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4

You don't. You move on.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:42 PM
4

Cocky = fun But you'll only attract plates never LTRs.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:12 PM
2

Do what my father did. Get him in the car. Drive to the nearest trade school. Tell him to get out and not to come back without an application. Trade school costs less than 10k for a two year degree. Some of them will get you certified. Then drive him to any minimum wage job and tell him too get out and not come back without an application. He'll learn a valuable trade in computers, machine work, auto work, electrical, pluming etc. He can pay for it with a minimum wage job. It's not that hard. Pe…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:34 PM
1

She's not interested. Don't waste your time. Forget about her. It's her loss if she didn't reach out.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:27 PM
1

Weddings, network events, bars.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:50 PM
1

That's the biggest complaint I hear women say. Guys don't do it long enough. They are really pleased that I'll spend up to an hour sometimes going down on them.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:46 PM
1

You can always make a woman orgasm when you go down on her. There's videos on porn hub teaching you how. Intercourse is a bit more difficult, but there are certain positions that guarantee orgasm. Again training videos on porn hub.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:37 PM
3

Pfft just get another job. People get fired all the time. It is unfortunate but if you're indeed good at your job then you should have no problem finding another.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:33 PM
1

No not all. If she's pretty there's a high chance that she does though. I'd say 98% chance. You can usually tell about 10 seconds into an interaction.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:29 PM
8

If they aren't contacting you then they're not interested.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:21 AM
2

Yeah you move on. There's no reason to keep her around if she says no to sex constantly. You can keep her as a friend. But make sure to not give her any more special treatment or attention than you would a male friend.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:14 PM
2

100% this. At the age of 23 your focus should be on yourself and your status in the world. Get in the best shape possible, work out, improve yourself, and study hard. Get a great job and network.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:09 PM
1

Willpower. It's a muscle that you have to train just like working out.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:04 PM
8

Read the E-Myth Start a side gig. Once you have a proven product/service market the crap out of it. Referrals, ads, promotions, cold calls, networking events, host events, give talks etc. Your biggest challenge is obscurity. Always plug your business. Be that pushy sales guy. Always hand out your cards. Grow side gig until it replaces 9-5 income. Prepare to not have a life outside of your business for a good long while. Structure your business like a corporation. Plan employee onboarding, traini…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:41 PM
7

Let me save you some time. 4 hour work week is this: reduce expenditures, move to a different country if you have to, and make your business location independent.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:31 PM
10

First off she's a business partner. Would you pay for other business partners' flights to your place? Second it's totally disrespectful for a business partner to bring a date to stay at your place.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:01 PM
3

Nope not a problem. It's a fact. Women don't have to put much effort into a relationship. They have dicks slapping in the face as soon as they step out their front door. If you want an exceptional LTR then it's a numbers game. There are those women that will put in the work but you have to search for them. Shit test them. Ask then to do things for you. Force them to put in the effort. See how they react. You can straight up ask them, other than looking fine what else do you bring to the table?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:58 PM
2

I shit test women by doing certain beta things. I'm not going to be alpha all the time. I'll have points of weakness. I want a woman that will stick by me when I go through them. I also shit test by asking them to do things. Small errands. A woman that will go out of her way to pick up your dry cleaning is a woman that's a ride or die kind of woman.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:28 PM
1

https://youtu.be/wr1ONXcq3yM
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:42 AM
2

Sounds like you're headed down the right path. Good luck.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:37 PM
1

Haha yeah oops
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:44 PM
3

Peaceful times create weak men. The west has been relatively peaceful for some time now. Men are growing weak on a macro scale and women, on a macro scale, are shit testing the west. It's why you see women welcoming refugees. They are inviting competition. May the most alpha win. Edit: spelling
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:05 PM
9

Pretty much this and it applies to everyone in your life that criticizes you for bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:59 PM
1

Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:55 PM
1

Date girls in their young 20s that go to college. You'll get invited to her friends parties. Go out to the party scene in your city. Chat people up and have fun. Go to the party cities during spring break. College social life is nothing to write home about. Most of the parties were lame. Movies really over play it. Imagine going to a party with 30 people. It's in some crappy appartment or house and everyone just stands around and drinks. Some people will be playing drinking games, some people wi…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:51 PM
14

I'm not going to sugar coat it like these other guys. Get a fucking hold of yourself mate. I'd slap you across the face if we were in person. You're willing to throw your fucking life away for a girl? Come on man. You have so much more in life to do. This bitch is just that. A bitch. I guarantee you that there are hundreds of thousands of girls out there that are a million times better than this one. It sucks being heart broken. We've all been through it. Take some time for yourself. Go on a vac…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 04:34 PM
1

Do this and realize that you're just now starting your SMV climb at that age. I started late in the dating market too. In my late 20s I started working out and putting myself out there. By 30 I was fit, rich and hooking up with many women. Two or three dates a week.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:15 PM
1

That's normal. There's no problem if she's still dressing up when you go out. If you want her to do it more often then compliment her when she does it and don't when she doesn't do it.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:09 PM
1

DGAF attitude is not bringing negative emotions into the relationship. It works with everyone. No one is going to want to hang out with a whiney little bitch.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:07 PM
1

Girls in Poland are more promiscuous. But you'll be hard pressed to find LTR material there.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:00 PM
27

You've got a girl that cooks for you, runs errands for you, will be over at the door of a hat if you asked, someone that always wants to fuck and gives you the porn star fuck and you want to throw that away at a chance to find a hotter woman? Assuming she does those things. I'm here to tell you good luck. Hotter women won't do that unless you're much hotter than them. In the end, looks fade, attitude and personality tend to stick around until death. Do what you feel is right, but keep in mind it…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 02:49 PM
4

It takes time. It's a numbers game. For the emptiness feeling, that's something for you to figure out yourself. What are you not doing that you really want to do? Losing frame in a LTR is normal for guys just starting out. It's like learning to ride a bike. You'll fall off a few times, but you have to get right back on it and try again. TRP is your training wheels. Soon you'll get the hang of it.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:18 PM
2

You are. She'll never want to sleep with you. It would require too much work. Like they say, first impressions are important. Ignore her and go find someone else. Also not every woman will want you, no matter how alpha and red pilled you are. I think that's what this community falsely implies.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:32 PM
2

You do realize that you're making a fucking excuse because some bloke used drugs and you now you have it in your mind that you can't workout and work towards bettering yourself because you think you'll never achieve a body like that because you don't want to use drugs. Right? Get the fuck out of here if you don't want to take the advice. You don't have to look like Thor to achieve the Adonis Physique. To achieve the most aesthetically pleasing shape for a man, your shoulders need to be 1.618 tim…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:37 PM
-1

The Adonis Physique is still obtainable without drugs. But let drugs be the reason you don't work towards it, because you're a lazy POS.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:24 PM
0

