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You need to learn about efficient communication. You're just babbling insults at the moment
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 04:55 PM
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I think you've answered your own question. Distance, uncertainty, efforts, all amplify passion and desire. If you value your business stability over your couple then stick to being at home and focused. If you value your couple more than the business growth then create situations for you to be far and be desired. Present a lecture in another city for a few days ? This creates both social value and a thrill Mentor a new person ? To start spending time outside of the house Start a hobby that will g…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 08:49 AM
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Hey my smile is just not pretty, like my face turn into a wrinkled potato. I just go for the Russian stoic face, or the "hold a peanut in my left cheek" smile. It works for work and most social cases, but youre not wrong saying there is lost potential. but damn I hate to be caught with my awful smile
/r/TheRedPill23/11/23 06:21 AM
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The true answer is always in the comments
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 07:12 AM
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To my surprise, the suggestion made him angry. He later clarified that he does not want to share me. Aside the subject but congratulations on being very emotionally intelligent. Not everyone can see and understand other people like this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 03:34 PM
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Unfortunately on internet we say woman but we mostly mean " attractive enough woman that is overly conservative" I am only talking for my personal perspective, but having limited option or a strict code of ethics makes you less likely to feel like the field is greener elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 08:47 PM
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Some men want comfort, some man want someone from a specific culture/community/religion, some men want social status and some men want a potential good mom. When you meet a person face-to-face, you can tell if that person matches what you are looking for. /u/CaptainSaveBPD , what is it you are looking for personally ?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 10:51 AM
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The whole story about women not being honest is something that makes sense when you are a young man an you don't know how adults behave. With a bit of experience and maturity you become aware of the liar type, the genuine people, what interests drive them and what rules people work by.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 10:49 AM
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I agree that Gambler's fallacy doesn't apply here, it's not like suddenly in 2022, 100% of marriages will be successful. However since you are only one element in all the studies/statistics you can see about our population nowadays, you can be placed anywhere in those result. You might be the perfect living proof of the overall trend , or you can be the odd one out
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 10:45 AM
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Also - what is the problem of putting people in these 'boxes'? It can save you a harmful marriage. No harm, you can do pretty much anything you want in this world. The tricky decision is about HOW you choose, What code makes you decide. Some exRP decide to give a chance to people who go against the statistics because they had un-fulfilling experiences trying to follow the trends. Some exRP go this way because they aren't proud of the ethics that goes with treating people as a statistical element…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 10:02 AM
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Fair for you, that sounds like a rule you can choose to live by. To come back to the question in your original post "Why would it not matter" - The ExRP people have their own personal preference regarding body count, however they say that the body count "doesn't matter" in society. What they mean here, is that people's societal reputation, social status, is not defined by their body count (outside of RP circles). If you personally would not date this woman for her body count, someone else will a…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:48 AM
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Although I agree, I would add that living in a blue pilled life makes you completely loose sight of the odds you are up against. Both perspectives have some useful attributes
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:30 AM
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What most people mean here, is that you need both statistical evidence and anecdotal evidences. Statistics help you see how patterns are formed. But every statistics you heard of never apply to 100% of the surveyed cases, we use median/average values to represent a trend. Do some people fall exactly under the statistical prediction ? Yes. Do other people live in absolute marginality from these ideas ? Yes, but less of them. Does it mean you MUST be where the trend is ? No
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 09:28 AM
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Your problem is not vanilla/kinky sex, but it is about boring/passionate sex. When the routine settles, sex can become repetitive and - whilst it serves as a good chemical release - it is not enough to be fullfilling. Men will go for kinky stuff as it is a way to get thrills on their side. It is a way to create a fulfilling experience by going into an uncommon teritory. If you enjoy vanilla sex, then try to think how you can make it more passionate. How you can make it so all his mental indicato…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 08:56 AM
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Because, even if this biological theory is 100% correct , it is only needed to make a personal choice of partner. The problem comes when people are being childish/jealous/intolerant and start judging a woman or a man for their body count, in any other social context. Should a conservative man who ever had one only partner,which he married, feel like he is missing out ? Should a promiscuous man be told that he is "ruining" these women's body count, whilst all he does is consensual sex ? Should a …
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 07:41 AM
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Studies give you the probabilities, not unique anecdotal evidences. RP is all about working the numbers. "The Wall" exists, but not for 100% of adults. Divorces are frequent, but it is not a fate for every couple. Hypergamy is a real practice, but not for every single woman on earth. Etc... In all fairness, RP does a good job at stopping young men from living in a fairy tale, where they are "special but still destined to find love". It bring some pragmatism and cold hard facts into the man's log…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 07:30 AM
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She will shy away from a real relationship with the average guy because she cannot handle that yet because her mind isnt at a place where it has enough positive feedback This is absolute bullcrap. Go home
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 12:27 PM
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I should add that my mom had me at 37yo and I'm not "all defective" like most "make-babies-early" propaganda seems to say. I am grateful that my parents were mature and well-off when they I was born, I wouldn't want to be born 10 years earlier. Statistics say it is better to have kids early, but they reprent an average of millions of people. You are only one person and you should not bring a person into this world just because you were pressured to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 09:17 AM
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Imo some men are just not the kind of person who would find a woman, fall in love, and dedicate the rest of their life to building a home with happy kids running around. They can do it, but it goes along other priorities in their life. I wrote that he seems quite solid because I believe he is being honest with you and honest with himself about what he wants (being a triathlete, no kids yet, etc..). Sure, you would be so happy with a man who dedicates his life to your dear new family (do unicorns…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 09:05 AM
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Not like everyone thinks. I think he looks pretty solid
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 03:17 PM
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Sometimes I forget I'm on an American app ...
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:09 PM
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I am glad that reading this is useful to you. Here is a few thoughts that might be helpful too : A husband can appear to be "stuck" in a cycle, but in my experience that is not how it works. We mentally set some deadlines and threshold that, when reached, allow us to make defining decisions. Don't expect him to be an open book and to communicate every single rule that governs his mindset. He probably doesn't even know them, or they are stored in a part of his mind that isn't meant to be released…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/22 07:44 AM
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Going to your old self is like returning to an ex. It's a bad assumption based on a biased memory. Mature. Grow up. Be another man. There is only two thing to need for your next steps, someone to look up to, and a objective that you are emotionally attached to. without an example and an objective, you won't have the strength to do all these efforts.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 07:07 AM
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It's not a direct solution but only an advice : Avoid bringing the issue directly to him or suggesting you earn money whilst he looks for another job. A husband can be seriously affected by how his wife thinks of him. Coming home to a clean house, a massage a dinner is great but if the wife whispers in his ear that she had a new idea about his professional career, the whole evening is immediately ruined. Pressuring him into making a choice can be a bad idea too. Questions like : "What job would …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 03:05 PM
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I think by n-count, most people mean the sexual encounters as a post-pubescent adult. The rest doesn't count.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 08:45 PM
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I get the theory of this strategy if you're a paranoiac. But you've missed the point that unicorns don't exists, and that you are essentially trying to manufacture your own bluepill. At a specific moment, a unicorn might exist. But when you evolve through the years she will too. There is no "bro-test" or vaccine to avoid that. What might happen here is that you will convince yourself that she is trustworthy, then be hurt and hate yourself for it. Instead, you should learn to remain loyal to your…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/22 03:29 AM
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you seem misplaced. You don't get to decide what value is what, there aren't multiple values when it comes to SMV. I've seen people being very attractive because they are driven, they are passionate about something they do. It attracts people like a TV series makes you want to see the next episode Their life is a rollecoaster that people want to be part of. I've seen other people get very attractive because they have a status. They enjoy chatting up the whole crowd, know everyone in the city, ha…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 01:46 AM
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Can't you suggest working and paying for family support ? Richer couples do that usually. Event more in emerging countries where helping staff costs less
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 04:07 AM
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I disagree. The closest semi-truth that could be translated to your metaphor is : Treat them like your best buddy's little brother. Someone he/she can look up to.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 01:20 PM
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To me this mostly sounds like a long rant - I wouldn't find the author attractive in any way after listening to this, maybe this essay will be better suited In MGTOW or with the incels ? Get a grip, grind, get women, have fun, don't think too much about civilizations and humanity.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 09:30 PM
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I never understood it that way. For me the pill name came from the matrix reference. It is meant to invite the reader to question his points of vue
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 10:45 AM
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It's an interesting topic. I think my most toxic "crab" friends have already put some distance since we had too many cognitive dissonance after teenage years. There is still a group effect where childhood friend might not be on my side when a whole group is talking about my attitude. It's mostly gossip and some remarks on the tone of : "Don't get your sister near him or he'll shag her" - "Whatever one day he'll settle down like the rest of us" - "Have you seen him flirting with that girl the oth…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 03:15 PM
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At worst it took me a year to "get over" a bad breakup. But really even during this year I did do the effort to go on dates, meet non-romantic friends, and live. It's a question of inner principle for me. Living my life hanging onto someone feels humiliating, I'd rather change my entire life than endure this. I value my independence and I do not believe that my life c can only be lived with the help of someone else.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 10:25 AM
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How would one reconcile the need to connect and establish friendships versus the jealousy that you lifestyle might cause ? To me, there are different cases to answer this : Some friends we've know since we're born, alike the best family members. I value the fact that they've known me for my entire life, they've seen each of my attempts to succeed. They do not pretend to care, they do genuinely wish the best for you. Some other friends cam along the way in life and didn't "choose" to be around. S…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 10:19 AM
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Move on
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 01:09 AM
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Late answer - but in my experience the point is that the woman has her own life going on, and the person slowly steps into her life. It doesn't mean she should be dating other men during this time, although she can if that is her will. But more importantly she should have her shit together and "be willing to meet again at the end of the week" to spend more time together. I mention this because the type of women that I've seen online who have little to do in their day, and focus all their attenti…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 12:27 PM
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It would depend on how they met. If it was with the help of an app, or on a night out, then yeah you'd give it a few month to know each other. If it was via traditional methods, recommendation or a proper date , then 1 month is not quick.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 10:05 AM
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The sole fact that someone spends time compiling all this info scares me. I consider myself RP yet I never had to read a single post from his blog
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 01:40 PM
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"google it" is not a very welcoming answer on a community subreddit. Either you have an answer to give or else you don't really have to comment : )
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 10:37 AM
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Aside from all the RP dating tricks that you can read here - You have mentioned your depression and that you have recently been going better... for the last 2 months. 2 months isn't that much to "overcome" yourself. For example, most people getting into TRP take a few years to reach a minimum level of maturity. You can barely even learn a new skill or a language in two months. You have also mentioned taking medication, which hints me that you still rely on some external influence to fight your d…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:26 PM
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This, I believe is a better answer than what you can read on this thread
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:14 PM
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You won't save the western male just by hoping they improve. Being a low smv guy with blue-pilled tectivs isn't a failure it is a different strategy. Blue pill don't have to come out of their comfort zone, to lift, to game, once they wait out to CC they can pickup a below-average partner to live with. This life is not ideal in the eyes of people on this sub, but some people nowadays prefer to eat a shit sandwich than to stand up and make some good food. It's the color of modern society, it wasn'…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:09 PM
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You can restore an entire generation with 1 male and 50 females. However you can only have one kid with 1 female and 50 males. I disagree with a lot of answers here. Humans added a high social layer to our society and our sexual marketplace, which widely changes the game. Social rules oblige us to constantly rank ourselves, not for our performance but our for status. In a social society, you may be attractive for your wealth (even inherited) or your reputation (even fabricated). In an animal soc…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 10:04 PM
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Depends on the girl's type, but she will probably linger with satisfaction the moment you mention that you heard her
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:13 PM
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Don't listen to those who say emojis are "beta" or not masculine. That is not the problem and there is no word that a masculine man cannot write. The problem is to measure what you give. These emojis represent an emotion that is quite intense : Adoration and admiration. If you give these emotion during moments that are not carefully selected, you will dilute the value that come with this emotion. It's exactly the same pattern for saying "Thank you". If you never say it, you're a an asshole and n…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:19 PM
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Can you give more details about that guy ? Job type, lifestyle (house, car, holidays), hobbies, and what "drives" him ? Also how is him speech and voice ?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:24 PM
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Befriend them, and lead all the orbiters into doing things, give them a reason to follow you. It's as simple as organising a day out, or starting a game which you dictate the rules. It obviously only works if you are high SMV, but that's basic redpill. Go lift.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:44 PM
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Bullshit. You're talking about a niche of a niche which happens to be the one you live in, aka the millennial western online community. There are still girls who go to the library, girls who have zero Instagram pics and not even their face as a profile picture, you won't find these by browsing Reddit. You'd have to get up and go visit the world
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 04:16 PM
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Yes if exclusive
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:13 AM
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You wrote a story about man who thinks he is RP whilst he is only seeking romance. That is the problem with this sub recently, there are many new people trying to use RP tricks to satisfy their romantic needs The "Alpha Male" you describe has nothing to do with a RP. He is not living a dream life, he is not treating his women like the little bitches they wanna be, he is not controlling them, he is lying about his SMV If you were on the right track, you'd be a rich, built, dressed, charismatic mo…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 07:56 AM
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I though it was a code for being alpha widow
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 06:14 PM
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Try boys
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:53 AM
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Well here is a question : How to you flirt/escalate if your initial statement wasn't to take sex off the table ? I always go for a heavy sexual tension and doing this would kill it
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:12 PM
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People sometime let things happen. Don't overestimate your mother. Man is gone ? Let it happen New man comes ? Let it happen New man dies and son was attached to him ? Let it happen . It has happened to many many people in history, only we didn't have DNA tests. It's not fun, but that how it is. No reason for it to take you down.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:07 PM
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When you find a inpiring person, someone you look up to (and it would be very stupid for you to not see people to look up to) then you understand that authority has a reason to exist. Imagine that you are a grown ass man in a grown ass life. You have a son who looks up to you and he did something bad, wel you better make him taste what authority is so his lame ass don't do bad again. You need to find something that will drive you forward and be humble enough to understand when you've fucked up
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:02 PM
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/u/DrExtra It's not impossible to fin that girl. Just remember that you won't find her but you will build her. Choose a good, blank slate woman that you appreciate and turn her into the girl you want. Be ready to leave if it doesn't turn out good, learn, and try again.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:57 PM
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Go on the right sub and don't spend money based on internet stanger's advice.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:53 PM
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You're creating your own narrative in your head. It's possible to cut her out of your life, and you really should do it. The other options will ruin your life
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:51 PM
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Listen when you're being told wisdom you immature. Don't try to do over a BPD chick. Cut off.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:49 PM
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/u/Jahshua you can feel thankful that she isn't setting your house on fire or going nuts. Feelz can be hard to handle for women when leaving a HV man But that's it. Don't bite. She wants to make sure she has a place in your head and that the next girl won't take all the place. It's not intentional but it's manipulative. You will have to forget her and you will have to give yourself fully to the next girl you're into. Better be clear to everyone about this fact, and not pretend differently. Eithe…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:48 PM
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Up the game, don't forget to fail sometimes, it means you're learning
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:43 PM
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I'm not particularly minding her personality if my plan is to fuck her in the backdoor. I don't think it's taboo and I don't think many men find it taboo once they've experienced it. Now what is certain is that some women don't like it, don't accept it or don't understand it. That's fine for them, I won't neglect a girl because of that choice. Are you talking about a LTR ? Well in the pure RP lifestyle you'd definitely want a girl that is not into any of those things, and has a low body count. T…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:35 PM
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Passion ? You should not wait for something to bring passion to you, you should go for it. Brew your first pint of beer today, open a side brewery in a year. Go to a martial art course today, head for the tournament in a year Design some clothes that you'd like to see in the street, contract a sawing company in a year. And if you prefer a challenge to raise your motivation : Well I'm pretty sure that you don't have the balls to do anyone of those three things because you're stuck in your comfort…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:12 PM
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If I lift by 8kg dumbbells once every morning, can I roam around the internet telling other people to man up and go lift ?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:14 PM
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You might change your mind if you ever get a dog. A nice one. Not for sex, but something else that "feels" unconditional. Only some mother are capable of unconditional love, and their victims will seek this feeling for the rest of their lives.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 12:46 PM
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On your point about prostitution being a life hack Why would I pay for sex when I can easily get it any day of the week. I'm a handsome, masculine, rich and passionate adult. That makes me on the top 3% of men in my city, I never need to buy someone as long as I know how to sell myself. Say I start a competition with you, the first one to cycle to Mexico wins a prize. We get the same bikes, but you stop at a shop and buy a electric engine to go faster. You win the prize, but you didn't win the c…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 12:44 PM
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Step 1 : Don't aim for a relationship
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 12:28 PM
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In order to let him plan mentally and physically, It'd be good to hint what you have prepared and not keep everything a full surprise. He doesn't need to know the time, context of everything but it is best if he knows that he will chill all day until you come and get frisky with him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 12:36 PM
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Fucking hell what a whiny bitch you sound like She will fuck as many people as she wants to, you con't have control over that. You won't FIND a girl that is loyal to you and abstain from living her slut dream just so your bitchy ego is satisfied. You MAKE a girl into your loyal partner, one who would torture anyone just to please you. It takes the right kind of girl to start from, the right kind of personality on your side, and it takes time. I bet you are young and think you can get all this by…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 10:16 AM
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Wrong sub bro
/r/askTRP15/08/20 07:08 PM
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How old are you don't pay attention to that
/r/askTRP15/08/20 03:26 PM
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Funnily once you're over her you won't think of it at all
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:42 AM
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Your personal recommendations for books ? Not looking for "How to lift" books but interesting ones
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:41 AM
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Bitches ain't no freedom if she's in my bed
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:40 AM
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How heavy are you lifting ?
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:39 AM
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On a more serious note, Wake up at 9am - No early bird for me Clear my inbox while eating a light breakfast - 1 fruit, few nuts, plenty of water Once physically awake, get a few stretches, traction, push ups. Whatever I feel like on that day. Keep working until noon Put on sport clothes and go out for a run - stomach empty or pre-workout shake Use the public space for training on my run - there is a circuit with metal bars, abs and such - Get as sweaty as I can. Continue to run towards a spot on…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:45 PM
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Are you fearing the consequence ? Just think of the current day as a one of those bad days. One of those days where you're just waiting for someone to ask you something so you can offload some of your anger on them. From this perspective saying "No" is actually better than shouting at them, so you're not even being a dick. When someone asks you out, or asks for a favour, they serve their own interest. You serve yours. Don't apologise for saying no, nor precede with a long "eeeehhmmmm No". Don't …
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:27 PM
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Entirely valid. As others said here this dynamic isn't new to TRP but it is important to word it like you did. BB follow the terms / AF makes his own. any time you are "working on the relationship" you have officially FUCKED UP Yes that is a blinking exit sign. Attraction isn't negotiable, it is an animal instinct that no beautiful word can steer. BUT YOU DON'T "FIND" THAT GIRL. YOU CREATE HER. /u/itiswr1tten could you elaborate if you have some spare time ? What do you see as the range of actio…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 10:11 AM
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Thanks for posting what I was about to write
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 03:43 PM
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You meant to post that on /r/exredpill
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 03:41 PM
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I like it when you can spot autists from far away.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:21 AM
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thanks
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:18 AM
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Which is why asktrp is necessary evil
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:17 AM
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How many other men does she text while you are trying to find the perfect comeback ?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:16 AM
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I bet your friends love all sorts of pranks on them
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:15 AM
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it was super fast and we started to makeout on dance floor, I was so cought up in a moment and went for a long makeout, then we stopped and she went to search for her friend that have been missing She was thisty for feelz. She grinded you to create some attraction, got you to kiss her. At that point she had what she wanted and will bring the trophy back to her friends, then move on to another man. You could have had a different outcome if you had a higher SMV, or if you were surprisingly good at…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 04:30 PM
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Don't forget the tinfoil hat, and remember to remind all your first dates to clear their online history too
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 09:23 AM
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In retrospect of the discussion on this thread, I might start to insult the bad comments for the sake of keeping the sidebar respected : )
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:06 PM
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I came here and got insulted a few years ago, I wouldn't say that I "needed this" but it wasn't undeserved either. I don't particularly feel the need to insult every person here, as I don't consider this space to to be a sect when we have to break each new recruit. I took there what I wanted to take : I got richer, stronger, more charismatic and I fuck more. I didn't give up my soul and turn into a full chad, but I gave up the pursuit of an LTR and the dream of a married life. I suppose that mak…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:20 AM
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Winner
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:41 PM
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Don't wonder too much, focus on your own aims
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:41 PM
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Montréal is the cheapest big city in N.A. and is diverse enough for you to pick your taste. The main challenge is to gain trust and form a group of friends, once it's done you'll keep meeting new people. But compare to New York it's much much easier. Just watch some sports in bar and chat with the guys, But if you have to stay in US ... Dunno maybe portland ? I'm not a big fan of the east coast.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:43 AM
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Move out, not worth it. But be ready to move back in
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:58 PM
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Great of you to take some criticism, and sorry for the load of downvotes. When in doubt, whip it out. I'll use that as a joke in the future, it will have much success I'm sure
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 10:53 PM
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Your examples in the LOOP LOOP LOOP section are quite cringy, I wouldn't use these ever. Do you like my vibe ? Why should I continue hanging out with you right now? Look, we're not going to do anything you don't want to do tonight, okay? Any girl that isn't coming fresh out of the mould will run away from this. Just put yourself in her position : you got dragged in some from of intimacy with a guy you don't know, you're considering going home, and that dude it telling you "I promise I won't bloc…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 08:05 AM
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it's just the one you gotta learn first. Most extensive, most welcoming, most forgiving
/r/askTRP16/04/20 09:06 PM
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I'd get you focus into living elsewhere, in a community you actually like
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:41 PM
2

