Approaching Anxiety

[deleted] · 2016-04-04T22:40:44+00:00

Fear is a construct of your mind. There is no anxiety simply a choice to not do what you choose to. Say whatever the fuck you want. We all fuck up in our game/pick up even the best of us. Your goal right now is to simply approach without fear. Not tommorow not next week NOW. Go to 7 11 get a slurpee and a candy bar walk up to the counter if its a woman be friendly/moderatly flirty even if she isnt single. Congrats you just overcame approach anxiety in less then 5 minutes. Its the same concept everywhere my friend at resteraunts bars anywhere people are placed in different places and you are approaching someone you dont know. Its always like 711 if your convenience store doesnt have women go somewhere that does do it today not tomorrow and post results. Take the leap fuck baby steps

Sir_Distic · 2016-04-04T23:59:00+00:00

What worked for me I read here on TRP. Just say hi to women. On the street, supermarket, etc. "How's it going" as you walk past. "Nice shirt." Whatever. Just say something.

BlackHeart89 · 2016-04-05T04:44:37+00:00

I like to compare approach anxiety to phobias in that they are irrational fears that can't be extinguished by simply using reason. You have to attack it indirectly.

I found that by increasing my self-confidence (body, mind, getting laid), I am to approach women more easily. What work best for me is witnessing a friend do it or being called out on being scared. I'm competitive, so it gives me enough strength to take action, albeit my heart is racing like I'm about to die. Afterwards, it gets easier each time.

Title	Approaching Anxiety
Author	reversalredpill
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	April 4, 2016 10:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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