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Building Powerredd_reality/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 07:06 PM
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Red Pill Theoryredd_reality/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:47 AM
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Simply put, "you're giving a fuck." Before you care about anything, especially enough to stir up an emotional response, you are consciously or unconsciously making the choice to energize it with concious attention. You'll start living your life when you discover and actively flex the muscle which controls what, exactly, you give a fuck about. See, your mind will never stop throwing problems at you. It will never stop harassing you every waking hour of the day about your problems. What's worse, i…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 02:41 AM
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Jealousy is the symptom of a disease known as too little self control. You're allowing your mind to dictate a reality you find unpleasant and Rev up an emotional response. Simply put, stop it. Make yourself stop that shit. Do whatever it takes to get your mind off of her shit and onto yourself and your peace of mind, goals, hobbies, work, whatever.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:11 PM
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How old are you? If you're younger than 35, it is most likely lifestyle, diet, fitness etc that is making you feel sloppy. And even more important than those things is mindset and attitude. It barely ever gets mentioned on trp but mindset including positivity, optimism, courage and perseverance are absolutely essential when trying to better yourself in this world. Many guys here view the smp and life in general as an insurmountable obstacle. This has a domino effect with their attitude and becom…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:09 PM
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Maybe she isn't evil. Maybe bpd manifests in an individual who never learned inner discipline? True self control? Since you can only control yourself, why not demonstrate your personal power by letting go of the fucks you give about the things you can't control. Maybe love yourself enough to truly let go and accept yourself and your life just as it is. Maybe accept your ex girl and your relationship chaos just as it is. Maybe then, just maybe, if you are able to let go of the desire and frustrat…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:45 PM
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If your life can "be ruined" by getting a chick pregnant, you've got wildly fucked up values and perspectives. Mother fuckers like the dude above are the type to blame everything they don't like about their lives on other people. My advice is to own your future. Love yourself, love your kid and love your fucking girlfriend. By a steadfast, disciplined and well rounded man and everything will be fucking great. The moment you accept your life as your responsibility and do not ever let yourself bec…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:57 AM
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"what bothers me is how she got oreg." "I nutted in her one month later." Well, my dude, that's how babies are made.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:52 AM
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All we can do is work at changing the things we can actually change. We must let go of and accept fully the things we cannot. But we must be very honest and very clear in accessing whether the truth is what the truth is. This in itself takes years worth of admitting thay you're usually full of shit about yourself; we all are. So, when you figure out the truth all you have to do is work towards improving the things you can and accept the things you cannot. If you get those things right, your subc…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/18 10:45 PM
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It might not be your intensity, but his inability to not give a fuck what you think. He might not be that open just yet.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/18 06:56 AM
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I'd first say that asking for someone's opinion of your appearance is arbitrary. I mean, if someone rates you lower or higher than you would rate yourself, what does that mean to you? One way of looking at it is, "Don't compare yourself to who other people are today, but to who you were yesterday." Everything that is sexy and attractive about a woman comes from her ability to be vulnerable in every way to the man she's with. It's in her honest smile, her extended stare, her openness and her hone…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/18 06:55 AM
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Jesus, that's really well put. Men and women both require a 'locking in' of the other, only in opposite but equal respects.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:51 PM
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And the real kicker and the thing that makes things infinitely interesting is that men and women contain both feminine and masculine qualities, only in different ratios. It is this ratio of masculine and feminine in each of us which makes life interesting. It is a balance of accepting what is vs attempting to control and change what you decide.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:50 PM
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Meditate. When emotions start coming up, follow them. You'll feel them in parts of your body, usually your stomach, chest or throat. Stretch and exercise these areas in whatever way allows the emotional energy to released. Let your feeling be your guide. Let them have their moment. Once they're let out in whatever way they need to be let out (crying, yelling, pushups, rage etc.) you'll begin to feel life flood into your body and into your mind. You are directionless because trauma from your past…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 12:33 AM
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Dread the way trp and pua uses it, certainly. The only real dread is her realizing that she is getting less of your attention because your own life is so fucking interesting and exciting to you. She then realizes she better do the same thing and better herself in order to be on your level. So then the lesson is: if you are always giving life your best shot and not making excuses, you'll be a valuable man who eminates high smv and dread simultaneously. If you try to emulate dread, she will see th…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 06:16 AM
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Yo op, know that this type of question absolutely points to the individual who does a lot more reading about what to do, rather than just doing. And while I'm inclined to do that as well, there comes a point with everything where you have to ask yourself if the activity requires more preparation, or if you're using preparing to avoid actually doing the activity. Get out there dude. The biggest, most important advice about girls is to enjoy yourself first. It is a paradox because the more you car…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:13 AM
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You're only asking this question because you don't know yourself well enough to know where your lines are drawn in the sand. You need to figure out where your self respect begins and ends. Once this is accomplished, you can answer this question on your own with your own judgement. But, we've all been here.. Stuck between our honest self and outcome dependence. My advice is - ignore if she says something not-funny or idiotic, but don't ever ignore anyone to seem cooler than you are. People see ri…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:02 AM
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Yes, but why is be overweight? This question is so much more important. He likes food too much to stop eating? If he can't control himself enough to not stuff his face, what hope could he possibly have of being viewed as a masculine, pinnacle of self control, in the eyes of a woman? And even more importantly, why would he consider himself in the eyes of women without first considering how he views himself? I think this man is asking the wrong question.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:35 AM
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Of course what I say doesn't add up for you. You simply don't know what you don't know. No harm, no foul. Each at their own pace.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 03:19 AM
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Lol. I've seen plenty of women get fit, shredded and look amazing after having several kids. If anyone thinks they can't literally become a fitness model at any age, regardless of gender, they're either ill-informed or in denial.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 03:22 AM
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The relationship isn't the issue. This issue is, and you know this to be true on a certain level, is that you are not happy as you are. You both have emotional baggage you're not aware of that you brought it into the relationship and sooner or later, or now, it is getting to the point where you can no longer distract yourself from it. You love yourself too much to continue living a life that isn't true to who you truly are. What's more troubling, is that you don't really know who that is. Neithe…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 07:49 PM
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The thing about women is that they tend to be much more in touch and expressive with their emotions than we are. This leads them to expressing emotions when they arise, which usually leads to the resolving of trauma (which we all have to some degree). Once the trauma is resolved, we can reach our full potential, with our emotional health in check right next to our physical and mental. When women complain about their man it is almost always because they are more in touch with their emotional selv…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 07:32 PM
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If she is a bitch, it means she is not being her true self. She is probably depending on him to show her life, love, experience and happiness and he isn't living up to her expectation. If this is true, he needs to be come his best self and be her role model so she can become her best self, or if she is unwilling to take her own personal responsibility for herself after he has become or is becoming his best self, then he needs to cut her loose. Throw her back into the pond of her own life sufferi…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 07:19 PM
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You know, op, I read all about how your wife got worse with age in every way and how that is a detriment to you. But, what I did not read was how you progressed down your life's path during these years. Your wife fulfilled her evolutionary, biological life's purpose. Did you remain on track in your growth and development. Did you continue to learn who you are and never stop striving to be better? Maybe your wife had kids, lost her youthful body and became a bitch. But maybe her nagging, bitch at…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 01:25 AM
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"indulging in love" is actually placing emotional dependence on another person. It is a fundamental unwillingness to bear the weight of your own traumatic experience and integrate them mentally, emotionally and physically. If you ever feel like you just wanna curl into a ball and latch on to anyone, it is because you are suffering internally. The only reason you're suffering is because you cannot connect to the stillness in your body. You can't do this because your unconscious mind is rousing yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 08:37 PM
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The only real recourse for the guy who is just discovering these truths, is to build himself a life where he can enjoy women but not rely on them and their behaviour. After years of redpill, I truly only have pity for thots.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 06:49 PM
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Feelsgoodman
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:28 PM
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Happened to the worst of me so that I could become the best of me. Women really are man's greatest comparative reference to other men in the smp.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:27 PM
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It's over, dude. She is dating this man with the same passion she had when she started dating you. It's done. Gonzo. Over. Cut ties and regain your own center. It's gonna be tough but we've all been there. Harden the fuck up and do what needs doing. No half measures.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:26 PM
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I know this hurts op. My advice is to give yourself plenty of space from her. You need to stop caring about her to the point you feel it in your body. Where, when the idea of her with another man enters your head, you literaly shrugs your shoulders and say to yourself "meh, I don't give a fuck." At that point you can begin to focus on yourself truly and bring real happiness into your life. I'd be willing to bet that is what she is wanting from you also. Three years is a long fucking time to be w…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:23 PM
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Imagine this is a mental workout for you. Same with you mind. Take in the pain, accept it knowing that it will pass. Over time, and countless other girls your mentality will adapt to became strong. To take this further, an intuition will develop where you begin to read people especially women with a sort of honesty lens. In this way, you don't stop engaging with the ones who set off your "risky" alarm, but you hold yourself at a higher place and don't allow your world to revolve around them. Our…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:41 AM
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All things come full circle. One day you will be in abundance and she will not. Rejoice in the fact your abundance will come after your scarcity. She will get her scarcity when she least suspects it and it will last the rest of her life.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:36 AM
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Literally 100% of her ability to become aroused and the degree to which she is aroused is determined by the man. Every degree that he has become reliant on her for his emotional comforting or personal validation and allowed himself to sink into softness will be reflected by her sex drive towards him. This is actually the biggest blessing and biggest curse. It points to the fact your failure to maintain a powerful sexual relationship with a woman is simultaneously your fault but also completely r…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 09:59 PM
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"Just be your best self" Problem is, without amazing amounts of work, introspection, dedication, failure and realignment, you don't even know who your best self is. Once you make serious progress with yourself, become a valuable man who can both assert his will upon others and consider others, then being yourself is good advice. Until then, consider yourself pathetic and unworthy, especially when in the throw of negative emotions like anger, jealousy, desperation or sadness.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:44 AM
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I've found the times in my life where I've been most emotional were times when I was suffering from trauma. Basically, I had issues I wasn't dealing with and actively repressing without even being aware I was repressing them. Getting to the root of the issues, releasing the emotions and working towards righting the wrongs in my life cleared up my tendency to become emotional over small, seemingly trivial shit. So, my advice for you would be to sit down and determine if there is any trauma in you…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:02 AM
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They're called feelings not "thinkings." Meaning one must experience the physical sensation releasing from themselves in order to resolve them.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 08:25 PM
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The difference is between feeling and dealing with your emotions to remedy whichever trauma is causing them and complaining to others that you have them. It is perhaps the most courageous task one can ever undertake to fulling endure and release our deep, negative emotions. Why expressing negative emotions isn't becoming is because you're demonstrating a lack of courage to just fucking deal with them and recover from previous trauma.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 08:02 PM
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Hmm, it really depends. The most secure men wouldn't frown and tell him "I'm not interested, don't do that again." but in a bar setting I don't think there is anything weak or wrong about shoving someone who touches you in a way you don't appreciate. And afterall, it's your world. Let everyone else deal w the fallout🤘
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:22 AM
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Power? Violence is power. One only has to scale violence with respect to social acceptability to make it relevant.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 01:16 AM
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We've all been here. The only solution to your problem, and you already know what it is, is to courageously go out and do stuff. Use meetup and actually meet up with groups of people - everyone is in the exact same boat as you. And seriously do not use liquor as a crutch. You're only postponing the inevitable.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:59 AM
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he was alpha, almost extremely, which led him to be controlling. Y'all need to actually what alpha means in the first place. The alpha doesn't control anyone because the alpha has an abundance of loyalty and knows attempting to control others, especially women, is a futile exercise.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 10:16 PM
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Yeah, always. Be jacked and tanned and it's default.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:56 AM
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Pay no mind to tramps and whores, bro. They know not the power they posses. They throw it around with arrogance and superiority, only to very quickly realise it's short shelf life. Your smv peaks and 35, if you out the work in. Hers will peak at 23 and by the time she realizes it's rapid decline at 28, she'll be wayy behind the curve. You're in no position tlfor this now, but put in the work and one day you will look upon young, arrogant, selfish girls with real pity, shake your head and then us…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:10 AM
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Hey op, this line of thinking is exactly what leads to all sorts of madness. My advice is to stop caring if she is really all that into you or not. It doesn't matter. The only real way to have any sort of healthy relationship with women is to focus your thoughts and energy on yourself and your goals and let her focus on trying to take your time and energy. This is how the highest value, top tier men frame relationships. They worry about themselves and they let their woman worry about the relatio…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:52 AM
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Here's a biscuit for ya. People aren't obtainable like material things. You can't put more energy into them directly and expect a return. Girls are like cats. They come to you when they want to come to you and they leave when they want to leave. You are never directly in control of any of it. The only way to get women to want to come to you is to already be valuable. And most importantly, do as little as possible to let the pussy know how badly you want to stroke her. The moment she knows you're…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:43 AM
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It works insofar as you know yourself and what your purpose is. Once you've got clear what should be taken very seriously, you let all else slide. Especially the opinion or behaviours of others.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:32 AM
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Unfortunately, he is ops alpha. But because op is a bitter beta, he can't just offload this beta-alpha relationship. Op is invested and that is the only reason office bro has power over him.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:38 PM
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What's worse, is that constantly analysing everything with trp mentality will quickly put you into scarcity mentality, at least in my experience. One must truly remain positive, casual and aloof especially when they've identified rp truths in their midst. Op needs to start doing this. If he would just take the seudo-alpha's behaviour as amusing and go about his business, he would cut through his try-behaviour like a hot knife through butter. It's only because he is so bothered by this surface po…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:36 PM
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If you're ever wondering how to behave : Amused mastery Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:31 PM
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Women, and similarly bitter beta faggets, have but one tool in their arsenal to attempt a leg up on the alpha in the room This tool is discrete shade throwing. During your casual conversation, your cousin caught you off guard with a slant. It came out of nothing and hit you in the mouth. This is an excellent time to remember that the more social proof and power you accumulate the more women will covertly try to test you and the more bitter beta fags will try to crack you. Neither women nore lose…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:28 AM
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What I (try, ideally) do in an ltr when I get unwarranted shit thrown at me, is the same thing I do when anyone throws shit at me, I fling it back to defend my boundaries and then withdraw my attention. What would the alpha do? The alpha is the prize. He is the top dog. He knows this and values himself first, always. So, what would the alpha do if someone throws shit at him? He'd throw it back twice as hard to ensure it never happens again and then he would withdraw his attention and focus on gr…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:22 AM
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"but I'm not having sex with you" That's the perfect chance to unleash "I said a drink, dont count your Chick's before they hatch, young lady." Like shooting barrel fish. This is because attraction is largely decided the moment your eyes meet hers. Walk around with that confidence and "game" isn't a game, it's just having the balls to be honest to attractive women.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 02:36 AM
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Hello. So, here's the deal - I want some Red Pill advice on Gym game. I moved from a smaller gym, to a much bigger and louder environment. I don't have a particularly deep, resonant voice. This doesn't matter even slightly. During peak hours, this gym gets so loud that it's hard to hear myself speak, akin to a big high school cafeteria. I have to half yell. When I first moved to this gym, I approached a girl and said "it's cute how you hide your gut with that belt" but she couldn't understand me…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:27 PM
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This sort of calibration takes time to acquire. Basically, when you detect subtle hints she is losing attraction to you, you need to use that as an indication it's time to spend a little time apart, isolate yourself emotionally from her and realign your perspectives. This can be as simple as a couple days apart where you eat clean, workout like a beast, read a book, walk alone etc. Essentially, you're entering a detox period where you realign your stimuli so that you are in control of your dopam…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:21 PM
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Exactly. Op needs to put himself in situations ie-bars and clubs where younger girls go, if he wants them.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:15 PM
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Don't lie. If you need to lie to bang younger girls, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:15 PM
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If you're a valuable man they'll act very similar to how a child acts towards their dad. They hate him for enforcing discipline and withholding his attention for good behaviour, but love him for it because they know that he does it because he cares about their development. Women view men the same. They simultaneously hate him for withhold attention but love him because he has enough self respect to demand the very best behaviour from them. Spend enough time overhearing women gossip and that's ex…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:53 PM
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This is my thoughts too. Who the fuck even considers the opinion their landlord or neighbors have of them lol. You wonder why guys need trp to tell them how to live and behave smh.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:49 PM
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Don't shit where you eat is in regards to situations where you're a dependent. Ie work. You fuck around at work and your employer might decide you're a liability. But tell me, how does your neighbor hold that same power? She doesn't. If shit goes south, they might get a little awkward passing by her in the morning, but is that really a problem? Not at all imo. Edit: also, depending where you live, you should have legal rights as a tenant. Your landlord can't Willy nilly evict you without somethi…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:46 PM
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We help each other be better men and embrace masculine values because at the end of the day, two of my beta followers can beat my alpha ass to death. Takeaway - we can't fight every battle ourselves and if we truly want to win at the game of life we need to integrate into society. We need the support of other dominant, masculine men in order to ensure a lasting and truly powerful reign.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:04 PM
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You frame it as a sad event or frame it as a massive bullet dodged. Think of all the time, energy, headaches, obligations, money etc SHE SAVED YOU, by fucking up. You win huge on this one. Now go fuck younger, hotter broads🤘
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:25 AM
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Think about it this way, if you forgive her and continue on with her and marry her, what will her respect level be for you in the future? Women let you in on little tid bits of their slutty behaviour because they want to see how valuable your self respect is to you. Every time you accept some form of whorey, you're self respect dimishes in both your eyes. Get that ring off her finger and ice that bitch out of your heart. It's time bro, there's no going back.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:22 AM
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You can’t confront women about their weight. Why? Because society tells you that? Here at trp, we find our testicles, embrace the truth, and don't shy from doing the tough, hard, or difficult tasks. She needs to hear the truth. If it costs op the relationship then so-be-it. He knows deep down he is doing the right things, and so does every other sensible person.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:36 AM
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Agreed. Who the fuck started this "label everything short sighted, autistic" thing?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:34 AM
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When two adults get into a relationship, they encourage each other and allow each other the space to grow and mature into their best self. This is what love actually means. It means walking away if the other person is using you as a crutch to avoid the harsh realities of their own life. You need to make her know that the reason you're telling her she needs to lose weight is because ultimately, you care about her. You are willing to say the harsh, possibly hurtful things so that she can become a …
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:34 AM
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They don't think you're exclusive. See them every day or every second day and then they'll get that impression.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:51 PM
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The nostalgia is always there, but the subtle signs you once ignored are now infinitely louder. They are what keep you icy and level headed even in an ltr.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:53 PM
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seeing plates texting bfs and other guys while I’m in bed with them - “just about to go to bed babe” - as she sucks my dick two mins later. Ah man, and then the post walls wonder why no guy will commit to them and if they do, why they don't truly trust them and keep em at an arms length. These broads did it to themselves and they mad we woke.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:51 PM
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He knew him apperently. But the entire group in the area shared the same opinion. Everyone looked at each other like wtf? Even the chick he was trying to get with looked floored. Some dudes just don't get social proof, frame, game etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:49 AM
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Women don't like asshole. Women like men who know who they are and what they want and have the confidence and self assuredness to express it and obtain it, without remorse. You need to uncover who you are, in every way. To do this, you go out into the world and test out ideas and experiences. You just do, say and think things which require courage. The things that make you uncomfortable. After a while you start to figure it out. Things just start falling into place. A sort of intuition about you…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:01 AM
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The collective western male unconscious played itself. As a sentient member of that group, you have the complete ability to disregard the collective and realign your paradigms. That's what we do here.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 12:56 AM
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This is why our feminized society has such a problem with accepting dominance heirarchies. If you loved your entire life not having to compete, someone besting you would be offensive and piss you off. Who do they think they are?! lmaoo
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:55 PM
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Amazing eh How women see social power as literal power. She feels as if she personally could fuck him. Pathetic. I had a buddy once who grabbed a bouncer to throw out some dude because he was hitting on the same girl he was (pathetically) trying to game. After witnessing this, it was friends off. What man grabs a bouncer to remove a dude who is talking to a woman he wants to fuck? A fucking loser, that's who.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:53 PM
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Snowflakes gonna snowflake.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:49 PM
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"I can have a new guy every day if I wanted!" In terms of respective male/female sexual dynamics, this is akin to me bragging "I could decide not to approach every woman I see, if I wanted!" Feminism has really fucked women up. So many of them actually believe getting fucked is an indication of their sexual value. I've had multiple girls bring up their high N-count as if it's a positive; they're actually bragging about. It's fucking lunacy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:48 PM
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Agreed. Most men would love to behave like this, but it takes substantial balls and actual high ranking smv relative to everyone in the room. This is the goal, of course.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:43 PM
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Precisely. If she approved of you, spends time by your side then out of the blue decides you value is too low and swings to the next branch, it is a perfect opportunity to honestly access where we're at and if we have indeed been slipping. In this sense rejection is not failure, but an opportunity to improve our smv in a very real way. At this point of rejection, boys will stomp their feet, double down on their conclusion that women are demons, while men will use it as an honest accessment of th…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 03:19 AM
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The thought of her riding another man's cock makes walking away infinitely easy. Jesus, that's the truest thing I've read today. I witness an ltr or even plate subtly flirt or even make eye contact a little too long with a random dude and this sets off my reality bells. I think don't be fucking stupid, awalt. Be a man. She isn't your mother and you are always going to be tested for physical, mental and emotional fitness vs other men. She is going to select the best one relative to her smv. I fee…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 06:05 PM
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Only advice is to enjoy the journey. You're going to make gainz in every area of your life slowly but surely. Enjoy every bit of it as it comes because you deserve it. Trp rewards are only one through honesty and hard work, which makes them a bitch to obtain but infinitely more rewarding when you do. Few people in our society are fortunate enough to recognize this feedback loop. Keep at it op.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:34 AM
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Precisely. It's synonymous with kids standing in the center of the room, holding their hands over their eyes while playing hide and seek. -if I don't acknowledge him, I won't potentially fuck up an interaction with a high value/good looking man.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:26 AM
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Lmao the hamster is real. -bro, my life is crumbling, my girl is hoeing! -Cool man, join in the fun then demote. -nah man, I'm too busy, I wanna buy a car. 😂
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:22 AM
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The problem is solely with you, op. You come here with the implicit assumption that you deserve a particular level of obedience from your gf, but let me tell you, you don't deserve shit. You gotta kill the urge to get emotionally charged when thinking about your gf cheating, hoeing or any shenanigans. Just remember, that every single young girl fucks away her twenties, while every young guy gets shit on. This all changes when you approach 30. The fact you're pissed is the result of you believing…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:19 AM
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Social interaction is universally beneficial. One of the biggest "aha!" moments for me was when I realized that the only reason girls had more opportunities to cheat than their beta boyfriends, was because men constantly solicited them. If their boyfriends simply made the effort to talk to more people, more often, especially strangers, they'd be in the exact same boat as their girlfriends. Wanna remove that feeling of your gf having options while you don't? Talk to people often. Talk to girls ca…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:12 AM
1