It's a little early for how extreme your thinking process currently is. Your philosophy, your mood and your sense of attraction will greatly change over the next 5 years. You should see your current sexual maturity as a toddler trying his first food : some things are overly interesting, some things are way too strong, everything is "new" and "exiting". As you will mature, dating & fucking will become as ordinary as having a meal in the day. But don't pretend you've reached that point yet, it wou…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:32 AM
2

Go. Talk. To. A. Doctor. Don't stay alone in this.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:06 PM
8

moisturise & SPF
/r/askTRP14/02/20 12:27 PM
1

Your past is what you make of it. It's a real psychological trait. You can focus on ANY detail of your past and make it the important one. I am not the only one here to observe how people who are ambitious and interesting are people who always have interesting stories about their past and fond memories. Whether it's video games, pets, family, watching interesting movies, drawing, or ANYTHING else ... What matter it the way you do the storytelling. It's as important as the way a comedian delivers…
/r/askTRP13/02/20 03:51 PM
1

Most those places are overcrowded and superficial, anyways. I understand why you say that, I've been in a similar position. But I can't stress enough how much you need to be open-minded about these sort of fake convictions if you want to succeed in improving your life. Some of those thoughts are just here to make you feel okay about your current situation and they are a big obstacle towards getting any better. Filtering your opinions is your own responsibility and can't be done by someone else u…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 02:10 PM
4

Here is a controversial opinion : I wish there wasn't any of these 3rd person "storytelling" posts trying to make a point by impressing you with metaphors. The finest example of this is the book of Pook. I love the content of the book, but FFS that semi-religious tone is cringy and posts written like this makes the sub sound like a sect for retarded. These essays are all making a point by describing example situations that only apply if a) you live in a big city is US and b) your parents named y…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 09:26 PM
11

And I am very grateful for the efforts. Thanks cops !
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:31 PM
10

Yes, I would appreciate if these points were enforced by moderators to filter through new posts
/r/askTRP04/02/20 03:58 PM
1

Noe of this applies to us common people, OP this is merely celeb gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:52 PM
3

Ask yourself what is the issue with cheating : Trust, and partnership. Now that you know your LTR is falling apart, nothing holds you from going the trip. Whether you look after her of just enjoy the trip on your own. You have to judge if you are strong enough mentally to stay indifferent toward her. If you don't think you can handle it, then down go on the trip and dump her. Also, learn you lesson and don't get with these kind of girls
/r/askTRP03/02/20 04:42 PM
1

Stick to your own guns and keep your promise to your wife. Besides that, nothing hold you from being a little flirty in your day, you'll soon feel people's desire towards you, and if your not too stupid you'll stop there and call it a day.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:54 PM
100

Long live our new king
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:18 AM
7

Take a job as bartender in a cool place. Part time if you prefer
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:31 PM
2

You're certainly better off without such a child in your life. But your should ask yourself how did you come to LTR this kind of person in the first place . Time for taking care of yourself. Yeah it sucks to end a relationship. Only time heals it, so don't swallow all your emotions and carry on.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:09 PM
1

My traveller's advice : Learn the language. As much effort as you put in the gym, even more, but learn it and speak fluently. You're missing out
/r/askTRP11/01/20 04:41 PM
2

What he said, OP. You can GTFO and enjoy life, you will have time to get kids in 10-20 years
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:16 PM
2

You're the man. You want to go on a place ? Invite her to come along. You want to share a good joke ? Send her. You want to tell her "Good morning", do it. Think of it like good Tweets : You are not sharing your useless emotions while doing nothing on a sunday. You should be snapping a little moment of your life while living it. What sucks it to text a man who has clearly nothing better to do.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/20 02:20 PM
1

I find it very significant that you speak out about it already. Many men would sink it inside and that often causes a severe depression. People are the maestro of their own orchestra. If they think it's time to finish, or if they don't think the rest of the song will be worth it, they will stop the music. It's no one else's choice but theirs. The lesson you are getting however, is a great lesson of humility and reality. It's easy to say that life can take you in all places, it's harder to get th…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:12 PM
7

Buy her flowers, answer her texts, watch her go screw the next freddy mercury in NYE and cry like a little baby. Rinse, repeat. To make this even less efficient you can write a new book about each of those adventures and ask what to do next. You did man up, it worked, now enjoy and don't get attached.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:05 PM
1

You'll always be someone's prey. You were hers, she won you over. It's not a horrible fact, actually you can enjoy the fact that your stone cold heart still feels something. Just keep in mind that giving up your current life for trying to go back with her is as stupid as diving into your bins to get some scraps of food. Let your emotions be what they are and act on what bring your life where you own yourself, not where you are owned.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:11 PM
3

Are your elves at least hb7 ?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:19 PM
2

It's a good step to realise that you are in this situation. You've done a great job a increasing the other aspects of you SMV and honestly, it's much harder to do this work while maintaining a social circle. Like anything worth having, a social circle isn't easy to get. You don't need an expensive watch or a big car to find friends. You need your education, your positive mind and your usual banter. Depending on how rich you are : Try Golf, gentleman's clubs, simply going to see artist/shows you …
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:02 PM
1

Similarly when I did a trip to US I was surprised by the large amount of shitty couple stories people had to tell. One was raped by his wife, the other one was offered to an identity fraud group by his sister. A guy had to hitchhike from California to Montana to retrieve his Car that an ex had stolen, the last guy had spent over 100k in a lawsuit where his ex-wife accused hi of all wrongs. Plenty of female friends and girlfriends admitted being raped in their life, way over half the women I got …
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:43 PM
1

Your answer to those three questions sounds retarded. These "cocky" answers are just what to tell yourself in your head to get your mind out of the bait she is using on you. Being honest and serious is a good start, you can use A&A when she corners you in a real shit-test. "Do you see other girls ?" - Yes "What was that one's name ?" - Johanna is a brillant girl, it's a nice name too. "Oh I didn't plan to stay over" - I'm glad you didn't, or did you assume I run a hotel each night I get a drink …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:05 PM
4

A beard is fine, there is a reason why "most people wear it" these days : it's the common standard of beauty. Masculinity doesn't mean you have to act different and be noticed, instead it means you are the most precise, efficient and empowered in what you do. Bear is good, specially if you have enough to trim it properly. You are young and it will take you years of trial to see all you can do with your facial hair, so start soon ! If don't you want to mix with the other indian boys, then act & l…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:59 AM
1

Anger gets you blind, you will eventually notice that you are just expecting too much from average people.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 05:57 PM
3

Don't forget that money and social value is as important as being a beefy boy. You can aim for this expensive last 10% of body building only if you are not loosing out on getting your treasury filled and a group of friends to share time with.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:59 PM
3

I don't aim for beefing myself up as I'm too busy getting rich. However I religiously hit the gym every 2 days because lifting, running and boxing gives me the chemical high I need to be efficient for the next 48h. As a consequence, I'm quite well built and can lift any avegare chick over my head. For some reason they find that entertaining. If I skip on gym session I become a slug and stay in bed all day. No good. Gym good.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:54 PM
-1

You are addressing someone on the internet. Who cares
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:51 PM
2

Because you're high af, and she is a he
/r/askTRP12/11/19 10:45 PM
3

I don't know your age range, but I'm sure you are aware that there is plenty of other places to spend a happy night & have good laughs that don't include a crowd of Mr. JizzyPants humping your leg. I stopped going out in clubs as I matured, and although I am biased towards my own experiences, I expect my partner/social circle to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:45 PM
2

I agree, from what I saw in North & south America you will rarely have zero attempts to close a dance with you. In other words, there are plenty of other way to entertain yourself, even a cabarets/concert can be as naughty but less oriented towards finding a fuckbuddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:27 PM
5

Eeeee have you been a girl in there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:09 PM
3

Although I understand your point of view, I have learned not to try to change people but to hang with those I'm comfortable with. There's no perfect match, but I'm not running out of options either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:39 PM
3

This subject is related to the two opposing mindsets of RP. The tradcons will want their partner to stay at home, and stay away from this kind of entertainments. On the other side, the hardcore TRPs who "enjoy the decline" will let the girl do wtf she wants and ghost her once she steps out of boundaries. These two types of relationships shouldn't be categorised together, but at least they can both function by themselves : The tradcon should already set a "mood" in his relationships that makes cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:28 PM
1

How is your hair doing ? You've noticed any losses ?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:19 AM
44

Power move
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:46 AM
1

There is more than just the attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:18 PM
2

So everyone stays at his me and we're all happy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:29 PM
1

It's selection bias. You only see what is visible from the public. There are hotties in labs, in movie production office, in real estate, in tourism ... But you don't see those
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 06:52 PM
5

Let's just say that the more career-driven your man is, the more likely he is to be comfortable with the hooker culture. I'm not saying this as a bad thing, only that I have yet to see hard working men who don't keep themselves balanced with a few hookers.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 12:32 AM
2

This is gold . But seriously man you should hang out in malls and creep on girls who don't know you, you will feel very dominant
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:47 PM
29

our "couple quality time" is a bit rare If you look at it from another angle, every time he won't spend being your incredible love partner is time he invests in his future. You will have a better life in ten years than those who spend their days going on dates every week. It's a blessing that your man is a hard working and busy man: There is no way to maintain a decent lifestyle than putting all efforts towards his career and social life. You need to get and improve your own hobbies and friends …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 10:38 AM
5

The average people's interest for style, grooming and eloquence should be raised higher. This will cause people to be more picky towards those who make the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:43 AM
3

Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:31 PM
10

Some people are getting off on the hate they get from exes. It's a feeling, directed towards a person, meaning that the person matters. Indifference however, is the real opposite of any sort of feeling. I've seen people freak out when they realise someone is indifferent to them.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:51 PM
-1

Does the rainbow horn on your forehead hurt at all ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:32 PM
1

I'm Uni-celular can I become a Chad ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:35 AM
1

Makes you dick look smaller ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:54 AM
1

Didn't know about this east/west african thing - Is it really common ? Would your family rather see you single than with a westerner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:53 AM
1

Can't help but read this in an old redneck accent, playing banjo in the background
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:51 AM
1

Wtf do you live in a video game ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:31 AM
1

(M) (E) (T) (A)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:30 AM
2

Alright 7.5 and the deal is settled
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:15 AM
2

