her or that "shes nervous" or any of that bullshit, lol. No you shouldn't bother going out with her again because that text message tells me that she was trying to dump her emotional worries on you. She expected you to be all like, "oh it'll be okay, blah blah I'm a fgt chump." Because if she was genuinely interested in talking to you, she …
/r/askTRP08/04/14 07:55 PM
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I agree with what you're saying, but he shouldn't use the line you're giving him. Makes him sound pathetic. "Decouple the link between sex and being high value." Nope. The link is there, it's biological and it's social. Getting fucked a ton increases your social value like no other thing because getting fucked a ton is seen as a consequence of having high value. Like a domino effect, it's insane to see it in action. You get one cute girls attention and eventually start fucking her and then her f…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 07:30 PM
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Didn't think about that. Funny because that's essentially what TRP is doing. "Flipping the script". How'd they react?
/r/askTRP08/04/14 07:29 PM
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If you don't see other guys doing it it's because they're pussies. Going up to random girls and starting conversations isn't something a regular dude would do. But you see, the whole point is NOT to be regular. The point is to see what you want, see who you want and reach for it. This is something regular dudes don't do. They only date girls they know, or that are within their social circle. They stay inside their bubble. In that sense, this is our world. TRP men don't constrain themselves artif…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 07:28 PM
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I don't know how many lesbians there are on TRP that could answer this for you. Any answer that any straight person gives you is purely speculative.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 03:02 PM
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Then the latter option is what you'll want to do. Tease the shit out of her subtly, a girl can only take so much of that before she explodes. Virgins included. Or you know, enjoy fapping. The concept of "waiting" is so foreign to me. I wouldn't do what you're doing for any girl.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 02:49 PM
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Good time to remind everyone that you are alone in this world. You were born alone and you will die alone. If you need something to prop yourself up, collect your thoughts and write them on paper like a journal. Or your extremely close male friends. That's what they're there for. What you just did will make a girl dry up faster than a droplet in the Sahara desert.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:41 AM
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Also make sure that you dress well, you start going to the gym and find yourself a good form of income, if you don't already. Increase your value. Make sure that you don't only THINK that it's this particular group of girls. Base your opinions on reality. If your style isn't good, your charisma isn't good, body language is bad and you don't know how to talk to girls... It's not them. It's you. However, I am operating under the assumption that you do. If you're not, then get to it.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:26 AM
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Real shit. Dont worry about a particular group of girls. Try for the girls who find you attractive. White or otherwise. Variety the spice of life. Sides American girls are usually shitty to deal with. They're entitled as fuck, whereas I feel that girls from other parts/races are more true to what we could consider... Ideal feminine qualities. Edit: whoever down voted is mad as fuck, because they know it's true. Lol.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:19 AM
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Catch 22 it seems, but it's completely possible to fuck a girl as you've described above and still be golden. I don't want to date anyone, but if I did, she wouldn't have to be a virgin, just someone who doesn't sleep around a shit ton. I'm sure I speak for the rest of TRP when I say you're incorrectly stating TRP views and what we encourage each other to do.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 06:55 AM
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Real shit. If you're unhappy and things aren't functioning on your terms, move on. Is this girl really worth waiting for? Is there girl really worth putting off what you want? Chances are if you really sit down and think about it, the answer is no. Imo, either she fucks you, like any girl in a healthy relationship or you dip and find someone who will. Of course don't say this directly. Subcommunicate this to her. Spend less time with her. Go out more. Talk to other girls, but of course, nothing …
/r/askTRP08/04/14 06:30 AM
1

There's not much you can do. Caucasians chime in with your own opinions, as my life experience and yours are different and I have no idea what it's like to be white, much less a white girl. Being South American with mostly European ancestry, I feel like a lot of white girls are uneasy about dating outside their race while girls from minorities don't really give a fuck what your race is. I have gone through situations in which even though my game is tight and I am attractive, they won't even talk…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 06:17 AM
-1

TL;DR version?
/r/askTRP08/04/14 04:15 AM
1

She just wants you to be all like "waaa you hurt me" or "its okay I understand" because she doesn't want to FEEL shitty for BEING shitty. Fuck that. Let her feel shitty, let her feel the consequences of her actions.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 05:55 PM
1