This is one of those calibration issues which you can only get better at by becoming your own independent man. You have to decide if her request is reasonable or not. For instance, I was asked by a girl I've been dating for a few months if I could give her a ride before work the next morning. I thought about it and said yeah, no problem, because although I was beta-buxing her, the professional grade blow jobs, constant massages and generally good behaviour warranted it. Just always keep in mind …
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:16 AM
23

What's an absolute mind fuck is how their male counterparts at the same age begin rapidly increasing in value. This really chaps their ass.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:39 AM
11

They mistakenly thought that fucking Chad was the same as Chad validating them in their entirety. After years of pump and dumps, they realize they were played like a fiddle and that the only chance they'll have at fulfilling their life's purpose (reproduction) is to settle for a beta schlub. This is why every post wall is a feminist and why ever young woman who locked down an alpha in her prime, isn't.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:38 AM
8

This is an issue of misalignment on your part and it takes years of experience combined with redpill perspectives to become proficient. Never showing concern is callous and cold - she won't hang around long at all if you're a dick 100% if the time. Similarly, I'd you're constantly concerned with her state of wellbeing (lol) she'll lose respect immediately and also her attraction to you. To find the middle ground takes experience, wins and loses. You gotta constantly be stepping out of frame and …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:38 AM
-1

They do. And it is that unconditional love and subsequent removal of it by rejection that creates the void big enough for the boy to relinquish his childish ways and become a man. This is why the smp, sexual dynamics and the burden we bear as men is so beautiful. If we want women to adore us as much as we love them, we must become effective men and lift up those around us. It's as if nature used sex and love as the greatest tool to improve our worldly effectiveness.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:51 PM
3

You're addicted to the drug of sex and love because the pain of becoming a man is too heavy for your bitch ass to bare.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:42 PM
10

It's astounding, after reading that post, then scrolling down to this comment... Of all trp posts, how could this one trigger you? Are you so butt hurt you're a pathetic loser you're not going to admit for even a second its your doing?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 02:45 PM
1

"yes, I agree. Trp is terrible :D" Agree and amplify, my dude, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:26 AM
1

Hey op, I can tell by the tone of your post that this shit is weighing heavily on you. This is what you need to hear: YES, this is a next because your priorities aren't lining up and she isn't happy with it. Whenever a broad nags you like this it is because she is either getting a raw deal or she is entitled. I can't blame her for wanting to move in with you, become your dependent and get a free ride; who wouldn't? But since this conflicts with your priorities you just part ways. Any compromise …
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:25 AM
0

The only two tools you'll ever need for social situations, including the one you just described is: 1- Agree and Amplify 2 - amused mastery Read the sidebar, bro. These two tools, combined with (hopefuly obvious) frame control will see you coming out on top every time. Even if you don't come out on top, you will still have plausible deniability on your side.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:39 PM
30

The lack of popular male groups is not due to red tape or legislation, but more of a reflection of the current male values system. Nearly every average man is utterly plugged into the matrix. He sees no reason to go hang with other men, because on one hand, he's intimidated by other men and on the other hand, those who he surrounds himself with would convince him it is silly.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:00 AM
3

Somedays, the only thing that holds me together is my ballz to the wall, mean as fuck lifting session. All of my anger, dissatisfaction etc is released into the ether and what's left is a calm, controlled, better looking, better feeling version of myself. Take care of lifting and I'd even venture to say that the rest of your life will seem to 'fall into place' a heck of a lot better and faster. It's geometric growth once you start down the physical fitness path. First is the physical world, whic…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 12:57 AM
1

All women are evil temptresses when your only game is "nice guy" beta game and you are unable to make the connection. Be higher value, control your sources of validation and sex like op needs to do and women become wonderful, fun, beautiful humans who take your dominating, work yourself to the bone, cold as fuck, hyper masculine reality and let it relax into a sea of warm milk and honey. Don't stay there too long, however. Or you'll be writing that comment all over again. And fyi, this is your r…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:45 AM
1

You have no control over the sources of female validation or sex in your life. She pulls the plug, you're a cold, lonely boy in the streets with no female validation or pussy to keep you company. Spread out your sources for both among multiple women, that way if one goes sour for whatever reason, you're still in business. Another method, although it requires you to be honest is to see only one woman, but keep yourself high value and 'in the game' without actually fucking or dating other women. I…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:41 AM
7

Women are the judges, men are the performers. One could argue it is the defacto attention women receive at a young age without the burden of performance that cultivate their inclination to judge. I mean why wouldn't they naturally begin to get picky when men of all value levels begin approaching them? Makes sense to me. Once I began creating value in my career, I started to get solicited for offers and at that point I became pickier. I now directly ask what they're offering, openly criticize sub…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:31 AM
1

"that makes sense completely. How does a boy become a man?" She won't have anything productive say because she doesn't have a fucking clue. After she fumbles or throws more shade your way, tell her to have a good night and walk away. Letting a broad erode your self respect is like letting a dude slap your face. Don't do it. Find your spine.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:01 AM
2

Literally the only thing that keeps a man capable of this level of frame control is heavy lifting, clean diet, no (or very, very little) drinking/drugs. I'm at the point where I have to pick over maintaining rock solid frame or weekend drinking. Unfortunately for me there is no middle ground. Top notch post op👌
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 04:48 AM
1

So i realized im a pathetic beta faggot just recently. I've been seeking for validation, We all do this to some degree. It'll never go away totally and you wouldn't want it to. Just scale it back to a healthy level. I am trying very hard to gain confidence but its a hard and long process after so many years of low self esteem. People have zero respect to me and im looking forward to changing that but can you even regain frame to people that know you are a beta? Often people who know you won't al…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 08:18 PM
11

Time to hook a beta! Time to hook the alpha bux. We all know the post walls desperately want the alpha bux seed all up in em. Keep reaping the rewards, and be prepared for when it's obvious to her that you won't commit. I can tell you her nice girl attitude with all the strawberry shortcake blowjobs will dry up quick. It's funny cause this is really the kicker. Her bad girl, edgy, "witty" attitude we all like so much will turn awfully vindictive and cruel in a heart beat. What makes the "beta" u…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:46 AM
10

-told her I didn't love her -I can't sleep at night from guilt Bro, you're definitely emotionally invested in this girl. Whole you might not call it love right now, it basically is. And btw there is absolutely nothing wrong with emotionally investing, just make sure you're always keeping TRP fresh in the FRONT of your mind while enjoying the experience. plates always break.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:12 PM
1

He knows and I know because as a good looking introvert, women approach me in bars and flirt with me in public. That's how you know you're good looking; unsolicited female attention.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 02:08 AM
-2

That's cause you're playing checkers and he's playing chess.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:41 AM
1

If I talk about someone that walks in the room to someone else and they hear me and confront... You know what I do? I tell them to get lost it's a private conversation. From therw they are the ones that escalated and caused an issue, not me. Sidebar - > hamster You're hamstering your cowardice by DEFENDING the hamplanet's right to free speak. "They were the ones escalating not me!" Are you a pussy? Wait... Of course you are. You defend a fat bitch and her loser orbiters right to talk down to you…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 01:19 AM
2

No. I won't. If your own self hate for your pathetic life isn't enough to get you off the couch, nothing will.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:10 PM
1

I can't believe op didn't man the fuck up and end the hamplanet's tirade before it ruined his day and he had to write a trp post about it to feel like a man. Actual proof lifting alone doesn't make you a man or reinforce your self respect.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:06 PM
-2

Wtf is this post? Fuck up 1 - "I walked past, heard her mutter something, but I ignored it." First of all, if some stranger throws shit your way and you don't ask them what the fuck they're doing, you're a coward, not "focused on your goals." Fuck up 2 - After the hambeast and beta McGee keep snickering (obviously haters, aka fans) you don't go over and clear the air? But instead let them continually distract you from your workout? Fuck up 3 - When hamplanet walks over and talks absolute horse s…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:04 PM
13

You're walking down the sidewalk, I block your path. You look up, startled and attempt to pass me.. I don't let you. Frame is outcome independence? So you not caring how the situation unfolds and acting nonchalant is "holding frame" in this situation? Nope. Frame is simply the ability to continually hold your perception of reality as the perception of reality, when others attempt to persuade you of their perception of reality. Boss thinks you're his slave? Nope, you could take him or leave him b…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:43 PM
2

Any girl texting her ex has absolutely no respect for her current bf. Hard next. Imagine if you walked around town, stroked up convos with randoms, got their number and was texting them? What would your intentions be? That is exactly her intention. Don't be a niave, excuse making fuck. She doesn't have any respect for you. It's over. Move on.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:41 AM
3

You should relish the opportunities to assert your boundaries like this one. This is basically a shit test. She knows it's rude, but she doesn't care. If it bothers you even slightly, why not demonstrate your ability to reinforce your self control and in the process bolster your own self respect? Think about it this way, who does she think she is even suggesting her dog stay in your place? Consider how selfish she is.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:36 AM
15

I know what that's like. Pack her shit. When she finally makes contact, tell her to leave. But be ready for a fucking avalanche of pleas for sympathy. Just remember, no matter what she says, she was fucking someone last night. You know it, I know it, he knows it, she knows it. Don't be a sucker.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:35 AM
5

1 - polarize You need to say ehats on your mind. Don't try to be an asshole, but don't hold back from saying something cause you might hurt feelings. You're being vanilla and no one cares that your exist. 2 - results Women, but also men respond to and respect results. You are making the connection between being hacked and getting positive attention, which is true. But if you're not careful you're going to run into an impasse quickly. People respond to results, like an impressive physique not ent…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:35 AM
17

Don't fuck fat Chick's. She told you to put it on the hood so she could go back later, collect, and have your child. Don't be a dick and throw your semen on someone's car, you fatty fucker.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:19 PM
8

You ever step back and think - "they" can say whatever they want, I don't give it any mind, whatsoever? Losers gonna keep losing, winners gonna keep winning. I don't consider the intellectual introspection of losers, cause I'm too busy winning.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:18 AM
3

Black pill is dissatisfaction turned outward and blaming others. Red pill is dissatisfaction turned inward and blaming yourself. Difference is, I'm not in control of others, I'm only in control of myself; I can do something about my own feelings of inadequacy.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:40 AM
3

The "real" masculinity is the look in a woman's eyes as you walk past her on the street w your muscles popping, hair slicked back and a confident smile on your face. Suckers live in the collective unconscious and attempt to change it, real men focus on their own consciousness and materialize it. Mainstream media only serves to further blind the sheep that are already eating their message. Alphas will remain alpha, betas will remain betas. But the gap is polarizing more and more every day.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:38 AM
4

You just jerked off a whole lot of red pillers w that 'old USA' comparison. Feelin like I need to blast Clearwater revival and machine gun gooks running through rice fields.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:35 AM
5

Don't know if it's in light of the recent terror attack in Toronto by an apperently incel, but I've noticed a lot more malevolent looks from low value men directed at me than ever before. I'm not some 9 Chad, but I am decent looking, built like a bull reasonably lean. But I see these looks seemingly everywhere I go. I either get respectful nods from other men, or I get glares from low value punks. Nothing could be more pathetic imo, then seeing a fellow community member and being pissed they've …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:25 AM
3

It seems like 99.2347894231789234% of these type of "how do I handle her" type posts end with someone saying "Next her", and I definitely agree there are a lot of women who deserve to be nexted. You gotta look at yourself and figure out why she's saying something like that because if you just next women for saying something out of line, I don't see how you're improving yourself. You're encountering a challenge and you're bailing out. That's a pretty bitch move to me. This is one giant hamster yo…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:59 AM
1

Precisely.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:51 AM
6

if you aren’t white, have a good jawline and chin, and are at least average height, you’re fucked. This is called "not taking responsibility for your own life." It is the only reason why your smv hasn't increased. Your mindset is scarcity, weakness, victim hood and defeatist. Your mindset is what is determining your behavior and women are very good at detecting your behavior; it's how they judge smv. You look as fine as any other man. Stop being a fucking pussy ass bitch, hold your head up high,…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:32 PM
9

Feelz before realz ain't no joke. They live in a different reality.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:40 PM
7

She's shit faced.. Her friend is the one who tells you off... This has all the hallmarks of a mother hen peck. She got drunk, told her friends all about you, her friends got jealous and decided they were gonna fuck it up. They filled her head full of nonsense and told her to call you with their direction. This wasn't hurt, but her manipulative, cunt friends. Women don't have agency like (most) men do.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:30 AM
3

You didn't skip it. My anger phase didn't happen until three years after I took trp. I got angry I reached a certain stage in life and realized that the reason I wasn't getting what I wanted, was because I wasn't good enough. Then all of the anger came out of me. Fucking rage for many months. Pissed off all the time. Family and friends were contemptuous obstacles in my way. You're sitting there from the analytical vantage point. Everything makes sense; of course it does. But you haven't actually…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:54 AM
0

She's about to become the sprouted seedling every feminist wanted her to be. Fuck, I can just imagine the misplaced resentment she is going to have when it hits her that high value men don't even notice her anymore. It's fucking sad, really.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 12:55 AM
1