Playing devils advocate here : needs to have a psychiatric evaluation. somethings gone wrong. Wrong how - Are you talking about OP ignoring human suffering - Or that OP doesn't give any value to someone alive ? If OP thinks the current situation causes too much suffering to humans, then his solution is his way to alleviate the pain. Although that sounds like how a villain would justify his acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:08 AM
1

Agent smith is a fictional character. And this feeling you are having is a known psychological pattern where you think that today matters more than the past or the future. Take any time in history and you will find people thinking it's time for a change/revolution. Truth is, you might be in the dark age or you might be in the golden age of humanity. You will never know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:03 AM
1

I don't like poetry, yet I read 13 books of them and finally found one poem that I like. It's a nice one, I re-read it from time to time. Same for life : You keep going, it is your new state. it's not even a real effort it's just who you are. I take so much searching, scratching, failing to get anywhere in your life that you should be 100% sure you'll never find something worth the energy you spent. You don't need to lie to yourself imo, you need to give up caring about the truth. I'm actually n…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:16 AM
1

Here is a harder one : "Yeah the first time we did bang I wasn't too much into it" Might be true or a lie, the point is you have to answer anyway
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:47 PM
1

There is something beyond the actions that you take every day. To me it's about the way and the reason you do them. I witnessed a major shift in my professional life the day it stopped doing tasks because my family/partner wanted it, and started doing what helped me. Once I have a clear ideal of who I want to be, I started to naturally act towards it. I would clean the floor while on the phone, crack the window before I leave the house ... meanwhile my mind was 100% focused on my job ! You alrea…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 03:17 PM
1

You do it the way you want, as long as you get the results you wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 02:27 PM
2

The fuck I'm not reading that bag of words when it starts with "LTR 4 months" , "semi-exclusive" , "she said , she said" Get your shit together you are a wreck
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:25 PM
1

Men's peak time is 45. You're just not ripe yet
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:38 PM
2

Pushing the average marriage age by almost a decade has left ample time for top tier men to pump and dump They still pumped and dumped before - only there was no internet to discuss it. People had become much less idealistic and romantic Talk about this sort of religious marriage and all I hear is a mild form of slavery for a woman that respect you less and less every day. Surging divorce rates due to the above and loss of conservative values towards marriages. You can see it both ways. A succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:18 PM
4

If a girl manages to stay around for a little bit, I'll end up getting some form of addiction to her. It is not a defined value she brings, or a particular action. But after 5-6 months I will shape my life with that person and from that point on I will feel the miss if she isn't here. There 's more time needed to share a life, and to meet my family etc... But after 6months I definitely make a genuine place in my routine for a person.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 05:02 AM
3

Been there. You'll be happy of the things you are learning once it will all calm down. Stay strong and don't forget you are still worth it
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:54 PM
1

I know I’ll probably lose a lot of girls doing this but I don’t care because it’s fun and keeps the girl guessing on what will happen on the next date. I love to give myself random reasons too
/r/askTRP30/09/19 09:09 AM
7

At least status-wise, she is a top Hollywood actress and that does make a difference. A hot girl who works at a massage parlour is not that hot status-wise.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:50 PM
4

I don't think she's a real blond anyway
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:57 PM
16

If she was, she wouldn't have been kicked out of the house : )
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:29 PM
32

You underestimate what a 10 is. You've probably not been close to one in a while. We'll talk about 10s once you bedded Margot Robbie
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:05 PM
81

Treat the 8, 9 like a 5. Not like "pretend" but really do treat her like she is more ugly than her friend, and that's why you hit on her. If you go thinking "she's an 8 I might be lucky" this is not going to help you.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:24 AM
2

Urgh, I hope you enjoy your freedom now
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:07 AM
3

Welcome to you young man, I hope you fully enjoy your 50's
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:51 AM
4

These is a sidebar for you to read, plenty of content including nun mode in there.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 11:11 PM
1

This is a big set of goals but I'm sure you will know how to prioritise and find your way through it. Go nail it !
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 11:10 PM
1

True . I would expect them to avoid each other. Worst case scenario they agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:10 AM
1

You really have to admit that you are not capable of envisioning traditional gender roles. The man will carry an entire household on his shoulders, work more when money is tight, fix what needs fixing, and shut the fuck up if he feels bad about something. While the woman will carry the family on her shoulders. Raising kids, maintaining the house, feeding everyone and supporting them emotionally. Then at night they both get a good fuck session where she gets tied up how she likes it and he goes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:02 PM
1

I don’t know the statistics but in my personal experience I know lots of women who are very career driven and have said they want a guy who’s willing to stay at home, cook clean and take care of the kids. Your friends might like this plan. I personally see no interest in living that way, that is just not compatible with the way I get satisfied. I also believe that if one of your carrer-woman friend meets a RP man who takes the piss at her for not being as submissive as the women her likes ... Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:57 PM
4

wtf So I should say "I wouldn't never let a girl pay for my bill because I'm worried I'll be manipulated into sex and then being treated like shit"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:45 PM
2

Equal privileges isn't equal rights. They want men privileges, but only since men aren't forced to fight and to go to the mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:42 PM
1

It only gets better when it can't get any worse. Temp agencies suck, you either have a shit job, no room for improvement, or you're treated like a disposable napkin. Since you have to go though entry-level jobs in non optimal condition, got and apply for entry level contracts in companies where you'd have a chance to be hired after a few month/year of work. Low-paid intern in law, marketing, media, will give you a chance to observe the surrounding, talk to people that interest you and seek oppor…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/19 10:50 AM
5

/u/Loreing Could you give out some short FRs from your worst kind of rejection up to what your define as your favourite ? Not for people to review but to understand your style and approach.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 02:07 PM
1

Find someone, even a dog, to talk with. Being stood doesn't mean you don't talk about your emotions, it means you do it when appropriate. If you don't have a real outlet for talking about your own fears, anxiety, stresses and wonders, you need to find one
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:03 PM
8

He's such a total sleezeball
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:58 PM
19

You're looking for a unicorn. You can try that : find some funding, open a startup, and bio-engineer a perfect woman. But you might be waiting for a long while before you get your perfect female human model. From what you are describing you want a woman who thinks straight, uses logic, seeks lucidity and happiness. That's a man. You should try adopting a kid with a male partner. If you want to start a family, with a woman, read the marriedRP subreddit and learn from other's mistakes. I gotta war…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 02:57 PM
3

Digging deep in reddit's manosphere is now another one of your hobbies. Careful around here, you might end up lifting weights and spinning plates like there is no tomorrow
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:50 PM
16

My question is: are there unicorns or is it too good to be true? A gun is a gun, don't point it towards yourself if you don't want to get hurt. She might have blown a whole bus of elderly golf players, she might not have. No one knows but her. Just stop those butterflies flying around your head because she is just a girl like any other.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:13 PM
4

You had a dream to marry that man, to settle down and to move to the other side of the planet. That's all checked now, congrats. What's your dream now ? How do you want a day of your life to be in five years ? It's crucial to be able to describe an entire 'ideal' day in your mid-long term, so you know why you still wake up every morning. It's very very difficult to battle through early thirties problems if you don't know where you are trying to get in your life. The 27-30 yo age is awful for wom…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 11:08 AM
1

I certainly got tricked in the early years. now although I can fall for new tricks I certainly won't fall for the same ones : ) I'd say it's easier for a woman to have it with a man in his early twenties. Much harder with a mid-aged man - unless he was married for the last 10 years. Depending on their personal experiences I've seen women up to 28-29 play their cards very badly in terms of SMV. I don't condone them either, there is no law about social life. Ultimately most people can't play an ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:04 PM
1

Lies are easy to spot when you know someone. Just corner the person into lying or hinting. Talking about travels, dating experience, past jobs, past residences... Is enough to see if someone chooses to lie about his/her past or is honest about having exes. More than anything, the way she handles you is a big indicator of her experience once you've witnessed different levels of maturity in your past partners. The same way you could tell a virgin guy even if he tries to pretend he knows what to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:41 PM
2

People do check on people. If she had lived with other ex before you it would be a lie to say that she has forgotten them. The person she is now is shaped by those exes she had. You can react to action that are disrespectful. Lies, abuse of trust or neglecting. But you can cherry pick what goes on in someone's brain, and her phone is an extension of that. She is probably comparing her life to her ex, maybe judging him or maybe judging herself. If you don't want her to do that you might as well d…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:01 PM
1

Just no.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:23 PM
3

It's not about thinking negatively. It's about being capable of thinking negatively. You don't loose your BP habits by being an "overall decent person"
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 07:46 PM
3

Louis Vuitton
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:30 PM
8

These LV men don't get any casual or relationships at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:03 AM
6

they suck picking up hints Just. Don't. Hint. Please women, tell us what you want upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:58 AM
6

It:s definitely not a genetic component. The way someone carry himself is VERY much related to his social context however, and everyone can read body language. You also naturally use some logic like : "if a traditional girl, who wants to find a husband, had such a large forehead she would his it under some bangs (as to increase her looks) . This person in front of me clearly doesn't think this way, therefore she is not traditional. "
/r/askTRP12/07/19 04:52 AM
29

This. She knows you're bad, by she doesn't want you to know she did all the bad guys.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 03:19 PM
6

I think it's still in the pdf at trp.red - but I can't check right now
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:35 PM
6

Late twenties isn't too late. Most people I know would have chosen the worst partners if they married in their early twenties. Let your man do it on his terms and let him prepare something that he think is a good proposal. You will make the wedding ceremony how your dreamed it, but the proposal is his time. It's also good to voice that you wish to be engaged and that makes you anxious, rather than keeping it for yourself. Some men take too long to propose and the girlfriend leaves before he fina…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/19 10:58 PM
2

The fact that she starts being interested in other options when you're about to present her to the family is not a surprise. But hey, you gotta make mistakes to learn. Over at RPW they say "It's easy to get in a man's bed, but I'd much harder to sit at a man's table." So in the future you'll have to make that bit much harder to get to. If you can cancel the flights, or put someone else on it - do it. It will save you days of wondering what you're doing in you family house with a hoe. Or get her …
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:56 PM
1

MOVE ON
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:01 PM
2

Then fuck her for as long at it lasts. She can get busy with other boys while you're not there, that's not something you can control unless you put her on a leash. Playing detective is fun, but eventually you realize that you can spend that energy towards your own growth instead or wasting it with being a sherlock.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:59 PM
0

bad bot
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:44 PM
4

Take her out. She says yes you win, she says no you stop dreaming. Don't be afraid of rejection.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:05 AM
6

Just go watch some non-acted amateur porn and you'll be proven wrong : ) We're all mentally driven to reproduce.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/19 12:32 AM
1

I could list many things but the main point is that we like to hang out with someone who values us. I naturally tend to seek admiration, so I enjoy being around someone who thinks I'm great. Reciprocally I value people who enjoy their life and are positive even when life gets rough.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:52 AM
4

I socialise regularly in my town and I meet some guys in their 30s that are in the same situation. The reason why we don't particularly hit off and become friends is : There is simply no connection between us . That could be your case since you spent the last ten years of your social life towards meeting women. I need to feel that I'm talking to someone who see life like I do. The guy is predictable. This is the worst and many many guys are like that. Either he is too simple (he talks work, hobb…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:00 PM
5

No it's a US bank thing. You should check you're country's investment regulation there might be some equivalents to index funds and investissement funds
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:36 PM
28

Now you know why girls end up with abusive guys. What would you say to one of these girls so they change and get a stable life ? From what you say, she has all the red flags you could imagine. From what you say, you are more addicted to the high she gets you than to her person From what you say, she doesn't value/respect you enough and goes to other guys when she pleases The problem is not her, it's how little you value yourself. In other words, you're an addict with no boundaries and little sel…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:29 PM
2

Not go whining on internet about being friendzoned is a good start. Fuck one girl per day until the party and maybe -maybe she'll consider you. Then kneel in front of her and ask for her hand.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:42 PM
3

It's about where you discuss it and how. If you think you have those problems, go see a specialist/your mom/your counsellor. Public/social circle is not the place to whine in any case. Whining won't make you healthier or solve your insomnia. I believe people who tell them to "stop being a pussy" are trying to bring the discussion somewhere else and end this topic. Contrary to many beliefs, a group of people is the worst place to try to get help or share issues. Social pressure forces everyone to…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:34 AM
1

No fap, get into her and give her a real fuck. Take her in a way that she feels taken, do go for a "We are dancing around our genitals and it feels good" kind of sex. You have your needs and her pleasure is to be the person that satisfies your needs. Long shot, but I assume you got limp dick because you panicked or you were sensitive to her judgement. That the issue right there. That girl could be laughing, crying, shouting or blackmailing you that you should never think it has any impact on you…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 10:53 AM
-3

Porn has improved many aspects of people's lives. Porn calm nerves, get people to socialise and reflect on sexuality, inform the young about kinks & extremes that their family would never tell them. The fact that they masturbate to violent extreme incest porn isn't really the porn industry's fault. Everything is available from the most romantic to the edgiest styles. Some people like action movies, yet it's not the movie's fault if they end up shooting someone in real life. It's also not a surpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:06 PM
6

The way they treat men = the way they treat their intimacy : More like a disposable commodity, less like a valuable and risky bet. I wouldn't say it is only due to porn, it is also due to the big shift since female contraception became available.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:00 PM
2

Go cheat on her, and demote her to plate
/r/askTRP07/06/19 02:34 PM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:23 AM
34

She wants validation. Period. You can either comment on something in the picture : "I've got the same bras", "You hair looks curlier on this pic", "Pretty face doesn't know how to clean her room" Or go straight : "Someone want some attention here ?" It also depends whether you are trying to fuck or going for a plate/LTR. For a fuck you would keep teasing her, but for a P/LTR you can start to teach her what you like/don't like.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:59 AM
74

Neymar is that you ?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:45 AM
4

My frame doesn't hold I admire how you understand that you frame is fragile - but you don't pity over it. That alone is a great mentality, everyone fails to maintain it at some point in their lives.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:13 PM
1

Without expecting to change him. You can calmly explain what relationship you dream of. You can remind him how the world has rolled with conservative couples for centuries and that this is what you want. The most important aspect of your argument is to understand that the liberal wave of sexual freedom nowadays is NOT about EVERYONE sleeping around and being emasculated. It's about having the choice to live a RP life or not. You can make it very clear that you make that choice without being forc…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 11:29 AM
1

I second this. Go on buddy you have the charm to pull this off. Pics or it didn't happen
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:17 AM
3

Remember that what you find "hard to live by" is a fraction of what a normal dude would do before the modern times. No fap, no tinder, no social media to make random friends, every encounter is a cold open (and they would buy fresh fish everyday) So honour your ancestors and keep on !
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:42 AM
1

Point #1 : Yes, and even though it's not as great as your comfortable headspace, if fcking real and that's gold ! A thousand dreamed lives aren't worth one's real life Point #2 : What I was trying to explain is that it is toxic to think 'I'm not allowed to dream anymore' and whip yourself until you stop. Mental projections & imagination works like attraction : You can't control it and you shouldn't. But you can channel the result into something useful. I personally find it near impossible to cre…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:16 AM
1

Although I am sorry for your situation here is some constructive criticism. There is a cognitive trick where one's brain envisions a fictional situation, and finds it better than the outside world. Someone holding a secret will think about sharing that secret with his friend, he'll imagine the comfort of getting the secret off his chest. His mental will be extremely sad to return to reality where he has to keep his mouth shut. Someone with a GF will think of connecting deeper with the girl. Lett…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:49 AM
1

Don't pretend to be intimate , or say things that are exclusive to her. That would mislead her.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:24 PM
2

Do you fap ? Try stopping that until you close the deal
/r/askTRP31/03/19 09:20 PM
3

Think like you're 30, Groom like you're 30, Spend like you're 30, Shut your mouth til you're 30. Don't worry about "living your 20s", they will live themselves. Focus on working your way up and enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:09 PM
1

Just whisper in her ear "you like that you fucking retard ?"
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:38 AM
1