It's the guilt dude. Rid yourself of it. The fact that a dude has a GF isn't your problem. She's a big girl. She can make decisions on her own. And if her decisions is to fuck you, well. Then SHE'S DECIDED to be unfaithful to HER boyfriend with you. You have little to do with it, tbh. So don't worry your head. Lol. sigh That's what I'm trying to tell you dude. AWALT. You should call her out on it. Hilarity will ensue because she's going to try to rationalize (hamster) as to why it was okay for h…
/r/askTRP07/04/14 05:40 PM
1

*Fuck the relevant social circle *Fuck her boyfriend. This girl is a plate dude, you're not supposed to worry about what she does in her life. Neither should you let her very deep into yours. Put your ethics aside and don't think about anyone else but yourself and her. There should be no third parties involved, mentally or otherwise. They are not your problem to deal with. In this scenario, If she's fucking you, she probs think you're if higher value than her bf. And your dick won't work because…
/r/askTRP07/04/14 02:31 PM
1

Butterfaces. Butterfaces everywhere. A body can only do so much if shits not right in the visage area.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:46 AM
1

I've seen many butterfaces there, who despite their bodies, I would not touch.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:45 AM
1

True, but it is interesting to see TRP play out in the real world. Specially at such a massive scale as is the case in GW.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:44 AM
2

I have this pit in my stomach and the whole idea makes me feel disgusted, but at the same time they're just gaming the system. The ones selling used panties for money are at least. Are you joking about that though? Do people actually buy them? Don't know if troll or serious. The rest are simply using it as a substitute for validation/attention in their own lives.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 01:00 AM
1

Why the fuck are you still hanging out with your ex? Lol. NEXT
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:28 AM
10

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/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:17 AM
2

TL;DR version?
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:12 AM
3

You learn to see the whole political and power game that happens all around you. In every job you'll ever have, in every single social group you'll ever be a part of. Even within your own family. And most importantly... You learn to manipulate it.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:09 AM
1

You don't. It's part of the process.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:06 AM
20

She was lying because girls are often like monkeys swinging from branch to branch. She was (like all girls) looking to "marry" up (getting with this dude who she perceives as having more value than you). They don't want to let go of one until they're holding onto the next one. She didn't have a firm grip on this new one, so she didn't want to let go of you just yet. Despite what she may say, this is exactly why she lied to you. To keep you in orbit just long enough to make sure that if shit didn…
/r/askTRP07/04/14 12:02 AM
3

Agreed. Like I said, it's a good spank bank. Have any of you read the comments thread on there though? It's fucking hilarious... in a sad way.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:47 PM
2

Haha! It's funny when you put it like that. That's exactly it. Except instead of one voice, it's 10000 thousand saying that you're perfect and they all want to fuck you. I can see many unwarranted inflated egos originating from that sub.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:46 PM
1

That is looking at things very plainly; Of course it's a spank bank! lol. My observation stands though, if what you are saying is true. They do it for the validation of being desired where they would be unable to obtain such validation in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:37 PM
1

Fucking beautiful. Don't ever let anybody gaslight you using shame.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:50 PM
16

Paper was already trying to shame them in the title.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:44 PM
1

Get acne cream?
/r/askTRP05/04/14 02:31 PM
1

Nah. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:25 PM
1

Das wat I'm sayin doe.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 03:54 PM
2

Lol. You sound like one big TRP cliche. And the fact that you care so much about what your buddies think is funny. Fuck their opinions lol, specially if they're giving you shit over a girl. Not like she was unattractive or anything. (assuming) So you fucked a ho? So have most of us. Girls like that are fun for fuck buddy type things and nothing else really but they are many of them out there and it's inevitable that you will rarely clearly know when you're dealing with one. It's better to just a…
/r/askTRP04/04/14 03:52 PM
1

Yes.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:59 PM
3

No. Fuck this. Fuck people refusing to take responsibility for their own actions and trying to excuse themselves with such bullshit reasoning. This shit dont even make sense.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:30 PM
2

The next time you're attempting to make plans with a girl, don't be too broad about it. Don't just say "how about friday?" or "We should get together then, how about tomorrow night?" it sounds sort of needy and you're placing the ball in her court when YOU'RE the one who is supposed to be leading. You set times. You set dates. Things work on YOUR schedule. This is your world, and if she wants to be part of it. Cool. She can be, but on your terms. Don't pander to girls. If a girl is truly interes…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 01:09 AM
1

Daaaaam. Think she's slick lol. Good job fucking societal expectations in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:16 AM
46