I took this girl to the cinema, which she suggested as the first date WRONG! You lead and you choose the spot. Cinema is the worst first date. Also it was nothing. Stop thinking about it.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:17 PM
-1

YES. Strive to achieve the Adonis Physique. It's the the most aesthetically pleasing physique a man can have. You'll look good in everything you wear. You could wear a garbage bag and still look good. Think Thor level of physique .
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:14 PM
1

Focus, determination, drive, purpose, passion, leadership. Seriously get a planner ( I recommend the 10x planner from Grant Cardone ) and organize your day.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:12 PM
16

Options. Women have tons of options and you're not the only guy she has been talking to. Something more appealing came up. Unfriending and blocking a guy is easier than saying sorry I met someone else or I can't make it. Especially because a lot of you mother fuckers explode with rage when rejected.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:07 PM
2

You should have spent that money on a therapist not toys. And yes they are toys. They are produced and marketed for children. Sell the toys and use the money for a therapist to sort out your childhood.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:54 PM
1

Edging. Masturbate to the point of ejaculation and then stop right before. Wait a bit then continue. You'll last longer. If your boner goes away during sex then stop watching porn for a month. You can still nut, but not to porn. If all else fails ask your doctor for the little blue pill.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:34 AM
0

I agree, that's why you need to use your IT skills to start a business. It's much better. Don't go back to school. That's a waste of time and money. Pick up some business books and start learning how to sell.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:29 AM
2

Get to the gym and start eating right. Get rid of the toys. You can still play video games and you can have a poster or two, but the toys are a bit much. I never understood men that have kids toys.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:27 AM
-1

No, no one cares. Move on.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:25 AM
1

Fill your life with something and reply when you can. If you're worrying about the time to wait to text back then you're not doing enough in your life that matters.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:24 AM
1

You did it right. I wouldn't put this much effort into it though. But then again, you're 17. It's a bit harder at that age. She was genuinely interested in you. She's young though, and a bit shy. She doesn't want to get in the trouble with her parents. Logistics didn't work. Keep it up. It gets easier in college. Girls have more freedom.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:22 AM
1

Find someone to build a relationship with. Try it out for a while.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:43 PM
3

Side hussle can be anything to make a little extra money. Small odd jobs, or using any skill you have to make a little extra money. I have a buddy that is a handy man for people. He logs into an app, can't remember the name, and accepts jobs when he has time. He makes an extra free hundred a month doing it. He does plumbing, roofing, drywall, electrical work etc. I know another guy that is a physical therapist on the side. It really depends if you have skills. I do IT setup for small businesses …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 01:40 AM
6

Try to get on a coed team and meet some girls.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 09:05 PM
8

Join the rec teams.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:49 PM
13

You ignore that. Or you could just say something unexpected like "Got to start somewhere". Don't let that phase you. Sports: Football, hockey, rugby, baseball, soccer, volleyball, really anything that will get you moving and something you enjoy.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:46 PM
5

Keep flirting and teasing her.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:40 PM
35

Get better at your comebacks. Bullying is a form of testing the weak. If you come back with some witty insults then they'll back off or it will turn into a fight. Hold your ground, show your strength, and carry on. If you back down or run away they'll never leave you alone.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:39 PM
9

You know why women like guys that play guitar? It's because of future SMV. This guy could be in a rock band. Most likely he won't but in her head he could be. You're in med school. It has the same effect. I wouldn't worry about money right now. Get your game and looks on point. If you're balding, then keep it short. Hit the gym and look as fit as you can. Buy clothes that fit you. You don't have to wear designer items, just wear things that look good. For money to live on: start a side hussle. Y…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:32 PM
3

Text game has changed. The whole logistics only shit is 2008 game. What you need to do is perfect amuse mastery over text. Flirt and tease her constantly. Keep it 2/3. She has to be texting you more. Then set up a date. It doesn't hurt to text her when she texts first. Don't do good morning texts until you feel out what kind of girl this is. Remember these are just rules. This is just one girl of many. Don't be afraid to try new things. That's how you learn.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 02:12 PM
1

Women mold to your frame. If you have a week frame then you'll never find a quality woman.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:34 AM
13

Because flirting is fun.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:15 AM
2

Now i know what i need to do to be happy and normal. Quit smoking, exercise, meditate, eat healthy, sleep normal, learn some new skills, etc. Then DO IT! It's not easy. Nothing is easy. Start today. Force yourself to start! Channel the anger you have for yourself into doing it.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:10 AM
3

The reason conservatives lose is because they don't have any interest in power. They believe the individual can make their own choices. They don't organize. Conservatives are more interested in raising a family than governing other people. Conservatives just want to be left alone and they'll move instead of fight. They seek peace because it is best for their family. But when shit hits the fan, when they can no longer be left alone to raise their family, it's conservatives that win. It's conserva…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 03:39 PM
1

Because you're asking two different questions. You're asking women what they find attractive in a man. With this question you'll get the provider response. You need to ask what turns a woman on and you'll get the alpha male. What you need to be is man in every aspect: in shape, decisive, bold, funny, strong, me first attitude and then at the same time you have to be caring, kind, considerate, affectionate, and a provider. It's not hard to do both. Knowing what to be and when to be what is gained…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:26 PM
3

Nope. I stay out of friend groups, coworkers, and family friends. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:39 PM
1

Beat the shit out of the husband and kicked them both out. Called child protective services and offer to take them until the parents are fit to be parents. But I'm an old school hard ass type. I don't care if you're family. If you're a degenerate you'll be treated as such.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:37 PM
6

Yeah that seems to be the consensus.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:05 PM
1

True, poor choice of words on my part. And yes. Iron rule number 4.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:14 PM
0

Here's what you do. You actually fill your schedule with shit that helps you progress on your goals. Then when you get texts, respond when you can. Don't artificially wait hours to reply. That's stupid. Send something funny every couple days if your date is far away to keep her interest. If she texts and you can respond right away, then do it. She's on her phone and you can hold a conversation for a bit. Stay flirty and tease her.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:47 PM
1

You don't have to text every girl. You do you, keep the hottest ones as plates and ignore the rest. I get hundreds of matches a week on tinder and tons of numbers when I go out. I just like doing it for the fun. I keep 3 plates on at all times, because that's all I can handle in my life. I'd say your priorities should be Study, Career, Work, Hobby, Friends, Entertainment, then girls.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:40 PM
25

It's not gay. I have no time for people in my life that disrespect me or my rules. If my woman goes against my wishes and visits with her ex, then we are done. A proper woman respects her man. A proper man demands respect.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:34 PM
3

Here's the thing. I've been with many women. They are pretty much all the same. A new woman turns 18 every second. There are literally millions of them. I'm not saying they aren't worth it. I love women and what they can bring into your life. There are many women that I have cared about in the past, but when she's not showing that same level of care and love, then It's not meant to be. If you're paranoid she is going to to cheat on you, then you know she's not that into you. It manifests in your…
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:32 PM
1