Remaining grounded at all times is the only way. And to remain grounded, meditate. Meditate many times throughout the day by box breathing, no matter what you're doing.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:33 AM
2

Yes, that is certainly enough ioi's to strike up a light conversation. You gotta calibrate in real time, though. If she is receptive to your Hello, but then starts to pull away as you stick around, pull back as well. Also, you've obviously seen this girl a few times, so realize your asking her out doesn't have to happen the first time you talk to her. All that matters is that you escalate a little more each time. And yes, you are definitely overthinking it.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:32 AM
2

That's cause your beta alarms are going off. You're imagining jacked chad in the background walking over and pummeling you. Nothing wrong with this, every man has it. Just take smaller steps than you expect of yourself and eventually work up to overt openings.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:00 PM
8

Your alcohol philosophy is on point. I'm just figuring this out at 28.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:45 PM
2

Surrender the Booty pirate flag above bed I know what my next amazon purchase is gonna be😈
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:41 PM
5

Watching actions, not words is a double edged sword. This time around its a positive for you. She likes a pic, so what. Did she do anything with him? Wait for actionable offenses to make decisions. And for the love of Jesus, if you're tinkering around viewing her Instagram likes, you've got much bigger problems than deciding whether or not to commit.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:45 AM
11

No, lots of guys on this sub lack abundance. Give an incel beta a hot girl to be friends with and he'll willingly become her slave. Give an abundant alpha a hot girl to be friends with and he'll be able to rationally keep her at whatever distance he wants to.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 03:09 AM
2

Imagine a guy who stops in at the car dealership each night on his way home from work. He spends 5 minutes staring at the car of his dreams and goes home. This motivates him to work hard and save his money so that one day he'll have the car - it's a good thing to keep the object of his desire emotionally charged and at the center of his focus, because he is ultimately in control of the means to acquire the car; it is an active process. People, on the other hand, are not purchasable objects. Ther…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 02:05 AM
1

You're a fucking idiot op. What you have here is a situation where you're needy, insecure and sabotaging your perfectly good and healthy relationship. Believe me, if you want your relationship to crumble, keep fucking around and you will certainly get what you wish for, and all by your own hand. Or, be a fucking man and recognize what you have in your life and use that calmness to add the stress of other challenges to it. Start a business, get a degree, take up challenging or dangerous hobbies e…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:03 PM
4

He broke his own frame. One can only ever break their own frame. Essentially, breaking someone else's frame is an act of you convincing them to relinquish control of themselves to you. They're submitting to your dominance. You don't pressure them until their frame breaks, you pressure them until they *decide * to relinquish their control to you.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:51 AM
10

You're better off avoiding anything to do with an ex. This type of situation is exactly how you lose frame legitimately and possibly get in a fight. Why not avoid all of this drama all together? Because, at the core of this, your ex is absolutely relishing this attention she's receiving. Having two guys pseudo fight over her builds her ego like nothing else ever will. Atop being a pawn in her schemes. And really, you're asking if you broke his frame, but your ex already broke both your frames.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:48 AM
3

Depends what you're taking serious. Have you read the subtle art of not giving a fuck? What were trying to do is figure out what we, personally take seriously and what we don't. Taking everything seriously will make you miserable, taking nothing seriously makes you a child. But, above and beyond everything, you must always hold frame. If I can get you smiling in a conversation, push your buttons a little and back you into a corner, you ain't got shit. Believe me when I say, self control, even if…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:53 AM
22

Stop it. You're not a pussy. What you're doing is comparing yourself to archetypal Chad, who doesn't exist. Not man approaches every woman who gives him an ioi or who he finds attractive, the moment he becomes aware of her. Social context is such a massive fucking component in game and I barely ever gets brought up. Easing social interactions by having valid context makes it easier on you and ESPECIALLY easier on her. If you don't know a girl and have never spoke to her, a smile and saying hi is…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:48 AM
2

I don't want to fuck them, I just want to be a more respectable man. What is directly correlated to the level of respect others give you? Your frame. The more you give away in terms of expression, the more others will know that your are emotionally, and by extension, socially maleable.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:24 AM
7

Can confirm. Oldest friend (since we were 5) watches me improve over a couple years, listens to me spew rp truths and talk about game constantly. Fast forward to the next time we're out together. I'm capitalizing like a mfer ngaf, assuming amog status etc. I go take a piss, come back and he's told the girl I was getting friendly with (I'll be honest, she was a beauty and he knew I liked her a lot) that I'm a pick up artist and using every trick in the book to try and fuck her. This wasn't necess…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:11 AM
2

Eastern Europe: where men call each other out for their bullshit immediately and resolve shit physically if it comes to it? North America and the West in general has lost all social masculinity in this sense.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:04 AM
8

Men just throw you under a bus to suck up to some girl. Back in my day you'd get your ass kicked doing something like that.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:02 AM
4

I'm afraid my bluepilled feelings will overtake this. Ya dude, you fail, learn your lesson and get back into the game. Literally the only way to improve yourself in anything. Deciding not to participate because you're afraid of losing is what makes most people average losers.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:28 AM
2

That's cause you know your smv wouldn't permit it. Mine would - but it depends on hers as well. You gaming a 4 and you're a 7, you could probably pull it off. It's all relative.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:22 AM
2

You're a 29 year old woman who has fucked less than 5 guys? You a Mormon living in a homestead in the middle of fucking nowhere?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:19 AM
4

What they're doing is demonstrating their lack of understanding of the feminine struggle. Women wanna fuck, clearly, but giving pussy away is a mortal sin and they know it. When op asks her, she's forced to lie, which makes her resent him. We all know Chad is he who "just gets it." he doesn't tell her rp truths but demonstrates by being Chad.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:18 AM
1

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/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:25 AM
1

Alpha widow? Consider your ego may be blowing smoke up your own ass. She's not even interested in you. You're listening to her words, which are very good at manipulating you, clearly, and not watching her actions (flaking twice). Never internalize female ego stroking - they are FUCKING MASTERS at it. This is one of their best tools in growing you dependent on them. They stop validating your bitch ass and you chase them like a desperate boy.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:13 AM
0

5? Lmao no woman older than 18 had an N count below 5.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:08 AM
1

It's not the N count that matter, but the degree of damage that has been done by said N count. Some women are resilient as fuck. They were/are able to compartmentalize their sexual experiences and remain capable of pair bonding at will later in life. These women are few and far between, however. Most high N counts clearly have the "thousand cock stare" and are serious alpha widows. Judge her on her feminine values - compassion, kindness, nurture etc. Is she a sweet heart or is she cold and argum…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:07 AM
-3

It's just that, a shit test. It means nothing. Remember, it's not what she says, but what she does. Like you said A&A and amused mastery are key. "omg you're a baby!" smirk "ya, totally. But over the years I've gotten real good at sucking on titties. I'm a bit of a connoisseur." or something like that. You're there to have fun - enjoy the moment instead of banking on the outcome.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:59 AM
1

I wouldn't post pics or any personal info on trp. Pm me your pic if you want and I'll be honest w you.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:50 AM
3

First, try finding your spine. Second, say something like "hey guys, I wanna chill alone for a bit. Catch up later, ya? Ok, cya." and walk away. You afraid of hurting feelings? Your betas deserve a better alpha.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:46 AM
4

Anxiety and depression are physiological tools your unconscious kind uses to communicate to you that something that you're doing is wrong or the environment you're in is threatening. You gotta find out who you are, what your passions are and then commit your life to that. If you do this successfully and fully commit to your new found purpose, you will have no chronic anxiety or depression. If you meditate and journal and be very honest with yourself, you will eventually root out what you need to…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:42 AM
1

On the surface, sure. But if you look at it from sexual dynamics perspective, women are born valuable. They hit puberty and a few years later they are at maximum value without any toil. Men, on the other hand, hit puberty and a few years later they're value is about zero, relatively. Struggle, hardship and scars devalue a woman, but increase a man's value, as masculine values involve strength, courage, honor, toughness etc whole feminine values involve compassion, nurture, kindness, giving etc. …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 01:58 AM
3

You are the descendent of murdering rapists. What a sobering fucking concept. But utterly true in all regards. Makes me and my life look like a complete twat waffle. Will continue reading later. Great so far, op.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:18 PM
6

Every major bout of depression in my life, despite whatever complex philosophical reasons I might use to explain why they happened, have occurred simply because I wasn't meeting my most basic needs as a person. Exercise (lifting heavy), clean diet, water, sleep, financial responsibility, social interaction, pursuing intimate relationship(s), engaging in meaningful hobbies. If I'm not happy, smiling every day, it's because I'm not taking responsibility for one or more of those things. Life is pre…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:49 PM
2

I don't know man. Can you pass a test without adderal? Of course. Does it help? Of course, but you still have to show up and giver balls to the wall, eat clean as fuck, and change your mindset from a slob to an angry, meat eating boss.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:44 PM
6

I agree. What one could do, is say nothing happen, but do it with a very subtle extra bit of confidence. The agree and amplify type of confidence which gives you a cushion of plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:49 AM
5

Fuck, you went from slob to respectable man. Any major life events spur on the change?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:42 AM
1

Can confirm. Bulked up from 10% to ~20%bf this winter during bulking and I look like shit. Truth be told, my confidence is still there, but when I out a muscle shirt on, I my arms look like fat shit. When I was lean, you could clearly see my delts, biceps, triceps etc separation. Not to. Mention mid section. Going from a 6 pack to flab is fucking gross. Edit: and I'm saving this for motivation. Thanks op.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:38 AM
3

It's as if they need to be caught between uncertainty and dread to remain interested. But if you imagine living your life on an emotional plain instead of a logical one, that makes sense. Dudes find solitude in knowing within a reasonable degree that things are under control. Women need the constant emotional highs and lows.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:25 AM
14

Women dehumanize men into success objects to the point they can have no flaws. Jesus. This is so fucking true it hurts. I feel like the majority of women are haunted by this complex. Some even recognize it as the greatest source of their unhappiness, but can't seem to shake it for the life of them. This is also why nags are so fucking powerful. If a woman can pick at the tiniest of scabs in an effort to devalue me, what will happen when I point to major, fundamental flaws about her? Not in a mea…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 08:34 PM
1

You do realize it's your choice to just stop caring and put her out of your mind, right? Just takes a little courage.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:34 AM
7

You're annoyed by her treating you like a fool, right? You don't like her behavior, right? Then treat her like someone who's behaviour doesn't resonate with your self respect or self image. Laugh, chalk her up as silly and put her out of your mind for good; or, until her behaviour aligns with your frame.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:23 PM
5

You know you're playing the game correctly when self amusement ranks as your number one priority, far above what she thinks or getting laid. Gold.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:19 PM
2

She's toying with you. She's just not that interested and is either shit testing or doesnt want you making a move if you do join up. Sounds like a lot more work than it's worth. I'd politely decline and move on. If she is actually interested, she'll make a full effort. They always do.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:16 PM
1

It's close, man
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:44 AM
3

It's true that what women want more than anything is to be desired by a high value man. Showing her your true intentions by messaging her isn't going to dry her up. But it depends what your intentions are. Is life good, are you living it at full speed, or are you experiencing a depression void? Of you're jacked up on testosterone because of diligent, consistent workouts and want to slam some pretty pussy, then being honest with your intentions won't creep her out even slightly - she'll be able t…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:38 AM
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Haha that is genuinely funny man. It's just the luck of the draw. Good for you for retaining your dignity, not reacting and leaving. That bitch is so insecure, she is incapable of respecting men that are interested in her. It takes a certain level of self esteem to respect other people's boundaries and engage with them. She ain't even on the scale. I wouldn't have done anything different than you. Chalk it up as a success on your part and realize it's just the luck of the draw.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:18 AM
7

Afterward she asks if we're exclusive Uh oh, here it comes! and I ask when was the last time you hooked up with someone Smh. Bro, you got some grand delusions this girl is some Saint? A woman's pussy is her primary source of value. She will do whatever it takes, including lying to your face to protect its perceived value. which I figured out had been over spring break. I wasn't particularly stoked about this and told her the next day I didn't want to date anymore, to which she sorta flipped and …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:34 AM
4

The reason us autistic beta males probably wouldn't figure out the smp on our own, is because we were raised to believe human beings were not capable of such Machiavellian deception. Once you swallow trp and realize war, violence, raping and pillaging simply shifted from the overt to the covert a few thousand years ago, it makes perfect sense. Adopting the 48 laws of power into your world view reduces much of the world's chaos into a predictable, manageable system.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 01:44 AM
2

7k a month. That's sick. Good for her! See what I did there op? That's what a normal, reasonable person would do upon hearing that news. I call her to check up on her and she picks up right away. You know she is fully aware of what you're doing, right? It'd eroding your value in her eyes, obviously. I can't deny that I'm suspicious. No kidding. And she knows it full well. Of course I don't know how to interpret the situation. I have no reason to suspect she's lying or cheating but I don't feel c…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:09 PM
2

Exactly. Typical actions vs words scenario. I met a girl once who owned her own remote business. She could travel anywhere in the world and work from her laptop. She was quiet, mature and extremely intelligent. People that are better than most people live their reality. They don't need to tell anyone how amazing their lives are, because talking and doing are completely different things.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:59 PM
13

Chill aspie
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:12 AM
2

Two years? What happens then? This a lifelong pursuit called the human experience. Just pick a value such as enjoying other people's company, instead of getting laid. That way, even if you don't make it to sex, you're still successful in your metric.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:43 PM
1

You're right. The beta male is simply a follower. There are many followers who still improve themselves daily. Further, every alpha chad we see in society is a beta in many of his social circles. For instance, the jacked, shredded dude is the gym alpha, but at his new job, his is a submissive beta to guys that would be his beta, if they went to his gym. The Omega is that out cast. The one who isn't willing to be the beta to any alpha, because he so full of bitterness and resentment. Insecurity i…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:00 AM
4

starfish sex for dinner money. I did that, once. I've since never participated in a more pathetic and degrading exchanging as sitting through a spoilt bitch's monologue, paying for her meal, then watching the impatient look on her face as she allowed me to fuck her soulless, valley girl, spray tanned, noodle of a body. Yuck. Got up halfway through, clothed up and walked out without saying a word, despite her shrill shrieks. Lesson learned. If it ain't a fuck yes, it's a no.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:48 PM
1

Keep in mind who's frame you're in. Is she unreasonably dictating the pace or are you reasonably leading the situation? I've had girls suggest dinner multiple times on first dates, I immediately tell them they crazy and we should probably get a coffee or a drink and see if we enjoy each other's company first. There is a very high chance she wants to gouge you for a free meal when she suggests dinner on a first date. Don't play be her rules, play by yours.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:11 PM
2

None of them ever did. Obviously not devout practicing Muslims, then. But their family certainly was and they identified as Muslim.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 08:57 PM
3

You are already spinning it in your favour. They like you, which demonstrates social proof to everyone, including your boss. Keep it professional and classy, and it will give your career a boost.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:22 AM
4

Lol don't waste your time. Women are attracted to men with their priorities in line and they do that by observing their behaviour. Get muscular and lean and your face will become more attractive on its own.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:18 AM
3

Culturally, yes. But I find they're a lot more feminine than white girls. Their parents are more traditional being immigrants and you can definitely tell. They're usually pleasantly submissive.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:39 PM
5

And they're first Gen westerners, not immigrants. Should have clarified that.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 05:32 AM
1

Oh I punished her, however mutually pleasing it might have been.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 04:48 AM
4

Not true. I've had Persian Muslim Chick's on all fours several times. Not the veiled variety, however.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 08:41 PM
14

Trp is the truth. Once armed with the truth there will be a gap between where you know the winner is and where you currently are. How you navigate that gap to become the winner, to whichever degree honestly satisfies you, will determine your satisfaction with life. Op has gone far. He has integrated knowledge and action with honesty to the degree which allows him to love outwardly, because he finally loves inwardly. And all because he is an effective man in today's world.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:17 PM
1

I find the biggest benefit of trp is waking up to the Machiavellian nature of women. Their ability to lie is uncanny. In fact, I'd say it comes as natural to them as telling the truth comes to good boy betas. Beta men are incapable being honest with themselves and dishonest to others, while women are incapable of being honest with others when the outcome doesn't favour their solopsistic metrics. I wouldn't necessarily hold women in contempt for this, however, because they are most often slaves t…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:54 PM
3

This is always the case. Our mind searches through high level, abstract philosophy in search of the great secrets or perspectives of life. While we spend our days doing this, we neglect to secure the most basic needs of life: health, security, financial, social, intimate. These are the first thing a psychologist looks for in a patient. If they're not being met, they are almost always the source of discontent.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:14 PM
3

This just made my day.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:10 PM
12

Don’t gamble your livelihood and potentially your actual life out of fear of being alone. The entire marriage idea stems from a man's inability to realize the obvious. It is only his fear, nurtured by his woman to involve the state, which compels him to get married. If he steps back, he'd see that the relationship was held up by absolutely nothing more than his performance in the smv arena. An arena which devalues the man who shackles himself like a fool to the whims of a woman. Side story: I've…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 04:11 PM
1

Try explaining to the plugged in bp, that there is no upside to marriage. It is his idiotic fantasy you're threatening with your reason and he can't handle that. It's his life line.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 03:59 PM
1

180 day prison sentence for missed child support payment. Ahaha afraid I'd have to call societies bluff on that one. They send him away, he becomes an expense to the state, along with the his wife and child. He stops working and contributes zero in income tax etc. This system is laughable and I'd just as quick laugh in the judges face and tell him to do his worst. You may fuck me up, but you won't take my dignity or self respect.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 03:57 PM
4

This type of shit has actual rapists laughing out loud. Society gonna pay a price for exchanging liberty for(negligible) temporary safety.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:41 PM
1

Yes that probably would be strange to her. Women are exactly cocaine to the brain. It's okay to do cocaine here and there, but when it starts to be the first thing you think about when you wake up and all actions in your day revolve around eventually having it, you're fucked; it is now your master. Just think before each time you text her. Is there something more important I should be focusing on right now? Am I texting her because I'm desperate for that emotional validation that makes life feel…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:38 PM
1