NOPE. Hamstering is one hell of a drug.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:07 AM
4

I don't think there's any fixing to do here. Regardless of what he is attempting to do, you can't deal with such a damaged woman the way you would with one who is "normal" and no amount of effort or tactics will make that change. You or I can't fix Crazy. Leave that up to professionals. I would tell OP to bring it up to his wife, but we all know how that would go... Our boy is royally fucked it seems. Best of luck man. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 05:34 AM
8

If she's not meeting your expectations for what seems like forever now, and isn't putting a significant effort towards improving and you have no real reason to stay with her, I would say you should just move on dude. Your investment in this person is being wasted when it could be put to better use elsewhere.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 05:20 AM
3

NEXT. Why would you tolerate this shit from a girl you're JUST getting to know? She's probably butthurt at being stood up. It's an unusual feeling for girls.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 05:08 AM
1

Not sure if this is a troll or not.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:38 AM
1

Why do you think you have that? Do you get nervous? Props to you for being able to discuss such a controversial subject as cheating with the utmost civility.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:05 PM
1

Differing views. That's a lot to give up for me, lol. I like to freeflow between girls because I enjoy getting to know them (albeit on a superficial level.) and the excitement and interest in the beginning stages of that. I see those traits as being wasted on a girl, but that's why I never go official in the first place. To each his own though.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 09:46 PM
4

Bro is absolutely right. You're doing yourself a great disservice if you aren't lifting. It makes you FEEL and BE more like a man. TRP and lifting go hand in hand. Fuck everyone and everything. Always strive to create the best version of yourself possible. Always be creating value.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 08:54 PM
6

If this IS indeed the Matrix, then we are akin to the operators. We know the system and therefore, we know how to easily manipulate it. We know how to read the code (the signs people give us) and how to navigate our interactions with people. We "plug" them in and then feed them our reality in a palatable form. We literally cop out of the social contract that society has tried to force us to believe is the only way to interact with women. I'm down with that idea.
/r/AlreadyRed09/03/14 07:38 PM
1

Uh... Why would this even be a problem? Are you very public about your relationship or is it something you can conceal from others easily?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 04:32 PM
10

Because physical self improvement is one of the most valuable things a man can do to gain an edge. It's a good source of confidence, and quite literally, makes any dealings you have with people easier. It also makes you realize your worth, so you're less apt to putting up with bullshit. Not to mention being attractive is like going through life on easy mode.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 04:28 PM
11

Get swole as fuck. Not only will the rest of the world see you with different eyes, but so will you. The halo effect is no joke, you'll quickly see that the amount of shit you can get away with these girls substantially increases. As does the quality of girls in your life.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 04:20 PM
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How to avoid all this bullshit (trp 101): Never move in with a girl. Never commit (spin plates) Why invest in a depreciating asset? Constantly remind yourself that chances are you will always be bringing more to the table than the girls you're dating. And if you're not, fix it. Keep frame and be cunning. Realize when someone is using emotion to manipulate you. Lift. Realize that your happiness, your life and your time are yours and yours alone. Not her. Not both of yours. Yours individually. The…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 08:04 AM
1

I have a hard time finding the middle between being an excessive asshole (what feels natural) to women and being too "nice". I have a crude sense of humor and I love to fuck with girls. They aren't used to dudes being so blunt/not giving them special treatment. Ex. that happened in class a couple of days ago: "Let me copy, please! please please." No. You never do any work. Sides, I don't like you enough. walks away to turn in paper. The way they react to situations like these are funny. I've not…
/r/AlreadyRed04/03/14 01:52 PM
7

Being a chump and not having your own goals: A hallmark story.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 10:05 PM
1

You have to really pay attention to your posture. It'll feel really weird for a long time because you're so used to slouching, but eventually it becomes second nature. It also helps if you do push ups.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 03:39 AM
3

Can confirm. Used to be habitual sloucher, trained myself out of it. Felt weird as hell but now I don't even have to think about it. Took 1 month.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:14 PM
1

g if you were ok or where you were, if you were dead or alive. Didn't even get to say goodbye properly. I do care if you're alright and happy. I also can't believe that the last time I saw you I didn't even get to speak to you, my own fault, I had just come home in my boyfriends car and as about to pull into my driveway I saw you with some people standing across the road. I was so pleased that you were there and I wanted to jump out the car and run over but I felt like I couldn't due to the jeal…
/r/AlreadyRed26/02/14 03:19 PM
1

