I am married (closing in on 8 years). Things have been strained off and on for 2 years. They're good now but could be better. I've found myself chatting with this other woman I know and I feel an attraction. She knows I'm married so she doesn't expect me to make a move or anything. However, I've somewhat begun to consider her an alternative should my marriage fail. Is this wrong? I'm not actively seeking a relationship outside my marriage and I hope my marriage does work out but it takes 2 to tango. I can't be the only one to fix it. So if my marriage busts I've thought about getting to know this other woman better. Thoughts?