This girl I’ve known since I was around 10 years was close to me for a few years but once I turned around 16 I stopped talking to her.Our families were close, and I was close to her brothers.

My smv was pretty low in high school but after high school I started lifting , improved my haircut and style which upped my smv. She saw coincidentally saw me on the street with a bunch of girls going to a party and has wanted to reconnect with me ever since.

She has tried to go after me a few times whenever she breaks up or goes on a break with her bf(same one since high school). I haven’t gone after her since our families are very close and I don’t want to deal with bs of parents getting involved in my business.

My mom is close to her and went on a vacation with the girl , her friends , and her mom along with my her mom/ my moms friends.

My moms calls me and says the girl was saying how she missed me and was crying about me for 10 mins, and wanted my mom to call me. I live away at school 3/4 out of the year.

This is the exact shit I didn’t want, kinda seems I made the right decision since my mom is involved in this shit( I think they were drunk ).

Is she being an attention whore? Or does she see me similar to her brothers? Should I tell my mom to fuck off and stop pushing this shit?