I'm in an LTR of one and a half years. We have to be long distance for a couple of months which I'm not quite happy with but I'm busy anyway and she's good so i guess it's worth the wait.
What happened a month ago (before I'd swallowed the red pill) is that we have a big argument and she suddenly realises that she doesn't love me. She says she wants a break from the relationship as she is tired of arguments. I become needy and clingy crying and begging her to stay. I try the whole day to no avail but finally end up convincing her that her losing attraction is normal and it's just that the "honeymoon period is over". She doesn't show signs of attraction but is willing to stay in the relationship.
It so happened that we were to meet the next day. We meet, and I guess I unintentionally showed her alpha qualities since I was focused on being fun although I'm not sure. She kisses me like crazy for a long time (there weren't the right circumstances for sex but I'm sure she'd have gone for it as she looked like she was flooding down there and also, she initiated the kisses which she doesn't do often) and suddenly her attraction is back. Later she apologises to me and thanks me for saving the relationship and all. Things become as good as before after that.
Explanations? Had she forgotten the feelz I give her due to distance or what? Any other explanation? What the hell happened?