Yeah, change up how you message them. Be a little more flirty and tease them. If they still aren't engaging then it's a sign to move on.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:22 PM
2

Yeah, if you're this paranoid then why the fuck are you with her? You don't have the abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:00 PM
3

Yeah and you respond to her emotion with indifference. Just like you would with a child.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:52 PM
222

This! The bitch knows your boundaries and she is crossing them. As a man you need to put your foot down. Tell her that if she goes to see her ex, don't bother coming back, because you won't be here. Like Ohboohoolittlegirl said, her parents aren't your problem. If they call you or ask what happened, just say your daughter doesn't seem that interested in a relationship with me. Stop allowing bad female behavior to go unpunished.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:51 PM
1

Always wrap your willy. ALWAYS!!
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:30 PM
8

Wait until you get the shit test of her not liking your decision.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:23 PM
1

When ever you feel the urge go do something. Lift weights, run around the block, take a cold shower. During the day go flirt with women. Fat, ugly, old, who cares. You'll learn something. Gotta slay a few boars to level up. Tell yourself I'm only going to orgasm if a woman is doing it to me. If you relapse don't beat yourself up. Just try again.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:58 AM
7

She calls back and says why you mad? You say why don't you come over? In a playful tone. Then have sex. Always be closing with women. No matter what they say. You're unaffected and keeping frame. You shouldn't care what she says.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:53 AM
3

Next her. If you really want to try, go for the close. "Why don't you school me over some drinks insert a place and time then give your phone number."
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:48 AM
1

Anything is attainable with the right training, nutrition, and tools.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:43 AM
5

Chad's are 2% of men. Most good looking men are blue pill as fuck. The the red pill makes you automatically better than 80% of men. Chad's are good looking, high status men, than know the red pill.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:31 AM
1

lol bitch be crazy. Leave her. There are millions of others a billion times better.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:11 AM
3

Only one way to find out. Go talk to them.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:42 PM
3

It's honestly a balancing act. I guess that's why they say spin plates. You went too alpha. The thing is that women will accept different levels of that. If your goal is LTR then it's a numbers game. You really have to find the woman that fits you like a puzzle piece. Some one that compliments your life and you compliment hers. And there's not just one woman that will do that. There's millions. So learn what you did wrong, correct it, and try again with someone else.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:36 PM
7

T-levels that are considered normal these days is much lower than what they should be and doctors don't care. It's this anti male, anti testosterone mentality in the media that is bleeding into the medical field.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:10 PM
5

Even doctors don't have immunity to the sjw propoganda. It's surprising how little doctors actually know versus what people think they know.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:05 PM
1

There's always going to be people better than you. Comparing yourself to those people will drepress you. You must only compare yourself to who you were yesterday. And always do the work.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:13 AM
1

You don't need to fuck them you could just talk to them. Start there.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:33 PM
1

Step One, scrub her from your social media. There is no such thing as friends after a relationship. I don't care who says, "but I did it", get the fuck out of here. It's not possible. To you, she's dead, move on. Step Two, move if your apartment is bringing back too many memories, but know this, those memories will fade over time. Step Three, get off social media. Keep doing it for business and only business. Step Four, and this is for everyone, get a FUCKING hobby. Seriously, so many people don…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:32 PM
4

Stop hanging out or associating with shit people. At the very least limit your time with them.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:11 PM
1

Think of it like a game. You may be 30, but your level is low and you're trying to slay the boss. Go back to the forest man. Slay some boars and level up. Meaning you need more experience. The reason you're fearful with an attractive woman is because you're afraid of her rejecting you. Go talk to a bunch of women. Women that aren't as attractive. Try to seduce them and have fun with it. The more you do it the easier it is to talk to pretty women. Back in highschool I couldn't even look at a girl…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:09 PM
10

Call them on their shit.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:03 PM
1

Man, you've got some work to do. I'd suggest you find a place you can work and then gradually get into sales. Sales is the best place for men. You'll learn to overcome introverted behaviors and get used to rejection. I'm so grateful for my father dumping me off at the local hardware store, when I was 15, and said "Don't come back without and application".
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:00 PM
2

It's a behavior you can learn to overcome. In my opinion there's no such thing as an introvert, quiet guy. Get into sales and you'll see that behavior melt away.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:50 PM
8

Nagging wife gets divorce papers. It's easier to pay child support than it is to put up with that. Never hit a woman. Just say fine you're going to be like this I want a divorce. Take the kids I don't care. I'll tell them it was your decision when they're older. And I can find a hotter better woman that treats me right. When I say I'll be done in a min, I mean it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 06:36 PM
3

Men need to always be doing something. It's our nature. Hobbies: photography, guitar, another business, build something cool, fix cars, what ever. You need to be doing something. Video games are a simulation of doing something. Social media is a simulation of intimacy. Porn is a simulation of sex. All of these things dull our senses to the real thing. Stay away or limit your exposure to this. Shut off your games and think of other things to do.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:07 PM
2

Women have options. If you're doing this out of spite and hoping she'll reconsider, it's not going to happen. Move on and find someone else.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:15 PM
1

Wait, a guy in her past? You didn't know him? Then you shouldn't care. She shouldn't even be talking about him.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:14 PM
1

That's probably the only con of losing weight. I'd say yes. Buy a couple things to get you by for the next few months.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:11 PM
1

Sounds like she wanted to be.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:09 PM
1

She went home with you not the other guy. Sounds like he friend likes you. I'd ignore until your girl brings it up.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:08 PM
1

A woman is never yours, it's just your turn. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:06 PM
9

Don't want to be the victim? Then don't be. So what, you had a failed interview. I've had hundreds. Keep going to the gym. A bender is sometimes a good thing. When you feel better, after your hangover, get back to work. You're a man, find your purpose and smash the shit out of it. Realign your life around that purpose. Your purpose can be anything. From building an awesome business, to the best sales guy in the company, to the most traveled man, to the best artist, you have to always be working …
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:52 PM
1

First off you need more experience. She's not interested. If she was, she wouldn't have mentioned the boyfriend. Second, monk mode doesn't mean don't game women. Monk mode is focus on yourself and don't actively go out to game women. If something comes along while you're out improving yourself, you can and should take the opportunity.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 07:13 AM
2

You should just invent a device that shreds condoms and sterilizes sperm. I'd buy that.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 07:16 AM
8

Yes. 10000% better. 5'10" was 285lbs with 45% body fat. Dropped to 170lbs around 10% bodyfat. It's a massive world of difference. I can be lazier with my game because my looks make up for it. 100 matches a week on tinder. Around 20 on bumble. I credit tinder matches to boosts.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:53 PM
1

Simple, be better than them and be humble about it. Have honor and always lift those around you above yourself. Go read how to make friends and influence people.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:49 PM
17

That's the hardest pills for new comers to swallow. She's only yours when you're with her. Women are not like men. They are constantly looking to trade up. They have no honor, no respect, no sympathy. They are looking out for number one. Adapt this mentality into your life and you will be king of the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 11:47 PM
1

