Upgraded a FWB that I'd been seeing for about 9 months who moved across country to an LTR. I know, LDRs are not real relationships and yes I was seeing other women during the time she was away. She has currently been living with me for almost 4 months now due to school being online. The original plan was her to stay a month but she has kept extending the stay, which is fine for me. She was supposed to leave at the end of February but decided to stay a few more weeks. Her reasons for wanting to go back is because she is going to have a lot of papers to work on and she misses living where her college is located. But she has also out right told me that living here hasn't affected her school work at all.

Anyways, A week before she flew out to live with me, she got an IUD, she was originally supposed to get the small dosage one but they didn't have it so she ended up getting the stronger dosage IUD. The first two weeks she was here, sex was fine, she'd get wet on the slightest touch and would ask for quickies before work. At the end of the first two weeks, we had a talk and she was insecure that I would just randomly up and leave her for another woman. I told her that I'm not the type of person to just up and leave randomly unless she did something to fuck it up. The next day she told me she loved me.

Literally since she told me she loved me, she has had a very hard time getting wet. I could eat her out, finger her, suck her boobs and make-out with her for 20 minutes and she'd still be mostly dry. Sometimes she'd definitely get a bit wet but nowhere what she used to. She eventually said she doesn't feel that tingle during sex or or even when she masturbates anymore. Our sex life is still regular and she hasn't denied me of sex but here is the kicker. Whenever she masturbates and I'm feeling her up, she gets soaked however, If I'm on top of her making out, feeling her up and she is rubbing herself, she doesn't get very wet at all.

She told me she had never had sex in a car before, so last night I fucked her in my car and guess what? She got pretty slippery down there. Had sex with her a few hours ago with plenty of foreplay and it was just barely wet enough to get in.

I still go out and hangout with friends, workout and do my own things. So I guess my questions are.

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  1. Is this an IUD issue?

  2. Is this an attraction issue?

  3. If she really valued the relationship, wouldn't she want to stay with me as long as possible, especially if living here isn't negatively affecting her?