First, you can only kill attraction through texting, like you say. Second, these rules exist to emulate the alpha. The alpha is he who has himself at the center of his life. His priorities revolve around ensuring his needs are met first, then the needs of others. You can txt your gf whenever or whatever you want, but if she begins to be the center of your life, she will know it. You shouldn't have to stop yourself from saying what you want to say to her. Instead, ask yourself why you want to say…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:12 AM
3

At least you know your energy is a direct function of your vit D intake. Guess regular blood tests are a must.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:08 AM
5

Did the vit D supplement help you?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 12:44 AM
3

Navigating intentions is work for those with extreme emotional intelligence. The vast majority will attribute his actions first to neivity and stupidity, then some will call him a thirsty white knight. Then a few of us will hope for the best and assume courage, strength, bravery, mastery and duty. No one really knows who he was, but to me the story spells it out pretty clear.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:21 AM
12

Being beta to ops degree literally hacks down your testosterone. He doesn't realize what he's passing up until she jumps on some other dick, leaves him, and he is left to the cold of the outside world that his test will increase and he'll know what he passed up. I am sympathetic, though, cause God knows I've been there.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:23 AM
3

In fact, op is insulting her biological intelligence by assuming she is some sterile, friggid snowflake. If he won't give her tingles and fuck her like alpha of her dreams, she is genetically programmed to seek out the man who is/will. Hypergamy and the 80/20 rule are nature's standards. Monogamy is Frankenstein monstrosity which thwarted evolutions best efforts at utilizing favourable genes. By op denying her true nature, he is denying nature itself. Unconsciously, she wants desperately a man w…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:15 AM
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All of what you're describing is an attempt to preserve your blue pill projection of who you think your gf is. Bro, she is a sexual human being. She lusts after men she sees in the super market. She talks to jacked dudes and her pussy gets wetter than when she's talking to you. She is a slut. She happens to be in an ltr with you at this moment, but make no mistake, she would certainly opt to get pounded by three studs in a hotel room should the ideal set of circumstances take place. I'm saying t…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:11 AM
0

When the student is ready, the master will appear. If the student stumbles around asking stupid questions which they could easily find out with the smallest shred of effort, what master would lend his hand?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:45 AM
2

Bro... What gets me good is the ego stroking. "I've never came that many times in my life!" or "Your cock is amazing!" (completely average and I wasn't even that horny lmao), or "You're so strong and manly!" while grabbing my arms, or "You're really smart!" I just smile on the surface, but inside I'm dieing laughing. Thank God for trp we can recognize this and not let it slip into our ego, because one day, she is gonna pull away her constant ego stroking and that void is gonna make us come crawl…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:44 AM
2

It's almost as if they show you one mask, while their true self resides underneath.. Hmm sounds like some Machiavellian shit to me.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:22 PM
5

What you've found is a woman who is lower in neuroticism than most women. She is more stable and is probably better ltr material. Keep in mind the vast majority of trp strategy is aimed at the highly neurotic hypergamous, millennial, Instagram infused sluts who need a constant barrage of attention and validate to avoid slipping into the meaningless void of their existence. The game trp teaches you to apply is for these women. If you leverage 2/3 rule against more stable women, such as you descri…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:21 PM
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Exactly. What an example of living a life truly centered on masculine values. I'm not saying giving his life up for the woman had anything to do with it, what I am saying is he clearly embodies courage, honor, strength and duty.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 10:08 PM
2

Don't post this nonsense. This level of back and forth is for sjws and cavemen alike. Rise above it. Ignore it. We're better than this. Even if the mainstream read that tweet, it will only resonate with the truly retarded. No one's gives a fuck that retarded people exist. Therefore, it's irrelevant.... Unless you're retarded, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 10:06 PM
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What would you say to the guy who walks into the gym and complains loudly because he isn't jacked and lean? Bro.. The information is everywhere. Seek first yourself and if you can't find it, then ask others for help. Handing over obvious information breeds laziness on his end and reduces self respect on ours. Trp was once a place where bad ass mother fuckers would tear you a new one for asking dumb, easily answered questions which could be found with 5 minutes of sidebar reading.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:03 PM
1

You actually came here and made a post asking this question... Wtf is this sub coming to.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:06 AM
1

Savage
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:05 AM
2

Why, so you can half ass your gym sessions? Building a masculine physique has to main benefits. It teaches you discipline and consistency, and it makes you more attractive to women. Yes, going from a fat loser to muscular and lean makes you go from invisible to getting ioi's everywhere you go. It changes your fucking life. It opens up the possibility of fucking women for the first time in your life.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:03 AM
2

Side bar you fuck. A&A + amused mastery
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:00 AM
2

1 - You think people are judging you, none of them are, it is all in your head. 2 - you have to approach others, they won't approach you. 3 - once you get comfortable doing this, a new found level of social power and control over your life will sink in. One of the best decisions I ever made was going out alone.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:55 AM
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Largely depends on the girl. The average 20 year old girl doesn't, granted, but there are always exceptions to the rule. If intellect is your primary strength, embrace that shit and flaunt it. I knew a girl once, a smoke show who was wickedly smart. This girl would get wet listening to her profs lecture. She would get lost in your eyes if you were passionate about a topic and could navigate with wit and fluidity.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:52 AM
1

Ding ding ding
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:49 PM
2

Female dominance is done out of necessity. They don't want to have to take control, but they must if there is no stable spined man around to do it. Female domination is akin to male submission. Does it feel natural for you, as a man, to be submissive and placate to others? Of course not, it is unnatural. We all feel that tug in our gut when we're told what to do like a boy. This is how she feels when she has to tell men what to do. It's Inherently alien to her. Keep that firmly rooted in your fr…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:41 PM
1

If you're honest with yourself, it's only because you are holding out for the chance to bang in the future. You hang around like that and you will ensure she never sees you in that light.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:36 PM
1

See, the way you explained the situation, OP, is that you stood up for someone when she was clearly being kicked around for no reason. That, in and of itself, is what most normal people would do, to a reasonable degree. What white knighting is, is going above and beyond in support of a woman because you believe it'll gain you favor with her. It is a covert contract. The fall out you experienced isn't because the situation went down like you described it, but because you went well above and beyon…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 03:10 AM
1

1 - its a numbers game - you certainly won't win em all. No one does. 2 - The thirstier you are, the less likely she'll quench your thirst. 3 - Invest your time and energy into everything else except women. As soon as other things become your focus, you'll lighten up around them and that's when they'll want you.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:50 AM
1

Law 6 - Court attention at all cost. Not my cup of tea. Although,let it be known, obtaining power in place of tranquility isn't my cup either. I suppose, one could argue that remaining stoic and confident, but quiet in social situations is, in and of itself, a form of garnering attention. When everyone else is trying to have the loudest voice, your silence can be the loudest thing.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:46 AM
1

"Hey, sorry about what I did to you the other day. I don't feel good about it and wanted to apologize." What means more to you, saying what you have to say, or her opinion of what you say?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:37 AM
1

Set it the day before, though. I've never had luck planning a date more than a day in advance.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:09 AM
1

Precisely. I go out because I like liquor, music, good conversation and attractive women. Getting laid is as much of a gift to the girl, as it is to me, due to my smv. Because of this, when a girl shows interest beyond friendly conversation, I can toy with it (not her, but her interest). There is space in between our mutual desire to fuck and the actual act of doing it. I'm not trying to rush it out of desperation and believe it or not, I'm actually making fun of the girl for wanting it, indirec…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:07 AM
1

Funny thing is, we're on the same page. In the moment, we know what the right thing to do is and whether or not we're being cowards or stupid. The cowards shouldn't be cowards and the dumb, shouldn't be dumb. I'll check out that movie.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:54 AM
1

I'd go with the same, tried and tested combo, same as always: A&A and Amused Mastery. You hold frame and you can break down literaly anyone. Or, he'll swing, in which case it's open season on his ass.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:12 AM
1

You're right, but if you let others walk all over your boundaries like a bitch, you're Damn well gonna start believing you are one. I pity mother fuckers who take wicked tongue lashings, put their head down and walk away. That shit will follow you for the rest of your life. It ain't for anyone else but yourself when you stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:09 AM
1

No one said life was gonna be easy.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:08 AM
1

"He punched the guy... He thinks the guy is still a racist, but.." Lmaoo ya that's probably a safe bet.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:05 AM
1

You're talking about neediness. Guys who go out trying desperately hard to find a girl to fuck are spotted instantly by women and most game aware men. Think about it this way. If you're going out trying hard to convince girls to fuck you, you're clearly have major issues, because the guy the girl is going to fuck, is the guy who goes out to enjoy the music, drinks and people. He's in love with the moment and this leaves him with an aura of humour, wit and confidence in his sexuality. Your boys d…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:03 AM
1

I'm with you. The day I realized shit is only awkward when I think it is, and I usually only think it is when I force something unnatural to happen, my life got a lot more chill.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:54 AM
3

Ghost her. Any chick willing to dig that deep into a (albeit, probably awkward) goodbye kiss would be more work than it's worth. I mean, she's looking for you to kiss her ass, clearly. What she wants is for you to apologize like a dog and then beg to see her again. Don't do that to yourself dude. Awkward moments are par for the course. Don't feel bad, they happen to everyone. But, you know what normal people don't do? They don't text the other person and bitch about it later. What a twat.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:52 AM
1

Asking for a number over a dating app is silly. You can text her right there.. I've only ever had girls hit the brakes after we set something up and then I ask for her number.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:48 AM
2

Yeah, definitely push again to meet up. The question she posed at the end gives me the 'validation whore' vibe. A simple "nah, in person. Let's get a drink tomorrow night." is enough to root out her true intentions.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:46 AM
4

Unless you're a pansy boy who wants to use that quote to justify sitting in his mom's basement playing with his laptop.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:19 AM
4

Two shifts of "back breaking" labour breaking tires? Two shifts wasn't enough time to come to any conclusions. You didn't give it an honest shot. At 18 years old, working physically, interacting and fitting in with a group of men, learning skills and working with your hands is a 10x return compared to sitting on your ass trading crypto currency. At the end of the day, you do you. But the mere fact you came here trying to get trp to validate your decision tells the truth. And for the record, brea…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:18 AM
5

Truth be told, some of my most toxic perspectives originated from trp. The key here though, is to realize that trp only offered me the truth. It was I who took the truth and colored it with bitter sentiment. One could just as easily frame trp truths in a strictly positive and productive light. For years I've worked at rewriting my perspectives regarding women. First, they were angels, then post trp, they were cunning Machiavellian hags. These days, they're feminine humans struggling to find mean…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 12:57 AM
5

There's a good section in Models by mark Manson, where he explains after a decade of travelling and running game, where basically all of his anxiety is gone, but the only thing that remains is the voice in his head that disqualifies others. "her hairs too short", "she's too old", "I shouldn't have to approach her, she should say something to me" type stuff. This type of defeating or diminishing self talk is the psyches way of preserving the status quo and an attempt to limit change. Personally, …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:33 PM
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Great post op. Your point actually transcends many arenas of life. Often times our greatest obstacle in obtaining the object of our desire - the new job, degree, award etc. Isn't the external ones, but ourself. We feel deep down, unconsciously even, that we aren't good enough and don't deserve the bounty we are about to receive. Self sabatoge is very real and it is fucking essential to recognize the feeling in ourself and cut that shit out.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 01:05 AM
4

You know your truth. Don't let what you think others believe, to nag you. Often times, no one is thinking it anyway. We're our own worst enemies.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:56 AM
1

Play to your strengths. Don't go to club dance floors where big dudes push you around. Go to pubs or bars where physical presences isn't as much of a factor (although it always will be).
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:15 AM
3

I don't know. When do you listen to what a child says and when do you ignore it?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:06 AM
2

Bro I barely graduated highschool. Thought I was dumb my entire childhood. When I was 21 I decided I would make an honest attempt at a stem field because it interested me. Fucking sailed through it. Worked hard and did well because I understood why I was doing it and why I had to work for it. If you're not there yet, don't force it! I worked for a number of years out of high school doing labor before I knew what I wanted to do. Give it time. Don't go into debt. It's not a competition with everyo…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:43 AM
1

People are antifragile. We need to be subjected to hardship in every arena of life in order to become more resilient. Don't shy from adversity, don't fear lose and failure. Strive to be tested; strive to be beaten so that one day you might not be. Life is a set of games. In order to win at life, you must compete in many games; some you win, some you lose. If you lose a game and choose to stop playing because you don't like to lose, you'll forfeit your chance of winning at the overall set of game…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:31 AM
2

I don't think there is a better story to describe the over investment teens have in the opinions of those in their social circles. Op, it don't matter man. I remember being the that in hs, so no worries. Just know there'll come a point where this type of stuff makes you laugh cause it really doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:57 PM
7

It's absolutely a rp truth. "She don't wanna be saved." She is doing exactly what she wants, she is jumping in his limo and pulling on his belt because that is the thing she wants the most. This is why women resent nice guys who try to "save them" from the pump and dump lifestyle. There is no difference comparing it to a nagging gf complaining every time you go out to the club, get drunk and try and rub up on hot club sluts. You're young, and that's what you want.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:20 PM
1

I've never gotten that.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:15 PM
6

It's worth noting women are utterly shaped by the people they surround themselves. Men are to whichever degree they're agreeable, but women are almost unanimously the sum of their social circle.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 05:31 AM
7

This is called being a human and it's why we're here. Next time you'll be a little bit better.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 05:27 AM
1

6 pillars of self esteem by Nathaniel Branden
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:20 AM
5

It's only when we forget that women are children, that we run into problems. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 01:32 AM
3

Amused mastery and agree and amplify. Make a mockery out of his nonsense. If he is a joke, treat him like one.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 01:29 AM
7

Amused mastery. Remember: she knows he's a loser and she's bringing him up to shit test you. This is a joke to you. She is a silly girl trying to manipulate you into losing your cool. Have a chuckle and tell her she's a big girl and deal with boys chasing her by now.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 01:24 AM
2

Not really. Just meet them, ask questions and when it comes up, next.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 01:19 AM
5

Or he's a nice guy and they see someone they can manipulate.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 01:18 AM
2

Do you understand how ironic it is you sound like a woman who put herself in a situation willingly, fully aware of the risk, and then after the encounter, changed her mind because of her feelz. Accept the risk some broads will try and sneakily pull your rubber off while fucking. Accept the risk that some broads, after they pull the rubber off without you knowing, will latch on to you with all their strength just before you're about to pull out. Some broads are masterfully deceitful and want to t…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:53 PM
1

So you want me to come over and rub your back and tell you it's all gonna be alright? Some people do shady things. Deal with it, learn your lesson to screen others better before you let them close to you.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 03:04 PM
2

Funny story: had been dating this chick for a few weeks. Spending a fair bit of time together (ya, i know). We start talking about Chick's "accidentally" getting pregnant on the pill(which she is on). I tell her that the pill is to eggs like Lysol is to bacteria - a fucking wrecker. And that if a chick I was fucking ever accidentally got pregnant while on the pill, I wouldn't accept responsibility for it, cause clearly she intended on it. She fucking lost her mind rambling off all sorts of nonse…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:06 AM
2

First of all, she didn't force you to do anything. You chose to fuck her without a rubber. Second, you sound like a fucking twat arguing with a chick and crying about not wearing a rubber. Are you a grown man or a child? Does this woman rule over you? You feel odd the next day? Jesus christ dude. Why don't you hit up FB with the #metoo and share the story of your terrifying experience. I may choose to fuxk bitches without a rubber, but it's because I want to and because I'm willing to accept the…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:50 AM
1

Three days later is too far ahead to plan a date imo. I've always had better success planning for the next day/night. Sounds like she isn't interested. Move on my dude.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:43 AM
1

You're doing nothing wrong. Remember, success and failure largely has nothing to do with you in the moment, but with her. Sounds like you're doing great to me!
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:40 AM
3

Exactly. What each person needs is a healthy ego. One which balances the individual between contentment and healthy progress relative to his peers.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 01:36 AM
4

My ego's latest survival tool is convincing me its okay to sink back into my old ways because of a couple years of progress. For instance, it's okay that I break frame with a girl because "I was being honest and she deserved to be put in her place." Or, "it's okay if you slack on your diet, you already look way better than everyone around you." As life goes on, I really do need to refine my sources of motivation. Meditation is the only thing that grounds me back to reality; the alternative is an…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 01:22 AM
1

Always remember women usually need between four to seven hours to hook up. And at any rate, it's more worth your time to understand that it probably isn't you, but her. Women are wild cards who get shuffled every day of the week. Accept what happened with a smile and put it out of your mind.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:14 AM
1

Depends. If you're emotionally dependent on her, than yes. If you could ghost her right now for the slightest hiccup, than you could probably tell her you miss her. Women usually know if you're a dependent boy or an emotionally fulfilled man.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:11 AM
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She will subconsciously follow him across the room with here eyes and be extra friendly giving out multiple IOI’s. I know her very well and when her behaviour is abnormal and flirtatious. How do I handle this? You don't. All you can do is maintain frame and out it out of your mind. Also, better or more decent women will mate guard themselves to a degree. Yes awalt. But some have enough respect for you to not disrespect you openly, in public. Will women generally always prefer more physically big…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:57 AM
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Oppressors of what? Women? Of course they are. But they're also the protectors and providers. Like literally any force of nature, it is a double edged sword. Sturdy values and self control are required to finely hone yourself over your lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:15 AM
3

Pulling someone into your frame is called game.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 09:14 PM
1

I always wait to see her response when the bill comes. If she immediately reaches for it, or pulls out a card, and I also enjoyed my time with her, I'll pay... This time. If she sits there and stares at me, I'll ask her if she's gonna pay? If she says "yes for sure!" and reaches for money, and I enjoyed my time w her, I'll pay.... This time.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 02:05 AM
1