It's much cheaper than 18 years of child support. Which do you want?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:39 PM
1

If she shared her slut stories with you then that means you're one of her girlfriends.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:38 PM
2

No. Keep her around. See what happens. Don't move in with her. Don't buy anything that involves loans with her. Just date her and see what happens. After several years and she's still fucking your brains out, then maybe. But don't pass on better offers.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:35 PM
1

Get your testosterone checked.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:31 PM
2

Use condom, get tested regularly, and always flush the condom. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:30 PM
4

Imo MGTOW and incel are synonymous.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:28 PM
0

Haha, why? It's not hard to fuck a girl with a pulse.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:23 PM
6

It's not what you eat, it's how much you eat. People in america eat a shit ton of food. They eat out a lot. A bagel in the morning with cream cheese 600 calories, a meal at McDonald's 900-1200 calories with a soda, then dinner and a few beers another 900-1200 calories. That's nearing 3000 calories. That mixed with an office job, sitting for 8 hours and no exercise, you have a compound effect over 20 years. That person will be obese and that's your average person. People will say no man, it's the…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 03:53 PM
3

Overweight bald fuck It might be the porn, but it also could be this. Talk to a doctor and get Viagra, go to the gym, eat right, and stop Fapping. You can then wean yourself off the Viagra as things get better.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:42 PM
4

Like the comments said. Why are you in an LTR with a woman that goes out drinking without you? Why are you with a woman that feels it's ok to share a cab with a harasser? I'm not saying she's lying. She could be telling the truth. But those two things are red flags. Second why the fuck are you in the UK? GTFO as soon as you can. My family left that shit rock over 400 years ago.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:39 PM
1

Haha the UK? You know that's the cuck capitol of the world.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:36 PM
5

Here's the thing. The older you get, the more experience you have in what works and what doesn't. A man in his 30s that's been gaming girls and has RP knowledge can run circles around men in their 20s. By the time you're 30 you should have all three pillars down: Game, Body, Money. That's much more attractive than the best fratboy.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:22 PM
2

Talk to people and learn some valuable skills. Edit: Really, start in areas that interest you. For me it was real estate.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:51 PM
2

Some men aren't cut out to run a business. It takes grit, perseverance, and a hell of a lot of charm.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 06:37 PM
1

You caught feels. Plain and simple. Sounds like to me you don't have a goal, direction, or purpose in life. She can sense that. So she looks for other avenues. You were doing the same. Two lost souls in the abyss. A man finds purpose is doing things. A woman finds purpose in a man. Sort out your life. You know what to do more so than anyone here. So just do it.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:33 PM
3

My side hustles are things I have skills in. I don't want to reveal too much about it. I'd like to stay anonymous here. Here are some things I've brainstormed I could do if I needed to pick something up Website design. A lot of local business websites suck. If you don't know what you're doing or your only experience is WordPress, then just stop right here or learn actual web design. Back-end software as a service (SAAS) Landscaping House Cleaning Photography Consulting if you have skills Auto Re…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:25 PM
17

Now I feel a shell of what I was. I am 30, living at my parents, working at a job I don't like. None of my good friends live in the area, and I cant go see them often because they work 9-5s and I work all night on the weekends. I have lost a lot of energy to goto the gym, been drinking too much, and jacking it again Fix it. Nothing anyone here can tell you that you don't already know. You have to work. My suggestion Year One: Pay off all your loans. Become debt free While your rent is cheap. Fin…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:52 PM
2

She's into you. That's all. Enjoy it, but don't let it consume you.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:41 PM
1

You need other women in your life. The more you have the less it affects you when one drops.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:39 PM
8

Go talk to more people. Just like building muscles, you need to build your social skills. Go talk to random people about anything. Sit at the bar when you're out and try to shoot the shit with other people. Go to meet up events and talk to those people. Join clubs, groups, events. Get a job in sales. Be social with strangers.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:37 PM
5

If it doesn't work for you, don't do it. I noticed this as well. I get all lazy and soft. I found I get this way after eating an unhealthy meal too. Your main hindbrain drive in life is reproduction and food. Once you achieve those your brain doesn't see fit to do anything else. Your mission is complete. Some guys don't have a problem, but that's because we're all different.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 08:34 PM
3

She's going to fuck her boyfriend and imagine it was you. lol It's just one interaction. Nothing you could do. Just move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:42 PM
46

Here's the thing. Money and a good job are easy to come by now. Women can get it themselves. So playing by the old rules isn't appealing to them anymore. The old rules are the base level now. You have to up it in order to compete.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 04:55 PM
5

I'd disagree. Women are very good at organizing, running errands, and keeping your schedule in check. Aka secretary. They are also content with their job with no real desire to climb the ladder. Hire thin ones because fat ones are lazy, reason: they're fat. Don't give them any real decision power. They can't handle that very well.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:36 PM
2

I'd beat the shit out of him. Having a sister myself and a beta dad, I'm very protective of her. I don't let anyone mess with my sister. Bad move bringing her to a party. She's 15. She shouldn't be going to parties with guys. She should be doing sleep overs with her friends. I'm honest though. The only way to solve your problem is to show dominance. To do that you need to beat him at something. If you're not strong, sounds like you're not and I wouldn't advise physical altercation, you need to f…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:30 PM
1

Yeah there's two ways to approach it. Just don't come off as jealous
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:29 AM
-2

You have to dominate and lead your woman. Tell her what's ok and what's not. This shit test is to see what she can get away with. I guarantee she'll try other shit if you allow her to talk about other guys. She'll openly flirt with other guys infront of you, she'll go out with her male "friends" and she'll try to get you jealous. If you nip it in the butt early she'll stop. Like I said if she leaves, she leaves. You put your demands on the table, if she can't respect that she's not worth your ti…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:45 PM
2

The bicep size is from the long head muscle. To increase it's size effectively you need to fully extend your arm. The best exercises for this is the incline dumbbell curl. Keep your elbows back slightly behind your back. You can also do this with the barbell. While standing, slightly bend over, elbows back, and curl. For arm size don't forget the triceps. Those are most of your arm. Kick backs, rope tricep pull down, and skull crushers. You want to do more reps and more sets with as heavy as you…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:32 PM
1

You know who uses a cane and has tons of women? A pimp. Channel that mindset.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:24 PM
7

You didn't fuck her when she was in your bed. Rookie mistake. The bed is for fucking.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:21 PM
1

You're not assertive enough. And when you are you don't follow through.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:19 PM
-1

When she starts to bring it up, interrupt her and stop her right away. Tell her you don't care and you don't want to hear about it. Be very assertive about it. If she continues to talk about it tell her "look I get it, dude like you. If you keep talking about this shit I'm going to tell you to leave". Then if she does it, flat out tell her to leave. You're the man. You put your foot down. If she can't handle that and leaves, then so be it. Find another one.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:18 PM
1

