Ok I am in uncharted territory right now. I’ve been seeing this girl for over 4 months now. I believe I have abundance mentality even though she is the only one I am actively having sex with. (According to you guys that’s stupid, but I’m in uni and I have to focus on my studies and not game girls or maintain them)

Anyways, we are talking on the phone about whatever, but afterwards I end the call on her after she playfully tells me “ok bye.” Reason being, I got fed up of her deflecting questions so I had enough and said bye and ended the call. She immediately calls me back tells me that was rude and asks why I’m mad. Through the tone of my voice she sensed that I was mad.

Right now I feel so stupid to bringing this up because this feels like child’s play.

Moving on, I tell her I’m not mad and she persists that I am which actually starts to get me mad lol, but I’m not gonna show that so I try and reassure that I’m not mad and she’s says bye ends the call. If feels as though she wanted to one up me or get one over me.

Anyways what the fuck is happening? I feel as though this is child’s play and she’s trying to evoke some response out of me. At the same time I feel as though there is this sense of control she is trying to establish and the fact that I did something unexpected made her want to do it... idk where I’m going with this.

I’m gonna apply soft dread plain and simple.

Your guys’ input and clarification would help right now