So tonight was my first date, first real official date. By this I mean, the first date I scheduled in advance with a girl who I actually like; it also was my first date with her too, so be prepared for whatever may come. I admit, there probably will be some stuff that I could have done more alpha like, I just went with what felt natural, while trying to keep what I learned from TRP as best as I could with the circumstances. I’m still a beginner so this is what happened:

(I’ve recently posted about this chick up-coming to the date. Titles are: (She just broke up with her boyfriend (need advice)) and (I know this is a shit test, but what should I do?).)

We met tonight at the water front, which is in the open and right in front of the town, in a fairly populated place with people walking around with dogs and kids and etc… Anyway, I was waiting on a bench watching the weather change from sunny to overcast and windy, no rain though. I was looking off into the distance when she approached me from the side saying hey, (she was on time) which I remained seated because she had already sat down so I just stayed relaxed. We talked just for a few, mainly about the ducks we saw and the weather change and how we were doing. Just a quick catch up since it has been about a month since I’ve last seen her. She had a cup of tea with her in one of those coffee cups with lids on them, I asked what that was and she told me it was tea, and I mentioned I wanted to go get a coffee at a cool nearby place, which we walked there and talked on the way.

We got to the coffee place, it’s a nice café, like Starbucks but better, since she already had tea I just got myself a coffee and we sat and talked. We discussed topics about movies, tv shows, cars, I can’t remember what else, then I asked if she was hungry, she said she could eat, so we then walked over to a close Greek place (she had never tried before). This Greek place is really good so she liked it. I didn’t pay for her here, when we entered I remembered it was cash only so I told her it was cash only and asked if she had cash. At first she said no, and then I said okay, I’ll cover it this time, but you buy the next meal, she said okay then double checked her purse and found some. I ordered and went to get a seat, which was a window seat where we both faced the window, I sat there and waited, the food comes pretty quick so it wasn’t long, then we ate with little talking at first, then once I started asking more open ended questions and we never fully finished our food at that point. I would ask her questions then she would usually ask me them back, or something different. She then complimented me for being very mature for my age, and then started comparing me to other people my age who are losers.

Anyways, we got boxes then left since the store was closed and people kept coming in wanting food, so we walked back to her car, it was getting colder, raining lightly, windy. We got to her car and she put her stuff inside, then we hugged well, she said it was nice to see me, and I said I’d like to see you again and she said okay. I put my hand on her shoulder and looked at her eyes and lips, I thought about kissing her, but decided I didn’t want to yet. So I didn’t.

The only thing I’d like to add for myself, I know I could have done things better, but I mainly just did what felt natural, for the most part. The last thing I’d like to say is this is just a detailed summary, I am bad with short term detail. I don’t remember everything we talked about, or everything I said, but its close enough. For my first date ever I don’t think I did too bad, but what do you think?