Yeah, I recognize that as well. I say something I regret and immediately get embarrassed - instead of wallowing in the emotion, I immediately flush it out as quickly as possible and regather myself. In the past I would sit there for 10x longer and let it consume me, turn beat red and then think about the incident for days. I figure most people, as they mature, realize making mistakes is human and some even learn to forgive themselves the same moment they make them. This makes you incredibly resi…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:59 AM
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Frame is self control. It's the ability to lock eyes with a lion and not show an ounce of fear, even though your life could easily be over. It's not laughing at a joke you don't think is funny, despite social pressure. It's fighting through self doubt following through with saying hi to that girl at the gym, even though you'll probably be awkward, fuck it up and embarrass yourself. Frame is deciding what your version of reality is, and convincing yourself and those around with near certainty, th…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:26 AM
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Until they're in the presence of a masculine man and submit to his frame like everyone else.. Then he becomes their reality. It's only the women who aren't selected by masculine men and have to tolerate feminine betas, that subscribe to feminism.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 04:01 PM
21

Op clearly used that point to show how pathetic he was.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 06:09 AM
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I swear these feminists are some of the most oblivious nihilists I've ever seen. It is their nature to mock, shit test and berate what shred of confidence and self esteem men have, but what is the end game? If you remove the structures western men implemented, you are left with the chaos of nature and what remains of barbaric cultural structures still implemented around the world. Sure, western men have gotten soft, but how short sighted do you have to be to promote ideas which not only bite off…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 02:29 AM
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Everything which embodies traditional masculinity will be destroyed. There is a lack of understanding of what masculinity is. True masculinity is consciousness in action. It is the ability to bring order to chaos. It then follows that in order to remove "traditional" masculinity, one would need to take action in the name of chaos, in order to reduce the traditional structures which fostered masculine development. This is the same archetypal opposition seen in the dark knight. The joker is evil; …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 12:12 AM
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Attacking masculinity, truly masculine men, will be like punching a brick wall. It's a fools errand. This is why those who view all masculinity as toxic demonstrate their lack of understanding in what masculinity even is. Yes, I may be an insecure man, so I embrace masculine pursuits to make myself better. Now that I'm better, I'll face less instances which make me feel insecure, thereby making me less insecure. It is through real world testing and betterment which masculinity is pronounced. Cri…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 11:55 PM
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1 be attractive - lift, have your own style 2 be horny - stop porn and jerking off for a several days before you take her out 3 let your sexual energy guide your actions. Let your lust for her overrule your self consciousness.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:13 PM
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And that only happens naturally when you're horny. You get horny by abstaining from porn and jerking off for a few days. I can't believe how my game went from shit to tip top after building up sexual energy in myself. They can smell it on you.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:10 PM
1

In my country you may use violence to protect yourself (self-defence). Clearly my safety wasn't compromised there so sucker punching him would have sent me straight to jail. No pouring a drink over you, soaking you in beer, in front of a club full of people is 100% violence inflicted on you. It's less about the degree to which he actually hurt you and more about the such blatant lack of respect he has for you. He demonstrated that to everyone. He crossed a major fucking boundary and, although yo…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 03:37 PM
2

Then at what point would it have been acceptable to fight back? Is it ever okay to throw a punch? The dude crossed the line by pouring the drink, simple as that.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 03:06 PM
1

You have to lead by example. Real relationships and connections require trust. How do you build trust? Honesty. Honesty is saying exactly what you think to people, regardless of what their reaction is going to be. It can be telling a girl she's beautiful, or it could be telling a friend you think he is full of shit. When you're willing to get rejected or have someone freak out over your comment because of its truth, you are making true friendships. Again, you must polarize people. They need to l…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:37 AM
2

I've read it a couple times. Exceptional book imo. The "Fuck yes or no" chapter is the remedy to ego investment in every woman you approach or game. Either she is thrilled and we are green, or she isn't quite (or at all) and we're red. If we wanna get next level about it, we can even say, this applies from moment to moment with the same girl. It's called push and pull. Each conversation topic, each question, statement or response is a give and take. We're both sizing each other up, determining w…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:30 AM
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It's your life. But, do you really wanna engage with a bitch willing to drag some, albeit bp fucking idiot, through her sick games? Fuck man, life is so much more fulfilling dealing w broads w even a shred of decency. Yes awalt, but some are a little less of a cunt than the one you're deal with.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:58 AM
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1 - remember, feminism is a giant shit test. 2 - agree and amplify + amused mastery are key. Don't take her seriously. She is only seeing if she can break your frame for her own amusement.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:55 AM
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Higher quality women will simply be in your vicinity and occasionally glance at you waiting for you to approach her. True. If you want a healthy relationship where the woman's femininity compliments your masculinity, you have to start things off on that foot. You must be the one who approaches her and attempts to assert yourself. She should naturally be wary of your advances but give you just enough indications that she is interested, if she is. It's easy when women approach you, but it's unheal…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:36 AM
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The problem is you're not going for women you want, you're letting them approach you. Interesting assertion. But i have to agree with you. This has been my experience as well. As an attractive introvert, women usually approach me at bars. Girls that do this are almost always emotionally unstable. You got a weak frame. These type of women approach men they want to fuck, they can be very charismatic and charming and completely masochistic in the same action. Hit the nail on the head here, as well.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:31 AM
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I'm just stating an observation. If the women you attract have emotional problems, become attached quickly and then flip out when you break it off, I'd say several thing are happening. If you attract emotionally unstable people into your life it is almost certainly because you're either emotionally unstable or needy yourself. Second, if they're flipping out after you break things off, there is probably an element of misguided expectations. Perhaps you're not making your intentions known as well …
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:28 AM
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How to best proceed? Fuck this question. Do what you want. Express your intentions and don't be afraid of getting rejected. Is this the first time you've talked to women? You reek of a dude who had such little experience with women, he desperately doesn't want to "Fuck up" the first opportunity he has to impress them. Figure out who you are first and stop caring so much what they think of you.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:46 PM
2

Besides their bpd and depression, you're the only other thing they have in common. Think about that for a minute.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:40 PM
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This is VERY closely related to the common phrase we always hear: "Just be yourself" What people actually mean to say, is EXPRESS YOURSELF. This means you have a level of honesty with yourself. It means you do and say what is the truest expression of your nature in each moment. Expressing yourself is at the very opposite end of the depression spectrum. To depress means to not express. If you're holding back who you are in thought, word and deed from the world, you're effectively depressing yours…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:50 AM
3

It starts with you. If you feel like you want to do it, in the moment, do it without thinking about it. If it feels natural and unforced, and you have zero shame about it, she will not think twice about. Basically, she won't think twice about it if you don't think twice about it - if you qualify yourself, she will qualify you.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 03:38 PM
5

One of the biggest hurdles dudes have to get over is the one most attached to their ego. The majority of women you ask out, game, flirt with and try to hook up with, will not be interested in you. This goes beyond looks, game and everything else. Most often it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. It's as simple as accepting rejection as a fact of life.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:57 AM
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You're failing somewhere along the line. Try to be colder, act less interested, be more cocky in person and don't push to hangout, or even ask, until she is obviously waiting for you to ask.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:53 AM
3

Read the 48 laws of power. Then, realize the Machiavellian tips and tricks you've just learned, women have evolved with naturally and use them unconsciously, to their advantage. This is why in our hyper feminized society (covert, deceptive tactics instead of overt and direct masculine tactics), men are often played like fiddles. Only the ones rational enough, clever enough and ruthless enough are able to stay afloat and rise through the ranks. Those girls are fucking with you and you're feeding …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:51 AM
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Doubtful.. Women are people too, and emotional ones at that. Maybe she woke up next to op and her mind went to a different place? It's not always about op not being good enough, or op not slamming for hours. If you've made it into bed and are fucking, she's already qualified you, which means she's opened up. At this point, assuming she is rejecting you or is disappointed, is probably not the reason she is being distant. It's probably some form of regret or sadness that being with op has kicked u…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:59 PM
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This is the only real answer. Approach anywhere you want, it's your world, afterall. When I'm lifting, im a fucking mess. My headphones are blasting, I'm soaked in sweat and I've got a crazy look in my eye while I'm fucking up my next set. Sure, women are everywhere, but I'm not in the right frame of mind to approach a chick and casually strike up a convo; I'm pretty sure most of them would prefer to admire me from a distance due to my 'beast mode' intensity anyway.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:53 PM
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You know who can walk away from women whom they've shared a lot of time together, fucked, cuddled etc and not give it a second thought? Psychopaths. The connection between emotional stimulus and reward center a normal mind experiences is exactly that of a drug user. Because the psychopath is devoid of emotional connection, he doesn't receive the pleasure center reward (beyond sex) and therefore legitimately isn't bothered, even slightly, by walking away. When you say you are excited about a brea…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:12 AM
1

No. Op isn't strong enough for that. No one here is. This is why a hard next is always the better option. You're fully committing to yourself for the long term and simultaneously removing her ability to drag you back into it. Soft nexting or ignoring her contact is like cocaine addict allowing himself to go to a bar and have a couple drinks. He knows he won't touch coke, but after a little dopamine hit from the first double whiskey, his brain chemistry has altered and so has his inhibitions. Wom…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:46 AM
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Start with stronglifts 5x5 or similar. Hypertrophy comes after a foundation of strength. Strength comes from lower Rep ranges (3-5) of compound movements. After you get solid beginner numbers, say around 6 months, you can start adding in auxiliary movements like pull ups, dips, lunges, curls, chest flies and front/side/rear delt cable work at higher Rep ranges (8-12). With lower Rep strength training you should focus on form primarily. With higher Rep auxiliary work, you should keep your mind on…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:37 AM
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I like to view the compound exercises as your foundation. You need to build a strong core, quads, glutes and back first. Hypertrophy, however, is obtained through higher Rep ranges for most exercises. For instance, doing doubles or triples for deadlifts and squats are essential for strength, but sets of 8 or 10 focusing on complete engagement of the muscles through full range of motion, is how you engorge your muscles with blood make em swole af. My typical gym day starts with heavy compound mov…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:31 AM
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"How do you know everyone?" "networking" Please don't answer with that again. Saying things explicitly is a mood killer. Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless. It will stimulate her imagination, 10x more like you mentioned. Saying "I'm a likeable guy" smirk would have been much better imo. Great post, however!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 06:09 AM
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Role playing is one thing. Actually slipping her drugs and removing her ability to give consent or remove that consent is insanely risky. Also, she thinks she would enjoy getting roofied and "raped" as a fantasy, but under the influence of ghb or whatever date rape drugs are, she could have a totally different perspective.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:03 AM
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So, I would like to add, Women will GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to fuck you if they truly like you. They will literally serve you with more eagerness and enthusiasm than the most devote beta serves his oneitis. This is what happens when women embrace one or more of their core values like giving and generosity.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:58 AM
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And if they're really interested, you can literally do no wrong. They will inflate your value and validate your ego any chance they get.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:54 AM
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She just wants to have you around to keep validating her and giving her attention. I ain't even gonna pretend I don't do the same thing to Chick's. This is less female trickery and more of a display of abundance.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:50 AM
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FR: last night I meet up w this broad off tinder for a drink. We meet in the parking lot, I say hello and give her a hug. She asks if I want to take a walk down the beach instead. Why not? So we chat for a few minutes and she drops this gem. "so, are you into bdsm? I'm a sub." we stop walking and she reaches into her purse and pulls out two beers. Within an hour we're in the back of her car fucking like wild animals. You're right. If women are interested in you, they'll make any excuse in the bo…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:48 AM
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It's the truth, isn't it? There is nothing wrong with telling a girl you think she's attractive and you like spending time with her. The problem arises when you become dependent on her attention and validation. If you're an independent man with his career or purpose as your main priority with women in second place, they can tell. When you give genuine compliments they're thrilled because they can sense your sincerity; your compliment is legitimate and it's coming from an alpha, non-needy man. Th…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:41 AM
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Obviously if you can avoid trt through diet, exercise, sleep and other lifestyle changes, that's ideal. Some dudes can't, however. It's those extreme cases where trt makes fucking huge differences.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:35 AM
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Now imagine the male equivalent when a man goes from having low T to high T with trt. Soy boi beta to assertive, healthy man.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 02:02 AM
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We're arguing about nonsense. I completely agree with you. I have options and choose who I fuck and where I fuck. But saying my preferences are valid and others aren't is conceded nonsense. If I go out for drinks with a 9, end up down an alley laughing, start making out and decide to pull her pants down and fuck her behind a dumpster like a couple of crazy kids, there is nothing wrong with that. I would do it because I want to do it. I wouldn't stop myself from doing it because someone might wal…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 01:43 AM
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I thoroughly explained my point and come up w that? The fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 08:59 PM
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Why the down votes? You fuckers shy? Afraid if judgement? Being a rebel ain't everyone's cup of tea, but if it is yours, all the power to you. And fucking in a bar or a car isn't "gross" unless you're a pansy fuck.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 08:58 PM
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Bruu, I feel for you. Until you turn into a beast and fuck her like God intended, you won't see her true beauty. Your masculinity is embodied in overt physical expression. When you find the courage to show it to her, you'll allow her to express her femininity. You're the key to her lock in more than just the physical. This is why women are begging you to stop being a pussy and be the aggressive, assertive, dominant and powerful man who takes what he wants (within the limits of her desire to free…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 05:57 PM
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Fuck her up? Lmaoo, again, you're thinking she thinks like you do. Women don't think like us. They're capacity to give a shit about men, like we give a shit about women, is nonexistent. The lesson is, you wouldn't have 'fucked her up', in fact, by not fucking her, you took more from her in the way of self esteem than if you did fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 05:39 PM
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WWCD What would Chad do? Whatever the fuck he wants. Who's gonna stop him? Funny how those lessons burn themselves into our memory. Guarantee next time you whip it out go to slam town in front of the whole bar. Why the fuck not?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 05:36 PM
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This is what happens when guys believe that they're taking something from women by fucking them. That they're gaining and the woman is losing. Bullshit. Women fucking love dick. It drives them fucking insane. They think about it all the time. Remember, women are desperately hoping you're confident and cool enough so they can jump on top of you and grind on you like a dog in heat... All of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 07:19 AM
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Yes, banter that the kids are unable to handle because they were never taught to stand up for themselves. They were raised by perpetual victims, so they became perpetual victims. Kids that are bullied only need to understand that's they have a choice and don't need to take people's shit. It only takes one time getting in a bullies face and not taking any of it, that the victim will learn very quickly the extent of their power. This is often why bullied victims often become bullies once they figu…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:07 AM
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Bullying is just banter and one side doesn’t understand the game. Thank you! Our pussified feminist society has utterly corrupted our understanding of masculinity. Violence is a part of life. Those who choose to deny that and shout "bullying is terrible," don't understand that bullying is fitness testing. It is how men keep each other from getting soft. That problems arises when, like you say, one side doesn't understand banter. Why don't they understand banter? Because they've been indoctrinate…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:04 AM
2

Bullying is fitness testing by other men. This is how males have kept those they've had to rely on up to speed in terms of toughness and frame. Bullying is relatively new word, which was adopt by our heavily feminized society. Back in the day, boys were taught to stand up for themselves. They were taught to the only real form over power that exists; violence. Only when you develop the part of yourself that is capable of doing violent things to other people, are you then able to adequately defend…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:59 AM
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Man, PUAs are so easy to spot and easily derailed in social situations. They're always nervous as fuck, trying to be louder and bigger than they are to compensate for it; it's embarrassing. I'm all for dudes going out and talking to girls and trying to move things forward, but I wish they would stop rejecting who they really are and trying to be someone else. Women have evolved exceptional intuition to detect such inconsistencies.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:48 AM
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My hottest plate is playing stupid fucking games and its annoying the shit out of me. Which is why you soft nexted her, right? Last time we talked was last week. I invited her out, she responds a day later saying shes down, then I change the plan to her just coming over my house instead to which she says maybe, I say let me know when youre on your way. A maybe is a No. Treat it as one. She never texts and doesnt come. I never say anything after what I last said, just continue to look for more, b…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:35 AM
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Despite their attempts to convince everyone they're not pua, they are very much pua. Running around a city pouncing on every pretty girl, badgering them with lines and questions.. Jesus fucking christ. The sad thing most young guys don't get, is that real life alpha men are focused on their real life mission. Women are secondary to their purpose. Which is what makes them so alluring to women. There is nothing wrong with going out and gaming girls, but know that your life won't be fulfilled the w…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:24 AM
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No. Stop reading into this man. You're looking into this way too fucking much because your ego can't handle the fact she just doesn't value you that much. This is women for you. Realign your perspectives and expectations and you won't give two shits the next time it happens. And IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:19 AM
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We have plenty of info. Op wrote an asktrp post - prime indication he is overly invested. He asked her to hang out again after she soft nexted HIM.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:17 AM
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Bro your expectations are too high. Women are fickle, lazy and easily distracted. As much as your ego would have you believe, you're not that valuable. Why not? Because beta males chase women and alphas never commit. You wanna know the moment my life got a lot less stressful and happier? It was the same moment I stopped giving a fuck if women rejected me. I stopped getting my hopes up and stopped using their validation and attention as reflections of my self worth. Remember: Women are fickle, la…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:16 AM
1

Nike has an excellent slogan - Just do it.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:01 AM
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Video games, or any distraction, can't fill the void. The only thing that can fill a void, is nothingness. And you've stumbled up one of the largest road blocks of trp. Nihilism. The idea that everything is for nothing. I mean, afterall, if women are selfish, unicorns are nonexistent, and she is never mine, what meaning is there left in the universe? Holy fuck, people have had the same question since the dawn of time and they came of with a real nifty idea. Values. Benchmarked reference point wh…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:58 PM
4

Typical female thought process. She considers your feelings over your logic.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:16 AM
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Depends on her. Anyone that says something that stupid deserves to get ghosted.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:14 AM
1

Shit tests aren't to test narcissism. Very true. Women can't tell the difference between the asshole alpha who needs to step on people, and the high self esteem alpha, who doesn't. Their shit tests are to test congruence between alpha behaviour, alpha mindset and the degree to which the two are the same.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:07 AM
2