As others said, 25 is very young. You still have a life to live. You've got some self awareness now, that's good fro you. I suspect your problem will be your habits. It can be very hard to kill habits, it feels like denying your personality. Actually you will have to deny your personality. ` Lift : It's a challenge of keeping a routine. Try to notice how "high" you get from all that adrenaline and testosterone flowing in your body during a workout. Try to notice how your day/week is so much diff…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:55 PM
2

Just learn to escalate kino properly ?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:11 PM
4

is there any books/stories for people who got caught up in this stuff at an early age, then got out? There are many people who read this stuff on internet, and everyone reacts differently. Your reaction to the manosphere is due to your social difficulties, your young age and your lack of experience. If it wasn't TRP it would be a religion, a sect, or a MLM ... The people who learned good lessons from TRP, blogs, reddit are people who already had experience. They had a luggage but didn't know how…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/19 12:19 PM
2

She got under your skin and you fell for it : / Yu hurt her by saying something bad about her and she tried as hard as she can to hurt you. Now you can let her go
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:01 PM
1

Oh, and he lost one hand when he was teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:59 PM
1

Jamel debbouze, in France, is an ugly short guy who is not only hilarious but also has a fine wife whom he met before he was a local star.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:58 PM
2

Don't be shy on having emotions, writing them down - TRP is about social interactions, but you are allowed to feel things by yourself. Also it could take more than a day to get back. You might feel like drinking/smoking and letting go, and you know what ? Do it. It's painful but it's a good pain. Just set yourself a deadline in a handful of days and from that day onwards, take care of yourself like you are your own LTR.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:25 PM
4

wise words
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:22 AM
2

No. It's good to know the rules of the sexual marketplace, but no need to change them in my favour
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:17 AM
1

Wanted commitment from someone who can't commit. What's not dry and clear ? Also this should be on /r/asktrp, it's not a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:20 PM
6

Even a non answer is a great example of immaturity. Any mature man or woman that I've met knows exactly where he wants to be in 5, 10, 20 years. And isn't shy of it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:30 PM
1

Ask a girls you are interested in "what's her goals in life" - And judge for yourself
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:04 PM
1

Not everyone is making choices that are "good for the society". Actually no-one is. The persons I've seen who acts as if they cared about consequences on others... were trying to buy their seat in heaven, or were justifying not having the courage to act on their desires. CMV if you wish, but women will avoid being an easy girl because that is in their personal interest. Men will seek harmful and glorious risks because that is in their personal interest. I, like many others would not bother havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:13 PM
1

In Europe we don't seem to have such market problem. Some people are in couples and some people are alone. I feel like reddit and other social medias allowed us to magnify the issue during the 2010's. It doesn't seem to me like the issue increased or recessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:22 PM
1

Why listen to them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:51 AM
1

Depending on how hot, shy and mature she is, she could be pretending to fuck around to impress you, and finally admitted that you're the only one for now. Or she could be having a few guys in her pocket and decided she needed some confort from one of them. Either way, good job on being honest
/r/askTRP11/02/19 10:46 AM
1

Number and statistics are different from each one's impression. It's called the sampling biais
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:00 AM
1

A) work hard and you'll be attractive B) You'lr rating are fucked up. No 9/10 girls are on tinder, they are home blowing their sugardaddy - and your 8/10 "average man" profile is way above average. An average man is a 5/10, he looks like Homer Simpson and he still fucks because he is not insecure.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:46 AM
1

Welcome to asktrp, where kids have nothing else to do than comment on other people's illusions...
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:34 AM
5

YES, else how could you survive without having all your social interactions stored in an excel spreadsheet and all your acquaintances ranked from 1 to 10 ? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:46 PM
1

Italians guys are HUNGRY, so you are not the first one to try her. Mediterraneans don't tend to grant much value to south Americans, depends on your looks and body language. Depending on the type (and IQ) of chicks you go for, average Mediterranean girls usually live with their parents until very late and will only sleep at a guy's place if they show a bit more than being well dressed & holding frame frame. French, Swiss, Italians and Spanish guys set the bar quite high in terms of expectations.…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:44 AM
2

Be a man, care for your own shit instead of other's judgment. If you want his anger so much, that means it's getting under your skin. That means your frame is fucked. Din yourself a goal in life and stick to that. You have no idea if your gf isn't having orgies when you're away, or if she had 2 other boyfriends but never admitted it, you are projecting all your romance forgetting to mind your own shit.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:02 PM
1

Just try and see, you can't know if you don't try
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:54 PM
4

Thanks, I like my life even more now : )
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 03:55 PM
1

You should be able to take a man down, because you've trained for it. But you must know engaging a fight means giving up your frame. The opposite of hate is not love, it's indifference. As soon as you loose frame and start to hate the guy, you loose your indifference and you are now into this person's frame. If he attacked you physically however, you are to defend yourself. If don't have the skills yet, it would be a good call to start some sort of combat hobby.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:56 PM
19

Don't think I've ever seen a girl with face tattoos. I guess that's a good sign for me.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 12:13 PM
1

Faked emotions
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:11 PM
2

Everything you perceive in "the moment" is either comforting or challenging. You should feel happiness for what is comforting you (example : It's sunny today) and you should be grateful for what is challenging you, because it makes you a better man (Example : This music is difficult to dance to). From reading TRP, you should know to embrace the challenges instead of fearing them. When expressing your emotion, you just have to relate to this feeling you have : " You face is beautiful, that's comf…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:09 PM
1

(sexy) career women do the best sex though, they are like hunting tigers who won't leave you until they bled you off. If you're fine with having a relationship that where each one minds his own shit, that's a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:58 AM
16

Try again til you're good at it
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:25 PM
8

One important point that helped me : behave like you live in the building, wherever you are. When I picture Eminem in Princeton, I see a guy who got there by accident. Instead you should seem like you've just had a nap in your living room and are going to make a dinner. I can't really tell the exact elements that give this attitude ... Slow walk, treat people like they come from an exotic country, know where you are going to, don't "parade" for catching attention, etc It's deep attitude change b…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:08 PM
2

You point of view is interesting, but I can't say I fully agree. I believe that the good side of society's evolution is that people have a choice to man up vs wank around. If by "this used to be a nation where most people were masculine" you talk about the multiple dictature than Brazilians endured ... I prefer a messy playground than to risk finding myself on the wrong end of the belt. I'm not saying everyone should be the same, I guess I fall in the nationless opportuniste you described. We ar…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 04:07 PM
0

the sexual culture has become absurd It hasn't changed much, you just have a better search engine to find what pisses you off nowadays. If you want to go back in the 60s for their lifestyle, you can, but don't forget that many other life aspects sucked back then. We just don't make movies about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 03:42 PM
1

What could possibly turn a nation of good Christian men into a vile and depraved culture Ahem christians - You meant to say that fairly recently, some Christians come to brazil, and enjoyed much of the local's promiscuity ? It sounds to me like a "It was better before" syndrome. I don't want to insult you or make you feel bad for having your thoughts. It's genuine and you'll evolve to see things differently. But all I'd say is that you shouldn't bother too much about what other peoples do.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 03:38 PM
7

Change from the usual fun, and go give evidence to the husband
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:23 PM
2

when did you start dating ? Started dating years ago. Not like tinder or college dating; I like playing music and partying so I eventually meet up interested people (alcohol, party drugs helped). But prior to TRP I had lost much of my fitness and social energy in a 3 years relationship. I became an ungroomed fattening wanker who couldn't be bothered to be a man. where did you approach the girls for it ? I can't say that without sounding like a humblebrag : I'm pretty good at opening with all sor…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:19 PM
1

Discovered TRP a few years ago Started by reading the fucking sidebar! I wish more of us did that. Went on many dates instead of focusing on "one girl" at once. Within 4 months I was able to bring a girl's interest onto me, got laid on the 5th month. No the best sex, but it felt good after an 8 month dry spell. As of today, I'm muscly but no "bulk", charismatic but not incredibly, I achieved goals but I'm not doing it in the most organised manner. I wan't to refine those points. I wouldn't say I…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:50 PM
4

The expression "shit test" is a bit ugly, but for me it means "testing weaknesses". If you pass such test, you are instantly more attractive to her. It's a female thing to do - although others RPs say they would shit-test, I wouldn't recommend it. "Testing weaknesses" means trying to prove you're weak : The bitches do attack you directly in a non-nice way, and you win by not reacting. Why does she do that ? "You might look like a man, but she's gotta be sure you're not a little girl inside if yo…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:23 PM
5

It comes with anxiety too, as in : you're unable to be yourself because you don't trust yourself. Most drugs would make it harder for you to control your walk, and you'd feel something "flowing" within you.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:51 PM
1

It doesn't really have to work out 100%, it's about having the choice. If you're a stupid emasculated man in today's world, you'll wank in front of that 200$ TV instead of building your dream family. If you were a stupid man back in the 18th century you'd be whipped, sermoned, judged, disowned or naturally end up in the street for not leading a family like everyone else. To each one his own, I personally prefer to be with peers who enjoy filling their masculine role than people who are forced in…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 05:38 PM
5

right now, one where men mostly watch how the masculine values are destroyed each day I understand the point of your post, and remembering how the tone of the debate was a few centuries ago is very useful. But falling in the "It's so worse today, it was better before" syndrome is a trap for your reason. The big and valuable improvement with today's western society is that the man chooses to be masculine, and the woman chooses to be feminine. Of course it isn't a 100% success rate, but the result…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 02:47 PM
1

Although our thoughts don't matter much, I would prefer that couple to break up if the guy can't accept a bit of a comfort provider role. If he has already decided to be Chad thundercock... Well she can't just shape him as she want him to be.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/19 09:31 PM
1

Tell him you will support him to become a strong man, however he'll cause many irreversible damage to your relationship if he is being a dick on purpose. Tell him you date him because you feel safe with him, not because you wanted to fuck mr. Universe. Don't try to to distance him from his masculinity, that has the opposite effect. Don't let him treat you like shit for any reason, else he'll do it again.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/19 10:27 AM
2

Be your own chief. When you take an action, are you doing under someone else commands or are you doing because you want to. It is fine to be manipulated into wanting something, that is pretty much what any interaction is about. But obeying someone else's wishes without taking yourself into account is bad for everyone. Think warrior vs soldier. You fight whom you want to fight, not whom the orders tell you to fight.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:41 PM
1

Get the fuck out of where you are and start over
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:35 PM
2

In less than 5 months : Long hair, not groomed, slim, sad and weak -> Nice haircut, groomed, well-fed, athletic and empowered Went from zero compliments per day to at least a handful.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:43 PM
26

Americans will think that you are playing on easy mode. Brit accent makes those girls feel like their life has a meaning
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 11:28 PM
1

This, or even the audiobook. It really does make you put things in perspective
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:29 AM
6

Sure it doesn't hurt to visit all the corners of her spoilt life, you may find an actual interesting opportunity, as long as you are entirely fine resuming to your 9-5 working routine once she gets bored of you. Or you get too bored of her. Doesn't hurt to dig further with the intimacy either. Tell her that you "wanna fuck in a helicopter" and see if she actually does it ... Or go down the tied&restrained path, people who have to much freedom enjoy playing the slave. Do anything that you would r…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:06 AM
1

You're born from a loving parent (if you're lucky), and you'll die either alone, or with a kid you love (if you're lucky). There is no exit from this fate. If you start hoping for something greater that that, you will be unhappy when life puts you back in place. If you live a RP life, you are ready to die at any moment, and your last though will be "I've reached for what I wanted to have". All those people who believe that a unicorn will save them from being emasculated ,that a superhero will ra…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:50 PM
4

Don't sweat it, give her a rough session and bet that she'll come back for more after her trip. Since when did you become so dependant ? Is a firm ass going to take away your freedom ?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 12:02 PM
5

After a while it's not a hard game to play, it becomes a habit. It feels great to pull a real lay, not pay for one. Like hunting a rabbit vs buying one at the shop.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 11:01 AM
1

I understand the whole 2nd degree of religion, and I am sure you mean well. But by "significant other" I many someone made of flesh, that raises my children and empties my testicles. You need to find a sub where you belong man TRP doesn't really treat humans as a divine creation. And it's whole theory is base on evolution.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 12:19 AM
1

Yes, I tried to take the most obvious and easy to understand example. But I do categorise alpha-widow, PTSD, sexual abuse, and general crazies as 'Broken goods'
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 12:19 PM
3

She is a crazy's ex, she must have some crazy going on don't be duped by her genetics. Don't stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:36 AM
1

You are gonna change so much in your upcoming years, both mentally and physically that you will not want to live your life the way you planned it initially.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/18 09:31 AM
2

This is a good subject that should be extended to all the other TRP rules. Like a FAQ.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 09:28 AM
0

As /u/RedHoodhandles mentioned, OLTR comes with two side being open. I have been in your situation and I usually use the logic of "Sex is nothing but a release for the man" , however it is a deep mental submission for the woman. Hence I can fuck a girl but she can't fuck a dude. I then mention that men's sex is like a woman's kiss. So technically she is allowed to kiss when she goes out. This has a big power : a) she's gonna kiss boys anyway, she just wouldn't tell you about it b) If you're trul…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 07:06 PM
2

It's mostly the fear of one day becoming a red-flag, that pushes one to praise victims. I don't really see any interest in spitting at them, but I definitely think society should tell them to go fix themselves.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 08:03 PM
1

You do you, if that's what makes you happy. When my girl ask me what I'm doing tonight I tell her I'm going to fuck a girl, because that's the truth. If she is unhappy she'll go, I don't have to hide, or go through PR department. Beyond morals, someone caught lying is nothing else but a looser. My morals would be different if I had a scarce mentality, then I'd do whatever it takes to get a share of the pussy
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 06:19 PM
1

I don't have much to answer, man. You bring up being rich, running for office, mass shootings, serial killers, jailed men, suicidal, false accusations, men being raped, etc... The scope of this analysis is "Does 'broken goods' count as a red flag and why". All those subjects don't fit in here. If this analysis reads as "women are so vulnerable that you should like them and forgive them", then you should understand that the point is "broken goods are a waste of time, leave her in hell and move on…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 05:16 PM
1

That's all we were waiting for bruddah ! when's the TRP orgy ?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 12:25 PM
1

You don't want to stick your dick in crazy or associate with crazy simply because you don't want crazy into your life. The main intent of the post is to explain why "Don't date broken goods" is a valid rule. I have been in this position before, and now I see others putting up with someone's shit every day. She can be a normal girl, probably attractive, and may not have tatoos or any other red flag. So until she actually mention her history you might believe she isn't broken. You might even be he…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 11:38 AM
1

Stop to resent your father, that's a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 10:19 AM
0

Can you feel feel feel ~ The hamster wheel wheel wheel ~ Stand for yourself I think you're right about that. There is no point to follow other people's morale without agreeing with it. However being alone in your ethics is bad. Once you unplug and know that you are free to stand for yourself, you can and you should find other people who agree with you. You're no one's chief if you don't have a crew. Even if you are in LTR you should have at least one plate. You do your LTR as you wish. But havin…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 08:23 AM
1

I don't think TRP aims to make everyone better, just its community. If other people can't help but rape to get sexual satisfaction, I guess their life will suck.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 08:13 PM
2

I understand you point of view : It is still up to the man to be responsible on what the sex turns out to be. While this post is aimed at people who would consider dating a girl who was alpha-widowed or raped, it also tries to remind how you can choose to be a dumb monkey nailing floppy vaginas in a backstreet, or being a grown up man who knows hoe to get any sexy chick in your bed, her being single or married. Pushing beyond the "I fucked a smoke show" narrative - towards the "I got a smart hot…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 07:58 PM
3

Not everyone is a bitch. You won't get much love saying this around here : ) I understand you case, but the point of a red flag is to weed out bad options. There will always be some good ones in the mix, yet we don't have enough lifetime to start over so many times.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 07:00 PM
7

It depends how much the woman is aware of her own animal nature, how weak she is and how traumatised she gets. My ideal of woman would understand why she may have felt pleasure-or not, she wouldn't feel her value lowered and she wouldn't get traumatised because she could decapitate whoever tries to rape her. But yet I like my woman strong. In a usual western couple it is different. I would make sure she is in safe hands, she has the support she needs, and I would divert my need for sex to someon…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 06:57 PM
7

