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[–]Top_Brazzler7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Since I began my journey and made some changes for the better, including my attitude. I've just come to realize that a lot of people around me aren't who I want to be around. So I've either cut them off or limited my contact with them, all with good results mind you. But now I just work a lot, exercise, sleep eat and hit on girls at clubs. I feel like I am doing just fine and every day I know I am bettering myself and becoming more valuable and independent but it's like hollow sometimes because the media and TV and everywhere you look instils this idea into your head that when your young you need a bro-group of 15 guys and then all these exciting hobbies and shit you do, as if your life is some kind of movie or something. I definitely don't have that lol. Who else is the same?
Every "true man" is alone. There are no exceptions. Once you see reality, you realize you need no one, only yourself.
Once you see this, then others will need you! good luck.
[–]_xa0s 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for this. A really nice way of putting it.
[–]Top_Brazzler0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
glad I helped, it will help me prove a point to a jackass in another thread I'm arguing with at the moment, lol.
He literally said 60 seconds ago that:
ive read your answer and no ive been saying this for months, this sub is absolutely useless its just everybody fuckin with yall because we dont want competition. lol at anyone wasting there time writing a post on here. I replied to a post saying "spin around in a circle" as a test and it got upvotes lmao.. Absolute worthless subreddit if you want to increase your smv this subreddit will hold you back
[–]Smigg_e1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That guys gotta be chill trolling
[–]Top_Brazzler0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i had my first 3some tongiht and it was fucked up, lol
[–]aurelius_shrugs 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, it's lonely. Do cultivate friendships. There will be times when you require assistance.
[–]Top_Brazzler0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i had my first 3some tonight and it was FUCKING DARK-TRIAL evil, lol
[–]aurelius_shrugs 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel you bro. The devils threesome is quite entertaining.
[–]tailz694 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm 32 and I've found a lot of my guy friends are married and it's hard finding guy friends. I've tried putting more time into my work which has buddies there and also going to join kick boxing or something which has men. Got back into hockey as well. I would say take up an activity which involves men and you will be better off.
[–]Top_Brazzler2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm 32 also, what a small world, lol. Do you have hobby of shark fishing or decorating cheesecakes? (sorry i only have 2 hobbies, i fuck too much and it eats into my hobbies)
[–]omnip0tent19 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Take up boxing and /or MMA - both sports have a large variety of people going and what better way to bind than by punching each other about for 90 minutes?
[–]newbeginning17 points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm not really interested in fight sports but I did just join a new gym and go at roughly the same time through the week. Already had a few lifting related chats with some other guys there so I'll give that a chance to flourish first.
[–]omnip0tent19 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nice one man no problem - another thing is knowing you can handle yourself against most guys gives you a sort of inner confidence that isn't fake which can help with girls; for me anyway. You're not scared of their scary 'ex' who is going to not like you etc
Yeah that is true. I kind of have that inner confidence now from laying into a heavy boxing bag twice a week for the last 2 years. Mind you I think that learning to use restraint techniques would be more useful IRL. Will probably look into it eventually.
[–]omnip0tent19 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah obviously I'd avoid a fight if I could but I'm not worried to take a guy on if it's unavoidable
[–]drunkenmix1231 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's lonely at the top
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