All of this is textbook slave morality, where the quality of leadership is determined by those being lead. Therefore your a bad daddy for not letting Susy eat another piece of cake, your a bad husband for not letting your wife open another credit card, your a bad dog owner according to Scruffy for not letting him each chocolate. Oh, I forgot - I decide what your boundaries are. And since I'm not willing to negotiate, and I am willing to violently defend my position, you lose. I'm kidding, but I …
/r/askTRP06/02/18 09:43 PM
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Boundaries. What manson is talking about is the ability to now where your boundaries are and defending them without having to cross other people's boundaries. When the bp beta gets burned, because he us needy, he jumps into the narsasist court, which is just as needy, but appears to be non-needy to any observer. If you keep reading, he explains that by being selfish to the point of crossing other people's boundaries is in fact, just as needy as being the bp beta, as your insecurity is what is mo…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:34 PM
1

Enforcer Fucking laughed out loud at that one. But I agree. I've been and am kind of still where op is. It's like my mind hasn't completely caught up with my body. I still see myself as I used to, except the world obviously sees me different. I think op needs to be the one to relax first and open up with people and that'll lead them to let their guard down and relax as well.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:34 AM
2

You're right. Having the balls to lift heavy, get a viking haircut, wear clothing that makes your muscles pop makes people respect you. Respect is essentially fear. Op needs to learn charisma. Charisma is basically making people feel comfortable around you. Asking them how they're doing, putting on a nice big smile and being encouraging is how you put them at ease around you.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:31 AM
2

Capacity for critical thought? You were born with it. You don't need to learn that as a skill. You need have the ambition to do it. You are absolutely not born with the ability to form complex, abstract perspectives. It is an ability to acquire through flexing your mental muscles. Studying science to the point you're able to intuit natural systems is parallel with the stoic's ability to intuit "the truth" behind the chaos of life, society and culture. I live in CA. Our schools went on a huge "cr…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:54 AM
1

A bit of both, but know that behaviour, which is largely the result of mindset and will power is what pushes a man into either camp.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:22 AM
5

This is the part where you harden the fuck up. Turn your heart to stone and do what you have to. This is a major requirement of manhood btw.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:20 AM
7

They won't. Female attention is their elixir. This does make them extremely easy to outwit, however.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 04:43 AM
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Girls are losers Only because in your nievity you compare women to male standards of success. By that logic, you're an ugly fucking ogre. I mean, compared to the vast majority of women, it's true. So am I, even despite my chiseled jaw line. The bitter beta loves to criticize women regarding them as inferior males in intellect, strength, integrity and honor. And while this is true, generally, it points to one MASSIVE flaw the bitter beta might want to take note of asap. Before you can truly game …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:27 AM
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Without the hammer, the carpenter is useless. The key is to develop enough capacity for critical thought, that you can see each for what they are. Peterson has much to offer every man. But, once again, the enemy is a lack of suspicion, and vigilant awareness of your own utility to others. Make no mistake, trp leads many men down the path of nihilism. Imo this is equally as destructive as bp or Tradcon ideology. This is why wisdom is the golden egg, not knowledge. Wisdom is applied knowledge whic…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 12:59 AM
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Personally, I've found the nihilism trap to be very real with trp. "Enjoy the decline" is repeated over and over here and while I certainly understand the practicality and respect the agency that it inspires, I can't help but feel a void created from this perspective. I don't mean the void left by denying the existence of the bp fairytale and unicorns. I mean the void left by not having any sort of framework to governs one's life. Lift, eat right, find a purpose, build a business, game girls. Al…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 12:46 AM
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I got woke, son. Edit: The boot on the neck was a metaphor, btw. I mean, use cunning the way everyone else uses it.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 02:07 AM
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The master is upset her slave is taking off his mental shackles and deciding he isn't going to be her slave anymore. Society, and even your friend circle shames beta boy slaves into remaining slaves. How do you deal with those who would shame you back into your shackles? Shame them. Tell them they're over stepping their bounds. You decide how people treat you and you decide if you want others advice. If you let people they will tell you exactly how to live. Put your boot on their neck and tell t…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 10:43 PM
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1 - everyone uses everyone. Your friends use you for the type of attention they want and disregard you for the rest. This is a basic fact of life. Get used to it. 2 - mom's cancer, university classes extended etc are called life. Sometimes things are great, you feel good, and generally happy. These times, while enjoyable are utterly useless in transforming you into the man you NEED to become in order to thrive in this world. The tough shit times are EXACTLY what the human soul needs to experienc…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 10:31 PM
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I have no idea if the 75% stat is true or not, but I'm not concerned with such things. I'm concerned with eliminating reasons why we can't hold ourselves accountable to improve in any areas of our lives; including killing during wartime. The thinking mind is silent in such a moment. The limbic system, which is largely unconscious is responsible for survival based actions. This is why using your neo cortex or 'thinking mind' to determine if you would or wouldn't pull the trigger is irrelevant. Th…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 10:22 PM
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I bet you close to 10% of soldiers won the war. The vast majority of success in literally any area or field is accomplished by a VERY small percentage of the contributors or participants.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 05:31 PM
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this post is disrespectful to those who have served. Only if you're one of those who wanted to take a life but couldn't. And if you are, this is a simple fact about who you are at that point in time. Disrespectful? It's no more disrespectful than pointing out a certain ratio of men can't cold approach. No situation, including men killing other men is exempt to the truth. Any area you write off as "disrespectful" to discuss will prevent any further analysis and growth of oneself. Y'all need to ha…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 05:30 PM
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A friendly reminder to disregard your self image and throw yourself into conflict, chaos and struggle. You don't know who you are; therefore you are a coward. Disagree? How can you disagree when you have no experience to back it up. This perspective is what allows you to find your reference point, become better and do it all with humility and respect for those at your side. Fucking excellent post, op.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 05:15 PM
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Decide for yourself. Caring about shit like this is what is unattractive to women. Decide for yourself, stick by your decision and don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks about it. This is hard to do when you're young, but it becomes essential later on if you want to live a content life. Instead of thinking "should I be doing this, what will others think of me?" think "What do I think of others, I wonder if I like what they're doing." This is the fundamental difference between alpha and beta m…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:16 AM
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You'll never have the same chance with a girl you broke frame with. It's a much better use of your time to game new girls.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:09 AM
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It all starts with having shit perspectives which stem from shit values. You're giving a fuck about something, probably what other people think of you, way too much. Read The subtle art of not giving a fuck by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:01 AM
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The first time I truly embraced my inner savage in bed, I saw the side of women I'll never stop trying to see again. That look in her eye was a mix of fear, pleasure, chaos and safety all at once. It is the fact you make her feel comfortable enough to allow herself to open up completely. Lose all control of her emotions. Taker her to the edge of insanity and then wrangle her back in. She can express her feminine chaos fully because she knows your masculine self control can contain it and bring h…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 04:28 AM
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women are attracted more to each other than they are to men. I don't even doubt that in the aesthetic sense. All beauty is feminine in origin. Where I will disagree with you is the effect male behaviour has on her sexuality. This is her crux. Beauty will attract her, but behaviour ie social and physical domination, are what make her eyes roll back in her head and allow her to form a spiritual connection to your cock.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 04:18 AM
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Some days I gotta do a set of squats to pull the blood into my quads before I bench. Don't wanna start a riot when all the cardio bunnies spot the hammer making its debut while I'm repping 315.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:38 AM
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It's like your sex drive is out of control, but your over all level of self control has increased also. The key is to always be channeling it into some productive endeavour and keeping busy, it seems.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:33 AM
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No. He shouldn't do that. You're giving validity to her nonsense. Op needs to treat her like the child she is. Agree and amplify and amused mastery should be in order.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:12 AM
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If you're taking the nonsense that often comes out of women's mouths seriously, you need to give your head a shake. Look at her objectively. Do you fear her strength? Do you admire her power of will, devistating intellect or masterful charisma? Of course not. Her power comes from her pussy. She did nothing to earn that warm hole, so why are you hanging on every word she says as if she's traversed the most grueling challenges life has to offer and is standing victorious on the other side? The red…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:10 AM
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It led op to become pissy and write a post about it. Excellent shit test placement on her behalf, if you ask me.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:05 AM
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Similarly, why put the work into gaming a girl to fuck her when you can just pay a prostitute? Because the best things in life are worth working for. Imo, nothing beats the reward of success when it is earned by own labour, from the ground up. This is like asking 'why travel when you can just watch videos of destinations on YouTube?'
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:01 AM
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Technically, ejaculation doesn't effect testosterone levels. But personally, jerkin it kills my sex drive. Whether it's psychological or hormonal, abstaining makes a huge difference for me personally. Sex is different in that it's almost a reward for having high enough smv and good enough game. The reward is the payoff for making it to the finish line, so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 04:06 AM
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Even if she is your unicorn, you will eventually have to lay her to rest, living the rest of your days in the absence of her beauty. The bigger lesson then, is to embrace the impermanence of all beautiful things and never allow your soul to grow dependent on them.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 03:14 AM
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Women are attracted to the asshole because his willingness to be, do and say exactly what he wants indicates a low level of neediness and high levels of self respect; he is essentially validating himself over all others. What high neediness, beta men fail to realize that they will appear just as needy to women when they try to be the asshole to get women. Why? Because in editing who they really are to the world, they're rejecting their honest selves. They're saying "I'm not good enough for women…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 10:49 PM
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When you come across a fake alpha, with his chest pumped out as he stares everyone down, it's obvious and it's sad. I think every beta needs to jump into the fake alpha/narsasist side of the pool in order to break our of their "nice guy" shell, however. But remaining there too long will only lead to diminishing returns and eventual embarrassment. The key is to know your boundaries and be willing to defend them ruthlessly. This then becomes the source of your confidence instead of having to cross…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 10:41 PM
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Fuck labels. She knows your intentions. Any bit of manipulation via her warped expectations isn't your problem. Be willing to walk away at any moment that suits you. The fact you're asking this question means you feel some pressure from her, or her family to commit. You wanna know the third trp option you haven't considered? Not giving a fuck what they think or want. You first, my man. Your freedom is your power and your value. You gotta continually flex your agency for the people around you to …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:15 PM
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Believe me, school administrators are working very hard to offset that as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:54 AM
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The first truth is that most very attractive women find feminism to be as much of a joke as we do. This is because she was able to secure a real man capable of inspiring her with his self control. She lives in his frame and it makes a whole lot more sense to her logical mind and her emotional state, than the pervading feminist propaganda. I can't help but be reminded in all of this hooblah, that women will always be the primary benefactors of the majority of the pain and suffering. Women need ma…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:52 AM
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moral fabric That shit is rooted in discipline. In 2018 no one has a clue what that word even means.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:41 AM
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Agreeing and Amplifying SJW nonsense in public isn't a good idea. Remember SJW is rooted in emotional nonsense, not logic. You could easily start a feedback loop of insanity if you start A&A with these people. A&A works well with women who are irrational, because you amplify her point until she can't help but see it's absurdity and gives in to your frame. I think OP handled it superbly.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:40 AM
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Have you read JP's 12 Rules for life? On rule 2 he describes order and chaos and how God is essentially pure masculine structure and order, while nature and the Universe is feminine chaos. That description is the perfect antidote for me to understand where our society is going and what is needed to pull it back. A hyper irrational, chaotic feminine society dreaming up legislation and cultural narratives to direct itself to prosperity... That's kind of like a child, with no understanding of the n…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:31 AM
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Ive never seen a collective group of women begging to be disciplined with hard dicking like this. When you connect the obvious structure and order required to wrangle in the chaos served up in our society on the daily, you know you're a hot commodity; and getting hotter every day.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:02 AM
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Every step society takes down the feminine path to chaos, is one more step away from the masculine order which it so badly desires requires. Society thrives when the masculine Yang and feminine Yin are in balance with respect to their areas of greatest utility. The Red Pill, then, can be summed up as a man's guide to the cultivation of self control, insofar as to subdue and direct the chaotic, feminine spirit to contentment and fulfillment. The Mainstream would have you believe that masculinity,…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 01:53 AM
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Am I the only one who would ask her one time to move her shit and if she didn't, I'd move it for her?
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 09:43 PM
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If you're working full time, working out, eating healthy, taking care of chores etc, there is nothing wrong with playing video games or watching some Netflix. These things are only ever a problem when they start to displace the tasks necessary to maintain and improve your lot in life. I would however, recommend doing something more productive such as volunteering, joining a military reserve unit, learning a new language, learning a new skill or craft, learn a musical instrument etc. They require…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:25 PM
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You can tell when a girl wants to fuxk you, but she is holding back due to a desire to know you better, rather than a manipulative attempt to control you. These girls make much better plates imo.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:11 PM
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You need to take responsibility for your life and find your purpose. When you do that, the simple things like body language, anxiety, depression etc regulate themselves.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:42 PM
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There is a fine line between expressing your sexuality and interest and being a needy beta willing to forsake your self respect by chasing pussy. While showing your interest is very necessary in pulling broads, you gotta know where your boundaries are.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 08:04 PM
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I now see why you have to flaunt money to get female attention.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:52 AM
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Well most girls are a little more subtle than slapping an actual sticker on your forehead..
/r/askTRP25/01/18 02:35 AM
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Yet I still have this horrible feeling inside like I want to just jump off a bridge. Relish in this feeling, sink into it and embrace it fully. This is perhaps the single biggest opportunity you've ever had in your life to experience real growth and development. Imagine who you want to become in body, mind and spirit. This pain and uncertainty is the fuel which you will use to make this image a reality. Understand that the pain and discomfort is your psyches resistance to incoming change. This i…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:20 PM
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greater than 25%bf fat -> 10cal/lb to cut ~20% bf -> 12cal/lb to cut Lean and trying to build muscle -> 15cal/lb These are what I use and seem to work well for me. I am an easy gainer and hard loser, though - keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:06 PM
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Oneitis reflects a problem you are faced with. It has nothing to do with the object of you desire. You need to detach completely from her, because you are irrationally compromised. So, no, do not game her. Game requires you to have your wits intact and currently yours are nowhere to be found; at least when you're around her.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:02 PM
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That sentence should be funny, witty, but mostly very short and to the point. Slice through their low level emotional barrage with a red-hot stoic knife with "I don't give a fuck" beautifully inscribed on the handle.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:57 PM
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argue with feminists First, standing up to injustice for the sake of your self respect is one thing, but what you're talking about is arguing with women. This isn't an effort to defend your integrity or self respect, but an engagement in emotional battery. Women or even white knights who argue SJW/feminist propaganda, do so not because it tickles their logic or rational faculties or desire to write injustice, but because they are addicted to the emotional highs of engaging in banter with seeming…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:55 PM
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She's made it shit I sincerely hope one day you work on yourself and develop yourself into a man. You'll look back on this, like many of us who have had similar situations and cringe the fuck out. How could I let myself get so consumed be another person. Dude, it's always been in your control. You want this to happen, because you're currently allowing it to happen.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:55 AM
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Two words: SELF CONTROL Hiding in the bathroom having panic attacks?! Stop being a fucking victim and take responsibility for your mental state! You have full control over your mind if only you can summon the will power and discipline to control it. And have some fucking self respect, Jesus.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:54 AM
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Shit values. Shit question.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:50 AM
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we talk about almost anything. Don't make the mistake of thinking women share the same discretion you do. She will use anything against you, especially if it involves some potential gain for herself. Especially at work, man; don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:49 AM
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Smack! As she slaps the billy beta provider sticker on your forehead.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:42 AM
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Not giving a fuck what she thinks displays massive amounts of self esteem. Coincidentally, high self esteem is the exact thing she is attracted to.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:40 AM
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I hate to go here, but I think it needs to be said. You need to get in touch with your emotions, man. Not for her sake but for yours in the moments when you're with women. You should be able to find pleasure in interacting with women, flirting with them, pushing and pulling them with your words, boldness and honest actions. If you reduce women to warm holes, you're cutting yourself off to the majority of feminine beauty you're capable of enjoying in them. I sound like a fagget, but trust me. Enj…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:38 AM
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Incentive? Why not offer to buy her dinner, drinks or gifts? Lol jk. If a woman wants to hang w you, she will hang w you. Just be straight up in asking her out, if she declines or flakes, she isn't interested. Watch her actions, don't listen to her words.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:44 PM
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does everyone on TRP let the door slam in everyones face? As a reforming "nice guy" I certainly did. People would say hi and i'd ignore them because I truly didn't care. I had to go far into asshole territory and experience that before I found a more effective and personally happy middle ground. I doubt Trump got where he is by not knowing how to make small talk, compliment people, hold the door when it was called for etc. Trump is a master actor. His entire personality, as viewed by the public …
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:42 PM
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We have kept in contact and I want to meet her again to escalate and finally sleep with her. This, combined with your question spell out clear outcome dependence. You're putting way too much fucking emphasis on this girl. Chill the fuck out, live your life. Hang with her if you want but learn to enjoy the moment more, rather than always trying to work towards fucking. She'll detect your IDGAF attitude and she'll be the one leading you to her bed.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:35 PM
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I wouldn't, personally. Unless you two clicked and you genuinely enjoy her personality. But, if it's for the pussy potential, fuck no.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:32 PM
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"No but I am sure you can" I would have the reputation of the village asshole The thing about TRP and deciding to "drop the bullshit" most people treat as day-to-day interactions, small talk, polite banter, holding the door etc. is that they provide the social lubricant to make the emotionally weak people feel comfortable navigating society. In non-western societies, where honesty is valued more than politeness, people drop the bullshit altogether, and the result is a much more direct and mascul…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:30 PM
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Yes. University atmosphere is feminine as fuck. A man's shift from Beta to Alpha is the choice between either working to assert your intentions on your environment, or seeking to mitigate risk from your environment by complying to it's whims and blending in. Universities are hotbeds of compliance and slavery. Spend as little time on campus as possible and do not fucking seek to live up to anyone's (besides your academic pursuits) expectations.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:07 PM
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How so?
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:01 PM
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"It's not what you say, but the intention behind why you're saying it." Mark Manson wrote Models after years of running game, travelling the world and hammering on hundreds of women. These perspectives, although certainly true and extremely valuable, were obtained by him after experiencing the transition from try-hard Beta to wise, IDGAF (about what doesn't matter to me) Alpha. Understanding neediness comes before attempting vulnerability. Otherwise, you're going to open up about your beta self,…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:01 PM
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Google is your friend... But, i'll give you a pointer. Don't allow your wrist to bend backwards. Perform the lift with the back of your hand parallel with the rest of your arm. Also, approaching the lift feeling strong and confident, like you're going to man-handle the weight around, tends to help form tremendously; don't approach and lift timidly.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 06:48 PM
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I also don't have a big social circle and at school I am also known as the "right-winger" for stating my political beliefs (bad idea - I know). This isn't a bad thing. What western society will generally teach you, is to be like everyone else in an effort to get everyone to like you. While this has it's advantages, it will lead to a life of mediocrity and no on will remember your name. You will learn very quickly, as everyone does at your stage in life, that unless you're a basic bitch with basi…
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:49 PM
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I detect a conflated ego trying desperately hard to validate itself to a world which doesn't share it's delusion. First step is to stop deluding yourself and be honest with yourself. Second, realize how god damn lazy your question is. You want TRP to spoon feed you life direction and purpose? Mother fucker, if you can't even place your goal pin on your life map based off of your own values and identity, you have no basis for asking other men how to achieve success. Why not walk into a lawyer fir…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 06:35 PM
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After passing over The subtle art of not giving a fuck once again, the concept of uncertainty really hit home. I realized that many of the ideas and perspectives I invest in are actually very much incorrect. I have ideas about how others see me and after reading this section of the book, I decided to conduct a little experiment. I approached a couple of situations with the people around me and mention how I think I am an introvert and can sometimes come off as cold or arrogant. Nearly every pers…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 05:18 PM
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That is a fucking ignorant comment.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 03:07 AM
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Assuming women think like men is the most basic mistake. All one needs to do to uncover the RP lens is to realize women don't think like men. If they did, we wouldn't be attracted to them. Much like masculinity has positive (civilization building, problem solving, discipline, strength, courage) aspects and negative (anger, violence, sadism) aspects, femininity also shares this duality. The positive feminine traits (giving, generosity, nurture, kindness) are offset by negative female traits (mani…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 02:11 AM
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True. But the underlying values of trp are timeless. If I had to put a label on it, I'd say stoicism. Unfettered views of reality rooted in logic and self control. Sharing stoic philosophy will not get you lynched, unlike trp. I'd suggest everyone here work towards injecting a little stoic truth into the lives of the people around them.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 12:07 AM
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This is basic human development; put your oxygen mask on before you put your child's on, type shit. If people don't obtain a basic level of self respect and efficacy growing up, they can't effectively help others. These single mothers don't understand that they're inevitably fucking up their own future by raising submissive, deferring beta boys. But, then again, what turns a boy into a man starts first with masculine values as the foundation; strength, honor, courage, grit etc. What do women kno…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 12:04 AM
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A man seeking exclusivity is like a woman asking a man for sex. Men don't respect women who give their puss away without working for it and women don't respect men who give their commitment and attention away without working for it.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:48 PM
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oneitis If you're getting irrationally attached and you know it is affecting your behaviour, you need to cut her loose and focus on yourself. Or, create some distance between you two so you don't get attached. I think you already know what you have to do.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:46 PM
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Men's reproductive imperative is to spread his seed far and wide; quantity over quality. Women's reproductive imperative is to select the highest value mate and steal that fucker's seed; quality over quantity. Consider a man who is happily engaging in an ltr. Although his base programming is to fuck any and all women he comes in contact with, if he is happy in his ltr, he will refrain. Consider a woman who is happily engaging in an ltr. Although her base programming is to seek the highest value …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:33 AM
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They can't aways be success stories. The sooner you learn to embrace failure and rejection as a teaching tool, you won't really start living your life and building your character. People that are more successful than you have likely failed more than you. Their stubbornness and confidence in their vision, not the vision others have for them, is what led them to success. This is perhaps the foundation of trp on the self development front.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:12 AM
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Absolutely. It's like the convey's description of the stages of people's life. Dependence, independence then interdependents. First is the unaware beta, then hopefuly after trauma he makes the connection and becomes a disintegrated alpha, then after some time as an emotionless asshole, he begins to realize he's receiving diminishing returns and works his way into an integrated alpha mindset. Tough and tender, but completely in control of which and when.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:07 AM
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By the sounds of it, by you trying to help your buddy and not "trying" to get laid, the girls could tell you didn't give a fuck. Your buddy was caring way too much and look where it got him. Verdict: stop focusing on getting laid and focus on having your own fun in the moment. All girls want is for you to want them, but only second to wanting happiness for yourself, first.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:35 AM
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You're taking about natural alphas vs learned alphas. I'd argue the opposite. Getting emotionally scarred provides greater opportunities for one's cultivation of power than a natural who seemingly gravitates to objects of his desire effortlessly. Many natural alphas wind up getting burned later in life, often the products of much of their life's work is widdled away to nothing by divorce courts. Long term success and cultivation of real power, side with the one who is burned young and learns the…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:08 AM
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I agree. Step one is realizing human nature and interaction is just another system. Step two is realizing you can learn that system and work to leverage it. All it takes is self awareness and the ability to accept your shortcomings and work on them.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 11:02 PM
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I had a buddy who, on multiple occasions begged me to bang a chick he was fucking to "get her off his back." So, I meet up with her, get a little action and that's that. Months later she tells him and he comes at me like I fucked his gf.. He explicitly told me, multiple times to "please go fuck her." It's amazing how even dudes can be so unaware of their emotions and attachments. We both learned our lesson that day.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:24 PM
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Your buddy had scarcity written all over him. Drop that fool.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:21 PM
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This is why highly analytical men often have good frame. They are impervious to others emotional manipulation, so long as they can remain analytical. They do however lack the ability to game. If you want a woman to enter your frame, you must do it by coaxing her using your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 08:23 PM
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Girls understand their youth is the most critical time of their life. This is utterly incorrect. Women don't have the slightest clue the attention and admiration they receive because of their youth will be short lived. Ask any 30yo post wall if she knew how quickly the alpha attention would drop off. I'd argue that women who receive lots of attention in their youth are more blind to their own fate, even more than the incels and jaded betas.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 07:58 PM
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"Nope, didn't happen." I find it very sad this hasn't happened more frequently. What these men are doing is reinforcing the cultural 'rape whistle' narrative in order to save what tiny slice remains of their positive public image. These guys need to band together under an umbrella of logic and truth. They need to out voice the feminists, white knights and lying hoes. It's true, emotions will always win over logic with the mainstream, but if your voice is louder and you offer stoic rationality in…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 07:47 PM
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Haha few people have the 'holy fuck that was intense' look on their face in between sets. I feel like a lot of people at my gym think I'm a dick because I rarely smile in between sets or talk to them. It's because I'm focused on regaining composure and fighting the urge to pass the fuck out lol If I don't leave the gym feeling like I've been reborn it feels like a waste.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 11:36 PM
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"limbic lube" That might be the most concise definition of trp I've ever read.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:11 PM
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Taller, more assertive, more masculine features, more willing of showing true intentions, stronger frame. Women want masculine men to fuck, not beta German faggets that have good jobs, nice houses, nice cars, yet can't hold frame and lack any assertiveness. The importing of cavemen is in response to the pervading beta fag majority that European women have to contend with.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 11:23 PM
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they don't want guys that lift for vanity. Every day I walk into my gym, I can immediately tell which men are lifting for vanity and which are lifting to carve themselves out of wood. Unless you're lifting with that 'killer instinct' look in your eye, you're not lifting for strength, you're lifting for vanity.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 09:12 PM
4

