I’ve gotten into BDSM recently. I have learned to be sexually submissive to a female in the bedroom. And it seems to have taught me a lot, a whole lot, and seems to me anyways, to explain a lot of TRP concepts.

Here’s an example of one: Hypergamy.

Ok, so being sexually submissive is a deep dark hole. If you’re into BDSM you know that people do anything from light spanking...all the way to snuff films where the submissive is literally murdered on film. And everything in between.

Ok. So, this is now my opinion here but I think it’s true. ALL women are sexually submissive. Whether she knows it now or not doesn’t matter. It can be awakened in her. It can be awakened in you, as a man. It happened to me. I was never like this and suddenly I had an experience and suddenly I felt that submissive pleasure.

So I felt that submissive pleasure and it was the absolute best sexual pleasure I’ve ever had. It’s incredible. Can’t describe it to you lol. Sorry.

Evidence that females are always submissive sexually (yes even the “dominant ones” who get off on domination. They all also have “dom daddies” to satisfy their submissive nature while they dominate submissive men for $ on the internet):

I’ve read a lot of stories from females about awakening their submissiveness at young ages. A high school coach commands a girl to do a lap in gym class and it makes her horny instantly and she freaks out thinking everyone can “see her shame.” Stuff like this.

What does this have to do with hypergamy?

This stuff is a deep hole. The level to which you get turned on and are sexually satisfied as a submissive person, is the degree to which you have been dominated comfortably and safely. This is why females like alpha males. They dominate better than us beta bux.

For me, I don’t want my dominant girl to ask me what I want. I cannot get turned on by that. She must know how already. She must do it herself. Being submissive is very logically oriented. I need a clear logical reason to feel overpowered by her. This is difficult as a man since I am more powerful. Won’t get into it. For her it’s easy, men are more powerful.

As you dive down the hole of submission, the deeper you get, the less that previously kinky turns on, turns you on. The deeper you go, you pretty much stay there. And lesser kinky stuff stops being so exhilarating.

And this to me explains hypergamy. As a woman experiences more and more confident men, men more able to dominate her (cool calm confident powerful socially powerful financially everything) the deeper she falls into that “alpha widow” category. Once she is alpha widowed, non alpha men will never turn her on sexually ever again. (I’m sure she must make compromises though and “settle” when she hits the wall.)

Shit tests? To see if you can actually dominate her. If you can’t do it, she can’t be attracted to you. Because her sexuality is based on dominance. Not looks, not money, though those things can potentially add to it, they aren’t as important as the ability to be dominating.

All I can say now is, that awakening my “submissive side” has taught me a lot about women and suddenly I’m having more success. I simply understand what it’s like to be dominated, and I can take that and use it to flirt with women. They LOVE it. Omg do they love it. And TRP teaches you how to do this. With all thes examples and logic and experience. And I read all this stuff before. But now it’s like everything has been tied to emotion. I FEEL it now. I literally feel what females feel and I understand what they want and need and it’s helping me to do better with them. My confidence has skyrocketed. I was reading and reading and reading and getting a little better bit by bit. I discovered submissive sexual understanding and it’s been a huge leap for me.

I just needed to get this out there, my experience, and see what people think. So what do you think?