I(23) get eye fucked everyday, get hit on at almost every party I go to by drunk/molly'd girls, I've been offered threesomes, devil threesomes, hit on by gay dudes, I can get numbers usually anytime I want, the list goes on..

BUT when I pursue a girl I like they just cave in (get nervous/crippling anxiety). It doesn't make sense to me. WTF is going on? (I'm from Toronto btw, where sexual promiscuity is a little reserved)

Am I digging a deep-seeded insecurity in women or do they only look at me as a thrill and not as a LTR?

Am I doomed with intoxicated sluts forever? Or do quality women mature over age?