if german underage girls want to bang 35 year old syrian refugees to the exclusion of men of their own age/ethnicity, then let them. Underage German girls don't know what they want. They are utterly incapable of making rational decisions especially in the presence of larger, dominant, assertive north Africans. The group which is making this sadistic experiment a reality is the post wall feminist/beta male SJW government which is so utterly warped and contorted, and filled with white guilt, that …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 08:55 PM
2

It’s only the German female trash that would sleep with them. You fundamentally misunderstand the core motivations of hypergamy. The feminine needs the masculine. Even in it's brutish, caveman form, women are innately incapable of overriding their feelz in favor of logic in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 08:50 PM
1

Mate guarding is a core part of survival and they cannot do it. They can't do it in the feminized environments, however, with the introduction of masculine North Africans, the German society is shifting to a more brutish, masculine norm, which will enable mate guarding as a socially accepted form of keeping one's bitch tied down.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 08:48 PM
0

And it can be easily thwarted and diffused by men simply by holding frame and refusing to participate or give these people a voice.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:39 AM
1

This entire thing can be summed up by having frame and expressing your unwillingness to participate or give a fuck. These nut jobs only gain power when normal people give them power.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:36 AM
5

Now he's getting a lot of flak over it. I'm sorry, who the fuck is giving him flak? SJWs, feminists and main stream media fuckwad beta males? HAHAHA These people's voice, points of view and opinions are worth less than dog shit. No one of any substance gives a shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:29 AM
6

If that's homophobic then I'll just be homophobic. Call me what you want. I don't care. You know who does care? Beta males. All of this shit will only work on those who are willing to be influenced by it and actually give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:26 AM
20

Most people who consider themselves liberals today, don't even know what liberalism is. They're actually cultural Marxists masquerading as progressives, who call themselves liberals. Conservatism today is simply the brake that needs to be applied in order to ensure society doesn't utterly implode under this Marxist influence.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 11:22 PM
1

I just noticed that typo. It's too good to edit away.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:29 PM
5

I never understood how marrying someone entitled you to the spoils of their labor. Even in the event of having chicken, why should anyone deserve more than a reasonable living allowance if they choose to raise their children alone? I've heard people say it's because they've grown accustomed to a "standard of living." A standard of living they never took the liberty of attaining on their own!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 02:01 AM
2

You already know the answer to your question. Be a man and cut that bitch loose.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:59 AM
17

Absolutely I'm teasing, but I'm not doing it because someone on reddit told me to, I'm doing it because it's honest, in the moment. Once you realize everyone, men and women are full of shit, it's easy to find their little boasts or insecurities. When you notice them, point them out. Make sure you do it as an amusement and not a direct or serious way, or you'll offend and they'll become defensive. What you're indicating to women when using amused mastery is two things. One, you don't give a shit …
/r/askTRP07/01/18 11:22 PM
4

Personally, a choke slam works really well to let someone know you find their behavior unacceptable.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 07:55 PM
37

When people say "women like assholes," what they mean is, women like men who are willing to say whatever they want because their desire to express their opinion is greater than their fear of rejection from expressing that opinion. A man with real self esteem/confidence says and does just what he wants. This level of self honesty (not the "I don't tell lies," type of honesty) is what is attractive to women and coincidentally results in you getting what you want, authentically.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 07:49 PM
24

Consider this. Ideally you wanted to be raised as a masculine man with masculine values as your stand. For this to happen you needed to be raised by a man who possessed these values in enough of a capacity to instil them in you. How can you expect your mother to possess these values enough to instil them in you? She is a woman. Women are fundamentally incapable of understanding the depths of discipline, honor, strength and courage that many men are able to grasp and embrace. It isn't your fault …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 01:41 AM
3

Where your god Damn zest for life? This could be some entertaining shit.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 01:10 AM
3

Oh fuck, this some fun shit. This is the type of thing you let her in on after you've pounded her senseless for a couple hours. Light a cigarette and casually mention your little discovery. Sit back and enjoy.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 01:08 AM
2

Self mastery (which includes self control) is the most important skill you will ever work on in your life. Having the ability to control your emotions, push away the bad ones, change your thoughts to allow the good ones to flourish. If you don't relieve your stress and find ways to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones, yes, you will explode.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 01:04 AM
1

Best response yet. Fuck, I had a gf of mine wanting to "hangout" with a bottom feeder cook at a shitty restaurant who ranked 5 fucking points lower than me in smv. Why? Cause he didn't give a fuck. I did give a fuck and she couldn't help but be attracted to him. She was insane, mind you, but you get the point.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 12:59 AM
2

Why do women fuck broke, tattooed, unemployed guys they meet in bars? Why do they get knocked up by the loser who sleeps on their couch and doesn't give a shit about them? Be attractive by telling a girl you're more ambitious then you actually are? Bro, this is the polar opposite of idgaf. Op has true idgaf about his career. The women who are rejecting him aren't doing it because they sense he is disappointed in his career, but because they want a fucking piggy bank. They want a beta fucking hus…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 12:55 AM
0

Bro, if you like what you do each day, you're doing exactly wtf you should be doing. Any woman that wants you for anything other than how you make her feel in the moment (tingles) considers you a beta provider. As a stem professional, I never tell girls what I do until we're on our first date and I can tell she is into me for my attractiveness, game etc.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 12:46 AM
1

Not sure what your post in the Sweden sub consisted of, but I think I can answer your question. The men who get strung out by sjws are largely beta males who demanded sexual rewards above their socially perceived smv. Perhaps different places around the world will have different concentrations of sjw culture, but be reminded, social justice, much like feminism, is a shit test. It is an attempt to shame men who do not live up to the classic values of masculinity. Men who receive sjw shame are men…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 12:21 AM
1

My point was a general one. I agree w you in Op's case.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:57 PM
24

I'd moan and groan just like every other fuckwad human because suffering is relative and I never learned how to overcome it through disciplined pursuit of self mastery. I am utterly unaware of the fortune I possess because the suffering I've sustained in my life was never enough to instill a sense of gratitude for the things I do have or for the things that did go right for me. So, what would I do? Continue to indulge in sources of instant gratification. And although my sources are sweeter, pret…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:58 AM
0

You also can't slam primo puss if you don't play either. This shit is an art.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:50 AM
2

Gonna have to agree w you on this one. Ghosting is always primo. But, in the event she is trying to bait you and ends with a dig or attempts to make you jealous, ghosting can indicate you actually care too much and you're butt hurt.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:49 AM
2

Immediately demote her bro, personally I would next this broad. Every shit test you pass with neutrality and don't punish her by withdrawing even more of your attention actually erodes her respect for you in the long run. I'd say op shouldn't next, but ghost for a good week. I would skip the part of no contact and just tell her "ok I'm gonna go out do so and so's party" to get the hamster spinning. I feel like anything but temporarily ghosting in this situation lessons its effect on her. By tell…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:45 AM
2

Either you retain your self respect and you might keep the girl, or you give away your self respect and you'll lose the girl anyway.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:41 AM
1

"haha Ok, bye."
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:40 AM
4

The man did say fast, didn't he?
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:39 AM
23

yes. I have never witnessed a woman making less money for the same job, as a man. It's just the meta data which sums total earnings by gender and divides each sum by the number of participants. Of course women earn less on average, because they work less hours, aren't as motivated financially and generally care less about career advancement, relative to men.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:38 PM
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The kicker is, women never actually earn less, per hour, than men. They just work less hours. This is the entire fucking situation. What the data is gonna show, is that employers aren't having to pay any more money, because the women who earn less at the end of the year worked less fucking time than their male counterparts. I feel like i'm taking crazy pills.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:36 PM
1

Except now she's alone and valued at a 3 and can't lock down anyone. Her future as a cat herder is laid out in front of her. If she picked the beta instead of Chad, her life would not be much better. She regrets her decision every day.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 08:33 PM
2

Toughen up. You're being a little bitch. Harsh, I know, but it's true. Thank her for the time you had together and send her on her merry way.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:34 AM
2

No pussy is worth your self respect. You keep her around, you'll hate yourself for it. You don't need that bitch.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:31 AM
20

Until you hit this point and realize you've been the only one wearing gloves. Take em off and use the same manipulation against them.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:58 AM
61

You didn't think your mom was a unicorn, did you? Female family members are often the most Machiavelli. They've known you for so long, their influence knows no end.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:52 AM
2

Yes, but is he now? This is my point. She could have locked him down then and right now have a great life on his effort.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 02:17 AM
5

Yes, actually. Getting pumped and dumped by Chad instead of using her high value status to pair bond with a man who is willing to exchange her youth and fertility for a lifetime of financial support, comfort, friendship and guidance.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:48 AM
0

Due to the fact you're not special, I'll tell you to read the side bar like every other beta fag who asks dumb questions and wants catered answers.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:40 AM
4

Either employ Machiavelli tactics to pet their ego and convince them you're not a threat, or move on. I never thought increasing smv and becoming more assertive and bold would have such an impact on people, yet here we are.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:36 AM
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This was the best thing I've read on the red pill in awhile. Thank you for a good laugh. I took a wild stab at your position in life. Boy was I on point. There is no other reason for a woman to spend so much time and energy engaging in such a futile argument with strangers on the internet. Unless, of course, she heavily invested and personally identified with the antagonist in op's post. Either way, I meant what I said and it is the truth. Good luck out there.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:36 PM
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I revel in your offense. Your ignorance and solipsistic perspectives serve only to reinforce op's point. The used up hoe in his post would have the same opinion as you. She would fail to see the error in her ways and accept her mistake. She would fight tooth and nail, deny every logical shred of truth in an effort to make herself feel better about her current state. I'd go so far as to say billions of men and women would find this sub offensive. They'd be offended because the truth often makes p…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:33 PM
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No, your lifetime of social conditioning has contorted your view of reality. You received the very best society had to offer in your younger years. You didn't earn this, but was given it because of your looks, figure and warm hole between your legs. This isn't your fault, but refusing to accept that your value has now diminished while you squandered your best years riding strange cock, is your fault. Resisting the truth of what is will only leave you a bitter, twisted, cunty cat lady. Accepting …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:14 PM
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My comment is just as valuable as any comment here. That's funny cause your down votes suggest its worth less than shit. Of course, the problem can't be your snowflake ass, it has to be the hundreds of trp members who disagree with you. This shit is like a field report of solopsism.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 11:00 PM
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How many times we gotta say "women are children?" Would we expect a child to stop their temper tantrum and construct a logical retort in support of their feelz? Fuck no.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:48 PM
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I almost pity these girls for an instant. Then I remember they were entirely cognosant of what they were doing. They made their choice and now we make our's.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:39 PM
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Hey, when your bro's girl starts openly hitting on you in front of the group, shit gets tense. Everyone will blame you, not the hypergamous, bottom feeder of a hoe who's trying to branch swing. Laugh in their faces.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:22 PM
3