PREACH.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 01:58 PM
3

Or anywhere else really.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 01:41 PM
3

Or at a wedding.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 01:41 PM
6

And remember... There isn't anything more valuable than YOUR time.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:45 AM
1

Yo, GLO. What do you think about ketogenic diets? Currently what I'm doing and feeling pretty awesome.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 02:12 AM
5

You're overcomplicating shit. If you see a girl you like, just talk to her with confident body language and tonality. "Hey. I only have a few minutes (make up some shit, or say the thing you were on your way to doing), but you're cute and I wanted to meet you." -> Continue to conversation. Straightforward, you don't sound needy and you don't sound like a pussy. The message is clear. You were doing something. You saw her, were attracted and wanted her. You went to go get her because YOU are the t…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 01:49 AM
3

Never apologize for standing up for yourself, especially when you're using rationality to do so.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 01:15 AM
0

bullshit, lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 01:00 AM
1

You know you've swallowed the pill when you read "So I soft-nexted her. A few days later, no contact, she decided that I was being a real asshole for ignoring her for a few days, and demanded an apology for treating her this way." and burst out in laughter. feelsgoodbro.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:24 AM
2

You ever thought of just nexting this girl? Briffaults law IS a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 06:55 AM
1

This poor dude. He's getting shit tested at every turn. "If you consider yourself a man." Lol.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 05:46 PM
4

...wtf?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 02:08 PM
1

10:34 The reason for shit testing.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 10:00 PM
2

One of the mistakes I made as a young man was giving a shit about how a woman felt and believing that I had something to do with it. You have nothing to do with how she feels. Nor can you change her state. Remember that. Caring about her feelings and thinking you can influence them will get you nowhere. Gold
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:42 AM
1

I'dve said "sucks" with a smile, would it have been wrong? My instinctual response to someones whining is to patronize them or say something that lets them know I don't take them too seriously, lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:35 AM
1

This is the motherfucking funniest thing I've read on TRP, hands down. Grats lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:45 AM
1

How would you guys compare the efficacy of this technique against the "freeze out" (get off of her, go do something else, withdraw attention)? Is this like a nicer version of the freeze out?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:09 AM
1

!!! A sub for this sort of shit should be created.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:49 AM
1

Agree with her. Tell her "you're absolutely right." and then smile. Lol. Just don't take that question seriously. That's the best way to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:18 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 05:34 AM
0

"Hey. I'm going out for a bite." Get ready then just grab her hand and take her wherever it is you intended on going. If she asks where just tell her that you're getting Chinese or Italian or sushi. Whatever it is you feel like eating. You get the idea. She can speak, if she doesn't want to go she'll say so. If she asks specifically where, tell her you know a good place. If she pushes further and you don't have a specific place in mind, jokingly say "someone's not eating I guess." or "Lol, why a…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 10:24 PM
2

Amen.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:50 PM
2

I can vouch for that.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 11:48 PM
1

The fact of the matter is SMV < Game and everything else.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 08:00 PM
2

XD
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 07:54 PM
1

"Watch out for that, insist on anal." XD
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 02:26 PM
5

Da fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 02:23 PM
-5

Proof?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 06:31 PM
3

Yep. Feminism has turned a females partner count into a competition. They want to be like us, so they fuck like us. Sort of like when you're bratty little sister wanted to hang out with you because being with older people made her feel cool.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 02:43 PM
4

This girl is an attention whore no doubt and not a girl that has any Ltr potential. Girls who do don't play little games, it's pretty obvious she enjoys the way this other dudee speaks to her. I know this because as you said, you know her to speak raunchily very often and to many people. She's fishing for attention and this dude is giving it to her. Not only that, but by being sensitive about it you're pretty much falling under her frame. There's no real solution to this except to next her compl…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 11:25 PM
5

None.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 03:31 PM
2

Don't spill. What you need is to keep a journal. Write down your thoughts daily. Reflect. Be your own therapist, however do not ruminate on negative things that have happened to you. Learn and let go. If you ever feel overwhelmed by anything, remember that there are certain things is life that we cannot control. The only thing we as men can always control are our bodies and minds. There is no sense in letting shit take away your equanimity.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 05:49 PM
10

