We don't, but I ran into a quote today:

"Arguing with a woman is like wrestling with a pig in the mud. After a few minutes you realize the pig likes it"

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To belabor a point that is made here a lot, don't argue with women. Don't attempt to out debate them via logic, or turn them to your mode of thinking. It will not happen. If you are in an argument with a woman, you have already lost. Not by words or evidence or any rational, objective measure, but by feelings. Women have a biologically-engrained need to maintain social standing and personal self-worth.

Back in the day, being called out on their personal failings could result in social outcasting and therefore no more access to resources. It is then in a woman's best interest to twist the truth and inject emotion into an argument to "win" and maintain her subjective view of reality and herself, as well to then be able to slander you and protect her social standing. For the love of god, don't text her anything, the obvious dangers of which I've covered in another post.

Case in point, let's say your girl dumps you and you make mistake #1 of continuing to talk to her afterwards. You may bring up her personal transgressions, ways in which she treated you poorly, was intensely hypocritical, or outright lied to you.

Her nature demands that she refute these things no matter how much evidence is presented of her poor character. In order to maintain her perception of herself as a good, innocent person, she will hamster away her flaws, poor actions, etc until in her mind they were all justified and reasonable. Women are naturally good at this. If you do not have strong frame they will easily turn the conversation on you and make you into the villain, telling outright lies to put you on the defensive, projecting onto you, and eventually shaming you into backing down and accepting the blame yourself.

Taking responsibility and acknowledging her terrible behavior would require self-awareness, something the modern woman has no understanding of.

The only way to win is not to play the game.

Plate contacts you after you drop her? Ex-girlfriend wants closure or is trying to bait you into an argument? Send them "lol" or better don't respond at all. She is very simply trying to draw you into her frame, her arena, where she can systematically break you down and emerge victorious, an empowered woman with no responsibility and completely blameless. The moment you engage, you risk her drawing emotion out of you. The moment she draws emotion out of you, you lose.

Its been done a thousand times, it will be done a thousand more. Unless you have rock-solid frame, which 99% of us even here don't, myself included, don't even try it. Pick your battlefield, don't let her drag you to hers.