Every time we get more civilised, we go on step away from nature. The firsts laws for the legal age of consent was a similar situation : where society decided that beyond this age, the boy or girl would regret his acts or be easily manipulated. Nowadays we are discovering that beyond this dose, the girl isn't to be used. The girl has a vagina, it's a value that cannot be substituted or ignored - whether she admits it or not. If I walk around with a bar of gold, I will think twice about drinking …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 06:09 PM
9

Hamster's gotta hamster, I wouldn't expect her to admit any guilt. From the sexual strategy perspective, whatever her justification she did cheat. A lesson that TRP told me is to not give into her rhetoric, I could have been the cuck beleiving she was absolutely right to betray her current partner. I honestly don't care about the rest of her life, whether she did initiate sex with him or not, whether she came against her will or willingly. But the interesting point she raises is quite rare to fi…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 05:50 PM
1

When you come to write multiple paragraphs on askTRP
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:20 PM
23

Indeed. It feels much more authentic than most bullshit we read usually. However her reaction would have been very different if the guy wasn't attractive enough to hook up with him. Or if she was publicly exposed as raped. In these two cases, it's the end of the world for everyone involved.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 03:55 PM
2

I do play some music in a band, so at the end of a performance. Easy peasy
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:01 PM
1

It's not a rule, there are no rules. He came and dominated you by flirting without respecting you. Just this action is already an act of domination. He got the prize
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:23 PM
1

With new female partners : having sex might mean "Let's push further this complicity we have, get high", or if the partner is perceived as high-value "I've successfully hunted that prey" like a pokemon game. With partner that are very good at flirting/teasing my tingles it will mean "Do me over, show me what you have" And with partners I have teased/flirted it will mean "I'll show you what I've got". LTR is different, it's more about doing each other good, playing and enjoying a pre-existing com…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 09:18 AM
5

You sure could have written that post much shorter
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:11 PM
10

Be comfortable with the idea that you will date yourself for the rest of your life. You felt like buying that bitch flowers and chocolate ? Buy them for you and truly enjoy them. Social norms says you should offer the last slice of cake before to take it ? Offer it to yourself and fuck the others. When you break the rule of "always love thy neighbor", you realise that people respect you for it.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:49 PM
1

To go along with you point, I slightly edited my original comment to say that "TRP man might date only list girls but no necessarily"
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 09:37 PM
1

Thank you for helping out : ) I understand why you feel disturbed, I was intentionally provocative. I would personally fuck a slut if I find one at the mall. And a second one if I find one on my way home. Not because TRP told me to fuck sluts, but because I can now. Yet by picking those low-hanging fruits, my sample is biased. Members of TRP are not all sex-gods, or all even attractive to the average woman. The inclusiveness of TRP tolerate some of them to play along and think they've got it whi…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 09:35 PM
7

I'm talking about IOI as a subconscious involuntary sign of interest. Not the intentional ones. A shy, nervous, loyal, or well educated woman will not even unconsciously be attracted by a thirsty man hunting at the mall. However the daddy-issue, bpd, ... chick will be inconciously attracted because their standard are much lower. My point being, when someone claims that all women are always starving for attention he is biased toward his sample of partners. A man who dated that well-raised, stable…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 07:09 PM
1

Pretentious animal mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:41 AM
0

Same here
/r/askTRP29/10/18 10:37 AM
70

Yes ! This is a point that has been disturbing me with TRP since I discovered the sub. People here do cold approach and ignore the girls that are not giving IOIs. Then they later complain about their plate being unfaithful, high n-count, etc... But, what if the sample that TRP guys work from are a bunch of lost girls who get in bed with a guy they met in the mall. Sure it's a valid strategy to have sex, but the Chad will be completely separated from ordinary/shy/antisocial women. Also, /u/econqu…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 10:34 AM
1

How can you learn extremely valuable knowledge without causing extremes failures ? You won't get your life's black belt by succeeding only : )
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:30 PM
1

Man you fucked up, that chick was perfect and you left her on the sidewalk. You could have lived a whole life together and built a family and... Yeah bullshit. She might be a great match, obviously not a unicorn as she gets influenced by white knight. The thing is, there are other good matches on the planet, even better ones. You know how sometimes you grow up and think "why did I do those stupid things when I was younger" ? Then you should start to give your old self a valuable investment and s…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:58 PM
15

In my opinion, don't reach or call her until she does come to you (if she ever does). Then answer as casually and usual as you would have before that accident. Loving someone is not a big deal , being needy and not leaving someone's space is what bother the non-loving partner.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 08:27 AM
1

I am living with my ex wife as we try to sell our house I feel you, that is not a good place to be.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:34 PM
3

I dated a girl that did not orgasm for the first 4 months. She was used to "wait til it ends" sex and it generally quite anxious, so she couldn't really let herself go. On my hand I was used to very intense quivering orgasm, so I was very disturbed. First I made sure to try sex in different situations. Slightly drunk after a party, waking up in the morning, wildly against a wall or romantically in a bed. I started to know what would take her mind off, some position gave her a more arousing view,…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 05:59 PM
17

Reddit-science has spoken
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:52 PM
5

For example, someone with confidence wouldn't say "I'm joking" after saying something too rough . He won't ask or talk about his choosing process. He won't be sorry for something that doesn't matter. A bad example would be : " Urgh I can decide for the pasta or the pizza, what do you think ? I might take the pasta so I don't tease you while you'revon diet ! Haha I'm joking. Sorry can you pass me the water ? " Just man up and take decision in silence, don't be sorry for normal things ... I've bee…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:09 PM
5

Welcome to TRP, you might want to read the sidebar
/r/askTRP21/10/18 12:29 AM
4

Some women have a very low esteem of themselves. Usually because of bad parenting, childhood, or unfortunate rape victims. They tend to be less aggressively hypergamous, as their insecurities does hold them from taking too much risk. I also found this type of woman to be much more possessive/jealous.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:10 PM
-1

It's called turn off your computer and stick it out there. Also the movie Last tango in Paris is a good example.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:04 PM
1

Hahahaha, I'll edit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:00 PM
1

This is what I was about to write. The situation OP describes only applies to the few girls that are only wanting a relationship. Usually once they go through a few shitty relationship they come back to the social norm of "fuck fist and see how it goes after".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:55 PM
1

Can you smell your farts from where you stand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:52 PM
2

My imaginary wife's too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:47 PM
1

You missed the important point of TRP, which is to help men understand that their partner is not to be treated like a mum that you can come and cry every evening. Many men who didn't have a good parental example (or were too dumb to learn from it) believe in the Disney narrative of "Love will last forever after" and stop doing any effort to deserve some love. Secondly, I still think your husband should go cry with his close friends or therapist rather than on your shoulder. There is always that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:56 AM
1

Since when does life has so much value anyway ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:12 AM
1

... but how did you achieve such a miracle ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:08 AM
1

But do they really want to commit, or do they pretend to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:58 AM
1

It happens to a man on 3, no reason to feel weakened by it. Mention it casually next time you have to apply the product, and don't react if she comments on it. All you can say is that it will be gone in a matter of weeks at worst, and that it isn't fun to have. Don't complain any more after that, but digest the pain silently.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:02 PM
1

http://trp.red/
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:13 PM
16

Sexual strategy has nothing to do with politic orientation
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 08:05 PM
9

Apart from that Stony Brook University bullshit, I'm not unhappy that the sub is quarantined if it stays that way. If the community gets too big it will not be manageable and some issues will come up. People who are scared by a reddit warning don't really have much to do here. I think it's actually a good event, saving the planet is not the objective here.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 08:04 PM
2

Let's see what they will turn out when the mid-life crisis starts, and their wife doesn't match their standards anymore.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:35 PM
1

I think the comment should say "emotional intimacy" instead. Men are not expected to show or express their emotions. Once a man submits a woman to the point of sticking it in her (with her consent, ffs) he is then safely able to show how he feels, to enjoy the interaction without lowering his value. Women are expected to save their physical intimacy as much as possible, and offer it as a high value reward to the man she desire. Have sex without emotional intimacy does lower her value.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:31 PM
1

How much time do you spend for yourself ? I don't mean in front of a computer or sleeping in a bed, but I mean : you seem like you need to take yourself on a date to reward those efforts you've done. You brain is a lazy ass, like all of us. I you don't reward the efforts with a treat it will refuse to keep trying. So take yourself out on a sunny afternoon, drive out of town to the next national park and go picnic there. Or take yourself to the seaside. Do anything to cut yourself from all that n…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:53 PM
1

What she says is not a joke, it's just not serious. When she says "Are you not going to take me back to the station ?" You shouldn't go "haha what a joke are you out of your mind" But instead, you can simply treat her like she doesn't know the obvious : "Babe I'm sure you can find your way to there, while I finish my work before it's too late." Which is similar to how a dad would tell his kid "Well I'm sure you can find mommy by yourself while I finish reading my newspaper". Assertive but caring…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:03 AM
1

He's saying you are defining a boring person.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:52 AM
1

If she previously had kids. If I'm slightly drunk I might not mind but sober I can't find that attractive. Obviously I hope that will not apply if these are my kids : )
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:27 AM
1

A degree might give you the tools to get a job that you want, but that doesn't mean you know how to use those tools. Charisma, attitude, boldness, dominance are some of the most important skills to simply be hireable. In any industry. And you can't learn that at school, only in real life. The pattern I observed in many different aspects of life it this : recognize and learn the rules, then break them. In dating, you start by understanding what a girl looks for, and what she rejects. Then you bre…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 09:09 PM
1

Good old reddit
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:54 AM
6

Sounds like you need a long monk-mode period. Go stalk yourself and buy yourself a nice treat for you bday. Give yourself a compliment once in while, and forget what "girl" even means. When you'll be cured your life will be much better.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 11:10 PM
1

Your priorities will change over the years as you grow adult. Getting laid and being successful at pursuing your dreams will not be something you can just ignore and be a better person.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:06 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:06 PM
5

OhmygodWhatadiscoveryWhoknew ! People survive, that's what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:09 PM
1

Apart from the revenge on ex-top SMV girls who crushed their teenage self-esteem - it is a particular time where some woman will not love a man who dominate her, but a man who provides for her. The stress that the wall induces in some woman's life will also justify fake paternity claims and big changes in a woman's lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 08:41 PM
1

When you'll stop wanting to
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:08 PM
1

Read Sex god method to start
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:05 PM
1

You didn't kick your own ass, you got yourself a front seat to a show of life's best traps. Now you have the privilege to know how it looks, how it tastes, and you'll smell from far away next time. You loose some you learn some
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:59 PM
1

Nice to see your mind getting clearer, it's actually quite interesting to see the difference between your original post and your lasts comments. Good job
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:54 PM
1

Fake yourself til you make yourself, not fake someone til you become someone. You got the words wrong, this saying means "be confident until you have reasons to be confident." or "Look down on people until you have reasons to look down on people". Not "Fake who you are until you become schizo"
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:22 PM
2

I do understand your point of view, but I fail to understand why you need to tell others about this fact. Are you their big brother or some modern Jesus ? I would leave alone those who can't get out of their world by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:24 PM
3

But why to have kids. Aren't we enough already ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:22 PM
1

You really gotta like nutcases
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:10 PM
1

You can stay down this path of being a nice guy, and you'll get some bad punches from life one day or another. The point is not that the Player lifestyle must suits you, the point is that humans aren't what they say they are. To have a better value as a man, you need to take the power. You have the power to say no, you have the power to tell a woman to come over for sex and kick her out straight after, you have the power to have a few fwb in your social circle without them complaining. You only …
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:34 PM
1

There is no point being proud of your values if you know they will change in a few years. And they will : You never stop learning. Like someone who defends romance, love and feminism without ever thinking that he could see things under another perspective, he is seen as dumb. Being confident is one thing, thinking you have done everything perfectly until now is another.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:19 PM
3

/r/malefashionadvice , /r/malefashionuk
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:14 PM
2

RP is not about the mathematics of seduction. It's a way to discover that women will get good dominant fucks while they can and then settle for a weaker provider, and cheat on him when the occasion comes. It wakes up those who though that women would settle for a man and love him unconditionally. It's not about "Get muscly and you'll have a girlfriend", it's about "get an interesting life going on your own, and other people will want to tag along"
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:12 PM
2

Some people say fuck it : you can take six months and solo travel from south america east coast to west coast. No planning, no shortcuts by plane of course, and even better if you go there with as little money as you need to survive. You might suffer, but you will come back as a new man.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:59 PM
1

Your skin has its own little bio system with bacteria eating each other, producing and consuming gas. By using a soap too strong and spraying yourself with the chemicals in the deodorant, you are fucking up this balance. If you have a weekend without plans, do some exercise on the Friday. Enough to get really sweaty. Then do some less intensive workout to "dry it off", like stretching. Change clothes if you can't hold the smell, but don't shower for the rest of the day. Finish the day and sleep …
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:18 PM
9

I recommend the south coast of brazil, their german/italian immigration history has given them a wonderful genetic landscape. Florianopolis especially. However I've only seen fatties in north Argentina, didn't like it.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:33 AM
2

Make her proud and don't let too much hamstering get in your way. But you don't need to worry about shit tests with her. You're aware that your question sounds like you want to escalate with your mum ?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:48 PM
2

Some people try the wrong way, they don't understand the rules. Anything they do is toxic, including trying to be masculine or feminine. You can fight it or ignore it
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:38 PM
1

/r/TRPOffTopic
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:45 PM
1

I understand what you mean, we all have a need to feel 'alive' through stronger-than-usual emotions. However we become used to any feeling we are exposed to for too long, and that is how you go through painful/stressing situations once you get used to them. But you also get used to positive feelings and they become normal, that is how addiction works. The big lie of BP perspective is to assume that you are seeking comfort and love, constant and forever. In my opinion, we become used to comfort a…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:04 PM
1

True, I think I do tend to avoid those
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:28 PM
1

What is the opposite of stoic : Attentionful ? Hedonist ? You don't fuck a girl because she is cares about everyone around and feels everything deeply. You don't go "hmm yeah, go on enjoy the present that turns me on" Same for the woman, being stoic is a trait of masculinity, but that is not the core of your game.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:48 PM
1

It's hard to really say as your point of view is always biased on your side. Could you have passed shit test in an aggressive fashion, would you have teased her and suddenly dismissed her, did you make personal mocking jokes ? Except the bitchiest bitches, most girls don't intentionally complain to their white knight as if they had it planned all along. Most of this "Angry she couldn't have you" mood may be caused by hurt feelings, lack of validation or insecurity. To be clear, it is still entir…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:44 PM
1

But what have you done 6 month ago ?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:12 PM
5

Read the sex god method.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:10 PM
2

This could be a movie plot
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:24 AM
1

Basically you've shown her a red flag. It's good that you were honest with her, and she seem to be willing to invest in a partner that doesn't have this red flag.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 02:44 PM
1

There are no bad audiences, only bad artists. There are no bad questions, only bad answers. No you can't blame anything on any other, man or woman. Whatever happened to you, you let it happen. If you are unsatisfied with how something turned out you can only blame yourself for letting this happen. Or better : Stop blaming, simply learn from your error and go forward.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:30 AM
1

Have male friends for emotional support, you can't be great and strong all day long. Make sure she has friends too. Don't loose the outcome independence, as an example my late dad has always been a great husband and good provider for the family. However I've never heard him say "Love you" once, and always seemed like he was fine living his own life. Married or not. Keep finances separated, minimise shared responsibilities like joint accounts, joint lease. Never stop leading the dance.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:11 PM
1

"You love the idea of me"
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:52 AM
1

I agree here. I've not seen a TRP sidebar content shaming women for not investing in unattractive guys. There surely is frustration from the BP nerdy guy who is not sexually satisfied, but TRP aims to channel that into self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:42 AM
3