It really depends on you. Overall it doesn't matter. Most women will have had some experience by the age of 16. For me it was the fact that I didn't have that experience and I felt like I was missing something. So after getting that experience I felt better about myself. If you like this girl then don't let it bother you. You'll lose frame of you let it get to you. It did for me with my first girlfriend. I felt inadequate and it showed.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:44 PM
0

This is how I learned and every girl I've been with is super appreciative. They usually say, afterwards, you're really good at that, I've never had a guy be able to do that, or that's the reason I agreed to the second date.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:54 PM
1

I give up when I'm explaining AWALT and the guy throws anecdotal evidence at me. I usually say "Ya know, you're right" and I change the subject. He's not ready to be unplugged.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:52 PM
1

This is very interesting.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:47 PM
1

If she's looking at you, smiles, shyly looks away or touches her hair multiple times, she's hitting on you. The more brave ones will find anything to talk to you about. A woman's way of flirting is putting herself in your space.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:41 PM
1

It affects you because you're jealous. Now it's not jealousy of that guy, but that she had sex before you. You feel inadequate. I used to think that too. I went out and got with multiple women and now it doesn't phase me, because it doesn't matter. I'm on par with most women now as in my N count. Not all women though. I'm not tripped digits but a decent amount.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:39 PM
4

Late in life at 26? I didn't find TRP until 28. How did I get laid before that? Dumb luck at a party while drunk.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:32 PM
1

Yeah, general rule of thumb do not talk about co-workers unless it's overtly positive and it should never be about someone's appearance.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:29 PM
0

As long as she thinks you're the coolest, because once she starts getting it in her head that she's better, she'll leave. Your response should be to keep your frame.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:27 PM
2

If someone is giving me shit for improving myself this is what they are going to get, because obviously they don't value self improvement. No buddy of mine is going to make fun of me for success.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:10 AM
2

All of this. Discipline is a muscle that needs to be exercised.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:25 PM
3

Some people hit rock bottom, some go for something and realize they can't obtain it unless they change, and some find a mentor that shows them they could be better.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:24 PM
14

So she was correct. lol who cares? Other women out there man. Why do people on here focus on one woman? Would it have been a douche move? Sure, lying is always a douche move. It's up to you to determine how you feel about doing that though.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:19 PM
1

Dude you're fine. The G-spot is only a few inches in. If you can make her cum with a finger, a 5" penis will surely do it too. Learn to wield your sword and you'll rock her world.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:53 PM
2

Yeah, it quickly fades when you get more experience. You're chasing after security. You're afraid of rejection. Go date for a while and as you gain more experience and your SMV increases, you'll change your mind. I guarantee it.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:51 PM
12

It doesn't matter. Get better at making fun of them. My favorite retort: "I just don't want to end up like you"
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:40 PM
1

lol you fucked up. The most I spend on a plate is a nice dinner. I wouldn't even loan a friend 4k. I'd rather him work for me and make the 4k. Stop giving money to people. This is what happens when you don't work for your money.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:00 PM
2

So you fuck'em and they don't contact you anymore? You sure you're any good? Here's how it goes down. You have sex. They leave. You send them a text that says had a great time blah blah blah. They say yeah I did too. You say we should do it again. They say I'd like that blah blah blah. Wait a couple days what ever. Send something funny to reinitiate. Get them talking. A value giving text. Then you set the next date that's within +-3 days. If no response, then whatever, who cares, you cue up the …
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:47 AM
1

Oneitis ALERT!!! Dude, what the fuck. Sort your sorry ass out. Go find a purpose that isn't a fucking woman. Reread what you wrote. You sound pathetic. She either values you and your time or she's gone. That's how you get her in your frame.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:39 AM
2

Sounds to me you need social skills. Start by going out and do things. Find events and groups and just talk to people. I always recommend sales jobs for young men. It's the best way to learn to talk to people and since dating is like sales it works out.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:29 AM
2

It's not hard. Go do things that don't involve alcohol. There is a massive list of things you could do. Just get creative. If you suck at social interactions without alcohol, I'd suggest doing more social things and talk to people for practice. Go to meetups.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:26 AM
1

Who the fuck cares? It's harmless and 70-80% of people have them.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:24 AM
4

Flakes annoy the shit out of me. It's disrespectful of my time. So I next a girl that does it. Her flaking shows her inability to organize. Not a quality you'd want, even in a friend. I'd next her or do no contact and wait for her to come to you. Talk to other girls in the mean time. Edit: my approach is harsh because I have a lot of options that won't waste my time.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:18 AM
1

I used to have that problem. I stopped watching porn and masterbation. It helped. The only way I get off is if a woman gets me off. If you're working out, eating right, and not masterbating, then your sex drive skyrockets. Be careful though. You'll be so horny some days you'll have sex with just about any girl.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:12 AM
14

I didn't start dating until 27 and I didn't get laid until 28. Trust me, it's not too late.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:06 AM
3

That's because it's easier and the human mind likes things that are easier. The problem is that it's not better. It's like eating a shitty microwave meal vs a $60 steak. Put in the work so you can buy the steak and you'll never eat a microwave meal ever again.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:04 AM
1

You become numb to it. Every breakup is a wound. As it heals you build scar tissue that makes it easier every time. After about 3 or 4 breakups it starts to feel like nothing. You just go about your day and talk to other women.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:51 AM
8

Ask her to meet up. She texts you because she's thinking of you and wants to see you.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:13 AM
20

Dude it's the extra experience. Imagine if 18 year old you had your mind.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:32 AM
3

Experience
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:31 AM
1

Be professional. Not your problem that the company management is also incompetent.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:21 AM
1

Ignore the double text. No one cares it happens. First of all stop being so wishy washy. "I'd like to invite you out for a drink"? Yeah, a lot of us would like to do a lot of things. You instead say let's grab a drink tomorrow night. Then when she says she's going out of town for the weekend you say "All good, we'll leave it for another time"? No, you say: when will you be back? She says Sunday, you say: Drinks Tuesday 7pm [place]? She'll either say sure or suggest another time. If she says anyt…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:58 PM
1

If she's initiating physical contact in person and she agrees to go out on dates then there's nothing to worry about. You may want her to text you but that's sometimes a pain in the ass. Just don't get oneitis, keep your frame and she'll warm up to you. It's only the third date. If it's still like this in a month then just slowly drift from her.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:44 PM
1

You're doing it for the wrong reasons. Improvement should be for yourself not for the approval of others. Chasing after approval will burn you out. You must do the things that matter to you and not give a shit what others think about it.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:26 PM
2

If it's during sex then it doesn't mean much other than you're rocking her world in that moment. I've accidentally said it during sex once. You get caught up in the moment.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:27 AM
4

Don't be fucking daft. Did I say buy the Apple Storage? You're a fucking retard. GTFO.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:51 PM
3

