Are you angry?

boy_named_su · 2018-09-15T00:47:00+00:00

Decide exactly how long you are gonna give her the silent treatment for. It depends on how bad of a thing she did. No contact until then. Then go back to normal and go out with her. This is called a soft next

redd_reality · 2018-09-15T02:02:00+00:00

You're only asking this question because you don't know yourself well enough to know where your lines are drawn in the sand.

You need to figure out where your self respect begins and ends. Once this is accomplished, you can answer this question on your own with your own judgement.

But, we've all been here.. Stuck between our honest self and outcome dependence. My advice is - ignore if she says something not-funny or idiotic, but don't ever ignore anyone to seem cooler than you are. People see right through that shit. If she disrespects you, doesn't get back to you in a reasonable amount of time etc. Then explain very simply and non-emotionally how and why it's not acceptable to you. Remember, you're not doing this to gain favor with her... Ever. You're doing it because defending your boundaries is a fucking foundation action for a man with any self respect.

Title	Are you angry?
Author	snowie42
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 15, 2018 12:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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