It could be linked with the increased rate of divorce/re-marriage since 1985. An child-friendly man will have more opportunities to get different women pregnant as opposed to the single-marriage culture from the last centuries. Also kids are becoming less of a warranty of retirement, and are less desired overall. At a whole lifetime's scale, contraception mainly serves the man to have the sexual encounter he desires without enduring the consequences. Although many women claim to never want any c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:43 PM
1

By reading what your comments seem to guess stuff a lot. What about you start being sure ? Every bit of gimmick you express and every word you say counts. Value them instead of wasting them. I don't like to make people sad Give someone an ice cream once, he will be happy. Give him an ice cream 3 times a day for 3 months, he will not be happy about it anymore, he will simply take it as granted and be sad once you stop. Being sad isn't about being disappointed, or blaming someone for your sadness.…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:24 PM
1

Haha you're getting paranoiac. Don't sweat it and live your life. You seem a bit affected by the situation so don't even bring it up and keep on as usual. The fact that you don't even react to this hypothetical-drama is enough for you to prove that you're not made of jelly. Don't fear eye contact with her, remember that you own this. You'll have an occasion to bring it up later
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:18 PM
1

I feel bad now Why should you ? This is what you get for being honest I guess. Cut the bullshit, it's just your BP mind that still thinks you should not piss a girl off.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:07 PM
3

She might say one think but act the other way. I personally would treat her as any other girl : strong eye contact, flirty/playful discussion, kino on hands, hips legs. You can avoid the kind of things you would do with a party girl like drinking game and such ... obviously. But respecting the whole veil of religion and status will not help you at all. Tbh these kind of girls actually want to be treated as any other girl, it's a form of escapism. If she gives you more resistance than the usual A…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:53 PM
2

Alpha widows are those who stopped fucking an alpha guy because he moved on/she hit the wall/she refuses to. She will get a less alpha guy since she isn't as attractive as she used to, and she will secretly miss how she used to get pounded. I don't think it applies for your situation. The error you might be doing is to interpret her words. They can talk for hours and each single word might be a lie or a futile declaration. What you should appreciate instead is her actions. Is she still talking t…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:37 AM
5

A<sup>x(B+23C)</sup>A<sup>2B</sup> That's how your post reads like.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:01 AM
1

True, I'll assume she does not fit in this description and by "man" I would limit it to "man she is attracted to "
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:29 PM
1

I grew up to think success and money is everything because of immigrant parents Success and money is everything, you have good parents. It is not meant to be the core of your existence but it is by far the best unit of measure to prove yourself from. TRP thinks women are happier with a captain If you were to rely on your husband's success to warrant for your life then what would you become if he dies ? Or falls in love with his mistress ? TRP guys admit they would be better off with women who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:45 PM
1

I guess you get angry by thinking about those times you were betrayed/laughed at that you could have avoided. Or when your hope for a romance disappears. But If you had none of those then you're good to go
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:20 PM
1

Tbh, homophobic is someone who is afraid/rejects homisexuality. Saying a wrong fact doesn't really apply to phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 10:09 PM
3

Life will roast you, don't worry too much about that.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:45 PM
1

You've read wrong, gayness isn't genetic. https://www.google.com/search?q=What+percentage+of+women+are+bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:34 AM
1

Let's all talk about things we don't really know about ! Where is my pan and my stick
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 05:22 PM
0

It's not cancer, you just forgot the 80:20 rule. By getting in a position of power using TRP you are leaving the mainstream beliefs and seeing it from a different perspective. Reading what you said, it seems like you want everyone to think like you do : They won't. If you actually defined the ideal world that would exist without this cancer, you realise that it isn't possible.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 05:18 PM
1

Why are they leading in the first place ? Isn't the work you produce supposed to represent a compromise of everyone's opinion rather than a single perspective ?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:12 PM
1

Stop waiting until you want to do something to do it. Take action because your instinct tells you to. Most of the over-motivated people here reached the bottom of the barrel and were forced to climb back up. Either you wait for that to happen or you project yourself in that situation and take action now.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:00 PM
23

Ease him in ... ease him in
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 06:55 PM
1

it lead from there to us arranging to meet during Christmas time so I could see her family and spend Christmas/New Years with her There is a reason TRP does ONS > plate > FWB > LTR. There is no shortcut from that ! You can't just LTR a girl because you find her better, the whole point is to trigger enough attraction so that she doesn't mind dating you casually, then slowly has to work harder to get your exclusivity. On your side it also helps you rationalize and no get carried away by thinking s…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:52 PM
5

Damn that escalated quickly
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 05:04 PM
1

No you're best taking a time for yourself and fighting your real daemons. You give way too much importance to this girl. Your message and explanation is so long I can feel your weak frame from here. You have crossed many no-go zones, from negotiating attraction to overly committing to her. And you have to realise that you have fucked this up. If you need a big slap I can take what you said point by point and show you that you are blinded, but really you should have noticed already.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:00 PM
1

should I give her the option of overnights? I didn't get that bit : who is staying overnight ? The son, the ex, the plate ? Anyway, don't create mental barriers against your opportunities. Once you start your job, you can always see the routine and ask if you can bend some hours to suit your son's schedule ? If you think that is impossible then it surely will be, however if you are confident about having a chance then you will have one. Also, mix up activities with the time you spend with your s…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:44 PM
1

I casually see an ex as we have the same hobby, she always enquire about my current relationships and I can see her hamster spinning. She doesn't really open up about how that makes her feel. She did tear up one or two times but I don't buy her acting. I make sure to never ask or mention her personal life and I can tell it pisses her off. Otherwise most of the time exes called/skyped back was either for testing the ground when single or validating herself.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:38 PM
1

I had back pain, turns out it was caused by : a) My back being too weak in general (More swimming, rowing, stopped trampoline) b) Being mainly right handed, my right side was the only barely muscled side. When sitting in a chair the right side would get stiff and bend my back like an accordion One chiropractor session (Damn he cracked my soul off) and ~ 4 months of better management/stress control and I have no more pain
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:09 PM
2

Blah blah blah You are focused on one single girl, even though you admit cheating. But you do not feel safe enough so you have to hamster yourself to write such a novel. Wtf ? What would hurt you if during all that time, she cheated on you with 4 other guys, You would feel disrespected ? Instead, you should not give a single fuck. Blah blah All you talk about is her words, her says and her words. She can say whatever she likes, she will rationalise anything. Look at her actions instead, does she…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:04 PM
1

Off what you say, you seem like an idealist. I guess you realized that the society wasn't what you want it to be, or you believe humans are worthy of a better playground. I spent some years thinking like that and it held me from starting any project, or accepting any reward. I can't say if I was stuck in this because it was more comfortable or if I genuinely cared that the world around me wasn't black and white. But at the end I went with accepting that an entire world isn't obliged to bend to m…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:52 PM
1

the military - risking your life for a country that doesn't care about you You have to admit that the military staff does not share this point of view. They do think their country is worth working for and are satisfied with the security, pay and retirement that this career offers accept 'working' and 'making money beyond what you need' It depends who you are and how you aim to spend your life. For example I have an entrepreneur spirit, there is no project that is too big for me and hence there i…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:08 PM
16

Pretend your phone is ringing, look through your pockets nervously and pull out a banana. Start talking to it as if you were having a real phone call, stand up and keep your fake discussion going while you leave. Never come back. Works 100%
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:19 PM
2

Be willing to walk off. You don't seem outcome independent, and she can feel it
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:23 PM
1