You treated her like a girl friend and put forth a large amount of effort such as you would into a girl friend. So how are you surprised that this happened? Cut line and don't make the same mistake again. Keep a healthy amount of distance from your plates and this wont happen.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 05:24 PM
1

It's political correctness bordering on the absurd.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 03:45 PM
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"oh yay, some dudes got to run a train on my wife while I was in jail and I get to stay with her =D" Lol. Do these people even pay attention to what the fuck they're saying???
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 07:13 PM
5

"you caught me, I'm secretly a smurf." " you caught me, I'm noodle shaped. "
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 07:07 PM
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You're in a transition period between the you fueled by societal bullshit you've been fed about women and the you fueled by the harsh realities of trp. You feel bad because your entire life, you've been taught that acting this way is improper. It will pass, just don't revert to your former behavioral patterns. Work on yourself to solve the incongruence. Get lifting. Eat healthy. For emotional fragility and all around better situation handling abilities, look into stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 06:47 PM
-1

You don't need to be married with someone to have kids with them. There's no benefit to marriage for you or any man.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 11:40 PM
1

Incongruency is a severe consequence of studying game without first mastering inner game or trp. Routines and all that bullshit will only take you so far. Bitches can smell fakes a mile away.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 10:24 PM
2

Don't ever get married, it's a wasteful investment where diminishing returns will begin within a year. Why let any one person have you? Would you not rather be shared and cherished by many?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 10:18 PM
2

And for that, we are thankful.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 07:22 PM
1

Solipsism at work. Her needs are more important than being rational, the commitment she's made, hurting her husband or hurting her kids. Literally, not one single fuck is given. And the sad part is... This is the norm. And the red pill is pretty much our only hope of combating such behavior.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 06:35 PM
2

Why does this even surprise you? Dat hamstering doe.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 05:36 PM
3

What you are experiencing are the effects of girl game. If you frame the feelings derived from it as such, as something akin to manipulation to illicit your commitment and realize you're being gamed, then you'll be unlikely to fall in. Spin more plates. Always remember, there are no snowflakes, there are no unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:02 AM
1

Is this post a troll? Lol.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 05:42 AM
0

This sounds like absolute hell. Still, post up part three.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 02:31 AM
7

I'm detecting a lot of "feel good bullshit" in this post.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 10:40 PM
-1

There's a lot of feel good stuff here. Don't for a second let anyone tell you that a tinge of machavelianizm and manipulation is blue pill. It's the motivation for such actions determines whether they are blue or red pill.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 08:35 PM
9

Prepare for the hamstering on this one, and best of luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 03:43 AM
12

Would not put my dick anywhere near that girl. It would probably shrivel up and die within the hour.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 05:33 PM
0

Lol, it's hilarious to see girls hamster. Rationality never works with women, I've learned that the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:55 PM
1

"I understand where she's coming from." Lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 07:18 PM
1

"Creepy" is usually code word for attention from someone they are not attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 12:57 PM
3

Gold.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 07:13 PM
16

I almost rolled on the floor laughing after reading this. I judge people by their actions, not by what they say. The notion that a girl has intercourse with a ton of guys because she is "misunderstood" and trying to find "the one" is bullshit. Any way you try to justify or rationalize behavior, slutting is still slutting. Some gems: "But the misunderstood girl does. She isn’t sleeping around to have a meaningless one-night stand. She is searching for passion and connection; someone to make her f…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 06:55 AM
3

At least you recognize the origin of your behavior. To put it plainly though, if you recognize the origin of this behavior, why not alter yourself so that you no longer have low self-esteem?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 07:38 PM
5

Ahahahaha XD! Humorous, but spot on nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:35 PM
5

Everyone has the capability to hamster. You ever done or felt something stupid and tried to rationalize it before you did it or felt it after the fact? You have hamstered. However, dude's usually use it to STOP themselves from doing something which would otherwise be beneficial to them AKA: Talking to Women. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1rdqu0/the_collection_of_male_hamstering/ Basically, the hamster is the mental component of the brain that allows people to be solipsistic.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:28 PM
3

The fast rationalization process that someone uses to justify their actions or feelings after or while they've been committed. "Oh I just killed my husband because he works 80 hours a week and doesn't give me enough attention" Typically used by people when they know what they are doing/going to do is shitty but they're trying to come up with an excuse to justify their actions as coming from a place of good/to remove personal responsibility and to make themselves feel better about it. Read: Bulls…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:15 PM
3