That's what I'm saying men allow it. It's our duty as red pill men to put our foot down. I don't disagree with you at all. I'm pointing out that we are lucky to be men, because we don't get what we ask for. Nothing worse than wanting for nothing and being treated like a child; to have that doubt in your mind if you deserve what has been given to you. I pity women, because most of them will never reach the enlightenment we can and have achieved.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:14 PM
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It's the move away from traditions that cause it. Religion is good at keeping society in check. It's easy for the low IQ population to follow. As soon as a society moves away from it they default to human nature and society crumbles. Another stronger society takes over an in this case Islam will rule Europe in about a hundred years. Luckily we're men and shouldn't have a problem with it. I'm not a religious man, but I see it's importance in structuring society. It can be any religion Christian, …
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:03 PM
1

Hopefully, but I see Poland falling to it in 20 years. There's talk of legalizing abortions, women are becoming promiscuous, and relationships are declining. The others will fall after.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:41 PM
3

Think of what that does to a person's character. All of that happens and we wonder why women are so shit these days. How much fulfillment could you achieve in life if that were to happen to you? It may seem good from your perspective, but live it and you'd be in hell.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:39 PM
0

Don't get stuck in monk mode. It should only be done for short periods of time. I think you're ready to start dating again.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:14 PM
1

Run. I've dated a depressed girl and it's not fun.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:12 PM
1

I do this. When I'm with a girl I'll think to myself, well I have her, could I get someone hotter?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:11 PM
1

That's good. She'll try to find ways to make you less desirable. Which in turn will make her less attracted to you. Resist those efforts and maintain frame.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:09 PM
5

Yes and I'd have it no other way. Imagine having all these women approaching you asking you out all the time. At first you'd think it was awesome but you'd have to turn away a lot of women you don't like. Guys have the upper hand we can go to a place and not be bothered. We only approach the women we fancy. We subconsciously reject a lot of women we see. Women have to reject guys verbally. How exhausting.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:06 PM
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Have you meet a typical guy from Sweden? They are oozing a blue pill mentality. It's no wonder their country is the rape capital of Europe. It's no wonder their country is over run by migrants. There are no men left in Sweden. Feminism is a shit test on a macro scale and the men of Sweden failed. Most of the West is failing.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:01 PM
23

The red pill is a tool for spotting the red flags. In the beginning you're learning so it's hard to spot them. When you start to feel comfortable with who you are and what you want, then it becomes easier to spot the red flags. Divorce rates, hypergamy, briffaults law, and false rape can be avoided when you know what to look for. Most women won't pull this shit on you if you know what to look for. Continue to improve yourself. Read The Tactical Guide to Women. Read The Rational Male. Learn the s…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:56 PM
15

Na, I find it's easier because I can now see why they act in certain ways. I keep women around that are friends because it's a networking game. Just like employment or business opportunities it's good to know people who know people. Women know other women. If you're an alpha male she'll talk about you to her friends (pre-selection). It works wonders.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:49 PM
2

Not just women. Other men lose respect for you too. Life as a man is about overcoming difficulties. Respect is given to a man that fails and keeps on going.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:45 PM
8

Ah yes, I've had that before. This one girl I broke up with started snapping me. I said a couple of friends and I are going to the casino, you should join. She agreed, I picked her up. Afterwards I asked if she'd like to come over she said yes. We went to my place, started to watch a movie and we cuddled. I started to escalate and make out with her and she stopped me. It's like if you didn't want to do this then why'd you agree to come over? She could have said no and I would have brought her ho…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:37 PM
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I'd agree with this assessment. You should have bought pizza and turned on Netflix. Cuddled and sexed. She could then tell her friends, if asked where she was, that she went over to a friend's and had pizza and watched a movie. It's a BS cover story but could be legit. Makes her look like less of a slut. Next time OP.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:11 PM
3

You ever watch it's Always Sunny in Philadelphia? You know the character Mac? He's always getting laid. Well that's because he has no standards. He'll sleep with women of all types, big one, little ones, old ones, young ones, even ones that used to be guys. So really it depends on your standards. A lot of guys here who boast about getting laid alot are like Mac. They have no standards. The other type of guy that gets laid a lot are good looking guys with tight game. They spend more time, approac…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:04 PM
2

I get about a date a week. Here are my tips for online: Pictures: These are your bio. Most women don't read the bio so you have to show it in your pics. List out all the things you like to do. Your hobbies, what you do on a normal day, where you vacation etc. Next get pictures of yourself doing those things. These should be good quality photos. Get a friend that has a nice camera or one of those new phones with portrait mode. Get some pictures, candid pictures etc. Bring them into an editing pro…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:40 AM
1

First don't ask them a question like "are you going home or coming over". You guide them to your house. Second you go for the kiss not a hug at the end. From everything here you next her. You messed up and she seemed more interested in going home instead of coming over. Don't contact her anymore. But! If she reaches out to you, invite her over. She knows you're interested and you made your offer. Otherwise if she doesn't reach out you move on.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:11 AM
1

Does it matter? Some do and some don't. TRP does exaggerate it. Trp is filled with players that find these types of women or guys that get played by these types of women. Are girls you meet going to be a virgin? Not really. Most girls have had sex by college. The hotter the woman the more likely she's slept around. More opportunities. Just like the hotter the guy the more he's slept around. It shouldn't really bother you. The more partners you have the less it will matter. You'll also find out g…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:05 AM
3

Shit test. If she liked dad bods she wouldn't be with you. If you get a dad bod to please her she'll leave. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:00 AM
1

Spinning plates is a tool to keep an abundance mindset. If you're able to hold that when dating one girl then you don't need to spin plates. The problem that a lot of guys have is they catch oneitis and overlook the red flags they would have seen if they were seeing multiple women. Spinning plates isn't necessary. It's also not wrong to seek and LTR. The end goal of most of us is an LTR. Just recognize the red flags and stay in your frame.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:53 AM
1

Get a planer. I recommend Grant Cardone's 10x planer. I've tripled my income by using this planer. This is what you do. You come up with goals you want to accomplish. Then you break them down into small targets that you want to hit each day to accomplish those goals. You break it down even further to the hours of your day. Stick to the schedule and you will be amazed at how much you can accomplish that day. It's crazy. It takes out all thought on what you should be doing right now. You repeat th…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 01:15 AM
6

I agree. For me it was hard not to become bitter. I took some good time off. Full monk mode. Being here helped because it was people I could talk to about frustrations I had. You can't talk about trp to your normie friends. I did once at a party and people straight up wanted to fight me. I'm back into dating again, with much more success. It's not as fun as it used to be imo. Pre-trp I thought, like you, women could be on the same team. I thought finally someone I can share my feelings with, but…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 09:02 PM
10

The Boomhour approach.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 03:18 PM
1

I agree. Tinder game you know she's interested. In terms of sales she's like the customer that's interested in knowing more about the product.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 05:14 AM
2