They see you pulling away from betafag status and want to do everything they can to shatter your resolve. You see, as a betafag, you're useful to them. You're easily manipulated to do their bidding, have their back and submit to their will like a punk bitch. Anyone who doesn't except who you are becoming and supports you in that endeavor, was never your friend in the first place. Cut em loose mate.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:21 PM
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Boom. You just described the emotional difference between men and women. Men cry out of respect and appreciation for the dead, while women cry because they lost someone close to them. Male honor vs female solipsism
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:06 AM
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Expressing emotions is a human experience. It is necessary to maintain a healthy psyche, obviously. Men expressing sappy emotions should be limited to times and places where they are not going to interfere with the task at hand, or call into question their ability to maintain composure in the future. If your dad broke down into a convulsing mess in front of the women in your family, a part of their Machiavellian minds will always retain that memory to call into question his level of self control…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:03 AM
1

Integrating trp into your life will come with a natural inclination to adopt a stoic rationality. It seems, the more you see the machinery underneath each individuals actions and motivations, the more society is simply an orchestration. The masters waging their wars while the slaves blow like leafs in the wind. It is a game. As time passes you adopt a Machiavellian aura by simply navigating through life, your career, the smp. This aura really isn't that far off the cold rationality and opportuni…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:54 AM
1

Bro, you're asking essentially "what is the point of trp." Living success is done through refinement of intellectual, the application of courage and then leading with heart. Refinement of intellect is done through acquiring knowledge. Application of courage is taking action in the direction of your purpose. Leading with heart is applying wisdom while also applying courage. You need to read books and then take action. Stack your failures and successes next to your acquired knowledge. Toss out wha…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:20 AM
5

I don't get it. Did she physically twist your arm behind your back? Is she bigger and stronger than you? The content of the shit test doesn't matter, it is the intention behind why she is dishing it out. You can only really successfully smash a shit test out of the park if you can intuit the underlying emotional reason for said shit test. Then, you neutralize her concern with a stoic, confident remark dismissing her concern.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:14 AM
1

Having the opposite problem (easy muscle gain, hard fat loser) I can't even begin to understand hard gainers. Do these people simply not like to eat tasty, high carb, high fat foods? I'd trade hard loser for hard gainer status any day.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 12:47 AM
1

My question is why didn't op slay when the 19 yo beauty was grabbing his dick. Who's the bluest of em all?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:46 AM
4

Your girl you described is just that, a girl. The problem men make when dealing with women is that they think women think how they think. Women are emotional creatures. They lead w their feelz. She fights you with logic when she wants you to be more masculine. She is begging you to polarize her back to her comfortable femininity, but she had to know you're rooted in your masculinity first. I highly recommend the superior male exercise book by David dieda. It's a little wish washy and spiritual, …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:36 AM
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I think Joe Rogan is the perfect intermediary as well. He's got one foot in the mainstream and one foot in objective reality.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:28 AM
12

Word. The rational male is a brutal awakening for most.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:28 AM
3

This is like a father wondering why his children acted a certain way. Does it really matter? Women are children. Make your intentions clear to the girl who likes you and disregard the other broads.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:32 AM
5

Self mastery = seeking truth, developing wisdom and then leading with heart. Truth comes from the refinement of intellect (what we do here) Wisdom and heart come from the application of courage. Courage comes form risking loss or failure. What you're speaking on here OP, is the application of courage and it's resulting wisdom. You had your preconceived notions of what might happen, you summoned the courage to take a risk, and depending on the result (success or, especially failure), you experien…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:04 PM
15

They end with saying she's got job offers from surrounding counties?! She would in this back asward society we live in.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:25 PM
3

Don't. Stick to tinder or approach irl.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:14 AM
1

Typical shit test and in this day and age, typical shitty female conversation points. News flash: Women only shit test to test your ability to have clearly defined boundaries. She wants to know if you're a pandering beta or an alpha with his head on straight.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:07 AM
3

Fuck what others think. Are you attracted to said girl? Then go for it. If not, why the fuck would you even consider it?
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:03 AM
5

Personally, I do mild cardio just for the endorphin benefit; it makes me feel great. Aesthetically, heavy lifting is essential. Use higher Rep ranges for fuller looking muscles, lower Rep ranges and heavier lifts for denser muscles. To cut fat, diet is 99% of it. Cardio isn't necessary but can provide some hormonal benefit. This is just my experience. If you're looking to have a stellar physique with just cardio, it won't happen my friend.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 12:02 AM
7

All of the feminist shaming is only ever directed at the beta men who pay it attention. There is no validity behind any of it unless you give it validity. You're 100% correct. You define your reality and those who want to join you on your kick ass spiral upward are more than welcome to.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:57 PM
2

In the past trp was filled full of brutally honest and effective advice. In recent months the sub has been over ran by betas hamstering anything to avoid carving themselves out of wood. I'm mad because people like you are the worms who turned a once valuable resource and effective community into a circle jerk where stubborn betas come to bitch but have no intention in doing anything to improve their lot.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 10:29 PM
5

I agree. And as I said it wasn't the content of his comment, but the intention. It's the principle of rationalizing a lower level of discipline which is spreading like cancer through this sub. Sure the influx of noobs will naturally come with a rise in this type of justification, but what I'm see now is a community hamster with every beta bandwagoning their metiocrity and making excuses. We need the veterans to delete posts and ban users who attempt to undermine doing the tough stuff because the…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 10:23 PM
2

It's the principle behind giving an out to ops prescription. The first fucking comment is someone saying cheat meals aren't that bad. Fuck that. This is trp not a fucking hand holding circle jerk. Be a man and have some discipline.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 10:14 PM
-9

Everything in moderation! Including trenbaloni sandwiches, bitch.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:58 PM
-17

You're living like a basic bitch.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:37 PM
-16

Your father is an average basic bitch and so are you. There is nothing more run of the mill than "Everything in moderation." Fuck off back to the rest of reddit with that mentality. Do champions have "everything in moderation?" Or does every basic mediocre bitch have everything in moderation. Do Olympians crack a few beers on the weekend because "Everything in moderation"? Fuck no.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:36 PM
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I am ecstatic this comment is voted to the top. This is EXACTLY the hamster, fagget mentality that leads to blatant mediocrity. The content is fine. Of course a cheat meal here and there won't kill your progress, but I'll tell you what will. Your hamster. Y'all mother fucker who felt the need to up vote those comment, or pat yourself on the back when you read it, you need to harden the fuck up. This sub used to be filled with men who would tear you apart for posting fagget, sympathizing, hamster…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:33 PM
9

I second the catholic private schooled girls are sluts. Fucking hyper sluts. We're talking full on gangbanging, choke her till she passes out level of slut. And this is all requested by her after a few drinks. Fucking insane. Fun... But insane.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:11 PM
13

Similarly, it's funny how so many girls find their way back to church in their late twenties. They stop partying and start taking up wholesome hobbies like yoga, crafts and crossfit. What else is funny, is you have a couple drinks with some of these girls, nag them a bit and their true colors come out. They're fucking party animals and cc riders at heart. It's all a show to try and lure some "nice guy," which let's be honest, means career successful, reasonably good looking and absolutely unawar…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:07 PM
2

No, it didn't offend me at all. It's just dudes reading that taking it at face knowledge might get the wrong idea.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 08:55 PM
11

You're a social fucking wizard. Teach me your ways.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 06:30 PM
3

Smiling and laughing is submissive? Sounds pretty fucking stupid to me. What's needed here is an example. If you're bubbly and over the top or if you're grimacing and stone walled, women will think you're either a fucking weirdo or not interested in any human interaction. But, smiling and laughing the way normal people do it is absolutely a positive thing and no one should ever avoid doing them.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 06:27 PM
1

This is your perspective because you're low smv or have shit pictures and don't get any results. You know that is true. It take work to get results, bucko.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:57 PM
2

I hear your hamster wheel creaking from across the room bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:56 PM
3

You're using it wrong if you have this perspective. Every girl who fucks is on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:54 PM
18

Your perspective has everything to do with your smv. Funny thing about smv, is that no one knows what it's like to be several points higher or lower than others. Unless you go from very low smv, improve and clean up, then place several points higher in smv, you won't make the connection. My whole game is on trp is to push guys to stop performing/pua tactics and just stop caring so much. But that perspective is mine because it reflects where my smv is currently and what works best for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:51 PM
10

Who cares. Stop speculating and lose the fucking fat. You drop that 20lbs and you'll see how real ioi's work.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:57 AM
3

Nothing changed for me until I got mad at myself and used the anger to force myself into action.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:54 AM
6

And dick size ain't everything. Behaviour is what arouses women. But actually, how small is op's dick?!
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:49 AM
3

Haha yeah, you're right. Most girls now are bottom feeders. They're fucking depraved.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:48 AM
3

When you're 55, experienced, well off and satisfied with your life and looking to take things down a gear, looking for a 40 year old woman to live the simple life with will be a totally different story than what younger guys deal with younger women. For the VAST majority of men <55, don't be fucking stupid, don't get married. In fact, even the 55+ mfer shouldn't marry her even if he lives with her.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:45 AM
3

First of all, you should go monk mode for a while to sort out your neediness. Any man that gives a shit what "his woman" (lol) is texting others needs to rearrange his priorities in life. Of course women judge you and are brutally honest about the most intimate things about you, even with their friends. Remember, men are utilities to women. You're not a snow flake. She will swing to the next branch if the moment and smv gain is worth it. But the real issue here is why you felt the need to go thr…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:40 AM
1

What the six pillars does really well is convince you that you're indeed just fine and start believing in your Damn self. Having believed the overt and covert lies we've been sold by the mass marketing media, for generations, that we're deficient in some way has done real, lasting damage. In conjunction with the six pillars I'd definitely read Models by Mark Manson if you haven't already. Absolutely stellar book for the 'women' side of things.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 06:34 AM
2

Definitely read the book. Sounds like your ambitions are wildly outside of your current circle of influence? Aside from ego gratification, what can something that is so hard to obtain bring you in terms of self esteem? Self esteem isn't concerned with how you stack up relative to everyone else, but how stack up against the most basic requirements and challenges of life. It has to do with your willingness to accept love and praise for your achievements and willingness to let yourself be happy.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 04:55 AM
2

Himself. He doesn't view himself as fit to tackle the basic challenges of life or worthy of happiness. A therapist should be in order.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:36 AM
9

And his overt assertion of a post-nup layed the foundation of his destruction.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:42 AM
2

The six pillars of self esteem. Yeah read it, it's great.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 12:17 AM
6

your own self-esteem must be higher than hers to give her a reality check. I definitely want to pull self esteem out from under the umbrella shared by SMV. Self esteem is more of the fundamental way you feel about yourself and your effectiveness. Higher or lower SMV is a ranking which depends on everyone else. For instance, you could have a dude with massively high self esteem, but very low SMV. Someone like Stephen Hawking for instance. The dude probably has very high self esteem because of his…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 08:04 PM
7

In MJ Demarco's The Millionaire Fastlane, one of the points he mentions is to "Distance yourself from most people." His book is in regards to achieving financial success by disregarding mainstream methodology and understanding surrounding financial success and the business world, but that sentence rings extremely true in any instance where you want to "be different" or better than the people around you. People hate change. It is an evolutionary mechanism and hard wired into our psyches. Men who …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:54 PM
24

What is most shocking to me, as a reformeding beta, is the degree to which some women will push the illusion they're good girls/LTR worthy, when in reality they're bottom feeding, gangbanging, validation deprived hoes. Especially when they peg you as a 'decent guy' with a promising career and relatively high value. For once you understand what those young hotties feel like when they get pumped and dumped by chad, when in their naivety, thought chad "like her for her." All of us, men and women, h…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:48 PM
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This is a field report, not red pill theory. Good on you, OP. Pussy ain't ever worth the erosion in self respect that comes with keeping a poisoner around.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:42 PM
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Nothing alpha about yelling at kids True. besides-you can’t instruct kids in front of their parents without their say-so. You always do what you're told? Also, me addressing child puts me and the kid on the same level, which was what my point was to address.. Learn the difference between arguing and instructing/disciplining. It is in the best interest of the child they receive some sense. I don’t waste my time on stupid. I picked on you because you're here to be more 'alpha,' no? That child and …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 06:35 PM
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You should have tore her daughter a new one and when her mom jumped in to defend her entitled daughter you shoulda tore her a new one as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 05:28 AM
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Don't worry, when I catch you, i'll eat you up.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 10:43 PM
1

It's not fake, any more than an actor who plays someone on TV is fake. OP isn't making the distinction between honest expression and Machiavelli projection. If one had to tell a young man how to live his life in order to be effective and content, he would tell him to accept who he is, project his authentic self and always work to improve his authentic self. Ops suggestion will divert the young man from the 'authentic pursuit' root of TRP and onto a Machiavelli tangent exercise to facilitate supe…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 10:30 PM
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To add to this, most alpha men and women know that social media is inherently superficial and a waste of time. Investing in others perception of you is a shallow pursuit. A man should invest in himself and let his inherent value be his indicator of SMV. Any person I've ever met who was consumed by their social media projection or reputation were shit people to begin with. Yes, even women hot women who are glued to their phones are shit people imo. Beyond a pump and dump, they have no value to me…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 10:06 PM
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I'd probably compare plank to any exercise which holds a muscle in contraction for an extended period of time. It has it's uses but by not fully contracting and stretching the muscle under tension, it's not going to receive a thorough workout.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 09:52 PM
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The fact is, most women are much more DT than men on average. Their ability to be cruel, manipulate, disassociate and compartmentalize traumatic events and wear multiple faces is their tool of survival. Where men are generally more overt and direct, women are more covert and indirect. Don't make the mistake of thinking masculine brutishness is outdated and useless; we're just living in a hyper feminized society where covert tactics of manipulation are more effective than direct tactics. A major …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 09:43 PM
4

Men will be forced back into the power position when the beta males and feminists completely fuck society and the chaos of nature reclaims our land. Then weak men and women will look to the nearest alpha male and beg them to lead them to safety, security and prosperity.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 09:34 PM
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"Should I hire him or her? Which choice is less risky to me, my income, my family, my retirement? I will hire him." That is precisely when the state will step in and force a diversity quota on every employable position.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 09:32 PM
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"Innocent until proven guilty" and "every person is equal in the court of law" are philosophical values which represent the foundation of western society freshly constructed out of the chaos of tyrannical war. Hard men who reflect the pinnacle of masculine virtue derived these tenets. As men continue to be emasculated and feminine primacy washes over the west, those tenets will be erased. It will be a god damn witch hunt and the guillotines will continue to fall until the whole thing inevitably …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 09:30 PM
2

action is the only way to achieve anything in this world. Exactly. Being 19 years old means you probably haven't had enough time to take that much action. Wisdom is the obtained through first seeking truth by the refinement of intellect (what you've actually done here), followed by applying that truth through courageous pursuits, which is willing to risk loss and failure. When you take courageous actions, risk failure and then stack your failures next to your truth, or what you thought should ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 07:30 PM
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Aesthetics>game The primary reason for this is actually: Meeting your own needs>convincing a girl you've met your own needs. Aessethics is the result of engaging in a self development process for years. Your ducks are in a row and it shows. Game is an attempt to convince a girl your ducks are in a row. If you've spent years getting them in a row, you have to work a lot less to convince a girl they're all lined up.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 07:21 PM
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19 years old? You should stick to reading instead of writing. Actually, write away, but don't try and teach others. You're not there yet. Only eat carbs from fruits and veggies? Fuck no. This is another item each individual will have to hash out on his own as he experiences cutting and bulking himself. You would know that if you experienced it. As for the rest, why would I read your sidebar jargon when I can read the actual side bar constructed by veterans who've waged war in the jungle for deca…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 07:18 PM
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His definition of vulnerability means being willing to express your true intentions and desires to the world because you're unafraid of the world rejecting you for those expressions. It is the only true source of idgaf.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 06:54 AM
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Being honest and vulnerable in the way he explains it, is only beneficial if you've put in the work to increase your smv. After years of self improvement, being brutally honest and embracing rejection as a time saver makes perfect sense. If I jumped straight to truly expressing who I am to women as a blue pilled fat nerd, I wouldn't have gotten any results.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 06:52 AM
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Stepped into a bar, got shit drunk, got into his car, went into his house, took off her clothes, got into his bed.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 04:40 AM
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"of course I am. Normal people are boring af." Give an awkward shit eating grin to cap it off. Maybe stick your finger in her nose too. Don't take em so seriously bro.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 11:46 PM
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The sack of Rome When the hyper masculine barbarian militants entered Rome, they were met by only the most loyal white knights. The beta males so utterly contorted and indoctrinated by the mainstream, they'd give their life to maintain the disintegrated abomination that ran against every fibre of their logical brains. There is a certain masculine truth in each male, which is the result of successful tribal initiatives forged over hundreds of thousands of years of struggle. This truth is instinct…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:02 PM
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Some of the techniques mentioned above are not to be attempted by beginners. If you're not careful, it is very easy to be mistaken for a lunatic and you may very well attract the attention from the psychiatric community. I recommend taking the precaution of becoming physically fit, conversationally proficient, well groomed and facially attractive before any attempt is made at singing, humming or whistling. The concept of monsters repelling monsters applies here. Murderers, rapists, thugs etc pra…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 11:58 PM
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Spot on. I totally agree with you on your plate theory regarding sparing 'decent' women the DT games which come with spinning plates. We should be more clear here and say more decent women. No woman is strictly decent because awalt and will inevitably reject her feminine values in favour of male values, should her man reject his male values. This is a necessary adaptation all females have in order to ensure her survival, should her man get soft. We should think of it in terms of a decent/whore s…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 07:23 PM
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Primary male values: Strength, honor, courage, grit, game Primary female values: Generosity, giving, compassion, nurture.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 02:37 AM
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