Why do you do it?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:06 PM
2

No, I do not. Haha, good one!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:16 PM
2

Def. the first case. How does one deal with this? My thought is agreeing with it would only reinforce this behaicior.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:09 PM
2

If it's a question like you stated above, /u/PrismaticFire is spot on. Agree and amplify until it becomes second nature. As for the actions through which she seeks some reaction from you, you have many options to deal with them but it basically boils down to the idea that you "punish" bad behavior and "reward" good behavior. Your attention is the reward and the punishment is the withdrawal of it. You could just give her a blank stare and try to make her feel embarrassed for the question she aske…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 07:05 AM
4

Radio silence. You punish behaviors you like, you reward behaviors you don't. Your attention is the reward for good behavior. Correct me if I'm wrong, but did it seem like she did it in a way in which is was inescapable for you to see it? If this is the case. #1 It's probably a shit test #2 Do not play into her game Edit: Talk to other girls. That is something you should def be doing as well. PS: This should be in /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 03:49 AM
2

This is where "plausible deniability" comes in. If "it just sorta happened", then it helps them rationalize the fact that they barely knew you and fucked you. Don't ever kiss and tell either. IMO internally, all girls want to be dominated in the bedroom and have dirty fucks. The nicest girls are the FREAKIEST ones. The thing is, they don't want to feel like sluts. They want the experience without really having to answer for it in a societal way. So the trick is making it happen in a way where it…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 02:56 PM
1

If you're right, then I have nothing to worry about. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:52 PM
2

You are 31. You're acting like a child. Time to grow up and live on your own. I think you're using your sister as the replacement for your mother figure or a woman in your life. Psychologically, this is damaging you terribly. I know family is important, but your sister's problems are HER problems. Not yours. She fucks up, she FUCKS UP. Internalize the fact that at the end of the day, you can't do dick shit about it. You either have to put up with it and keep bitching or you leave. You say you're…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 06:24 PM
1

This should be moved to /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 06:12 PM
1

I know for many of us, this would be a great resource.
/r/askTRP15/11/13 03:35 AM
1

My question to you guys is, how do you form these sorts of bonds without being swallowed by them? It's easy for the oxitocin and copulin to kick in and turn you into a moron if you aren't careful and conscious of WHY it is you feel you do at the time. My guess is that simply by having options, you prevent yourself from falling prey to your emotions. Self-control is key. We are only human and can only prevent these emotions to a certain extent. I understand that TRP isn't about ridding yourself o…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:32 PM
4

6"2 here. Same. Just standing up straight and confidently does the trick. Make her feel the grandness of your stature. As if she is a small child staring at a majestic oak.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:46 PM
1

I've been looking into L-Theanine. What dosage do you take and how much do you weigh?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 01:53 AM
1

I can say from experience that the above is true. Eventually, it just becomes second nature. Your brain is just in the PROCESS of changing and it and by extension the way you see yourself are lagging behind.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 01:49 AM
2