Like the scene in good fellas when they go the back way in the club.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 05:11 AM
1

You only have 12 followers on your photography insta?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 05:05 AM
1

Do a photoshoot. You can do it yourself with your phone. Wipe down your face and stage some pictures. Thats what I do. Make it look like it isn't staged but that way you can really improve your photo game. It helps if you have a friend. Put those photos into an editing software and make 'em pop. Try to get photos that make people really want to join in. Start with your hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 07:07 PM
1

Aesthetics always win in everything. It doesn't matter if you were skinny or fat. If you build to aesthetics you'll always do great.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 06:04 PM
1

AWALT she's fucking other dudes. That's a given. You don't need her to tell you that. LTR is never in my mind. She'd have to be a unicorn for me to consider that. Which we all know they don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 10:22 PM
2

Yeah I wouldn't tell people where I worked. That's awesome. Use it while you can.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 05:58 PM
7

Oh man, never answer the are you seeing anyone question. Don't even entertain her taking about other guys she's fucking. You stop her right as she says "so this other guy" You say you don't want to hear about it and what she does with other men is between them and her. When she asks if you're seeing other women you say "are you saying you want to be exclusive?" If she answers yes then you're open to make demands. If she says no then you change the subject. Never answer her shit test directly. Do…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 04:54 PM
3

Very good story. I don't know how you find the time to fit in all these girls. I recently had to go back to monk mode to get my business of the ground. Working 15 hour days. I find theres an added thrill when there's another person there and you're both trying to hide it from that person. It really gets the girl going. It's obvious to the other person but the fantasy of you pulling it off is hot.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 04:44 PM
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As long as hypergamy is unchecked this will get worse and worse. It's a macro level shit test that ends in war. It's not perpetrated by a single person or group of people. It's human nature. It's quite literally Sodom and Gamorrah. When a society that is not intelligent enough turns away from their Gods and tradition this is the result. There's a reason humans developed religion. It was a way to express complicated human behavior to low IQ people for the purpose of avoiding societal collapse.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 04:48 AM
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Once you start seeing the code you can't unsee it. I like to sit back and observe people and laugh. My buddies GF used to ask me to hangout all the time. And I did because she had hot friends. She once asked if I'd tell my buddy if her and I ever fucked. I told her that I'd never fuck her. She stopped asking me to hangout after that. I believe she was trying to swing. I make triple what my buddy makes, I'm slightly better looking, and much more assertive.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 04:22 AM
12

That last part sounds like my early relationships.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 04:10 AM
1

It doesn't give you superpowers, but it does force you to talk to women. If you're not being sexually satisfied by yourself you'll look for others to help you out. It also makes you feel better. It gives you the sense of accomplishment because you don't have the guilt of just beating off. Not sure if this is true but I heard it increases testosterone too. Your body notices you're not having sex so it gives you a boost to go do it. I've also found sex to be more enjoyable when on nofap. If you're…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 02:36 AM
5

She thought she'd get some exotic European chad. She thought she could do better, tried it, and realized she can't. She settled for you.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 10:11 PM
2

There are huge differences in each city from Vegas, Chicago, New York, Minneapolis. Bigger the city the hotter the women and the hotter the men. I find Minneapolis and Chicago to be good for middle of the road. A lot of easy HB7s and your competition is low. New York and Vegas you get a lot of HB9s and it's much harder to get their attention. The more liberal the city the harder it gets too. New York is thinking about putting forth a law that will criminalize men for approaching women. It's easi…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 04:44 PM
2

I'll have a glass of bourbon or whiskey.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 11:19 PM
3

Live in a big city like Chicago, New York, LA, or Minneapolis and you can find bars that aren't restaurants.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 06:20 PM
27

I actually feel bad for women that sleep around. In my eyes they are the equivalent to the beta that always gets friend zoned. Men want sex, women want relationships. The friendzoned beta freely gives out relationships hoping for sex and the slut freely gives out sex hoping for a relationship. All the women I've met with high counts didn't want to sleep around they'd be much happier with one alpha guy that commits, but she constantly rides that cock carousel, chasing for that alpha that commits.…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 05:51 PM
50

I go out alone all the time. My friend's thought it was weird at first. My favorite is to find dive bars in the city and talk to the regulars. I've not only met women but business partners too.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 05:42 PM
6

Jesus! You should have banged her on night one. Eh, hopefully you learned from this. We've all been there. Note don't do anything for her without reciprocation. You drive her home multiple times, you tried to fix her laptop etc. Cut that shit out.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 07:38 PM
1

You still have to approach, but you don't have to be high energy. I've approached women, took their hand, started dancing, and then made out with them all without saying a word. It's all about how you hold yourself. You don't really have to be good looking. I've seen less than steller men do it. I'm fortunately good looking but it's mostly my body that does it. I used to be 100lbs overweight and get nothing. Now I have the v-taper and wear fitted clothes that show it off.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 04:15 PM
1

A good massage, a cigar, a glass of bourbon, and a warm night. Bliss
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:36 AM
3

Congrats! But honestly it's not that hard on tinder. If you're fit, have good pictures, and any game whatsoever, you can be banging 3 or 4 a month. You can even get girls to come straight to your place for a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:34 AM
14

I refer to it as the James Bond type. You're seductive and mysterious. You hold frame, you're calm and collected. You're approaches are smoother and you're a contrast to the high energy guys all around you.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:20 AM
6

If you're average, don't expect anything close to average results. I like this post. It puts emphasis on excellence. The reason the climber is so good with women is because of the confidence he is imbued with. Knowing you're really good at something makes you feel very confident in all aspects of your life. His hobby is his mental point of origin; his passion. I was reminded of something similar that I realized a while ago. A woman that is interested in you will try to emulate you and take inter…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 10:10 PM
4

It's a lesson for next time. When she touched you that was an obvious invite for you to touch her. Try it next time. Every interaction is an opportunity to improve. You'll get there and don't beat yourself up about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:47 PM
1

This is why it is important for a society to keep hypergamy in check if it is to survive. Unchecked hypergamy, in my opinion, will always result in war.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:39 PM
3

The ironic thing is that women still love men that take authority. That's why, to me, feminism is a shit test. A man can still take athority today. It's much harder and it's not defaulted to him, but he can still take it. He will suffer the wrath of society in doing so, but a man that can take authority despite massive blow back shows that he is indeed the ultimate alpha. With a society that is technologically advancing every day, making it easier and easier to do things, is also making it harde…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:34 PM
6

It's survival instinct. We're a tribal species and we depend on each other for that survival. We constantly test our friends, coworkers, family etc. It's the reason ostracism is viewed with the same fear as death.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:14 PM
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Shit tests are like school yard bullying. These are primal tests to see how you'd react when shit hits the fan. She starts mentioning a past lover and how big and strong he is. She's subconsciously trying to figure out if you'll be intimated by him if he were to ever come by. Your unflinching behavior gave her comfort that you'll be able to hold your own if he were to hypothetically came back into her life. Kids do this same thing. They find the weakest link in the school yard and try to push th…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 09:04 PM
34