Play the game or quit the game. Complaining won't get you anything
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:43 AM
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been to A Museum date and shit I find those very hard to actually escalate and tease. You surely can do it with a good verbal game. But it's much easier to hang out in a social context where you can easily go talk to other people. told her i did it because i didn't care what will be her reaction and i respect your choice... I'm sure you mean that you have made a lot of progress since taking the pill. But the next level would be to not even have to explain yourself at all. At least not verbally. …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:42 PM
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Careful with that : https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/69rkwq/my_job_is_to_flirt_with_guys_and_make_them_feel/
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:13 PM
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Make sure you don't suddently "act" alpha or show a fragile masculinity. It is better to take the time to bring her to a RP relationship than to force it within a week. Read all sidebar content, make sure you understand it. Be aware that your experience and your understanding of things evolve through time. What you think is a good decision now might be a fool's trap when you'll think about it in a year or two. Work RP with your friends, family, as well. Try some cold approach even if you don't w…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:14 PM
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You are an alpha bro, nothing to hide. Grow your hair and don't wear any clothes.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:03 PM
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A big part of the teasing is to get her to desire you. I think that by giving her all that attention and this cuddly behaviour, you kill the desire. By proving your value and getting her to chase it, she will desire you more. Especially with virgins, you will not get a fully consensual kiss. She has a lot of hamstering going on and it makes it hard for her to let go and give you the control. You have to fight against that by surprising her instead of being so predictable (romantic behaviour is v…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:22 AM
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Being conscious of what defines masculinity and how the attraction dynamic works is something that applies to all ethnic groups. However the way you communicate your masculinity and your attraction will differ for each culture. The difference between each culture is communication: language, body language, expectations, social values. That is why you might feel that the usual way to express yourself as a white male might not have the desired effect on a different audience. And you have to develop…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 09:21 AM
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Buy the ring and wait one other year with it. Then you'll know if you are taking a good decision. If she doesn't want to fuck, it's mainly your fault for not being as attractive as you were. Work on that and don't give the ring yet.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Jokes/comments/8bp3om/guy_doctor_my_girlfriend_is_pregnant_but_we/
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:06 PM
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Talk about present stuff, current feelings and emotions. Don;t talk about past experiences or boring life stuff. Once you set a subject of discussion going, she will eventually drift off to talking about her and you can focus on your game. "I like what they did with those rock star posters in this bar, these two guys played live in this bar a long while ago. Can you imagine being here back in those days. I must be wild !" " I feel like this drink would be better with a tiny bit of lemon in it " …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:48 PM
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30 mn tops, not 7h. so I like you, am interested by you, love listening to you, feel happy as a man to do that Don't fucking say that ! Not only you are an emotional tampon but you even put her on a pedestal. Don't spoil her with affection and attention unless she has done something to deserve it. Being beautiful isn't enough to deserve it.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:14 PM
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I dont want to be in the position to make tests... You'll really have to man up and leave no door unopened. You are about to realise the extent of AWALT I need help to get out in best possible way before that.. It will be heartbreaking if your still have a beta side, but you have to be clear and not negotiate about her aborting. Don't pay her fees, doctor appointments or whatever she asks , don't suddenly turn into a gentleman caring of her emotions. Make it clear that this is not how it will go…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:05 PM
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Men are a disposable resource, of which only a few are required to succeed to satisfy everyone. Their disposable nature put them in the front line for any sort of pressure in our society. The reward is big for those who don't give up : Successful men own the world of today - to the exception of a minority of successful women. The punishment is big for those who fail : They get nothing at all. Women are a valuable resource, we don't require them to break all records and fight for success. But we …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 05:11 PM
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Just consider the impact of dealing with that girl "IF" it went south and she was a complete nut head. If you would have no way to escape the bad consequences then it's a no-no. In your class : She could give you bad reputation, ruin your daily social life by making every class conversation awkward. At work : She could use you, complain for harassment if it's in her interest. She can cause social awkwardness. At the coffee : She can be mad at you and spill coffee all over ? oh well, that not so …
/r/askTRP11/04/18 12:37 PM
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I’d be suprised if you were a good singer“ You missed an occasion to be clearer about your physical intentions. If you keep a teasing tone and say something like "I’d be surprised if you were a good singer, appearances aren't enough to fool my ears " ; you can easily convey the message. And keep that tone during the evening. It's a fine line between "You 're such a goddess i put you on a pedestal and kiss you feet" and "You're my type, i'll fuck you tonight, else another one". But it's crucial t…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 01:02 PM
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Quod erat demonstrandum
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:37 PM
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As said by triadis. Debating is rooted into caring about someone else's judgment. The passion and interest you put in it is of wrong nature. Shut up and be the one observing two stupid time wasters debate. Use that time to think and work on useful stuff. The kind of stuff that give you real results (carrer, lift, skills)
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:36 PM
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because you can't stand for your honor
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:33 PM
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You are putting her on a pedestral, thinking she is better than she really is. You think whe is a angel, yet she is far from it. You don't want this to be awkward - yet no girl is attracted by a man who can't dare to put himself on on the spot. If you respect any of her conditions, of her "Don't treat me like other girls" attitude, you fail her test. With that crappy attitude, either you will get rejected for being too weak, or you will be submissed in a shitty relationship.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:34 AM
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Are we serious here ? I've read no so long ago that the difference between any salt was so minimal that it had no effect on the human body whatsoever.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:13 PM
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True that, listen to him
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:44 PM
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Even mildly attractive guys can have girls more often than you, it seems. Or at least more than one-night stands. It's something to do with your personality, aura or interest. You are holding onto something in your personality that is causing the problem. But the only way to improve is to change something deep in your way of thinking, behaving. Do you have an interesting "world" to invite the girl in ? Do you do anything artistic ? Could you go on stage and make people laugh for 5 good minutes ?…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:55 AM
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That's more like a semi-hard next ... Well, it worked so nothing to worry about. Soft next would mean go silent, and answer when she tries to make contact. You waited a bit longer, but why not ? Hard next would be to clock and ignore forever.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:49 AM
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a girl who uses reddit and is internet literate is not a bad place to start right? This is not true in my opinion. A girl who uses reddit must have a nerd tendency and I have seen many women that would qualify as smart that don't use reddit. It's a community full of men who are nerd in some ways, most of the discussions are circlejerk and its real world utility is debatable. Maybe watching sweet puppies, sensationalised world news and cosplay porn is not the main interest of everyone. A girl who…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 10:44 AM
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She is not his, it's just his turn
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:25 PM
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no, as long as you're fine with me doing the same and then some That's a trap you fell into. You don't need her to be fine or authorise you, these are your terms. A more assertive answer would be something like "No, I'll tell you if I think you have crossed a boundary. I don't give into jealousy, but I don't take disrespect either" "we are just so different" and "I only see what you want to show me about you", she claims. I've heard similar claim from LTRs : "it's like I am not allowed into some…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 03:29 PM
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Handcuffed to the bed pole, or leather belt looped 2x around the wrists. If it's tight enough and you manhandle her around she will have bruises on her wrists.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:48 PM
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Yeah you're right ... can't remember very well it was a while ago
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:40 PM
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I asked this girl Don't ask, invite her along your fun hobby. We wen't to see a movie We sat awkwardly in a dark room for 2h I suggested to go swinging Don't suggest, bring her or carry her. Anything that surprises her. I tried to be funny, cracking jokes and everything Hm, the others said it. That's not any useful for flirting. We spent 6 hours together You could have kissed her back in the cinema she told me I was funny This is the sound of failure, if you did proper push-pull, teasing and ban…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:14 PM
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Like physics, all rules have exceptions and there are sometimes more exceptions than rules. But in short : No advice is as valuable as going out there and trying something. You want to evaluate if it works ? Try it and you'll know. One advice is always true however : Don't loose time reading dating advice and go out there get experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 03:03 PM
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How to get banned 101
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:36 AM
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Fast-lane if you get divorce-raped
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:18 PM
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By failing. Over and over, until you find a way that works. Seriously. You are able to communicate in English so you are perfectly able to ask for a number, the only thing holding you back is anxiety. If you can't do without an example ( I'm assuming it's a clothes shop ?) Go and ask for clothes, it's even better if you are actually planning on buying some. Say you are not sure about which one fits best, get the conversation going and escalate quickly (eye contact, very light kino if not inappro…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:14 PM
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Good bot
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:25 PM
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Remind her that we are to care of our own lives, and that these decision are our own to take. Does she want an obeying submissive boyfriend or does she want you ?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:22 PM
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Even years out of a onetis, I can say that I love her as much as I hate her. It keeps things in balance, kinda. Just put those memories in a hole in your back garden and move on.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:17 PM
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Attractive staring at your chest = daring Unattractive staring at your chest = creepy
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:14 PM
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Go to a gathering/party/concert/club full of people you don't know and approach everyone. Be that guy they are wanting to gently kick out of the place for being too insisting. No need to pretend you're drunk or dumb, just go talk, continue to talk, and leave when you feel like leaving. Then you can say you have no approach anxiety, right now you seem to have a severe one.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:06 AM
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choose men simply by their success, without judging their character or their spiritual nature Attraction is not a conscious decision. Character and spiritual nature has not much to do with biologic survival. Success, however, is a proof. You can't expect a human or any other animal to deny its own instincts for the sake of "being nicer". little girls are swept up by the lies of media that they must somehow postulate their sexuality has a form of power Bullshitters always target the biggest major…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 08:54 AM
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It depends how nervous you are, and how much you use you arms to compensate for lack of charisma. Using arms with a calm and grace works perfectly. Are you single ? Single but always in good company.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:22 PM
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It's a great start that you can admit it, next time you'll nail it like a roman soldier in year 0.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 12:26 PM
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Don't argue politics even when attacked, else have fun without drinking, else agree and amplify, else don't vote brexit ?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:54 AM
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As other said, if you value your gym you might not want a mad BPD girl to steal your shit while you squat because she is angry that you nexted her ... No shit where eat. Your legs don't have to be so far apart you know oh so you know what you're doing... I'm Heath by the way [...] "What?!!?" she spits at me. Seething venom in her tone. Death in her eyes. These are better ways to open, I would not be surprised if she get pissed at someone who open her like that. "I don't normally do this really b…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:17 AM
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"Shut up and listen" If she interrupts/ignore someone talking (especially entitled girls ignoring a beta guy). When saying that : If you're smiling and still teasing her, it doesn't work. If you look butthurt and mean it in a "I expected more from you" way, it doesn't work. Just assertive and neutral. Say it as if you talk about a basic necessity. Hold eye contact for the minimum time required to assert the order, without even trying to overly assert dominance. The fact that she does actually sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 12:09 PM
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I guess my problem is that I ... That reads so much better overall ! Don't worry you still look chilled and a nice person as when you used all those "xD", but you also look more mature and stable. I read somewhere on TRP a technique from a guy who had issues being assertive. He would usually say stuff like : "That dress looks like an invitation, haha I'm joking". With a bit of work he simply said the "haha i'm joking" into his head , and kept his frame as much as he could. By doing that, his spe…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:38 PM
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Teach her how to defend herself, plus a kimono can look really sexy
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:18 PM
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idk haha. [...] I do want sex Sx [...] xD [...] xD [...] basically [...] peace out From reading you post and comments : you really need to put some effort into your diction. You mix up between what is in your head vs what comes out of your head. That is a big no no for flirting. There are a lot of guys out there who talk like they think. If you are one of them you'll notice that people quickly loose interest in what you say. Instead you want to formulate a concise speech are express only useful …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:01 PM
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Then I'd say go back to easy-maintenance plates. LTR are always time taking.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:56 AM
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You still have to trust your gut on whether she is branch-swingin or not. As long as you are the better branch = everything is good. Else whatever the reason she will find a way out. Depending on the girl some might be unhappy with being unable to meet guys. I personally prefer to train her to reject a man's attempt rather than lock her up at home.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:45 AM
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It might well be that a gentle hug will end the situation faster than you imagine and she will end up smiling and thankful in your arms Never though about that, thanks ! Ignoring and leaving might maintain frame, but it might not deescalate. I agree, I'm just not good at recognizing when I'm being emotionally manipulated. Better safe than sorry . I would definitely talk about the issue, but not during the crying-dramatic session. This is not a way to resolve any issue in my opinion. Once calm, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 08:20 PM
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It's almost normal consequence, I'd say. Women are not asked for efficiency, it is not a mandatory skill for them. Being concise and efficient are two different things. Any boss/BF who complain about you lack of efficiency would tell you "Use your sense of logic". But what we call "logic" mostly refers to male's logic : we like to say it is the ultimate rule of intelligence and yet male's "logic" was stupid enough to justify many wars, many betrayal and many wrongs. Female logic exists as well a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 08:15 PM
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If you take a good old beta guy, he would be straight in love with a person he just flirted with. I probably would have too, back in those days. No, the man's feelings come after having sex. Think of it like painting your bedroom walls as soon as you moved in - Except the paint brush is a dong. A good flirt would be someone who guessed how my sense of attraction works, and teases it like some sort of emotional clitoris. Enough to have me physically involved : blushing, heart rate, shills. Someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 07:40 PM
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If you ask TRP, they will say to send her in another room and ask her to come back when she is done with the drama. I personally would get pissed at that attitude generally. I don't mind helping on real life issue and enjoy a good man-to-woman therapy session with a person I care about. But if I get drama on minor stuff I do consider it as a red flag. I know that I can access smarter women who are capable of handling their emotions in a couple, and I am not willing to settle for less. Are you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 07:17 PM
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I will never be intimidating to you guys anymore ;) Oh you can still be intimidating, just keep it push/pull instead of being a total freak. in Europe though UK here That was my first experience of empathy with you guys although for many many years it was also limited to only this point ;), because in fact you are predators. Yes, don't get fooled. Man's complaints are mainly about weeping on how harsh is their world. I still find our civilization less harsh than raw nature, so there's that. wish…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 07:05 PM
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I believe that frame applies to both gender, but differently. It is a social necessity. Biologically, the male is what we call a parasite. The male is the side who does the smallest effort to achieve reproduction (bring his ADN as efficiently as possible) whereas the female has to provide a generous egg and later pregnancy. To me this shows how the nature of the frame differs. My frame as a man aims to prove my value amongst all the disposable men. It aims to prove my reliability and superiority…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:53 PM
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You've got a good reasoning of your own. Stability vs adaptability makes sense. I believe the answer is a bit simpler : Nature doesn't care about economics,civilisation. Nature doesn't care if you are monogamous or not. Nature wants you to keep a healthy line of genetics and it is hard wired in all of us. Then the stupid humans try to play against the rules with promises and symbolism (wedding). It does work as long as it follows nature's will, and it breaks off when we try to idealise how the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:40 PM
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He was emotionally unstable I underestimated that From either sides of the genders, I have witnessed many stories of that kind. Some include retraining orders and rape accusations, other include robbery and attempted murder. A big ol' mess that you are better far away from, no matter what he/they think or how/why it is there. If we don't know how a weapon is loaded, it is common sense to not aim it at yourself. He didn't deserve anything of me in the first place. You leaned something, you came o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:32 PM
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I like your thinking. It's almost satisfying to read, and wish all women had at least half of your clarity (don't get me started on the men ...) There is sexual loyalty and a deeper personal loyalty I usually call those physical exclusivity vs emotional exclusivity. It is a recurring subject for me, as I had kept most of my LTRs as open relationships. Exclusive LTR can get boring , the simple rule is to embrace that 'spark' of attraction to the unknown and allow the partner to get laid with a fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:15 PM
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But it is a huge difference if it happens or if it really means lack of loyalty. The initial question was why RP says women are not loyal, but now you are saying that cheating might not mean a lack of loyalty ? (Not taking the piss here, just confirming) I tried to answer the fist question before, in short : Women are perceived as bigger cheaters because they are under more pressure to cheat than the average bf/husband. 80:20 rule. The second one : I used to think that cheating is not that bad i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 03:30 PM
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The question is not really where you are looking, in my opinion. I will assume that you are fairly attractive and that the average attractive Joe does like you. - Imagine you have a date with Ned on a Monday and have another date with David on Friday. On Monday, Ned was very charming, intelligent, caring and you have connected with him during the date. You feel safe with him. Out of curiosity, you went to see David as well. David is playful, smart, and daring. You might not feel like you are exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:26 PM
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Hamstering, too many hamsters in your head. You are missing the point : Doing instead of thinking. That is what lifting is about, and a lot of basic instincts of manliness rely on it. No need to become a dumb Rambo or mister universe, but you are missing the most important : Stop questioning everything and test by yourself. Shut down those question in your brain and go to the gym. Run for a little while to get you body warmed up and start lifting (For example with the app Stronglift 5x5). Don't …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:03 PM
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I'm not the best onetis doctor : I had to wait until I get nicely fucked over to realise that every time you hold your thoughts onto someone else, it slows you down and adds difficulty for your own life. Back in those days I would hamster myself with some BP Disney shit like "If we can't live our life with someone else, what is the point ?" I think the best antidote to a onetis is to develop a onetis with yourself. To realise that living your life with yourself is already a great chance, and tha…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:03 AM
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Double onetis ? You have serious problems with yourself here. You have a scarcity mentality (as if you could only have those two women in you life. There are 3 billions women). You don't seem to make any effort to get your wife or mistress to chase you, keep the attraction going. And you attach yourself to these women, where you should already know that there is nothing less loyal than a woman. I am not being happily misogynous here, there is nothing less loyal than a human to be precise. Read y…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:28 AM
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If she fucks another one and comes back to you then good, you're the better option. If they keep their little affair going on then find a new plate
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:44 AM
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A few millions is not rich, it will fly away in a few years
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:02 AM
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I’ve been wondering if this former guy was a bitch. Maybe, that’s all she’s really had to go on. That's a bit of hamstering. Most women I've met with a bitch pegged boyfriend were not reluctant to cheat on him. They liked the top notch men who would not care about her, and they had their daily dose of attention and care from the bitch boy.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:29 PM
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It only hurts if it's true
/r/askTRP23/03/18 10:30 AM
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Good mentality. Don't stress over your life or bar exam. Vocations are like onetis, you hamster yourself to value it more than you should and then you're disappointed. The bar doesn't want you ? Fine, they are the ones missing out. But outcome independence really makes you have the upper hand.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:22 PM
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No offence taken, hard to describe a job without giving out its title. Any corporation is usually built on bullshit, made of bullshit, and spills bullshit. So my job has a bit of american-style bullshit in it, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 10:12 AM
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I am flattered that you went all the way to create a new account to inform me about it. English is not my first language indeed
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:53 PM
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Apologized I was a little late No need to (she didn't) No need to Over the next hour or so it was pretty basic conversation I would be tempted to think that you should actually escalate and get a real sexual tension there. So to protect my frame I told her she probably wanted to head home because she was an assignment due next week This is not protecting your frame, this is fear of rejection. Invite her to finish that whiskey at home and if she doesn't want, invite someone else. Your mental stat…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 03:49 PM
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Getting senior experts to work together, bridging different kind of expertise.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:57 PM
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Link it if you remember it, can be useful for someone doing some lurking later on :)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:31 PM
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2 h drive ? I'd rather get a good meal for that, but then I live in a major city so we might not have the same scale.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:51 PM
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I need to see her tonight That's wrong, don't rush you look like a horny virgin. Wait for another time when she is horny and you can plan better ?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:33 PM
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So she went from cooking you breakfast to you bringing her breakfast ? There a big switch there, and you are not RPing her at all, you realize that, right ? It's like she doesn't have to do a single effort to get your attention (sex isn't an effort for her. Real life effort) If you don't push and pull it'll be over. And as other said, you're getting lovebombed. She get you addicted to madness. Enjoy the fuck but don't give her a dime of your valuable life.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:38 PM
1

Dodged bullets out of pure luck in my past relationships, else sometimes simply out of instincts given by my education. It feels better now I can put words on what I see everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:19 PM
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It's just your turn, twice. ... But be ready to be cheated on
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:54 PM
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the attacker wants to get into a fight, whereas your friend doesn't. So once the fight started, your friend fell in the opponent's frame. The only way to have a justified fight is if the attacker punches first (self defence). As long as he is being a dick, just make him look ridiculous or leave
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:32 AM
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She'll want to, but then it depends on beliefs, education, past experiences, her state of happiness, luck.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:27 AM
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If you do build some sexual tension by flirting then the kiss will release that tension, it's up to you to decide if you want to edge her or climax - Like an orgasm releases the build up during sex. As opposed to avoiding kissing, you can read some interesting posts from /u/scottishRedPill who seem to always do k-close when possible.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:52 PM
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I'd rather cut my balls off than someone think of me as a parasite. That is the problem, here. Instead, if you stand as the person she is attracted to then no one will think otherwise. If you have those inside though and issues with your own value, it reflects outside. Imagine yourself as a 45yo mature and established man with a beloved daughter. How should her BF behaves : Like a self-conscious lower-class who is ashamed of yourself ? No Like a "I'm lucky to be with that girl out of my league" …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:35 PM
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As long as it drives your attention (which she does want on her) away from her. And that it provides you with a social value that you think matches who you are, then it is the logic choice to make. In my BP days, any LTR whom I asked for support, life guidance or psychotherapy has lost all attraction to me. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:50 PM
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She has a good customer service and as with any other product, you can pay if you want more. Or do something else with your life if you'd rather. Just don't fall in love, or don't stop gaming other girls to stay sane
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:24 PM
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Good job, and yes maybe that's what she likes about you ;)
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:34 PM
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You seem to think people are either strictly beta or alpha. Actually, much of the TRP articles talk about alpha/beta like a fluid role assignment. There was an interesting experiment with groups of 6 rats who always had the same social structure : 1 dominant, 3 sidekicks, 2 servant and one bullied. Now if you remove a few rats from the group and add some new rats, the roles will be reassigned and whoever is the stronger becomes the dominant. (Even if it was the bullied before) In the human socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 12:30 PM
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I don't have anything going in life Don't forget to have a mission and something to do with your own life (idc if you divorce me, I'll just have more time to do [insert passion here]) A mission-less husband trying to stay dominant is the most cringey situation you can be in.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:41 AM
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Maybe you are creepy- idk your details of course, but I have often seen some rather confident guys who just looked creepy and made me want to avoid them (creepy : the feeling we get when someone is acting more confident than his SMV allows - the same behaviour is perfectly fine on a charismatic attractive person)
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:36 AM
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I forgot where it was - but there is a nice post on /r/theredpill stating how clubs are not good for meeting + banging a girl. The OP said he was much more successful by getting with his male friends and : approaching girls in the week, as many as possible inviting them over for pre drink at his place on the next friday (only a small percentage would turn up) going out to club (You get drinks offered for bringing girls) grinding, kissing as you wish finishing post drink at his place (Easy to end…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:32 AM
1

Hire 5 actors to set up a street fight where she is stuck against the wall with a few angry skinheads pointing knifes at her. Then jump from the bridge above with you freshly made superhero costume and proceed to kick their ass as you rehearsed. Finally, take her in your arms and watch her daydream of raising a family with you. Of course not. You are hamstering a reason to stick to your onetis. TRP sidebar articles are clear on the fact that feelings aren't something to ignore, and that onetis s…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:22 AM
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Wise words
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:32 PM
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Man, read yourself : you're overthinking. If she bother to come she is interested, if she doesn't then she is not interested right now. Don't think with your dick and start enjoying a party for the party itself.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:57 PM
1

Still can't tell if you decided to crack a joke or you are serious. If you are actually in such a situation : Just pack your suitcase, find her, kiss her and fuck. If she's happy bring her with you, If she refuses then leave that stinky town to a better place. Why would you fuck a 28yo at 20 ? Why do you grab hands, are you a romantic novel character or smth ? Die trying or keep failing
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:53 PM
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The bigger the shit test, the faster you'll have to hold her jaw and tongefuck her ? Honestly though, you should have done that when she opened the door.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:42 PM
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Wish we could downvote somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 05:36 PM
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As the others said, don't overthink it. If you want to get a sharper sense of humour, watch some good stand up comedy and train it like a muscle. It won't come naturally if you don't try it in real social situations. Or you can stay simple : It's to overcompensate my small penis It takes some muscle to carry that massive ego all day long You know all I want is your attention (Well, don't use that when flirting)
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:30 PM
1

Many other fish out there, you'll realise it wasn't that good
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:57 PM
1

I don't believe in vocations. Some areas are more interesting than others (ie craft, creative, finances ...) but I always choose a random hobby/job in this area without a particular reason, and I end up enjoying it at much as the aficionados. Don't ask yourself too many questions and don't loose your freedom to change of direction, then you have no reason to feel sad.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:08 PM
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That's how it feels to be an average girl, welcome to hell ! Now you can start shit-testing them and find a girl worthy of your person. and you can friendzone the other ones
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:59 AM
1