You can't overthink shit like this. Your foot is already in the door, so long as you don't pull beta shit.. You got this in the bag. Just relax and be confident. Honestly, It'll probably lead to sex if you have the balls to initiate. You're already going to be having a shit ton of physical contact as it is and unless you fuck up terribly or are as smooth as sand paper, I'd say you're golden.
/r/askTRP13/11/13 11:58 PM
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And how do you think he gets "inspiration" for his writing? Roosh doesn't not advocate cheating on a girl once you are in an LTR with her. The well would dry up. No new material. No new insight. No new adventures/Travel. Imo, NO WOMAN IS WORTH GIVING UP THE LIFE THAT ROOSH HAS. Making money, hitting on and fucking beautiful girls all over the world? Would you give that up for a single person? I would not. None at all. Why would he throw away what he has worked so hard to build? For a girl no les…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 11:39 PM
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Pickup is how Roosh makes a living. It would be a terrible idea for him to stick with any one girl, because hitting on girls is how he makes his living. Him and his career > any woman, which is a tenant of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 09:44 PM
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One that I find to be common among girls who are ages 18-25 is the "expectant look". If you look at them they'll give you a look back as if to say "Yes, ok, what are you going to do?" This Haha! "The expectant look" is something I get so often... I never really knew what I meant. At times I thought it was them being apprehensive about me looking at them and would not approach. Thank you for this information. It's gold.
/r/askTRP12/11/13 08:10 PM
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By disinterested look, do you mean like... A grimace or something? I've only had a single case of that happening and I laughed in her face, lol.
/r/askTRP12/11/13 04:49 PM
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My best friend is the moron explained above and uses NAWALT all the time. I just agree, but ignore his ass because I KNOW for a fact that although there might be variances, all woman respond to the SAME shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 03:33 PM
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Thanks! I am so oblivious to these signs, just those 5 that you've spoken about made me realize that I am flirted with on a much more frequent basis than I was conscious of. I've tried looking online for TRP resources to gain more knowledge on the subject of "signaling", but all I can find is stuff by sources which I would not consider trustworthy. Are there any resources you recommend? I have one more question for you: At college, as I walk through the halls (making sure I have good posture,con…
/r/askTRP12/11/13 02:34 AM
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I request OP to cry me a river.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 09:12 PM
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What are some of those ways? Can you give some examples?
/r/askTRP11/11/13 02:45 PM
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"If you have any semblance of desire for the person, initiate and build attraction. Then see whether you want them or not. If yes, escalate. If not, on to the next one". So, you don't know a girl and you're trying to figure out whether you want her or not. Other than her physical appearance, how else are you supposed to make that call besides initiating conversation and knowing if her other qualities are those your desire? Be in a position of decisiveness and power.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 02:39 PM
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If you want something/someone, go get it. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 01:55 AM
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It's obvious you NEED TRP. Badly.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 04:34 PM
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If they're going to act like children, then they need to be treated as such. Children need someone who sets limits and someone with spine to enact consequences.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 04:28 PM
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This is how I would handle things, your mileage may vary. You look at her dead ass in the eye and tell her, "Listen, you can do what you'd like, but for every action there is a consequence." If she asks you what that consequence is, you giver her a smirk and walk way. You say this in the most stern way possible and you don't talk to her for a few days (1 week maybe) afterwards. She's probably going to spit out a ton of bullshit to rationalize why she's talking to her Ex BF, she'll call you insec…
/r/askTRP10/11/13 01:07 AM
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Yeah, I don't really care what Dan Savage says. Lol. Cheated? Done.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 05:33 AM
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Why should I cook for her constantly? Isn't that lowering my value in her eyes if I just do it all the time without her really having to "work" for it?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 10:06 PM
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This shit makes me feel like vomiting.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 10:23 PM
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That's the correct mentality. Excise the cancer. You are first, they are second. Doesn't matter what girl it is. Welcome back to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 02:21 PM
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If you dumped her right then and there, why'd you reverse your decision and go back? She might be the hottest, but think of it this way. She IS the hottest... Yet. I cannot stress how many hot woman are out there. Do not let yourself fall back into a scarcity mentality. If you say you're gonna do something, do it and stick with your decision. Have resolve. That's probably why your frame is fucked atm, because it's dlv and blue pill as fuck to dump a girl and then stick around anyways simply beca…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:22 PM
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It's never left you. Just regain your frame. Don't talk to this girl anymore, get your shit together and move forward. Every failure is a lesson.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:10 PM
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Personally, I believe it is best to mitigate this by keeping your distance and gauging how often you see her from the beginning and secondly I suggest having options. It's too late to fix now, you're better off just cutting line and moving onto other plates. Not only did you fuck up by failing her shit test with flaming colors (I would NEVER have let her get away with that. I would have told her to fuck off right then and there, lol. One thing is being non-exclusive. Another is a complete lack o…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:00 AM
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It's more about the mental training of it. It sort of conditions you to deal with feels.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 10:59 PM
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This is odd, but it's something I learned helps: When you take a shower, turn it as cold as it'll go and just let it hit your head first and then put the rest of your body under the stream. It's an uncomfortable sensation and you will want to make "hyperventilating" motions but you must resist and not squirm. This helps to rid yourself of any emotion you might be feeling at the moment, simply by using your mind. Eventually, you can train yourself into using this process to keep cool in other sit…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 10:53 PM
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What more proof do you need that TRP is the TRUTH? Lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 11:38 PM
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Lol, these poor bastards. She needs a reality check real bad... She'll get one when she starts hitting the wall I guess, if not sooner.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 11:33 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Noted.
/r/askTRP20/10/13 07:31 PM
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... then why did you post here? Are you afraid of coming to a... certain realization? Get therapy yo. It'll do you good and it's something that lasts for the entirety of your life.
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