Dude, if you're not fucking her, you're just a friend like she said. She wanted a girl friend's shoulder to cry on and you are that girl friend.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:57 PM
1

Same. I came here after I met a woman that I realized I wasn't ready for. I was mega bluepilled. Now years later I could score much better women. TRP helped me. I lost weight and take more action.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:48 PM
5

They do have a child. A blonde child and they're both brunette. Could be nothing. Could be....
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 03:36 PM
36

I'm catching oneties The cure for this is to find other girls to fuck
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 03:03 PM
88

Oh man, my stomach sinks for that guy. I recently went to a wedding and one of the groomsman is exactly like the soyboy in this story. His wife was hanging all over this other guy, who wasn't very alpha, but more so than soyboy. She was dancing with him, hanging on him, and even stole his tie. The soyboy husband just stood there and said things like "oh that's funny, you have his tie! how silly" You could tell he was upset, but too pussy to do anything about it. Later we go to an after party, so…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 03:01 PM
40

Is she fucking you? Because if not then she's not really into you.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 02:48 PM
10

lol HB4 got upset that you are a Trump supporter and left you. If she was really into you she wouldn't have cared. These leads me to believe you're not very good looking yourself, because she thought that there are better options out there. But I could be wrong. These fuglies are pretty entitled these days.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 02:35 PM
2

It is always important to take a break and focus on yourself. Monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 07:25 PM
33

Opportunity is endless, women are everywhere. It is not finite. In your life you'll come across thousands of girls like this one. From the story it seems as if you put this girl on a pedestal and you still are, even after death. Sure her murder was unfortunate, but if you are anything like how you come off in this post, that girl would never have ever agreed to fuck you. If her father was indeed connected with mob bosses to the point of having a hit on him, he's the top of masculinity. She had t…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 03:20 PM
1

The feminist movement doesn't exist without men. When the shit hits the fan all of it will go away.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 06:30 PM
3

I think you can still get herps from oral. Be careful and get tested.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 09:32 PM
1

In all honesty, and many men here disagree, but it's basically men's fault. As a society, men, we lost frame. We catered to the female demand. We allowed women to strip our authority but we kept the responsibility. How do we get it back? We do it through the war of ideas. Use memes to subtly introduce the red pill to the blue pill men. Create works of art, books, movies, TV, etc with strong male role models. We need to start a propaganda campaign to win the war. It has already begun with conserv…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 02:34 PM
1

I freak out because she recently relapsed and I'm hoping she's not dead. Major red flag. Stay away. This could have even been a good friendship You don't want her as a friend you want to fuck her. Go find another woman. This one is not worth it. The fact you made this post means you really like her. Stop this. There are billions of better women out there. She's using you for attention and she has no interest in you sexually. You're a beta orbiter to her. If she wanted you she would have already …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 02:05 PM
1

That's why I say the only effort he should be putting into this is walking to the front door to let her in. There is no relationship beyond FWB.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 09:07 PM
82

Downside of hiring a woman: Walking lawsuit Less work output More vacation time used Leaves when she has a child Can't take a joke Won't stay late Benefits of hiring a woman: Great organizational skills; love the color tabs on this report Sometimes good to look at Office treats; cookies, brownies, etc Birthday and get well cards
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 02:27 PM
4

You reap what you sow. No sympathy here.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 02:21 PM
4

18 is too late. Back in high school those above HB6 were already sucking dick and taking it in the ass of any hot alpha chad. Sure it was limited selection for them, but as soon as they hit 18 the selection sky rockets.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 05:14 PM
1

That's hilarious. I know a few girls like that. It's almost textbook. We could literally write a text book on female behavior. Everything makes sense once you figure this out. TRP is like the cheat codes to women.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 05:10 PM
5

Very nice. Most of this I learned the hard way, through experience. All good knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 05:04 PM
1

I really didn't want the girl to be here and just wanted to do my work and collect my money and go home. Always follow your gut. Never do something for a woman that you don't feel like doing. If she has a problem with it, then it's her problem not yours.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 01:55 PM
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Here's what you do. Next time she calls tell her to come over. You fuck the shit out of her like you never have before. Be a man and lead the interaction. Then don't ever message her. Let her message you first and every time she does invite her over to fuck her brains out again. Never go past this. She needs to earn your love. In the mean time focus on yourself and do what you want to do. No more of that bullshit of writing cards or donating another min of your time for her. Also see other women…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 11:20 PM
3

Looking back on it, I’m embarrassed, and rightly so, for being what I was. I know the feeling. I was in a similar situation, dated 3 months no sex, I was super blue pill. I'm now in a position like you, I feel I can get any woman I want. My SMV is through the roof. I went to a party recently were my ex was there. I ignored her and I was short with her when she asked me questions. She told another friend of mine that I was obsessed with her and that I kept looking at her. I laughed and said, that…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 02:29 PM
1

Showing it discretely is the best way to do it. My profile doesn't say I like to travel, I show it off with my pics. I'm fit but I don't have a shirtless pic, I wear fitted clothes. I like to hike, rock climb, I run my own business, and I'm into photography. I show all that through my pictures. In my bio I say I'm laid back and chill, I'm looking for someone of the same. I get probably 20-30 matches a day.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 06:08 PM
5

Yep, it's something I stumbled upon a little while ago. I met a woman on a dating app and after being burned a couple times I didn't really put the same effort (blue pill) I normally would do. I replied to her when I felt like it and when we were together I'd be assertive and passed all her shit tests, because honestly I didn't care where that relationship went. She had the highest IOI I have ever experienced with a woman. I was actually shocked. Once I started noticing she was really into me, t…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 06:02 PM
3

Not only that, but monogamy also helps the offspring development when there are two parents; mother and father. As a whole, society needs monogamy to function properly. Higher IQ population results, albeit slowly over time.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 05:55 PM
3

Uh yeah. Who ever said that women don't care about looks that much was a beta chode. Women love aesthetically pleasing men just as much as men love a fit aesthetically pleasing woman. Get ripped and she'll be all over you. Go to a thunder down under show and you'll know what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 06:47 PM
40

Hahaha, what?!? No, she's not learning what's going on here, she's learning how to play you. You still have some blue pill. You never take a woman back. You can meet up and fuck her, but you don't do shit. If she want's to see you, the only effort you should put in is walking to your front door to let her in.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:31 PM
3

First of all she sounds like a bitch. Just be glad you're done with her now and you don't have kids with her. Otherwise you'd have to spend the rest of your life interacting with her... Makes me shudder. Even becoming aroused was painful for her. Barring an actual medical diagnosis, she's a lying piece of shit. If she's not having sex with you as much as you want, then you fucking straight up leave. Also some advice to you video game loving children here. If the woman loves to dress up in cospla…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:14 PM
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