You are tortured if you let it happen to you. Even you have probably done it to weak people who let themselves being tortured around you, it's unconscious.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:58 AM
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There is always 80% of emasculated men for 20% of attractive ones, it doesn't matter if the men are protected by laws like in the 19th century, or if they are left with the harsh rules of life. When watching that war from Europe, it sounds like another of those time wasting subjects that TV likes to tingle you on : Caring of other people's problems is the bored man's hobby. "Is her skirt too small" , "Where should Kate and William marry", "Is obesity a disease", "Is my country manly enough". So …
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:56 AM
1

3 months is nothing. We say before three years it's a romantic comedy. After that it's a horror movie.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:12 AM
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She's a hunter and you are the valuable prey. If you offer yourself to her she will go chase a more interesting prey. Have you read the sidebar at least ?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:11 AM
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The main issue - imo - is not how well you can plan this, but that you can't take shortcuts. I am sure that girl has some charm and you are not the only one queuing. If you are too available and she hasn't earned you (months of work from her side) then it is a productive as asking her to branch swing you.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:36 PM
1

Just don't LTR - you're young and that is the last thing you should look for. You should have seen in many posts that the progression from ONS, to plate, to fwb, to LTR is a low process that is earned by her efforts. If you commit to her directly you have nothing to trade, no means to educate her to follow the relationship you want.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:16 PM
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Haha, mea culpa. (She's got a website and Instagram as well. Just saying.)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:13 PM
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For having done that in the past, well established boundaries are the most important. As /u/vandaalen said, I find that a girl value keeping your emotional commitment if you want to break the sexual exclusivity. "No feelings involved" is a hard rule to stick to as you can't prove it. I usually go for "ONS only" : fuck more than once and it's a relationship.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:08 PM
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Are we talking about feminism as in the society "Same pay, equal rights and opportunities, stop the male economic dominance" or as in the relationship "Don't degrade me when you talk to me, let the woman keep the child, flirting should be a crime" ? why you think society treats RP badly due to this reason... but does not similarly treat feminism badly as it is subject to the same rationale The average person in our western society falls under beta traits. It's normal and healthy for a modern soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 06:43 PM
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I'm sure you have a good point to raise, but I couldn't really understand by reading your post. Could you reformulate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 05:17 PM
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(Don't date a coworker) Step up your game ! Doing her an interview is the last thing you want in a text discussion. She has hundred of other dudes interviewing her all day long. M " You look like a party girl, I bet I could have walked into you at XXX Saturday " (Gives her an occasion to brag about her lifestyle) F " Haha nah I was nearby at XXX " M " Really ? That place is way too crowded on week ends. I though you'd know your town better " (Bitofpush, bitofpull) F " I known it like the back of…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:39 PM
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You need to get more attractive or game better. She doesn't seem to care to chase you
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:05 PM
3

"Here's your ticket, you'll pay me the drinks"
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:00 PM
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To me the controversy has been about serving your own interest vs serving the other one's interest. These are the two main options of any conflict - luckily we can sometimes serve both interests. (with a jumping rope) The second part of the controversy comes from the fact that any relation include giving some power to the other party - that is the base of trust. What the partner does with that power is an eternal debate between BP and RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 04:34 PM
1

The point is not when your dressed, it's when you are in bed and how often she will want to come back
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:44 PM
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It's not about clothes or your market. It makes a big, big, big difference. But no can do it for you.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:22 PM
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It's a bit of a circlejerk debate imo. Everyone gets judged constantly, you are allowed to reach as high as you can as long as you are not breaking a law. I do think it's more interesting to do the minimum effort required to get the result you want, rather than do all of the deceptive tactics in hope to catch a fish. That might be the difference between propping yourself up and catfishing. Q4All: How much deceit do you allow in your mate (makeup, hair, muscles from the gym etc...)? As much as ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 03:10 PM
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Pathetic is a judgement of value, It's like asking whether blue is a nice colour or not. Not much room for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 02:42 PM
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In my experience, getting an existing exclusive LTR into an open relationship is a hard one to lift. It can be pulled if you have a real emotional complicity (not some smoke screen she puts on) and is submissive enough to "belong" to you that way. Else these relationships have to start as Open from day one. Words and actions are two different things. In your position I would assert to her that long distance relationships are not your thing and are hurtful. You can even pull some stupid shit abou…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:17 PM
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you still have to flirt, push/pull and all. Else nothing works
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:49 AM
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A tailored suit, from a craftsman. British, French or Italian. Real shorts, real £200 trousers, +£400 jacket/blazer/coat. No need to look like a millionaire, but choosing your clothing every morning is better than looking the same everyday. A tuxedo, so you can work your James bond lines in the mirror.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:48 AM
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Any details on the comfort tests ? Just curious
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:52 AM
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I'm sure you're smart enough to not end up in a hellhole. I might have miscommunicated : Yes you should lift, and even more important do a hobby that teaches you how to fight decently(plz don't say judo) But at that point the simple fact of walking toward someone challenging him verbally should be enough to get him to leave. The point is : getting INTO a fight is loosing frame to your opponent, the same way that getting into an argument is losing frame to your GF. But then if you are in front of…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:11 PM
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Don't forget to look for signs of commitment and reward those as well (less reward than withdraw always). Else you become a paranoiac prick, to the point where she'll prefer a BB.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:06 PM
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That's paranoia - Maybe she just want fancy a minigolf ? I mean bowling isn't even your great passion so no need to look butthurt (It's not like you go bowling every week and invited her to tag along right ?). She suggested something that allows kino and is actually more interesting than a boring bowling. Just go with it and say you up for swinging them balls in them holes
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:03 PM
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Start to know how to use your tongue instead of your fists, and panties will drop. Else you'll be left with many plates to spin in jail. There are many ways to pull out a punch and many ways to communicate it (body language, choices). The way you behaved and the choices you've made pissed her off, nothing wrong with this bitch. Women prefer a man with a sense of ethics, or at least honour. Don't get a gf at 16, just don't.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:50 PM
1

Not as a Bday present in my opinion. Would you want a fleshlight for your birthday ? If you want that in your sex life, then buy one for you and let her use it. But it's yours and if she left you, you'd use it on the next one.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:39 PM
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Can you describe more on how she reacted and how she respond to any of your assertive behaviour ?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:31 PM
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Too late : /
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:19 PM
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Having sex with more guys than what she told me about That means she care about her impression on you. If you're just a fuck she wouldn't bother even staying around. If she tries to look less slutty for you then at least you have some hamstering in your favor. Getting a woman's full honesty is called the friendzone. Being a s-word with no self-respect who messages guys seeking attention and maybe D They DO need attention, that's a natural need. Like a horse eats grass, and it's your job to fence…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:04 PM
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I just feel like a chump for LTRing a slut who hid well enough her things from me It's a thin line to walk on. I personally am not interested in the "little saint" kind of girl that TRP recommends LTR-ing. Slightly slutty girls are usually smarter, less boring, more creative and better in bed. If you stick deep in your brain that she is not the LTR of the rest of your life (it's just your turn) then you can enjoy a nice ride with a slutty girl. I do provide the attention and the D, she doesn't n…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:58 PM
1

What - sexting people is an issue to you ? She will get attention elsewhere if you haven't provided enough. Sounds like a little onetis there. The best remedy would be to game other girls and fuck some if you wish to. Then you can enjoy the remaining time and fuck her hard til she either leave for a better caring betabux (and many necklaces), or think you suddenly became the man she needs. When she does, get the necklace back : )
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:25 PM
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Why would you care ? Are you paid to be the nudes watch dog or something ?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:30 PM
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Don't do things in her back while she do things in your back, that sucks & hurts. She clearly does not have the tingles for you right now. As you said you should let it clear that while she is gone you are not exclusive, no need to explain her why or how. Then PLEASE yes get to fuck other women, put her in perspective. And when she comes back, see whether she is worth your time or not. You will have no pride at all if you don't have the balls to tell her whether you are exclusive to her or not. …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:14 PM
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On that we agree.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:58 PM
2

Then maybe that is part of your error here ? If you do it for the others, for the appearance of it then it's not worth doing. However if you don't eat meat because you don't want it in your stomach then you don't need to justify or advocate it. The beta trait behind a political vegan is his need for constant validation/debate about it.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:54 PM
0

ewwwk soy ? Gimme a good steak
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:50 PM
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This is all very interesting points to raise and it is being discussed since over a generation. But let's not hope to find a solution on a subreddit about helping people loose their virginity
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:49 PM
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^
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:19 PM
0

Barista will hit on you to have you buying coffee more often, don't touch them.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:14 PM
2

And don't burn the things you have of her. It's not because you have a new address that you need to burn all your old post mail. It will be nice memories when you'll be over it. You'll laugh at it and be happy you moved on
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:11 PM
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It lasts for a bit, but with some effort it will be over in a few months. Don't forget to hang out with people of your own (if you don't have any, start an activity like climbing or cycling and chat with these people), don't mention your ex to other girls you meet and don't look like a victim. Yet there's no shame dreaming about her or masturbating on her. She was a part of your life, you would be under the same effect if you suddenly changed of address or diet. Write what you feel on paper/keyb…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:07 PM
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You are now subscribed to hunting&fishing magazine. You will receive daily random fact about hunting. Sponsored by the NRA and Abu Garcia fish canes.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:32 AM
1

Driving is fine if you're chatty. You'll be in a dominant position where you hold the wheel, and if you're ok at driving you can do a bit of kino from times to times. On long drives I like to get her to change the gears for me, just because it's less boring. If you can set the tone when you eat out (don't just "have a nice time") then find any decent reason to go home that is no "so we can fuck", that's it you have your plan. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:08 AM
1

The truth to see behind the curtain is that most carnivore animal would eat you if you let them do so. What can be problematic to you is the condition in which animals are grown and brought to your plate. I have significantly more respect for someone who has already killed animals himself (It is a usual thing for rabbits in farms, else they will overpopulate and starve themselves) than for those who don't eat meat without knowing about what animal life is. On the other side of the scale, I have …
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:40 AM
1

Your jaw is more marked than 80% of the guys out there. You have unique eyes and that matters much more than having perfect eyes. You're white, and unfortunately that is still a great advantage. You could do with some beard, or at least a haircut that makes you look older. But don't worry time will take care of that. If you had a disgusting thing on your face I'd say okay, get it fixed and be done with it. But right now you just need confidence. The kind of beauty you're trying to get is not "Wh…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:32 AM
1

Nah movie sucks for that unless you have spent a few hours together beforehand to warm things up. I wouldn't go for 20 question personally, it's a platonic exchange that does not have many surprises, too easy to anticipate. You're looking to get her in a roller coaster of emotions, without talking too much about yourself. You can act interested by asking a few questions about her, maybe start to become interested by one answer and then give no shit about the next one ( " yes I liked that movie t…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:39 PM
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No she won't make moves, it's your job to. But if you do not care whether this date works out or not, you'll go past the stupid stress. Keeping a good eye contact is more important than kino. If you look like you're staring and panicking it doesn't have the right effect. If you look amused, like a painter staring at him model, then it becomes flattering. Once you get that settled, any reason is good to kino - I personally prefer provocative ones to romantic ones as they have much stronger effect…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:21 PM
1

Outcome independence : You don't belong to her and her being around is just a nice bonus. Start talking to other girls when you're out, no need to say you're in a LTR. Flirt and escalate, you can always say no if she tries to kiss you. It will take you out of onetis, but also help your brain see how your LTR is not as incredible as you might think she is. Finally your LTR will feel that your interest is elsewhere and she can start hunting for your attention again.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:24 PM
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You'll learn by finishing what you've started. It is painful but doesn't kill you, You'll surely do fine even if you're bored af. You'll also learn some things by branch swinging to a better internship, more experience on how to take an opportunity etc ... So do both : Keep you internship and intend to finish it while trying to find a better place. the day you have a better opportunity you can actually choose responsibly. It might sound like double effort, but you'll go nowhere by doing the mini…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:10 PM
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Seems acted and fake from her. And she can get any guy friend to sign for it if she asks. https://www.reddit.com/r/japan/comments/udey7/japans_views_on_abortion_and_underage_pregnancy/
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:33 PM
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Is it fun to hunt if all them birds just stand and wait for you with a red and white target on their head ? I've never hunted yet I know that would be boring as fuck.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:31 AM
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You turn this into a game/challenge instead of a brutal cut-off. She will get more emotions out of it and be more interested. "Hold this for me" "I like my hands empty. But there a nice pigeon sat right there who can hold it for you."
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:02 AM
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You putting too much value into it. Tell yourself that this date will be the worst you ever had, but you'll learn from it. That girl or another one ... what is the difference ? You're there because you want to be there, she is there to ride along the fun train. You feel like putting your hand on her waist when passing behind her ? Do it. You would rather not ? Don't do it. At the end of the day you'll have something to think about and improve on.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:58 AM
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My boss always does that, very casually and no one called him out on it. There's a bad way and a good way to ignore a convo - If it is done in a condescending or overly dominating way you will get called out on your game. However if you simply take a break in the conversation and think clearly in your head "This is not relevant to me" - then start talking about something else (or just leave a blank) then no one will feel like protesting. It is actually nice to talk with persons who focus on what…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:51 AM
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You've got what you want out of it, then move forward and don't look back
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:30 AM
2

Lay other girls.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:47 PM
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It isn't, but you saved yourself some nightmares for your first time. The only effect it has is that she'll be embarrassed about it. http://www.lasersharkdesign.com/shop/image/cache/data/zorv/handsmear-l-800x1000.jpg
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:46 PM
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It did happen to me a long time ago. Sometime she just want to taste a different fruit, once she is used to yours. In a certain way it's your fault for not being entertaining enough - allowing her think about something else. But there no point feeling shit about it, it was just your turn. No magic recipe for that.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:03 PM
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What they mean is "You can be the most delicious apple, sometimes we just want a pineapple." . It is true, there is no miracle recipe. But it is your fault for letting that happen, and it is now your fault for not turning the page quickly.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:49 PM
1

Match more girls, unmatch that one.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:23 PM
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This. Maybe add a fresh orange juice, or a lemon juice in hot water - best thing your stomach can get after waking up.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:12 AM
1

The Ex is all available to her, as the stinky submissive love letter told her. Unless he was an awesome shag, she won't find such a declaration deeply attractive at 17yo . Be the one she has to chase (as opposed to the one who has "invested so much in her" as you have described). No need to be a prick, just don't let her take you for granted. Also don't be affected by this Ex story - as if he had a chance to steal yo girl. " Well he is all there ripe and ready for you, go get him ! " " I wish I …
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:54 PM
1

Smile ? You look like you're about to get a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:22 PM
2

All guns might be loaded. Any professional would tell you to never point it to anything valuable to you. The point is not whether you feel like she has or hasn't done something hurtful. The point is that s she could have, might have, and that you should act accordingly rather than hide yourself behind a shield of illusion and guesses. We're not discussing the details or investigating here, we're saying that if there was a window of opportunity to cheat or leave you for another man, then you shou…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:00 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:35 PM
1

You're totally in her frame. That's is a lost cause. Next time you get in a LTR, you can avoid the "Text me if you need anything", "I'll think about it", and the general useless texting. Instead tell her to find a friend to get attention from.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:57 PM
1

Take 4 weeks holiday. Go to a random country that doesn't speak your language, get to know and understand their words and culture. Start from the point of view that their way of life is more interesting than yours, spend more time listening to locals than speaking about you. Once you come back you'll see everything differently, that feeling is amazing
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:36 PM
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Yeah refusing to go to her parents can be a big issue to her. I did that to my ex 2 months before we broke up, and she later said that was the first thing that pissed her off (Okay, I might have mentioned that the region her parents live in is boring etc ... so not exactly the same situation). Idk your exact situation but she might feel better to bring her boyfriend to the family rather than standing there alone. That can make her refuse sex. If you are actually trp and not having a onetis, then…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:00 PM
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